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graciegirl
05-01-2020, 09:43 AM
I answered and he said . Hello grandma and he was sniffing and sounding like he was crying. I said......Who is calling please, as I always do, I am hearing impaired. My closed captioning that is a few seconds delayed showed me the caller had called me grandma. No one has ever called me grandma in my family, EVER. I hung up. Be wary...and careful. Anyone who would know you are older and do this on purpose is one awful loser.
bumpygreens
05-01-2020, 09:54 AM
Good for you. It's sad to see how many seniors fall for scams and con artists.
Chatbrat
05-01-2020, 09:56 AM
A friend of mine fell from that scam, they went to the Home Depot bought $5K worth of gift cards-- they never got a dime back
TommyT
05-01-2020, 10:41 AM
This is one of the old scams that has gone on for years.... Yet people still fall for this crapolla !!! :ohdear:
rustyp
05-01-2020, 10:53 AM
So easy. Even if you believe it is your grandchild. Why are we not facetiming ? If can't be done right now what is:
1 your grandfather's middle name
2 name your first pet
3 your siblings birth date
4 what was the last gift I gave you
A little forethought about these sort of things goes a long way.
Inexes@aol.com
05-01-2020, 11:46 AM
I like to have fun with it and play along until they catch on and hang up. Used to do this with the calls from the guys about everything wrong with my computer..... I used to give them fits. LOL:1rotfl:
Two Bills
05-01-2020, 12:52 PM
There is a PayPal phone scam still going around where they inform you someone from a different IP address has tried to log into your account, and they have put a hold on your account, sign in to unlock it.
Don't!
bagboy
05-01-2020, 12:52 PM
If my grandson called from jail, I'd tell him to be careful not to drop the bar of soap.
davem4616
05-01-2020, 01:33 PM
If my grandson called from jail, I'd tell him to be careful not to drop the bar of soap.
actually you should tell him that if he does drop the soap to bend at the knees when picking it up
graciegirl
05-01-2020, 02:13 PM
It was a 443 area code with a lot of twos and sevens in the rest of the number...should anyone call you. I looked it up on reverse look up and it said it was a land line in Md with no name attached. I am grateful our grandchildren have been close to us all of their lives and we know them so well, know what they call us, know their mannerisms...and I am grateful that they are independent and financially successful and employed even during this awful time.
Aw Man
05-01-2020, 03:31 PM
I answered and he said . Hello grandma and he was sniffing and sounding like he was crying. I said......Who is calling please, as I always do, I am hearing impaired. My closed captioning that is a few seconds delayed showed me the caller had called me grandma. No one has ever called me grandma in my family, EVER. I hung up. Be wary...and careful. Anyone who would know you are older and do this on purpose is one awful loser.
I have to ask, why did you even answer this call?
Do you answer all incoming calls?
We also are hearing impaired and have closed captioning on our land line. We don’t answer any calls that we don’t immediately recognize as coming from someone we know.
manaboutown
05-01-2020, 03:36 PM
A friend of mine fell from that scam, they went to the Home Depot bought $5K worth of gift cards-- they never got a dime back
I friend of mine did as well. The scammer said he was in the hospital in a foreign country and needed money wired to him. It was $15,000.
manaboutown
05-01-2020, 03:44 PM
I like to have fun with it and play along until they catch on and hang up. Used to do this with the calls from the guys about everything wrong with my computer..... I used to give them fits. LOL:1rotfl:
There are Youtube videos of this. Calls from the IRS where the caller has such a heavy Indian accent one can hardly understand him. Police officer scams an IRS scammer with return phone call - YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n6Rwc8lNn0k)
graciegirl
05-01-2020, 04:09 PM
I have to ask, why did you even answer this call?
Do you answer all incoming calls?
We also are hearing impaired and have closed captioning on our land line. We don’t answer any calls that we don’t immediately recognize as coming from someone we know.
I answered it because it looked to be a legitimate number. I don't recognize the telephone number of everyone we know.
villagetinker
05-01-2020, 04:09 PM
There appears to be scam / phishing emails stating they are from Comcast, but if you look at the senders address it is obvious this is not from Comcast, I have sent both these to Comcast so they are aware of what is going on. They say the email system is being changed and you need to click the link to use the new system. DO NOT DO IT!
Topspinmo
05-01-2020, 04:56 PM
I answered and he said . Hello grandma and he was sniffing and sounding like he was crying. I said......Who is calling please, as I always do, I am hearing impaired. My closed captioning that is a few seconds delayed showed me the caller had called me grandma. No one has ever called me grandma in my family, EVER. I hung up. Be wary...and careful. Anyone who would know you are older and do this on purpose is one awful loser.
With caller ID and getting several scams day down here is sunny Florida. I don’t answer any phone calls I don’t recognize. If the want to talk to me they can leave message if I don’t know them. Same goes for emails. If I don’t know who sending them and not already put in junk. I delete them. Scammers think of new ways every day to try to get to you bank account, credit card, SSN, or any information you give them to try to steal you’re identity.
manaboutown
05-01-2020, 05:32 PM
Prior to the pandemic I was getting six to eight robocalls per day on average. There are scam calls among them as a few leave messages; some are from the IRS; some are in Chinese and have music playing in the background. Anyway, the pandemic has reduced them to three or four a week.
OrangeBlossomBaby
05-01-2020, 06:34 PM
I got one of those grandma calls once on my landline when I still lived in Connecticut. Happened around a year ago, after we purchased the house down here. The call went something like this (and remember - I have trouble distinguishing words if I'm unable to read the lips of the person talking):
Caller: "Hello, grandma?"
Me: "Huh?"
C: Grandma it's me.
Me: "Excuse me?"
C: It's me, your grandson.
Me: You're not my grandson.
C: Yes, it's me, don't you remember?
Me: If I had a grandson I'm pretty sure I'd remember.
C: But grandma it really is me!
Me: Dood. I don't have any *#)!$ grandkids you dumb*$$ )#)*($#@##%^
C: CLICK
It was the oddest call I ever got. I don't have any children - and therefore, no grandchildren either.
Velvet
05-01-2020, 06:49 PM
Now that is funny. I bet there were no more “grandma calls” after that.
Rosebud1949
05-02-2020, 05:05 AM
Beware of emails scams and hacking too. One from the UK saying Terry cant get home to TV he's lost his wallet and can I send $2000 ( first mistake they do not use $$$ in the UK) I answered because I was playing pickleball with the person mentioned 1 hour ago in TV.... so no way he could be in the UK........PLEASE BEWARE if they get your emails they have your contacts. The latest .. is this email still working.. you have won $3 million......please reply promptly
DAN48
05-02-2020, 05:07 AM
If my grandson called from jail, I'd tell him to be careful not to drop the bar of soap.
I agree. I'm still waiting for one of these calls, but have never received one.
I want to tell them to keep him/her-a their own peril!
Alicat5977
05-02-2020, 05:29 AM
They prey on the elderly. As a Target employee we have elders coming in a lot saying they need $2000 in GC for “bail money “ or hospital bills. 1) bail bonds men only take cash or collateral they would never ask for GC. 2) no hospital would take Target GC for payment. No matter their story if they ask for GC in payment hang up immediately, inform your local police and let all your friends and family know. Also call the person they say is in danger, hospital or jail and talk to them, they will tell you they are fine. This is a scare tactic they use on the elderly. Please think before you act and don’t panic, the panic is what they depend on.
Alicat5977
05-02-2020, 05:36 AM
We have stopped several people from getting scammed by refusing their request. We also have a daily limit on GC and it’s not very high, so we wouldn’t be able to do it anyway.
tsmall22204
05-02-2020, 05:54 AM
Good for you grandma!
oneclickplus
05-02-2020, 06:28 AM
There is a PayPal phone scam still going around where they inform you someone from a different IP address has tried to log into your account, and they have put a hold on your account, sign in to unlock it.
Don't!
You can have a little fun. No, you can't identify or email the scammer in these cases. As you probably know, their goal is to get you to "login" to paypal using their fake website; this allows them to capture your ID / password. I always go to their fake website to login. Here are my credentials:
Username: JustWanted@To.Say
password: PhuckYouScammer
I get the satisfaction of knowing that they WILL see this on their server.
Meanwhile, regarding paypal security ... everyone should have 2-factor authentication on all their accounts (all the ones that offer it) such as Amazon, eBay, PayPal, your bank, your brokerage, etc. A code is sent to your phone when you attempt to login which you then have to provide in order to proceed.
Even if some scammer got a password to your account, they are stopped dead because they don't have access to your phone and this one-time code. PLUS, if you get a code on your phone for Paypal (example) and it's not you trying to login, you have an immediate alert that your password has been compromised. But, relax ... nothing urgent ... no need to panic - they can't get in without the code. So, just go change your password after you finish your round of golf and take a shower.
I even put 2-factor on my email. Why? Because email is the primary method for password change / recovery; especially for accounts that don't offer 2-factor (yet). So, even if a hacker tried to do a password reset for my grocery delivery account and even if they had my email password, they could not possibly proceed because they can't even get into my email (no code) to complete the process.
JoelJohnson
05-02-2020, 06:37 AM
Our daughter got a call from"Verizon" saying her account was locked, a quick sign on to the account proved it was not.
Watch out for these type of things too. If you get a email saying something like that, DO NOT CLICK ON THE LINK!. Go to the official site and sign in there.
Cheapbas
05-02-2020, 06:58 AM
I have both HIYA and NOMOROBO on my cell, they identify possible scam or fraud, telemarketers, blocked ids etc. some of the calls are blocked, some go to voice mail and some identified. Suggest you get these or something similar several are free. Some carriers, like ATT have their own to download.
If you don’t recognize the caller, don’t answer, if it’s important they will leave a message.
greenflash245
05-02-2020, 07:09 AM
scam
Pedrocarrasco01@yahoo.com
05-02-2020, 07:10 AM
There appears to be scam / phishing emails stating they are from Comcast, but if you look at the senders address it is obvious this is not from Comcast, I have sent both these to Comcast so they are aware of what is going on. They say the email system is being changed and you need to click the link to use the new system. DO NOT DO IT!
Yes, I have received emails supposedly from Apple, PayPal and Banks saying that my account was compromised and included a link for me to put information, these look real, have logos, and what you would think is legit, don’t forget, your financial accounts have YOUR PHONE NUMBER, they will call you, but don’t give them any info, ask for the extension number, then call the number on the back of the card and dial the extension number, that way you know is legitimate and not a scam, NEVER give information over the phone unless YOU initiated the call and do not acknowledge emails:welcome::welcome::bigbow::bigbow: :boom:
DanBrew
05-02-2020, 07:16 AM
Never answer a call that is not in you contacts. When you do, you legitimize your number to these criminals. If it is a call that is important, let them leave a message and then call back.
Lindsyburnsy
05-02-2020, 07:35 AM
Good for you. It's sad to see how many seniors fall for scams and con artists.
This is an old scam that must be surfacing. My 90 year old mother fell for it. Went to the neighborhood bank to get the money this "grandson" said he needed, but thankfully, the bank teller called me first. I told her that it was not legit and then told my mother that my son would never call her for money and if he was in some kind of serious trouble, he would call me or his father. Something to be said for a bank that actually knows their customers.
davem4616
05-02-2020, 08:12 AM
before all the 'robo calls' I used to like to play along with these callers....
it was as much fun as having a 4 lb. trout on the hook using 2 lb. test line
my favorite way to end the call after stringing them along was to suddenly say "oops my wife just pulled into the driveway, I gotta hang up, she doesn't like me to use the phone"...click
I miss that form of entertainment
Fishers2tall
05-02-2020, 08:19 AM
If my grandson called from jail, I'd tell him to be careful not to drop the bar of soap.
:a20::a20::BigApplause::BigApplause:
Jacob85
05-02-2020, 08:31 AM
This is a scam that has been around for some time. Always hang up and contact your family members directly if you have any doubt at all. You did the right thing! I work at Seniors V. crime and when we reopen you can always call us if you are unsure about a possible scam.
Scorpyo
05-02-2020, 08:58 AM
There is a PayPal phone scam still going around where they inform you someone from a different IP address has tried to log into your account, and they have put a hold on your account, sign in to unlock it.
Don't!
I've gotten this 3 times, twice saying someone had my Apple ID. I forward these to reportphishing@apple.com
I have no idea what if anything Apple does with it.
Holpat39
05-02-2020, 09:16 AM
I do not answer any call that I don't recognize and let it go onto the answering machine then pick it up if it's a legitimate call. Unfortunately almost all doctor offices have people call you from their cell phones where the numbers are all over the place. I still wait for it to go onto the answering machine and if the call is on my cell phone I let it go to voice mail then return the call if I recognize it.
MandoMan
05-02-2020, 09:23 AM
I answered and he said . Hello grandma and he was sniffing and sounding like he was crying. I said......Who is calling please, as I always do, I am hearing impaired. My closed captioning that is a few seconds delayed showed me the caller had called me grandma. No one has ever called me grandma in my family, EVER. I hung up. Be wary...and careful. Anyone who would know you are older and do this on purpose is one awful loser.
This happened to my 91 year old father a few months ago. The caller claimed to be my son, and somehow he had the name right. Perhaps from Facebook. Being a bit of a joker, my dad carried on the call for quite a while, asking if the caller remembered when they had done this or that special thing together, or that meaningful Christmas present from ten years back, or stories about my late mother. The caller remembered it all. Every story had been made up on the spot. Then my dad told the guy off and hung up, laughing.
Somewhere Jesus said that if anyone hurts a kid, it would be better for a millstone to be tied around the guy’s neck and for him to be thrown into the depths of the sea. I would like to see that be the mandatory punishment for anyone who tries to scam anyone this way. If millstones aren’t available, a suitably heavy substitute could be used. It’s just not right! What sort of scum would even try such a scam.
Mewatt2@gmail.com
05-02-2020, 09:25 AM
This scam has been around for a while. I got it one day &- knew the deal. I said is this Tommy & they said yes! I don't have a grandson Tommy. Lol
dplars
05-02-2020, 09:32 AM
Must be prevalent here, tried to send Grandson some money and my bank was very suspicious, supervisors came out and question where the funds were going, apparently the key words were "grandson" with no mailing address. Ended. up using Walmart money transfer system.
vonbork
05-02-2020, 09:47 AM
My wife received such a call and asked the "young man" to spell his last name. It's Ciacciarelli. End of call.
OrangeBlossomBaby
05-02-2020, 09:57 AM
You can have a little fun. No, you can't identify or email the scammer in these cases. As you probably know, their goal is to get you to "login" to paypal using their fake website; this allows them to capture your ID / password. I always go to their fake website to login. Here are my credentials:
Username: JustWanted@To.Say
password: PhuckYouScammer
I get the satisfaction of knowing that they WILL see this on their server.
Meanwhile, regarding paypal security ... everyone should have 2-factor authentication on all their accounts (all the ones that offer it) such as Amazon, eBay, PayPal, your bank, your brokerage, etc. A code is sent to your phone when you attempt to login which you then have to provide in order to proceed.
Even if some scammer got a password to your account, they are stopped dead because they don't have access to your phone and this one-time code. PLUS, if you get a code on your phone for Paypal (example) and it's not you trying to login, you have an immediate alert that your password has been compromised. But, relax ... nothing urgent ... no need to panic - they can't get in without the code. So, just go change your password after you finish your round of golf and take a shower.
I even put 2-factor on my email. Why? Because email is the primary method for password change / recovery; especially for accounts that don't offer 2-factor (yet). So, even if a hacker tried to do a password reset for my grocery delivery account and even if they had my email password, they could not possibly proceed because they can't even get into my email (no code) to complete the process.
Never go to their fake website. Often within those links are special lines of code that will inject a virus into your computer, or sell your IP info to a scam list that basically tells everyone "hey this person is a sucker who will actually check your website, so go ahead and do your damage."
OhioBuckeye
05-02-2020, 09:57 AM
I answered and he said . Hello grandma and he was sniffing and sounding like he was crying. I said......Who is calling please, as I always do, I am hearing impaired. My closed captioning that is a few seconds delayed showed me the caller had called me grandma. No one has ever called me grandma in my family, EVER. I hung up. Be wary...and careful. Anyone who would know you are older and do this on purpose is one awful loser.
Sounds like a scam, I got the same kind of a call 3 or 4 yrs. ago & I did what you did, hung up. I called my daughter & told her about it & she just said, you did hang up on them didn’t you. She said there on vacation & both grandkids have been with her & our son in law for a week. So to anyone that gets this kind of call like this hang up, then call them yourself & see if it was them. Good for you, you did the right thing graciegirl & didn’t get scammed!
Scorpyo
05-02-2020, 09:57 AM
My wife received such a call and asked the "young man" to spell his last name. It's Ciacciarelli. End of call.
Let me write down the spelling of that typical Irish name so I know how to spell it the next time I call. Lol
Spike380
05-02-2020, 10:01 AM
I had that happen to me recently--I have granddogs, horses, rabbits, chickens so I had some fun! I kept saying "oh honey are you all right? Do you need money? It was fun. Then I told him he should be ashamed of trying to scam old people and he hung up so fast I think I saw sparks! BE VIGILANT cause this is a scarey time.
OrangeBlossomBaby
05-02-2020, 10:02 AM
Never answer a call that is not in you contacts. When you do, you legitimize your number to these criminals. If it is a call that is important, let them leave a message and then call back.
Not all of my contacts are on my contacts list. I'm still new here to Florida, and my health insurance company sometimes calls me - from an 800 number. That's really very strange, because typically 800-lines aren't intended for outgoing calls. What's even more strange is that now, so many customer service folks are working from home and have a cell phone they're given with a unique phone number so they can do their job. It's not an official company phone number, so you can't look it up. That's the circumstances we're living in at the moment.
So if I'm expecting a call from my doctor's office, or insurance company, or any other place where many people are working from home, I'm going to answer the phone even if I don't recognize it.
If I'm NOT expecting a call - then I might let it go into voice mail.
rphil11ort
05-02-2020, 10:10 AM
I answered and he said . Hello grandma and he was sniffing and sounding like he was crying. I said......Who is calling please, as I always do, I am hearing impaired. My closed captioning that is a few seconds delayed showed me the caller had called me grandma. No one has ever called me grandma in my family, EVER. I hung up. Be wary...and careful. Anyone who would know you are older and do this on purpose is one awful loser.
She was told it was my son stuck in Canada and needed $2500. She wired through western union. When my sister found out what happened she went to western union about a month later and found out my mother spelt the criminals name wrong so he couldn't pick up the money and she got it back. Kudo's to my sister and may he burn in hell
Nipper
05-02-2020, 10:15 AM
This happened to someone I know years ago. After the grandma spiel, she said "call your mother."
cbmerl
05-02-2020, 12:07 PM
Gross!
Velvet
05-02-2020, 12:23 PM
When we get a scam call hubby usually asks for their credit card information.
Donb0975
05-02-2020, 12:24 PM
Had this type of call several years ago, voice saying he was my grandson and had been locked up for drunk driving could I post his bond. I asked if he had called his father and if not he should do so immediately, then hung up.
talleyjm
05-02-2020, 01:34 PM
What an odd question. Who in the world would recognize EVERY phone number that called?
Velvet
05-02-2020, 01:50 PM
What an odd question. Who in the world would recognize EVERY phone number that called?
I’ve got caller ID, if I don’t know the person, they’re out of luck.
CFrance
05-02-2020, 01:57 PM
So easy. Even if you believe it is your grandchild. Why are we not facetiming ? If can't be done right now what is:
1 your grandfather's middle name
2 name your first pet
3 your siblings birth date
4 what was the last gift I gave you
A little forethought about these sort of things goes a long way.
Ha! My kids wouldn't know the answer to any of those questions:1rotfl::1rotfl:
But I get your point. It can be done. Your particular questions just made me laugh. Now, ask them what was their first car or the pin code to open the garage door, the name of the girl they... well, never mind.
Westie Man
05-02-2020, 02:43 PM
If my grandson called from jail, I'd tell him to be careful not to drop the bar of soap.
those prison showers can be slippery when wet
PugMom
05-02-2020, 02:48 PM
It was a 443 area code with a lot of twos and sevens in the rest of the number...should anyone call you. I looked it up on reverse look up and it said it was a land line in Md with no name attached. I am grateful our grandchildren have been close to us all of their lives and we know them so well, know what they call us, know their mannerisms...and I am grateful that they are independent and financially successful and employed even during this awful time.
my father in law was a victim of this last year. the caller claimed to be our daughter -she told him she was in jail. Dad asked why she sounded so funny & the caller said she was attacked & had her nose broken & needed medical treatment. it scared the bejeezus out of Dad. he hung up & called us,-- we'd heard of the scam & told him how it operates.
valuemkt
05-02-2020, 03:47 PM
The grandma scam is very old and well documented. Good for you for not getting taken. Most people that have been sucked into it are too embarrassed to talk about it ..
graciegirl
05-02-2020, 04:11 PM
those prison showers can be slippery when wet
You know all these drop the soap and prison jokes when it is about our grandson's isn't funny at all.
Mine are not slimeballs that have been arrested. None of my friends grandchildren have either.
Don't like those unfunny attempts at all.
dpmers
05-02-2020, 11:47 PM
Good for you, my answer is you figured out how to get in jail, figure a way to get out, good luck. Detach with love
ficoguy
05-03-2020, 05:57 AM
You should have a code word to use with your grandkids...like "Palamino" - then you can verify
ALadysMom
05-03-2020, 01:23 PM
I answered and he said . Hello grandma and he was sniffing and sounding like he was crying. I said......Who is calling please, as I always do, I am hearing impaired. My closed captioning that is a few seconds delayed showed me the caller had called me grandma. No one has ever called me grandma in my family, EVER. I hung up. Be wary...and careful. Anyone who would know you are older and do this on purpose is one awful loser.
I’m sorry you had a call like that. I’m glad you didn’t fall for it. Don’t you wish law enforcement would stop them? But he’s probably out of reach in some foreign country. Thanks for posting so others can be aware.
Topspinmo
05-06-2020, 08:07 AM
Wells Fargo emails scam going around “don’t respond”. Just delete it.
Sandy and Ed
05-07-2020, 12:30 PM
I would also keep fraud caller on phone as long as I could. Waste their time and keep them occupied with me. Once finally implied that law enforcement had been able to trace the call and would be contacting them in person. Got off phone fast
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