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Trouble Vince
08-24-2022, 09:13 AM
I'll be retiring in the next couple of years from the Los Angeles area, I'll be 55. I'm seriously looking at TV as a place to relocate. I've read all the books, watched all the YouTube videos, and googled everything. I'm 100% on doing a lifestyle visit, but I have a lot of questions. Such as , is there a social environment for a "younger" (lol) single man, ect. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Vince
Speedie
08-24-2022, 09:20 AM
I'll be retiring in the next couple of years from the Los Angeles area, I'll be 55. I'm seriously looking at TV as a place to relocate. I've read all the books, watched all the YouTube videos, and googled everything. I'm 100% on doing a lifestyle visit, but I have a lot of questions. Such as , is there a social environment for a "younger" (lol) single man, ect. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Vince
Younger than who Vince? If you think TV moral code is like LA, then you might as well stay there.
Papa_lecki
08-24-2022, 09:24 AM
Yes. What are you interested in? I guarantee there is a club for that, and lot of folks doing it. Painting, golf, tennis, softball, ballroom dancing, basketball, swimming.
Probably not surfing.
I am in my early 50s and have a great time with everyone down here. I am married, but not sure that would make a difference.
Rainger99
08-24-2022, 09:25 AM
I'll be retiring in the next couple of years from the Los Angeles area, I'll be 55. I'm seriously looking at TV as a place to relocate. I've read all the books, watched all the YouTube videos, and googled everything. I'm 100% on doing a lifestyle visit, but I have a lot of questions. Such as , is there a social environment for a "younger" (lol) single man, ect. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Vince
There are clubs for singles. There are also clubs and activities that are for couples and singles.
The Villages Singles Club | (https://tvsinglesclub.com/)
Trouble Vince
08-24-2022, 09:27 AM
Younger than who Vince? If you think TV moral code is like LA, then you might as well stay there.
"Younger" as 55, as opposed to the age I've seen depicted in what is being put out in the media. If I liked the "moral code" in L.A. I would stay and not be looking at moving to TV.
OrangeBlossomBaby
08-24-2022, 09:51 AM
I'll be retiring in the next couple of years from the Los Angeles area, I'll be 55. I'm seriously looking at TV as a place to relocate. I've read all the books, watched all the YouTube videos, and googled everything. I'm 100% on doing a lifestyle visit, but I have a lot of questions. Such as , is there a social environment for a "younger" (lol) single man, ect. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Vince
Yes, there is a social environment for a 55-ish single man. There always has been. It's just that the 55-year-olds who moved in 20 years ago are now 75. It also means that there are lots of "pre-owned homes" ripe and ready for you to move into, less expensive than brand new, with mature landscaping (no waiting for a shade tree to actually provide shade!). The "oldest" generation of Villagers are moving into assisted living, memory care, "rest homes," or passing away. They're being replaced by the "newest" generation of Villagers.
The cycle of life. I was 58 when we moved in. I'm "only" 61 now, still not eligible for social security yet and still physically active and able to do anything I want.
My next door neighbor is in her early-mid-50's and is single. I believe -her- next door neighbor is also a single woman, in her 50's (not sure if early or late 50's, I haven't met her yet, she just moved in).
dwoodley1975
08-24-2022, 07:10 PM
Do you play tennis?Is there Volley Ball group around here?
dwoodley1975
08-24-2022, 07:18 PM
You must be ex-marine ex army here
rjm1cc
08-24-2022, 09:15 PM
Consider renting first. VH4R Home Rentals in The Villages Florida The Villages Rentals (https://villagershomes4rent.com/)
mtdjed
08-24-2022, 09:45 PM
I moved here when I was 62 and into a neighborhood of like aged persons. I had commented to my real estate agent that the "New Area" didn't look as mature as some of the older areas. His comment was that "mature areas" equal mature people. What that means is that people older than you with different interests and abilities. So, what I would suggest is an area that is closest to your age and interests.
Recall that birds of a feather flock together.
tophcfa
08-24-2022, 09:55 PM
I moved here when I was 62 and into a neighborhood of like aged persons. I had commented to my real estate agent that the "New Area" didn't look as mature as some of the older areas. His comment was that "mature areas" equal mature people.
That is not necessarily true, the so called mature area we live in has experienced rapid turnover during the 7+ years since we bought our home. Unfortunately, high mortality rates, people transitioning to assisted living, and people loosing spouses and moving back up north to spend their remaining years with family is very common. Our mature neighborhood is now relatively young by Villages standards.
Taltarzac725
08-24-2022, 11:14 PM
It depends a lot on where you move in the Villages. The southern Villages seem to have a lot more younger owners.
I am 63 but have been here since I was 46.
bowlingal
08-25-2022, 04:33 AM
Do you play tennis? Is there Volley Ball group around here?
yes, there is sand volleyball, water volleyball, ( lots and lots of groups) hard court volleyball ( played at the high school ) and beach tennis played on the sand volleyball courts.
Sandy and Ed
08-25-2022, 05:40 AM
Plenty of opportunities and outlets for a young guy such as yourself. There is a multitude of special interest groups here and you can find one that meets your needs or can start your own. As far as dating interests there are opportunities just outside the Villages “bubble” where average age is a bit younger. You are more than welcome here, youngster(lol). Just remember you are moving into a “different” environment and “when in Rome….”.
hosegooseman
08-25-2022, 05:43 AM
I'll be retiring in the next couple of years from the Los Angeles area, I'll be 55. I'm seriously looking at TV as a place to relocate. I've read all the books, watched all the YouTube videos, and googled everything. I'm 100% on doing a lifestyle visit, but I have a lot of questions. Such as , is there a social environment for a "younger" (lol) single man, ect. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Vince
Short answer is Yes. Best thing you can do is the Lifestyle visit, the longer stay, the better.
Hank’s mom
08-25-2022, 05:56 AM
Yes. Grab hold of a older beautiful women and enjoy life!
Luggage
08-25-2022, 06:01 AM
We moved to Central Florida when I was 45! You'll find lots of clubs to enjoy the same things that you did in California. As far as social scene, yes there are plenty of Bars, but not the rauckus type on Santa Monica etc . If you want to find like-minded people as yourself, and you are religious join a church. But there are a thousand clubs to enjoy what you've done before whether it's ceramics line dancing rope climbing etc and of course golf golf
Lindaws
08-25-2022, 06:06 AM
No, this is a retirement community. 80% are 55 or older.
Love2Swim
08-25-2022, 06:09 AM
That is not necessarily true, the so called mature area we live in has experienced rapid turnover during the 7+ years since we bought our home. Unfortunately, high mortality rates, people transitioning to assisted living, and people loosing spouses and moving back up north to spend their remaining years with family is very common. Our mature neighborhood is now relatively young by Villages standards.
Same here. We moved into this neighborhood in 2008 and I'm seeing a gradual turnover with younger people moving in as older people move out. If I were looking at purchasing a home, I would consider what activities I'm likely to be in, and pick a house near where these activities exist. If not sure, buy something centrally located, then you'll have easy access to everything.
newgirl
08-25-2022, 06:43 AM
Very much so! Lots of groups !
joelfmi
08-25-2022, 06:53 AM
Do your due diligence and research the negatives and positives on the Talk of the villages website about this community. Then make a discission
bluecenturian
08-25-2022, 07:16 AM
There is a club for 50’s. You are out the day you turn 60. Good amount of people in their 50’s. As for activities, as someone in my 50’s, there are plenty of people much older who can beat me in some activities. Age really isn’t a thing here. Just leave the CA way of life there, things are done much different in FL.
MandoMan
08-25-2022, 07:21 AM
I'll be retiring in the next couple of years from the Los Angeles area, I'll be 55. I'm seriously looking at TV as a place to relocate. I've read all the books, watched all the YouTube videos, and googled everything. I'm 100% on doing a lifestyle visit, but I have a lot of questions. Such as , is there a social environment for a "younger" (lol) single man, ect. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Vince
Read this new article. Excellent. It will dispel one of the myths.
Why is The Villages known as ‘the STD capital of America?’ (https://www.tampabay.com/news/health/2022/08/12/why-is-the-villages-known-as-the-std-capital-of-america/)
GmaLisaG
08-25-2022, 07:30 AM
Wow.. how rude was the comment stay in California.. yes, there are some rude ones here. But wow what if we (I'm a true Floridian) said stay in MA or NY or NJ or Chicago or whatever. Anyway, this place is amazing and none other like it. We live south (in our mid 50's) and mostly same live here. There are many married and single people here and from all over which helps make it unique. I love it. There's so many outdoor sports I love that I haven't even been involved much with any clubs inside. I feel better than I have in 30 years and came here to LIVE!! So, come on down you will love it!
Ptmckiou
08-25-2022, 07:34 AM
We lived in LA for 40 years and moved to TV for retirement, sight unseen. We just looked at videos and bought a new house via our realtor doing a video walk through. Our only regret is not doing it 10 years earlier. I’m 62, and we moved to the south end of TV where all the new homes are being built. It’s a much younger crowd down here with many in their fifties and sixties. The farther north you live the older the average age, only because of the time period the homes were built. However, there is always a sprinkling of younger crowd everywhere if they have bought the resale homes, instead of buying new.
msilagy
08-25-2022, 07:44 AM
I personally think a 55 yo unless sports activities is their main reason for coming to the Villages is too young to surround themselves with older seniors on a social level. Everywhere you look there are older people, some younger like you, but definitely outnumbered.
jacqueline larsen
08-25-2022, 07:59 AM
I moved here from San Diego County and love it💕 Feel free of the California Nuisance and am kept as busy as I want to be. Plenty of 55 year olds so take the plunge. You won’t be sorry!
nn0wheremann
08-25-2022, 08:05 AM
I moved here when I was 62 and into a neighborhood of like aged persons. I had commented to my real estate agent that the "New Area" didn't look as mature as some of the older areas. His comment was that "mature areas" equal mature people. What that means is that people older than you with different interests and abilities. So, what I would suggest is an area that is closest to your age and interests.
Recall that birds of a feather flock together.
Springdale seems to have a nice mix of ages among the residents, from middle 80s down to middle 50s.
manaboutown
08-25-2022, 08:08 AM
One downside is you will not be able to surf in the morning and snow ski in the afternoon here.
An upside is it is dirt cheap to live here compared to LA starting with the price of gasoline. Also Florida has no state income tax as you probably are well aware. I remember CA's peaks out at 12.3% with no capital gains provision.
If you are a foodie or into healthy tasty foods at restaurants you will be disappointed. I miss all the terrific ethnic restaurants and local chains like Wahoo's I used to frequent in Costa Mesa, Huntington Beach, Laguna Beach and Newport Beach when I lived in Corona Del Mar. Spicy Mexican food which I grew up with in NM and dearly love just ain't available here.
The toughest adjustment for me coming from CA was getting used to the heat and humidity. It is relentless during the long hot summers and I enjoy heat. Winters are on the chilly side. TV is not Miami. I knew all about living with humidity from the years I spent in PA, SC (Ft. Jackson), MD, VA, DC and NY so I knew what I was getting into.
If you are a golfer you will love it!
BTW as a single guy I was welcomed and made friends even during my three visits before I bought.
ElDiabloJoe
08-25-2022, 08:50 AM
I'll be retiring in the next couple of years from the Los Angeles area, I'll be 55. I'm seriously looking at TV as a place to relocate. I've read all the books, watched all the YouTube videos, and googled everything. I'm 100% on doing a lifestyle visit, but I have a lot of questions. Such as , is there a social environment for a "younger" (lol) single man, ect. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Vince
If you've "watched all the YouTube videos..." you have surely seen Rusty's video channel. Your singles question is probably best answered by one of his videos, link to follow:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oKGmRdMzvCg
Hope this helps (from a fellow So Cal native).
The Chipster
08-25-2022, 09:02 AM
We lived in The Villages for 3 years and really enjoyed it. But, beware. If you are of a progressive state of mind, you will be living amongst about 70% who think the other way, and make their feelings known. Too bad our society has developed this way but it is what it is.
maistocars
08-25-2022, 09:34 AM
A few more years in LA? You'll be sorry you stayed in that state even one more day.
Trouble Vince
08-25-2022, 09:38 AM
A few more years in LA? You'll be sorry you stayed in that state even one more day.
Retirement can not come soon enough !
Chi-Town
08-25-2022, 09:44 AM
My guess is that the people bashing California have never lived or even been there other than in front if their tv.
Moderator
08-25-2022, 10:54 AM
Enough of the personal attacks. If you don't have anything constructive to add please don't post.
Moderator
Trouble Vince
08-25-2022, 10:57 AM
Wow, thanks for all of the replies. There are some great points and a lot to think about. I very much appreciate all the info. I'm combat vet (Iraq- 1st Marine Division), and have been a Police Officer for 25 years so there's a reason why I want to leave CA. I look forward to learning more.
judithamorrison
08-25-2022, 11:21 AM
You must be ex-marine ex army here
That is definitely not true!
Kenswing
08-25-2022, 11:38 AM
Wow, thanks for all of the replies. There are some great points and a lot to think about. I very much appreciate all the info. I'm combat vet (Iraq- 1st Marine Division), and have been a Police Officer for 25 years so there's a reason why I want to leave CA. I look forward to learning more.
Semper Fi. I'm also originally from Cali and most recently from Washington. They haven't kicked me out of here... Yet. lol. It was definitely good to get away from there.
There's about 21,000 veterans in The Villages. Plenty to see and do for whatever your interests are.
Trouble Vince
08-25-2022, 11:55 AM
A large Veteran contingent is one of the main reasons I'm interested in TV.
Taltarzac725
08-25-2022, 12:06 PM
I have talked to a lot of former NYPD detectives and/or others here in the Villages over the years. They have a golf cart or two in almost every parade. They also have a large club from what I gather. Lots of clubs in the Villages.
The Villages has many parades, at least, before COVID showed up.
And most of the Villages-- men anyway-- seem to have been in the military at some point.
I lived in Northern CA and Northern NV from 1970 through 1996 but with periods away getting my Masters Degree and Law Degree. (U of Denver for the first and U of MN for the 2nd). And two degrees from the University of Nevada, Reno.
Catfishjeff
08-25-2022, 12:26 PM
I'll be retiring in the next couple of years from the Los Angeles area, I'll be 55. I'm seriously looking at TV as a place to relocate. I've read all the books, watched all the YouTube videos, and googled everything. I'm 100% on doing a lifestyle visit, but I have a lot of questions. Such as , is there a social environment for a "younger" (lol) single man, ect. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Vince
We escaped California almost three years ago and have never had second thoughts. We fly back from time to time when we need our mountain fix or to taste fine California wine (and order a few cases). Coincidently just this week I have met several happy transplanted Californians. You will be able to touch and feel The Villages experience when you do your lifestyle visit.
Villagesgal
08-25-2022, 12:31 PM
Move here, you'll love it. Moved here 21 years ago at age 47. Never had a problem with finding people my age. Move in age here keeps getting younger and younger. My neighborhood north of 466 is quickly changing with original purchasers leaving for assisted living or moving to be with kids and younger people in their 50s and early 60s moving in, so you'll find people your age everywhere. I used to live in LA. This is 1000 times better. Come on a visit for a few weeks, rent a golf cart, drive all around and ask everyone you meet how they like it here and if they would do it again. You'll find that the majority will say yes they would, but should have done it earlier when they were younger. Hope to see you here soon. You'll love it.
Trouble Vince
08-25-2022, 12:38 PM
If you've "watched all the YouTube videos..." you have surely seen Rusty's video channel. Your singles question is probably best answered by one of his videos, link to follow:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oKGmRdMzvCg
Hope this helps (from a fellow So Cal native).
I have watched his videos, they are very good.
Trouble Vince
08-25-2022, 12:39 PM
Move here, you'll love it. Moved here 21 years ago at age 47. Never had a problem with finding people my age. Move in age here keeps getting younger and younger. My neighborhood north of 466 is quickly changing with original purchasers leaving for assisted living or moving to be with kids and younger people in their 50s and early 60s moving in, so you'll find people your age everywhere. I used to live in LA. This is 1000 times better. Come on a visit for a few weeks, rent a golf cart, drive all around and ask everyone you meet how they like it here and if they would do it again. You'll find that the majority will say yes they would, but should have done it earlier when they were younger. Hope to see you here soon. You'll love it.
Thank you so much for the words of advise, sounds like a good plan.
Taltarzac725
08-25-2022, 02:22 PM
https://www.districtgov.org/images/documents/Clubs-Listing.pdf
I hope this works.
Larchap49
08-25-2022, 02:23 PM
I'll be retiring in the next couple of years from the Los Angeles area, I'll be 55. I'm seriously looking at TV as a place to relocate. I've read all the books, watched all the YouTube videos, and googled everything. I'm 100% on doing a lifestyle visit, but I have a lot of questions. Such as , is there a social environment for a "younger" (lol) single man, ect. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Vince
You there is a very active Republican club with many single members
Trouble Vince
08-25-2022, 02:27 PM
https://www.districtgov.org/images/documents/Clubs-Listing.pdf
I hope this works.
It did! Thank you.
ElDiabloJoe
08-25-2022, 03:38 PM
We lived in The Villages for 3 years and really enjoyed it. But, beware. If you are of a progressive state of mind, you will be living amongst about 70% who think the other way, and make their feelings known. Too bad our society has developed this way but it is what it is. As opposed to us that have lived decades in a progressive area who were bullied, threatened, and intimidated into silence for daring to have opposing thoughts. There are like, 6 places in the U.S. where we can be ourselves while the progressives can say, do, and feel what they want - demonstrably and vociferously - without fear of reprisal, disdain, professional censure or physical injury nearly everywhere else in the country and on every college campus, government agency, tech corporation, etc. Surely you won't take this bastion away from us?
ElDiabloJoe
08-25-2022, 03:39 PM
Wow, thanks for all of the replies. There are some great points and a lot to think about. I very much appreciate all the info. I'm combat vet (Iraq- 1st Marine Division), and have been a Police Officer for 25 years so there's a reason why I want to leave CA. I look forward to learning more. Same. LASO/OCSD w a little time in Gardena and Anaheim.
Nana2Teddy
08-25-2022, 04:05 PM
We escaped California almost three years ago and have never had second thoughts. We fly back from time to time when we need our mountain fix or to taste fine California wine (and order a few cases). Coincidently just this week I have met several happy transplanted Californians. You will be able to touch and feel The Villages experience when you do your lifestyle visit.
Happy to hear this! I’m native Californian for 68 yrs now, and can’t wait to move to TV. Hubs is native Michigander, but has been in Calif since 1974 straight out of college. He’s ready to move on too. We did our lifestyle visit in June, and have wished we were back there ever since. Hopefully our home will sell soon so we can get back to the fun, and wet stuff (rain!). 😅
TOMTOFVIL
08-25-2022, 07:03 PM
Vince, I moved to The Villages from Thousand Oaks about 2 years ago and love it. Some noticeable differences you have to travel about an hour for things you are accustomed to such as COSTCO, restaurant variety, etc. Also, the weather is much different especially if you plan on living here full time.
La lamy
08-25-2022, 07:52 PM
I believe the club you will be interested is called South of 60. I'm in my 50's and loving TV.
juddfl
08-26-2022, 01:42 PM
I moved here with my husband when I was 51 years old. I'm now 73 and I love it here as much if not more than when I first moved to The Villages. Do the lifestyle package and then maybe rent for a couple of months to make sure. If you golf you'll be in 7th heaven. By the way, there are over 3000 clubs and I'm sure you will find many that are what you want. Come visit, you'll love it!
Kelevision
08-26-2022, 02:56 PM
I'll be retiring in the next couple of years from the Los Angeles area, I'll be 55. I'm seriously looking at TV as a place to relocate. I've read all the books, watched all the YouTube videos, and googled everything. I'm 100% on doing a lifestyle visit, but I have a lot of questions. Such as , is there a social environment for a "younger" (lol) single man, ect. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Vince
I moved in Los Angeles from Orlando in ‘93 and just moved to TV a year ago, though i was born and raised in Leesburg so, I’ve literally watched TV grow from it’s conception.
South of 44 is where the “younger” people seem to be but you’ll definitely be one of the youngest ones. That’s how I feel anyway. I never did a lifestyle visit but did stay in an airbnb north of 44 and bought new south of 44. They have a really different vibe. Good luck! I’m sure you’ll enjoy it here. I’ve only encountered rude people on this site. Never in person anywhere out and about. It’s easy to meet people.
Nana2Teddy
08-26-2022, 09:56 PM
Vince, I moved to The Villages from Thousand Oaks about 2 years ago and love it. Some noticeable differences you have to travel about an hour for things you are accustomed to such as COSTCO, restaurant variety, etc. Also, the weather is much different especially if you plan on living here full time.
How funny! We are in Thousand Oaks. Looking to move there full time, so yep the stuff you mentioned is our biggest concerns (Costco, weather, and for us Trader Joe’s), but I think we’ll adjust eventually. Won’t miss the drought and wildfires.
Moonrunner
09-04-2022, 08:17 AM
But those with whom you share activities will most likely become your closest friends.
QUOTE=mtdjed;2129393]I moved here when I was 62 and into a neighborhood of like aged persons. I had commented to my real estate agent that the "New Area" didn't look as mature as some of the older areas. His comment was that "mature areas" equal mature people. What that means is that people older than you with different interests and abilities. So, what I would suggest is an area that is closest to your age and interests.
Recall that birds of a feather flock together.[/QUOTE]
Marathon Man
09-04-2022, 03:46 PM
No, this is a retirement community. 80% are 55 or older.
If true, that makes 20% under 55.
0.20 x 125,000 = a lot.
ElDiabloJoe
09-04-2022, 04:20 PM
If true, that makes 20% under 55.
0.20 x 125,000 = a lot.
2% would be 2,500
20% would be 25,000
GreySkies
09-04-2022, 06:17 PM
The discussion of “Younger versus Older” retirees within a retirement community is very illogical in my opinion. When someone is of age to live in a 55+ community such as TV does age really matter that much? At his stage of one’s life maximizing enjoyment should be first on the list. As a single female in her early 60’s I have no issues dating a man in his 50’s or 70’s, if you enjoy someone’s company, age should be a non-factor.
“We are living in an interminable succession of absurdities imposed by the myopic logic of short-term thinking.” ~ Jacques Yves Cousteau
Trouble Vince
09-06-2022, 08:58 AM
Thank you for the input. There is a lot of misinformation about TV and in doing my research I've found many answers, and more questions.
Calisport
09-06-2022, 08:50 PM
I'm from southern Orange County. Moved here following a bunch of neighbors that are all very active in sports and activities. In the new areas you will find people even in their 40s that have retired. On my block the average age looks to be younger than the northern Spanish Springs area since we are in the new homes.
JMintzer
09-07-2022, 07:54 AM
I'm from southern Orange County. Moved here following a bunch of neighbors that are all very active in sports and activities. In the new areas you will find people even in their 40s that have retired. On my block the average age looks to be younger than the northern Spanish Springs area since we are in the new homes.
Every section will have turnover.
When people pass on, or move to different facilities, they are typically replaced by younger people...
It happens in my neighborhood up North and it happens in TV...
ElDiabloJoe
09-07-2022, 08:12 AM
I'm from southern Orange County. Moved here following a bunch of neighbors that are all very active in sports and activities. In the new areas you will find people even in their 40s that have retired. On my block the average age looks to be younger than the northern Spanish Springs area since we are in the new homes.
Same Monarch Beach. Essentially Salt Creek Beach area. The Shores.
Whitley
09-07-2022, 09:30 AM
I'll be retiring in the next couple of years from the Los Angeles area, I'll be 55. I'm seriously looking at TV as a place to relocate. I've read all the books, watched all the YouTube videos, and googled everything. I'm 100% on doing a lifestyle visit, but I have a lot of questions. Such as , is there a social environment for a "younger" (lol) single man, ect. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Vince
There are activities for every possible activity. Left handed CPA archery? Wednesdays. MBA holders who like calligraphy, second Thursday of each month. Try not to take any negative post personally. I am from NY and wear a "Don't NY my Florida" shirt. The sentiment is actually greater in Sarasota, where I am during the week. Being younger (i'm upper 50's) is a plus as we tend to be better able to enjoy all that TV has to offer. Then again I play tennis with a 90 year old who soundly beats me. Would not shock me to find there is a club for people into being beaten, but I digress.
Whitley
09-07-2022, 09:43 AM
There is a club for 50’s. You are out the day you turn 60. Good amount of people in their 50’s. As for activities, as someone in my 50’s, there are plenty of people much older who can beat me in some activities. Age really isn’t a thing here. Just leave the CA way of life there, things are done much different in FL.
Wow, do they ask for your birth certificate or some other proof of age. I'm 57 but have the appearance of a bronze 35 year old god. Thinking I can fool them for a few years past 60, but not if they check ID's.
Trouble Vince
09-07-2022, 11:44 AM
there are activities for every possible activity. Left handed cpa archery? Wednesdays. Mba holders who like calligraphy, second thursday of each month. Try not to take any negative post personally. I am from ny and wear a "don't ny my florida" shirt. The sentiment is actually greater in sarasota, where i am during the week. Being younger (i'm upper 50's) is a plus as we tend to be better able to enjoy all that tv has to offer. Then again i play tennis with a 90 year old who soundly beats me. Would not shock me to find there is a club for people into being beaten, but i digress.
lol
Marathon Man
09-07-2022, 05:33 PM
Wow, do they ask for your birth certificate or some other proof of age. I'm 57 but have the appearance of a bronze 35 year old god. Thinking I can fool them for a few years past 60, but not if they check ID's.
Yep
asianthree
09-08-2022, 12:02 AM
Wow, do they ask for your birth certificate or some other proof of age. I'm 57 but have the appearance of a bronze 35 year old god. Thinking I can fool them for a few years past 60, but not if they check ID's.
So bronze, like the way baby shoes we’re bronzed in the 50’s:1rotfl:
Caymus
09-08-2022, 07:42 AM
Wow, do they ask for your birth certificate or some other proof of age. I'm 57 but have the appearance of a bronze 35 year old god. Thinking I can fool them for a few years past 60, but not if they check ID's.
The smallpox scar won't let you fake 35.:D
kkingston57
09-08-2022, 01:09 PM
Will be a culture shock coming from LA, regarding weather. May-Mid October hot and humid. Suggest renting 1st. A lot of singlle woman in TV and most are looking for active men
VILLAGERBB
09-08-2022, 01:23 PM
Suggestion: Rent for a while before you decide to move.
Trouble Vince
09-13-2022, 07:54 AM
Suggestion: Rent for a while before you decide to move.
That's the plan
Jimjr
09-14-2022, 02:30 AM
Me too
swiftwego
10-13-2022, 09:03 AM
Absolutely tons people your age and single . I’m single and did the same research etc. Did Life Style visit and everyone is happy to answer questions and you’ll find TV is very friendly . Everyone experienced same things moving here and hundreds of people from California ! I’d recommend if you love biking, nature, baseball, astronomy, wood working, air gun, archery, swimming, younger population buy South of 44. I watched a lot of Jerry and Linda the Newcomers and Rusty Nelson on YouTube.
CindyLouWho
11-07-2022, 12:14 PM
Hi Vince.... I moved here two years ago next March. I am your age and I have found that it is a BIG challenge to meet singles our age here and date. The VAST majority are older than us. Don't discount them though, their spunky and some run circles around many 30 year olds. However, I understand and it's not easy at all unless you're interested in attractive older women or Central Florida Locals. I have recently notice a few more of us than I have in the past so maybe the next wave is upon us and WE will be the aged majority at some point in the future. Theres so much here though that change is for certain. Best of Luck!
Trouble Vince
12-08-2022, 10:01 AM
Hi Vince.... I moved here two years ago next March. I am your age and I have found that it is a BIG challenge to meet singles our age here and date. The VAST majority are older than us. Don't discount them though, their spunky and some run circles around many 30 year olds. However, I understand and it's not easy at all unless you're interested in attractive older women or Central Florida Locals. I have recently notice a few more of us than I have in the past so maybe the next wave is upon us and WE will be the aged majority at some point in the future. Theres so much here though that change is for certain. Best of Luck!
Thank you for the info. I sent you a PM......
Mayrath
01-07-2023, 08:44 AM
can I see her pic in a bikini? LOL
La lamy
01-07-2023, 07:03 PM
Yes you can find 'young clubs" in TV, but please also be open-minded to get along with people of all ages.
Pairadocs
01-08-2023, 01:30 AM
Do you play tennis?Is there Volley Ball group around here?
A LOT of tennis, a LOT of volley ball, a LOT Of water polo/volley ball. We have been here 18 years, came in our 50's, still do TKD and scuba (also Karate clubs here, snorkeling , canoe, and kayaking are VERY popular here and all over Florida. Don't be surprised though, if you go to Karate group, or TKD group and find 2, 3, 4th dan black belt men and women in their 70's and even 80's. I'd say to you it is more a matter of YOUR physical and mental health, than your age, as to which of the over 3,000 activities, lessons, and clubs you wish to participate in ! You have probably already seen the list of singles clubs. There are quite a lot, but there are also many associated with local churches that are not listed in the Villages weekly rec guide. At least on area church has weekly singles volleyball in their family center gym, probably others also, and do not require church membership to play, open to anyone in the community.
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