private parties at public parties

[stewartjames]

Attended the 5th anniversary of Cody's Sunday and also to watch favorite football team. We were listening to music and watching the game when several people showed and started moving in around us and sitting down. Great, all here to celebrate Cody's anniversary. NOT! The owner was their the music playing and they all started celebrating a private birthday party for some lady that cleans the bar after hours.Several folks went and found seating outside but said they were there to celebrate a birthday? They brought in food in trays and everyone starting helping themselves. One person went up to get a plate thinking it was for Cody's and they said this food is for those invited to the private party. They then brought out a large cake again thinking for Cody's Not! you guessed it only for the private party in this public restaurant. They started walking all thru the place only giving cake to people for the birthday party and not offering to anyone else. I started to think maybe we shouldn't even be listening to the music since normally its not on Sundays and might be for the Birthday? Is this norm for TV? where people just decide to get together and take over these places ?

[Bogie Shooter]

Attended the 5th anniversary of Cody's Sunday and also to watch favorite football team. We were listening to music and watching the game when several people showed and started moving in around us and sitting down. Great, all here to celebrate Cody's anniversary. NOT! The owner was their the music playing and they all started celebrating a private birthday party for some lady that cleans the bar after hours.Several folks went and found seating outside but said they were there to celebrate a birthday? They brought in food in trays and everyone starting helping themselves. One person went up to get a plate thinking it was for Cody's and they said this food is for those invited to the private party. They then brought out a large cake again thinking for Cody's Not! you guessed it only for the private party in this public restaurant. They started walking all thru the place only giving cake to people for the birthday party and not offering to anyone else. I started to think maybe we shouldn't even be listening to the music since normally its not on Sundays and might be for the Birthday? Is this norm for TV? where people just decide to get together and take over these places ?

What was management's response when you asked? You did ask didn't you?

[DonH57]

What did the manager say?

[njbchbum]

stewartjames - Perhaps I don't understand...are you thinking that only those who wanted to celebrate the anniversary should have been permitted to be there?

[Deseylou]

I think if it was a get together for invited people, they should have put tables together and used only those tables
I'm ok, with the food and cake only being for the birthday party people

[wudda1955]

I guess I just don't get the outrage? It was a private party in a public place. Happens all the time--in every place I've ever lived.

[stewartjames]

Managements response was that it was a birthday party. heck the owner brought out a gift. What i'm saying is normally a private party is held in a separate area, where food and gifts can be presented privately. Not during a football game, 5th Anniversary of Codys opening, where the "guests" were sitting everywhere! Have a bit of common courtesy, and eat your food, cake, open your gifts in a separate area. Not just running through the entire place and not including others in the area. Heck the more the merrier!

[Laurie2]

Let them eat cake.

[rubicon]

Managements response was that it was a birthday party. heck the owner brought out a gift. What i'm saying is normally a private party is held in a separate area, where food and gifts can be presented privately. Not during a football game, 5th Anniversary of Codys opening, where the "guests" were sitting everywhere! Have a bit of common courtesy, and eat your food, cake, open your gifts in a separate area. Not just running through the entire place and not including others in the area. Heck the more the merrier!

stewartjames: you are right to have been a little annoyed. This restaurant appears clueless. sounded like a keystone kops exercise

[sunnyatlast]

It's always been seedy.

The new one at Brownwood is a lot better with far more space outside to spread out and it's clean.

[D&Lsunfun]

if you want to have a party at Cody's it is okay to bring in
party trays and dessert??

[Bonny]

Attended the 5th anniversary of Cody's Sunday and also to watch favorite football team. We were listening to music and watching the game when several people showed and started moving in around us and sitting down. Great, all here to celebrate Cody's anniversary. NOT! The owner was their the music playing and they all started celebrating a private birthday party for some lady that cleans the bar after hours.Several folks went and found seating outside but said they were there to celebrate a birthday? They brought in food in trays and everyone starting helping themselves. One person went up to get a plate thinking it was for Cody's and they said this food is for those invited to the private party. They then brought out a large cake again thinking for Cody's Not! you guessed it only for the private party in this public restaurant. They started walking all thru the place only giving cake to people for the birthday party and not offering to anyone else. I started to think maybe we shouldn't even be listening to the music since normally its not on Sundays and might be for the Birthday? Is this norm for TV? where people just decide to get together and take over these places ?
WOW !! So sorry you were so put out !
It was my birthday party. I have my birthday party there every year on their anniversary.
I had my birthday party there 5 years ago the day they opened.
Sorry when I cut the cake you weren't offered a piece. We were passing it out to a lot of people that weren't part of my party, but obviously we missed a few.
Yes everyone was walking around talking with everyone, but we all do that if there's a party or not.
And yes, the food that Codys put out was for my party. Yes, I did tell someone that it was for a private party.
And yes, Codys brought in entertainment for my party but mostly for "their anniversary".
And yes, I did get a beautiful gift from the owner.
Heads up, I'll probably do it again next year. It's a tradition that we celebrate together.
Oh, and P.S. I am not part of the cleaning staff. Don't know where that came from !!

[TheVillageChicken]

WOW !! So sorry you were so put out !
It was my birthday party. I have my birthday party there every year on their anniversary.
I had my birthday party there 5 years ago the day they opened.
Sorry when I cut the cake you weren't offered a piece. We were passing it out to a lot of people that weren't part of my party, but obviously we missed a few.
Yes everyone was walking around talking with everyone, but we all do that if there's a party or not.
And yes, the food that Codys put out was for my party. Yes, I did tell someone that it was for a private party.
And yes, Codys brought in entertainment for my party but mostly for "their anniversary".
And yes, I did get a beautiful gift from the owner.
Heads up, I'll probably do it again next year. It's a tradition that we celebrate together.
Oh, and P.S. I am not part of the cleaning staff. Don't know where that came from !!

Happy Birthday

[Bonny]

Happy Birthday
Thank you so much !! :laugh:

[Bogie Shooter]

Seedy?

[Bogie Shooter]

Is OP now happy...............to get an answer?

[onslowe]

Nice conclusion to this thread by an always classy lady. Happy Birthday, Bonny.

[Bonny]

if the people watching football, brought party trays and packed lunches or a cooler, it wouldn't have been allowed. since the manager values his cleaning staff, celebrate at a less busy time. poor call coming from the manager.
It was my party and I'm not the cleaning staff, I'm the drinking staff. LOL:pepper2:

[Bonny]

It's always been seedy.

The new one at Brownwood is a lot better with far more space outside to spread out and it's clean.
What is seedy ? The place, the people ?

[Bonny]

Nice conclusion to this thread by an always classy lady. Happy Birthday, Bonny.
Thank you so much !! :)

[graciegirl]

I'll say classy. and very beautiful too.

Happy Birthday Bonny.

And a thousand more.

[ricthemic]

WOW !! So sorry you were so put out !
It was my birthday party. I have my birthday party there every year on their anniversary.
I had my birthday party there 5 years ago the day they opened.
Sorry when I cut the cake you weren't offered a piece. We were passing it out to a lot of people that weren't part of my party, but obviously we missed a few.
Yes everyone was walking around talking with everyone, but we all do that if there's a party or not.
And yes, the food that Codys put out was for my party. Yes, I did tell someone that it was for a private party.
And yes, Codys brought in entertainment for my party but mostly for "their anniversary".
And yes, I did get a beautiful gift from the owner.
Heads up, I'll probably do it again next year. It's a tradition that we celebrate
together.
Oh, and P.S. I am not part of the cleaning staff. Don't know where that came from !!

Happy birthday and no big deal next year it will be on a Monday

[jblum315]

I have seen people celebrating birthdays in public restaurants all my life, in New York, in Virginia, in Florida, everywhere. Never gave it a thought.
As for Cody's being "seedy" I guess about a million people disagree with you.

Anyway, Happy Birthday Bonny and many more.

[redwitch]

Belated happy birthday, Bonny.

So, did you do a good job cleaning Cody's up after the party or did you leave it a little seedy?

[Schaumburger]

Cheers, Bonny. Hope you had a wonderful birthday! :beer3:

[Wandatime]

Happy birthday, Bonny! Sounds like a good time was had by most. :p

[Wandatime]

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[wudda1955]

Happy birthday, Bonny! Wishing you only wonderful things in the upcoming year!

[zcaveman]

I have been to places before that have had these local parties.

Since I was not part of the group, it did not bother me that I was not invited to share in their festivities.

I have also been to places where they invited me to join in the festivities.

Not a problem either way.

Z

[BobnBev]

Happy B'day from me, too!!!! BTW, next year this old bald guy will be there asking for a piece of your cake......I love it with extra frosting,,,hehehe.
:spoken:

[Taltarzac725]

WOW !! So sorry you were so put out !
It was my birthday party. I have my birthday party there every year on their anniversary.
I had my birthday party there 5 years ago the day they opened.
Sorry when I cut the cake you weren't offered a piece. We were passing it out to a lot of people that weren't part of my party, but obviously we missed a few.
Yes everyone was walking around talking with everyone, but we all do that if there's a party or not.
And yes, the food that Codys put out was for my party. Yes, I did tell someone that it was for a private party.
And yes, Codys brought in entertainment for my party but mostly for "their anniversary".
And yes, I did get a beautiful gift from the owner.
Heads up, I'll probably do it again next year. It's a tradition that we celebrate together.
Oh, and P.S. I am not part of the cleaning staff. Don't know where that came from !!

Happy belated BD. I have liked my trips to Codys over the years.

[Bonny]

I'll say classy. and very beautiful too.

Happy Birthday Bonny.

And a thousand more.
Aw, thank you Gracie !! You're sweet ! ;)

[Bonny]

Happy birthday and no big deal next year it will be on a Monday
LOL ! Thank you so much !

[Bonny]

I have seen people celebrating birthdays in public restaurants all my life, in New York, in Virginia, in Florida, everywhere. Never gave it a thought.
As for Cody's being "seedy" I guess about a million people disagree with you.

Anyway, Happy Birthday Bonny and many more.
Thank you very much :)

[Bonny]

Belated happy birthday, Bonny.

So, did you do a good job cleaning Cody's up after the party or did you leave it a little seedy?
LOL, too funny, thank you !! I must say I have been know to clean a table or two to help out the bartenders when it's busy, but never asked to get on the payroll ! :laugh:

[Bonny]

Cheers, Bonny. Hope you had a wonderful birthday! :beer3:
Thank you. It really was a fun time. Codys is very good to me and I so appreciate it !

[Bonny]

Happy birthday, Bonny! Sounds like a good time was had by most. :p
Thank you Wanda, it really was a fun time !

[Bonny]

Happy birthday, Bonny! Wishing you only wonderful things in the upcoming year!
Thank you so much ! :)

[Bonny]

Happy B'day from me, too!!!! BTW, next year this old bald guy will be there asking for a piece of your cake......I love it with extra frosting,,,hehehe.
:spoken:
Thank you and just come up and ask, I'll give you an end piece. Lots of frosting !:laugh:

[Bonny]

Happy belated BD. I have liked my trips to Codys over the years.
Thank you very much ! People that know me, know I'm a big Codys and City Fire girl ! :laugh:

[NYGUY]

Just catching up here on the posts, hope you had a great birthday Bonny!!

[Bonny]

Just catching up here on the posts, hope you had a great birthday Bonny!!I did. Thank you ! :)

[CSilvestrucci]

Happy Belated Birthday, Bonnie

[DougB]

Bonny had a party and we weren't invited??? :shrug:

[Bonny]

Happy Belated Birthday, Bonnie
Thank you so much ! :)

Bonny had a party and we weren't invited??? :shrug:
LOL, next time ;) Enjoy your day !

[kittygilchrist]

blessings for a great year Bonny. Next year give a yell and We can all come to your classy girl birthday at Cody's!

[Bonny]

blessings for a great year Bonny. Next year give a yell and We can all come to your classy girl birthday at Cody's!
Thanks sweetie ! I'll definitely make sure you get cake !! ;)