Do You Have Regrets After Moving To TV?

[Mike3461]

Hello. I am relocating here and I already miss home.

Do you regret moving to TV?
Why?
Will you move back home? Or, to another area?

If you got over your regret, how did you do it?

Thank you.

[skip0358]

Moved here in 2009. My regret wish I'd have done it earlier. Have NO desire to go back to Long Island period.

[PennBF]

Yes. The biggest regret is that we did not move here sooner. Your life will change..you will be more active, you will enjoy all of the activities that are available. After about 2-3 years you will tell the family to come here as you don't want to take the trip back and miss a lot of things in The Village. Have been here going on 13 years and don't have any desire to live somewhere else. Spent 12 years on the Beach in southern Florida and it did not compare to the Villages. Would you stay where you are for someone else rather than making your life better. Hopefully you are not in some Co-Dependent relationship(s). If so, you are living for the other person not youself. As they say in the south: "Come on Down":coolsmiley:

[Madelaine Amee]

Never, ever have we regretted this move from Boston. In fact, quite the opposite .... wish we had done it 10 yrs earlier before we spent mega bucks renting for four months each winter on the Gulf Coast.

[fw102807]

I regret not leaving more stuff behind.

[NotGolfer]

Regrets are from "living in the past or for what-if's" and why waste your energy on all that. Be thankful for where you are in LIFE right now. IF you're relocating, then something drew you here and I would go with the excitement of change.

Do I miss where we once lived? Only elements of that---but wouldn't want to go back nor can one actually do that. IF you moved here today and then turned around and moved back again in 6 months to a year---LIFE would have gone on there and you wouldn't fit quite in the niche you once had "there". I've known folks who've done just that (not necessarily from here) but it was always mentioned on how there had been "change" and it wasn't
"like it used to be".

Carpe Diem

[perrjojo]

NOOOOOOOO REGRETS. Best advice I ever recieved...Happiness in not in any one place. Happiness is not with any one person. happiness is always within. You can be unhappy and have regrets or you can be happy with no regrets. It really is your choice. Yes, there are some stresses with a move such as making new friends, learning where to find the grocery store, missing your favorite restaurant. I could go on but think of it as an adventure. An adventure of your choice.

[stan the man]

Yes - every July and August when I think of the beautiful days and the great nights up north. The beauty of the spring green color of the trees. You will find out I say no more

[graciegirl]

Ohio will always live in my heart, the four real seasons and the memories of our little ones and our grands being little too. But now we love the vibrancy of this climate and the enjoyment of conversation with our peers and learning new skills and resting when we are done "working".

I love beautiful and clean and well ordered and well maintained and I love living in a safe environment and The Villages fill the bill. Hope for a continued gentle life.

[rustyp]

Pretty much a one sided survey by asking the question here. I equate it to asking 80% new Cadillac owners how do you like your new car. Ask a new Lincoln owner how did you like your last Cadillac. To be an truer representation you need to reach the people who moved away from here also. Believe it or not there is a fair population that have moved away.

[Velvet]

Can’t say yet for myself as I am just about to live in TV, but my aunt and uncle did not leave TV until they passed away, and my parents only left when a major illness forced them to.

[Mikeod]

I think it’s normal to miss some aspects of your previous residence. You know the most reliable mechanic, the best little restaurant, the nicest out of the way escape for a weekend. A lot of us Villagers moved here from vastly different climates.

But, after researching places to spend the rest of my years, this place fills more of my needs and wants than anyplace I saw, and definitely the place I left.

[Midnight Cowgirl]

Mike -- It sounds as though you aren't here yet. My advice would be not to second guess what will be in store for you when you get here. If you are married you will have the fun of seeking new things and people with your wife, so you won't be alone. If you are single, there are clubs you can join, even a singles club, and probably a club from the area where you are from. Just about every state has a club here! I can guarantee that no matter what your interests are they will be a club you can join where you will meet others who share your same interests.

Once you get semi-settled don't sit home and pine away. Go to the pool, talk to people when you go to get your mail, go to the squares at night . . . . . in short, get out and make yourself visible! Even reading and commenting on this site you can meet new friends and acquaintances. Chin up and smile. You've already made the decision to be here and now you can make the most of it and be happy!

[jebartle]

Regret we didn't move here sooner, might have avoided price hike, we moved here in 2006.

[sallybowron]

I regret moving here because at home I had so many friends, some for 40-50 years, and down here not so much. Mostly though I miss my family, watching my grand kids play sports and watching my son perform in plays and Cabarets. Many of my classmates still get together 2-3 times a month and I miss that. We are thinking of renting a place up there and going back and forth. We are going up to see Ryan in a Cabaret in June and will look around then. Just my opinion.

[JoMar]

I regret moving here because at home I had so many friends, some for 40-50 years, and down here not so much. Mostly though I miss my family, watching my grand kids play sports and watching my son perform in plays and Cabarets. Many of my classmates still get together 2-3 times a month and I miss that. We are thinking of renting a place up there and going back and forth. We are going up to see Ryan in a Cabaret in June and will look around then. Just my opinion.

This place isn't for everyone, and if you have regrets I wouldn't even consider staying here.....life is too short for regrets and not doing something about it. What is holding you here?

[luperona9]

I regret reading posts of people that have regrets of things they have not done yet.

The Villages is a true Sanctuary.

I can't think of a better value in America for the benefits Graciegirl has described.

[tagjr1]

Yes! We stayed 2 years in the Villages and moved up to Sun City SC. Much more attractive, much less crowded, much less traffic and a lot more privacy! We bought new in the bubble in Oct of 2015. Back door neighbor was only 20 feet away, there were no trees and bugs were everywhere at night. Here where we are now there are much lower property taxes for full time residents, NO bond fees and plenty of activities that are not jammed packed! I can go for a walk and not have to deal with drunk drivers on golf carts, my mail gets delivered right to my house. Yes there is a state income tax, but after all the deductions it was less than zero! The ocean is only 30-45 mins away, and the dining is to die for here. We never regret moving away, it just wasn't for us! Now I know some of you diehard Villagers are about to jump all over me, but do yourself a favor and dive on up and take a look around! You too will question why you haven't moved yet.

[dewilson58]

No regrets............can I mention quite the opposite???


Came to TV for the golf. Found so much more. Enough said.

[CFrance]

There are some very good answers here. Like in any questionnaire response, I might suggest to throw out the top "plus" one and the bottom "negative" one.

I could add one thing to the equation--homesickness. Change is hard. In the first few months after we moved down, my primary thought was, "What have we done?" My friend from back home who moved to a different part of Florida had the same thought. You have to build a new life, no matter where you move. It takes time to make new friends and get used to new ways of living. Give it a year and see what happens. You certainly won't have to worry about resale in The Villages. If it doesn't work out for you, you've had a year of experiencing something new and most likely a profit to be gained on the sale of your house.
Good luck, Mike3461.

[luperona9]

Yes! We stayed 2 years in the Villages and moved up to Sun City SC. Much more attractive, much less crowded, much less traffic and a lot more privacy! We bought new in the bubble in Oct of 2015. Back door neighbor was only 20 feet away, there were no trees and bugs were everywhere at night. Here where we are now there are much lower property taxes for full time residents, NO bond fees and plenty of activities that are not jammed packed! I can go for a walk and not have to deal with drunk drivers on golf carts, my mail gets delivered right to my house. Yes there is a state income tax, but after all the deductions it was less than zero! The ocean is only 30-45 mins away, and the dining is to die for here. We never regret moving away, it just wasn't for us! Now I know some of you diehard Villagers are about to jump all over me, but do yourself a favor and dive on up and take a look around! You too will question why you haven't moved yet.

And yet two years later reading the forum. Hmm

Proximity to neighbors, bond, trees were obvious factors before even buying.

I live with no back neighbors, lots of trees, no bond.

Never seen anyone drunk on a golf cart, do my own insecticide and have zero bug problems.

Traffic is no issue.

Some of my fortunes may be luck but most is due diligence.

[queasy27]

I agree that the majority of posters here are likely to be happy with their choice. I know several who have left, primarily because they miss family, but also because of health problems, not adjusting well to the climate, or feeling that the value for money wasn't good for them because they didn't use most of the amenities.

It's probably similar to retirement ... some people thrive while others get bored or feel at loose ends. As to how you get over it, consider everyone's advice to stay active and engaged. I think being a little homesick is normal but try not to focus on it or beat yourself up over your decision. Give it a year and think of it as a long vacation. Everything is reversible if that's what you decide. Best of luck.

[pooh]

I have no regrets. 34 years in CA...our neighborhood was changing, friends were moving. Our children and grandchildren were in FL so during one of our visits, a quick trip to visit TV. A second visit a few days later and we gave our sales rep info on just what home model we wanted, what type of lot we would like and a few months later...well, we’ve been here for many years now and I know more people and have more friends than I did in CA. Many of us on our street all moved to TV about the same time and quickly became like family. Regrets, none....well, maybe one....I do miss the much lower humidity levels of southern CA...lolol.

[twoplanekid]

Ohio will always live in my heart, the four real seasons and the memories of our little ones and our grands being little too. But now we love the vibrancy of this climate and the enjoyment of conversation with our peers and learning new skills and resting when we are done "working".

I love beautiful and clean and well ordered and well maintained and I love living in a safe environment and The Villages fill the bill. Hope for a continued gentle life.

:agree:

[perrjojo]

Yes! We stayed 2 years in the Villages and moved up to Sun City SC. Much more attractive, much less crowded, much less traffic and a lot more privacy! We bought new in the bubble in Oct of 2015. Back door neighbor was only 20 feet away, there were no trees and bugs were everywhere at night. Here where we are now there are much lower property taxes for full time residents, NO bond fees and plenty of activities that are not jammed packed! I can go for a walk and not have to deal with drunk drivers on golf carts, my mail gets delivered right to my house. Yes there is a state income tax, but after all the deductions it was less than zero! The ocean is only 30-45 mins away, and the dining is to die for here. We never regret moving away, it just wasn't for us! Now I know some of you diehard Villagers are about to jump all over me, but do yourself a favor and dive on up and take a look around! You too will question why you haven't moved yet.
As many have said, TV is not for everyone but if you no longer live here there must be something about this place that speaks to you. Why do you still follow talk of the Villages? I do not mean this “to get all over you” but I do find it curious

[stan the man]

Probably reads the Forum just to see what what's and how much crime has risen in The Villages since they left. Also probably wondering how the golf course conditions are and if they're improved any since they left which I seriously doubt. I also read my hometown paper to see what's happening. It's also nice to see how the Kool-Aid drinkers I'm making out

[luperona9]

Probably reads the Forum just to see what what's and how much crime has risen in The Villages since they left. Also probably wondering how the golf course conditions are and if they're improved any since they left which I seriously doubt. I also read my hometown paper to see what's happening. It's also nice to see how the Kool-Aid drinkers I'm making out

What's s kool-aid drinker!

[JoMar]

Those that love it here, or their spouse loves it here and they can't leave, or they just don't have time or a desire to complain. Lots of different Kool-Aid here :)

[jojo]

Living in The Villages was the best decision we ever made. We've lived here 11 years and it's fun to enjoy all that's been added - Brownwood, the Sharon, and now all of the new amenities in Southern Oaks. It just gets better. I am sad with the grief some friends had when they had to move back because they needed family support due to health problems. As others have said, our regret is that we didn't move here sooner.

[Love2Swim]

And yet two years later reading the forum. Hmm

Proximity to neighbors, bond, trees were obvious factors before even buying.

I live with no back neighbors, lots of trees, no bond.

Never seen anyone drunk on a golf cart, do my own insecticide and have zero bug problems.

Traffic is no issue.

Some of my fortunes may be luck but most is due diligence.

Hmm, are you sure you live in The Villages? My experience with traffic and drunks in golf carts is different than yours.

Our feeling is nothing is ever perfect, and that holds true for The Villages.We've met some wonderful people, and we do enjoy the choice of activities. On the downside is the the sheer size of the Villages. The population has doubled since we moved here and we really can notice the increase in traffic and the numbers of people vying for space in restaurants and some of the classes at certain times of year. I gave up trying to do zumba. Just didn't want to get to a class an hour ahead of time just to get a spot. The condition of the golf courses has also been a huge disappointment. And we've experienced nasty behavior from other residents when our political views did not coincide with theirs, something we never went through up north. That was really a shocker. But we feel the plusses outweigh the minuses. And once you get settled in, buy a house, make friends, etc., its hard to pull up stakes and start over again at this age.

[rjn5656]

Been here 8 years, love it and won't be moving. Only regret I have is leaving my grandkids behind. I would love to be there growing up.

[birdiebill]

We have only lived in The Villages for three years but believe we made the right choice. We had seriously looked at Sun City Hilton Head because we had been to that area many times over the previous fifteen years and because our son, his wife, and our grandchildren live nearby. You are right there are a variety of wonderful restaurants in that area including Hilton Head Island. But traffic on 278 can be very heavy. We thought for us that The Villages made more sense and still believe that. Fortunately not everyone is alike in their desire for a retirement community. People should go where they like the living style best, even if that means admitting that the first choice was wrong; moving is not fun but is better than staying where one regrets living.

[luperona9]

Hmm, are you sure you live in The Villages? My experience with traffic and drunks in golf carts is different than yours.



Our feeling is nothing is ever perfect, and that holds true for The Villages.We've met some wonderful people, and we do enjoy the choice of activities. On the downside is the the sheer size of the Villages. The population has doubled since we moved here and we really can notice the increase in traffic and the numbers of people vying for space in restaurants and some of the classes at certain times of year. I gave up trying to do zumba. Just didn't want to get to a class an hour ahead of time just to get a spot. The condition of the golf courses has also been a huge disappointment. And we've experienced nasty behavior from other residents when our political views did not coincide with theirs, something we never went through up north. That was really a shocker. But we feel the plusses outweigh the minuses. And once you get settled in, buy a house, make friends, etc., its hard to pull up stakes and start over again at this age.

Yes. Five years in The Villages. Two years in 1st home, 3 in second home. Every store/bank/worship needed is within 5 minutes by car. Ten minutes by golf cart. Rarely go further. Never traffic nearby. No roundabouts here either, although I think they are a good option for the heavily populated areas of the villages.

Only wish the airport was closer as the inexpensive living in the Villages allows lots of travel.

Lots of properties with no rear neighbors. Some with very little premium. Just have to look hard. Google Earth helps.

Of the people that have left The Villages, most fell into one of three categories.

Health
Missed Family
Neighbors too close (and they did not get along)

Potential neighbors need to be vetted as well. Are they loud? Smoke? Barking Dogs? Unkept properties. Adult children living at home. Etc

If you make the choice to buy a house with very close neighbors, spend the time to evaluate everything!

When I go in my backyard no one can hear me or see me.

Don't talk politics with people unless you are on the same wavelength.

My Sanctuary Village is perfect.

[2BNTV]

I think some of us had some initial anxiety when confronted with having to learn a new place. How to get around, choosing doctors and the myriad of issues when in a new and different lifestyle.

If after a year, you are still homesick, then you can always sell your place and move back home! It won't take long to sell your home.

For me, this is the best move and the best place I ever live in. So many activities and things to do. Meeting new friends and the general friendliness of almost all of it's people. There are a few grouches but I just move on to the next person.

My only regret is that I was not able to move sooner to TV!!!

[Nucky]

I think some of us had some initial anxiety when confronted with having to learn a new place. How to get around, choosing doctors and the myriad of issues when in a new and different lifestyle.

If after a year, you are still homesick, then you can always sell your place and move back home! It won't take long to sell your home.

For me, this is the best move and the best place I ever live in. So many activities and things to do. Meeting new friends and the general friendliness of almost all of it's people. There are a few grouches but I just move on to the next person.

My only regret is that I was not able to move sooner to TV!!!

I agree with 2BNTV totally. I was very worried because I am such a bashful, introverted person who is afraid to speak my piece when we moved to The Villages. Somehow with the help of those who Initially Welcomed Us at Crispers and those who invited us into their home when we experience the Jitters in the very beginning I somehow thru deep soul searching have become outgoing, extroverted but still don't fully speak my mind because I would be kicked off this Forum and have nobody to hang out with.

The Villages to some extent has taught me that the battle is OVER. We are in the 7th Inning and hoping the ballgame goes into Overtime.

The things we worried about turned out to be a big Zero, Snakes, and Alligators. Beating the crowd home from the Square is my main goal now. Pretty Cool! :1rotfl:

P.S. We miss the Grandchildren and our Kids Dogs but that's about it.

Regret's = NONE!

[Challenger]

[QUOTE=Mike3461;1649898]Hello. I am relocating here and I already miss home.

Do you regret moving to TV?
Why?




No- not even once. Eight years and counting.

[Opmoochler]

I miss the nice folks I met at Crispers-Nucky, 2BNTV and others and would love to host others. We're very close to Odell Rec Center...too far away? We're just north of Colony. Is there any interest to get a group of TOTVers together with their own BYOB and munchies?

[Marathon Man]

What's s kool-aid drinker!

Unhappy people like to call those that are satisfied with their choices "Koolaide Drinkers". What they don't realize is, the real koolaide is that of anger, unhappiness, and dis-satisfaction. They are unlikely to be happy with much of anything because they are looking for things that they don't like, and looking past all that is available. What a shame.

[Velvet]

A get together of TOTV posters would certainly take the anonymity out of the forum and you’d have to “face up” to your posts.... and we’d know who actually are living here.
I’m personally not yet in TV (just closed) but if you get a group together when I’m there.... sounds good.

[eweissenbach]

Well, we are lucky in that we have our cake and eat it too. We have a Courtyard Villa in Sanibel and a home adjacent to our three kids in Missouri. We spend about 5 months in TV and the rest in the Kansas City area. We love TV, but can't see ourselves ever spending our full time there. If our children were spread out, as most are, we would probably be thrilled to be full time Villagers, but under the circumstances, we love the Villages/Missouri split. I realize that not everyone can do what we do, and feel blessed to be able to accommodate our love of family and TV. As far as regrets, it is my opinion that one needs to weigh all the relevant factors prior to making a major decision, then move forward confidently - never looking back. I have zero regrets in my life as everything I have done has led me to this point in my life and I am happy with the result.

[Velvet]

Yes. Nice to have the best of both worlds.

[Dr Winston O Boogie jr]

ABSOLUTELY NONE. Love it here.

[TomOB]

No regrets about moving out of TV.

[Lottoguy]

Yes, by far the biggest mistake people make when they move here is loading up that moving truck. So many people regret the cost of doing such a thing. But, the second hand stores love these people.

[rivaridger1]

We had no reason to reconsider our decision to move to TV after living here the first 26 months. Most of the reasons people love this place applied. Then I got sick. The available medical care, and the quality of same, are quite frankly borderline awful in the immediate area. We counsel everyone we meet to put healthcare at the top of their list of things to explore in depth, prior to deciding whether or not to make the " move ".

[NatureBoy]

As has been pointed out, there is going to be huge selection bias (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Selection_bias) in the responses here. A more telling question might be: Do you know people who have moved away from TV and what their reasons were?

Uprooting & moving is a big life decision and people certainly want as many assurances as they can get that they're making a good choice (I do!). But one can only do so much research and must make a decision. A fear is that there's some big "gotcha!" lurking that you didn't think of and no one warned you about. I'm sure there are people who hit a "gotcha!" and moved out - or wish they could.

[Two Bills]

Wife and I from UK and have been Snowbirds for 20 years in TV.
Many many changes over that time, not all good in our eyes, but the basics have stayed the same.
Lots to do if you are so inclined, and plenty of time to contemplate your navel if that is also your want.
Never wanted to live here full time, but love the place when we are here.
People look a whole lot younger, driving is still exciting, and lets face it, you Yanks are never going to get the hang of roundabouts, however many times you survive going round them!!
We will be back again next winter, if we can keep avoiding the man with the scythe!

[Madelaine Amee]

Wife and I from UK and have been Snowbirds for 20 years in TV.
Many many changes over that time, not all good in our eyes, but the basics have stayed the same.
Lots to do if you are so inclined, and plenty of time to contemplate your navel if that is also your want.
Never wanted to live here full time, but love the place when we are here.
People look a whole lot younger, driving is still exciting, and lets face it, you Yanks are never going to get the hang of roundabouts, however many times you survive going round them!!
We will be back again next winter, if we can keep avoiding the man with the scythe!

Where in the UK do you call home?

[luperona9]

No regrets about moving out of TV.Voted most useful post ever. [emoji41]

[Cookie Princess]

I gave up trying to do zumba. Just didn't want to get to a class an hour ahead of time just to get a spot.

Is it normal to have to go to a fitness class an hour ahead of time just to hold a spot?

[tagjr1]

Unfortunately Yes, sometimes the facilities are so overwhelmed that it can be very frustrating!

[NatureBoy]

Unfortunately Yes, sometimes the facilities are so overwhelmed that it can be very frustrating!

There was a discussion (https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/villages-florida-general-discussion-73/time-room-reservation-system-282596/) about how this problem might be solved last year.

[Two Bills]

Where in the UK do you call home?
Cotswolds, Gloucestershire.

[Madelaine Amee]

Cotswolds, Gloucestershire.

Wonderful area, know it well. Just came back from 10 days in Moreton, The Redesdale Arms.

So Cotswolds and TV, great way to live.

[CFrance]

We had no reason to reconsider our decision to move to TV after living here the first 26 months. Most of the reasons people love this place applied. Then I got sick. The available medical care, and the quality of same, are quite frankly borderline awful in the immediate area. We counsel everyone we meet to put healthcare at the top of their list of things to explore in depth, prior to deciding whether or not to make the " move ".
I understand your standpoint, rivaridger, and I have had a life-threatening illness, over a decade ago. I decided to balance a short plane ride and/or drive to one of the noted healthcare facilities against the ability to live happily in a place I really like. Setting sudden tragic episodes aside, that we might not survive anywhere (stroke, heart attack), I feel that I could get to a place of notable health care in a short amount of time. I'm thinking mainly of cancer, I guess.

In the meantime, I plan to enjoy my time in TV and hope for the best, rather than live close to someplace not pleasing to me just in case I might get sick.

But again, I understand your point of view, and I may not be thinking of all the circumstances surrounding certain illnesses. Please don't take my point of view as a rejection of yours. I hope and pray you are doing well.

[JimJohnson]

We have lived all over the world and for us, The Villages is hands down the best retirement location we have ever seen.

[Two Bills]

Wonderful area, know it well. Just came back from 10 days in Moreton, The Redesdale Arms.

So Cotswolds and TV, great way to live.

Our village is a ten minute drive from M.I.M. Our grandson goes to the Cotswold Academy in Bourton.
Yes we are very lucky to have both places in our lives.

[big guy]

I missed Ohio with my every fiber when we came here. I thought about my beautiful gardens continually and the evenings outside on the shores of Lake Erie. After, much thought and a bit of time, I realized that what I was missing I could never get back. It was my youth that I was missing. I still miss it but I put it in perspective and I have moved on.

[billethkid]

15 years and no regrets.
I even acclimated to playing golf when it is 90 degrees.
While not a regret I will say there are some medical specialties and services that are lacking. However we have had no problem finding what we need within an hours ride from TV.
Key to complete satisfaction?
Avoid/mitigate surprises....do your home work choosing where your new home is located in TV.

[VILLAGERBB]

Can you give us more reason as to why you have regrets? I don't have regrets but often miss my previous life. After a period of adjustment I find TV to be a much better place with nicer people around.

Hello. I am relocating here and I already miss home.

Do you regret moving to TV?
Why?
Will you move back home? Or, to another area?

If you got over your regret, how did you do it?

Thank you.

[Mike3461]

Thank you. Do you know of a forum of people that have moved away? I would post my question there as well..

[chuck90199]

We had neighbors on our street leave The Villages and move to Sun City near Tampa. They were back in The Villages buying another house in less than a year. Very disappointed in Sun City. Things the Real Estate agent promised never happened, and golf was extremely expensive.

There's a website similar to this one. Talkofsuncity.com. There is not a lot of activity on it, but you might find some people that moved there from The Villages.

[NatureBoy]

There's a website similar to this one. Talkofsuncity.com. There is not a lot of activity on it, but you might find some people that moved there from The Villages.

This is one of the ways I've been researching & evaluating other places: How active are the residents online?

For TV, there are multiple Facebook groups, this site, another forum site, YouTubers, and probably more I'm missing. For other places... There are a couple Sun City Tampa Facebook groups, the mentioned unused forum, and not much else. I just haven't found any other 55+ community that has near the resident activity & engagement online that TV has.

[Dan9871]

This is one of the ways I've been researching & evaluating other places: How active are the residents online?


Sun City FL has about 10,000 residents and the Villages has about 130,000 residents. The lower use of a bulletin board or FaceBook alone doesn't really give a good picture of how active the residents are... you have to somehow factor in the population of the community.

There are very few, maybe none, other 55+ communities that have the scale of The Villages.

Have you checked nextdoor.com? It breaks things down into smaller sections than an entire development. That might be a better measure of resident activity.

[John_W]

Sun City FL has about 10,000 residents and the Villages has about 130,000 residents...

I never realized Sun City was so small. I grew up in St. Petersburg and I've always heard about the place. It started in 1962 and is a short drive from either Tampa or Sarasota/Brandenton, and only 10,000, that alone would make me wonder.

I remember in 2010 back in Baltimore when I was getting ready to take a lifestyle visit here in TV, I was talking to the branch manager of my bank, who was in his 50's. He said he had just bought a house in Sun City. We talked some and he said he paid $300K, I thought to myself that seemed awful high nine years ago. He also said his HOA was $350 a month, which he was already paying, again I'm thinking to myself that is high.

In 2011 when TV broke ground south of 466A in Bonifay a majority of the new homes were selling in the $200's, many in the low 200's, and that's correct, every home south of 466A has been built since August 2011. In fact Pine Ridge which was built as late as 2015, we looked at several new homes the $210K to $230K range. We purchased a new masonry CYV in 2011 for $158K just north of 466A in Tamarind Grove. At that time, prices here were very good, especially when compared to Sun City. Unfortunately now for a buyer, supply and demand in the established villages has caused prices to really escalate.

Think about it, home construction in TV really didn't kick off until the late 80's when Gary Morse moved down here to help his father. You've 10,000 from 1962 and 130,000 from 1989. TV is basically in the middle of nowhere, not between Tampa and Sarasota. The only real geographic feature that helped was the closeness of I-75 and the Florida Turnpike. Otherwise, there's no big city, no beaches, no anything, so Gary Morse had to create an environment that buyers would see was of great value in their retirement years.

[Howie1944]

After 19 years here I have witnessed the rapid growth of The Villages. Despite the developer constantly tooting his own horn in the company propaganda rag, AKA The Daily Sun, this exponential growth is a negative for many retirees. Tomorrow I leave The Villages for good. I have found a much smaller version of The Villages, with actual SECURITY GATES, gof course, golf cart community, backed by a strong financial presence, Berkshire Hathaway, and more bang for the buck in the amenities fees. AND NO CDD! . The best part is it is almost built out, and no more land available to expand. About 5000 residents. Check out Soleil of Laurel Canyon in Canton, GA.

[CFrance]

After 19 years here I have witnessed the rapid growth of The Villages. Despite the developer constantly tooting his own horn in the company propaganda rag, AKA The Daily Sun, this exponential growth is a negative for many retirees. Tomorrow I leave The Villages for good. I have found a much smaller version of The Villages, with actual SECURITY GATES, gof course, golf cart community, backed by a strong financial presence, Berkshire Hathaway, and more bang for the buck in the amenities fees. AND NO CDD! . The best part is it is almost built out, and no more land available to expand. About 5000 residents. Check out Soleil of Laurel Canyon in Canton, GA.
I went to college in Athens, GA, and student taught in Atlanta. Many moons ago, before climate change, we had some snow and some ice storms.

There may be smaller, better places than TV, and I'm not a gung-ho, this-is-heaven-on-earth person where TV is concerned, but you cannot, CAN NOT, beat the weather. Or the activities. So I put up with the sameness and largeness of the community--sea of roof tops, small lots, somewhat of a "fake paradise" look, developers' kids that yes, have taken away a bit of the stuff we enjoyed previously-- because it's WARM and active and friendly.

We left spring of 2018 and wondered if we would come back. There were some things that bothered us, and we looked at other places. But it's tough to beat what TV offers if you want to remain active, not to mention warm. I find the things that bothered me when we lived there full time don't bother me anymore because where we live the other half of the year is a complete opposite. (There's not one house the same; it's a village of 500 people in a countryside of other villages.)

Moving full time to Florida was not a good fit for us, but The Villages certainly is. What we found was it did not have to be an either-or situation.

Just my thoughts.

[John_W]

I was going to say something similar in reference to the weather. I lived in Cumming, Georgia in 1988, that just east of where your moving and we had 4" of snow and everything shut down for a week. They have no snow removal equipment, other than Starvin Marvin, everything was closed, even the malls.

Cumming is in Forsyth County, I really liked going over to Lake Lanier, huge lake and didn't have to worry about gators. It was pretty sparse living out there, but via GA 400 you could be in Atlanta in 30 minutes. I noticed the place you're moving homes are in the upper $300's to $500k, little too high for me.

One thing that was so unusual about Forsyth County was when I was there in '88, Oprah had just been on TV a couple of years and was trying to get noticed, so she brough her show down to the Holiday Inn in Cumming for a week. You see, Forsyth County doesn't have one black person in the entire county. I guess she saw a problem with that.

You could stayed in Florida, just 75 minutes away and gotten the same things you're going to get, plus nicer weather and saved a couple of $200K on your home by going to Pasco County. Here's a place I mentioned on another thread, Heritage Pines in Hudson, FL. It's also built out and truly gated entrance.

https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/villages-florida-new-members-forum-115/did-you-research-other-communities-291848/index2.html#post1651572

[Howie1944]

I lived in knoxville TN for several years. Played golf every weekend in the winter. Didn't swelter in the summer. 4 seasons but nothing brutal. 4 inches of snow? OMG.

[beachbaby]

If only the health care were as good as where we moved from

[John_W]

I lived in knoxville TN for several years. Played golf every weekend in the winter. Didn't swelter in the summer. 4 seasons but nothing brutal. 4 inches of snow? OMG.

Obviously Knoxville was prepared, Tennessee is a little further north. I also lived in Savannah for 8 years, one year of 4" of snow there had the same effect. When people are not accustomed to driving on snow covered roads, remember they have no plows or salt, everyone stays home and in most cases are ordered to by the local officials. Maybe Atlanta and surrounding areas have improved since 1988, that's just something to consider when moving there. BTW, the humidity in the Atlanta area is sweltering, I would say of all the places I've lived, Atlanta was my least favorite. One reason, it's the only place someone has attempted to steal my car where I lived. Of course we have that right here in Orlando, which is why I don't live there.

[Rapscallion St Croix]

No regrets, but after a lifetime in the military, we get itchy feet after a few years. Moving to Pinehurst, NC in the coming year.

[Loridoma]

I did struggle for about 6 months to a year. It takes a while to build up friendships like you had at home.And left my entire family up north. I found a few activities that I enjoyed and gradually made some wonderful friends.
Everyone is in the same boat...moving to a new place and starting over.
I also found Allegiant airlines has some very reasonable airfares back home, so I’m able to visit often.
I have no regrets moving here, it’s just to beautiful!
I tried some brand new things like dragon boating and found groups for hobbies I enjoy. Now I feel more a part of the community. I would suggest giving it a year. I do know a fee people who moved back home to be closer to family. But not many! I wish you well!

[kittysons]

My wife and I lived full time in The Villages from the end of 2010 through mid-2016. We were full time residents in Florida (and still are) since 2002 having originally moved from Chicago. We now live in Southwest Florida. The experience of living in The Villages was a great one that neither of us regrets, especially because of the new friendships we made. The activities and socialization were tremendous and we both would recommend The Villages as a great place to transition into retirement. However, the first reason we moved was because of the sense that we were "moving down a conveyor belt" as we watched people we knew age, get sick and/or require assistance and in some cases die. We all know this is a reality yet it stares you in the face the longer you live there. The second reason is that regardless of what you think, old people(and that includes us) can be very grumpy, stubborn, set in their ways and ridiculously cheap(using 2 for 1 coupons and only tipping on one meal). The contrast in friendliness and attitude is stark between waitstaff and other service workers in The Villages and outside The Villages such as Southwest Florida because of the previous reason. We enjoy being around all age groups(including children) because it exposes us to different ways of thinking and, in our opinion, keeps us more open-minded. The third reason we moved is because of the way everything begins to recycle in The Villages. How many times can you see Hemans Hermits, the parades etc. before you stop going? Finally, we started out in 2002 in Southwest Florida and like our friends there, the variety of restaurants and activities and the ocean nearby. You may feel. differently and we respect that.

[beckyallen]

We moved here almost 2 years ago from Maui and only regret not having done it sooner! There is so much to love here and lots to do. Give it some time and try new things to meet new people. Many people still spend summers up north but we are here year round to stay and LOVE it! Good luck!

[graciegirl]

My wife and I lived full time in The Villages from the end of 2010 through mid-2016. We were full time residents in Florida (and still are) since 2002 having originally moved from Chicago. We now live in Southwest Florida. The experience of living in The Villages was a great one that neither of us regrets, especially because of the new friendships we made. The activities and socialization were tremendous and we both would recommend The Villages as a great place to transition into retirement. However, the first reason we moved was because of the sense that we were "moving down a conveyor belt" as we watched people we knew age, get sick and/or require assistance and in some cases die. We all know this is a reality yet it stares you in the face the longer you live there. The second reason is that regardless of what you think, old people(and that includes us) can be very grumpy, stubborn, set in their ways and ridiculously cheap(using 2 for 1 coupons and only tipping on one meal). The contrast in friendliness and attitude is stark between waitstaff and other service workers in The Villages and outside The Villages such as Southwest Florida because of the previous reason. We enjoy being around all age groups(including children) because it exposes us to different ways of thinking and, in our opinion, keeps us more open-minded. The third reason we moved is because of the way everything begins to recycle in The Villages. How many times can you see Hemans Hermits, the parades etc. before you stop going? Finally, we started out in 2002 in Southwest Florida and like our friends there, the variety of restaurants and activities and the ocean nearby. You may feel. differently and we respect that.

What a good post this is. How very understandable and true. I would wish that everyone would be like you two. Wishing you happiness.

[kleisz2001@yahoo.com]

Give it time. What you are feeling is normal as change is not easy. When I was 20 I got in my car and drove cross country to California to go to school. I missed home (Virginia) like crazy until I went back for Christmas three and a half months later and felt like I didn't belong there anymore.

I moved here almost 10 years ago to the day and have never looked back or even gone back to visit. Yes, I miss my friends and certain aspects but I would never think of moving back there again. This is home and I love it.

[jerseyjoy]

Moved here a year and a half ago, and I miss home every day (didn't think I would). Variety of retailers, quality and variety of restaurants, ease of getting medical appointments. Thought it would be less expensive to live in FL, and it hasn't been. Car insurance, cost of food, utility bills are about the same as in the northeast. Everything here is beautiful and nice, but it's not home. I think about going back quite often, but for now we are not for a few reasons. Have met a few people who get homesick and plan a visit "home" every 3 months. We are not able to do that, but if you can, they say it helps.

[jclrxman]

No regrets at all. Should have moved here sooner.

[jimstro]

Hello. I am relocating here and I already miss home.

Do you regret moving to TV?
Why?
Will you move back home? Or, to another area?

If you got over your regret, how did you do it?

Thank you.
I bought my home in The Villages as a long term investment in ocean front property.

[Nancy Alexander]

I miss Santa Barbara. That said, living here instead of there allows me the financial stability to be able to visit Santa Barbara at any time. I couldn't afford to stay there and retire early, without making some heavy sacrifices. I think the kids do better without me interfering in their lives, also. They don't say that, but many psychologists do! It gives them the space to make their own decisions.
All of the activities I currently do would cost a fortune in California. I suspect the same would be true for many of you.
The politics here run a bit conservative for me, but as more people come from other areas, that will become more "middle of the road."
I love the lack of graffiti!

[toeser]

"Do you regret moving to TV?"

Not a single minute of a single day. My old home had the worst winter in 20 years. Why would I want that?

Get involved in sports, clubs, neighborhood activities, etc. We are so busy, we don't have time for regret.

[bellbuoy8]

For our first year, I would tell all my friends up north, how much I missed them. I stopped lying, and now I just tell them come visit! We moved here along with my 88 yr old Dad in tow. I said we should have moved earlier, and he said, "but than you wouldn't have the house you have." He was so right. We are 1/2 mile from Sumter Landing. No regrets!

[dennisgavin]

Been here 3 years and haven't looked back. SUre, would be nice to be closer to the grandkids but flights are cheap. We have been back and they have come here. Also some family have moved here. Have friends who recently moved to North Carolina to be closer to grandkids. THey are called Half Backs. (moved hal way back).

[Dukester]

Hello. I am relocating here and I already miss home.

Do you regret moving to TV?
Why?
Will you move back home? Or, to another area?

If you got over your regret, how did you do it?

Thank you.
No regrets for me, my wife to a degree yes, bless her. She misses the 4 seasons, hates the heat. So we agreed that a home pool and DirectTV and no kissing Lanai was required to move so she can watch the Packers. After close to 4 years I think she has adapted well. We like living in the bubble. It is beautiful year round. For me, you kidding, traveling the world in my 30 plus years business career, now playing golf 3 to 4 times a week, enjoying friends with similar life experiences. Wow wish we would have done this earlier.

[DMoring]

In a few days we will have been here one year. We deeply regret not coming here sooner. Honestly, what's not to like? We love it here. Feel like we are on a permanent vacation.

[daca55]

Well said!!


Ohio will always live in my heart, the four real seasons and the memories of our little ones and our grands being little too. But now we love the vibrancy of this climate and the enjoyment of conversation with our peers and learning new skills and resting when we are done "working".

I love beautiful and clean and well ordered and well maintained and I love living in a safe environment and The Villages fill the bill. Hope for a continued gentle life.

[Charmilaine]

Hubby would have moved here 11 years ago. He’s doing the happy dance; for me it’s a leap of faith. We’ve been in TV since sept 2018; we bought a house in feb 2019. Now we have to make a life for ourselves. I still have my ups and downs. Miss my family, friends, normal schedule. Neighborhood is wonderful but still feel on the outside looking in. I’m sure it’ll take time to meld in. Fingers crossed.

[TOMCAT]

As many have said, TV is not for everyone but if you no longer live here there must be something about this place that speaks to you. Why do you still follow talk of the Villages? I do not mean this “to get all over you” but I do find it curious

Yes, well said. If I did not like a place that I moved from, I would delete everything about it. Why still on this forum.

As for me, my husband and I are not down there yet. My son and his wife, who moved not too far from us are expecting a girl in October. Otherwise, we would have been there already. The Villages looks like a great place to live. Others tell me why don’t you try other retirement communities and I just say no, only the Villages. That is just my opinion. Right now, I am living is LI only for my granddaughter and that is about it.

[Psa1000]

I travel between TV and Upstate NY. I have now started to love The Villages after 2 years of ownership but I don’t want to get past the family closeness in NY. I will never give up my home up there. Yes, they are outgrowing the need for me but I will never outgrow my need for the closeness of them!


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[jfkilduff]

Everyone is old here!!!!! It’s DEPRESSING ALL THE TIME

[Jackie vohs]

Just moved here from Las Vegas 2 months ago and I like everyone else I'm sorry I didn't do it sooner. If you can't find happiness here you'll never be happy

[diane reynolds]

I regret moving to The Villages. I need to live where a community is "real" and by that I mean: kids, young people, but most of all where life has its ups and downs and is not aiming toward "perfect". I would rather live in a community where folks have an opportunity to participate in governing and in giving opinions. It is a fine thing to reap the rewards of working for a lifetime, but the world goes on and needs us old people, and not for us to withdraw into The Bubble and live for ourselves and just aim to have a good time everyday. I am speaking for myself ONLY and do understand that there are people here who are still involved in trying to "save" the world. For example, all new homes here should be required to have solar panels, veggie gardens allowed, and each Village should govern itself. OK--jump on me!

[Blessed2BNTV]

Bought in 2012 while we were both still working. Two houses later, hubby thought it was too hot so we bought house with pool - house #3, finally got it right.

He’s happy and you can see by my name, I am too.

We did retire in 2017.

[John_W]

I regret moving to The Villages. I need to live where a community is "real" and by that I mean: kids, young people, but most of all where life has its ups and downs and is not aiming toward "perfect".

I had a neighbor like that, when I first moved here in 2011. I played some golf with her husband and he said in the last 8 years they lived in a cottage home near Cane Garden, then moved to Tennessee for two years, then moved back to TV and bought a designer home, then moved to the CYV near me in Tamarind Grove and then in 2015 moved to Lakeside Landing off Rainey Trail. Ran into them one time while waiting for a table at Bob Evans, she said she liked seeing kids riding bikes and walking down the street. I otherhand, like the calmness that comes with living in a CYV without the children. I think more than anything, she was a person who enjoyed moving, probably a good candidate for an RV.

[BigHoss18]

I regret moving to The Villages. I need to live where a community is "real" and by that I mean: kids, young people, but most of all where life has its ups and downs and is not aiming toward "perfect". I would rather live in a community where folks have an opportunity to participate in governing and in giving opinions. It is a fine thing to reap the rewards of working for a lifetime, but the world goes on and needs us old people, and not for us to withdraw into The Bubble and live for ourselves and just aim to have a good time everyday. I am speaking for myself ONLY and do understand that there are people here who are still involved in trying to "save" the world. For example, all new homes here should be required to have solar panels, veggie gardens allowed, and each Village should govern itself. OK--jump on me!

Hi Diane, I hope no one "jumps on you". Too many people get jumped on because they have different ideas and opinions. I respect yours even though it is quite the opposite for my wife and me. I had no regrets and adjusted immediately. CJ, on the other hand, took over a year to acclimate and feel "at home". We lived the first 8 months in Calumet Grove. Nice, friendly people, but no one let us "in". Very clicky. So we moved to Fenney, and our world changed immediately; I mean the day we moved in! People came over to offer assistance, welcome us, and ask about our story.

I still work, but CJ is now engaged and has many wonderful friends, and keep herself busy and healthy. My day will come when I get to retire in a couple of years, and until then, I will enjoy my downtime when I can, and otherwise, enjoy this little slice of heaven.

PS - I completely understand your need and appreciation for "family interaction". Seeing kids and young families enjoying themselves. We see this in TV during the winter and spring months. I love going to the town squares and seeing TV residents hosting their families and children.

I wish you well my dear.

[EvelynEvagash]

We love TV but are snowbirds only because of the hospital situation here.

[John_W]

Everyone is old here!!!!! It’s DEPRESSING ALL THE TIME

You need to get out and not just the squares during happy hour. Join MVP at Brownwood, then you'll be around people who are young at heart and body. I joined 5 years ago this month and it's my favorite place, it's almost like going to school everyday and seeing familiar people, interacting, talking sports, and of course, exercising the body. I bet if you took "Group Power" class 3 days a week and kept up with the class you wouldn't have made that comment.

If you haven't seen it, it's the big brown brick building across the parking lot from Two Jays.

https://intranet.edwardsconstruction.com/pictures/2014212_11102_64RV4LRW9WXD12A4OO26.jpg

Have you played softball in TV? We have the largest softball league in America with over 200 teams and 2500 players. We have 11 ball diamonds and leagues are broken down into 5 levels, so you compete against players at your own level. My first five years here I played 3 seasons a year of 14 games a season. After 15 seasons I had to take a break, but there's a lot of people running around those bases in their 60's and 70's.

http://www.thevillagesflhomesales.com/data1/images/softball.jpg

[sallybowron]

I regret that this is so far away from my family and friends. For me this is a big regret. After nine years I still haven't gotten over my homesickness. But, that si just me.

[Byte1]

I can live anywhere and have lived just about anywhere for most of my life. I moved here for my wife. She deserves it. She is very social and is happy being around others and socializing. Am I happy? I am happy if my spouse is happy. Do I miss home? Since I have moved most of my life, I do not miss any particular spot. I did have a time where I lived in the woods and loved it. My wife did not. Do I like it here? Yes, of course. What is there NOT to like? My advice for what it is worth, is to never look to the past to see how you might feel today. I look forward, never back. I learn from my past and look forward to the future, the new experiences. This is a great place. But, anyone can find fault with just about any place they live. I look at the positive, not the negative. If the negative ever tipped the scale, I would pack up and move. I do not regret moving here and my decision is rewarded by the smile on my wife's face every day.

[Velvet]

I think one’s perspective can change with age. At one time I though too; “Too many old people, I could never live there”. Then one day it became: “Thank God for the old people, I can’t wait to live there”. It’s sort of like Kindergarten in reverse, great if you are 5 years old, not so good if you are a teen.
TV went from my parents’ generation to my generation.

[nan27]

Yes! We stayed 2 years in the Villages and moved up to Sun City SC. Much more attractive, much less crowded, much less traffic and a lot more privacy! We bought new in the bubble in Oct of 2015. Back door neighbor was only 20 feet away, there were no trees and bugs were everywhere at night. Here where we are now there are much lower property taxes for full time residents, NO bond fees and plenty of activities that are not jammed packed! I can go for a walk and not have to deal with drunk drivers on golf carts, my mail gets delivered right to my house. Yes there is a state income tax, but after all the deductions it was less than zero! The ocean is only 30-45 mins away, and the dining is to die for here. We never regret moving away, it just wasn't for us! Now I know some of you diehard Villagers are about to jump all over me, but do yourself a favor and dive on up and take a look around! You too will question why you haven't moved yet.
Thanks so much for your post. We are just beginning to research places to retire. The issues that you listed are my biggest concerns. My husband grew up in SC. We will definitely check out Sun City. I would love to privately correspond with you to get some pointers.

[nan27]

After 19 years here I have witnessed the rapid growth of The Villages. Despite the developer constantly tooting his own horn in the company propaganda rag, AKA The Daily Sun, this exponential growth is a negative for many retirees. Tomorrow I leave The Villages for good. I have found a much smaller version of The Villages, with actual SECURITY GATES, gof course, golf cart community, backed by a strong financial presence, Berkshire Hathaway, and more bang for the buck in the amenities fees. AND NO CDD! . The best part is it is almost built out, and no more land available to expand. About 5000 residents. Check out Soleil of Laurel Canyon in Canton, GA.
Thanks for the tip. We're add this community to our list of places to check out!

[Brynnie]

I have lived here for 14 years, and though I love the beauty of The Villages and the friends I've made here, I hate the brutal summer heat. If I had it to do over, I would have been a snowbird, as I still miss the changing seasons in Ohio, which I still consider my real home. I would suggest that anyone considering moving to The Villages full time spend at least one summer here before taking the plunge. Wish I had done that.

[DaleDivine]

We've been here a little over 5 years. Like a lot of others, just wished we had moved here sooner. We live in a CYV and all the neighbors in here feel like relatives.
Moved here from Hampton Roads area of Virginia and it was getting to be a real mess there. We lived in a cul de sac and knew all of our neighbors very well but we NEVER socialized wit any of them. Totally different here with our fantastic neighbors. PLUS I play golf almost every day with neighbors and other friends we have met here.

[ChicagoNative]

We'd been snow-birding on the gulf coast in St. Pete since 2010, but got a bad case of “hurricane fatigue” after Irma so we decided to explore inland options. I have a cousin in the Villages, and we did the lifestyle preview in 2017. We were dead-set on moving there after that, but just for the proverbial s.h.its & giggles, decided to investigate what was outside the bubble. That fluky decision was the best thing we did, and we closed on a beautiful new home in a beautiful community in January of 2018. Everyone was new at around the same time, which I think helps when trying to build new friendships. A whole lot of our neighbors are former Villagers, and we are not an age-restricted community. Even though we are now the old people, I like seeing families and kids.

We are absolutely thrilled with our community, home, neighbors, activities, and amenities. While we are technically not the Villages, we share a border with them on 2 sides and can take advantage of the squares whenever we want and don’t have a bond or cdd. Granted, the Villages lifestyle is what drew us to this area to begin with, but we don’t golf and the clubs and activities in our community are fine for us. (who really needs 2000 clubs, anyway?!)
We’re not the least bit jealous of anyone who lives in the Villages and we have zero regrets that we did not move inside. For those who do live there and love it, more power to you.

We are fortunate enough to keep a home in Chicago for the summer, and I don’t see stopping that anytime soon. As nice as the Villages area is, the Florida summer heat is oppressive, and we need to escape that and the suburban sameness of the whole area for some city grit, good restaurants, and urban culture. It’s pretty sweet to be able to have both. Different strokes.

[WojoV]

Yes! We stayed 2 years in the Villages and moved up to Sun City SC. Much more attractive, much less crowded, much less traffic and a lot more privacy! We bought new in the bubble in Oct of 2015. Back door neighbor was only 20 feet away, there were no trees and bugs were everywhere at night. Here where we are now there are much lower property taxes for full time residents, NO bond fees and plenty of activities that are not jammed packed! I can go for a walk and not have to deal with drunk drivers on golf carts, my mail gets delivered right to my house. Yes there is a state income tax, but after all the deductions it was less than zero! The ocean is only 30-45 mins away, and the dining is to die for here. We never regret moving away, it just wasn't for us! Now I know some of you diehard Villagers are about to jump all over me, but do yourself a favor and dive on up and take a look around! You too will question why you haven't moved yet.
Are you talking about Del Webb Sun City Hilton Head retirement community in Bluffton, South Carolina? We are checking out different places to live in retirement. Love the DRY heat in Sun City, AZ BUT no where near the amenities that the Villages has but wow, the soaking wet heat in Florida and the above average potential risk of sink holes are things to consider. Will definitely check out this place you mentioned in Hilton Head or Bluffton or Hilton Head Bluffton, SC. Thanks for your post. Have a great day!! John

[larrycox8ball@gmail.com]

I feel like I have arrived in Heaven without having died first.

[Mgoliver97]

Life is a journey, so I don't have regrets. When I made the switch, as a single person, I figured 'as long as no one died', it was all going to be okay, even if I didn't like it here and wanted to move back.
You may not have moved here yet, but like anything new, it is up to you to make the best of it, and The Villages helps by having lots to offer in a clean and lively environment.
Stay positive! Nothing is perfect!
Fill your days with purpose; today I will find a club to join, today I will find a church I like, today I will explore nature, etc. Go wherever in the Villages and chat people up.
I do still 'miss' not being super close (regionally) to my family, but they are living their own lives and I am happy for that. Social media has really helped keep me in touch.
I have made it a habit to go 'back' to visit a few times a year. And, even though that is lovely, I miss my home in the Villages when I am there!
I do invite friends from the north and have them see my new environment. Life is good.

[sdm1222]

Major factor is that it's unbelievably hot and humid from May to November. The winter months are overcrowded with Snowbirds, Rentals, and Visitors. The "I should of moved here 10 years ago" is a standard line, but it's definitely not for everybody.

[courtyard]

Re: Sun City, SC...I just googled that retirement community, and if you are thinking of relocating there, just read about their class action lawsuit about faulty stucco and mold, and you'll change your mind!

[Chi-Town]

Looked at Sun City Hilton Head 20 years ago after a seminar on one of the Island's plantations. Realized then that not being on Hilton Head Island you lose the feel if its lifestyle. Same goes for The Villages. Nice communities like Spruce Creek and Harbor Hills close by, but The Villages lifestyle makes the difference.

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[Aces4]

Re: Sun City, SC...I just googled that retirement community, and if you are thinking of relocating there, just read about their class action lawsuit about faulty stucco and mold, and you'll change your mind!

I thought I’d read that was a problem with some of the houses that were built there and it was corrected and remedied. You know, just like when The Villages had bad siding installation, bad shingles, bad underground piping that corroded, sinkholes....

Point being, i think they all have issues. There were lawsuits here also.

[NewRealms]

I think regrets and being homesick are two different things. Yearning for one place while physically being in another can be very disruptive to moving forward in ones new place. You'll tend to hold back with new experience and acquaintances. If you find it's to be too overwhelming or overpowering you might consider returning. Life is too short.
Central Florida offers a unique life style whether you are still working, almost retired or fully retired. There is much to like about living here, lots of activities, warmer weather (100 degree summer temps!!!), the roundabouts, the flock of winter snowbirds or the peacefulness when they fly north. It's really all up to you.
The opinions of those posting here is of little matter. What's important is what you really want.
RICK

[Number 10 GI]

Hello. I am relocating here and I already miss home.

Do you regret moving to TV?
Why?
Will you move back home? Or, to another area?

If you got over your regret, how did you do it?

Thank you.

I wouldn't advise moving here if you are already having strong misgivings about it. If you come here with the feeling of loss for your former home it could cause you to only focus on your loss and the negative rather than trying to find the positives of your relocation. I don't know and don't need to know your financial situation but if you can rent in TV for a year and still maintain your current home, that might be the best approach. That would be a much safer way to decide if you could be happy with permanent move.

[Ladygolfer93]

I am a golfer and love warm climates, don't think I could move back "north", HOWEVER, the things you mentioned are indeed tugs at the heart; children, grand children, groups of life long friends that are now at the stage of life that allows them to get together often, maybe even travel together. That being said, IF daily golf in any season, the proximity of beaches, the relative warmth year round (yes we can have an occasional few HOURS of 32 degrees in the "depth" of "winter"), waking up every morning and realizing you actually are living in a resort, a perpetual vacation, and yet those things do NOT trump those very important things & people you left behind, I would not hesitate one DAY before I would call the moving truck. Life and retirement years are far too few to squander ! ! I agree with another reply, if finances allow, try the 50/50 like so many others. If your heart is still not right, follow your heart back to what is important to YOU !

[sdm1222]

Unbearably hot and humid from May to November. Congested and overcrowded from January to May. Answer your question?

[capecoralbill]

There are two things wrong with The Villages. Number 1: there are no sidewalks . Number 2: the developer will not own up to his responsibilities concerning the homes lost due to sinkholes.

[old maine geezer]

Solar panels could be optional, but requiring everyone to have solar? no thank you mam

[B-flat]

Unbearably hot and humid from May to November. Congested and overcrowded from January to May. Answer your question?

That’s realistic answer.

We are still snowbirds due to a family situation, when it changes with that elderly parent there’s a 99.99% chance we’ll pull up roots and settle here. I do have some reservations about moving here completely. My wife does not because she doesn’t have any family and very few friends in the north. I have an extensive network of friends and family in the small state we are from. I like being a big fish in a small sea rather than a small fish in a big sea. In other words the state I come from is smaller than Marion County. It’s not unusual for us to be in a restaurant, shopping mall or any other location and to see someone I know. For instance last evening we were out for dinner in one of the many fine restaurants here. While dining I met 2 friends who I haven’t see in a few years. I like that extended network moving here completely I’ll lose that. One real positive though I belong to organization that is worldwide and members of that organization meet daily at different locations in TV and everywhere else in Florida and the USA. Since we all have a common interest it’s easy to meet quality people thru that organization.

In an ideal world I would like to spend 8 or 9 months in TV and 3 to 4 in my home state. Only time will tell.

[Altavia]

Unbearably hot and humid from May to November. Congested and overcrowded from January to May. Answer your question?

Are the southern portions congested and overcrowded during snowbird season?

[mtdjed]

We all have a choice. Do what you want. Many like The Villages. Some don't.

I used to think that San Diego was Utopia. Just got back from San Diego visit this June. Too expensive (taxes, gas ), too cold 65F. Too weird.

Too hot here? Travel when hot. Don't like driving here, try NY, CAL, Bos.

[Tall4mom]

The Villages has many many people who move here and love it. Others move here and leave within a couple of years. Good for most, not for everyone. Know one family that moved back hone to enjoy grandchildren again. Come to the Villages with an open mind and ready to embrace the lifestyle and see what happens for you.
As for me I would rather be near my family so the Villages is just okay.

[Wiserbud47]

Are you talking about Del Webb Sun City Hilton Head retirement community in Bluffton, South Carolina? We are checking out different places to live in retirement. Love the DRY heat in Sun City, AZ BUT no where near the amenities that the Villages has but wow, the soaking wet heat in Florida and the above average potential risk of sink holes are things to consider. Will definitely check out this place you mentioned in Hilton Head or Bluffton or Hilton Head Bluffton, SC. Thanks for your post. Have a great day!! John

My daughter lived in Bluffton, SC and therefore I am familiar with the area. It was surprisingly hot and humid in the summer as is FL, but it's winters were cooler than FL. That is why the vast majority of people who want great outdoor weather go to FL for the winter. The Villages really does have the advantage when it comes to weather.

[wholtz]

We moved here going on seven years and have not regretted one day. We know quite a few people who moved back to their original home town for various reasons such as, illness, loss of a spouse, and some to be with their kids and grandkids. We have no intentions of doing that. Our kids and grandkids have been here and understand why we are here and they have enjoyed their visits as well. This is our happy place and we hope to enjoy it for many years to come. I have to admit however, moving was stressful, and we don't intend to ever do it again. They say the average Villager may move three times. We did our homework and bought the home we love, in the place we love, and we couldn't ask for better friends and neighbors. I wish you the same.

[rustyp]

Cut the crap. It's all about Jan Feb March. Nowhere else on the east coast is it warm for those three months. 25% of the year TV is utopia. You can justify the rest of the year to your heart's desire. 110 heat index sucks. That's the forecast for tomorrow folks.

[valuemkt]

Most of the replies seem to center around weather. So, Ive experienced various cities in Upstate NY and have shoveled enough snow for many peoples lifetimes. Got tired of dark skies from Labor to Memorial Day. Then fast paced Hotlanta. 7 lanes of traffic either going 75-80 MPH or deadstopped. Sampled humidity down here last summer and concluded its actually more comfortable here wiht a more constant breeze. Florida sure does know how to throw a good thunderstorm though. But enough about the weather. For the most part, people are friendly, cost of living (and especially eating out) is low, non existent taxes, rec centers, activities. Yes, kids are further away, and they have their own lives to live.. and you can drag your butt on a plane any time and visit for a weekend.. or a week or a month .. either at their house or a motel .. Are you still a helicopter parent at 65 or 75 ? Or did you raise them to be independent ? Whether you stayed put or moved, things will never be the way they once were .. for better or worse. Enjoy those final years. They are yours and your alone

[manaboutown]

Certainly not all but most of the people I have met in TV were weather refugees from “up north”. Others came from other communities in Florida. A few moved from places like Southern California which has great weather because Florida was far less costly.

[Eastwind53]

Yes, been here 19 years. If I was younger and had the money I would move back to cape Cod.

[B-flat]

Yes, been here 19 years. If I was younger and had the money I would move back to cape Cod..

Reminds me of an old song

If you're fond of sand dunes and salty air
Quaint little villages here and there
(You're sure)You're sure to fall in love with old Cape Cod.

If you like the taste of a lobster stew
Served by a window with an ocean view
(You're sure)You're sure to fall in love with old Cape Cod

[Kilmacowen]

Cape Cod has changed dramatically in the last 20 yrs. Traffic congestion, no parking. Lots of snow.

[tophcfa]

Cape Cod has changed dramatically in the last 20 yrs. Traffic congestion, no parking. Lots of snow.

Don't forget the thousands of seals which cover the beach with seal crap when the tides come in, bring in great white sharks so you risk your life swimming, and eat all the striped bass and blue fish so the fishing is fruitless. We have been going to the Cape every summer our whole lives, but it just is not the same any more. However, we have no regrets about the Villages. Every time we visit our Villiages home, the trip goes by way to fast and we don't want to leave. Every time we go back north all we do is talk about how much we wish we were back at our Villages home. If we could only dump all of those pesky responsibilities up north so we could become frogs. Someday?

[aninjamom]

I must admit that we are in the process of moving out of TV, but not out of dissatisfaction, regret, or homesickness. We really enjoy boating and fishing, and decided that we wanted to live where we have easier access to the Harris chain of lakes. We've found a beautiful place here in Cent. FL where we will have our own boat slip; and right on a golf course for much less than it would cost here! The Villages is beautiful and convenient, just not exactly a fit for us. I'm sure we will miss it - there's no Starbucks near the new place!

[ColdNoMore]

I must admit that we are in the process of moving out of TV, but not out of dissatisfaction, regret, or homesickness. We really enjoy boating and fishing, and decided that we wanted to live where we have easier access to the Harris chain of lakes. We've found a beautiful place here in Cent. FL where we will have our own boat slip; and right on a golf course for much less than it would cost here! The Villages is beautiful and convenient, just not exactly a fit for us. I'm sure we will miss it - there's no Starbucks near the new place!

That makes sense.

It sounds like you've found a perfect location for your interests...good luck. :thumbup:

[thelegges]

Still have northern homes so no reason to be unhappy no matter where we stay

[BAT777]

Moved here 3 years ago and everything was great until this year. Medical is a nightmare-are considering moving a smaller 55 Community with plenty of activities and golfing with better access to Doctors and not having to go through Nurses-PA if there is an issue. Stores are getting so crowded..Too bad it seems to be all about them making more $$$.

[Bay Kid]

TVs is a great getaway for me , but I will never give up country living on the Chesapeake Bay.

[CFrance]

TVs is a great getaway for me , but I will never give up country living on the Chesapeake Bay.
:coolsmiley:You certainly have the best of two worlds!

[stan the man]

I could never live in the villages full-time although it has its perks it also has its drawbacks. Yes it's cold up north and it does Snow in the winter time. But the villages is really no Bargain in the winter either. We get Frost many times and I've even seen snow. The place is extremely crowded. If you want warm winters go south not Central Florida. The medical facilities are really not the best, may be mediocre. Golf course maintenance has gotten worse over the years and prices still go up. Up north in the mountains I can still play golf at $30 on many of the beautiful mountain courses with green trees doglegs left and right. Nights are cool the days are pleasant humidity is low. If you live in New York State you have Lakes, beaches, mountains, forest, farmland, probably one of the prettiest states in the union. Florida I have sand, Flat terrain,And yes I have to say some really great beaches we also have some really nice lakes but we also have the hottest and most humid summers aside from the rainforest in the world. So maybe if a person can afford it being a snowbird is a good life. I personally still enjoys skiing, snowshoeing, cross-country ski, and just plain love to see the Snows come. I love to come inside after winter activities have a cup of hot chocolate and sit by my fireplace. What I really miss is going to the squares ( yer right ) or sitting at the outside bar as city fire (right again) Yes we do have crime up north but so does the villages.