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nana13
01-07-2016, 12:49 PM
I realize that most of the Snowbirds have returned, just go to Colony Plaza and you can experience first hand, I was in Public's yesterday, and again the rudeness is there, people in the middle of the aisles, who refuse to move their carts, a man was arguing at the Cash Register about his bill My husband went out to get the car as I stood in Line and laughed at the impatience of people, left with a full basket and my husband met me at the front of the store, to pick me up. He was parked at the end of Publc''s and a woman pulls behind him and starts blowing her horn, We were not obstructing traffic, and gave plenty of room for any car to go by. She shot me the finger, gray haired and all. If you cannot be patient, than go back to the North and leave us Southerners alone, I am so sick of your rudeness, impatience and hostility, We are all retired and have all day, to ponder what tomorrow will bring.
Barefoot
01-07-2016, 12:53 PM
She shot me the finger, gray haired and all. If you cannot be patient, than go back to the North and leave us Southerners alone, I am so sick of your rudeness, impatience and hostility,
Perhaps your gray-haired nemesis was a Southerner?
tomwed
01-07-2016, 01:32 PM
Perhaps your gray-haired nemesis was a Southerner?
She was probably from Spanish Springs. Those northerners are mighty pushy.
Cedwards38
01-07-2016, 01:40 PM
Well, at least the Westerners and Easterners are not involved in this discussion.
biker1
01-07-2016, 01:43 PM
Sorry, there are no Southerners in Florida. The South ends at the Florida state line ;-)
I realize that most of the Snowbirds have returned, just go to Colony Plaza and you can experience first hand, I was in Public's yesterday, and again the rudeness is there, people in the middle of the aisles, who refuse to move their carts, a man was arguing at the Cash Register about his bill My husband went out to get the car as I stood in Line and laughed at the impatience of people, left with a full basket and my husband met me at the front of the store, to pick me up. He was parked at the end of Publc''s and a woman pulls behind him and starts blowing her horn, We were not obstructing traffic, and gave plenty of room for any car to go by. She shot me the finger, gray haired and all. If you cannot be patient, than go back to the North and leave us Southerners alone, I am so sick of your rudeness, impatience and hostility, We are all retired and have all day, to ponder what tomorrow will bring.
RickeyD
01-07-2016, 01:53 PM
If the North won the war why all the hostility? Or, maybe the hostility instigated the war.
looneycat
01-07-2016, 02:17 PM
it was an islamic jihadist creating a distraction while the big boom for last night was set up....chilout
dewilson58
01-07-2016, 02:25 PM
I realize that most of the Snowbirds have returned, just go to Colony Plaza and you can experience first hand, I was in Public's yesterday, and again the rudeness is there, people in the middle of the aisles, who refuse to move their carts, a man was arguing at the Cash Register about his bill My husband went out to get the car as I stood in Line and laughed at the impatience of people, left with a full basket and my husband met me at the front of the store, to pick me up. He was parked at the end of Publc''s and a woman pulls behind him and starts blowing her horn, We were not obstructing traffic, and gave plenty of room for any car to go by. She shot me the finger, gray haired and all. If you cannot be patient, than go back to the North and leave us Southerners alone, I am so sick of your rudeness, impatience and hostility, We are all retired and have all day, to ponder what tomorrow will bring.
And, I only got one pickle on my cheeseburger.
Bogie Shooter
01-07-2016, 02:27 PM
I realize that most of the Snowbirds have returned, just go to Colony Plaza and you can experience first hand, I was in Public's yesterday, and again the rudeness is there, people in the middle of the aisles, who refuse to move their carts, a man was arguing at the Cash Register about his bill My husband went out to get the car as I stood in Line and laughed at the impatience of people, left with a full basket and my husband met me at the front of the store, to pick me up. He was parked at the end of Publc''s and a woman pulls behind him and starts blowing her horn, We were not obstructing traffic, and gave plenty of room for any car to go by. She shot me the finger, gray haired and all. If you cannot be patient, than go back to the North and leave us Southerners alone, I am so sick of your rudeness, impatience and hostility, We are all retired and have all day, to ponder what tomorrow will bring.
I think it is rude and unsafe to park in front of any store to wait to pick someone up. What if everyone did this instead of the privileged few?
graciegirl
01-07-2016, 02:29 PM
That's pushin' it, Looney.
Howsomever, I was just at Publix and it wasn't very crowded when I came in so I allowed myself to evaluate all of the different kinds of greens for salad until I looked around and saw I had been blocking someone. Ditto, the meat area. I wish I could park my cart somewhere not bothering folks and look for some things that I enjoy taking time to find.
I don't think that is gonna be a easy fix so I will try to remember to look around me and be more considerate. I don't argue over the bill, but I do sigh from time to time. And I NEVER honk. I think our horn is practically a virgin.
I am not a snowbird. I am a hometowner.
Bonny
01-07-2016, 02:29 PM
Hmmmm.... I'm from Michigan. Guess that makes me one of those Northerners.
Gray hair does not mean Northerner.
Rudeness, impatience & always in a hurry knows no boundaries.
We have a lot more people here this time of the year so some of these things become more noticeable.
Slow down, take a deep breath and enjoy life. :D
dewilson58
01-07-2016, 02:31 PM
I think it is rude and unsafe to park in front of any store to wait to pick someone up. What if everyone did this instead of the privileged few?
That would make it much more difficult to know who is sitt'n, who is honk'n and who is flipp'n.
Bonny
01-07-2016, 02:32 PM
That would make it much more difficult to know who is sitt'n, who is honk'n and who is flipp'n.
Kind of sounds like some song lyrics going on here. :D
tomwed
01-07-2016, 02:33 PM
If the North won the war
I'm pretty sure they did.
waterlily
01-07-2016, 03:08 PM
I was not born in The Villages. I moved here. From somewhere else. Might have been from the north. Not sure.
graciegirl
01-07-2016, 03:27 PM
I was not born in The Villages. I moved here. From somewhere else. Might have been from the north. Not sure.
And that makes you a................?
bagboy
01-07-2016, 03:31 PM
Sorry, there are no Southerners in Florida. The South ends at the Florida state line ;-)
LOL, well you could be mostly right now. But, I'm pretty sure Florida was one of the original states to secede from the union and form the CSA.
rexxfan
01-07-2016, 03:42 PM
In the 10 months I've been following TOTV these "rudeness" threads have never accomplished anything useful. It is so pointless. Bonny has the right idea. Moving on.
--
Bob C
kansasr
01-07-2016, 03:53 PM
Move on. And please, use PUNCTUATION !
tedquick
01-07-2016, 03:53 PM
She was probably from Spanish Springs. Those northerners are mighty pushy.
Oh, tomwed, you have me laughing. Thanks.
Jima64
01-07-2016, 04:01 PM
Sorry, there are no Southerners in Florida. The South ends at the Florida state line ;-)
would like you to try and tell tht to some of my relatives in northern Florida. We refer to the war as the war of northern aggression and we are just taking a break.
tomwed
01-07-2016, 04:18 PM
would like you to try and tell tht to some of my relatives in northern Florida. We refer to the war as the war of northern aggression and we are just taking a break.
We're mostly passive aggressive now. No hard feelings.
looneycat
01-07-2016, 04:34 PM
I realize that most of the Snowbirds have returned, just go to Colony Plaza and you can experience first hand, I was in Public's yesterday, and again the rudeness is there, people in the middle of the aisles, who refuse to move their carts, a man was arguing at the Cash Register about his bill My husband went out to get the car as I stood in Line and laughed at the impatience of people, left with a full basket and my husband met me at the front of the store, to pick me up. He was parked at the end of Publc''s and a woman pulls behind him and starts blowing her horn, We were not obstructing traffic, and gave plenty of room for any car to go by. She shot me the finger, gray haired and all. If you cannot be patient, than go back to the North and leave us Southerners alone, I am so sick of your rudeness, impatience and hostility, We are all retired and have all day, to ponder what tomorrow will bring.
how can you talk about carts all over when your husband parked in front of the store. yes you were impeding traffic because it is a no parking zone and if you were near the end of publix it was probably in front of a stop sign.....rudeness is in the eyes of the beholder. relax life is too short. chilout
NotGolfer
01-07-2016, 04:39 PM
One way to solve this cunudrum is to avoid Colony (particularily Publix) during peak shopping hours. We're in "high season" but despite that, people bring their "bad habits" with them. So take a breath, then another one and just do your very best not to be like them!
tomwed
01-07-2016, 04:40 PM
how can you talk about carts all over when your husband parked in front of the store. yes you were impeding traffic because it is a no parking zone and if you were near the end of publix it was probably in front of a stop sign.....rudeness is in the eyes of the beholder. relax life is too short. chilout
beside I have a friend who is a cashier. She told me that when the person that puts the groceries in the bag asks if you need to help to the car they hope you say yes. Not for the tip, just for the chance to go outside and have a friendly conversation. Send the cart and the the person that puts the groceries in the bag to the car and the driver will have even less to do.
Sandtrap328
01-07-2016, 04:42 PM
Publix lets you take your shopping cart to your car and will even have someone wheel the cart to your car and load it into the car - with no tip allowed.
Why have your husband drive to the front of the store for you to put groceries in your car?
No, in this instance, you were in the wrong. Sorry.
tomwed
01-07-2016, 04:45 PM
Publix lets you take your shopping cart to your car and will even have someone wheel the cart to your car and load it into the car - with no tip allowed.
Why have your husband drive to the front of the store for you to put groceries in your car?
No, in this instance, you were in the wrong. Sorry.
We wrote the same thing but you were more concise. well done
gerryann
01-07-2016, 04:52 PM
beside I have a friend who is a cashier. She told me that when the person that puts the groceries in the bag asks if you need to help to the car they hope you say yes. Not for the tip, just for the chance to go outside and have a friendly conversation. Send the cart and the the person that puts the groceries in the bag to the car and the driver will have even less to do.
Yikes!!! Are ya'll giving tips to the Bagboy (man, woman,person)?
Now im feeling guilty.
bagboy
01-07-2016, 05:27 PM
Yikes!!! Are ya'll giving tips to the Bagboy (man, woman,person)?
Now im feeling guilty.
Hey... I didn't get a dime.
HimandMe
01-07-2016, 05:32 PM
...another terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.....even if not in Austrailia. : )
jebartle
01-07-2016, 05:57 PM
Would someone please pass the popcorn?:popcorn::popcorn::popcorn:
outlaw
01-07-2016, 06:20 PM
Probably a D. Lot's of them in the Colony area. I never go down there, especially at night.
Fredman
01-07-2016, 06:30 PM
What is worse the people from the north or those street legal carts going 25mph blocking traffic
outlaw
01-07-2016, 06:36 PM
What is worse the people from the north or those street legal carts going 25mph blocking traffic
That's a tough call.....
goodtimesintv
01-07-2016, 06:51 PM
Mind boggling how many people think Publix at Colony Plaza is the only place to buy food around here, and that it must be done before 10am. That is when people form the clog there and their worst nasty and stubborn old f*rt traits boil over.
Try a little flexibility in life. Like grocery shopping at a later time of day, or at another of the 15 supermarkets in TV.
I don't go near that place unless it's after 7pm.
Topspinmo
01-07-2016, 07:17 PM
I only go to " publics" for emergency items, otherwise I have to get bank loan due to the highest prices round. No wonder the guy at the cash register was complaining " sticker shock and buyers remorse". Any parking lot is "danger will Roberson" as far as rudeness goes, the worse are lazy ????? that won't take the time to take there empty cart to the cart rack and just leave it in parking space. This time of the year I go either at 5am or late at night at wallyworld. At least there I didn't feel I got took as bad!
CFrance
01-07-2016, 07:18 PM
I think it is rude and unsafe to park in front of any store to wait to pick someone up. What if everyone did this instead of the privileged few?
I so agree!:BigApplause:
CFrance
01-07-2016, 07:28 PM
Kind of sounds like some song lyrics going on here. :D
The gutter to you, Babe, ain't up. (Not you, Bonny--just my favorite country & western lyric.):jester:
Daisy
01-07-2016, 08:19 PM
Interesting that you find someone blocking the aisle a problem, but don't see a problem when your husband blocks traffic in a no parking/stopping/standing zone. I've seen lots of inconsiderate people during the summer months in The Villages. Let's not brand Snowbirds as a problem. After all, they pay amenities 12 months of the year and can only use them 6 months of the year:)
tomwed
01-07-2016, 08:27 PM
Interesting that you find someone blocking the aisle a problem, but don't see a problem when your husband blocks traffic in a no parking/stopping/standing zone. I've seen lots of inconsiderate people during the summer months in The Villages. Let's not brand Snowbirds as a problem. After all, they pay amenities 12 months of the year and can only use them 6 months of the year:)
I was about to agree with you and then I noticed the pretty high horse.
njbchbum
01-07-2016, 08:45 PM
Interesting that you find someone blocking the aisle a problem, but don't see a problem when your husband blocks traffic in a no parking/stopping/standing zone. I've seen lots of inconsiderate people during the summer months in The Villages. Let's not brand Snowbirds as a problem. After all, they pay amenities 12 months of the year and can only use them 6 months of the year:)
EXACTLY! Should Emergency Services have needed access to the area - do you think the driver would have moved, made their vehicle drive around his car or wait until the groceries were loaded and he drove away?
Barefoot
01-07-2016, 09:01 PM
I think it is rude and unsafe to park in front of any store to wait to pick someone up. What if everyone did this instead of the privileged few?
:agree:
Publix lets you take your shopping cart to your car and will even have someone wheel the cart to your car and load it into the car - with no tip allowed. Why have your husband drive to the front of the store for you to put groceries in your car? No, in this instance, you were in the wrong. Sorry.
:agree:
Interesting that you find someone blocking the aisle a problem, but don't see a problem when your husband blocks traffic in a no parking/stopping/standing zone. I've seen lots of inconsiderate people during the summer months in The Villages. Let's not brand Snowbirds as a problem. After all, they pay amenities 12 months of the year and can only use them 6 months of the year:)
:agree:
Barefoot
01-07-2016, 09:36 PM
I am not a snowbird. I am a hometowner.
Gracie - We have owned a home in The Villages since 2007.
We are homeowners like you. And also seasonal residents, (aka snowbirds).
JoMar
01-07-2016, 09:40 PM
My amenity fees allow me to be rude? Now you tell me :)
lambchop285
01-07-2016, 11:36 PM
I work at a store on 466 and they are DEFINATLY back.... nasty and feeling as entitiled as ever....
Fraugoofy
01-07-2016, 11:57 PM
Interesting that you find someone blocking the aisle a problem, but don't see a problem when your husband blocks traffic in a no parking/stopping/standing zone. I've seen lots of inconsiderate people during the summer months in The Villages. Let's not brand Snowbirds as a problem. After all, they pay amenities 12 months of the year and can only use them 6 months of the year:)
Amen!
HoosierPa
01-08-2016, 05:42 AM
I bet I can guess what region of the country those rude people were from !
graciegirl
01-08-2016, 06:28 AM
Gracie - We have owned a home in The Villages since 2007.
We are homeowners like you. And also seasonal residents, (aka snowbirds).
Wasn't trying to start a fight. I am a year rounder is what I was trying to say. I was a snowbird. Year rounders sometimes appear smug because they are very fortunate to live here all of the time.
I said home towner not home owner.
RickeyD
01-08-2016, 06:42 AM
There is a higher percentage of people within the baby boom generation that will be unable to maintain two domiciles. Within the next 10 years the snowbird population will have died off and a greater percentage of Villagers will be full time residents. The seasonal log jam eventually will spill over and become a year round problem for awhile. SR 44 commercial development will increase and hopefully absorb the increased full time population. At that point the War between the States part II should coincide with the 160th anniversary of the Appomattax battle. I saw this in a dream last night so it must be true.
golfing eagles
01-08-2016, 06:53 AM
Does anyone see the irony that a thread about rudeness has deteriorated into TOTVers getting rude with each other?
tomwed
01-08-2016, 07:07 AM
Does anyone see the irony that a thread about rudeness has deteriorated into TOTVers getting rude with each other?
Don't be stupid. [insert winking emoticon]
tomwed
01-08-2016, 07:10 AM
Wasn't trying to start a fight. I am a year rounder is what I was trying to say. I was a snowbird. Year rounders sometimes appear smug because they are very fortunate to live here all of the time.
I said home towner not home owner.
I'm a year rounder too. I need to go on a diet.
golfing eagles
01-08-2016, 07:15 AM
Don't be stupid. [insert winking emoticon]
I wanted to respond "rudely" :1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:, but I was afraid at least 50% of TOTV would think I was serious
Chatbrat
01-08-2016, 07:16 AM
Different kind of rudeness-My wife and I were seated @ a bar in a country club, we finished eating and ordered another round of drinks. We also asked for our final bill. An individual came up and asked when we're leaving, I said when were finished--so don't hover over our seats.--He got ugly after that--looks like we have to stay away during happy hour, what we drink is never on the happy hour menu.
graciegirl
01-08-2016, 07:16 AM
I'm a year rounder too. I need to go on a diet.
Is that what causes it? Here I was blamin' age.
tomwed
01-08-2016, 07:18 AM
Is that what causes it? Here I was blamin' age.
The longer I'm here, the rounder I get. [insert winking emoticon eating a hot fudge sunday with nuts]
Bay Kid
01-08-2016, 07:20 AM
All people are different. Show kindness, smile and maybe others will do the same. It works!
Boomer
01-08-2016, 07:26 AM
wow.......
Regionalism.
Painting with a wide brush.
Divisionary tactics.
Why did I start my day with this thread?
golfing eagles
01-08-2016, 07:29 AM
Different kind of rudeness-My wife and I were seated @ a bar in a country club, we finished eating and ordered another round of drinks. We also asked for our final bill. An individual came up and asked when we're leaving, I said when were finished--so don't hover over our seats.--He got ugly after that--looks like we have to stay away during happy hour, what we drink is never on the happy hour menu.
I'll nominate that as the rudest story on the thread so far. I can't imagine anyone pulling that in NYC, unless he had a death wish. After all, you never know who is "carrying".
tomwed
01-08-2016, 07:31 AM
It's the political climate. I'm tired of being called a looser. I guess it's true. I can't even spell anymore.
tomwed
01-08-2016, 07:38 AM
I gotta go golf. I signed up last night to play with three woman. This ought to be fun. They're probably snowbirds from New Jersey who take 4 hours to play 9 holes. [insert winking emoticon wearing a golf hat and swinging a club that misses the ball]
Walter123
01-08-2016, 07:40 AM
Hmmmm.... I'm from Michigan. Guess that makes me one of those Northerners.
Gray hair does not mean Northerner.
Rudeness, impatience & always in a hurry knows no boundaries.
We have a lot more people here this time of the year so some of these things become more noticeable.
Slow down, take a deep breath and enjoy life. :D
Bonny, Your post should have ended this thread. Well said! There is nothing else to add.
golfing eagles
01-08-2016, 07:42 AM
I gotta go golf. I signed up last night to play with three woman. This ought to be fun. They're probably snowbirds from New Jersey who take 4 hours to play 9 holes. [insert winking emoticon wearing a golf hat and swinging a club that misses the ball]
maybe you'll get lucky (it will only take 3 hours)
Chatbrat
01-08-2016, 07:51 AM
You don't carry when you are @ a bar unless you want to go directly to jail--without passing go-its a big no no
Wing-nut2
01-08-2016, 08:23 AM
There are NO PARKING signs where your husband was parked.
PennBF
01-08-2016, 08:42 AM
I think the OP was venting some frustration at the lack of consideration by a group which may or may not be true. As I understand it we are now a serious "Vacation Location" and how many of you have gone on vacation with the attitude you paid for the room, etc. and are entitled? I believe there is a lot of this here. Many don't know how to use the circles when driving and their confusion leads to those who know getting upset. Then we have the natural angry person and the villager's are not all "happy people". A very good illustration of this are the posters to the OP's complaint and are the ones who try use it as an excuse to voice wise cracks, awful humor, and just being rude. Doing this is a fact that the persons are angry and release this anger through attempts at putting someone down. What is ironic is that the person is part of the rude being discussed and my bet is most are year around residents as are we. Net: We should respect the person who was upset and if we disagree be respectful in responding and not demonstrating the same attitude and negative behavior as being challenged. Of course there are "snowbirds" who are angry as there are villager's. I believe it is safe to say that "wise cracks" and poor humor is just another form of anger. :cold:
golfing eagles
01-08-2016, 09:01 AM
I think the OP was venting some frustration at the lack of consideration by a group which may or may not be true. As I understand it we are now a serious "Vacation Location" and how many of you have gone on vacation with the attitude you paid for the room, etc. and are entitled? I believe there is a lot of this here. Many don't know how to use the circles when driving and their confusion leads to those who know getting upset. Then we have the natural angry person and the villager's are not all "happy people". A very good illustration of this are the posters to the OP's complaint and are the ones who try use it as an excuse to voice wise cracks, awful humor, and just being rude. Doing this is a fact that the persons are angry and release this anger through attempts at putting someone down. What is ironic is that the person is part of the rude being discussed and my bet is most are year around residents as are we. Net: We should respect the person who was upset and if we disagree be respectful in responding and not demonstrating the same attitude and negative behavior as being challenged. Of course there are "snowbirds" who are angry as there are villager's. I believe it is safe to say that "wise cracks" and poor humor is just another form of anger. :cold:
You may very well be right, in some cases. But then the question becomes WHO decides what is rude, WHO decides what is poor or awful humor, and WHO has the psychic ability to ascribe intent?
graciegirl
01-08-2016, 09:12 AM
I think the OP was venting some frustration at the lack of consideration by a group which may or may not be true. As I understand it we are now a serious "Vacation Location" and how many of you have gone on vacation with the attitude you paid for the room, etc. and are entitled? I believe there is a lot of this here. Many don't know how to use the circles when driving and their confusion leads to those who know getting upset. Then we have the natural angry person and the villager's are not all "happy people". A very good illustration of this are the posters to the OP's complaint and are the ones who try use it as an excuse to voice wise cracks, awful humor, and just being rude. Doing this is a fact that the persons are angry and release this anger through attempts at putting someone down. What is ironic is that the person is part of the rude being discussed and my bet is most are year around residents as are we. Net: We should respect the person who was upset and if we disagree be respectful in responding and not demonstrating the same attitude and negative behavior as being challenged. Of course there are "snowbirds" who are angry as there are villager's. I believe it is safe to say that "wise cracks" and poor humor is just another form of anger. :cold:
Well I will say this. I don't like folks with an absence of a funny bone. I like them to be witty and disarming. AND I will also point out that there are thousands of stand up comics out of work.
And many post on here.
TNLAKEPANDA
01-08-2016, 09:12 AM
This is just another typical Bitch Post in the Talk of the Villages!
golfing eagles
01-08-2016, 09:18 AM
QUOTE=TNLAKEPANDA;1168398]This is just another typical Bitch Post in the Talk of the Villages![/QUOTE]
There are thousands of things to do in TV. Many golf, play softball or pickleball. Some dance in the squares, go to art class, go on nature hikes. Most eat out often, many drink (a lot). Then there are those that occupy their time by complaining:1rotfl::1rotfl: (I so hope that wasn't awful humor or worse yet "rude", and by which standard?)
perrjojo
01-08-2016, 10:04 AM
"THEY" always seem to cause the problems. I just wish I could determine who "THEY" are.
golfing eagles
01-08-2016, 10:07 AM
"THEY" always seem to cause the problems. I just wish I could determine who "THEY" are.
To paraphrase Oliver Perry---"We have met the enemy and they are us"
cquick
01-08-2016, 10:09 AM
I think it is rude and unsafe to park in front of any store to wait to pick someone up. What if everyone did this instead of the privileged few?
:agree:
dewilson58
01-08-2016, 10:15 AM
"THEY" always seem to cause the problems. I just wish I could determine who "THEY" are.
It's "those" people.
:cryin2:
Chi-Town
01-08-2016, 10:18 AM
To paraphrase Oliver Perry---"We have met the enemy and they are us"
Or Pogo.....
57039
tomwed
01-08-2016, 11:43 AM
To paraphrase Oliver Perry---"We have met the enemy and they are us"
Is that grammatically correct? [insert winking emoticon wearing a dunce hat]
billethkid
01-08-2016, 11:46 AM
Aren't we all glad that "they" are the minority who annoy or amuse the other 98% of us?
And as per the usual the 2% is discussed or presented as if it were a general condition.
tomwed
01-08-2016, 11:51 AM
Aren't we all glad that "they" are the minority who annoy or amuse the other 98% of us?
And as per the usual the 2% is discussed or presented as if it were a general condition.
This makes me glad.
Retiring
01-08-2016, 12:57 PM
...My husband went out to get the car as I stood in Line and laughed at the impatience of people, left with a full basket and my husband met me at the front of the store, to pick me up...
It's impossible to laugh at impatience, you were laughing at the people who were impatient. Now THAT'S rude.
Barefoot
01-08-2016, 01:02 PM
"THEY" always seem to cause the problems. I just wish I could determine who "THEY" are.
I suspect we've probably all been guilty of minor infractions like going through the "fast" check-out line with 11 items.
Or "sneaking" on a golf course after the Starter Shack is closed.
None of us are perfectly behaved at all times, thank heavens.
But if I were breaking a "rule" and inconveniencing people, I wouldn't complain about others who were annoyed at my behavior.
RichardWalker
01-08-2016, 01:16 PM
. Net: We should respect the person who was upset and if we disagree be respectful in responding and not demonstrating the same attitude and negative behavior as being challenged. Of course there are "snowbirds" who are angry as there are villager's. I believe it is safe to say that "wise cracks" and poor humor is just another form of anger. :cold:
I agree. The person was just blowing off steam. Leave them alone. We all have those days when we feel everyone we run into is plain rude.
RickeyD
01-08-2016, 01:27 PM
I agree. The person was just blowing off steam. Leave them alone. We all have those days when we feel everyone we run into is plain rude.
This is not the family dinner table. Any internet poster needs to accept his or her opinion will be challenged.
CFrance
01-08-2016, 01:28 PM
I think the OP was venting some frustration at the lack of consideration by a group which may or may not be true. As I understand it we are now a serious "Vacation Location" and how many of you have gone on vacation with the attitude you paid for the room, etc. and are entitled? I believe there is a lot of this here. Many don't know how to use the circles when driving and their confusion leads to those who know getting upset. Then we have the natural angry person and the villager's are not all "happy people". A very good illustration of this are the posters to the OP's complaint and are the ones who try use it as an excuse to voice wise cracks, awful humor, and just being rude. Doing this is a fact that the persons are angry and release this anger through attempts at putting someone down. What is ironic is that the person is part of the rude being discussed and my bet is most are year around residents as are we. Net: We should respect the person who was upset and if we disagree be respectful in responding and not demonstrating the same attitude and negative behavior as being challenged. Of course there are "snowbirds" who are angry as there are villager's. I believe it is safe to say that "wise cracks" and poor humor is just another form of anger. :cold:
OP was not respectful to begin with. She set the tone by saying she was laughing at others in line (secretly or otherwise) and blasting other people who felt inconvenienced, while failing to see the irony in what she herself was doing. I see nothing wrong with pointing that out.
After all, if you're going to dish it out, you ought to be able to take it. And that's a mighty big blanket statement about people using humor and wise cracks being angry. I don't think it's safe to say that at all.
Happy Snowbird
01-08-2016, 01:29 PM
I think people who perform acts of rudeness have the mentality of entitlement. I would guess, my opinion only, that if someone did the same rude act to them they would be upset....even tho it was ok for them to do it. I have started commenting to rude people in the hopes they will change. I feel that I have no right to complain if I don't try to change things.
golfing eagles
01-08-2016, 01:34 PM
Is that grammatically correct? [insert winking emoticon wearing a dunce hat]
How rude of you to point that out, Tom:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:
I hope you made triple bogeys this morning [ insert golfer breaking clubs over knee]:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:
tomwed
01-08-2016, 01:40 PM
I think people who perform acts of rudeness have the mentality of entitlement. I would guess, my opinion only, that if someone did the same rude act to them they would be upset....even tho it was ok for them to do it. I have started commenting to rude people in the hopes they will change. I feel that I have no right to complain if I don't try to change things.
You're entitled to your opinion.
RickeyD
01-08-2016, 01:42 PM
imparting info to or
gathering info for
Just felt I should point that out before Tom gets to it:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:
That's what happens when you sucked at grammar and hated English.
golfing eagles
01-08-2016, 01:44 PM
That's what happens when you sucked at grammar and hated English.
That's OK. Personally I find myself posting a lot of dangling participles.
No, Tom, it's not OK for you to find them:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:
CFrance
01-08-2016, 01:45 PM
imparting info to or
gathering info for
Just felt I should point that out before Tom gets to it:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:
There you go cracking yourself up again:D:D:D
Cracks me up. Like when Ugotme says Mrs. Ugotme... Makes me laugh every time.
golfing eagles
01-08-2016, 01:48 PM
There you go cracking yourself up again:D:D:D
Cracks me up. Like when Ugotme says Mrs. Ugotme... Makes me laugh every time.
I aim to please:posting:
rexxfan
01-08-2016, 01:48 PM
> Does anyone see the irony that a thread about rudeness has deteriorated into TOTVers getting rude with each other?
Not at all surprising, it is what happens with all these pointless threads.
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Bob C
RickeyD
01-08-2016, 02:00 PM
> Does anyone see the irony that a thread about rudeness has deteriorated into TOTVers getting rude with each other?
Not at all surprising, it is what happens with all these pointless threads.
--
Bob C
Just a bunch of old people bullsh--ing and busting. Rude ? Not really. Pointless, yep.
Bonny
01-08-2016, 02:12 PM
But, sometimes pointless threads can be fun and often amusing. Good to chuckle once in awhile. :D :thumbup:
dewilson58
01-08-2016, 02:16 PM
But, sometimes pointless threads can be fun and often amusing. Good to chuckle once in awhile. :D :thumbup:
Without pointless threads, I could never have reached 1,500 posts.
:throwtomatoes:
RickeyD
01-08-2016, 02:20 PM
Without pointless threads, I could never have reached 1,500 posts.
:throwtomatoes:
Good point.
Bonny
01-08-2016, 02:32 PM
Without pointless threads, I could never have reached 1,500 posts.
:throwtomatoes:
That's how I got to over 3,300. A lot of pointless talk. LOL :loco::girlneener::1rotfl:
golfing eagles
01-08-2016, 02:36 PM
And without pointless threads, I never could have used :1rotfl: 17 or 18 billion times:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:
(I like :1rotfl:)
Walt.
01-08-2016, 05:36 PM
Pointless? Well... unless there was a coyote standing in line at Publix I really don't care...
applesoffh
01-08-2016, 06:00 PM
Has nothing to do with Publix per se, but I see everyone talking about Snowbirds. Does anyone know where it would be possible to find out the number of renters in the area 12/1 - 3/31 as opposed to owners who are true snowbirds during that time? I have nothing against renters, but owners tend to have different attitudes than people who have no vested interest here. I know, I know...I can read the complaints already, so perhaps I'm not stating myself clearly, but I'm pretty sure most will get the gist of what I'm saying.
ukbill70
01-08-2016, 06:23 PM
I think it was Jeff Foxworthy who said " Florida is a Northern state that attached itself to the South"
gerryann
01-08-2016, 06:27 PM
Has nothing to do with Publix per se, but I see everyone talking about Snowbirds. Does anyone know where it would be possible to find out the number of renters in the area 12/1 - 3/31 as opposed to owners who are true snowbirds during that time? I have nothing against renters, but owners tend to have different attitudes than people who have no vested interest here. I know, I know...I can read the complaints already, so perhaps I'm not stating myself clearly, but I'm pretty sure most will get the gist of what I'm saying.
Didn't you ever rent here before you bought?
tomwed
01-08-2016, 06:31 PM
I think when you go on vacation it's natural to overdue it and not be yourself. You're on vacation and you think that you won't get hurt and the clock is ticking before you return. You want to squeeze in all the fun stuff, not shopping or safety. Back home you don't drive a golf cart to get around. If you did, you wouldn't wear earplugs. You would know about the guy who didn't hear the truck coming.
I'll bet Disneyworld has many stories about foolish vacation accidents by ordinary people that get caught up in the hoopla..
Barefoot
01-08-2016, 06:49 PM
Does anyone know where it would be possible to find out the number of renters in the area 12/1 - 3/31 as opposed to owners who are true snowbirds during that time? I have nothing against renters, but owners tend to have different attitudes than people who have no vested interest here. I know, I know...I can read the complaints already, so perhaps I'm not stating myself clearly, but I'm pretty sure most will get the gist of what I'm saying.
I'm curious. When you find out the number of renters, what are you planning to do with the information?
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