Bad neighbors are a minority

[JoMar]

Met a couple that are doing a lifestyle visit in the Alden Bungalows. They love the home but when they went outside there was a bag of dog poop that someone deposited by throwing over the wall. I explained that while there are bad neighbors in almost every neighborhood, they are in the minority. Not sure I was effective but whoever in Alden did that they didn't make a good impression on that neighborhood.

[rustyp]

Yea another who flung poo thread. Gotta love the baby !

[My Post]

I got real nervous at the title of this thread.

[perrjojo]

Met a couple that are doing a lifestyle visit in the Alden Bungalows. They love the home but when they went outside there was a bag of dog poop that someone deposited by throwing over the wall. I explained that while there are bad neighbors in almost every neighborhood, they are in the minority. Not sure I was effective but whoever in Alden did that they didn't make a good impression on that neighborhood.
I guess that’s when you just toss it back over where it came from :MOJE_whot:

[mills3186]

We just stayed at an Alden bungalow for lifestyle week and was told that nearly everyone there is on a lifestyle week visit. Regardless, they should know better!

[Skip’dabeat]

Hmmm,,, Not saying what the thrower did was right but makes me wonder why someone would go out and look inside a bag in the backyard of a lifestyle rental unit.


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[Fredster]

Hmmm,,, Not saying what the thrower did was right but makes me wonder why someone would go out and look inside a bag in the backyard of a lifestyle rental unit.


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I wonder why someone would throw the crap
over the wall.
Plus possibly the bag was clear!

[CFrance]

Hmmm,,, Not saying what the thrower did was right but makes me wonder why someone would go out and look inside a bag in the backyard of a lifestyle rental unit.


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You maybe don't have a dog. There is no mistaking a bag of doggy doo. No need to look inside.

[Retiring]

In a city of 100,000+ of course there are going to be some bad apples. You might even have a neighbor shoot 33 bullets into your home. Overall, the people of TV are great.

BTW, anyone know the final sentencing of the guy who shot up the neighbor’s house?

[patfla06]

In a city of 100,000+ of course there are going to be some bad apples. You might even have a neighbor shoot 33 bullets into your home. Overall, the people of TV are great.

BTW, anyone know the final sentencing of the guy who shot up the neighbor’s house?

I think he got 5 years in prison.

[PennBF]

I believe reality is when there is any grouping like the Villages, A club or gathering there will always be a person or group that are either problems or difficult, etc. Just have to recognize this will be reality and get through it. :ohdear:

[billethkid]

Court yard villas and any home that has back to back and or side to side neighbor bird cage/open lenai....require one to do diligence the best way possible before buying.
Some are just too close, there are bound to be occasional conflicting lifestyles....

Smokers.
Loud talkers.
Night owls.
Barking dogs.
Nosy nellies.
etc.
etc.

[CFrance]

I didn't know the developers allow you to bring pets to a Lifestyle visit.

[New Englander]

There are people who own and live in the Alden Bungalow's as well as the visitors using the rental units.

[JimJohnson]

We love all our neighbors. I am a Democrat amongst close to 100% republicans, and we all get along just fine.

[Topspinmo]

Not in my neighborhood! Have zero bad neighbors.

[OrangeBlossomBaby]

So really what we're seeing here is the same old thing: The few ruin it for everyone else.

By "the few" I mean two types:
1. The people who know that what they want to do will be received -widely- by the many as "tacky" and push it to the limits, as long as their deed doesn't expressly prohibit it. This gives the "opposition" the justification, however lame, to judge these types of people as trash, low-rent, tacky, and living in a neighborhood they, in their all high and mighty superiority, would not deign to sully their pristine selves with.

2. The high and mighty elitist snobs who will go out of their way to seek out and complain about things that really have nothing to do with them at all, just because they know they can, and the powers that be will actually do something about it. These are the ones who get a kick out of putting other people down and making other peoples' lives miserable, because they are probably miserable as well and misery loves company.

Everyone else falls somewhere inbetween, and they're the ones who get punished by either end of the spectrum.

[Nucky]

I didn't know the developers allow you to bring pets to a Lifestyle visit.

It was OK several years ago in the Alden Bungalows. I asked the people from The Villages before we rented.

This thread is not sitting right with me I thinks that something or somebody is askew! Never happened. Got proof? :doggie:

[BK001]

So really what we're seeing here is the same old thing: The few ruin it for everyone else.

By "the few" I mean two types:
1. The people who know that what they want to do will be received -widely- by the many as "tacky" and push it to the limits, as long as their deed doesn't expressly prohibit it. This gives the "opposition" the justification, however lame, to judge these types of people as trash, low-rent, tacky, and living in a neighborhood they, in their all high and mighty superiority, would not deign to sully their pristine selves with.

2. The high and mighty elitist snobs who will go out of their way to seek out and complain about things that really have nothing to do with them at all, just because they know they can, and the powers that be will actually do something about it. These are the ones who get a kick out of putting other people down and making other peoples' lives miserable, because they are probably miserable as well and misery loves company.

Everyone else falls somewhere inbetween, and they're the ones who get punished by either end of the spectrum.

This simply does not sound like the place that we call home. The behaviors or rather attitudes you describe are aberrant and, in my opinion, very very few and far between, if at all.

The dog poop can be explained in many other ways -- not just the neighbors. Perhaps someone walking by -- a teenager visiting the grandparents who, after walking the dog didn't want to carry the bag home. I don't know and of course I am clutching at straws to explain this behavior but I would not want this incident to paint the rest of us with a broad stroke.

I think of myself as a pretty laid back person who has learned to tolerate much (many years living in a multi-family apartment building with neighbors above, below, left and right) -- but put out a couple of ceramic or plastic Pink Flamingos and you've pressed one of my buttons. (No discrimination against Pink Flamingoes intended -- but just not on my block.)

I hope you will be able to spend a bit of time here and get to know the real people. I bet you would find a plethora of sane, normal, respectful, polite and well, just plain nice people who want the same things as everyone else. You said "misery loves company", I agree, but so does happiness!

[fw102807]

TOTV is like a soap opera and in no way reflects what it's like to live here unless you actually live near one of the negative posters. All the people I've met mind their own business and get along fine.

[Two Bills]

We have a phantom poo bag dropper in our area.
They leave it at the end of whatever drive the dog poops at.
Suppose we should be greatfull they pick up and bag the stuff!

[kcrazorbackfan]

I didn't know the developers allow you to bring pets to a Lifestyle visit.

They allowed us to bring our two in August 2014.

[kcrazorbackfan]

Not in my neighborhood! Have zero bad neighbors.

We had one in our loop until he moved away last year; damn good thing he did :boxing2:...……… Everyone one is great, now.

[Tom C]

The Pooh ******* and droppers are NOT unique to The Villages. We have similar people here who believe their obligation ends with bidding “Fido’s droppings”. They proceed to carefully place the full bag at the curb or on the sidewalk thinking the “Pooh Fairy” will come along to take care of the rest of the duty.

May the Pooh Gods look down on these people and smote their bags before their eyes.

LOL

[tophcfa]

Our neighorhood is full of all kinds of wonderful people, just one bad apple. The one who runs an Airbnb, which brings in a non-stop revolving door of trainsent renters who often don't respect the neighborhood like long term residents/tennants, cause parking issues in the road, and drive their cars like they stole them. I would gladly trade in that one neighbor for someone who lets their dog poop on our lawn every day.

[graciegirl]

Our neighorhood is full of all kinds of wonderful people, just one bad apple. The one who runs an Airbnb, which brings in a non-stop revolving door of trainsent renters who often don't respect the neighborhood like long term residents/tennants, cause parking issues in the road, and drive their cars like they stole them. I would gladly trade in that one neighbor for someone who lets their dog poop on our lawn every day.

I would too.

[VApeople]

Our neighorhood is full of all kinds of wonderful people, just one bad apple. The one who runs an Airbnb, which brings in a non-stop revolving door of trainsent renters who often don't respect the neighborhood like long term residents/tennants, cause parking issues in the road, and drive their cars like they stole them. I would gladly trade in that one neighbor for someone who lets their dog poop on our lawn every day.

I would rather have the bad neighbor than one who lets his dog crap in our yard.

[tophcfa]

I would rather have the bad neighbor than one who lets his dog crap in our yard.

It takes about 30 seconds to pick up a poop, it takes all day (and night) long to deal with a bad neighbor who runs a very poor Airbnb operation. Not even a comparison, think about it?

[B-flat]

I guess that’s when you just toss it back over where it came from :MOJE_whot:

I have a home in the northeast in a nice middle class neighborhood. Homes prices start in close to $300k. About 4 years ago one of the most expensive homes now for sale at $499k was bought by a drug dealer who had 3 pit bulls. Although they did not poop much on my property the few times they did I used a shovel and threw it into his driveway. After about the 3rd time he got the hint. Of course I did it a night when no one was looking. I never trusted this guy ever since a squad of 20 DEA/State/Local police raided the house in 2016.

[BobnBev]

Our neighorhood is full of all kinds of wonderful people, just one bad apple. The one who runs an Airbnb, which brings in a non-stop revolving door of trainsent renters who often don't respect the neighborhood like long term residents/tennants, cause parking issues in the road, and drive their cars like they stole them. I would gladly trade in that one neighbor for someone who lets their dog poop on our lawn every day.

Call the tax enforcement people.

[BobnBev]

Can we get an address for this dir*bag?