Should we buy in the Villages-Wife will live there full time?

[Antlaf]

Real deal folks?

[jimbo2012]

Wait till Tuesday

[fred53]

It puzzles me as to why you ask strangers for advice like this. Since no one knows your likes, dislikes, fears, hobbies etc. how could you ever possibly expect a helpful answer. Assuming that you're an adult I would think a life full of experiences would qualify you to make this sort of decision for yourself.

[HimandMe]

Yes but not today!

[ureout]

great weekend to check it out... don't forget your sunblock

[Bogie Shooter]

:what:

I agree with Fred.

[fw102807]

Whats not to love?

[John_W]

Should we buy in the Villages-Wife will live there full time?

I know that goes on. I'm at MVP Health Club at Brownwood 5 days a week and I know of two ladies in my classes who live here fulltime and their husbands are back working in the north. I also know a retired teacher at the gym and his wife is back working in the midwest. I'm sure there are many more.

[golfing eagles]

Real deal folks?

I think if you pose a question like that on a forum composed mainly of people who already bought here, I can reasonably predict the answers.
Kind of like---
Q: How do you like the new Edsel you bought?
A: Great!!!! Best car ever built:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

[Madelaine Amee]

It puzzles me as to why you ask strangers for advice like this. Since no one knows your likes, dislikes, fears, hobbies etc. how could you ever possibly expect a helpful answer. Assuming that you're an adult I would think a life full of experiences would qualify you to make this sort of decision for yourself.

Excellent reply Fred ...............

But, to the original poster ........... I would absolutely love to have my husband working back up north and keeping me in the style to which I would like to become accustomed! This place is a paradise for a woman, especially if she does not have to take care of a man!:jester:

[golfing eagles]

Excellent reply Fred ...............

But, to the original poster ........... I would absolutely love to have my husband working back up north and keeping me in the style to which I would like to become accustomed! This place is a paradise for a woman, especially if she does not have to take care of a man!:jester:

Be careful what you wish for----I wish I could still take care of my wife.

[Madelaine Amee]

Be careful what you wish for----I wish I could still take care of my wife.

I'm sorry for the pain GE. Thoughtless of me.

[Villageswimmer]

Be careful what you wish for----I wish I could still take care of my wife.


Aww. I'm so sorry.

[golfing eagles]

I'm sorry for the pain GE. Thoughtless of me.

No, it wasn't---it was a good joke. I guess I'm still a bit overly sensitive.

[Sgroemm]

Antlaf, there is nothing wrong with your question. I imagine you are carefully weighing your options and just want some opinions or additional thoughts you have not considered from current residents of TV.
Along with Irma and her wrath....some things to consider:
Will your wife be happy as a "single" in TV; will she be open to joining activities and events "going solo?"
Does absence make the heart grow fonder or more suspicious (what is my spouse doing with all of their alone time?) in your relationship?
Do your plans include your eventual retirement and move to TV in the coming years?
Can your budget easily afford the cost and upkeep of two homes? Interest rates are low...perhaps now is the best time to buy?
How will you handle travel to and from TV? accessible? cost?

I think it is intelligent to gather as many opinions as possible and then make your final decision with your wife. Personally, I own a home in TV and love it.

[rubicon]

Excellent reply Fred ...............

But, to the original poster ........... I would absolutely love to have my husband working back up north and keeping me in the style to which I would like to become accustomed! This place is a paradise for a woman, especially if she does not have to take care of a man!:jester:

Now ,now Madelaine that remark cuts as much as it kicks:D

I recall a conversation recorded between ( I believe it was?) Winston Churchill and Lady Astor that I'll paraphase. Lady Astor exclaimed to Churchill "if you were my husband I'd offer you poison. and Winston replied to Lay Astor if you were my wife I gladly take it.

[asianthree]

One of us lives in TV retired, and other half still working full time. We both cook and have hobbies that keep us busy. That said living alone has its challenges. During the day is great, its dinner time until bedtime can be very lonely. It's not like when you were young and out with friends all night.

We both traveled extensively so we are used to being alone. But it can also be a challenge when one comes back to live together.

[Madelaine Amee]

Now ,now Madelaine that remark cuts as much as it kicks:D

I recall a conversation recorded between ( I believe it was?) Winston Churchill and Lady Astor that I'll paraphase. Lady Astor exclaimed to Churchill "if you were my husband I'd offer you poison. and Winston replied to Lay Astor if you were my wife I gladly take it.

Oh Rubicon, it's one of those things one says on a whim and then says "Oh, s..t I should have thought twice about putting that in writing". I have been married forever and would be lost without him, hence I call him my otherhalf, but he also traveled on business from Monday to Friday and it was really quite difficult to retire and find out I was actually married full time - I had to learn to cook all over again:yuck:! Plus, we both had corporate jobs and were used to doing our own thing, our investment broker actually calls us two strong willed control freaks! :)

[Bogie Shooter]

Antlaf, there is nothing wrong with your question. I imagine you are carefully weighing your options and just want some opinions or additional thoughts you have not considered from current residents of TV.
Along with Irma and her wrath....some things to consider:
Will your wife be happy as a "single" in TV; will she be open to joining activities and events "going solo?"
Does absence make the heart grow fonder or more suspicious (what is my spouse doing with all of their alone time?) in your relationship?
Do your plans include your eventual retirement and move to TV in the coming years?
Can your budget easily afford the cost and upkeep of two homes? Interest rates are low...perhaps now is the best time to buy?
How will you handle travel to and from TV? accessible? cost?

I think it is intelligent to gather as many opinions as possible and then make your final decision with your wife. Personally, I own a home in TV and love it.

Yes, like Fred said.

[Madelaine Amee]

One of us lives in TV retired, and other half still working full time. We both cook and have hobbies that keep us busy. That said living alone has its challenges. During the day is great, its dinner time until bedtime can be very lonely. It's not like when you were young and out with friends all night.

We both traveled extensively so we are used to being alone. But it can also be a challenge when one comes back to live together.

Congratulations, you put it so much better than I did!

[Antlaf]

I know that the ? was very vague-but I read that you get nickel and dimed. You can't do too much w/out "The Boards" OK. I want to know especial from people that live there is it all that it is "SAID" to be-or will I be looking to move on in a year or two? Thanks-I can take a ribbing-but beware that I can give it also!

[Bogie Shooter]

I know that the ? was very vague-but I read that you get nickel and dimed. You can't do too much w/out "The Boards" OK. I want to know especial from people that live there is it all that it is "SAID" to be-or will I be looking to move on in a year or two? Thanks-I can take a ribbing-but beware that I can give it also!

You should strongly consider a visit for you and your wife, to see what The Villages is all about.

This site gives a lot of "official" information.
Village Community Development Districts (http://www.districtgov.org)

These are other threads on TOTV. If you cannot find your answers here.....there probably are none.
Enjoy!


https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/singles-124/thinking-moving-tv-232229/?highlight=living+villages
https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/villages-florida-general-discussion-73/helpful-advice-warnings-brand-new-villagers-72476/?highlight=living+villages
https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/villages-florida-new-members-forum-115/55-community-245508/?highlight=living+villages
https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/villages-florida-general-discussion-73/villages-your-home-now-244640/?highlight=living+villages
https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/villages-florida-general-discussion-73/how-would-you-describe-typical-villager-242820/?highlight=living+villages
https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/villages-florida-new-members-forum-115/smart-rent-while-looking-right-home-240837/?highlight=living+villages

[graciegirl]

Are you trying to find a place to farm out your wife?

[Antlaf]

I asked because I read the nickel and dime you to death. Very restrictive-can not-do this or that-etc.. I ask because you people live there.
I live in a co-op-rules-rules-I have a NJ shore house in a condo-area-rules/rules-20 yr Military Police-rules/rules-now Civilian Law Enforcement-rules/rules-retiring-just need to know if it is way too crowded. Worth the money-or does anyone suggest another HOA area-That is ALL!

[justjim]

I think if you pose a question like that on a forum composed mainly of people who already bought here, I can reasonably predict the answers.
Kind of like---
Q: How do you like the new Edsel you bought?
A: Great!!!! Best car ever built:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

The few that bought an Edsel and kept it are glad they had this classic to pass on to one of their kids who had an appreciation for a classic car. Worth much more than they paid new.

OP, likely appreciated the information that apparently are others in TV in a similar position as him and his wife.

[Henryk]

I asked because I read the nickel and dime you to death. Very restrictive-can not-do this or that-etc.. I ask because you people live there.
I live in a co-op-rules-rules-I have a NJ shore house in a condo-area-rules/rules-20 yr Military Police-rules/rules-now Civilian Law Enforcement-rules/rules-retiring-just need to know if it is way too crowded. Worth the money-or does anyone suggest another HOA area-That is ALL!

I think you really need to come and check it out together. Look up TV Lifestyle program. You can rent for one week, includes a golf cart, and is often located near one of the squares. You'll learn a lot that can't be explained in a few paragraphs.

[Bonny]

Have you ever been to the Villages? I would think you would come and visit to check it out. It's really hard trying to answer these questions if you don't know anything about the Villages.

[Bonny]

I asked because I read the nickel and dime you to death. Very restrictive-can not-do this or that-etc.. I ask because you people live there.
I live in a co-op-rules-rules-I have a NJ shore house in a condo-area-rules/rules-20 yr Military Police-rules/rules-now Civilian Law Enforcement-rules/rules-retiring-just need to know if it is way too crowded. Worth the money-or does anyone suggest another HOA area-That is ALL!
It's big, we have lots of people and it gets very crowded in season and we have rules.

[justjim]

The Villages has deed restrictions but is not in a true sense a HOA similar to a Condo Association. Our deed restrictions are designed to maintain your property values and keep the community in a condition where you are proud of your neighborhood. We are a Community Development District. Refer to post number 24 for some very good additional information.

Finally, you must visit The Villages and spend some quality time here with your wife to really see what TV is all about.

[CWGUY]

It's big, we have lots of people and it gets very crowded in season and we have rules.

:wave: I agree!

It's big,(I don't like) we have lots of people(I don't like) and it gets very crowded in season(I don't like) and we have rules.( I LIKE VERY MUCH )

If you don't like rules..... consider someplace else. Thanks.

[jojo]

To the OP, I believe many of us are in high states of stress, hence some of the responses. This TOTV board was most helpful to me in making the decision to move here, during the house hunting process, and for the last nine years in finding medical personnel, house maintenance folks, and learning about fun happenings and things to do in The Villages. When we moved here, my husband was still spending most of his time in Ohio. I met lots of new friends to go to the square with, eat out etc. I quickly felt comfortable by myself in a new environment. After nine years, I still wake up every morning thrilled to be in TV. There are no major cons and lots of positives. Obviously you will want to visit and do more research to see if it's a fit for you but your question to this board is a fair one.

[John_W]

To the OP, I believe many of us are in high states of stress, hence some of the responses...

You're from New Jersey. Can you imagine going on a New York message board the day Hurricane Sandy hit and asked a bunch of questions about lifestyle on the Jersey Shore? As others have mentioned, use the Lifestyle Preview Plan and stay between 4 and 14 days at a Villages Home and have an agent show you what's available.

Actually if you want to live in The Villages proper and own a new home, time is running out. The Villages and the 35 square miles and 115,000 residents that make up The Villages between Hwy 42 and Hwy 44 is just about built out. On the homes for sale site, what you see available in the Village of Pine Hills and the Village of Osceola is all that is left. The developers have bought thousands of acres of land south of the Florida Turnpike and that will be The New Villages. As of right now, there is no golf courses, no squares, no golf cart access to what we have from that area. Make up your mind and buy something probably within the next six months, after that resales is all there will be, and that means the prices will go up or buy in The New Villages of Fenney.

[kcrazorbackfan]

To the OP, I believe many of us are in high states of stress, hence some of the responses. This TOTV board was most helpful to me in making the decision to move here, during the house hunting process, and for the last nine years in finding medical personnel, house maintenance folks, and learning about fun happenings and things to do in The Villages. When we moved here, my husband was still spending most of his time in Ohio. I met lots of new friends to go to the square with, eat out etc. I quickly felt comfortable by myself in a new environment. After nine years, I still wake up every morning thrilled to be in TV. There are no major cons and lots of positives. Obviously you will want to visit and do more research to see if it's a fit for you but your question to this board is a fair one.

I totally agree. The only time we have not liked living here, is right now. At least in the Midwest, when we knew bad storms were coming, AND IT WASN'T HEARING ABOUT IT FOR 2 WEEKS, we would get into a basement; an hour later everything was over and life went on.

People are really edgy right now because of Irma; later this week everything will be better and people will respond with kind and helpful answers.

[Antlaf]

Thanks to all that responded. I was looking around and in The Villages last month( On line). I decided to retire last month this upcoming April 2018. We are from Philly PA-w/NJ Home-Wife wants a mild winter-I am a road dog-will live between the 3 homes. I can appreciate everyone being on edge-timing is everything and I just found this Board today. So to all that gave me help thanks-didn't think the answers were too terse. Been in Law Enforcement since I was 18. LOL -Heard much worse-Time to hang up the spurs and gun-just looking to see if the TV is worth my time-trying to give my wife of 31 yrs a great retirement also. (US Fed Govt Employee 38 yrs.)

[John_W]

...Been in Law Enforcement since I was 18. LOL -Heard much worse-Time to hang up the spurs and gun-just looking to see if the TV is worth my time-trying to give my wife of 31 yrs a great retirement also. (US Fed Govt Employee 38 yrs.)

There are a lot of retired police here, and I'm sure they have a club or two. You might be able to get some insight from them, you might want to make some contacts on your end and probably find out some have retired here.

[Ragman]

Irma was just here for a "Lifestyle Visit".

Didn't like it and went north.

[Antlaf]

I like that update-hope all are well!

[plrbr1120]

No one can decide that except you and your spouse. As for us....been here 5 years and still lovin' it.

[kcrazorbackfan]

Thanks to all that responded. I was looking around and in The Villages last month( On line). I decided to retire last month this upcoming April 2018. We are from Philly PA-w/NJ Home-Wife wants a mild winter-I am a road dog-will live between the 3 homes. I can appreciate everyone being on edge-timing is everything and I just found this Board today. So to all that gave me help thanks-didn't think the answers were too terse. Been in Law Enforcement since I was 18. LOL -Heard much worse-Time to hang up the spurs and gun-just looking to see if the TV is worth my time-trying to give my wife of 31 yrs a great retirement also. (US Fed Govt Employee 38 yrs.)

There are a lot of retired police here, and I'm sure they have a club or two. You might be able to get some insight from them, you might want to make some contacts on your end and probably find out some have retired here.

My wife and I are both LEO's (her Federal, me State). As John_W said, there are lots of LEO's here (7 in my small neighborhood alone). Welcome.

[floodcolleen]

I am an interesting Villager myself (only 41, epileptic - but got miracle brain surgery!! Doc giving back drivers license!!!) and I have been here 3 years now. Coming from North CA - had such a pic in my head of the Villages. (My mom is here already - so older conservatives - having tea and going to bed early...) Some of those might be here too - but so many who are over 60 and act like they are my peers! LOL! I rave about this place online - "think of your fav activity, hobby, passion in life - there is a club for it! If not - you can make one!!!" I am a big artist and did theater during my school years, there are around 10 different theater groups, all levels, from retired Broadway to those who wanna try it out! (I have worked with both - and had an awesome time!!) Activities, friends, a new path in life - thats waiting for you!

[Dr Winston O Boogie jr]

I wouldn't move here. It's getting so crowded that no one is moving here.

[rjm1cc]

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