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Beth P
04-01-2014, 08:42 PM
My DH and I recently toured several homes in the Villages. We loved the lifestyle but nothing about the home styles excited me at all. I'm a Craftsman style kind of girl wondering how to make a Florida style home feel more like MY home. Anyone out there struggle with the same concern? Give me some REAL hardwood floors throughout, moldings and built-ins...sigh. Help?

gerryann
04-01-2014, 08:49 PM
I'm sure that if I'm wrong, someone will correct me.......

I believe that if you buy a "tear down" in the historic section, you can hire your own builder and designer. It would of course, have to conform to certain restrictions of the developer....but I think you can build what you want. I know others have done this.....might be worth looking into. I think the historic older section of the villages is the most beautiful area and has so much character.

2BNTV
04-02-2014, 12:27 AM
The days of design meetings for new homes where you can pick and choose what you want, is over.

All homes will not be perfect and therefore, need to be updated, to your likes and taste.

You won't be doing as much living in your home as you think you will. You will be on the go, all day long.

Your buying the lifestyle. Some people have opted for, bigger homes in the surrounding areas of TV, but seem to lament, thay don't have much access to TV, as they would like.

Bonanza
04-02-2014, 02:26 AM
My DH and I recently toured several homes in the Villages. We loved the lifestyle but nothing about the home styles excited me at all. I'm a Craftsman style kind of girl wondering how to make a Florida style home feel more like MY home. Anyone out there struggle with the same concern? Give me some REAL hardwood floors throughout, moldings and built-ins...sigh. Help?

Beth -- you can make it work. Once you've decided that you really want to live here and can find a floor plan you can live with, the hard part is over.

A lot of it has to do with what you can afford house-wise and what your renovating/decorating budget is. You can afford to have your Craftsman or Mission look, even if you have to do it piece-meal.

If you can afford to change the flooring, do that first. Then paint a warm shade to achieve that "old world" charm. Change the light fixtures, one at a time, if that is what you have to do. If there are any fans, take the blades off and paint them if they are white.

I assume you would be bringing your own furniture and decorative items that already have the feeling and look you want. Once you place your own things in a house, you are on your way.

Are you handy? Can you sew or have some window treatments made? The key would be in the fabric you choose, whether it's for a complete window treatment or as an addition to blinds in a warm wood tone which are not that expensive.

Like I said -- you can make it work. If I can help you, send me a PM (private message). I can think of more suggestions, given a little more thinking time. Whatever you decide to do -- good luck!

Topspinmo
04-02-2014, 05:06 AM
IF your I like me I like half million plus homes. :loco: Gee, I seen some out of this world premiere homes. If those don't please you, then either you like me can't afford them or Dreaming trying to get new Mercedes at Kia price:Screen_of_Death:.

Most say, not at home that much. Only to sleep and take breaks form all the activities. That is the magic of the Villages IMO, buy what you can afford, but you enjoy the life style no matter which side of the tracks you live on. Del Webb and Top of the World right up the road it you want more house and less activity.:wave:

jojo
04-02-2014, 05:15 AM
Beth, I am amazed by how much renovation/remodeling/updating people do here. We have new neighbors who moved into a resale about 3 months ago and there are no less than two contractors a day working inside and outside since they moved in. The good news is that costs for this work is quite a bit less than we were accustomed to paying up north. Good luck with your decision.

graciegirl
04-02-2014, 05:43 AM
The Premier model, Seabrook is a craftsman style bungalow with a front porch.. Several of those built have crown moldings and hardwood. They cost more than Designers but I think that style is very pretty. There are many craftsman looking homes in the village of Mission Hills and another village of bungalow style courtyard villas near Lake Sumter Landing. If you like craftsman style interior design, that can be accomplished with Stickley-looking furniture and d�cor.


I think that you are looking for more of a custom builder which has not really ever happened here.


I love design, and we have built several homes in the past, but I am very happy with our choice here. I hope you find something beautiful to you, wherever it is.

DandyGirl
04-02-2014, 06:01 AM
IF your I like me I like half million plus homes. :loco: Gee, I seen some out of this world premiere homes. If those don't please you, then either you like me can't afford them or Dreaming trying to get new Mercedes at Kia price:Screen_of_Death:.

Most say, not at home that much. Only to sleep and take breaks form all the activities. That is the magic of the Villages IMO, buy what you can afford, but you enjoy the life style no matter which side of the tracks you live on. Del Webb and Top of the World right up the road it you want more house and less activity.:wave:

Totally agree! I'm hardly ever home because I am out there enjoying the lifestyle. :wave:

OBXNana
04-02-2014, 06:11 AM
Everything you mentioned is cosmetic. You can add moulding, stack moulding, add built ins... and the list goes on. If you love the life style, you can add your personal taste and touches. I'm lucky and have a very handy husband that loves to tinker with these things, but I'm certain there must be someone that offers these services, if not in The Villages, close by geographically. If the outside architecture is not to your liking, there may be more of an issue making drastic changes. Then it's a matter of weighing your options of having the perfect house or the perfect life style.

I would check out as many different over 55 communities you can. Many that we toured had the cookie cutter houses and not the life style. Those that had houses more to our liking, were far more expensive than The Villages, and didn't have the amenities. This is our personal experience and others may have more insight to options available.

vorage
04-02-2014, 06:11 AM
Beth, I am amazed by how much renovation/remodeling/updating people do here. We have new neighbors who moved into a resale about 3 months ago and there are no less than two contractors a day working inside and outside since they moved in. The good news is that costs for this work is quite a bit less than we were accustomed to paying up north. Good luck with your decision.

This is very true and as jojo says, very common. Beth, there can be practical reasons for some of the finishing materials though. For instance, wood flooring may not stand up well to the alternate humidity and air conditioning that we put it through. There is an exceptional amount of blowing sand here that may create a situation where you are constantly cleaning those floors instead of being out golfing.
Design is a different issue, though. You can't change the fact that this is a "new" community and there aren't historic homes here. I understand how you feel and have a friend who flat out rejects TV as a result. There are older sections with more mature trees that you might find more attractive than new construction.
That said, you may consider embracing new possibilities and think about ways to complement and integrate that Craftsman style without losing the Florida feel.
Florida Architecture magazine is a great resource and a good way to look at the higher end materials and designs that people are using here. You can probably get back issues at the library. Tour some of the older homes in Ocala and other nearby areas. Get up to St Augustine and tour Flagler college, etc. Most likely you will find some attributes that you can bring into your new home without sacrificing the look you love.

Beth P
04-02-2014, 06:26 AM
Thanks everyone. I really do appreciate the encouragement. We have just started our search and have quickly realized that we will have to weigh all factors...lifestyle, house, distance from family, etc. Renovation seems to be realistic and it's always good to know others have shared the same concerns. If we decide to live there, I will need a good decorator to get me started. I know what I like when I see it but am not the one who can plan it all out and pull it all together.

OBXNana
04-02-2014, 06:41 AM
It's a major decision and something that can't be done without a lot of thought. We embraced what we called figuring out what to do the last third of our life. We're optimists! Only you can decide what you want and need. We found this forum to be a great source of knowledge and encourage to post questions you may have about The Villages.

Have fun looking, exploring, and know when the time/place are right, all your doubts will vanish. If there are doubts, keep looking.

SantaClaus
04-02-2014, 07:06 AM
Just my 2�, I don't think northern comfort cues work well with the Fl lifestyle. Eastlake walnut dressers, Hooker entertainment centers, mahogany dining rooms, dark stained moldings are things that make a house feel warm and cozy when it's cold and dark outside. At TV (and FL in general) light and airy feel comfortable, and contemporary styling seems to convey that best. As was advised to me recently, it is probably best to sell everything that isn't precious to you and arrive with a small moving truck and a big wallet, rather than the other way around, and make TV a fresh start.

Abby10
04-02-2014, 07:18 AM
My DH and I recently toured several homes in the Villages. We loved the lifestyle but nothing about the home styles excited me at all. I'm a Craftsman style kind of girl wondering how to make a Florida style home feel more like MY home. Anyone out there struggle with the same concern? Give me some REAL hardwood floors throughout, moldings and built-ins...sigh. Help?

Beth, thanks for posting and welcome! I don't think your concern is unusual. Many of us have large, lovely, and quite different home styles where we come from and because we either want to downsize or need to, we have had to make sacrifices. What I would suggest is that if you love the lifestyle, keep visiting. First of all, the more you look (check out resales too), the more of a chance you will find something that fits your desires. But more importantly, the more you come, the more you may find that you don't want to leave. That's what happened to us. What was drawing us was the lifestyle and the people. At first, we were comparing the homes to what we already have. Now, the home is not as important and we ended up sacrificing a lot (house-wise)to be able to move down sooner than originally planned. Good luck with your search, take your time, and enjoy every minute of it!

buggyone
04-02-2014, 07:31 AM
I would suggest concentrating on looking at resale homes. These often have custom features that are not found in the new spec houses.

Naturally, if you cannot find what you want, the next step is to custom build your home. This cannot be done in The Villages but you have to make a choice to make you happy.

JourneyOfLife
04-02-2014, 07:38 AM
D�j� vu all over again!

kwtoman
04-02-2014, 07:54 AM
I would suggest concentrating on looking at resale homes. These often have custom features that are not found in the new spec houses.

Naturally, if you cannot find what you want, the next step is to custom build your home. This cannot be done in The Villages but you have to make a choice to make you happy.

One option to custom build is to buy a manufactured in the historic section and remove and rebuild anew.

Abby10
04-02-2014, 08:01 AM
Oh, and Beth, one more thing, keep looking and posting on here. There is a wealth of information and ideas on this forum. Already you can see some of the great suggestions being made by other posters........and it's only just begun! :)

graciegirl
04-02-2014, 08:29 AM
Beth. There are many traditional style homes in the Village of Harmeswood. Off Buena Vista, north of the Savannah Center, same side. But they too are Premier. I agree that changing or modifying our interior design styles to fit the bright outdoors is a good idea, but traditional styling fits well into that too.


I love to talk home design. I have a LOT of really great magazines for inspiration, I would be glad to give them to you.

Madelaine Amee
04-02-2014, 08:36 AM
Just my 2�, I don't think northern comfort cues work well with the Fl lifestyle. Eastlake walnut dressers, Hooker entertainment centers, mahogany dining rooms, dark stained moldings are things that make a house feel warm and cozy when it's cold and dark outside. At TV (and FL in general) light and airy feel comfortable, and contemporary styling seems to convey that best. As was advised to me recently, it is probably best to sell everything that isn't precious to you and arrive with a small moving truck and a big wallet, rather than the other way around, and make TV a fresh start.

I like and agree with your 2cents!

perrjojo
04-02-2014, 08:38 AM
We live in one of the newer villa neighborhoods. There certainly isn't any diversity of style on the exterior but you would not believe all of the unique designs on the interior. Even though our homes are new it seems someone in the neighborhood is always ripping out and redoing. It's crazy! We have a joke in our neighborhood. We didn't buy a home, we bought a STARTER KIT.

buggyone
04-02-2014, 08:41 AM
I agree with Gracie about Harmswood. It is a beautiful section of The Villages and almost a separate enclave. It is all Premier homes with large lots. Lots of custom work has been done to these homes. Downside is that there is not a lot of turnover so it will be tougher to find just your perfect home in there. They are also the very pricey homes - around 1 million or so.

graciegirl
04-02-2014, 08:42 AM
We live in one of the newer villa neighborhoods. There certainly isn't any diversity of style on the exterior but you would not believe all of the unique designs on the interior. Even though our homes are new it seems someone in the neighborhood is always ripping out and redoing. It's crazy! We have a joke in our neighborhood. We didn't buy a home, we bought a STARTER KIT.


Ain't that just the truth. We had a Camellia/ Gardenia before and people would come in and say...what model is this? Everyone interprets the very similar open to the kitchen style in MOST of the homes so differently. I love seeing peoples homes. Each is beautiful and different. AND welcoming. And so individual.

slipcovers
04-02-2014, 09:44 AM
I have not even purchased my villa and I am already designing it to my own taste. I plan to do it Nantucket inspired, interior of course.

duffysmom
04-02-2014, 09:58 AM
Just my 2�, I don't think northern comfort cues work well with the Fl lifestyle. Eastlake walnut dressers, Hooker entertainment centers, mahogany dining rooms, dark stained moldings are things that make a house feel warm and cozy when it's cold and dark outside. At TV (and FL in general) light and airy feel comfortable, and contemporary styling seems to convey that best. As was advised to me recently, it is probably best to sell everything that isn't precious to you and arrive with a small moving truck and a big wallet, rather than the other way around, and make TV a fresh start.

So true, Florida is all about the LIGHT.:wave:

billethkid
04-02-2014, 10:09 AM
you do have the option to go as minimal as possible with some things to meet inspection code.
For example on the flooring you can have them install the cheapest linoleum the have available knowing it is going to be torn out.

You can plan around what you don't like, depending on the model you choose. However if TV is no longer pre selling lots and build to suit homes you of course will not have that option.

Anyway in any event...anything you don't like can be done to your satisfaction with after the closing contractors.

EnglishJW
04-02-2014, 10:25 AM
Just my 2�, I don't think northern comfort cues work well with the Fl lifestyle. Eastlake walnut dressers, Hooker entertainment centers, mahogany dining rooms, dark stained moldings are things that make a house feel warm and cozy when it's cold and dark outside. At TV (and FL in general) light and airy feel comfortable, and contemporary styling seems to convey that best. As was advised to me recently, it is probably best to sell everything that isn't precious to you and arrive with a small moving truck and a big wallet, rather than the other way around, and make TV a fresh start.

I love your advice and we'll keep it in mind.

keithwand
04-02-2014, 11:34 AM
We had a Craftsman home in Winter Park built in 2004.
Loved the house but not a lot of lifestyle.
Now love the lifestyle and our Sanibel model house here.
All good.

Madelaine Amee
04-02-2014, 11:44 AM
I love your advice and we'll keep it in mind.

It's also really easy to mix your decorating styles here, we brought with us some antique side tables, and a couple of other pieces and purchased our living room and sun room furniture from Whites. Whites is more conservative in their styles. We went from mahogany dining room furniture to a glass topped table with rattan chairs. Works well, looks very Havana(ish), while still keeping our northern charm.

By the way, the mahogany dining room set looks wonderful in my daughter-in-law's home and I get to visit with it when I go back!:laugh:

billethkid
04-02-2014, 01:17 PM
I would guess you would get more for your money with a resale.
Most have only two seniors in them and are like new.
And most have had something done or added to their homes one will not get with new.....including landscaping. The landscaping provided with the home leaves very much to be desired.

Good luck.

gomoho
04-02-2014, 03:50 PM
It's also really easy to mix your decorating styles here, we brought with us some antique side tables, and a couple of other pieces and purchased our living room and sun room furniture from Whites. Whites is more conservative in their styles. We went from mahogany dining room furniture to a glass topped table with rattan chairs. Works well, looks very Havana(ish), while still keeping our northern charm.

By the way, the mahogany dining room set looks wonderful in my daughter-in-law's home and I get to visit with it when I go back!:laugh:

Madelaine - we also brought some antiques with us and have had so many compliments on how they work with my Florida purchases. I am not a theme decorator so the eclectic works for me just fine - and having moved more times than I can remember I've gotten pretty good at it!

So if you have precious pieces keep them and there is a good chance you can work them in with your decorating in The Villages.

Bonanza
04-02-2014, 05:07 PM
Just my 2�, I don't think northern comfort cues work well with the Fl lifestyle. Eastlake walnut dressers, Hooker entertainment centers, mahogany dining rooms, dark stained moldings are things that make a house feel warm and cozy when it's cold and dark outside. At TV (and FL in general) light and airy feel comfortable, and contemporary styling seems to convey that best. As was advised to me recently, it is probably best to sell everything that isn't precious to you and arrive with a small moving truck and a big wallet, rather than the other way around, and make TV a fresh start.

Dear Santa: Respectfully, I feel the need to disagree with you.

I moved to southeast Florida in 1983.
We happened to have brought most of our furniture with us.
I got my real estate license in 1984 and and got my certification in
home staging to better serve my customers.
Between then and now, I have been in and out of well over 100s of houses.

Over the years what I have found is that when people move here,
they think they want the light, white, airy, etc. furniture and chatchkas with that look
(shells, pelicans -- you know what I mean), in addition to palm trees, of course! :laugh:

After one of two summers they still like the palm trees,
even though they don't know how to care for them, :ohdear:
but they want shade from trees!
That bare white look gets boring and wood and interesting fabrics have taken their place.
Over the years I'm sure you have seen the change from mica furniture (OMG!)
to warm woody tones, overstuffed, comfortable sofas and chairs, and even fireplaces.
It works up north and works very well here in Florida.

Mixing period furniture with traditional or contemporary pieces for an eclectic look,
or going with a "set" of something is personal choice, and can and does look right in Florida.
Truthfully, it's the older and 'newly moved to Florida' folks,
that think they want that plain, monocromatic, pale look.

I would never advise anyone to "sell everything."
I would say that new residents should bring what they like
and perhaps mix with some new things for a warm, different
and inviting look that no one else has and is all your own.

graciegirl
04-02-2014, 05:27 PM
http://img4-1.southernliving.timeinc.net/i/2014/01/Fresh_Start_Decorating_Resolutions/whittaker-foyer-green-wallcovering-l.jpg?400:400

SantaClaus
04-02-2014, 05:33 PM
Like I said, my 2�.

mickey100
04-02-2014, 05:34 PM
Beth, other posters are correct when they talk about remodeling. Almost everyone I know has made changes - many upgrade their landscaping, add hardwood floors, granite & stainless, crown molding, add birdcages, enclose or expand the lanai, etc. Try to think of the homes as kind of a starting point, and envision what some upgrades can add to the home. The lots are tiny unless you choose to pay a huge premium for a golf course or water view. Its a compromise we've made to enjoy the activities here. Good luck with your decision.

Bonanza
04-02-2014, 10:09 PM
http://img4-1.southernliving.timeinc.net/i/2014/01/Fresh_Start_Decorating_Resolutions/whittaker-foyer-green-wallcovering-l.jpg?400:400

Bingo, Gracie.
You hit the nail on the head!

A perfect example of an eclectic look that is pleasing to the eye.
Beautiful.

Madelaine Amee
04-03-2014, 05:25 AM
http://img4-1.southernliving.timeinc.net/i/2014/01/Fresh_Start_Decorating_Resolutions/whittaker-foyer-green-wallcovering-l.jpg?400:400

No Gracie!

graciegirl
04-03-2014, 06:09 AM
No Gracie!


Non? This isn't mine. Thought I was offering an example. I think it is pretty.
Everyone likes different stuff.


I wish we had a home forum where we could talk about this stuff. I love to read and see home d�cor.

Madelaine Amee
04-03-2014, 07:10 AM
Non? This isn't mine. Thought I was offering an example. I think it is pretty.
Everyone likes different stuff.


I wish we had a home forum where we could talk about this stuff. I love to read and see home d�cor.

Too eclectic for my taste .............. too much "stuff"!

cquick
04-03-2014, 09:10 AM
the only thing I really miss in my house is a nice front porch area. So we sit in our garage!:pepper2::pepper2::pepper2::pepper2:

Beth P
04-04-2014, 07:29 AM
Thanks everyone. We will do a lifestyle visit in October and will most likely try to rent someplace starting next March. We can use that time to be available for true house hunting and renovating when we find something. We would be looking for a Williamsburg type layout on a scenic lot. Y'all have been very helpful.

Beth P.
Marietta, Ga

Maryc7878
04-18-2014, 05:43 PM
Our home may not be craftsman on the outside (Gardenia) but it is, on the inside. It is our favorite type of decorating, Craftsman. We have Stickley furniture, mission style lights, wood floors. If you visualize it you can make it work. Now, that we have the house as we like it we go play golf or go dancing...

justjim
04-18-2014, 06:44 PM
Just my 2�, I don't think northern comfort cues work well with the Fl lifestyle. Eastlake walnut dressers, Hooker entertainment centers, mahogany dining rooms, dark stained moldings are things that make a house feel warm and cozy when it's cold and dark outside. At TV (and FL in general) light and airy feel comfortable, and contemporary styling seems to convey that best. As was advised to me recently, it is probably best to sell everything that isn't precious to you and arrive with a small moving truck and a big wallet, rather than the other way around, and make TV a fresh start.

Santa, you "hit the nail on the head.". Living in the Florida climate and environment is different than living in a northern environment and climate. Light and contemporary styling does better describe the "Florida look". Thus our homes here are much different.

OP, hopefully you are open to change because living here in TV as a Retiree is soooo different. If a custom built traditional home is what you feel you must have, you can find that in Central Florida near TV but not as a new home currently built and sold in TV.

graciegirl
04-18-2014, 06:57 PM
I typed in this on google and came up with a bunch of rooms of Florida d�cor. There are many that are very traditional.


florida decorating ideas - Bing Images (http://www.bing.com/images/search?q=florida+decorating+ideas&qs=IM&form=QBIR&pq=florida+decor&sc=8-13&sp=2&sk=IM1#a)

SantaClaus
04-18-2014, 07:08 PM
Houzz.com is another great resource for decorating ideas. Search for "Florida style" for a good starting point.

Bonanza
04-19-2014, 02:04 AM
Our home may not be craftsman on the outside (Gardenia) but it is, on the inside. It is our favorite type of decorating, Craftsman. We have Stickley furniture, mission style lights, wood floors. If you visualize it you can make it work. Now, that we have the house as we like it we go play golf or go dancing...

What you say is so true.
You can pretty much take most floor plans
and make them into the look you want.

Not that long ago I was in a Lantana model home in Mallory.
The couple had also decorated in the Mission style and it was charming.

graciegirl
04-19-2014, 06:12 AM
I am fascinated with how people make their homes their own. I get a magazine called Florida Style (I think that is the name of it) and it has mostly South Florida homes of grandeur on the water and condos on the water and most of it is very linear and very shiny and very minimal and very white and very full of emphatic color punches and very, VERY expensive furniture and is generally quite different from the style that I think is representative of central and northern Florida. (These are just my impressions, I am not an expert, just a homemaker)


Now I am not saying there are hard set rules, there is just sort of an atmosphere here that has sort of a softness, many use white furniture mixed with dark as Bonanza says, eclectic. I am not a decorator, I have always just been fascinated with interior design and know that even traditional is quite fluid. In our first home here we decorated with a beachy touch and in our second home we brought our old stuff. Both felt right.


PLEASE show us pictures of your home. I wish we had a decorator forum. I made most of my drapes using very inexpensive fabric from fabric.com. Most fabric I paid about seven dollars a yard . I love to see what choices people have made to make our very similar homes look like their own. I wish MaryBB would post hers. It is my favorite interior here in TV. 2BNTV has a smart, stylish and beautifully decorated home and his choices are terrific too.I have enjoyed seeing the interiors of many warm and beautiful homes. Please share.

slipcovers
04-19-2014, 07:25 AM
GRACIE, it would be nice if they would have house tours as a fund raiser for charity. I am sure lots of ladies would get involved. What do you think?

Bogie Shooter
04-19-2014, 07:40 AM
Free tours now.............called Open Houses.

keithwand
04-19-2014, 08:13 AM
The spot shot can is a great decorative piece.
We use Lemon Pledge instead and get rave reviews from friends.
:)

perrjojo
04-19-2014, 08:19 AM
They are now building a new courtyard villa neighborhood near Brownwood. Each villa has a very unique exterior. Quite different from previous villas. I think they will have more of a craftsman look. They are bringing called Designer Villas but there are none with pricing on the Villages website yet. I don't remember the name of the villa neighborhood.

perrjojo
04-19-2014, 08:22 AM
GRACIE, it would be nice if they would have house tours as a fund raiser for charity. I am sure lots of ladies would get involved. What do you think?
We did that last year in Mission Hills to raise money for our AED program. It was very successful but was only open to our neighborhood. It was amazing how different the same floor plan could look and how people had made so many changes to the floor plan after purchase.

Mallory Voice
05-15-2014, 11:44 AM
If you buy low in a nice village you can well afford to customize on the interior to make your house a home. I'm not sure I'd go over to the 'historic' section to accomplish this due to future resale value.
Mallory voice

Bogie Shooter
05-15-2014, 01:42 PM
If you buy low in a nice village you can well afford to customize on the interior to make your house a home. I'm not sure I'd go over to the 'historic' section to accomplish this due to future resale value.
Mallory voice

What does this mean? Are you making a prediction of future resale values?