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marvinh11791
09-01-2020, 02:05 PM
Hello. Does anyone know if there are multi family homes in The Villages (new or resale)? By multi family I mean a home built with a separate area that is a suite for a child (age 30-50) of the homeowner. Also I'm thinking if your child lives with you, they should have a separate entrance and a kitchenette (just a microwave, refrigerator and sink).
Thank you - MarvinH

OrangeBlossomBaby
09-01-2020, 03:44 PM
Hello. Does anyone know if there are multi family homes in The Villages (new or resale)? By multi family I mean a home built with a separate area that is a suite for a child (age 30-50) of the homeowner. Also I'm thinking if your child lives with you, they should have a separate entrance and a kitchenette (just a microwave, refrigerator and sink).
Thank you - MarvinH

No, they are all single-family homes. The Villages was not built to accommodate adult family members other than spouses living in the same dwelling. That was intentional. There are no "in-law apartments" in the Villages. If an adult family member wants his own entrance, he should buy his own house.

vintageogauge
09-01-2020, 04:41 PM
Why on earth would adult kids want to live with their parents? They need to be with people their own age in a younger environment. We miss our kids but sure as heck don't want to live with them.

davem4616
09-01-2020, 04:56 PM
have never heard of any 'in-law apartments...other than folks with large designer homes designating the opposite side of the house as a 'suite' for a single parent with a private bedroom, sitting area and private bath for a seasonal live in situation

they share the same entry ways

Madelaine Amee
09-01-2020, 05:00 PM
Hello. Does anyone know if there are multi family homes in The Villages (new or resale)? By multi family I mean a home built with a separate area that is a suite for a child (age 30-50) of the homeowner. Also I'm thinking if your child lives with you, they should have a separate entrance and a kitchenette (just a microwave, refrigerator and sink).
Thank you - MarvinH

I believe I have seen homes offered with an in-law apartment, they are very rare and if my memory serves me, they are in the older section of TV. I actually do know three widows who had a premiere home built to accommodate their needs. Beats being alone and lonely. My recommendation would be to talk to someone in the sales department to get the correct answer.

As for having an adult child living with you here, I have no problem with it. If I had a child who was single and wanted to live in TV I would enjoy their company. What is the difference in having an adult child living with you here as compared to up North? My sister and I had always planned to do away with our husbands and live together ..........:):icon_wink:

Stu from NYC
09-01-2020, 06:09 PM
I believe I have seen homes offered with an in-law apartment, they are very rare and if my memory serves me, they are in the older section of TV. I actually do know three widows who had a premiere home built to accommodate their needs. Beats being alone and lonely. My recommendation would be to talk to someone in the sales department to get the correct answer.

As for having an adult child living with you here, I have no problem with it. If I had a child who was single and wanted to live in TV I would enjoy their company. What is the difference in having an adult child living with you here as compared to up North? My sister and I had always planned to do away with our husbands and live together ..........:):icon_wink:

I knew there was a reason there were so many widows around here.

Dgizzi
09-01-2020, 06:30 PM
No, they are all single-family homes. The Villages was not built to accommodate adult family members other than spouses living in the same dwelling. That was intentional. There are no "in-law apartments" in the Villages. If an adult family member wants his own entrance, he should buy his own house.
Exactly. This is suppose to be 55 and older. Not for kids or extended family. Only 1 or 2 people should be living in a home..but this isn’t so....from what I hear!

Dgizzi
09-01-2020, 06:32 PM
I believe I have seen homes offered with an in-law apartment, they are very rare and if my memory serves me, they are in the older section of TV. I actually do know three widows who had a premiere home built to accommodate their needs. Beats being alone and lonely. My recommendation would be to talk to someone in the sales department to get the correct answer.

As for having an adult child living with you here, I have no problem with it. If I had a child who was single and wanted to live in TV I would enjoy their company. What is the difference in having an adult child living with you here as compared to up North? My sister and I had always planned to do away with our husbands and live together ..........:):icon_wink:
Because this is “suppose” to be 55 and older development. Not for everyone so I thought!

Nucky
09-01-2020, 06:36 PM
Hey Marv, I've got just the one for you! Hand in the glove, a perfect fit. They are a few here and there. Mine is a legal two-family on the Historic Side. It will be for sale after the first of the year.

asianthree
09-01-2020, 06:37 PM
Exactly. This is suppose to be 55 and older. Not for kids or extended family. Only 1 or 2 people should be living in a home..but this isn’t so....from what I hear!

Need to read up on laws in 55 and older communities. It’s been discussed multiple times

billethkid
09-01-2020, 06:40 PM
There are homes in TV with mother-in-law suites or separate living quarters.
There are several in our village. All were remodels to existing homes/models. As long as they are approved in the remodel architectural review there is no restriction.

Nucky
09-01-2020, 06:42 PM
There are homes in TV with mother-in-law suites or separate living quarters.
There are several in our village. All were remodels to existing homes/models. As long as they are approved in the remodel architectural review there is no restriction.

Bingo! :1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

Atta Boy Billie!

Topspinmo
09-01-2020, 06:44 PM
Hello. Does anyone know if there are multi family homes in The Villages (new or resale)? By multi family I mean a home built with a separate area that is a suite for a child (age 30-50) of the homeowner. Also I'm thinking if your child lives with you, they should have a separate entrance and a kitchenette (just a microwave, refrigerator and sink).
Thank you - MarvinH

Looks like you can build what you want on horse farm if you can afford 1/2 million or so lot?

ladyby1017@gmail.com
09-01-2020, 06:47 PM
they have homes with inlaw suites

Topspinmo
09-01-2020, 06:48 PM
Exactly. This is suppose to be 55 and older. Not for kids or extended family. Only 1 or 2 people should be living in a home..but this isn’t so....from what I hear!

No, if you got money You can you can buy here and have in you’re house who you want. Nobody check on it. And even when they do or news outlet exposed it nothing done.

Stu from NYC
09-01-2020, 08:58 PM
Looks like you can build what you want on horse farm if you can afford 1/2 million or so lot?

For that price does it come with a few horses?

vintageogauge
09-01-2020, 09:11 PM
For that price does it come with a few horses?

Designer building lots on executive courses are pushing $300,000 and in some cases more, those last couple horse farm 5 acre lots are a bargain.

marvinh11791
09-01-2020, 09:24 PM
Hey Marv, I've got just the one for you! Hand in the glove, a perfect fit. They are a few here and there. Mine is a legal two-family on the Historic Side. It will be for sale after the first of the year.

Hi Nucky - OK! Please keep in touch and send me a private message when you ready to sell. Thanks. MarvinH

camaguey48
09-02-2020, 05:56 AM
No, they are all single-family homes. The Villages was not built to accommodate adult family members other than spouses living in the same dwelling. That was intentional. There are no "in-law apartments" in the Villages. If an adult family member wants his own entrance, he should buy his own house.
Hear, hear!!!

MandoMan
09-02-2020, 06:08 AM
Hello. Does anyone know if there are multi family homes in The Villages (new or resale)? By multi family I mean a home built with a separate area that is a suite for a child (age 30-50) of the homeowner. Also I'm thinking if your child lives with you, they should have a separate entrance and a kitchenette (just a microwave, refrigerator and sink).
Thank you - MarvinH

Looking at a list of all the homeowners in my village suggests that more than 10% of villagers have an adult child living with them. In many cases, the parent or parents are in their 80s or older, and the “child” is 60 or so. I like to think that this is an unmarried child who has moved in to care for his or her parent or parents in their declining years. Or perhaps the unmarried child has always lived at home for various reasons. I like the idea of the self-sacrificing child caring for mom or dad. Children like that don’t need their own entry or cooking area because they are dedicated to serving their parents.

The Villages is nearly crime free, but what crime there is often seems to involve grown children living with parents, and it seems to usually involve alcohol abuse, drug abuse, DUI, or shoplifting. (That’s also what it involves usually when it’s not children causing the trouble.) I understand the desire to rescue a troubled child, but I can’t claim to like having that sort of person living in The Villages. It’s so difficult for parents! Such a heartbreak! I tend to think that if parents want a separate entrance and cooking facilities for a child, they might do better to buy a larger house in, say, Ocala that could easily be adapted for such needs, and for a lot less money. There are lots of very nice houses for sale there. They also have more parking available. They just aren’t in The Villages, so they don’t have our amenities. But that’s just me. Parents need to do the best they can, and they want to help their children. That’s just natural.

camaguey48
09-02-2020, 06:09 AM
I knew there was a reason there were so many widows around here.
Raise your kids to be independent thinkers. I love mine a ton, but I don't want them living with me. They were raised to become productive members of society, not a burden on society. That's the job of a good and responsible parent and the greatest love you can show your child.

Girlcopper
09-02-2020, 06:11 AM
Hello. Does anyone know if there are multi family homes in The Villages (new or resale)? By multi family I mean a home built with a separate area that is a suite for a child (age 30-50) of the homeowner. Also I'm thinking if your child lives with you, they should have a separate entrance and a kitchenette (just a microwave, refrigerator and sink).
Thank you - MarvinH
Not that I know of but just outside the Villages just a short distance up 441 just north of 42 you have Del Webb Spruce Creek CC. Ive seen them in there. It depends if you want to actually live in the heart of the villages

raney3099
09-02-2020, 06:18 AM
No unless you can afford a premier home where they have seperate quarters usually used for live in staff

ewieber
09-02-2020, 07:03 AM
Some of us have developmentally disabled adult children ... that need to live with their parents

Karen M
09-02-2020, 07:13 AM
I am hoping that you are looking for such a home because your child medically disabled and can't live on their own or you require extra help. This is an retirement commuity and adults under the age of 50 is very discouraged living here with parents.

There are homes North of 466 that have In-law residents. It is a unit attached to the home with it's own entrance. There are very few and come up for sell seldom.

Ndavick
09-02-2020, 07:24 AM
Some of us have developmentally disabled adult children ... that need to live with their parents
I know of five separate families with disabled adult children living at home.

ellenwelsh
09-02-2020, 07:24 AM
If the construction changes are made by the owner without changing the exterior nobody would know. I do know of one home in which this has been done.

charlieo1126@gmail.com
09-02-2020, 07:38 AM
Exactly. This is suppose to be 55 and older. Not for kids or extended family. Only 1 or 2 people should be living in a home..but this isn’t so....from what I hear! the rest of the people have to be over 18or19 , this has been talked about over and over

davem4616
09-02-2020, 07:41 AM
Raise your kids to be independent thinkers. I love mine a ton, but I don't want them living with me. They were raised to become productive members of society, not a burden on society. That's the job of a good and responsible parent and the greatest love you can show your child.


I'm with you. Your post brought to mind how challenging maintaining 'house rules' became when the kids came home from college for the summer after being on their own all year at school.

We love 'em all...and love to see them. But there's an old saying "after 3 days fish begins to smell"

Singerlady
09-02-2020, 07:41 AM
Why on earth would adult kids want to live with their parents? They need to be with people their own age in a younger environment. We miss our kids but sure as heck don't want to live with them.
Perhaps a disabled adult child.

billethkid
09-02-2020, 07:45 AM
Some posts are presented as if gospel/factual when they are only personal opinions (or just guessing).

meridian5850
09-02-2020, 07:58 AM
There are several floor plans that have a large bedroom with it's own bath. The Zinnia is one of them. There is also a model with a bedroom and bath just past the garage entry into the house.

brfree1411@aol.com
09-02-2020, 08:24 AM
Possibly the child is disabled or living there to help the parents!

asianthree
09-02-2020, 08:27 AM
Is it just My imagination or has a lot of these posts really gone south. I have to tell you I’m a little embarrassed with some of the posts, the information and your thoughts.

Yes there are houses here that have Inlaw suites, we will soon bring our elderly parents to live with us since it’s safer for them. But that is our upbringing, we take care of our parents when the time comes.

There are also homes here that have adult children living with them,some have moved here to take care of their parents, we know several. Some children Have disabilities they have lived with her parents their entire lives, Their parents now have decided to move here to enjoy what is all available in TV. Shame on those for jumping on the OP for just asking a question.

To the OP yes there are homes here that have what you were asking for and you can come here with your adult child. I am so glad they have a commitment to their child. I am also so glad for some of the people that are posting, they do not have to have commitments or burdens. Because I’m not really sure how they would handle it.

Madelaine Amee
09-02-2020, 09:12 AM
Is it just My imagination or has a lot of these posts really gone south. I have to tell you I’m a little embarrassed with some of the posts, the information and your thoughts.

Yes there are houses here that have Inlaw suites, we will soon bring our elderly parents to live with us since it’s safer for them. But that is our upbringing, we take care of our parents when the time comes.

There are also homes here that have adult children living with them,some have moved here to take care of their parents, we know several. Some children Have disabilities they have lived with her parents their entire lives, Their parents now have decided to move here to enjoy what is all available in TV. Shame on those for jumping on the OP for just asking a question.

To the OP yes there are homes here that have what you were asking for and you can come here with your adult child. I am so glad they have a commitment to their child. I am also so glad for some of the people that are posting, they do not have to have commitments or burdens. Because I’m not really sure how they would handle it.

Thank you for such a sensible and understanding post. The old proverb "walk a mile in my shoes" has been long forgotten or dismissed.

People tend to forget that TV is set up for aging and disabled peoples; doctors, hospitals, libraries, police stations and the list goes on, all within easy reach of almost every part of TV.

ts12755
09-02-2020, 10:10 AM
90% of the crime in The Villages is done by the dysfunctional adult children still living with mommy or daddy.

charmed59
09-02-2020, 10:25 AM
There are quite a few floor plans where the guest wing comes off the foyer. Use the foyer as a vestibule and add a locking door at the end and you will have self contained guest quarters.

When looking for homes there were a few that were customized for an in-law suite. One did so with a side door for the in-law suite entrance, but you could get to the rest of the house from inside.

kathyspear
09-02-2020, 10:41 AM
Our previous house in Calumet Grove (a Lantana) had a fourth bedroom (second master suite) that had been added on by the previous owners (a married couple, wife's sister moved in with them). It was huge -- larger than the original master. Did not have a kitchenette or separate entrance but they could have easily been added. The couple who purchased it from us were moving the husband's mother in with them.

When you go to sell, there is a much smaller pool of potential buyers for that type of property so it may stay on the market longer. Just something to consider.

kathy

rmd2
09-02-2020, 11:08 AM
Some of us have developmentally disabled adult children ... that need to live with their parents

And for those adult children I can empathize. The problem is the growing number of adult "children" who are felons. When this happens the felons should have to leave The Villages. We did not expect the number of criminal activities when living in a "retirement" community in our old age.

EdS
09-02-2020, 11:09 AM
The difference between In-laws ans Outlaws is that Outlaws are "WANTED".

jlstree
09-02-2020, 11:21 AM
No, they are all single-family homes. The Villages was not built to accommodate adult family members other than spouses living in the same dwelling. That was intentional. There are no "in-law apartments" in the Villages. If an adult family member wants his own entrance, he should buy his own house.
Isn't there still an age limit also??

GreySkies
09-02-2020, 12:25 PM
Why on earth would adult kids want to live with their parents? They need to be with people their own age in a younger environment. We miss our kids but sure as heck don't want to live with them.

$$$$$$$ Money

Adult Kids who usually spend to much time warping their brains with Social Media end up with no professional education, no promising career and no other options but to leech off the parents starting with moving back in or never leaving.

:ohdear:

Veiragirl
09-02-2020, 12:38 PM
this is NOT what the Villages is all about. Tell your entitled kid to grow up and buy /rent their own place

CZN715
09-02-2020, 04:43 PM
Some of us have developmentally disabled adult children ... that need to live with their parents
I have an adult child with mild disabilities who will live with me, take classes, join groups, volunteer and go on trips with us all. Let’s hope Karen M never has a disabled grandchild that would like to come live with her. Might also point out that there are many, many spouses under the age of 55 here at the Villages. SMH!

CZN715
09-02-2020, 04:46 PM
Is it just My imagination or has a lot of these posts really gone south. I have to tell you I’m a little embarrassed with some of the posts, the information and your thoughts.

Yes there are houses here that have Inlaw suites, we will soon bring our elderly parents to live with us since it’s safer for them. But that is our upbringing, we take care of our parents when the time comes.

There are also homes here that have adult children living with them,some have moved here to take care of their parents, we know several. Some children Have disabilities they have lived with her parents their entire lives, Their parents now have decided to move here to enjoy what is all available in TV. Shame on those for jumping on the OP for just asking a question.

To the OP yes there are homes here that have what you were asking for and you can come here with your adult child. I am so glad they have a commitment to their child. I am also so glad for some of the people that are posting, they do not have to have commitments or burdens. Because I’m not really sure how they would handle it.
Thank you!

rnhager07
09-03-2020, 04:56 AM
Thanks for your kind thoughtful post. There are too many uncharitable posts on here. My husband and I bought a designer home and my parents came with us as they lived with us in Ma. We have a Bridgeport with 3 baths and large kitchen. It works for us. My Dad has now passed and Mom does the snowbird thing now and is here during the winter months to escape the cold. This was not illegal and the Villages realtor helped us managed the move. We have been here 4 years now. We had to find a model that fit our needs. Good luck to OP.

J1ceasar
09-03-2020, 05:24 AM
Just for your reference many older children in their 30s 40s and 50s have to take care of their older parents exclamation point that's the reason. Believe me I don't want to I love the fact that I have three wonderful children

J1ceasar
09-03-2020, 05:26 AM
Finding the villages and I'm sure you won't please take a look Pennbrooke Fairways right down the road on 44 as they do have a section of attached Townhomes next to each other that are upscale and they also have slightly lower priced garden homes that are next to each other attached that are one-bedroom units and smaller I can recommend a very good broker for Pennbrooke Fairways if you want. The price range here is $100,000 less and the equivalent footage in The Villages

Professor
09-03-2020, 05:50 AM
Some need to be cared for. If you had a child that was mentally or physically disabled you might think differently.

Girlcopper
09-03-2020, 05:54 AM
Perhaps a disabled adult child.
Why does everyone say its ok if the child is disabled? First off “child” is usually referring to an older adult here inthe Villages. Second off if you have an elderly widowed female and a single son or daughter, why not live together if thats what they want. No big deal if thats their preference. Has nothing to do with “they should be living on their own”. Shoulda coulda woulda.

rballam
09-03-2020, 06:24 AM
Hi Nucky - OK! Please keep in touch and send me a private message when you ready to sell. Thanks. MarvinH
Mine too may be up for sale in November. Hacienda West area.

mamamia54
09-03-2020, 08:07 AM
Just make sure to ask questions before you buy. It would be terrible to buy and move in and then find out your neighbor will be an apartment building.

Topspinmo
09-03-2020, 08:14 AM
Designer building lots on executive courses are pushing $300,000 and in some cases more, those last couple horse farm 5 acre lots are a bargain.


Not really only thing left are in swap drain area or depression where water drains.

billethkid
09-03-2020, 08:32 AM
Why does the term "children" equate to too young to be in TV???

Our "children" are all in their 50's!!!!!

asianthree
09-03-2020, 08:53 AM
Just make sure to ask questions before you buy. It would be terrible to buy and move in and then find out your neighbor will be an apartment building.

You consider someone who cares about their parent, and has them move in their home, becomes an apartment?
So I am guessing your family knows to stay away.

I am so glad I have watched my neighbors come to the aide of a neighbor and happy to do it.

And for children that we know, who had to change their lives because one parent Diagnosed with cancer and in chemo, and the other Parent had a stroke. Yep that’s true apartment dwelling.

justjim
09-03-2020, 09:33 AM
Lots of judgemental posts on this Thread IMHO. The reason you might have an adult parent/child living with you could be any number of good reasons. It’s not your neighbors business as we are, for the most part, a village here. The adult child/parent is easily accepted in 99% of neighborhoods especially here in The Villages. OP, ask a simple question and the answer is that there are a number of home models in The Villages that will accommodate your needs as others have posted. As discussed there aren’t many with a separate entrance, added after buildout but a separate entrance you may be able to do without. Good luck.

Debboguch50
09-03-2020, 10:02 AM
The Top of the World in ocala has several models that includes a casita. They share a courtyard, the casita has a kitchenette, bathroom bedroom, and sometimes has a sitting area! They have lots of these out in Arizona they are very nice!

1couple
09-03-2020, 10:20 AM
There is one 10 minutes from the villages on the county line it sets back on the river it’s in Shawnee Trl just off 44Hello. Does anyone know if there are multi family homes in The Villages (new or resale)? By multi family I mean a home built with a separate area that is a suite for a child (age 30-50) of the homeowner. Also I'm thinking if your child lives with you, they should have a separate entrance and a kitchenette (just a microwave, refrigerator and sink).
Thank you - MarvinH

crydzanich
09-03-2020, 10:53 AM
I have been in several who have “in law suites “. They are usually on the other side of the house from the master. There was one over in Hacienda that had a separate entrance off the foyer. Unfortunately any of the ones I know about are in the older sections and do not have kitchenettes.

mamamia54
09-03-2020, 04:03 PM
You consider someone who cares about their parent, and has them move in their home, becomes an apartment?
So I am guessing your family knows to stay away.

I am so glad I have watched my neighbors come to the aide of a neighbor and happy to do it.

And for children that we know, who had to change their lives because one parent Diagnosed with cancer and in chemo, and the other Parent had a stroke. Yep that’s true apartment dwelling.

I took care of my mom and my dad who both moved into my
home pre villages, due to stroke and cancer. You took my post totally wrong. I was talking about the apartments that are being built. People are telling them about houses for sale near Hacienda I was just letting them to check out what’s around them and what will be before they buy. Apology accepted!

NavyVet
09-03-2020, 06:21 PM
Hello. Does anyone know if there are multi family homes in The Villages (new or resale)? By multi family I mean a home built with a separate area that is a suite for a child (age 30-50) of the homeowner. Also I'm thinking if your child lives with you, they should have a separate entrance and a kitchenette (just a microwave, refrigerator and sink).
Thank you - MarvinH
Hi, I think it will be difficult to find. There are a few models that have guest suites (or guest wings) bedroom, bath and sometimes a third room that can be used as a den that can be closed off with a pocket door for privacy. These would be the larger designer or premier homes. That would still leave the problem of a separate entrance and kitchenette, which would cost renovations. Here is a just a thought if your heart is set on the Villages: for the price of a large home plus reno, maybe you could consider 2 smaller side by side villas. That way everyone has their privacy and own space (kitchen, entry, garage, lanai). Everybody happy.
That could work either way, whether an adult child is moving in or a couple moving in elderly parents/in laws. Even in families that get along well, boundaries are very important! Caregiving is one of the most stressful and difficult things in life! 30-40% of caregivers die before the loved one/relative they are caring for due to burnout destroying their own health. If either the parent or the child is toxic, then living together would be a recipe for disaster. There are always other alternatives.
Good luck!