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Allegiance
05-23-2018, 06:38 PM
Parents win suit to kick 30-year-old deadbeat son out of their house (https://nypost.com/2018/05/22/parents-win-suit-to-kick-deadbeat-son-out-of-their-house/)

manaboutown
05-23-2018, 06:39 PM
Maybe that will become a trend. I certainly hope so!

Kenswing
05-23-2018, 06:43 PM
It's a sad day when you have to go to court to get rid of your kids. Whatever happened to the old, "Son, you can either get a job, go to school or enlist in the military. Or you can get out"..

Allegiance
05-23-2018, 06:49 PM
"Michael Rotondo*told UK Daily Mail*outside the courtroom, “I am just so outraged.” The British news site added that Rotondo says he has been “taunted by conservative groups for being a ‘liberal millennial.'” The site noted: “He also said his parents don’t provide food or do his laundry for him.”"

"The court documents say that Rotondo claimed he was promised he wouldn’t have to work on Halloween 2015 and was reprimanded when he didn’t show up that day.*"

"In one of their written requests, the parents offered to give their son $1,100 to go and*included a list*of suggestions:

1) Organize the things you need for work and to manage an apartment. Note: You will need stuff at [redacted]. You must arrange the date and time through your Father so he can set it up with the tenant.
2) Sell the other things you have that have any significant value, (e.g. stereo, some tools etc.). This is especially true for any weapons you may have. You need the money and will have no place for the stuff.
3) There are jobs available even for those with a poor work history like you. Get one — you have to work!
4) If you want help finding a place your Mother has offered to help you."


Michael Rotondo: 5 Fast Facts You Need to Know – Heavy.com (https://heavy.com/news/2018/05/michael-rotondo/amp/)


This wackadoodle actually owns guns. He really loves Halloween.

Hmmm.

Bjeanj
05-23-2018, 07:05 PM
I’ve been following this story, and have asked myself “what’s wrong with him?” I think some people on this site use the word “entitled” too loosely, but that’s the word that came to my mind.

KEVIN & JOSIE
05-23-2018, 09:43 PM
Does this sound familiar? Must be everywhere.

A judge sides with parents and rules their 30-year-old son, Michael Rotondo, must move out - CNN (https://www.cnn.com/2018/05/22/us/judge-rules-son-must-move-out-new-york-trnd/index.html)

manaboutown
05-23-2018, 09:48 PM
Yup!

manaboutown
05-23-2018, 09:50 PM
He is entitled, a leech and crazy.

retiredguy123
05-23-2018, 10:08 PM
I really don't understand this story. If I were the parents, I would never go to court. I would change the locks, move all of his stuff out on the street, and, if necessary, hire a bouncer to make sure he never came near the house. He has no right to enter someone else's house without permission. Why do you need to go to court? This is a no brainer. No reason to go to court.

manaboutown
05-23-2018, 10:13 PM
At this point he is a trespasser.

patfla06
05-23-2018, 10:45 PM
Why is he surprised that he is NOT entitled to still be living with Mom & Dad.

He is 30 and feels it’s his RIGHT to live at home, not work
or support himself.

What am I missing? :loco:

ColdNoMore
05-24-2018, 12:04 AM
AMAZING...simply amazing! :oops:

Walking Definition Of An Entitled Millennial Swears He'''s Not An Entitled Millennial (https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/walking-definition-entitled-millennial-swears-221554083.html)

“So that … was one of the most surreal interviews we’ve taken part of here in the last little while,” Baldwin said. “But I genuinely wish him and his parents luck.”

So … anyone need a roommate?


:1rotfl:

Madelaine Amee
05-24-2018, 06:16 AM
I really don't understand this story. If I were the parents, I would never go to court. I would change the locks, move all of his stuff out on the street, and, if necessary, hire a bouncer to make sure he never came near the house. He has no right to enter someone else's house without permission. Why do you need to go to court? This is a no brainer. No reason to go to court.

Unfortunately, it is not that easy to get a relative out of your home, especially a child. A very close relative in my own family went through hell with an adult child before the matter was solved.

aninjamom
05-24-2018, 06:22 AM
My son was still in high school at 19, not really trying to pass. My husband gave him the choice of either passing, or getting a job and paying rent. He moved out. A couple of years later, he showed back up and we let him move in "temporarily" because he had a job. When he quit the job and stayed in his room on the computer, we invited him to leave again and he did. I think it's the parents fault that they didn't throw this guy out a lot sooner! They have learned that the best way to help your child is out the door if you need to.

MorTech
05-24-2018, 06:48 AM
He did have a point..Working for dollars in the USA, he would be forced to pay Social Security and Medicare to his parents which is a violation of the 13th Amendment. He was not asked if he wanted to be born a slave for them :)

retiredguy123
05-24-2018, 08:52 AM
Unfortunately, it is not that easy to get a relative out of your home, especially a child. A very close relative in my own family went through hell with an adult child before the matter was solved.
Maybe some people aren't very resourceful. I would get him out of the house, and wouldn't need a judge.

2BNTV
05-24-2018, 10:05 AM
After the age of 18 or the graduation of college, a parents legal obligation to their child is over. As parents we usually support our children to achieve their goals. Helping someone is normal but someone expecting someone to do everything for them with no effort on their part is just wrong, on many levels.

This man is delusional is his thinking the his parents and the world owes him something. To refuse to work on Saturday's is inexcusable and was fired.

He needs to get up off it and get on with his life.

JoMar
05-24-2018, 12:07 PM
I assume we will all be paying for him soon. I had a friend that had the same issue, with two kids in their 20's. Time to downsize, they sold the house and moved and the kids were shocked, even though they had been told that was going to happen.

KSSunshine
05-24-2018, 07:18 PM
One TV show reported today that the reason he didn't want to get a job is that the Judge would not order a court appointed attorney to provide legal aid in obtaining custody of a biological child. If he gets a job, he had to provide his own attorney. So we are paying for him.

Second, once he had established residency in his parents home, there may be some kind of implied legal relationship for which his parents would need go through eviction proceedings. While this may be slightly different in Florida, I had to do this for some con artists who convinced my sister (developmentally disabled) to allow them to move in with her. I filed papers and paid for a Sheriff's officer to serve the notice of eviction. Fortunately when he went to serve it, the officer observed stolen property and was able to provide them with a different accommodation in the county jail :pepper2:...thus it shortened my legal action against them.

For us looking in from the outside, it appears so simple, but truly is not. Bless them for taking these very painful & public steps to help their son grow up. :pray:

Polar Bear
05-24-2018, 08:14 PM
...For us looking in from the outside, it appears so simple, but truly is not. Bless them for taking these very painful & public steps to help their son grow up. :pray:
Wise words, KS.

Bay Kid
05-25-2018, 06:02 AM
I feel sorry for the parents.

Taltarzac725
05-25-2018, 06:23 AM
I feel sorry for the parents.

That is a nice statement. These specific individual parents in this matter wherever it happens to be. They did need to do something.

Taltarzac725
05-25-2018, 06:26 AM
One TV show reported today that the reason he didn't want to get a job is that the Judge would not order a court appointed attorney to provide legal aid in obtaining custody of a biological child. If he gets a job, he had to provide his own attorney. So we are paying for him.

Second, once he had established residency in his parents home, there may be some kind of implied legal relationship for which his parents would need go through eviction proceedings. While this may be slightly different in Florida, I had to do this for some con artists who convinced my sister (developmentally disabled) to allow them to move in with her. I filed papers and paid for a Sheriff's officer to serve the notice of eviction. Fortunately when he went to serve it, the officer observed stolen property and was able to provide them with a different accommodation in the county jail :pepper2:...thus it shortened my legal action against them.

For us looking in from the outside, it appears so simple, but truly is not. Bless them for taking these very painful & public steps to help their son grow up. :pray:

Thank You. I like it when people look at the actual facts in each case. That shows wisdom and compassion.

eweissenbach
05-25-2018, 11:20 AM
For us looking in from the outside, it appears so simple, but truly is not. Bless them for taking these very painful & public steps to help their son grow up. :pray:

You said a mouthful! Always easy to make bold statements about how to handle a situation when one doesn't know all the facts and isn't personally involved. I have known childless couples who had all the answers regarding child raising - then had children who completely upended all their certainty. Sound as though this couple did the right thing, but that does not extrapolate to every situation where a young adult lives with parents.

tomwed
05-25-2018, 12:01 PM
A pizza company offered him a job. Pretty clever---lot's of free advertising.

zmarkp
05-25-2018, 12:31 PM
I hope his parents have concealed carry permits and make use of them. This guy seems like one unstable wingnut.

Taltarzac725
05-25-2018, 03:25 PM
A pizza company offered him a job. Pretty clever---lot's of free advertising.

That is thinking out-of-the-box.

queasy27
05-25-2018, 04:07 PM
Kimmel did a comedy segment on this last night -- they asked random pedestrians if they still lived with their parents and had the audience guess the answer.

Pedestrian Question - Do You Still Live with Your Parents? - YouTube (https://youtu.be/Bk-0j0SBkNQ)

Marathon Man
05-25-2018, 04:22 PM
I hope his parents have concealed carry permits and make use of them. This guy seems like one unstable wingnut.

I guess my mind just doesn't work like this. I just can't imagine hoping someone is prepared to kill their son.

jimbomaybe
05-25-2018, 04:42 PM
It can be very hard and take many months to have someone removed,(legally) in some "enlightened" jurisdictions

eweissenbach
05-25-2018, 05:01 PM
I guess my mind just doesn't work like this. I just can't imagine hoping someone is prepared to kill their son.

It is my sincere Hope that a small minority think like that. I like your mind on the matter and I agree.