Trying to find some friends - new here

[FRONNAR]

Hello! New to TV since Aug...my husband & I are in our 60's moved here from NY. Can't seem to find ppl to mingle (for lack of a better word) with. We enjoy the pool, love having wine late afternoon, good food and conversation. Love all kinds of music...we are such warm friendly ppl that this is a harder transition than I thought it would be. :confused:PPL don't seem to be overly friendly so far...ppl we've come across are a bit clickie...I'm feeling a little down about it. You've got to have friends & ppl to talk to. Thanks for reading my post!

[DonH57]

You'll find friends. We had a difficult time as well. Sometimes it may a while. Check out the weekly recreation guide for the many social clubs that offer home state, hobbyist, and game clubs. In the mean time please free your schedule for the monthly TOTV meet and greet always held on the 3rd friday of every month at 3:oo pm at Crisper's restaurant in the Southern Trace shopping center. All are welcome.

[dnobles]

I sent you a pm

[Liebdoc]

Sent you a pm

[JoMar]

Assume you moved into an older community and purchased pre-owned.....those are harder. You might want to host an open house or driveway party and create a neighborhood mixer. Then you ask the appropriae questions around what neigborhood activities and how you can join in. Also, do it without the expectation of reciprocity....that doesn't always happen. The TOTV mixer is a good start but most likely will not include your closest neighbors, as do the social clubs. It will take time, you will find your group but you may have to reach out more than others will reach out to you.

[VILLAGERBB]

:welcome:Hi...sent you a Private Message.

[villagetinker]

Thursday in the Daily Sun is the Recreational News, it has list of the clubs in the villages. This will give you a starting place to meet people with similar interests. You can also provide a follow up message with specific interests you have, which should lead to others with similar interests. For example, we do not golf, but we both like to bowl, so we have joined bowling leagues, and made several new friends. My wife took several courses at LLLC (before it closed) and met several people.
Hope this helps.

[lanabanana73]

I agree, it can be a little hard to break into the social scene in The Villages, but it will come. Join clubs! Find people of like interests. I love the idea of hosting a driveway party. Sit in the front of your house having your wine, in the late afternoons and wave to everyone who goes by. Make sure you have an extra glass, in case someone stops! The fact that our outdoor spaces are in the back of our houses, I believe contributes to less "mingling". I'd love to figure out a way to put a sitting area in the front of my house, for this reason.

Good luck!

[Madelaine Amee]

You could start right here on TOTV. Tell people what Village you are in and say that on such and such an afternoon you would like to have others who are also looking for companionship to stop by.

[2BNTV]

Host a driveway party by posting a sign in your neighborhood mail center. Have everyone bring a dish to share and BYOB.

Another is to send notes to your neighbors for a breakfast party.

Crisper's meeting is every third Friday of the month and you can meet people form TOTV. Next one is Jan 20th at 3 PM in the The Southern Trace Shopping Plaza on 466.

Eventually you'll find people who will seem like family. :smiley:

[daveb48]

:pepper2::pepper2:I am a snowbird but own a home in TV. I found the best way to meet people in my neighborhood was simply to walk my dog. Many of them still don't know me that well but they all know my dog. Seriously, the best way to meet new people is to go where they are.:pepper2::pepper2:

[Henryk]

Hello! New to TV since Aug...my husband & I are in our 60's moved here from NY. Can't seem to find ppl to mingle (for lack of a better word) with. We enjoy the pool, love having wine late afternoon, good food and conversation. Love all kinds of music...we are such warm friendly ppl that this is a harder transition than I thought it would be. :confused:PPL don't seem to be overly friendly so far...ppl we've come across are a bit clickie...I'm feeling a little down about it. You've got to have friends & ppl to talk to. Thanks for reading my post!

Learn to play Mah Jongg. You'll have plenty of friends.
About Thursday's Rec News insert, it does not cover all the clubs--only those meeting that week. Check the Clubs & Activities tab above for a complete list.

[bbbbbb]

Hello! New to TV since Aug...my husband & I are in our 60's moved here from NY. Can't seem to find ppl to mingle (for lack of a better word) with. We enjoy the pool, love having wine late afternoon, good food and conversation. Love all kinds of music...we are such warm friendly ppl that this is a harder transition than I thought it would be. :confused:PPL don't seem to be overly friendly so far...ppl we've come across are a bit clickie...I'm feeling a little down about it. You've got to have friends & ppl to talk to. Thanks for reading my post!

Hi and cheer up. Mark Twain said if you meet ten folks and one of them becomes a friend, you are very lucky.
Yes, it is clicky here, but,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, that is the message being sent to you from them,,,,,,,,,,,,,, LEAVE EM ALONE.
A suggestion,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, get into volunteering and you will find like minded friends. There is a big need for reading and writing tutors at Tutors for Kids, they do a good job.
Check with Frank and Carolyn, Russo.

bbbbbb :pepper2:

[Nucky]

That meeting at Crispers seemed to do the trick for me. I'm a very Shy, Reserved, Quiet Person. It helped bring me out of my shell and now I'm more fun then a bag full of snakes! :jester:

[Mamaderby]

What village are you in?

[Avista]

Have you become affiliated with a church? New Covenant United Methodist has a special group for newcomers. Moami
I think it means moving on after moving in.. I hear such great things about this group.

[ronsroni]

Fear Not!! We are not all cliquey here. I did not want to be here when we moved. We are from LI, Nassau county. We are 66 and 62 respectively. I am the youngster and the female Roni, He is Ronnie nd 66. We are fun. NOt real drinkers but I am a party in a lemonade. If you are in need of a meet and greet, drop a line here and I will get back to you. IT GETS BETTER. I would not go back to NY if "something happened" to Ronnie. I love my home here now. It took me a solid year....my choice. Santo Domingo is our area. Where are you?WELCOME HOME!

[golow]

Another BIG endorsement for Tutors for Kids!!! Frank and Carolyn are my new personal heroes! Additionally, it is a joy to interact with all the good people that volunteer with that program. The volunteer work itself is very rewarding and help keeps me "balanced" with my life in the bubble.

[mattiegent]

Geez, my husband sent you a PM, no response, guess you now made a bunch of friends..Good Luck...

[permanentvacation]

live in Connecticut, work in manhattan, went to suny delhi. where ya from in ny?

[Villager Dude]

Trust Me. It wont take long once you start going to activities but soon thereafter you will have more friends than you have time.

Good Luck you will get there and will love this place. Be as active as you can.

[dnobles]

Same with me

[dnobles]

Mattiegent same with me

[MarkGoldberg]

You didn't mention what Village you moved to. The Villages is huge and friends tend to be from your Village or nearby Villages. If you bought preowned I understand it is a little bit more difficult since people have already established relationships with neighbors. Regardless, find a game/club/activity you like and go to it. That way you start with h common interests. Find out if your Village has a website and join. There are generally scials and clubs (golf/pickleball/cards) wherr you can find common interests.
I can only tell you that we moved into a new. Neighborhood and it was easy to meet people. We also met lots of new friends at clubs relating to your local sports teams.
Good luck.
Hello! New to TV since Aug...my husband & I are in our 60's moved here from NY. Can't seem to find ppl to mingle (for lack of a better word) with. We enjoy the pool, love having wine late afternoon, good food and conversation. Love all kinds of music...we are such warm friendly ppl that this is a harder transition than I thought it would be. :confused:PPL don't seem to be overly friendly so far...ppl we've come across are a bit clickie...I'm feeling a little down about it. You've got to have friends & ppl to talk to. Thanks for reading my post!

[Dr Winston O Boogie jr]

Hello! New to TV since Aug...my husband & I are in our 60's moved here from NY. Can't seem to find ppl to mingle (for lack of a better word) with. We enjoy the pool, love having wine late afternoon, good food and conversation. Love all kinds of music...we are such warm friendly ppl that this is a harder transition than I thought it would be. :confused:PPL don't seem to be overly friendly so far...ppl we've come across are a bit clickie...I'm feeling a little down about it. You've got to have friends & ppl to talk to. Thanks for reading my post!

Come to a meeting of The Beatlemaniacs of The Villages some Friday morning at the O'Dell rec center. You'll meet a lot of interesting friendly people with a wide variety of interests.

You also meet musicians that play all over The Villages in bands that play many different types of music.

[John_W]

You mention the pool, that's a good meeting spot. Others would be the pickleball courts and joining MVP Health Club.

[Lauren Sweeny]

Hi ,We understand the difficulties in finding folks to hang around with. Give us a call at 352-633-3339 Mike & Lauren We can get together this weekend ? 🍷🍺🍕🍦