Dogs and Retirement

[John-US]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

[Two Bills]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

You should have settled for the shrapnel.
You have now walked int the minefield!:boom:

[John-US]

I'm a survivor.

I witnessed people walking a dog from a golf cart. (they ride super slow and the tiniest dog runs full throttle to catch up) nightly occurrence.

I witnessed a lady (who I think was featured on my 600 lb life) wobble behind a tiny dog.

Both examples cannot pick up after the pet and do it in the cover of darkness. Why do they torture themselves? Doesn't the handicap or disability take enough we want to add this extra layer?

Enjoy.

[PugMom]

I'm a survivor.

I witnessed people walking a dog from a golf cart. (they ride super slow and the tiniest dog runs full throttle to catch up) nightly occurrence.

I witnessed a lady (who I think was featured on my 600 lb life) wobble behind a tiny dog.

Both examples cannot pick up after the pet and do it in the cover of darkness. Why do they torture themselves? Doesn't the handicap or disability take enough we want to add this extra layer?

Enjoy.

who let the trolls in?

[JMintzer]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

Welcome to TOTV and TV...

I could explain it to you, but it's obvious I can't understand it for you...

[DAVES]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

Reality, you can talk to people about such topics as their car, their home, their lawn, their spouse etc. If you want REAL hostility mention their dog. For me, I don't have a dog. It is far easier to spoil other people's dogs and leave them with the problems. Reincarnation, if it is so I want to come back as a villagers dog. You will know it is me because I demand an afternoon nap. Those costumes-forget about it. Oh and please let me not be one of those tiny dogs. I got to be at least big enough to drive a golf cart.

[Malsua]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)



I'm stealing this quote from Bill Murray, but I wholeheartedly agree. "I'm suspicious of people who don't like dogs, but I trust when dogs don't like people".

[Two Bills]

Reality, you can talk to people about such topics as their car, their home, their lawn, their spouse etc. If you want REAL hostility mention their dog. For me, I don't have a dog. It is far easier to spoil other people's dogs and leave them with the problems. Reincarnation, if it is so I want to come back as a villagers dog. You will know it is me because I demand an afternoon nap. Those costumes-forget about it. Oh and please let me not be one of those tiny dogs. I got to be at least big enough to drive a golf cart.

How about a nice stroller?:icon_wink:

[John-US]

I'm stealing this quote from Bill Murray, but I wholeheartedly agree. "I'm suspicious of people who don't like dogs, but I trust when dogs don't like people".

Don't be suspicious.. I was a mail carrier for 35 years. the hatred is real ;)

[JMintzer]

How about a nice stroller?:icon_wink:

Methinks DAVES waaay too big for a stroller...:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

[Malsua]

Don't be suspicious.. I was a mail carrier for 35 years. the hatred is real ;)

So you joined TOTV this month just to troll people about dogs? Fair enough. Between 1 and 4 percent of people are sociopaths. Pretty sure dogs have that figured out. Probably walking around exuding a pheromone that smells to dogs like corruption and fear, looking akin to Pig pen of Peanuts fame to a dog's nose. A walking cloud of insecurity, hatred, confusion and insanity.

You know, they say if you lock your wife and your dog in the trunk and drive down a bumpy road for a few hours, only one is happy to see you when you open it up. I'd ask if you have any experience with that but you've probably never done it with a dog.

[Rose Ann Vinci Igoe]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

Wow... you are so not an animal person, not everyone is. Fur babies are more than companionship. No sense on going into the whys, you will never understand. The Greatest Gift of Love from God and more.

[RICH1]

John , we could be friends... I love Dogs but unfortunately I have developed a medical allergy to them in my older years. I do wonder what go thru a dog owners mind when they bend over to pick up the excrement with those arthritic vertebrae and feel that squish. Praying and hoping that the thin plastic bag that separates them from a horrible aftermath, with no backup plan other than wiping their hand on the beautiful blades of Gods green earth..dogs must be something very special

[jbartle1]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

I REALLY needed this laugh, thanks.

[tophcfa]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

I would take your quote, “what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior”, and flip it back at you. What part of the brain is missing for those who dislike dogs? Their loyalty and unwavering commitment to their owners is second to nothing. There is only one thing about being a dog owner that is less than ideal, it can be very complicated and difficult to travel. Otherwise they are absolutely great.

[Topspinmo]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:


Nothing like good dog poop post. News flash! No matter where you move you have to deal with the same circumstances. Unless you move out in the sticks. But, then there the wild animals you have to deal with.

But, you could of moved into place that don’t allow animals, then you wouldn’t have these problems.

[John-US]

John , we could be friends... I love Dogs but unfortunately I have developed a medical allergy to them in my older years. I do wonder what go thru a dog owners mind when they bend over to pick up the excrement with those arthritic vertebrae and feel that squish. Praying and hoping that the thin plastic bag that separates them from a horrible aftermath, with no backup plan other than wiping their hand on the beautiful blades of Gods green earth..dogs must be something very special

LOVE this guy!

[John-US]

I would take your quote, “what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior”, and flip it back at you. What part of the brain is missing for those who dislike dogs? Their loyalty and unwavering commitment to their owners is second to nothing. There is only one thing about being a dog owner that is less than ideal, it can be very complicated and difficult to travel. Otherwise they are absolutely great.


The for the dog folks have a pug profile picture. remember the human race? :welcome:

[MACH7SS]

Seinfeld: Dogs are the leaders of the planet - YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IuH6XdSh5tk)

[Orvil]

John-US is probably a cat who got hold of his owner's laptop and started posting.

[John-US]

john-us is probably a cat who got hold of his owner's laptop and started posting.

love this- meow!

[John-US]

FUR BABIES are human children with hypertrichosis, aka "werewolf syndrome". While I like dogs, I truly think adults that refer to their dog(s) as " FUR BABIES" are possibly mentally regressing to that place a child thinks her/his dolly or teddy bear is their baby. They talk baby talk, play dress up, etc.
Before being labeled "dog hater", I have sheltered, shared my home with, loved and cared for 8 dogs in my lifetime. Never once did I suffer the delusion they were human. When see people so emotionally addicted to their dogs, I can't help but feel a bit sorry for that poor person.
While dogs posses many remarkable abilities, they are still dogs. Please stop demeaning your pet by calling it "FUR baby". Please remember that their hearing is way better then yours ever was and avoid places where they will be subjected to large crowds and loud noises, like the squares, fireworks and thunderstorms. Frightening and confusing for animals. And remember that not everyone likes, loves, trusts or wants your dog to approach them.

P.S. beware of Halloween treats others may try to give your pet. It might not be something they should have.

We are friends now ;) exactly what I was trying to convey-- but my mail carrier education didn't come off as eloquently as this post.

[Fredster]

Nothing like good dog poop post. News flash! No matter where you move you have to deal with the same circumstances. Unless you move out in the sticks. But, then there the wild animals you have to deal with.

But, you could of moved into place that don’t allow animals, then you wouldn’t have these problems.

Another News flash! “No matter where you move you have to deal with the same circumstances”
That statement in my opinion, based on experience in having lived in many places, is simply not true!
I have had several dogs over the years, but until I came to live in TV I had never witnessed such bizarro behavior by some dog owners.
Maybe old age and loneliness have something to do with folks giving human attributes to an animal?

[npwalters]

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

I seriously doubt you were ever in a foxhole

[tophcfa]

The for the dog folks have a pug profile picture. remember the human race? :welcome:

Shows what you know about dogs. The profile picture is a Border Collie, not a pug. Two very distinctly different breeds of dogs.

[MDLNB]

Shows what you know about dogs. The profile picture is a Border Collie, not a pug. Two very distinctly different breeds of dogs.


I think that the common denominator here is that regardless of breed, it's still just a DOG. Don't get me wrong, because I love dogs and have owned more than one most of my life. BUT, I would not own one in the villages and allow it to drop a load on my neighbor's yards. I have respect for other people's property. My dogs knew where they were allowed to unload and were always happy and well taken care of. But, even though they were considered family, they were still animals. I NEVER took a dog into a store, restaurant or business other than the Vets. I did not take my dog to a friend's home. People can love animals but still prefer them not to be in their faces.

[Opengineer150]

You can stay out all night come home drunk sit on the couch all day and watch TV and your Dog is always happy to see you and never complain or ask for money unlike a Wife.. The old joke being Put you wife and dog in the trunk drive around for a few hours open the trunk and see which one is happy to see you ….

[JMintzer]

The for the dog folks have a pug profile picture. remember the human race? :welcome:

Could you please translate that into English? Thanks!

[JMintzer]

https://images.fineartamerica.com/images/artworkimages/mediumlarge/3/i-like-dogs-coffee-maybe-3-people-funny-dog-lover-sarcasm-tshirt-katie-tholke.jpg

[fdpaq0580]

who let the trolls in?

Trolls make great pets. They are cute, loveable, loyal, and they use the toilet and wipe their own butts. Some even contribute to the household income. Best yet, they will pretend not to notice if you shave a few points off your golf score.

[Laker14]

Some of my best friends have been dogs.

[La lamy]

John-US is probably a cat who got hold of his owner's laptop and started posting.

:1rotfl: :1rotfl: :1rotfl: :1rotfl:

[JGVillages]

Another News flash! “No matter where you move you have to deal with the same circumstances”
That statement in my opinion, based on experience in having lived in many places, is simply not true!
I have had several dogs over the years, but until I came to live in TV I had never witnessed such bizarro behavior by some dog owners.
Maybe old age and loneliness have something to do with folks giving human attributes to an animal?

With my daily 3 mile neighborhood walk I encounter numerous dog walkers, and the dogs without exception are friendly and welcoming. I wave and say “morning” to all walkers and carts that pass, and only 7ish out of 10 acknowledge the greeting as opposed to 100% of wagging tails that pass. To those 3 out of 10 get your “tails” moving!

[EdFNJ]

Wow... you are so not an animal person, not everyone is. Fur babies are more than companionship. No sense on going into the whys, you will never understand. The Greatest Gift of Love from God and more. Funny, that's what I say about my kids and grandkids and even occasionally my wife. :) Dogs are cute to look at but the obsession here is overwhelming to the point that if I was the dog owner's husband or wife I would feel terribly rejected and would be looking elsewhere for my own companion .... maybe a little cat to sleep with ;) and if I sadly no longer had a spouse would be looking for human companionship from friends, family and maybe even religion if that is what one is into.

[Topspinmo]

Another News flash! “No matter where you move you have to deal with the same circumstances”
That statement in my opinion, based on experience in having lived in many places, is simply not true!
I have had several dogs over the years, but until I came to live in TV I had never witnessed such bizarro behavior by some dog owners.
Maybe old age and loneliness have something to do with folks giving human attributes to an animal?

So, where do you think they come from? All natives were shipped to Oklahoma.

[Fredster]

So, where do you think they come from? All natives were shipped to Oklahoma.

What does that have to do with my post?

[laboutj]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:
I think my German shepherd would take you in a battle of wits.

[prendymom]

I love Dogs, but there are people in my neighborhood who ride a bike with a dog in tow. With the availability of Dog Parks, walking trails r u kidding me! Get off that bike & interact with that fur baby & play with them.

[DaleDivine]

I love Dogs, but there are people in my neighborhood who ride a bike with a dog in tow. With the availability of Dog Parks, walking trails r u kidding me! Get off that bike & interact with that fur baby & play with them.

:coolsmiley::bigbow::bigbow:

[Worldseries27]

don't be suspicious.. I was a mail carrier for 35 years. The hatred is real ;)
johnny dark

YOU DID YOUR JOB
&
THE DOGS DID THEIRS
&
THE BEAT GOES ON

[cathy34787]

Jeez!! Really??

[Bella6368]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

It appears obvious from your post that even though you say you "get the companionship part" of owning a dog, I don't think you really do. To those of us who are dog owners, they are like a member of our family, and are treated as such. Most dog owners in TV are responsible for the dogs as far as keeping them on leashes, and picking up after them. Unfortunately, there are a few that give the rest of us a bad reputation. You should consider getting one, it might change your position. They bring so much love and joy to their owners, I couldn't imagine life without one.

[DOGSAREKEEPERS]

John , we could be friends... I love Dogs but unfortunately I have developed a medical allergy to them in my older years. I do wonder what go thru a dog owners mind when they bend over to pick up the excrement with those arthritic vertebrae and feel that squish. Praying and hoping that the thin plastic bag that separates them from a horrible aftermath, with no backup plan other than wiping their hand on the beautiful blades of Gods green earth..dogs must be something very special

Perhaps you'll get it when you have a baby or when are in a hospital or nursing home & someone needs to take care of your mess.

[CaptainMeso]

If you’re asking this question then you obviously don’t like dogs.

[Tomptomp]

What makes you think having a dog is related to being retired ?
Just because YOU apparently don’t care for dogs doesn’t make YOUR way of life the correct way to exist.
Perhaps something happened to you in that Fox hole that needs attention.

[Luggage]

Dogs and humans go back tens of thousands of years together. A dog will never divorce a human but a human will divorce another human. They are the only things that give up conditional love unconditionally. If you're so upset about a few poops not being picked up feel free to bring a pooper scooper with you when you take a walk

[BellaDonna]

Dogs bring so much love into our lives. Not once has Scrappy our mini schnauzer ever said; "Mom you look fat in those pants". She loves us unconditionally . What's not to love about that?

[jimkerr]

I live my German Shepherd and she sits in my passenger seat on our golf cart all the time. She loves the ride because she knows we’re going to a dog park.

[skiph3]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

I'm going out to buy two dogs to walk around the neighborhood.

[Neils]

Did anyone ask for your opinion? I will keep my dog and you can keep your opinions.

[giorgio1948]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

You’ll like it!

[Dtharp02]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

I had a grandfather who had an attitude towards animals similar to yours. If he were still here I would tell him that he missed one of the joys of life by not experiencing the love of a pet. I hope you find joy in some other aspect of your life.

[Gunny2403]

If you have to ask the answer will disappoint

[diva1]

I've had a dog pretty much all of my life. What a joy they are! Good thing your opinion doesn't matter to me in the least.

[Dzurinko]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:
In general, I like dogs. What I’m not too crazy about are their own owners by-passing THEIR yards and using their neighbors as a place to relieve themselves. The dogs don’t know any better. And it appears either do their owners. Even when poo is picked up, there is generally a smear. I cut my own grass and in the summer I am bare-footed. Get my drift?? Everyone here has their own lawn..... use it!

[Jpressley]

Thank you

[NoMo50]

So...you join this forum, and the first thing outta your keyboard is to diss a large segment of The Villages population? This forum already has its share of whiners and curmudgeons...not sure there is room for one more. Perhaps you can learn to be a happy guy...but only if you get a dog.

[Larchap49]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

1st I have been a dog lover my entire life, BUT in retirement I have no intention of being a slave to a dog. Limiting what I can do, where I can go, and how long I can stay is not part of my retirement plans. I totally understand your point of view. Be prepared for the name callers and haters because your opinion is different than theirs. I'm happy for you if you enjoy dog responsibilities and costs. NOW TO THOSE DOG OWNERS PICK UP AFTER YOUR PET AND DISPOSE OF IT IN THE PROPER WAY IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY

[Ptmckiou]

Since dogs generally live 10-17 years, most of us retired with dogs (two Dobermans here), bought our dogs when we weren’t close to retirement. However, now retired they are part of the family. I imagine once dogs pass in their senior years, many won’t be replaced. Unless, they end up alone after a spouse dies, a dog helps one feel like someone else is in the house and they dish out endless affection, and makes one feel needed….that too is reasoning enough to have a fur love bug in the house.

[RICH1]

Perhaps you'll get it when you have a baby or when are in a hospital or nursing home & someone needs to take care of your mess.
Oh your bag broke! lol

[ex34449]

If I were to come up on a burning car with 5 people and a dog inside... the dog is going to make it out safely.
So you don't like dogs but you're bragging about being in a fox hole. You jumped in the fox hole because of other dogs or other humans??? Oh yeah, other humans that you still choose to live and communicate with.
Ever had to run for cover because of a dog with a gun, grenade, agent O, chlorine etc? I haven't. And you're worried about a little poo on your lawn. lol
.
If you had a dog you would realize it's about the only living thing in this world that would sacrifice it's own life to save yours.

[whound68]

So john why the part about the foxhole. What does that have to do with anything? Bet your one of the non-combatants who wear those stupid hats.

[paulajr]

Just wow. You’d save a dog and let the people die?
Just…wow.
You just proved the posters point ….


If I were to come up on a burning car with 5 people and a dog inside... the dog is going to make it out safely.
So you don't like dogs but you're bragging about being in a fox hole. You jumped in the fox hole because of other dogs or other humans??? Oh yeah, other humans that you still choose to live and communicate with.
Ever had to run for cover because of a dog with a gun, grenade, agent O, chlorine etc? I haven't. And you're worried about a little poo on your lawn. lol
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If you had a dog you would realize it's about the only living thing in this world that would sacrifice it's own life to save yours.

[Proveone]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:
No meds today, I see! When I moved here in 2005, at the age of 59, I said something similar about why people would have dogs in early retirement, yet I wasn't as caustic as you. At that time, I was very active with golf, pickleball, traveling and socializing. Now I am 75 and not traveling anymore, so I adopted a couple of rescue dogs. Best thing I have done in years. I hadn't had dogs in 28 years and I love having them around. Lighten up and try to understand others!

[The Caretaker]

I am sick of people complaining about how we live in The Villages! If you don’t like it move the hell out of here.

We work all our lives to enjoy our retirement and if my dog gives me comfort and pleasure it is none of your business.

GET OVER IT! Grumpy old man.

[JMintzer]

In general, I like dogs. What I’m not too crazy about are their own owners by-passing THEIR yards and using their neighbors as a place to relieve themselves. The dogs don’t know any better. And it appears either do their owners. Even when poo is picked up, there is generally a smear. I cut my own grass and in the summer I am bare-footed. Get my drift?? Everyone here has their own lawn..... use it!

Ever seen what a lawnmower can do to a bare foot? I have... It's not pretty...

[JMintzer]

1st i have been a dog lover my entire life, but in retirement i have no intention of being a slave to a dog. Limiting what i can do, where i can go, and how long i can stay is not part of my retirement plans. I totally understand your point of view. Be prepared for the name callers and haters because your opinion is different than theirs. I'm happy for you if you enjoy dog responsibilities and costs. Now to those dog owners pick up after your pet and dispose of it in the proper way it is your responsibility

Nobody ever said it wasn't!

[nhtexasrn]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:
Hey, I just read a great book. It's called War Dogs. You should read it and then you might understand the connection and relationship between people and dogs...or not..:doggie:

[Joe C.]

I don't own a dog. I did when we had kids and lived in the country. Down here, I refuse to have one.

[billethkid]

Banging away at or about a minority representation....again....still!

It does provide an outlet....for something.

[davem4616]

OP with age comes wisdom

once you acquire a little wisdom you'll understand that not everyone shares your vision of how life should be lived and what brings joy into their lives...quite a lot of people get a whole lot of happiness out of having a pooch in their home

you're new here...chill out a little, you haven't got that much runway left in life anyway if you've moved to TV

if you don't want anyone's pooch to piddle or poop on your grass, put out a sign...there's a few of those signs around and folks with puppies will respect that

(p.s. I get that you were using the 'fox hole' comment as an analogy, not in the literal sense...just a heads up, those that have actually sheltered in one tend to not be cavalier about it...it's akin to a cancer survivor hearing someone that's never lived through cancer referring to some weed in their lawn as spreading like a cancer)

[rsibole]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

Giving human characteristics to animals, inanimate objects or natural phenomena is a human trait called “to anthropomorphize.” This condition is often exhibited by those who also suffer from cognitive dissonance. In psychology, cognitive dissonance is the mental stress or discomfort experienced by an individual who holds two or more contradictory beliefs, ideas, or values at the same time, performs an action that is contradictory to one or more beliefs, ideas or values, or is confronted by new information that conflicts with existing beliefs, ideas, or values. Just thought you might not be aware of these symptoms or recognize them when displayed as many if not most Village dog owners do. (I understand the term “owner” is now considered to be a “White Supremacist” term and may trigger someone and turn this thread into a racist subject. A lesser used and understood term is “ Eggshell skulls”. In the modern world, it seems, everyone’s skulls are susceptible to cracking at the slightest provocation, which this forum seems to demonstrate is true).

[airstreamingypsy]

Yea! Another whiny dog post. You know what, stay in your lane. You don't like dogs.... don't get one. Who are you to judge other people and how they care for their dogs. If they want to pull them, or push them, in a stroller or bike trailer... what's it to you? Is it any skin off your nose? No.....

[worahm]

I don't know what I would do without Tyler, my ShihTzu. Since my wife passed away. He has been a selfless companion and friend.

[airstreamingypsy]

Just wow. You’d save a dog and let the people die?
Just…wow.
You just proved the posters point ….

You seem confused. If you and my dog were in the proverbial rowboat, do you think I would save a total stranger over a dog that I love? Why do you think you would be more important to me than my dog?

[DonnaNi4os]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

Oh my, there are so many responses I could give you, but I will make this brief and to the point. Were it not for my dog, my sole companion, I don’t know how I would have made it through the pandemic. She is a constant source of happiness for me. Yes, we go for golf cart rides and she has her own golf cart seat which is elevated and tethered. To quote you, “what part of the brain doesn’t understand this?” I assume that you never had a dog. I’ve had 13 in my life and each one has made my life better. I’ve never met a dog I didn’t like and somehow I think if I ever met you I wouldn’t be able to say the same.

[kendi]

I'm a survivor.

I witnessed people walking a dog from a golf cart. (they ride super slow and the tiniest dog runs full throttle to catch up) nightly occurrence.

I witnessed a lady (who I think was featured on my 600 lb life) wobble behind a tiny dog.

Both examples cannot pick up after the pet and do it in the cover of darkness. Why do they torture themselves? Doesn't the handicap or disability take enough we want to add this extra layer?

Enjoy.

It’s none of your business and not your place to judge.

[JMintzer]

Giving human characteristics to animals, inanimate objects or natural phenomena is a human trait called “to anthropomorphize.” This condition is often exhibited by those who also suffer from cognitive dissonance. In psychology, cognitive dissonance is the mental stress or discomfort experienced by an individual who holds two or more contradictory beliefs, ideas, or values at the same time, performs an action that is contradictory to one or more beliefs, ideas or values, or is confronted by new information that conflicts with existing beliefs, ideas, or values. Just thought you might not be aware of these symptoms or recognize them when displayed as many if not most Village dog owners do. (I understand the term “owner” is now considered to be a “White Supremacist” term and may trigger someone and turn this thread into a racist subject. A lesser used and understood term is “ Eggshell skulls”. In the modern world, it seems, everyone’s skulls are susceptible to cracking at the slightest provocation, which this forum seems to demonstrate is true).

Thank you Dr. Phil...

[JMintzer]

Oh my, there are so many responses I could give you, but I will make this brief and to the point. Were it not for my dog, my sole companion, I don’t know how I would have made it through the pandemic. She is a constant source of happiness for me. Yes, we go for golf cart rides and she has her own golf cart seat which is elevated and tethered. To quote you, “what part of the brain doesn’t understand this?” I assume that you never had a dog. I’ve had 13 in my life and each one has made my life better. I’ve never met a dog I didn’t like and somehow I think if I ever met you I wouldn’t be able to say the same.

I simply tell those people, "I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you"...

Their lack of understanding and compassion is not my problem...

[Barborv]

Yes, having a dog is work. But so was having your kids or anything else you might be passionate about. But the rewards are endless!
Human nature, a need to love and be loved. First off, dogs give off endorphins that are calming to humans. 2nd, now that the kids are grown, have their own families, people need to have a purpose. Taking care of a dog is like taking care a baby. You love them , feed them , take care of them. You’re mommy and daddy again.
Plus, giving a dog a living home is such a feel good feeling.
Love my fur babies!!!

[Art cov]

I love dog and cat discussions, so funny! Brings out the best of both worlds!

[Barborv]

Meant to write loving home not living home

[Velvet]

I like to put it simply. Pets give some people joy and comfort, and make it worth the owner’s while.

They are not judgmental so you can have a bad hair day, or have suffered a stroke etc and they still like you. (They are looking forwards to their next meal, or pampering.) And they are always there. When you are alone, or by yourself, they are there.

[MidWestIA]

I'm just wondering what service a 8 inch dog does for a 6 foot person in a store

[George Page]

You write
what part of the brain is missing?
:1rotfl:

One.might be more than tempted to ask you the same question.

[airstreamingypsy]

I'm just wondering what service a 8 inch dog does for a 6 foot person in a store

Maybe the person is epileptic and the dog alerts them to oncoming seizures.

[Gettingoutofdodge]

I never minded changing my kids and grandkids diapers. Sometimes it was Everywhere.
Love is not conditional. I pick up after my dog even when it’s freezing, raining or snowing out. I live in NYC. I have arthritis but it’s about love, not the chore. Any dog owner will tell you that what they get back from their furry family, far outweighs what they give.
I’m moving to TV in Dec. Feddi and I will se you soon.

[BlkBlt6]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

My dog and I participate in “Pet Therapy”. We go to nursing homes, memory care, assisted living and rehab. The joy that my little dog brings to people that need love and hope isn’t measurable. Many people don’t like dogs in the Villages and that’s ok. Many people do like dogs. If this is all you have to complain about, you are one lucky person.

[Dennys37Packard]

I'm stealing this quote from Bill Murray, but I wholeheartedly agree. "I'm suspicious of people who don't like dogs, but I trust when dogs don't like people".

Thanks for that quote, love it.

[ANT33]

Exactly!

[jessiem28@yahoo.com]

We love our pups and they love what we love , my pup is the best passenger I have ever had

[Bogie Shooter]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

who let the trolls in?

Seems to have worked....:popcorn:

[nevjudbaker]

If you don’t like seeing people with their dogs just ignore them. My husband was like you until we got our puppy. He now loves that dog & wants her with us wherever we go. Events happen in life which we have no control. Depression anxiety loneliness are also illnesses that can’t be controlled. Instead of looking at the dog as a negative look at the dog as a companion who is making life so much better for someone in need of the dogs love. Owners will do whatever it takes to give their dog the love & care the dog needs. Don’t judge because you are not walking in other peoples shoes.





While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

[Road-Runner]

Hey, I just read a great book. It's called War Dogs. You should read it and then you might understand the connection and relationship between people and dogs...or not..:doggie:

Have the same book and yes it tells us what many of us already know, dogs are magnificent animals & companions.

[Road-Runner]

I never minded changing my kids and grandkids diapers. Sometimes it was Everywhere.
Love is not conditional. I pick up after my dog even when it’s freezing, raining or snowing out. I live in NYC. I have arthritis but it’s about love, not the chore. Any dog owner will tell you that what they get back from their furry family, far outweighs what they give.
I’m moving to TV in Dec. Feddi and I will se you soon.

Welcome to both you and Feddi!

[Heytubes]

I’d never ever put my dog in the trunk of my car. As for my wife? Uhm…

[MDLNB]

I no longer have a dog. Love them and have had many of them during my lifetime. To me, animals are angels sent from GOD to remind us that the world is not all bad, and to give us comfort when we are down. I won't have another pet this late in my lifetime, because unlike humans, animals really suffer when they mourn their owners. I don't think any new owner would treat my pets the way I do or care as much, so I do not want to put them through that if I pass before them. However, a well trained animal is a confident animal. I learned years ago how to train my dog to go where I designated. I respect other people's property and would not think of allowing my pet to contaminate their lawn. It's just respect. You do not have to be an animal hater to ask folks to find some place else to allow their pet to relieve itself. Is it really different than if someone wished to use your yard as a toilet? If a drunk wandered onto your property and urinated in your roses, would you say "have a nice day" or would you suggest he find someplace else to relive himself? It's just respect. I would NEVER blame a pet for messing in my yard but I would blame the owner of the pet. It just shows that they do not respect you and they are subtly urinating on you.
I do not enjoy seeing animals in grocery stores or restaurants. I do not care if I see them in Lowes or Home Depot.
I have also seen those lazy pet owners that drive their cart while walking their dogs. Shame on them. On the other hand, my German shepherd used to enjoy trotting along beside me as I rode my bike around the neighborhood. I did not even need a leash because she was ALWAYS next to me. Even when she spotted a squirrel, she would remain in place. If I stopped to chat with a neighbor, she would lay down next to my feet. I loved that dog but had to give her up when I moved overseas. Thank goodness, we gave her to a family that loved her as much as we did, and spoiled her even more. It was like parting with a close family member.
Just saying that pets are special and deserve to be treated with respect and love. But, like I said I can't think of outliving a pet. I have seen pets mourn their deceased owners to the point that it would make the hardest and cold hearted break down and weep.
And just a note, I have had a dog in my foxhole. Couldn't ask for a better comrade in a bad situation.

[golfing eagles]

In general, I like dogs. What I’m not too crazy about are their own owners by-passing THEIR yards and using their neighbors as a place to relieve themselves. The dogs don’t know any better. And it appears either do their owners. Even when poo is picked up, there is generally a smear. I cut my own grass and in the summer I am bare-footed. Get my drift?? Everyone here has their own lawn..... use it!

How many toes do you have left????:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

[Seasonal]

I am sick of people complaining about how we live in The Villages! If you don’t like it move the hell out of here.

We work all our lives to enjoy our retirement and if my dog gives me comfort and pleasure it is none of your business.

GET OVER IT! Grumpy old man.

When I read here, and read comments from the kind, funny, helpful, and happy retires, I often start looking for homes in TV. I want to be part of that group. But there are always people like the OP and a few others that drive me away. Why are some, so negative in life and retirement. Hope the OP has an ounce of introspection and considers why are they so unhappy. Meds, therapy, or a good friend could help but please never get a therapy dog. You don't deserve one.

[asianthree]

Our 2 oldest children, take in abused dogs, rehab them, and then find a home. Every other year take a puppy to train as a service dog. Plus they each have their own dogs. Both work full time. Their budget per year is $10,000, each, out of their own pockets, for vet bills, and needed multiple surgeries, food not included, which is home made, to get them to a healthy weight.

Both of their homes can be calm, and chaotic on any given day. Each new dog, has to be housebroken, usually because they have never been out of a cage for up to 7 years at puppy mills. Some have never eaten from a bowl.

They are taught to use the same area, in their yard only. Once accomplished, when walking, none use any lawn, except for their own. They are have to be taught to receive affection, even petting is very new to them.

Once they have graduated, the dogs go to a loving home, to live the rest of what is left of their lives.

Sometimes there are failures, which is why they have adopted dogs. While a challenge, they will always have a loving home. None of their guests have taken the place of their spouse, or their children, they are loved, and are an added addition to their home.

Both of our children do find it very different when they visit, TV and see dogs in the grocery, or shopping in a store, which they find strange. They do understand strollers, sometimes a new rescue gets wagon rides, because they haven’t walked any distance, for a long time. They also find it uncomfortable to watch those who take a small dog on a leash into the crowded squares.

[Worldseries27]

how many toes do you have left????:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:
one thing i'm sure of is the villages has no climate issues.
It never changes.

[golfing eagles]

In general, I like dogs. What I’m not too crazy about are their own owners by-passing THEIR yards and using their neighbors as a place to relieve themselves. The dogs don’t know any better. And it appears either do their owners. Even when poo is picked up, there is generally a smear. I cut my own grass and in the summer I am bare-footed. Get my drift?? Everyone here has their own lawn..... use it!

Almost forgot---besides my toe comment, I forgot to mention Necator Americanus---it's the new world version of old world Ancylostoma duodenale, the common name is the parasite "hookworm"----the larva enter through bare feet and find their way to the GI tract and suck nutrients from your body causing anemia, and in kids possible mental retardation. The drugs used to treat it also suck (pun intended) Bottom line----WEAR SHOES!!!

[Bogie Shooter]

When I read here, and read comments from the kind, funny, helpful, and happy retires, I often start looking for homes in TV. I want to be part of that group. But there are always people like the OP and a few others that drive me away. Why are some, so negative in life and retirement. Hope the OP has an ounce of introspection and considers why are they so unhappy. Meds, therapy, or a good friend could help but please never get a therapy dog. You don't deserve one.

Don’t let the few minority opinions deter you from our wonderful Village communities.

[Marine1974]

Keep your eyes open for service and comfort dogs for our veterans.
Thank you for your service .

[wjones53]

While I do understand the companionship- Whats the deal with seniors and dogs (many with more than 2) walking through the neighbor hoods, taking them to the farmers market (so many it looks like a dog show) Riding them around on a golf car like a small hairy child. (what part of the brain is missing to condone this behavior?)

When I was in the fox hole , I never thought oh lord if I get thru this nightmare and they remove the shrapnel I'd love to pick up dog excrement in a clear plastic bag off my neighbors lawn (even tho we have a ton of dog parks for this event or better yet the dog lovers own lawn) then carry it though the neighbor hood like a bag of truffles on award night.

Speaking of truffles in bags. Happy Halloween (or fall festival) if you're opposed to Halloween for some reason)

:1rotfl:

We have had dogs most of our married lives. My husband is an avid dog lover and I have ‘gone along’. Right now we have two small dogs (Havanese)and they are a joy in our lives. Our main vacation is a 2 month RV vacation during the summer, and of course they come along for the ride. Other trips (cruising and staying at our timeshares) they stay at home with a dog/house sitter whom they adore. Walking them and picking up after them is nothing compared to the love and joy that they add to our lives. YOU are missing out IMHO.

[kcrazorbackfan]

I don't own a dog. I did when we had kids and lived in the country. Down here, I refuse to have one.

Good for you. And I don’t trust, or like, people that don’t have a dog.

[PugMom]

The for the dog folks have a pug profile picture. remember the human race? :welcome:

my pug is actually better than most humans, certainly more fun to be around:)

[PugMom]

When I read here, and read comments from the kind, funny, helpful, and happy retires, I often start looking for homes in TV. I want to be part of that group. But there are always people like the OP and a few others that drive me away. Why are some, so negative in life and retirement. Hope the OP has an ounce of introspection and considers why are they so unhappy. Meds, therapy, or a good friend could help but please never get a therapy dog. You don't deserve one.

Friend, ...nasty people are very few & far between. do NOT let them stop you from loving a new life here, with or without a loving canine companion (or feline). i wish we had come here years ago

[dewilson58]

Good for you. And I don’t trust, or like, people that don’t have a dog.

Ouch!!!! Some may not be able to have a dog.

[fdpaq0580]

OP must have figured out by now that there is every possible point of view on the dog people/non-dog people conversation. Some think dogs are all perfect, some have very good reasons to not trust dogs and even fear them. Dogs can be the only comfort for some or they can cause anxiety and fear in others. As for " dog therapy" in retirement homes, I hope my wife never needs one of those places. Savagely attacked as an infant by the perfect little angel family dog for no apparent reason, is one of those who would be made miserable by having someone come into your "home" and, with all good intentions, try to get you to interact with the dog to make you feel better while actually causing anxiety, fear and depression.
I had several dogs and loved them all. Family, yes they were. Human, they were not. Obviously no dogs now and fine with that, kind of like empty nesters who are happy and satisfied they did well as "parents" and now are free to enjoy life as a couple without the responsibility of "parenthood" for a "furry baby" with special needs and limitations.
Dogs are great, but dogs are not people. They live in the moment, have senses that we cannot truly comprehend, are easily frightened or confused by things we take for granted, and can be triggered by things we are often totally unaware of. They can help save lives and they can also injure or kill.
Some folks like them, others, not so much. Dogs. Rin tin tin, strong, noble and heroic to Cerberus who guards the gates of hell. Whichever one you own, not everyone loves him/her, he/she loves being with you but doesn't always really like everything you do or every place you go.
Lastly, please, be a responsible owner and keep him/her off the neighbor's lawn. You can do it.