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thevillages2013
07-15-2022, 05:07 PM
Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???

Keefelane66
07-15-2022, 05:17 PM
Agree

Stu from NYC
07-15-2022, 05:18 PM
Some days discussions are more interesting than others.

Kenswing
07-15-2022, 05:25 PM
Of course it’s getting boring. Who wants to listen to the same four posters argue about the same things day in and day out. Then you have a few others that feel compelled to post numerous replies in every single thread. This place was much better when it was actually about The Villages and not current events. There are so many other forums more suited to that.

JohnN
07-15-2022, 05:30 PM
eh?

manaboutown
07-15-2022, 05:52 PM
:icon_bored::icon_bored::icon_bored:

Topspinmo
07-15-2022, 06:17 PM
There options…. Don’t click on them, don’t post on them :eclipsee_gold_cup:

thevillages2013
07-15-2022, 06:31 PM
There options…. Don’t click one of them, don’t post another. :eclipsee_gold_cup:

Just a general observation. Might have something to do with the fear users have of posting the “wrong thing “ and getting scolded or timeout. ———— Sorry I dozed off for a minute there:bigbow:

MartinSE
07-15-2022, 08:16 PM
This may come as a shock to many here, but it is not necessary to read a post you find boring... or even an entire section - Like Current Events.

Laker14
07-15-2022, 08:50 PM
Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???

Just part of "The Lifestyle Letdown".

Chi-Town
07-15-2022, 09:12 PM
Of course it’s getting boring. Who wants to listen to the same four posters argue about the same things day in and day out. Then you have a few others that feel compelled to post numerous replies in every single thread. This place was much better when it was actually about The Villages and not current events. There are so many other forums more suited to that.

Nailed it. Ponderous comes to mind.

tophcfa
07-15-2022, 10:36 PM
Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???

Yup

MartinSE
07-15-2022, 11:14 PM
Of course it’s getting boring. Who wants to listen to the same four posters argue about the same things day in and day out. Then you have a few others that feel compelled to post numerous replies in every single thread. This place was much better when it was actually about The Villages and not current events. There are so many other forums more suited to that.

Please help me out here, because I looked over about 20 threads and I could not find a single thread where an individual posted on every one of them. Maybe, you did, but I think you missed one.

Blackbird45
07-16-2022, 04:34 AM
This site mainly caters to TV.
It's a retirement community.
Subjects usually are restaurants, golf, healthcare or complaining about parking, snowbirds and taxes.
If you're looking for more uplifting topics there are plenty of sites on the internet.

Rwirish
07-16-2022, 04:57 AM
It’s just you.

dhdallas
07-16-2022, 05:03 AM
It is boring because the administrator removes all the controversial, i.e. interesting, entertaining & cynical comments.

Luggage
07-16-2022, 05:44 AM
Some of us.... actually want to read diverse views and opinions but obviously the sponsors want pablum. I enjoy a good discourse on the days events but since I can't post any of that here I don't. Of course if you want to talk about the gosh darn best plumber or that the steak was too well done and someone's entitled to get good service at the local donut shop $4.99 then this is the place

La lamy
07-16-2022, 05:50 AM
Depends on the day for me. Sometimes there's no threads I'm interested in, other times I actually take notes for further work I may need to do. I'm still grateful to have this forum even when the subjects aren't my cup of tea that day.

jimkerr
07-16-2022, 06:01 AM
This thread is a perfect example of “boring”

irish2468
07-16-2022, 06:01 AM
Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???

Get off all Social media and remember what it's like to live.
Go outside and do something.

ron32162
07-16-2022, 06:28 AM
yes it has

ThirdOfFive
07-16-2022, 06:44 AM
Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???
I wouldn't say boring. Repetitive? At times. Useful? Certainly. People are only too happy to share information and that can be (has been) a big help.

But it is...limited. In my opinion the powers-that-be want this place to reflect the "America's friendliest hometown" image and thus ban discussions of some issues that flourish on other similar sites. TOTV is a bit less rainbows and unicorns than, say, WVLG, but not by much.

But hey. Their sandbox, right? They get to choose how we play in it.

Tvflguy
07-16-2022, 06:44 AM
It may be me, but it appears that some of the Usual Suspects may be in a coma, internet out, or in the TOTV doghouse. It is kind of refreshing actually.

Becomes irritating when they simply HAVE TO rsp with a stupid emoji or one word yada. I think there has been less of that in the last week or so.

I’ve only been a member here for half a year or so, but have seen enough to know how to keep your ball in the park and not be assigned to the bullpen or thrown out of the game entirely. Naturally this will tamper down natural discussions that may involve “P” word. And perhaps relegate back to dog poop, Developer, bad driving, etc etc.

So be it. Now I know that at least one will rsp to this with an emoji or such. So be it.

golfing eagles
07-16-2022, 06:46 AM
It may be me, but it appears that some of the Usual Suspects may be in a coma, internet out, or in the TOTV doghouse. It is kind of refreshing actually.

Becomes irritating when they simply HAVE TO rsp with a stupid emoji or one word yada. I think there has been less of that in the last week or so.

I’ve only been a member here for half a year or so, but have seen enough to know how to keep your ball in the park and not be assigned to the bullpen or thrown out of the game entirely. Naturally this will tamper down natural discussions that may involve “P” word. And perhaps relegate back to dog poop, Developer, bad driving, etc etc.

So be it. Now I know that at least one will rsp to this with an emoji or such. So be it.

Just to make you happy:
:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

jbrown132
07-16-2022, 06:47 AM
Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???
The problem is you cannot have a discussions of substance. Lately it has boiled down to “who has the best pizza, what is the best village to live in, any one know a good proctologist, etc etc etc.

Larchap49
07-16-2022, 07:02 AM
Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???

Judging by the number of posts that are repeated for days you are correct. If not enough people are posting to have fresh posts daily it's lost more than it's luster.

MrFlorida
07-16-2022, 07:04 AM
It seems like certain posters are are always waiting to attack. No real content here other than complaints.

Stu from NYC
07-16-2022, 07:08 AM
Still useful for finding Drs, Dentists, contractors and etc.

MidWestIA
07-16-2022, 07:19 AM
I thought this was just to pass on who is good to hire, best places to get things or restaurants - things new people want to know.

If you are looking for soap opera drama just go here - https://www.**************.com/

Caymus
07-16-2022, 08:35 AM
It is boring because the administrator removes all the controversial, i.e. interesting, entertaining & cynical comments.


Some of their actions must have a negative effect on advertisement revenue. Most sites base rates on posting volume.

Chi-Town
07-16-2022, 08:44 AM
Agree with you! Sister Gilmary smacked so many hands with the ruler when it was not justified that we are ALL afraid to say the wrong thing, both here and everywhere. UG.

I tune in hoping for an interesting topic and sometimes find something. I like most of your responses, even tho the topics are lame. You guys are pretty cool with nice responses.

HOWEVER, This site is so soft and uninteresting to me that I've become a HUNTER of groups that relish their free speech!

We meet regularly "live and in-person" at Eisenhower Rec Ctr.
5000 strong.
Come and join us! ENJOY actually experiencing your Constitutional Rights.

I don't believe that I can name our group without getting sent to my bedroom without dinner, but it's partial name is Villagers for _____!
Or
You can remain here, only willing to speak up about Jo Jo the Plumber.

I would imagine Samuel Joseph Wurzelbacher is a hero at your meetings.

MartinSE
07-16-2022, 08:49 AM
The pages of posts now, and it seems there are 3 opinions.

This site is boring because:

1. No freedom of speech (people are not allow to discuss anything they want to discuss - violating their freedom of speech)
2. Too much freedom of speech (people are allowed to post as often as they want about things I don't want posted)
3. Nothing interesting is ever posted.

Haggar
07-16-2022, 09:00 AM
Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???

One area for me is having to go through posts that are meaningless such:

Emojis
Boom
Time will tell
I think you are wrong
I would not be surprised either
I never shop there so I have no information .
Yikes
My floor mats do not concern me so I cannot offer any feedback.
No I don't know. Thanks for asking.
Eat at home.
Go somewhere else.
Agreed

In a single thread one poster responded twelve times. Had to give his response to other responses.

Sometimes there is great information - but one has to go through posts that are meaningless.

Just my opinion.

OhioBuckeye
07-16-2022, 09:15 AM
I agree!!

PugMom
07-16-2022, 09:16 AM
slow @ times, yes, but NEVER boring!

Mustagotlost
07-16-2022, 09:17 AM
I’m finding it harder and harder to read most threads. I cherry pick which ones that seem interesting and usually can’t read the whole article. My wife reads (“the neighborhood” I think or something like that) but she doesn’t know how to direct me to gain access to it. Does anyone know how to do it?

PugMom
07-16-2022, 09:18 AM
Just to make you happy:
:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

:clap2::duck:

Burgy
07-16-2022, 09:25 AM
Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???
Interesting threads are gone in a day, but one about golf course conditions stays for weeks. Why?

MartinSE
07-16-2022, 10:43 AM
Interesting threads are gone in a day, but one about golf course conditions stays for weeks. Why?

It is harder to make golf course posts political - but many find a way :)

Tvflguy
07-16-2022, 10:47 AM
Bye, don't let the door hit you in the a$$

Nice. I thought the rules here dictate no direct negative comments to a poster. Then again not truly policed here.

justjim
07-16-2022, 10:48 AM
Those of us who have been on TOTV for several years remember the “political site” that was separate but part of TOTV (where you could opt in or out) and discuss various political issues as they occur in current events. Your opinions were allowed and you could freely discuss the issues but personal attacks were prohibited. Unfortunately, a few could not remain civil and often the personal attacks got “ugly”and I understand may have got personal beyond the site itself. For those reasons, and the time consuming monitoring, the site was “taken down”. I still find TOTV viable and interesting. It’s disappointing that politics has gotten so ugly.

Michael G.
07-16-2022, 11:03 AM
Might have something to do with the fear users have of posting the “wrong thing “ and getting scolded or timeout.

Yes this is so true.
The sarcasm and writing snarky reply's are running wild here for to long.

And the sense of humor here, will..... there isn't any.

Stu from NYC
07-16-2022, 11:08 AM
Yes this is so true.
The sarcasm and writing snarky reply's are running wild here for to long.

And the sense of humor here, will..... there isn't any.

There is some humor here which I do try to help and contribute to.

MrFlorida
07-16-2022, 11:40 AM
I don't like it when a poster is seeking advice, and gets nasty comments in return.

MartinSE
07-16-2022, 11:42 AM
There is some humor here which I do try to help and contribute to.

I completely agree. Sadly, I don't think anyone here appreciates my sense of humor.

MartinSE
07-16-2022, 11:44 AM
One area for me is having to go through posts that are meaningless such:

In a single thread one poster responded twelve times. Had to give his response to other responses.



I often post more than once in a thread. It is called a discussion. You can join or ignore it is your choice.

Bellavita
07-16-2022, 11:46 AM
yes, a lot of silly conversations and police to guard them....crazy. This must be owned by The Villages right?



Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???

Bogie Shooter
07-16-2022, 12:10 PM
Agree with you! Sister Gilmary smacked so many hands with the ruler when it was not justified that we are ALL afraid to say the wrong thing, both here and everywhere. UG.

I tune in hoping for an interesting topic and sometimes find something. I like most of your responses, even tho the topics are lame. You guys are pretty cool with nice responses.

HOWEVER, This site is so soft and uninteresting to me that I've become a HUNTER of groups that relish their free speech!

We meet regularly "live and in-person" at Eisenhower Rec Ctr.
5000 strong.
Come and join us! ENJOY actually experiencing your Constitutional Rights.

I don't believe that I can name our group without getting sent to my bedroom without dinner, but it's partial name is Villagers for _____!
Or
You can remain here, only willing to speak up about Jo Jo the Plumber.

What constitutional right is TOTV denying you?

Bogie Shooter
07-16-2022, 12:18 PM
yes, a lot of silly conversations and police to guard them....crazy. This must be owned by The Villages right?

You been a member since 2011 and think TOTV is owned by TV? Nope!

Stu from NYC
07-16-2022, 12:26 PM
I often post more than once in a thread. It is called a discussion. You can join or ignore it is your choice.

Apparently a course in scrolling is in order for some people

Marykess1802
07-16-2022, 12:35 PM
Our we out of dog poop posts and bad driver posts. Why God gave us an index finger, also known as the scroll by finger. On the other hand, I have received many good recommendations for service people and there have been many good jokes. YMMV

tophcfa
07-16-2022, 12:41 PM
Interesting threads are gone in a day, but one about golf course conditions stays for weeks. Why?

Why? Golf course conditions are up there on the list as one of the more important things in life for many Villagers : )

Golf on!

Eg_cruz
07-16-2022, 12:46 PM
Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???
Was thinking the same thing the other day

Pickbent
07-16-2022, 01:41 PM
I Tried to post an ad for a Gardener, spent time posting that. Yet, ad doesn’t appear.
Villages provides very little assistance or us handicapped with limited mobility

thevillages2013
07-16-2022, 06:54 PM
Get off all Social media and remember what it's like to live.
Go outside and do something.

Did you just get in from a 10 mile hike and decide to read my post?

thevillages2013
07-16-2022, 06:57 PM
I often post more than once in a thread. It is called a discussion. You can join or ignore it is your choice.

You are just being modest

thevillages2013
07-16-2022, 07:14 PM
I was sent to the corner for a month because I said something which may have been anti Biden…. Free speech down the tubes on this site….bye

No! Don’t leave! That is what THEY want you to do. Don’t have your ideas suppressed just find a more clever (sneaky) way to present them!

Sandy and Ed
07-17-2022, 05:36 AM
Actually, after reading this thread, I must agree……boring!! Think I’ll stare at the cloud formations now

Sandy and Ed
07-17-2022, 05:39 AM
No! Don’t leave! That is what THEY want you to do. Don’t have your ideas suppressed just find a more clever (sneaky) way to present them!
………Or pick another less “offensive” party or subject ??

Sandy and Ed
07-17-2022, 05:40 AM
I don't like it when a poster is seeking advice, and gets nasty comments in return.
Now that…..I agree!

tvbound
07-17-2022, 06:51 AM
It's my personal observation that there are a large number of people here who are bursting at the seams, with hate/anger/vitriol toward 'them' and are frustrated that they can't express those juvenile and destructive emotions on TOTV. Quite ironic actually, given that there are literally tens of thousands of other internet sites that allow it (typically echo chambers of only those that agree with their views). Then again, it's hard to take serious the spewing from anyone who doesn't understand the simple concept that the 1A does not apply to private entities - whether it be an internet site or place of employment.

Bilyclub
07-17-2022, 07:08 AM
The past few days all I've been seeing here is blah, blah, blah... Maybe I need new glasses.

coffeebean
07-17-2022, 01:12 PM
Just to make you happy:
:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

Way to go, GE!

coffeebean
07-17-2022, 01:24 PM
Yes this is so true.
The sarcasm and writing snarky reply's are running wild here for to long.

And the sense of humor here, will..... there isn't any.

Have you heard the joke about the three sisters? I love this one....................

Three sisters, ages 92, 94, and 96, live in a house together.
One night the 96-year-old draws a bath. She puts one foot in and pauses.
She yells down the stairs, “Was I getting in or out of the bath?”
The 94-year-old yells back, “I don’t know.
I’ll come up and see.” She starts up the stairs and pauses.
Then she yells out, “Was I going up the stairs or down?”
The 92-year-old is sitting at the kitchen table having tea and listening to her sisters.
She shakes her head and says, “I sure hope I never get that forgetful.”
She knocks on wood for good measure.
She then replies,“I’ll come up and help both of you as soon as I see who’s at the door.”

LG999
07-17-2022, 01:42 PM
Yes, for me, it is boring now.
And disappointing.
It used to be a nice way to start the day. Now there are a lot more whiners, complainers, snarky comments and general nastiness. There is still some interesting & useful content which makes me still take a look from time to time but the snarkiness is a real turn off and is tiresome.

Stu from NYC
07-17-2022, 02:20 PM
No! Don’t leave! That is what THEY want you to do. Don’t have your ideas suppressed just find a more clever (sneaky) way to present them!

Who is they and why do they want you to leave?

It's Hot There
07-17-2022, 06:01 PM
Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???

Some fun, entertaining posters are gone.

manaboutown
07-17-2022, 06:20 PM
Some fun, entertaining posters are gone.

I miss the banter and repartee some past posters provided. Their clever raillery frequently caused me to chuckle and occasionally to laugh out loud. I almost spilled my coffee more than once.

A degree of ennui permeates the site anymore.

Laker14
07-17-2022, 06:56 PM
Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???

According to this site, there have been over 1.75 MILLION(!) comments on TOTV. As unique as we may think we are, perhaps we are running out of clever new things to discuss, and clever new ways to discuss them.

thevillages2013
07-18-2022, 04:41 AM
………Or pick another less “offensive” party or subject ??

But that may be BORING!

thevillages2013
07-18-2022, 04:47 AM
Who is they and why do they want you to leave?

MODern genERATORS

fgaba1949
07-18-2022, 07:27 AM
Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???

Yes very boring....what it needs it to have a topic called politics and let folks go and express their opinions in that 1 topic.
I don't understand why the censors don't allow open discussion of politics in a specific area.

Yes it will get lively, and won't be for the feint of heat but those who are concerned about strong opinions
and that expression of free speech should just not read that section instead the censors ban the mention of politics and the concerns of the villagers be it dem or republicans
I honestly dont understand why the censors feel the need to stop folks from expressing their political views as it DOES AFFECT the Villages...

MartinSE
07-18-2022, 08:03 AM
Yes very boring....what it needs it to have a topic called politics and let folks go and express their opinions in that 1 topic.
I don't understand why the censors don't allow open discussion of politics in a specific area.

Yes it will get lively, and won't be for the feint of heat but those who are concerned about strong opinions
and that expression of free speech should just not read that section instead the censors ban the mention of politics and the concerns of the villagers be it dem or republicans
I honestly dont understand why the censors feel the need to stop folks from expressing their political views as it DOES AFFECT the Villages...

Well, I would organize it as a separate group, and you have to agree to terms to be in the group (personal attacks, etc.). So, if a person gets too many brownie points, they are kicked out of the group, not off the site entirely. Let those that want to argue and have spirited political discussions have them, let those that want to complain about dog poop, stay here.

But that said, I have moderated forums in the past and it is a thankless job, and anything they do is wrong in someone's mind. I respect anyone that manages to do the job in a forum like this one.

justjim
07-18-2022, 09:21 AM
Yes very boring....what it needs it to have a topic called politics and let folks go and express their opinions in that 1 topic.
I don't understand why the censors don't allow open discussion of politics in a specific area.

Yes it will get lively, and won't be for the feint of heat but those who are concerned about strong opinions
and that expression of free speech should just not read that section instead the censors ban the mention of politics and the concerns of the villagers be it dem or republicans
I honestly dont understand why the censors feel the need to stop folks from expressing their political views as it DOES AFFECT the Villages...

Did you read post #41? :ohdear:

Bogie Shooter
07-18-2022, 09:32 AM
Did you read post #44? :ohdear:

Newbies always have better ideas.
Didn’t work the last time.

Kenswing
07-18-2022, 09:43 AM
Yes very boring....what it needs it to have a topic called politics and let folks go and express their opinions in that 1 topic.
I don't understand why the censors don't allow open discussion of politics in a specific area.

Yes it will get lively, and won't be for the feint of heat but those who are concerned about strong opinions
and that expression of free speech should just not read that section instead the censors ban the mention of politics and the concerns of the villagers be it dem or republicans
I honestly dont understand why the censors feel the need to stop folks from expressing their political views as it DOES AFFECT the Villages...
The old politics forum was a dumpster fire at best. More like a mosh pit with guns and knives. If I remember correctly some advertisers actually threatened to leave because of the vile content that was being posted.

There are numerous political forums out there. Heck, you could even start one yourself. It’s easy set up.

Boomer
07-18-2022, 12:27 PM
Newbies always have better ideas.
Didn’t work the last time.

The old politics forum was a dumpster fire at best. More like a mosh pit with guns and knives. If I remember correctly some advertisers actually threatened to leave because of the vile content that was being posted.

There are numerous political forums out there. Heck, you could even start one yourself. It’s easy set up.


Yep to the above quoted posts, and....it was not just the old political forum. It was also the old, old political forum -- from the time, way back, when politics were relatively tame in comparison to the political hell that is now. It nearly ruined the forum then. The opening page each day was littered with what looked like a propaganda leaflet drop. That happened during the beginning of the end of civil, political discourse. And here we are -- getting worse every day. There are good reasons why politics cannot return to TOTV.

TOTV is a PRIVATE business, and they can do things however they want to. They don't need to provide a place for political obsession.....

It's kind of like when you are having a party these days, and there might be some people who would have been invited in the past, but you don't want them there because they cannot stop spewing venom in the form of either a full-fledged diatribe -- or -- if they think they are really being clever -- their commentary comes in the form of constant, snarky, little comments any time they think they see an opportunity to pounce. Talk about boooooring.

(In 2016 I started a book club. I made an upfront rule -- "No politics!" And we are still doing just fine. Lots of times, we do not even talk about the book, and that's OK. We enjoy all the conversation and the food and the wine.....I sure am glad I made that rule though.)

And so......if political steaming up is all ya got, go find it someplace else. Otherwise, let's talk -- about The Villages, and other topics that are of interest to our age group (there are many) -- and throw in a few jokes, some suggestions for streaming or movies, and maybe a few books, and, of course, those gorgeous photos that are so generously shared with us.

Boomer

MartinSE
07-18-2022, 04:26 PM
Yep to the above quoted posts, and....it was not just the old political forum. It was also the old, old political forum -- from the time, way back, when politics were relatively tame in comparison to the political hell that is now. It nearly ruined the forum then. The opening page each day was littered with what looked like a propaganda leaflet drop. That happened during the beginning of the end of civil, political discourse. And here we are -- getting worse every day. There are good reasons why politics cannot return to TOTV.

TOTV is a PRIVATE business, and they can do things however they want to. They don't need to provide a place for political obsession.....

It's kind of like when you are having a party these days, and there might be some people who would have been invited in the past, but you don't want them there because they cannot stop spewing venom in the form of either a full-fledged diatribe -- or -- if they think they are really being clever -- their commentary comes in the form of constant, snarky, little comments any time they think they see an opportunity to pounce. Talk about boooooring.

(In 2016 I started a book club. I made an upfront rule -- "No politics!" And we are still doing just fine. Lots of times, we do not even talk about the book, and that's OK. We enjoy all the conversation and the food and the wine.....I sure am glad I made that rule though.)

And so......if political steaming up is all ya got, go find it someplace else. Otherwise, let's talk -- about The Villages, and other topics that are of interest to our age group (there are many) -- and throw in a few jokes, some suggestions for streaming or movies, and maybe a few books, and, of course, those gorgeous photos that are so generously shared with us.

Boomer

Excellent post. Thank you, very accurate and to the point.

EdFNJ
07-18-2022, 05:26 PM
Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???
Didn't you get the email? They tripled the subscription rates to use this forum so many folks are refusing to pay in protest and haven't come back because it's so expensive to join. It seems we are getting exactly what we pay for. :ho:

Boomer
07-18-2022, 06:12 PM
Follow the bouncing ball.....

Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???

Just a general observation. Might have something to do with the fear users have of posting the “wrong thing “ and getting scolded or timeout. ———— Sorry I dozed off for a minute there:bigbow:

No! Don’t leave! That is what THEY want you to do. Don’t have your ideas suppressed just find a more clever (sneaky) way to present them!


Um.....'scuse me, BUT it sure looks to me like that agenda that was claimed to be non-existent is coming through loud and clear.

Gotta luv the irony.

Boomer

Chi-Town
07-18-2022, 06:24 PM
The political forum really spiraled down when racist posts started to appear. In fact a couple of the offenders are posters here.

thevillages2013
07-18-2022, 07:01 PM
Follow the bouncing ball.....








Um.....'scuse me, BUT it sure looks to me like that agenda that was claimed to be non-existent is coming through loud and clear.

Gotta luv the irony.

Boomer
Hey sorry to roadblock your parade but I have never been in “ Timeout “ on this site. Maybe it’s because I am too boring!

tvbound
07-20-2022, 06:17 PM
The political forum really spiraled down when racist posts started to appear. In fact a couple of the offenders are posters here.

And then there was the shock when it was found that the user names of the vile racist posts were visible, especially by one who claims to be a retired cop.

pokeefe45@aol.com
07-20-2022, 06:36 PM
I continue to find the exchanges anywhere from mildly amusing to very informative. Not sure it supports the 'Friendliest Hometown' moniker, but not sure it should either. We could always just start to take keyboards away from the grumpier amongst us, but that might set off a whole lot of first amendment discussions, and those never end well.

MartinSE
07-20-2022, 09:18 PM
We could always just start to take keyboards away from the grumpier amongst us, but that might set off a whole lot of first amendment discussions, and those never end well.

You will have to pry it from my cold dead fingers - oh, wait, oops, wrong thread - lol!

Northwoods
07-20-2022, 09:54 PM
It is boring because the administrator removes all the controversial, i.e. interesting, entertaining & cynical comments.

They used to allow local politics which I found interesting and informational (and entertaining). They've banned it.
I used to check out TOTV daily. Now I check out TOTV every other month. They ban so much content I agree this site has become boring.

Based on the fact that there is now typically 2 -3 pages of "today's posts" vs. 5+ pages a year ago, I don't think I'm the only person who feels that way.

EdFNJ
07-22-2022, 03:38 PM
And then there was the shock when it was found that the user names of the vile racist posts were visible, especially by one who claims to be a retired cop. Funny how no one else mentioned that "exposed anonymity" over the years which may have been one reason Tapatalk App support was removed. :) I discovered this forum before I moved here and found so many of those topics so repulsive . I guess not too many folks used Tapatalk but for those unaware what happened was if you read the political forum using Tapatalk App it exposed the real (fake) user names rather than the fake (fake) user names. And yea, some of those racist, sexist and misogynous posts there were from folks you'd never have expected from reading their current posts. You can still read bits and pieces of that forum using the wayback machine/internet archives. Everybody should remember what you post on the internet can always be found. It doesn't fade away. Fortunately, that forum was removed shortly before we came down here.

Boomer
07-22-2022, 07:20 PM
Funny how no one else mentioned that "exposed anonymity" over the years which may have been one reason Tapatalk App support was removed. :) I discovered this forum before I moved here and found so many of those topics so repulsive . I guess not too many folks used Tapatalk but for those unaware what happened was if you read the political forum using Tapatalk App it exposed the real (fake) user names rather than the fake (fake) user names. And yea, some of those racist, sexist and misogynous posts there were from folks you'd never have expected from reading their current posts. You can still read bits and pieces of that forum using the wayback machine/internet archives. Everybody should remember what you post on the internet can always be found. It doesn't fade away. Fortunately, that forum was removed shortly before we came down here.


I remember it well.

I never participated in that political forum. I think it was an opt-in thing. If I am remembering correctly, it showed all those posters' screen names as guest -- but it did not take long for anyone looking in to see that the regular screen names showed up easily. I think it was a drop down when clicking on guest.......

I never posted anything in that forum, but you can bet your sweet bippy, I peeked when I found out I could see the regular screen names. It went on for quite a while before they realized they were showing everybody how they really think.

There was some awful, hateful stuff being posted when they thought they were in disguise and could just keep spewing venom.

It would have been funny to watch them make fools of themselves, thinking nobody knew what their usual screen name was, but it was so vile, it gave me the creeps.......and most of them were clearly actual Villagers. (shudder)

Boomer

dewilson58
08-07-2022, 02:41 PM
has this site lost it’s luster?

Yes it has.

Been on the road for about a month.
Came back to find out I was on bad-boy vacation three weeks ago.
Wasn't even here to enjoy it.

Sometime, this site adds value for new villagers, but it can also be very dangerous for new villagers.

Personal agendas dictate.

Nothing is Fair & Balanced.

:posting:

rmd2
08-07-2022, 02:50 PM
It is boring because the administrator removes all the controversial, i.e. interesting, entertaining & cynical comments.

I agree and said it was like oatmeal about 5 months ago and haven't been on it since then until today.

chrisinva
08-07-2022, 04:00 PM
No luster lost for me. I use this site for engineering/ technical type questions & ALWAYS get exceptionally well thought out answers or referrals ( garage door squeaks, strange circles in pond, greasy sites on garage door, etc). I use Next Door for doc recommendations & to learn about problems / scams to be aware of. I love this site!

Stu from NYC
08-07-2022, 05:49 PM
Have no idea why but quite a few posters who are very knowledgeable seems to have left this site.

dewilson58
08-08-2022, 06:26 AM
Have no idea why but quite a few posters who are very knowledgeable seems to have left this site.

Sometimes threats.
(I had an advertiser threaten me in a PM, sent to the Mod/Adm & did nothing.)

Some get tired of the lack of Fair & Balance standards.

Some did not like the change in ownership.

Some died.

Some decided there are better things to do with their time.

:mornincoffee:

Stu from NYC
08-08-2022, 07:37 AM
Sometimes threats.
(I had an advertiser threaten me in a PM, sent to the Mod/Adm & did nothing.)

Some get tired of the lack of Fair & Balance standards.

Some did not like the change in ownership.

Some died.

Some decided there are better things to do with their time.

:mornincoffee:

How long ago did the ownership change?

Veiragirl
08-08-2022, 08:51 AM
Is it just me or has this site lost it’s luster? I’m sure it’s just me ! I have no agenda just trying to keep it real???


I agree!!!! The folks who deceide what is allowable need to realize we are in the 21st century. I am sure the Morse's Hand pick these people who support their agenda.

JSR22
08-08-2022, 08:53 AM
I agree!!!! The folks who deceide what is allowable need to realize we are in the 21st century. I am sure the Morse's Hand pick these people who support their agenda.

The board is privately owned and has nothing to do with the Morse family.

Whitley
08-08-2022, 08:54 AM
It may be me, but it appears that some of the Usual Suspects may be in a coma, internet out, or in the TOTV doghouse. It is kind of refreshing actually.

Becomes irritating when they simply HAVE TO rsp with a stupid emoji or one word yada. I think there has been less of that in the last week or so.

I’ve only been a member here for half a year or so, but have seen enough to know how to keep your ball in the park and not be assigned to the bullpen or thrown out of the game entirely. Naturally this will tamper down natural discussions that may involve “P” word. And perhaps relegate back to dog poop, Developer, bad driving, etc etc.

So be it. Now I know that at least one will rsp to this with an emoji or such. So be it.

Since you mentioned it, why can people simply train their pets to poop on their own lawn? Even if you pick up most of the poop that you just watched your dog deposit on my lawn, there is still remnants. :popcorn:
There.