Friendliest Home Town, You Bet

[beady]

We are now in residence in Piedmont after months of planning etc. I have packed ,unpacked , repacked and thrown away. Been to consignment and scored some great deals and am happily exhausted and living in TV. 040 040

All that I expected to happen. What I didn't expect was the warm and friendly welcome from all my neighbors. They have offered help, tools, advise etc. We were invited to Thanksgiving dinner by 3 seperate couples and have been included in the Christmas neighborhood party. I know TV has the reputation for a most friendly atmosphere, I just did not expect this level of friendly. TV truly is Florida's friendliest home town.
Great to be here and thanks to TOTV for all its pre-move in advise.

Beady

[Taltarzac]

We are now in residence in Piedmont after months of planning etc. I have packed ,unpacked , repacked and thrown away. Been to consignment and scored some great deals and am happily exhausted and living in TV. 040 040

All that I expected to happen. What I didn't expect was the warm and friendly welcome from all my neighbors. They have offered help, tools, advise etc. We were invited to Thanksgiving dinner by 3 seperate couples and have been included in the Christmas neighborhood party. I know TV has the reputation for a most friendly atmosphere, I just did not expect this level of friendly. TV truly is Florida's friendliest home town.
Great to be here and thanks to TOTV for all its pre-move in advise.

Beady


:welcome:

My neighbors too are really friendly. Sometimes too friendly. :joke:

[Peggy D]

Congrats, Beady

I'm so jealous.

I wanna be a Village Frog too (whine)

[Donna]

Thats great, Beady.. :bigthumbsup:

I wanna be there too... :'(

Best of luck... :beer2:

[gigi22]

As someone who is moving to TV in a couple months, it was great to read your positive message! I, also, found it interesting, because some of the realtors that we talked to at open houses said that the newer villages were friendlier, because they weren't as established as the older ones. I guess your experience proves them wrong. We're moving into a new home, but only because we liked the view, the price was right, etc. I wish you all the best as you continue to enjoy your experience at TV! :)

[stjade]

:)glad to hear that piedmont is such a friendly place -we are closing on our house in feb. and can't wait to be full time in TV in sept.--steve4 & jane

[nhsnowbird]

Beady, congratulations ... enjoy every minute!

Pat :)

[golfnut]

I've never heard of any village be it north south east or west being less friendly than other villages.

[The Great Fumar]

Beady
Congratulations.........Catch your breath because your going to be so busy you'll think your still working ,
My wife even has me taking dancing lessons and one of my feet is on backwards...but not to worry , it works great for a rumba..... ;D ;D
GOOD LUCK..Your going to love it..... ;D ;D ;D ;D
Fumar

[ouma1938]

Congratulations Beady. I am so happy for you and can't wait for the day I can say I am a Villager too. On our recent preview trip we also felt the friendly atmosphere and just loved it. I don't think there is a better group of people anywhere and one day we will be two of them I hope.

[golfnut]

ouma, that is one impressive list of previous locations in your signature!! You are very lucky!

[SteveFromNY]

I hate to even write this post, but I witnessed something the other night (Friday after Thanksgiving) at LSL.
My wife and I were watching the band, when a "younger" man (late 50's?) sitting in front of us asked an "older" man (probably mid-70's?) to move, as he was blocking the younger man's view of the dancers and band. The older guy slid over a bit, but apparently not enough to please the younger guy. he (younger) proceeded to get up, stand next to the older guy, and physically shove him out of the way. I was appalled! The older guy left, the younger guy sat down again, and some relatives of the older guy said something to the younger guy, and it ended there.
I really couldn't believe my eyes.
This ran so far counter to the normal behavior ("come to dineer", "Can I help you", etc, etc). It was distressing to me!
I know it was an isolated case and I am not trying to make a big deal out of it, but it really let me know there are some (well, at least one) real idiots in TV too.

[cabo35]

Congrats Beady...we visited friends here 5 years ago, rented after that and owned for the last two. Be prepared, it just keeps getting better.

[Taltarzac]

I hate to even write this post, but I witnessed something the other night (Friday after Thanksgiving) at LSL.
My wife and I were watching the band, when a "younger" man (late 50's?) sitting in front of us asked an "older" man (probably mid-70's?) to move, as he was blocking the younger man's view of the dancers and band. The older guy slid over a bit, but apparently not enough to please the younger guy. he (younger) proceeded to get up, stand next to the older guy, and physically shove him out of the way. I was appalled! The older guy left, the younger guy sat down again, and some relatives of the older guy said something to the younger guy, and it ended there.
I really couldn't believe my eyes.
This ran so far counter to the normal behavior ("come to dineer", "Can I help you", etc, etc). It was distressing to me!
I know it was an isolated case and I am not trying to make a big deal out of it, but it really let me know there are some (well, at least one) real idiots in TV too.


Maybe the younger guy was ****ed off because he does not live in TV? :joke:

[jbladybnugg]

To Steve from NY
I have only been passively reading new posts to get a flavor of TV. After reading about this incident I feel a strong need to respond. I am happy to hear that relatives of the "older man" spoke up but I would hope that other residents from the "friendliest town" would also speak up to rude behavior. Unfortunately this behavior exists in any community and will also exist in TV but there is never any excuse for being a bully whether he lives in TV or not.

[chuckster]

There are a lot of non-villagers at the squares to take in the same entertainment we do. Every so often a jerk or two shows up just like in the real world. And as in the real world, ignore them. They will self destruct on their own....... ;D ;D

[jbladybnugg]

Bullies never self destruct. They make life miserable for others around them. Ignoring them does not work it just empowers them. Stand up and say something.

[redwitch]

I'm with jb .. I would have opened my mouth.

Sadly, I seem to be in a not-so-friendly neighborhood. People wave and say hi but that's it. There's no come over, what are your interests, etc. I am in an older section (not historical but close to 441/27).

Fortunately, have had fun with strangers in the squares and at KB's. It's hard to not have fun here unless you work at it.

[Russ_Boston]

As a current outsider it seems that the best way to find your group of friends at TV would be to join one of the hundreds of interest groups instead of hoping that the neighbors were friendly. It just seems that it is easier to associate and be friendly with those that have a like interest. For me that would be sports (golf, pickleball, basketball, cycling etc.). My wife has some of those interest but also does many craft type things (painting, quilts etc.) as well.

I guess it would be great to be near other full-time residents who became your best friends but i would imagine that is hit or miss.

Do many people on this board belong to some of the organized groups or partake of the offerings at the learning college?

[Taltarzac]

As a current outsider it seems that the best way to find your group of friends at TV would be to join one of the hundreds of interest groups instead of hoping that the neighbors were friendly. It just seems that it is easier to associate and be friendly with those that have a like interest. For me that would be sports (golf, pickleball, basketball, cycling etc.). My wife has some of those interest but also does many craft type things (painting, quilts etc.) as well.

I guess it would be great to be near other full-time residents who became your best friends but i would imagine that is hit or miss.

Do many people on this board belong to some of the organized groups or partake of the offerings at the learning college?


I am a member of the Villages Computer Club and a Member of the Friends of the Villages Public Library. Go to both groups meetings on occasion. The Doggie Doo Run Run is a great place to meet dog lovers and for the most part nice people.

We lucked out as the neighbors are good ones here in TV. That cannot be said of other places where we have lived where its a crap shoot.

You do come across pests though even in TV and on TOTV.

[SteveFromNY]

To Steve from NY
I have only been passively reading new posts to get a flavor of TV. After reading about this incident I feel a strong need to respond. I am happy to hear that relatives of the "older man" spoke up but I would hope that other residents from the "friendliest town" would also speak up to rude behavior. Unfortunately this behavior exists in any community and will also exist in TV but there is never any excuse for being a bully whether he lives in TV or not.


So I gave due consideration to speaking up, and for a number of reasons, didn't.

First, it was clear the incident was over. The "bully" had won, and the "victim's" family had talked to him. Nothing I did would change any of that.

I didn't feel taunting him with words would be enough, and only could see myself standing in front of him, blocking his view, daring him to push me away. Unfortunately, I saw that ending badly as I got a first hand view of the Sumter Co sherriff's office! I am a little larger, and a little younger than this idiot, and I felt too that this would have turned me into the bully. Granted, he might have just moved, but I had to be ready for the alternative.

So I just stewed for awhile and called the guy all kinds of names under my breath.

Nothing else I could have done would have changed anything.

It was just such a shame to see some one acting like this in such an otherwise friendly environment.

[Taltarzac]

So I gave due consideration to speaking up, and for a number of reasons, didn't.

First, it was clear the incident was over. The "bully" had won, and the "victim's" family had talked to him. Nothing I did would change any of that.

I didn't feel taunting him with words would be enough, and only could see myself standing in front of him, blocking his view, daring him to push me away. Unfortunately, I saw that ending badly as I got a first hand view of the Sumter Co sherriff's office! I am a little larger, and a little younger than this idiot, and I felt too that this would have turned me into the bully. Granted, he might have just moved, but I had to be ready for the alternative.

So I just stewed for awhile and called the guy all kinds of names under my breath.

Nothing else I could have done would have changed anything.

It was just such a shame to see some one acting like this in such an otherwise friendly environment.




Maybe the family will wear some really big hats for the next time someone insists on being a jerk at one of the town squares. :joke:

[golfnut]

I tend to agree with Steve, these types of people generally thrive on attention and the more you give them the more they act up. If someone behind me asks me to move I ignore them, period.

[Taltarzac]

I tend to agree with Steve, these types of people generally thrive on attention and the more you give them the more they act up. If someone behind me asks me to move I ignore them, period.


Same goes with people who get a buzz out of hurling insults over the net. You are supposed to just ignore them.

Would not mind seeing a bunch of red hat ladies with their biggest hats on sitting in front of a guy like the man Steve describes. :joke:

[Peggy D]

I hate to even write this post, but I witnessed something the other night (Friday after Thanksgiving) at LSL.
My wife and I were watching the band, when a "younger" man (late 50's?) sitting in front of us asked an "older" man (probably mid-70's?) to move, as he was blocking the younger man's view of the dancers and band. The older guy slid over a bit, but apparently not enough to please the younger guy. he (younger) proceeded to get up, stand next to the older guy, and physically shove him out of the way. I was appalled! The older guy left, the younger guy sat down again, and some relatives of the older guy said something to the younger guy, and it ended there.
I really couldn't believe my eyes.
This ran so far counter to the normal behavior ("come to dineer", "Can I help you", etc, etc). It was distressing to me!
I know it was an isolated case and I am not trying to make a big deal out of it, but it really let me know there are some (well, at least one) real idiots in TV too.



I have to tell you, this story has really disturbed me. Is this what is coming to TV? One of my reasons for wanting to move to TV is to get away form this "bully" type that lives among us.

First off, this was an ASSULT. Such actions should not be ignored. As you all have pointed out, talking to this 50-something brat was a waste of time. What he needed was to have a cop slap a pair of cuffs on him and arrest him. Then you'd see a change of attitude. To do nothing is to give him permission to contine such behavior. I don't mean for anyone to "take him on" yourself, but the authorities should have been notified immediately.

The older gentleman could have been hurt. Then what? Only then will someone be called to deal with the situation. How sad. Maybe the police should start patrolling the squares to deal with the thugs who can't control themselves and feel they can bully the elderly.

Sounds to me: 1) The 50-something brat is not a Villager, and 2) He was drunk.
All the more reason to have this type removed. THIS TYPE OF BEHAVIOR SHOULD NOT BE TOLERATED ANYWHERE!!!

[jadebox]

I have seen the police talk to people about their behavior more then once on the square.They just need to be told. There is going to be one of those kind every once in awhile but not often. Most people here are really nice.