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Chatbrat
07-13-2015, 07:12 AM
Went to get a haircut @ a new business in The Villages- 2 of the cutters had tattoos all over their bodies, went to Honest John's -there is a female bar person with tattoos extending down her arms
I know tattoos are the latest fad- but I would rather not be served by a tattoo covered individual--am I alone with this feeling?
Villager Joyce
07-13-2015, 07:25 AM
I'm not about to step in this pile.
Sandtrap328
07-13-2015, 07:27 AM
Really, what difference does it make if a server has some tattoos on her arms?
Warren Kiefer
07-13-2015, 07:30 AM
really, what difference does it make if a server has some tattoos on her arms?
it offends me !!!! Would you also accept being served by someone in a tank top ??
MikeV
07-13-2015, 07:31 AM
I don't think tattoos are unsanitary but if it bothers you go somewhere else.
NYGUY
07-13-2015, 07:58 AM
Went to get a haircut @ a new business in The Villages- 2 of the cutters had tattoos all over their bodies, went to Honest John's -there is a female bar person with tattoos extending down her arms
I know tattoos are the latest fad- but I would rather not be served by a tattoo covered individual--am I alone with this feeling?
Doesn't bother me and it certainly isn't new!! (BTW, I have none and my wife has 2)
perrjojo
07-13-2015, 08:08 AM
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CathyandSteveG
07-13-2015, 08:08 AM
I am not a tattoo fan....or a piercing fan.....I would not choose to have either. But I don't think tattoos pose a health issue...so if a server, or hairdresser, or nail tech, or minister, or car mechanic...has a tattoo...or many tattoos....i do not see it as a problem for me. But if it bothers you....then you should definitely go someplace else. However...in this day and age...good luck finding a place that is a Tattoo free zone.
As for being served by someone in a tank top.....i can think of several places that tank tops are the required uniform.....
The bottom line is this...if you don't like something and it makes you unhappy...i am certain you have many choices...pick another place to get your haircut. You need to be comfortable and happy and what i think is pretty irrelevant.
outlaw
07-13-2015, 08:15 AM
it offends me !!!! Would you also accept being served by someone in a tank top ??
Don't go to Hooters or Twin Peaks, then.
CathyandSteveG
07-13-2015, 08:18 AM
outlaw....that was the first thing that popped into my head as well...lol
Villager Joyce
07-13-2015, 08:19 AM
I lied. I am going to step in It. You can't donate blood if you have gotten a tattoo within the past 12 months. Does that mean the blood banks think it is a health issue?
Chatbrat
07-13-2015, 08:19 AM
Going to Hooters, Twin Peaks is akin to going to a car show-what good does it do to just look & not take a test drive
outlaw
07-13-2015, 08:23 AM
Going to Hooters, Twin Peaks is akin to going to a car show-what good does it do to just look & not take a test drive
It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you eat at home...I enjoy car shows; especially the convertibles with their top down, the newer model cars with the big headlights, and the big trunks.
dewilson58
07-13-2015, 08:26 AM
Really??
Hung up on tattoos??
Tat's are not a fade, my grandfather had a couple.
Tat's don't indicate clean or dirty, nice or mean, happy or sad, smart or not so.
Wow.
Footnote: I don't have any.
CathyandSteveG
07-13-2015, 08:27 AM
For blood donations
Wait 12 months after a tattoo if the tattoo was applied in a state that does not regulate tattoo facilities. Currently, the only states that DO NOT regulate tattoo facilities are: District of Columbia, Georgia, Idaho, Maryland, Massachusetts, Nevada, New Hampshire, New York, Pennsylvania, Utah and Wyoming. This requirement is related to concerns about hepatitis.
A tattoo is acceptable if the tattoo was applied by a state-regulated entity using sterile needles and ink that is not reused. Cosmetic tattoos applied in a licensed establishment in a regulated state using sterile needles and ink that is not reused is acceptable. You should discuss your particular situation with the health historian at the time of donation.
Phanatic Luvr
07-13-2015, 08:30 AM
Tattoos don't really bother me. I find some as expressions of art, other's not so much. What does bother me however, are those who have those earrings which go through the earlobe and are as big as a quarter. They totally gross me out.
CathyandSteveG
07-13-2015, 08:33 AM
Tattoos don't really bother me. I find some as expressions of art, other's not so much. What does bother me however, are those who have those earrings which go through the earlobe and are as big as a quarter. They totally gross me out.
I admit when i see those the only thing i can think of is OUCH!!!!!!!
Villager Joyce
07-13-2015, 08:33 AM
Wait 12 months after a tattoo if the tattoo was applied in a state that does not regulate tattoo facilities. Currently, the only states that DO NOT regulate tattoo facilities are: District of Columbia, Georgia, Idaho, Maryland, Massachusetts, Nevada, New Hampshire, New York, Pennsylvania, Utah and Wyoming. This requirement is related to concerns about hepatitis.
A tattoo is acceptable if the tattoo was applied by a state-regulated entity using sterile needles and ink that is not reused. Cosmetic tattoos applied in a licensed establishment in a regulated state using sterile needles and ink that is not reused is acceptable. You should discuss your particular situation with the health historian at the time of donation.
So how do you determine if the tattoo Of your server or whatever is in compliance. I don't have a tattoo,but I don't care if you do or not until it becomes a health issue. Then I care. I always remember the joke about the young lady who had a tattoo of a butterfly on her breast. later in life, it appeared to be a butterfly on her waistline.
the square
07-13-2015, 08:34 AM
Want to give tattoos a test run for you and your whole family, grandkids included. Go to Tattly (http://www.tattly.com) and see what a huge business this is..PS I have four real ones.
graciegirl
07-13-2015, 08:35 AM
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-R5YMFI37sj0/UFSg2jPSHoI/AAAAAAAAUIY/i9d38Aoq39g/s640/old-woman-tattoo.jpg
CathyandSteveG
07-13-2015, 08:39 AM
Restaurant employees, hospital employees, daycare center employees...etc. are all periodically tested for hepatitis. If you have a server who has a tattoo...they have been tested for hepatitis and it was negative.
On the other hand....they may not have washed their hands after using the restroom....how do you know whether they did or did not? You TRUST that they did.
Life is full of uncertainties...we don't live in bubbles. I TRUST that my darling little hairdresser who has SEVERAL tattoos is NOT putting my life in jeopardy when she cuts and colors my hair. I do not have to approve of her lifestyle choices....she does a fine job on my hair.
CathyandSteveG
07-13-2015, 08:40 AM
ohhh Gracie...that is just purrty! NOT!
TheVillageChicken
07-13-2015, 08:40 AM
My tattoo is over fifty years old and there is of course, a story that goes with it, but I have scars that have much better stories.
RedChariot
07-13-2015, 08:41 AM
For blood donations
Wait 12 months after a tattoo if the tattoo was applied in a state that does not regulate tattoo facilities. Currently, the only states that DO NOT regulate tattoo facilities are: District of Columbia, Georgia, Idaho, Maryland, Massachusetts, Nevada, New Hampshire, New York, Pennsylvania, Utah and Wyoming. This requirement is related to concerns about hepatitis.
A tattoo is acceptable if the tattoo was applied by a state-regulated entity using sterile needles and ink that is not reused. Cosmetic tattoos applied in a licensed establishment in a regulated state using sterile needles and ink that is not reused is acceptable. You should discuss your particular situation with the health historian at the time of donation.
Not just hepatitis (all types. Some can be deadly). Major concern is HIV.
biker1
07-13-2015, 08:42 AM
Some establishments require that tattoos not be visible. This may require wearing long sleeve shirts. I believe visible tattoos can be a career limiter.
Went to get a haircut @ a new business in The Villages- 2 of the cutters had tattoos all over their bodies, went to Honest John's -there is a female bar person with tattoos extending down her arms
I know tattoos are the latest fad- but I would rather not be served by a tattoo covered individual--am I alone with this feeling?
CathyandSteveG
07-13-2015, 08:45 AM
My daddy who is 79 has a tattoo on his arm he got when he was 13 years old.....all of my life he told me how he regretted he got that tattoo. My husband and i..... 60 and 62 have none. I tried to tell my children that while tattoos my be the fad...someday they won't be.
My daughter who is 36 has 3 tattoos, my son who is 40 has 1...my daughter in law who is 38 has 1.
They of course...did not listen
CathyandSteveG
07-13-2015, 08:47 AM
Some establishments require that tattoos not be visible. This may require wearing long sleeve shirts. I believe visible tattoos can be a career limiter.
I was thinking this very thing....my daughter worked at Bob Evans when she was in college...and she had to wear a band aid over her tattoo on her ankle.
red tail
07-13-2015, 08:54 AM
I was horrified in publix. the cashier had pierced earrings on
CathyandSteveG
07-13-2015, 09:02 AM
:thumbup::a20::bigbow::1rotfl:
cquick
07-13-2015, 09:03 AM
I think tattoos are going to be something we all will have to tolerate along with tongue, nose and eyebrow piercings.
It's usually people in service jobs that I notice with tattoos and piercings.
I will throw out my opinion here, I would feel very uncomfortable if my doctor, dentist, lawyer or financial advisor has tattoos and/or piercings where I can see them. If the tattoo doesn't show, it's none of my business.
Villager Joyce
07-13-2015, 09:04 AM
Restaurant employees, hospital employees, daycare center employees...etc. are all periodically tested for hepatitis. If you have a server who has a tattoo...they have been tested for hepatitis and it was negative.
On the other hand....they may not have washed their hands after using the restroom....how do you know whether they did or did not? You TRUST that they did.
Life is full of uncertainties...we don't live in bubbles. I TRUST that my darling little hairdresser who has SEVERAL tattoos is NOT putting my life in jeopardy when she cuts and colors my hair. I do not have to approve of her lifestyle choices....she does a fine job on my hair.
Darn the blood bank and other agencies for trying to assure a clean blood transfusion or to attempt to stop the spread of diseases. My hairdresser (not here) cut herself and then attempted to continue my cut. I left and went to another shop to have it finished. We don't live in a bubble. That is why we must attempt to protect ourselves in whatever way possible.
Walt.
07-13-2015, 09:15 AM
Gracie... I didn't recognize you without the glasses!
red tail
07-13-2015, 09:17 AM
I think tattoos are going to be something we all will have to tolerate along with tongue, nose and eyebrow piercings.
It's usually people in service jobs that I notice with tattoos and piercings.
I will throw out my opinion here, I would feel very uncomfortable if my doctor, dentist, lawyer or financial advisor has tattoos and/or piercings where I can see them. If the tattoo doesn't show, it's none of my business.
how about a first responder attempting to save your life. would a visible tattoo be ok then?
CathyandSteveG
07-13-2015, 09:23 AM
my post was not a criticism of people being tested....i was stating a fact....and it is certainly for our protection and i appreciate it....I am not sure how you misconstrued it to be a criticism.
If my hairdresser cut herself....( and how would i know unless she bled on me or told me ) I trust that she does not have a disease to jeopardize my life. But she has been my hair dresser for 15 years....and i would not go somewhere else.
If the op of this thread...is uncomfortable with having his haircut by a person with Tattoos...he should go elsewhere. If you are uncomfortable with something or afraid of something, or don't like something...you should absolutely do what is best for you. What i think.... does not matter.
CathyandSteveG
07-13-2015, 09:24 AM
:BigApplause:oh red tail...that is an excellent point!
queasy27
07-13-2015, 09:26 AM
I know tattoos are the latest fad- but I would rather not be served by a tattoo covered individual--am I alone with this feeling?
I doubt you're alone but I personally think tattoos and facial piercings can be very interesting and even beautiful.
I also believe that people who get large neck and facial tattoos are severely limiting their career choices. As in: "I'm not getting this job, am I?"
Villager Joyce
07-13-2015, 09:30 AM
my post was not a criticism of people being tested....i was stating a fact....and it is certainly for our protection and i appreciate it....I am not sure how you misconstrued it to be a criticism.
If my hairdresser cut herself....( and how would i know unless she bled on me or told me ) I trust that she does not have a disease to jeopardize my life. But she has been my hair dresser for 15 years....and i would not go somewhere else.
If the op of this thread...is uncomfortable with having his haircut by a person with Tattoos...he should go elsewhere. If you are uncomfortable with something or afraid of something, or don't like something...you should absolutely do what is best for you. What i think.... does not matter.
Maybe it was the hand washing or bubble comments.
CathyandSteveG
07-13-2015, 09:34 AM
I doubt you're alone but I personally think tattoos and facial piercings can be very interesting and even beautiful.
I also believe that people who get large neck and facial tattoos are severely limiting their career choices. As in: "I'm not getting this job, am I?"
I wonder the same thing...however....if most people have tattoos in the workforce....maybe it will be a non issue?
zonerboy
07-13-2015, 09:51 AM
Servers with tattoos are generally not bothersome. However I'm not fond of piercings of the nose or lips. It seems they routinely become infected.
manaboutown
07-13-2015, 09:53 AM
Beyond the esthetics or the lack thereof my concern lies with the possibility of Hepatitis B and C infections some tattooed folks may carry (not to mention HIV).. Tattoos Linked To Hepatitis C In New Study (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/01/25/tattoo-hepatitis-c_n_2546592.html)
People heavily tattooed are about three times as likely to carry Hep C than other folks. The Risk of Viral Hepatitis From Tattoos (http://hepatitis.about.com/od/lifestyle/a/tattoos.htm)
Obviously, prison tattoos are not regulated. (shiver)
goodtimesintv
07-13-2015, 09:56 AM
I don't feel comfortable with people who do permanent self mutilation to themselves. A single ear piercing hole in each ear is not permanent. Mine have grown shut over the decades.
From what I see here, I figure an opinion that differs here will be vilified, but that is my opinion. If they permanently mutilate their own bodies by going beyond the arms or legs and to the face and neck to the extreme, there is something seriously wrong with their thinking.
When we pay people for handling our food or doing medical procedures like drawing blood in the lab, we have to trust they are of sound mind.
Here is an article where an MD refers to it as mutilation too.
Can't post a link but you can google it:
"Tattoos and Body Piercing: Self-Expression or Self-Mutilation". by Elizabeth Chabner Thompson MD, MPH. In Everyday Health dot com.
rustyp
07-13-2015, 10:02 AM
Is any training / certification required to administer tattoo in the state of Florida. Does the department of health inspect? How often?
Chatbrat
07-13-2015, 10:04 AM
As far as Dr., Financial advisor, accountant--the old diddy should apply--"the more the tattoos the lower the IQ's"
Yorio
07-13-2015, 10:17 AM
Many Yakuzas wore tattoos and some were definitely beautiful. However, tattoos have been associated with Yakuzas since samurai period. In 2020, Japan will be hosting Olympics and government is trying to figure out how to handle excessive tattoo designed visitors. Many bars and famous hot spring baths do not allow tattooed person today. Interesting to see how this will be handled at the Olympics.
gomoho
07-13-2015, 10:28 AM
I thinks some of those that posted should be tattooed on their forehead: I AM OF SMALL MIND. I have to agree you should be more concerned about servers washing their hands then their tats. This is definitely generational as younger folks now barely even notice them.
DianeM
07-13-2015, 10:32 AM
If somebody has a tattoo, that is their business. I do not have any but mostly because I'm a coward. You don't want to be served by someone with a tattoo? What bubble have you been living in? You take umbrage with a tank top? Really? I cannot believe the degree of small mindedness pervasive in TV.
stroglass
07-13-2015, 10:33 AM
I have a tat and am of very sound mind got mine at age 60 there are so many other problem in the world to worried about other then If the guy mix ing my drink has a tat .
The world has gotten to crazy with what others find offensive why can't we just live and let live
Unless it harms you physically let it go
redwitch
07-13-2015, 10:36 AM
Personally, I don't like tats. Have told my daughter more than once that if she gets one, she would be very wise to not let me know about it. But she is my daughter, so I think I have the right to left her know my beliefs. I do not say a thing to her friends who are tattooed or pierced. Their body, their life. I really don't care if my server, hair cutter, et al. are tatted or not. I'm not going to be around them long enough for it to affect me.
What does bother me are constantly negative people, whether it is someone who posts here, a server who is snarly every time I see them, a neighbor who never can smile. There are many great things to see in this world and in our community. Try to ignore the ugly lanai, the tats, the articles in the paper that offend your sensibilities (or at least keep your opinions to yourself). Look for the tail walking the dog, the cat sunning itself on the lanai, the toddler giggling for the joy of living, the sever who greeted you with a huge smile, the tattooed man who just ran after the lady who dropped five dollars. They're all around you.
hulahips
07-13-2015, 10:42 AM
Tattoos are seen on the majority of the under 40 crowd. It shouldn't affect you, but I wonder what they are doing to their own bodies. Imagine when they get older and need the skin cancer checks. I personally wouldn't want that ink seeping into my skin. As far as service though it doesn't bother me.
CarolSells
07-13-2015, 11:17 AM
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manaboutown
07-13-2015, 11:30 AM
If you really want to see some heavily tattooed people hang around any drug/alcohol/substance abuse program or rehab center.
DonH57
07-13-2015, 11:30 AM
I've never had an issue with tattoos on people. I've seen a few body piercing I though, what the hell's with that but it's their body. I've known people from all walks of life with various levels of education and intelligence, so it's not my place to judge them by the ink on their skin.
dewilson58
07-13-2015, 11:32 AM
Tattoos are seen on the majority of the under 40 crowd. It shouldn't affect you, but I wonder what they are doing to their own bodies. Imagine when they get older and need the skin cancer checks. I personally wouldn't want that ink seeping into my skin. As far as service though it doesn't bother me.
Without being gross..............I wonder about gravity. For all of us, gravity is not always our friend. :D Stretchy skin over the years, it could change a nice bird tattoo into a...........well, not sure what. Could be interesting times ahead.
Yorio
07-13-2015, 11:32 AM
Our neighbor here told me a story about tattoos. He himself has one and I believe his wife also has one. In hindsight, he told me it wasn't the smartest move. So, when his two children wanted to have tattoos, he told them to wait until 19 or 20 and if they still wanted then, he will not stop them. His children never got it and now they thank his dad, that that was a sound advice. They work in an environment where not having tattoos is a better choice.
Brownwood Bob
07-13-2015, 11:37 AM
Good point!
Jima64
07-13-2015, 11:37 AM
I don't really havea problem with tattoos but some of the people that get them and then think I want to see the chubby lower leg they put it on. Also the neighbors son who cannot afford his living expenses with a child from a girlfriend, living off mom and day but constantly adding to his body collection of ink. Just my opinion. By the way, I too have chubby legs but don't show them.
Bonny
07-13-2015, 11:43 AM
Thank goodness we live in American and have freedom of choice !
If we don't like tattoos, we can go somewhere else. Don't like piercings, go somewhere else.
I know many extremely smart and successful people who have tattoos.
Some people look at them the way we look at a painting on the wall. The difference is, they choose to wear it. LOL
Myself and 3 of my girlfriends went and got a tattoo 3 years ago.
Would I want a lawyer representing me covered in tattoos. Probably not so I would go find another.
Gotta love America ! :thumbup:
Lovey2
07-13-2015, 11:51 AM
I was horrified in publix. the cashier had pierced earrings on
Probably the one with the dyed red hair. :loco:
red tail
07-13-2015, 11:52 AM
my son has a tattoo of the ralph lauren polo pony strategically put where it appears on a shirt. I always wished I had one. it is very cool.
outlaw
07-13-2015, 12:02 PM
Some of the best motorcycle mechanics have tats.
NillieBob
07-13-2015, 12:11 PM
Wait until the tattoo people get old and the skin starts to change and sag I don't think they think about that but you know how young people think I'm not going to get old,Ha
billethkid
07-13-2015, 12:14 PM
Sounds like a lot of profiling going on!
Taltarzac725
07-13-2015, 12:18 PM
Wonder if our current Pope has any tattoos? Hail Mary! Tattoos: Not just for bikers anymore :: Catholic News Agency (CNA) (http://www.catholicnewsagency.com/cw/post.php?id=569)
Barefoot
07-13-2015, 12:18 PM
Really?? Hung up on tattoos?? Tat's are not a fade, my grandfather had a couple. Tat's don't indicate clean or dirty, nice or mean, happy or sad, smart or not so.
My grandfather also had tattoos which he got while fighting in WW1. Definitely not a modern-day fad.
I was horrified in publix. the cashier had pierced earrings on :evil6:
I thinks some of those that posted should be tattooed on their forehead: I AM OF SMALL MIND.
I have a tat and am of very sound mind got mine at age 60 there are so many other problem in the world to worried about other then If the guy mix ing my drink has a tat . The world has gotten to crazy with what others find offensive why can't we just live and let live. Unless it harms you physically let it go :agree:
Jayhawk
07-13-2015, 12:38 PM
This.
airstreamingypsy
07-13-2015, 12:48 PM
Went to get a haircut @ a new business in The Villages- 2 of the cutters had tattoos all over their bodies, went to Honest John's -there is a female bar person with tattoos extending down her arms
I know tattoos are the latest fad- but I would rather not be served by a tattoo covered individual--am I alone with this feeling?
I would hope you're alone in that feeling... live and let live.
rustyp
07-13-2015, 12:55 PM
How many fortune 500 CEO's have tattoos ? I've not seen any. Ever wonder why ?
Lovey2
07-13-2015, 12:59 PM
How many fortune 500 CEO's have tattoos ? I've not seen any. Ever wonder why ?
I haven't seen any of them nude. I have a tattoo only where my husband or doctor will see it...
Bonny
07-13-2015, 01:14 PM
I haven't seen any of them nude. I have a tattoo only where my husband or doctor will see it...
Yep, same here. Wouldn't see mine unless I'm in a bathing suit or wearing a revealing top. :D
Bonny
07-13-2015, 01:15 PM
How many fortune 500 CEO's have tattoos ? I've not seen any. Ever wonder why ?
I would bet there are plenty of them. Just cuz you can't see them, doesn't mean they don't have them.
dewilson58
07-13-2015, 01:18 PM
Quote:
I haven't seen any of them nude. I have a tattoo only where my husband or doctor will see it...
Yep, same here. Wouldn't see mine unless I'm in a bathing suit or wearing a revealing top.
Now you ladies stop that...............you're getting a bunch of old men thinking.
Bonny
07-13-2015, 01:29 PM
Quote:
I haven't seen any of them nude. I have a tattoo only where my husband or doctor will see it...
Yep, same here. Wouldn't see mine unless I'm in a bathing suit or wearing a revealing top.
Now you ladies stop that...............you're getting a bunch of old men thinking.
:eek: :1rotfl:
rubicon
07-13-2015, 02:28 PM
When I see tattoo(s) on a person my thoughts go to those tattoo people who work the sideshows at carnivals or circuses:cold:
cmj1210
07-13-2015, 02:37 PM
Doesn't bother me and it certainly isn't new!! (BTW, I have none and my wife has 2)
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jrdonn
07-13-2015, 02:39 PM
So you DO judge a book by it's cover. That makes me very sad.
billethkid
07-13-2015, 02:44 PM
How many fortune 500 CEO's have tattoos ? I've not seen any. Ever wonder why ?
What we know is we haven't seen many on their hands and faces which is all that is seen 99% of the time.
I also doubt many fortune 500 go around in their speedo.
Dr Winston O Boogie jr
07-13-2015, 02:49 PM
Went to get a haircut @ a new business in The Villages- 2 of the cutters had tattoos all over their bodies, went to Honest John's -there is a female bar person with tattoos extending down her arms
I know tattoos are the latest fad- but I would rather not be served by a tattoo covered individual--am I alone with this feeling?
It's probably not good, but as soon as I see tattoos, especially when they are over done, I want nothing to do with the person. I feel the same about piercings. I once had a waitress come to my table with three piercing through he nose. I made and excuse and told her that I had to leave. I went to another restaurant.
Bonny
07-13-2015, 02:56 PM
It's probably not good, but as soon as I see tattoos, especially when they are over done, I want nothing to do with the person..
I know several wonderful tattooed people that would do anything in the world for someone in need. I am so glad I know them and proud to call them a friend.
Richard1366
07-13-2015, 02:59 PM
Get over it!! Welcome to the 2000's!!!
rubicon
07-13-2015, 03:00 PM
So you DO judge a book by it's cover. That makes me very sad.
Hi jrdonn:
Since I posted at 3:38 PM and you posted at 3: 39PM I'll assume your remarks are directed at me. I reread my post to confirm my recollection that never once did I say anything about judgment, opinion etc. All I said was that when I saw people with tattoo(s) my thoughts went to my first experience (mental image) with people who covered their bodies with tattoo(s). I never said anything about those individuals. In my view you pre-judged me with your judgment that I judge a book by its cover. Since we do no know one another it may be wasted but my upbringing, education and occupation are quite to the contrary. I will admit I avoid cigarette/cigar smokers like the plague
Personal Best Regards:
zonerboy
07-13-2015, 03:06 PM
Delete
Villager Joyce
07-13-2015, 03:16 PM
It seems More and more the folks on these Forums are quick to judge folks who don't agree with their mindset. The poster judging another poster by his her cover by saying that person judged another By its cover. Another poster saying to Get into the 2000s. I understand more Every day why people leave totv.
Lovey2
07-13-2015, 03:23 PM
Quote:
I haven't seen any of them nude. I have a tattoo only where my husband or doctor will see it...
Yep, same here. Wouldn't see mine unless I'm in a bathing suit or wearing a revealing top.
Now you ladies stop that...............you're getting a bunch of old men thinking.
Hahahaha...got a cute little gem in my belly button, too!:icon_twisted:
Lovey2
07-13-2015, 03:27 PM
Next time the "crazies" hit, I just bought a little red 5 speed!:loco:
rooster49
07-13-2015, 03:32 PM
go someplace else
golfing eagles
07-13-2015, 03:33 PM
I don't think I can buy into the anti-tattoo bias. Neither my wife nor I have any, and never will, but in the end it is just a skin marking. Is anyone offended if their server is black, or brown, or yellow or red? Catholic wearing a crucifix? Jewish with a star of David? Muslim with a crescent moon or whatever? Has freckles, or moles, or more appropriate for TV, seborrheic keratosis? Moustache? Beard? Pregnant? Gay? I would judge the server by the service they provide and nothing else. And I certainly wouldn't judge a restaurant by a server---chances are you could return and not even see the tattooed waitress again
rustyp
07-13-2015, 03:40 PM
What do think the chances are that the bar maid with the sleeve tattoo becomes the CEO of a fortune 500 company. Let's assume for sake of discussion she is bar tending while going to law school. Our society says she is to have equal opportunity with the tattoos but does she really?
CathyandSteveG
07-13-2015, 03:40 PM
i sure wish this forum had a "like" button!
gerryann
07-13-2015, 04:08 PM
What do think the chances are that the bar maid with the sleeve tattoo becomes the CEO of a fortune 500 company. Let's assume for sake of discussion she is bar tending while going to law school. Our society says she is to have equal opportunity with the tattoos but does she really?
Nope, unfortunately, the tattoos WILL affect her future. It's just simply a fact of life. Things are changing, but not that fast. This is NOT my opinion, I am simply answering your question.
perrjojo
07-13-2015, 04:09 PM
It seems something offends someone all the time. Remember to treat others as you wish to be treated....tattoos and all.
My nephew is a CPA who owns his own successful practice.. He is a loving Husband and father of four. He supports them in all of their activities, coaches, goes to church and makes a fine living for his family. He has tattoos, so does that negate everything else he does?
It will be increasing difficult to avoid those without tattoos. Peoples actions can offend me but NOT their appearance.
Villager Joyce
07-13-2015, 04:13 PM
go someplace else
I don't know who this was responding to, but I rest my case.
Lovey2
07-13-2015, 04:19 PM
Nope, unfortunately, the tattoos WILL affect her future. It's just simply a fact of life. Things are changing, but not that fast. This is NOT my opinion, I am simply answering your question.
agree...
Nucky
07-13-2015, 04:27 PM
Oh yea it is 2015 correct or is it 1915. One of the ways I have learned to stay younger is to roll with the flow. Our Priest has the most beautiful picture of Jesus and Clouds representing Heaven and a Cross on his back. It is breathtaking. I have several tattoos with family members names on them. They are tasteful and not on my neck, face, or forehead. I guess I understand why they turn you off as the placement of a tattoo could sway me also. It is a matter of opinion. We will be moving to The Villages in the next several months. We just want to be a positive influence on a beautiful existing community and just want to live peaceful but active life. I am presently very overweight but working on it with everything I've got. It's not easy. I respect you Mr. Chatbrat but I still hope your not my neighbor.
dewilson58
07-13-2015, 04:30 PM
i sure wish this forum had a "like" button!
Like
Vladimir
07-13-2015, 05:06 PM
Personally I don't care for tattoos that adorn pretty much the whole body (check out the NBA players). In the same manner I don't like graffiti on subway cars, buildings or overhead passes like in NYC. But that's just me and I imagine that in 30 years there will be many new retirees in TV with sagging tattoos.
By the way, first impressions do matter, as we know by the job interviews we all went on.
golfing eagles
07-13-2015, 05:33 PM
Oh yea it is 2015 correct or is it 1915. One of the ways I have learned to stay younger is to roll with the flow. Our Priest has the most beautiful picture of Jesus and Clouds representing Heaven and a Cross on his back. It is breathtaking. I have several tattoos with family members names on them. They are tasteful and not on my neck, face, or forehead. I guess I understand why they turn you off as the placement of a tattoo could sway me also. It is a matter of opinion. We will be moving to The Villages in the next several months. We just want to be a positive influence on a beautiful existing community and just want to live peaceful but active life. I am presently very overweight but working on it with everything I've got. It's not easy. I respect you Mr. Chatbrat but I still hope your not my neighbor.
First of all, welcome to TV
Second, please remember that this, like all web forums, is an anonymous site where people can hide behind their keyboards and at times express their "alter-ego" Mr. Chatbrat, with the same 90-95% odds that prevail in TV, is probably a wonderful neighbor. I wouldn't judge too harshly based on this site, I've posted a few things I wish I could take back as well.
Third, welcome to TV
graciegirl
07-13-2015, 05:46 PM
http://images.sodahead.com/polls/001132613/old_smelly_tattoo_man_xlarge.jpeg
SouthOfTheBorder
07-13-2015, 06:08 PM
I think my IQ is at least average or better. :D
I have never worked in a circus. :D
I do not have a communicable disease. :D
Not sure how my chances for a good career would have been impacted because I was 62 when this one was done. (1999) :D
I am a surprised at how judgmental some of these comments are. :(
Oh, and I also have one ear pierced. :thumbup:
By the way, I am a nice person, really, just ask. :D
Don
Cedwards38
07-13-2015, 06:16 PM
I have no problem with tattoos, and they are very common in the 20-40 age range. I also see a lot of what I believe to be Villagers with tattoos as well. I think it's just a generational difference like longer hair on men in the 60's. I'm pretty sure there are no health risks from being served by someone with tattoos. I do not want one, but I generally accept those things that do not cause problems for me. Live and let live!
lanemb
07-13-2015, 07:16 PM
I wish I could live to see the day when we do not judge people by the color of their skin (black, white, red, inked, or whatever). I am sure that will never happen as people just can't help but draw parallels and opinions based on what they see.
I don't happen to like piercings but I am not troubled by those that have them.
Most people with Tattoos just happen to like the art form, myself included. Pretend you are at a museum. Maybe even stop and admire the tattoo art and ask the bearer what inspired them. You may be surprised at the depth of their stories and inspiration. They aren't all bad.
Mikeod
07-13-2015, 07:25 PM
I don't know who this was responding to, but I rest my case.
I think the poster was advising the OP to patronize a different business, not telling the OP to go away.
Bogie Shooter
07-13-2015, 07:26 PM
I am just glad that was all solved!
PattyPan1
07-13-2015, 07:38 PM
As a rebel, I have two tatoos and don't find them unsanitary or unsightly. Perhaps I shouldn't get the battleship done on my chest. Yes, I have my gang letters on my fingers "mah jongg" Haven't gotten the teardrop yet.
kstew43
07-13-2015, 07:48 PM
Tats are common these day, but......would you be comfortable with a physician who has visible tattoo's up and down there arms and neck, visible. Or even a dentist with piercing..... What about your financial planner or banker....
Like it or not, In my opinion, visible tattoos, piercing and the like just seem to represent something lesser to me......can't help thinking that way.....but its the truth. Is it cultural, I don't know.... Is it wrong, maybe....
The thing is that a walmart employee or a gas station attendant with tats and piercing doesn't bother me...... what does that say about me.....
kcrazorbackfan
07-13-2015, 07:56 PM
How many fortune 500 CEO's have tattoos ? I've not seen any. Ever wonder why ?
Possibly because the cover them up with long sleeves? I know of 3 that have tats and when they're out of their suits, they look just like everyone else. Damn, what is this, the 1950's? Don't like tank tops or tats? Get up and walk out of the place you're patronizing; may be hard to find a place where one or the other doesn't exist.
Full disclosure - I'm 62 and have 2; got my 2nd one (a golden eagle) last year. My son has one (the KCPD SWAT insignia on his right bicep), my daughter has a couple and my honey has none (yet).
Kannon451
07-13-2015, 08:11 PM
Hi jrdonn:
Since I posted at 3:38 PM and you posted at 3: 39PM I'll assume your remarks are directed at me. I reread my post to confirm my recollection that never once did I say anything about judgment, opinion etc. All I said was that when I saw people with tattoo(s) my thoughts went to my first experience (mental image) with people who covered their bodies with tattoo(s). I never said anything about those individuals. In my view you pre-judged me with your judgment that I judge a book by its cover. Since we do no know one another it may be wasted but my upbringing, education and occupation are quite to the contrary. I will admit I avoid cigarette/cigar smokers like the plague
Personal Best Regards:
"I avoid cigarette/cigar smokers like the plague". That is one serious commitment. So, if you were hurt in an accident or needed emergency medical attention at home or needed to call the police, you would insist that only non smokers respond? Given your statement, Exactly how to you make sure that happens?
CathyandSteveG
07-13-2015, 09:02 PM
I am kind of wondering....how many residents in the local hospital right now...have a tramp stamp? or a tat on their shoulder?
They may not be your doctor....yet
how about the future president in say 2030? male or female....might they have a tattoo? Does it make them less qualified? and is it really any of our business?
I may be a senior citizen...but God i hope i remain open minded and non judgmental of others even though they are different from me.
I go back to my original statement...if you go to a business...and a person with tattoos is there and it bothers you...you have the choice to patronize the place or leave....that is your right....just like it is the right of others to tattoo their entire body if they choose to.
diversity is amazing ....it keeps life interesting....
BobandMary
07-13-2015, 09:05 PM
I'm a chicken. I do everything I can to avoid pain. However, I am fascinated by tattoos and love to learn the stories behind the artwork. I have met the nicest people that way.
BS Beef
07-13-2015, 09:17 PM
This.
The World is a magical
Place full of people
waiting to be offended
by something.
I can't believe no one has reposted this yet. This is great :BigApplause:
Graciegirl, I refuse to repost yours. That's just wrong…….funny but just so wrong :shocked:
golf2140
07-13-2015, 09:37 PM
Just look at all the old biddies in TV that have ink
Hancle704
07-13-2015, 09:42 PM
https://vimeo.com/69310297
BS Beef
07-13-2015, 10:14 PM
https://vimeo.com/69310297
Oh my gosh is that funny :thumbup:. I don't think I've seen that one. But I was sure they did a similar skit on "tramp stamps" earlier. Where it showed how the tattoos sagged as you aged.
graciegirl
07-14-2015, 01:03 AM
To those who are reading this, and have not visited here. I would like to point out that the vast majority of people who live in The Villages don't have tattoos or piercing. I would hazard a guess that it is less than one percent with ink.
I don't know what that means exactly, but it means something to a lot of us. Both the pro and the con.
Both the ones with colorful stuff on their bodies and in their hair and the ones without that I have met are nice people.
But some old dogs don't want to learn new tricks or have permanent art ON them, but probably don't care what others do.
I like to put pretty stuff on paper and canvas and clay. Some like to use their skin. But my view is that it is in style RIGHT NOW. And so was shag carpeting and fro's. Fashions go in and out. Ink is permanent. Never say never.
I really like the way this family looks;
Princess Charlotte's christening photos released - NY Daily News (http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/gossip/princess-charlotte-christening-photos-released-article-1.2286579)
DougB
07-14-2015, 03:50 AM
For the life of me, I can't understand why anyone would care about what someone they don't even know puts on their body.
karostay
07-14-2015, 04:45 AM
it offends me !!!! Would you also accept being served by someone in a tank top ??
UMM Depends on whats's in the Top:jester::jester:
Allegiance
07-14-2015, 04:56 AM
Its all part of the ME generation. Look at ME. Look at ME ME ME. Let ME Facebook and tweet every moment of MY life.
IMO it's sad.
Newbeginnings
07-14-2015, 05:22 AM
As a person who does have a tattoo, which I do regret, had it done on my 21st birthday and don't want to go through the pain of having it removed. I worked in the food industry, waitress, bartender in as I was going to school, it was required that they had to be covered, could not be seen to our customers. I worked in some very nice places and it was never an option to show the the tattoos, if you didn't cover it you were sent home to change or don't come back. I have talked to to servers here and in some of the hair salons, same thing, some places require they be covered some don't. Personally I don't want to look at someones tattooed arms or wherever there tattoos are with graphic pictures or words that could be construed as offensive, guess it depends on how much and where. I think does reflect on the business and I know see managements point when I was younger about covering up. If I am in a sports bar, maybe okay, but a place like Lopez, Hemmingways, Palmer, maybe not so attractive to show off.
rubicon
07-14-2015, 05:26 AM
"I avoid cigarette/cigar smokers like the plague". That is one serious commitment. So, if you were hurt in an accident or needed emergency medical attention at home or needed to call the police, you would insist that only non smokers respond? Given your statement, Exactly how to you make sure that happens?
Hi Kannon: sounds like I hit a nerve. I stopped smoking in 1973 and it was one the best decisions I made for the sake of my family and me. Today even the faint smell of smoke is troubling. I furrowed my brow wondering what EMT or police officer would come to the scene of an accident with a cigarette dangling from his/her lips? My comments were made partly in jest meaning that I wouldn't exactly run. By the way I find most smokers today who are keenly aware of not offending other people with their smoke. However even those smokers on a golf course fail to notice how the smoke lingers in the air .
Finally let me say that this topic illustrates how some people fail to take responsibility for their acts. One poster found it to be judgmental on the acts of others. I find it to be human nature that people will respond differently to different things because of our frames of reference. While I would avoid the odor of smoke I would not be rude or unkind to the smoker in fact the smoker would not even know because I would suffer in silence and the same goes for people with tattoos. so people can't help how they feel but they can help how they react to those feelings and again I do so in silence
Personal Best Regards:
parthree
07-14-2015, 06:07 AM
I think tattoos are going to be something we all will have to tolerate along with tongue, nose and eyebrow piercings.
It's usually people in service jobs that I notice with tattoos and piercings.
I will throw out my opinion here, I would feel very uncomfortable if my doctor, dentist, lawyer or financial advisor has tattoos and/or piercings where I can see them. If the tattoo doesn't show, it's none of my business.
To me, visible piercings, other than a pair of ear studs or ear rings, and visible, multiple tattoos say "Don't hire me". Many businesses rely on the image their employees convey to their clients and these offer higher end career opportunities.
rustyp
07-14-2015, 06:22 AM
Is any training / certification required to administer tattoo in the state of Florida. Does the department of health inspect? How often?
Did not get an answer about Florida. My friend's son owns a tattoo parlor in New York State. He informed me there is no training or certification of any sort to administer tattoos. He also stated the board of health would stop in regularly when he started the business but rarely does any more.
I'm apparently a chicken but I wouldn't consider getting a tattoo given this low level of discipline.
To those posters that have had tattoos how much and what kind of research did you do before going under the needle?
Halibut
07-14-2015, 07:16 AM
For the life of me, I can't understand why anyone would care about what someone they don't even know puts on their body.
Evidently they are likely to have hep C or AIDS or cooties and are touching your plate. ;)
kstew43
07-14-2015, 07:31 AM
Without being gross..............I wonder about gravity. For all of us, gravity is not always our friend. :D Stretchy skin over the years, it could change a nice bird tattoo into a...........well, not sure what. Could be interesting times ahead.
thats exactly what I told my grown daughter when she showed me her tattoo above her bikini area. I said when you you get pregnant that dolphin is going to grow to be a whale, and after you deliver....its going to be a shrivaled up fish.
She just laughed......but we will see....
gomoho
07-14-2015, 07:33 AM
Evidently they are likely to have hep C or AIDS or cooties and are touching your plate. ;)
That is ridiculous.
Bonny
07-14-2015, 07:37 AM
That is ridiculous.
I think that was sad as kind of a joke.
dewilson58
07-14-2015, 07:41 AM
Its all part of the ME generation. Look at ME. Look at ME ME ME. Let ME Facebook and tweet every moment of MY life.
IMO it's sad.
Or just get on an Old People's Facebook page like ToTV and generalize people.
red tail
07-14-2015, 07:42 AM
I would be willing to bet 90pct of these tattoo naysayers have had their ears pierced. a needle is a needle is a needle! why would it be ok in 1970 and not now.
graciegirl
07-14-2015, 07:55 AM
I would be willing to bet 90pct of these tattoo naysayers have had their ears pierced. a needle is a needle is a needle! why would it be ok in 1970 and not now.
I don't think that most people ever connected tattoos with a health threat. I think tattoos are accepted or rejected as a matter of personal taste.
And like with a good martini, some people don't know when to stop.
dewilson58
07-14-2015, 07:57 AM
I don't think that most people ever connected tattoos with a health threat. I think tattoos are accepted or rejected as a matter of personal taste.
And like with a good martini, some people don't know when to stop.
There you go................talking about me and my gin.
:thumbup:
jbdlfan
07-14-2015, 08:09 AM
Tattoos No Longer A Kiss Of Death In The Workplace - Forbes (http://www.forbes.com/sites/rachelhennessey/2013/02/27/having-a-tattoo-and-a-job/) I guess some of you are wrong concerning tats in the workplace.
I have two, school administrator, spouse two, customer service, daughter three, health care, soninlaw six, makes $100000 as a mechanic, daughter three, banking, son one, healthcare, daughter in law two, Disney. At least 20 of my coworkers at my school sport ink. Yea, you can't be very bright or get a good job with tatoos. By the way, have a niece with a full sleeve and she is one of the top physical therapists in her area with folks lined out the door for her services. God Bless America.
graciegirl
07-14-2015, 08:31 AM
Tattoos No Longer A Kiss Of Death In The Workplace - Forbes (http://www.forbes.com/sites/rachelhennessey/2013/02/27/having-a-tattoo-and-a-job/) I guess some of you are wrong concerning tats in the workplace.
I have two, school administrator, spouse two, customer service, daughter three, health care, soninlaw six, makes $100000 as a mechanic, daughter three, banking, son one, healthcare, daughter in law two, Disney. At least 20 of my coworkers at my school sport ink. Yea, you can't be very bright or get a good job with tatoos. By the way, have a niece with a full sleeve and she is one of the top physical therapists in her area with folks lined out the door for her services. God Bless America.
Last paragraph in article you linked above from Forbes.
"So, while workplace concealment policies differ, having a tattoo in 2013 certainly doesn’t ruin one’s chance at having a successful career. Still, a 2011 study by CareerBuilder (http://www.forbes.com/sites/jacquelynsmith/2012/01/24/careerbuilders-chimps-are-back-in-the-bowl/)shows that 31% of surveyed employers ranked “having a visible tattoo” as the top personal attribute that would dissuade them from promoting an employee. Although companies across many fields are increasingly focused on diversity and inclusion, tattoo flaunting is still probably best reserved for post-work hours."
Villager Joyce
07-14-2015, 08:59 AM
This is from another Thread With WaxMe, a sponsor
[QUOTE=Villager Joyce;1086799]There is another thread about tattoos. Is permanent makeup considered a tattoo? Are you regulated? If so by whom? How? How often? Are you associated with Lange?[/QUOTE ]
Yes permanent makeup is a tattoo
I am regulated by the state and local county Health dept. Once a Year
I Just rent from the Lange Building not in his office.
///
Thank you,
Vicki Millar
blueash
07-14-2015, 09:02 AM
Did not get an answer about Florida.
Here is a link you can explore to see Florida's regulations
There are 7 tattoo facilities in Sumter Co. All have been inspected in the last 12 months and all were "satisfactory"
Boomer
07-14-2015, 09:32 AM
50 Shades of Ink......
Oh, how I have tried to stay out of this thread. (Sigh)
I have seen some beautiful tattoos that are like works of art. I think such a tattoo works because the tattooee has chosen carefully how to display it, as one should for any treasured work of art....(Gotta luv that word tattooee . -- Such fun to say aloud. -- C'mon. Try it. -- When the word came to me, I was hoping I had made it up so I gave it a Google -- but it was already there.)
Beyond those individual works of art, I have to admit that when I see what I view as a young person having had too much work done, I have to fight the urge to take that whipper-snapper aside, sit him/her down, and have a little talk about ROI. I think about how many shares of a nice, solid dividend-paying stock could have been bought with that money..... (Does that make me helpful? Or judge-y? ...... EEK!)
'tis complicated for me. I tend to read between the lines.....(Gift? Or burden?)
So anyway, tattoos? -- the stuff of a dissertation for a PhD in sociology or maybe even anthropology......
Boomer Mead
cquick
07-14-2015, 10:12 AM
I thinks some of those that posted should be tattooed on their forehead: I AM OF SMALL MIND. I have to agree you should be more concerned about servers washing their hands then their tats. This is definitely generational as younger folks now barely even notice them.
I want to go to that footbridge you have on your avatar.
cquick
07-14-2015, 10:13 AM
I also think that tattoos and piercings are a personal statement. If a person chooses to do it, ok.
graciegirl
07-14-2015, 10:27 AM
I think,....that I would like tattoo's better if they weren't permanent. When a high percentage of marriages fail, and young peoplemove from job to job, how can they be sure that a tattoo is always going to be something they like? What if some day their teenager says, Ummm mom, could you just pick me up and not come in????
I have changed my mind about so many things over time, and have loved burnt orange and neon green at one point of my life. I have had shag carpeting and Danish Modern furniture and loved Disco. I have voted for both parties and been a regular church goer and a non attender. I don't even know who is going to show up each time I play golf.
If I had a Minion as my "sleeve", would it someday be "out" like the beany babies and olive green appliances? I think that jumpng in with both feet on trends costs money and may someday make a person look like yesterday's news.
The Buckeyes
07-14-2015, 10:30 AM
There are many fortune 500 companies that enforce dress codes which includes tattoos.
That said, instill on the young folks that tats may be detrimental to their career choices in the future, especially when meeting the general public. Have you ever seen a UPS driver with a beard, tattoos or piercing?
red tail
07-14-2015, 10:34 AM
There are many fortune 500 companies that enforce dress codes which includes tattoos.
That said, instill on the young folks that tats may be detrimental to their career choices in the future, especially when meeting the general public. Have you ever seen a UPS driver with a beard, tattoos or piercing?
I never saw one naked!
Kannon451
07-14-2015, 10:42 AM
Hi Kannon: sounds like I hit a nerve. I stopped smoking in 1973 and it was one the best decisions I made for the sake of my family and me. Today even the faint smell of smoke is troubling. I furrowed my brow wondering what EMT or police officer would come to the scene of an accident with a cigarette dangling from his/her lips? My comments were made partly in jest meaning that I wouldn't exactly run. By the way I find most smokers today who are keenly aware of not offending other people with their smoke. However even those smokers on a golf course fail to notice how the smoke lingers in the air .
Finally let me say that this topic illustrates how some people fail to take responsibility for their acts. One poster found it to be judgmental on the acts of others. I find it to be human nature that people will respond differently to different things because of our frames of reference. While I would avoid the odor of smoke I would not be rude or unkind to the smoker in fact the smoker would not even know because I would suffer in silence and the same goes for people with tattoos. so people can't help how they feel but they can help how they react to those feelings and again I do so in silence
Personal Best Regards:
It has been open season on smokers for a long time and everybody is out gunning for them. That is reality. Most smokers here will not respond on this site for fear of being attacked, but that is not me. What I find interesting about those here so disgusted and offended by smokers is their inability to recognize their own life style choices that others would/may find offensive. One recent example was an individual complaining about having to smell the cigarette smoke fingers of the hairdresser while having his mustache trimmed. My thought was what his mustache was smelling like after having three meals filtered through it along with the appropriate condiments and beverages and having it all nicely spread around with the napkins. Add in the active bacteria in there making it a science experiment, I think the hairdresser should have been wearing a mask and rubber gloves before touching this guy.
As far as smoking on a golf course, it is one of life's pleasures for me. I will do it until those who find it offensive are suceccful in having it banned. Until then, may I respectfully suggest you stay upwind of me if we cross paths on the course. One last comment about those against smoking outdoors (where currently allowed). These compliments come from those who have no problem riding behind gas golf carts all day breathing in all that crap, or having their lawns saturated with chemicals to kill pests and grow grass.
Villager Joyce
07-14-2015, 10:44 AM
Went to get a haircut @ a new business in The Villages- 2 of the cutters had tattoos all over their bodies, went to Honest John's -there is a female bar person with tattoos extending down her arms
I know tattoos are the latest fad- but I would rather not be served by a tattoo covered individual--am I alone with this feeling?
What I find interesting is this thread is full of posts saying those who don't like tattoos are narrow minded. Isn't that narrow minded? Those preaching the this is The land of the free, ridicule people on the fence or who don't care for tattoos. When trying to address whether there is a health concern the google cut and paste posters do the talk over to others. If there wasn't some concern, there wouldn't be all the agencies overseeing it. Everyone has a right to their opinion. Just because we may not or don't agree with you, doesn't make us wrong.
CathyandSteveG
07-14-2015, 10:46 AM
The thing is.....if it isn't my body....then why do I care? I gave my opinion to my children....they did exactly what they wanted to do....so when they are older...and possibly say...mom was right....it is their issue to deal with. It really does not matter if it is not in style...if what they chose is dated...etc.
I choose not to have a tattoo....I am only responsible for me. I do my best not to judge others by their looks....I try to be fair to all .
Whether we approve or disapprove...whether we like it or we don't....really does not matter.
We have one choice...and that is what we do to our own bodies. What our neighbor does to his is none of our business.
If tattooed folks bother you then avoid them...if smokers bother you...avoid them.....if alcoholics bother you...avoid them. If people with dogs bother you...avoid them.....
Warren Kiefer
07-14-2015, 11:04 AM
I am not a tattoo fan....or a piercing fan.....I would not choose to have either. But I don't think tattoos pose a health issue...so if a server, or hairdresser, or nail tech, or minister, or car mechanic...has a tattoo...or many tattoos....i do not see it as a problem for me. But if it bothers you....then you should definitely go someplace else. However...in this day and age...good luck finding a place that is a Tattoo free zone.
As for being served by someone in a tank top.....i can think of several places that tank tops are the required uniform.....
The bottom line is this...if you don't like something and it makes you unhappy...i am certain you have many choices...pick another place to get your haircut. You need to be comfortable and happy and what i think is pretty irrelevant.
OK so tell me exactly where servers wear tank tops as the required uniform. I cannot imagine having a hairy man wearing a tank top serving my food.
Warren Kiefer
07-14-2015, 11:08 AM
Don't go to Hooters or Twin Peaks, then.
I don't thing I would consider Hooters to be a upscale restaurant. Do we have anything comparable here in the Villages???
dewilson58
07-14-2015, 11:26 AM
There are good tats, there are bad tats (obviously an opinion), but these are "entertaining"...............
The 15 Worst Tattoo Fails Ever (http://www.trendelier.com/the-worst-tattoo-fails-ever/?utm_source=gemini&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=worst-tattoo&utm_content=15-disney&utm_rcreplace_2688=3520)
jbdlfan
07-14-2015, 12:47 PM
Last paragraph in article you linked above from Forbes.
"So, while workplace concealment policies differ, having a tattoo in 2013 certainly doesn’t ruin one’s chance at having a successful career. Still, a 2011 study by CareerBuilder (http://www.forbes.com/sites/jacquelynsmith/2012/01/24/careerbuilders-chimps-are-back-in-the-bowl/)shows that 31% of surveyed employers ranked “having a visible tattoo” as the top personal attribute that would dissuade them from promoting an employee. Although companies across many fields are increasingly focused on diversity and inclusion, tattoo flaunting is still probably best reserved for post-work hours."
I'm not a math teacher, but wouldn't that mean that nearly two thirds wouldn't care or don't consider it an issue. I'll take those odds, especially if I'm really good at what I do. I'd be more concerned if my perspective employee had issues that actually affected their performance, not appearance.
jbdlfan
07-14-2015, 12:54 PM
What I find interesting is this thread is full of posts saying those who don't like tattoos are narrow minded. Isn't that narrow minded? Those preaching the this is The land of the free, ridicule people on the fence or who don't care for tattoos. When trying to address whether there is a health concern the google cut and paste posters do the talk over to others. If there wasn't some concern, there wouldn't be all the agencies overseeing it. Everyone has a right to their opinion. Just because we may not or don't agree with you, doesn't make us wrong.
I don't think not liking tatoos is narrow minded, but I do think not doing business with someone because they have a tat is. I mean really? Not wanting you food served or hair cut? Like I always say, I surely hope you don't need my children's medical services in an emergency because they have them. But, as everyone one has said, you are free to do as you please.
TheVillageChicken
07-14-2015, 12:56 PM
I'm not a math teacher, but wouldn't that mean that nearly two thirds wouldn't care or don't consider it an issue. I'll take those odds, especially if I'm really good at what I do. I'd be more concerned if my perspective employee had issues that actually affected their performance, not appearance.
No, it means that 69% of surveyed employers did not rank “having a visible tattoo” as the top personal attribute that would dissuade them from promoting an employee.
joldnol
07-14-2015, 01:27 PM
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PammyJ
07-14-2015, 03:16 PM
I actually am considering getting a tattoo! Something discrete , my hubby is all for it! Anyone else considering it? Something I wouldn't have done years ago... New adventures!
dewilson58
07-14-2015, 03:24 PM
I actually am considering getting a tattoo! Something discrete , my hubby is all for it! Anyone else considering it? Something I wouldn't have done years ago... New adventures!
Good Luck with it.
Just don't plan on serving food to some people.
:22yikes:
:thumbup:
:jester:
Barefoot
07-14-2015, 03:47 PM
I actually am considering getting a tattoo! Something discrete , my hubby is all for it! Anyone else considering it? Something I wouldn't have done years ago... New adventures!
I've been wanting one for years. Something small, discrete and personally meaningful. A new adventure - yes!
red tail
07-14-2015, 04:20 PM
a small butterfly discreetly placed is very sexy....
Villager Joyce
07-14-2015, 04:22 PM
a small butterfly discreetly placed is very sexy....
....if the person you are with thinks it is sexy. Otherwise?
Villages contractor
07-14-2015, 04:27 PM
Went to get a haircut @ a new business in The Villages- 2 of the cutters had tattoos all over their bodies, went to Honest John's -there is a female bar person with tattoos extending down her arms
I know tattoos are the latest fad- but I would rather not be served by a tattoo covered individual--am I alone with this feeling?
My cousin worked at one of the eating establishments in brownwood and was always required to wear long sleeves due to having tattoos from his shoulder to his wrists. I would expect most food service workers in this area to abide by the same principles. Bar tenders and hair stylists not so much, but I've still never seen a health issue with it.
My chosen profession frowns on tattoos so I would never get one, especially a visible one, but your mileage may vary.
queasy27
07-14-2015, 04:29 PM
I actually am considering getting a tattoo! Something discrete , my hubby is all for it! Anyone else considering it? Something I wouldn't have done years ago... New adventures!
I got my first one before I moved here 5 years ago. It's an orobouros similar to the one below, in dragon form because I'm part Welsh. It circles around my shoulder and symbolizes constant re-creation or rebirth. Not a butterfly. :)
graciegirl
07-14-2015, 04:38 PM
I've been wanting one for years. Something small, discrete and personally meaningful. A new adventure - yes!
Whatever flips your switch. They don't allow them where I pole dance.
gomoho
07-14-2015, 06:09 PM
I want to go to that footbridge you have on your avatar.
That suspension bridge is only one of the many wonders in the Blue Ridge mountains I now call home.
CathyandSteveG
07-14-2015, 06:16 PM
lol gracie...you crack me up
dbussone
07-14-2015, 08:38 PM
....if the person you are with thinks it is sexy. Otherwise?
Simply stated, but right on!
rubicon
07-15-2015, 04:41 AM
It has been open season on smokers for a long time and everybody is out gunning for them. That is reality. Most smokers here will not respond on this site for fear of being attacked, but that is not me. What I find interesting about those here so disgusted and offended by smokers is their inability to recognize their own life style choices that others would/may find offensive. One recent example was an individual complaining about having to smell the cigarette smoke fingers of the hairdresser while having his mustache trimmed. My thought was what his mustache was smelling like after having three meals filtered through it along with the appropriate condiments and beverages and having it all nicely spread around with the napkins. Add in the active bacteria in there making it a science experiment, I think the hairdresser should have been wearing a mask and rubber gloves before touching this guy.
As far as smoking on a golf course, it is one of life's pleasures for me. I will do it until those who find it offensive are suceccful in having it banned. Until then, may I respectfully suggest you stay upwind of me if we cross paths on the course. One last comment about those against smoking outdoors (where currently allowed). These compliments come from those who have no problem riding behind gas golf carts all day breathing in all that crap, or having their lawns saturated with chemicals to kill pests and grow grass.
Kannon: I smoked until 1973. I quit for many reasons but the one reason driving me was i felt guilty about stinking up other people's homes, for placing my family in a smoke environment and dirty ashtrays.
I don't like facial hair and shave even if I am not leaving my home.
I drive an electric cart because I also dislike the smell of petro and the loud sound of motors telling me to lead follow or get out of the way.
I have no war on cigarette smokers and have said many of the same things you have and so we are in agreement on many issues.
finally I question the obsession about smoking by politicians/people and wonder why they believe marijuana is OK when it is a bigger health hazard ?
Personal Best Regards:
looneycat
07-15-2015, 08:03 AM
Went to get a haircut @ a new business in The Villages- 2 of the cutters had tattoos all over their bodies, went to Honest John's -there is a female bar person with tattoos extending down her arms
I know tattoos are the latest fad- but I would rather not be served by a tattoo covered individual--am I alone with this feeling?
yes
Villager Joyce
07-15-2015, 08:16 AM
yes
If you read the 150 plus responses, you would know "Yes" is not an accurate answer.
LI SNOWBIRD
07-15-2015, 08:21 AM
If you read the 150 plus responses, you would know "Yes" is not an accurate answer.
Come on Villager Joyce post 1 more to make an even 1,000 congrats
Villager Joyce
07-15-2015, 08:24 AM
Come on Villager Joyce post 1 more to make an even 1,000 congrats
You got it. There are lots more if you count the ones deleted by tbe admin.
looneycat
07-15-2015, 08:29 AM
If you read the 150 plus responses, you would know "Yes" is not an accurate answer.
so?? what difference does that make? I should care about others prejudice? I will leave them to believe what they want even if they slight all the others on here with tattoos. I have none but would not make assumptions about those who do!
red tail
07-15-2015, 08:30 AM
....if the person you are with thinks it is sexy. Otherwise?
a discreet butterfly tat is like a bikini.....sexy on some and others not so much.....:D
Villager Joyce
07-15-2015, 08:37 AM
so?? what difference does that make? I should care about others prejudice? I will leave them to believe what they want even if they slight all the others on here with tattoos. I have none but would not make assumptions about those who do!
It has nothing to do with prejudice. It has nothing to do with the remainder of your babble. It has to do with a direct answer to a question. The op is not alone.
Villager Joyce
07-15-2015, 08:59 AM
a discreet butterfly tat is like a bikini.....sexy on some and others not so much.....:D
Agree about bikini. That ship sailed for me many years ago, if I ever had a ship. :1rotfl:
manaboutown
07-15-2015, 09:41 AM
Anybody ever peek into the kitchen of an eating establishment to see who is preparing your food? I am more concerned about whether food preparers are healthy and following health standards than servers (but please keep your thumb out of my soup!). I do not want Hep B or C from cooks due to their obtaining tattoos unhygienically, either .
Anyone ever hear of Typhoid Mary?
dewilson58
07-15-2015, 09:44 AM
Anybody ever peek into the kitchen of an eating establishment to see who is preparing your food? I am more concerned about whether food preparers are healthy and following health standards than servers (please keep your thumb out of my soup!). I do not want Hep B or C from cooks due to their obtaining tattoos unhygienically, either .
Anyone ever hear of Typhoid mary?
I would love for Guy Fieri cook for me.
Warren Kiefer
07-15-2015, 11:01 AM
good luck with it.
Just don't plan on serving food to some people.
:22yikes:
:thumbup:
:jester:
have you given any thought to what a tattoo looks when one gets old and wrinkled ?? Sexy does not properly describe the blob of multi colored ink.
otherbruddaDarrell
07-15-2015, 11:48 AM
have you given any thought to what a tattoo looks when one gets old and wrinkled ?? Sexy does not properly describe the blob of multi colored ink.
I have a military tattoo on my arm that is still clear after 48 years. I had 2 others covered up with new designs when I was about 62 and they will look good till I am in the ground. I got my Indian chief on my upper arm, a it's 5 o'clock somewhere clock face with parrot on the other upper arm and an emerald Buddha on my upper thigh. Warren, I might know you....are you one of the frequent flyers at McCalls and Katie Belles? Darrell
justjim
07-15-2015, 01:10 PM
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-R5YMFI37sj0/UFSg2jPSHoI/AAAAAAAAUIY/i9d38Aoq39g/s640/old-woman-tattoo.jpg
:ho:
looneycat
07-15-2015, 06:32 PM
It has nothing to do with prejudice. It has nothing to do with the remainder of your babble. It has to do with a direct answer to a question. The op is not alone.
silly me for using english but distrusting someone because they have a tattoo (this babble equates to the op's question if you didn't understand) is called a prejudice...I didn't say a bad one, and when asked for an opinion I gave one. my opinion is owned by only me and I could care less about anyone who can't understand that, but thanks for the, er, nevermind.
gomoho
07-15-2015, 06:38 PM
have you given any thought to what a tattoo looks when one gets old and wrinkled ?? Sexy does not properly describe the blob of multi colored ink.
My daughter has a tattoo telling a story about Budha - I seriously doubt she cares if it's sexy when had it done or when she ages. It's a statement of what she believes in, not something to turn someone on with.
Kannon451
07-15-2015, 07:36 PM
Kannon: I smoked until 1973. I quit for many reasons but the one reason driving me was i felt guilty about stinking up other people's homes, for placing my family in a smoke environment and dirty ashtrays.
I don't like facial hair and shave even if I am not leaving my home.
I drive an electric cart because I also dislike the smell of petro and the loud sound of motors telling me to lead follow or get out of the way.
I have no war on cigarette smokers and have said many of the same things you have and so we are in agreement on many issues.
finally I question the obsession about smoking by politicians/people and wonder why they believe marijuana is OK when it is a bigger health hazard ?
Personal Best Regards:
Ruicon,
I can appreciate and do respect your choices.
All the best to you.
rubicon
07-16-2015, 04:12 AM
Ruicon,
I can appreciate and do respect your choices.
All the best to you.
Kannon: Thank you
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