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Davonu
06-21-2021, 05:19 PM
I have a friend who is considering moving to TV. I've answered a lot of his questions the best I can, but he asked me one that I realized I'm not really sure about. So I'm gonna ask it here. I've been here a few years and I'm reasonably active. But I hadn't really thought about how my activity level compares to others. And that is what my friend's question relates to.

He wants to know if people who are relative home-bodies have a place in TV. He says he and his wife will likely enjoy the squares entertainment regularly and some other Villages features, but they may not partake in that many clubs, sports, or other similar Villages attractions. He asked whether that might be an issue in any way. I told him of course that TV is very friendly and they should be just fine. But that got me to thinking about something now I find myself wondering about...

I wonder what the breakdown is between the various levels of activity of Villages residents. There are of course those folks who are super active and busy constantly. But I'm sure there are some folks like my friends who are spend quite a bit of time at home. Then there are all the levels in between.

Anyway, just food for thought. I would love to get ToTV input to share with my friends. I would particularly like to hear from those folks who are more home-bodies. How has your experience in TV been?

chrisinva
06-21-2021, 05:35 PM
We initially learned & played pickleball but stopped when covid appeared. Same with golf. I swim laps regularly & walk the dog 2-3 times daily. Otherwise we are homebodies. We have really nice neighbors & socialize that way. Never go to the Squares for entertainment.

retiredguy123
06-21-2021, 05:36 PM
In my opinion, for a homebody, this question has nothing to do with The Villages. If your friend is a homebody, he will do fine in The Villages or anywhere else. But, for someone who wants to be active, The Villages offers plenty of opportunity. But a homebody can be happy anywhere. No one is going to drag him out of the house and force him to do something.

Bjeanj
06-21-2021, 05:53 PM
Ditto what retiredguy123 said.

JMintzer
06-21-2021, 05:58 PM
Personally, I like the increased activity level of many of the Villagers.

It helps counteract my natural couch potato tendencies...

Kim Fowler
06-21-2021, 07:03 PM
Not sure what the breakdown of activity level is among Villagers. I’m fairly active, as are the vast majority of people I know, but I know a few folks (mostly older) who are happy as homebodies here.
I wonder if your friends would be better off in a community with a cheaper cost of living if they are not going to take advantage of the activities here. My husband and I love The Villages and all the activities and sports, so all the monthly fees and higher home prices are worth it to us. But it may not be the best place for homebodies on a tight budget.
People living near The Villages of course can come to the squares and restaurants.

Koapaka
06-21-2021, 07:23 PM
According to our real estate agent who we think they world of, after living here 20+ yrs he told us that 60% do NOT play golf at all, and another large portion have stopped using the pools/rec centers after the first few years with the exception of groups they have joined and felt connected with. I think a lot of it is just conveniences and ability to have developed friendships that stay with us regardless of mobility issues. I am mobility handicapped, so we are mostly homebodies except for when we DESIRE to go out and very much enjoy living here.

Papa_lecki
06-21-2021, 07:49 PM
I think it depends who becomes your social circle in TV. Some people pick up new hobbies, re engage hobbies lost years ago, or just socialize with a small group of firiends.

mikreb
06-21-2021, 08:28 PM
golf 4 days a week, pickleball 3 days, softball 3 days, bowling 1 day, swimming 2 days, beer almost everyday.

Velvet
06-21-2021, 08:39 PM
In retirement I am a plein air painter I guess by definition, a loner. But… what I love about The Villages are the choices one has. The trails, the pools, the clubs etc. etc. Two days ago Hubby and I drove to a new rec center for information about their pool schedule but we got lost and noticed people in a private room working on their art. I couldn’t resist I looked in - careful not to distract anyone. But they saw us and welcomed us and later as I was about to leave I heard someone call, “Come back again”.

collegeref
06-22-2021, 04:42 AM
I am here and the Squares alone are worth it. Do nothing else.

soniak4@gmail.com
06-22-2021, 04:47 AM
The beauty of The Villages is that you have the opportunity to live whatever life style you want, active or couch potato, but opportunities are here if and when you want them.

Two Bills
06-22-2021, 04:57 AM
Judging by the stretch in some of the stretch pants rolling around TV, a lot more activity wouldn't be a bad idea!:icon_wink:

joeandpauline1961
06-22-2021, 04:58 AM
We have lived here 14 years. I love to ride my bike in the morning and do 6 miles a day inside my community. There is nothing wrong with being a home body type couple. You will find that the neighbors are very nice and helpful if needed. I enjoy cleaning my cars and I am in a few car clubs but it is not necessary to go to all the meetings. It is a great place for a couple to jump in their golf cart and go to lunch dinner or do their grocery shopping. There is no place in the world more convenient to reach grocery stores, movie theatres, restaurants or simply drive down occasionally to one of the squares and listen to music for an hour or so. Nothing is required and the amenity fee is not a lot, considering all the benefits and conveniences you have. The best example I have heard for living in the Villages is from a women who lived herself, (didn't ask if she was married or lost her husband), but could not drive anymore. The same person was able to get in her golf cart and go grocery shopping, to her doctors and to church. This enabled her to be free of depending on anyone to do those things for her. Stores will also deliver to your home if necessary. Maintenance people for anything you need are plentiful in the Villages. Our neighborhood has a list of recommended people that previous neighbors have used and recommend, that you can call on. ou may be surprised that you begin to get a little more active in doing things by yourselves since there are so many opportunities that exist.
The neighbors are the most caring if any emergency exists. We all look out for each other. For us this is just a step before heaven.

Girlcopper
06-22-2021, 05:15 AM
I have a friend who is considering moving to TV. I've answered a lot of his questions the best I can, but he asked me one that I realized I'm not really sure about. So I'm gonna ask it here. I've been here a few years and I'm reasonably active. But I hadn't really thought about how my activity level compares to others. And that is what my friend's question relates to.

He wants to know if people who are relative home-bodies have a place in TV. He says he and his wife will likely enjoy the squares entertainment regularly and some other Villages features, but they may not partake in that many clubs, sports, or other similar Villages attractions. He asked whether that might be an issue in any way. I told him of course that TV is very friendly and they should be just fine. But that got me to thinking about something now I find myself wondering about...

I wonder what the breakdown is between the various levels of activity of Villages residents. There are of course those folks who are super active and busy constantly. But I'm sure there are some folks like my friends who are spend quite a bit of time at home. Then there are all the levels in between.

Anyway, just food for thought. I would love to get ToTV input to share with my friends. I would particularly like to hear from those folks who are more home-bodies. How has your experience in TV been?
Whether he lives in TV or anywhere. Your friend has his own lifestyle. Why would he care about what others do or what they think? Stay home or go out, travel or only go as far as the grocery store. Who cares? TheVillage monitors are not going to come and drag him out of his house 3x a week

Annie66
06-22-2021, 05:19 AM
golf 4 days a week, pickleball 3 days, softball 3 days, bowling 1 day, swimming 2 days, beer almost everyday.

When do you sleep? Whew!

GOLFER54
06-22-2021, 05:34 AM
Seems to me, if you want the option of joining clubs, sports, dining out or entertainment, or just relaxing around your home,it is up to you. Depending on one is feeling that day, some days you might feel like doing some activities and some days a person might just want to relax around their home, it's up to you to decide what is best for you.

pattycakes60
06-22-2021, 05:44 AM
I have a friend who is considering moving to TV. I've answered a lot of his questions the best I can, but he asked me one that I realized I'm not really sure about. So I'm gonna ask it here. I've been here a few years and I'm reasonably active. But I hadn't really thought about how my activity level compares to others. And that is what my friend's question relates to.

He wants to know if people who are relative home-bodies have a place in TV. He says he and his wife will likely enjoy the squares entertainment regularly and some other Villages features, but they may not partake in that many clubs, sports, or other similar Villages attractions. He asked whether that might be an issue in any way. I told him of course that TV is very friendly and they should be just fine. But that got me to thinking about something now I find myself wondering about...

I wonder what the breakdown is between the various levels of activity of Villages residents. There are of course those folks who are super active and busy constantly. But I'm sure there are some folks like my friends who are spend quite a bit of time at home. Then there are all the levels in between.

Anyway, just food for thought. I would love to get ToTV input to share with my friends. I would particularly like to hear from those folks who are more home-bodies. How has your experience in TV been?

I would suggest that they look outside the villages, they can still go to the squares, the only thing is they would not be able to use the golf cart to get to the villages.

Yvetteperry
06-22-2021, 05:46 AM
That was a beautiful answer

Bay Kid
06-22-2021, 05:46 AM
Hardly ever sit still in TVs! Got to keep moving, way too much to do.

Dilligas
06-22-2021, 06:03 AM
I have a friend who is considering moving to TV. I've answered a lot of his questions the best I can, but he asked me one that I realized I'm not really sure about. So I'm gonna ask it here. I've been here a few years and I'm reasonably active. But I hadn't really thought about how my activity level compares to others. And that is what my friend's question relates to.

He wants to know if people who are relative home-bodies have a place in TV. He says he and his wife will likely enjoy the squares entertainment regularly and some other Villages features, but they may not partake in that many clubs, sports, or other similar Villages attractions. He asked whether that might be an issue in any way. I told him of course that TV is very friendly and they should be just fine. But that got me to thinking about something now I find myself wondering about...

I wonder what the breakdown is between the various levels of activity of Villages residents. There are of course those folks who are super active and busy constantly. But I'm sure there are some folks like my friends who are spend quite a bit of time at home. Then there are all the levels in between.

Anyway, just food for thought. I would love to get ToTV input to share with my friends. I would particularly like to hear from those folks who are more home-bodies. How has your experience in TV been?
People are active in TV because they can be. If you live in central Wisconsin, from October through March you will become a home body because it’s cold and snowy outside (a reason for snowbirds) so you stay inside and watch football, basketball, hockey, or movies. In TV, you won’t like to pass up the nice weather so you do something and become more active. Life changes in The Villages

nick demis
06-22-2021, 06:07 AM
The beauty of The Villages is that you have the opportunity to live whatever life style you want, active or couch potato, but opportunities are here if and when you want them.

Exactly why we decided on TV. We get to chose what level of activity we want when we want it.

Hendrick22
06-22-2021, 06:17 AM
I agree. I have friends that are both active and homebodies. Both do well in tv, but why pay the extra money if you’re not going to take advantage of the activities? You can buy cheaper, and close enough where you can still go to the squares & restaurants.
I’ve met many people out and about who live in the Del Webb community on 441.

butlerism
06-22-2021, 06:27 AM
I have the data:

The Villages Relative Activity Index

Active 49%
Not So Active 37%
Still at Happy Hour. 4%
Undecided 10%

THUNDERCHIEF
06-22-2021, 06:37 AM
There is no village poilice checking to see how busy you are- no one cares if you stay home. Silly question

J1ceasar
06-22-2021, 06:46 AM
In general wherever you live in Florida you will be left alone to do as you desire. I mean this from the bottom of my heart even the politicians leave you alone

Faith Bestic
06-22-2021, 06:49 AM
I have a friend who is considering moving to TV. I've answered a lot of his questions the best I can, but he asked me one that I realized I'm not really sure about. So I'm gonna ask it here. I've been here a few years and I'm reasonably active. But I hadn't really thought about how my activity level compares to others. And that is what my friend's question relates to.

He wants to know if people who are relative home-bodies have a place in TV. He says he and his wife will likely enjoy the squares entertainment regularly and some other Villages features, but they may not partake in that many clubs, sports, or other similar Villages attractions. He asked whether that might be an issue in any way. I told him of course that TV is very friendly and they should be just fine. But that got me to thinking about something now I find myself wondering about...

I wonder what the breakdown is between the various levels of activity of Villages residents. There are of course those folks who are super active and busy constantly. But I'm sure there are some folks like my friends who are spend quite a bit of time at home. Then there are all the levels in between.

Anyway, just food for thought. I would love to get ToTV input to share with my friends. I would particularly like to hear from those folks who are more home-bodies. How has your experience in TV been?

I am mostly a recliner potato. You can be as active as you want. People in TV are very friendly. They don’t care how active you are.

DAVES
06-22-2021, 06:52 AM
I have a friend who is considering moving to TV. I've answered a lot of his questions the best I can, but he asked me one that I realized I'm not really sure about. So I'm gonna ask it here. I've been here a few years and I'm reasonably active. But I hadn't really thought about how my activity level compares to others. And that is what my friend's question relates to.

He wants to know if people who are relative home-bodies have a place in TV. He says he and his wife will likely enjoy the squares entertainment regularly and some other Villages features, but they may not partake in that many clubs, sports, or other similar Villages attractions. He asked whether that might be an issue in any way. I told him of course that TV is very friendly and they should be just fine. But that got me to thinking about something now I find myself wondering about...

I wonder what the breakdown is between the various levels of activity of Villages residents. There are of course those folks who are super active and busy constantly. But I'm sure there are some folks like my friends who are spend quite a bit of time at home. Then there are all the levels in between.

Anyway, just food for thought. I would love to get ToTV input to share with my friends. I would particularly like to hear from those folks who are more home-bodies. How has your experience in TV been?

The Sunday Times used to say you don't need to read it all but it's nice to know it's all here.

joseppe
06-22-2021, 07:12 AM
golf 4 days a week, pickleball 3 days, softball 3 days, bowling 1 day, swimming 2 days, beer almost everyday.

So what do you do with the other 8 days of the week?

Up North
06-22-2021, 07:14 AM
For us it works great. My husband is a homebody, and I love all the activities. The Villages meets both our needs and desires. We still do things together too, but this is the beauty of The Villages, for us. We can each be as busy or sedentary as we want.

Joe C.
06-22-2021, 07:37 AM
As long as his A/C is working, your friend will be fine.
My wife is far more active than I am. I don't golf, or do sports activities, and in the last four years, have probably been to a pool maybe ten times at most.
Like I said, your friend will be fine.

Bethwill
06-22-2021, 07:38 AM
I would say that while we have activities we participate in, that compared to most people, we are homebodies. We don't eat out much, and don't ever go to the squares at night anymore. But we ARE doing as much as we want to. We don't like traffic and crowds, but it's all good. Your friend can live the same kind of life he prefers, but it's all available if he wants to do more.

ndf888
06-22-2021, 07:42 AM
Tell your friends that Loneliness and social isolation are a common and serious health risk for older people. Worse than smoking if you believe the research studies. The Villages is a perfect place for introverts who are particularly prone to social isolation.

Betty Wagner
06-22-2021, 08:24 AM
WE have been in TV 11 years. At first we thought, wow, so much to do. But then you don't have to do everything. We are sort of homebodies, but keep busy. There's walking because it always beautiful outdoors, so much to see every season. Gardening, if that's your thing, it is mine; hobbies, which I have quite a few, shopping is always fun with the many unique shops. Explore the surrounding cities. And of course, eating out, so many choices.

Travelingal702
06-22-2021, 08:39 AM
I have a friend who is considering moving to TV. I've answered a lot of his questions the best I can, but he asked me one that I realized I'm not really sure about. So I'm gonna ask it here. I've been here a few years and I'm reasonably active. But I hadn't really thought about how my activity level compares to others. And that is what my friend's question relates to.

He wants to know if people who are relative home-bodies have a place in TV. He says he and his wife will likely enjoy the squares entertainment regularly and some other Villages features, but they may not partake in that many clubs, sports, or other similar Villages attractions. He asked whether that might be an issue in any way. I told him of course that TV is very friendly and they should be just fine. But that got me to thinking about something now I find myself wondering about...

I wonder what the breakdown is between the various levels of activity of Villages residents. There are of course those folks who are super active and busy constantly. But I'm sure there are some folks like my friends who are spend quite a bit of time at home. Then there are all the levels in between.

Anyway, just food for thought. I would love to get ToTV input to share with my friends. I would particularly like to hear from those folks who are more home-bodies. How has your experience in TV been?
In The Villages, you can do as much or as little as you like. No body forces you to get out and do stuff. If and when you are ready, there are always venues you can pursue. Other than that, enjoy life!

MrFlorida
06-22-2021, 08:44 AM
It's what you make it, you can be a homebody, or very active. The choice is yours.

KAM+6
06-22-2021, 08:55 AM
The main reason I chose TV is that as we get older I can take the golf cart anywhere I need, the squares pool restaurants and shopping. Colony area has it all. , between 466 and 466A ,wAs the best area for us. Right now we golf a bit, go to the pool,squares 3or 4 times a week and our neighborhood socialize every week . But.most important is the weather, no more snow and our children and grandchildren absolutely love it here to visit.

KRMACK55
06-22-2021, 09:05 AM
Not sure what the breakdown of activity level is among Villagers. I’m fairly active, as are the vast majority of people I know, but I know a few folks (mostly older) who are happy as homebodies here.
I wonder if your friends would be better off in a community with a cheaper cost of living if they are not going to take advantage of the activities here. My husband and I love The Villages and all the activities and sports, so all the monthly fees and higher home prices are worth it to us. But it may not be the best place for homebodies on a tight budget.
People living near The Villages of course can come to the squares and restaurants.
Very true ! As a single woman who purchased a home it’s very lonely and I don’t know anyone here the neighbors are all couples and don’t include me. For me it’s too expensive as there are too many people for what they offer and being south of 44 don’t have the access to the downtown without driving and there’s not enough parking. Don’t know how to join anything and decided I need to sell my house so I’m not paying all this money for nothing. The weather most of the year is too hot the allergies here are awful and I get bit by everything. It’s time to leave and it’s my failure for moving here and believing the villages sales person who only wanted a sale and being less than candid.

KRMACK55
06-22-2021, 09:09 AM
The beauty of The Villages is that you have the opportunity to live whatever life style you want, active or couch potato, but opportunities are here if and when you want them.
It depends on where you live and your neighborhood. The experiences of many south of 44 dont have the easy access to the squares. Going to the store or shopping is a major effort the traffic on 301 is horrendous. If you live by Brownwood Sumter or Spanish springs your experience is very different than the newer developments south of 44 which is somewhat remote.

lmack
06-22-2021, 09:24 AM
Id agree with other posters, you can be as active or inactive as you wish in TV. However, one of the major reasons we (and many others) were attracted here was because of all the activities and options available. If your friends really don't wish to take part in most activities in TV, they could consider other communities outside TV. We love the TV lifestyle so it was a slam dunk decision for us but we knew we could have had less traffic and more house elsewhere. Have they tried renting in TV? If not, I'd suggest a couple months (not just one) might be a good next step before buying. They might find themselves getting more involved than they anticipate.

CFrance
06-22-2021, 10:04 AM
The Sunday Times used to say you don't need to read it all but it's nice to know it's all here.
Perfect answer which describes why we're here. We are half active and half homebody enough that aside from missing pickleball and the occasional dinner out, we didn't mind the lockdown so much. We could still walk.

merrymini
06-22-2021, 10:41 AM
I think the real estate in the villages is higher because of access to all these activities. If you do not plan to use any of them, you can purchase a lower priced house outside the villages.

La lamy
06-22-2021, 04:19 PM
I like to be active a couple hours in the morning, and go to the square a few times a week. Otherwise very much a homebody. The only thing about that is thinking I may not be getting my money's worth from the amenities fee, even though they are not too bad. I may get into golf one day...

rsibole
06-22-2021, 05:36 PM
I golf 5-days a week, wife 4, she plays Mahjong on Thursday nights and I play poker. She bowls Friday nights and we dinner out afterwards with fellow bowlers, we go to the American Legion on Tuesday nights and sometimes twice a week. After golf we lunch, dinner or have snacks & beer with our playing partners depending on the day & group, we belong to The Belle Aire Social Club and attend the Monthly activity meetings, we and our neighbors hold a monthly cul-de-sac party, we have or attend a few parties, get together’s or special occasions each month and frequently attend the live performance shows here in TV. We also go on “off-campus” adventures for a variety of activities with friends and neighbors. Throw in an occasional trip to the square, evenings watching the sun set with friends & wine and we’re usually home by 9:00pm (Village midnight).

Five years now and it has never gotten old or slowed down. . . . . sitting on the couch has killed more people than anything else here in TV, including COVID!

OrangeBlossomBaby
06-22-2021, 07:01 PM
I have a friend who is considering moving to TV. I've answered a lot of his questions the best I can, but he asked me one that I realized I'm not really sure about. So I'm gonna ask it here. I've been here a few years and I'm reasonably active. But I hadn't really thought about how my activity level compares to others. And that is what my friend's question relates to.

He wants to know if people who are relative home-bodies have a place in TV.

I moved here in 2019 and immediately took a part time job. I wasn't ready to "not work" anymore, and the money covered the grocery bill, which was useful since hubby didn't start getting social security til this month and we were on a budget.

Late last year though, I realized standing up for a living was not good for bursitis of the hip, and so I quit.

Since then, I've become a volunteer for a group that gives dementia caregivers a couple hours off every week.

I also walk a lot, which is mostly a solo thing. I also ride my bicycle on occasion, which I prefer to do alone. That's my "zen" activity, and having to keep up with other people would just interfere with my enjoyment of it.

Our neighborhood is very "neighborly" and often we find ourselves on each other's driveways or patios, just hanging out for an hour, in addition to occasional driveway parties.

We also go to the squares to dance from time to time, and have family living in the area or owning a home nearby and coming down to visit often.

Lastly, I enjoy archery, though I haven't been to the range in awhile. I do have a bow and quiver full of arrows and plan on returning to the sport soon.

Other than that, I'm mostly a homebody. I don't watch TV but I do spend a lot of time on the computer, on staff of a game that a couple hundred people play on the internet.

OrangeBlossomBaby
06-22-2021, 07:04 PM
I think the real estate in the villages is higher because of access to all these activities. If you do not plan to use any of them, you can purchase a lower priced house outside the villages.

I like tooling around on a golf cart everywhere. That alone is worth the extra $159/month.

Garywt
06-22-2021, 07:36 PM
Hell no, I sit at home, drive the cart, hit up a pool and hit up the town squares now and again. That is about it for me.

zendog3
06-22-2021, 07:53 PM
The number one determinant of happiness in retirement is the quality of personal relationships. I have known a number of people who moved away from The Villages. To me, that seems inexplicable, but in each case, the person leaving did not develop a supportive group of new friends. So, the real factor to look at is not how active the person is, but how open to new friends, and new activities. If your friend just stays at home, it is probably better to stay at home where they lived and retired, because there, they have that support structure around. Moving here, a person HAS to develop new friends and interests, or one is isolated.

Villages Kahuna
06-22-2021, 09:04 PM
They can watch TV up north. They’ll soon tire of entertainment and crowds of people on the squares. They’d be paying a premium for the benefits of living in The Villages without using them. They’d be better off living just outside TV and coming in to the squares as often as they’d like. Much more ‘bang for the buck’ buying outside if you don’t intend to participate.

Polar Bear
06-22-2021, 10:19 PM
…They’ll soon tire of entertainment and crowds of people on the squares….
Not sure how you come to such a presumptive conclusion. We’re probably not that active overall compared to some, but we never tire of going to the squares. :)

richl
06-23-2021, 07:14 AM
I have a friend who is considering moving to TV. I've answered a lot of his questions the best I can, but he asked me one that I realized I'm not really sure about. So I'm gonna ask it here. I've been here a few years and I'm reasonably active. But I hadn't really thought about how my activity level compares to others. And that is what my friend's question relates to.

He wants to know if people who are relative home-bodies have a place in TV. He says he and his wife will likely enjoy the squares entertainment regularly and some other Villages features, but they may not partake in that many clubs, sports, or other similar Villages attractions. He asked whether that might be an issue in any way. I told him of course that TV is very friendly and they should be just fine. But that got me to thinking about something now I find myself wondering about...

I wonder what the breakdown is between the various levels of activity of Villages residents. There are of course those folks who are super active and busy constantly. But I'm sure there are some folks like my friends who are spend quite a bit of time at home. Then there are all the levels in between.

Anyway, just food for thought. I would love to get ToTV input to share with my friends. I would particularly like to hear from those folks who are more home-bodies. How has your experience in TV been?

with about 4000 clubs to consider, there is something for everyone and you are in charge of how busy you want to be

stebooo
06-25-2021, 02:35 PM
If the choose to be homeboys they can. The good thing is that at minimum they can do that in nice weather. Maybe just maybe they can and will find a club each can join for non physical things to do. Card playing etc.