HMMMM ... Will have to think about Jess. Thinking it should probably be her cat since the brat tries to shove me out of bed every night and Poppa may be taking her spot.
I thought Kathie could be the "best man" and Jess the maid of honor. Course, they're both really girly girls so Kath would probably be a bad idea as the best man but she is dad's best friend.
Not sure you should take too long to plan this whole thing out. I'm awfully gunshy and have run away twice (but both times was shortly after the engagement, not close to the wedding). I may chicken out even for a faux wedding.