Having pity party, my 4 legged friend is gone

[jebartle]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.

[dewilson58]

R.I.P. Little Fur Ball.

[Taltarzac725]

Sorry to hear that. We lost our last dog and found another one to adopt within five days.

[ThirdOfFive]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.
It is a hard thing to lose a pet. My sympathies. I've lost several.

Dogs and cats by nature have a far shorter lifespan than we do, and dealing with their passing is a necessary thing for any pet owner. When it happens I try to form the mindset that instead of being sad that the pet is gone, to instead concentrate on the good memories; to remember all that was given to us. It helps.

[Djean1981]

I'm sorry about your loss. We lost our 18-year-old Winnie (fuzzy weiner dog) about a year and a half ago. It's like losing your shadow.

[JohnN]

I'm very sorry for your loss. RIP

[Ecuadog]

Condolences. They're family.

[Chi-Town]

Sorry about your loss. Check with your veterinarian to see if they have a donation connection.

[fdpaq0580]

The special bond will never be broken. The memories will live on.

[tophcfa]

Our deepest condolences, we feel your pain. Lost our little girl two months ago (f’in cancer) and are absolutely heartbroken.

[CFrance]

I'm sorry to hear about your darling furry friend. When we lost our first golden suddenly (cancer at age 13--he's my avatar), I went through the house and gave or threw everything away. Our second Golden, Crosby, came to us two months later, because I couldn't stop crying. I had to rebuy everything!


When Crosby passed at age 14 last January, I stashed his things in a box and put them out of my site. Sure enough, Lili a rescue came to us in March as a foster, and again as an adoption in September.


There will never be another pet to replace the six dogs and seven cats we've had, but I can't imagine life without a pet to love and care for.
Maybe there's another friend in your future who could use your things. If not, YOUR Humane Society of Sumter County sure could use the leashes and harnesses or collars. They also have a food bank where you can take pet food for those in need.
If you would like to go that route, I can pm you with my address. You can drop the items on my front porch, and I will make sure they get there.


Again, my condolences. I know the feeling of loss.

[jebartle]

Thanks to all, last night was rough, but your kind words gave comfort, so many memories, those caring brown eyes, oh my.

[LuvNH]

[QUOTE=jebartle;2149962]Thanks to all, last night was rough, but your kind words gave comfort, so many memories, those caring brown eyes, oh my.[/QUOTE

Animal lovers know what you are going through and we feel your pain. I have big photos of my past dogs, framed and on the wall, and I talk to them every day. It does help, but nothing takes away gthe pain.

[dwoodley1975]

Sorry for your loss.

[JSR22]

We lost Zuni Princess our Polish Lowland Sheepdog at 14 several weeks ago. So hard to say good bye. The hardest but kindest decision that had to be made. We still have our four year old Havanese Ziggy Stardust who is getting so much attention he is exhausted.

[oldtimes]

So sorry, dogs are definitely family. I agree with CFrance, keep the things for a while before you decide to give them away. After 6 months we couldn't deal with the empty house either and have a new little angel to fill our hearts and home.

[Davonu]

Our sympathies. We lost our 4-legged family member earlier this year.

Like others, I suggest waiting a while to give away all your doggie stuff.

[jebartle]

Some posters suggested I hang on to those good memories....soon, here I go, bear with me....Going to kitchen, Mr. Moses right there, praying for a mistake; going to bathroom, not sure what my little friend's thoughts, but he was right there; getting bad news about my dear Doug's health which resulted in tears and my fur ball was right there, looking up to me with those big brown eyes; rooting thru his toy box finding that very special toy to bring to me, and who could forget his bravery keeping all tv dogs from jumping thru TV screen. Miss my fur ball bunches.

[Velvet]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.

What a beautiful, gentle, sweet looking dog! So very sorry to hear about your loss. My heart goes out to you.

When I lost my Welshie what helped a little bit was knowing that he was in pain the last few months, his body was breaking down and now he is no longer feeling it. I cried for myself, because he would no longer be bringing me so much joy. The pain I felt got better over time, month by month it was a little less. I still have his things, the collar, the leash, the nail clips, his photos. These days they bring me happy memories. I hope that happens to you soon.

[LuvNH]

[QUOTE=jebartle;2150023]Some posters suggested I hang on to those good memories....soon, here I go, bear with me....Going to kitchen, Mr. Moses right there, praying for a mistake; going to bathroom, not sure what my little friend's thoughts, but he was right there; getting bad news about my dear Doug's health which resulted in tears and my fur ball was right there, looking up to me with those big brown eyes; rooting thru his toy box finding that very special toy to bring to me, and who could forget his bravery keeping all tv dogs from jumping thru TV screen. Miss my fur ball bunches.[/QUOTE

When I read your post about losing your precious companion I remembered the posts about your husbands health problems. This makes it so much harder for you. There is nothing any of us can say to make it easier, but the replies you have received show how many people truly understand your deep loss.

[John Mayes]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.

So sorry!!!!

[DonH57]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.

Sorry to hear of your loss. Losing our fur baby's never easy.

[kcrazorbackfan]

So sorry to hear. We lost our Trixie 6 weeks ago and there’s not a day goes by that I don’t think about her and still talk to her.

[BoatRatKat]

My sincere condolences. Losing our babies is a deep heartache, they are our family after all. Your vet can direct you or the humane society would likely be happy to have your things. BUT, before you give it all away...are you sure there won't be another? So many dogs need a home and love. I lost my little one 3 years ago and within a month I had another little fur ball. Made all the difference...stopped the endless tears and made me smile again. Again, I'm sorry for your loss.

[Maybelle]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.

So sorry for your loss. Have you considered donating these items to a local shelter? I'm sure they would appreciate it.

[me4vt]

Some losses never heal. It hurts worse when you lose a pet than a human! We just sent my Izzy across the rainbow 🌈 bridge in July on my birthday:(

[Mike Lansky]

My sympathies.

[jparsoneau@aol.com]

Iam sorry for your loss.

[marantho]

R.I.P. Little Fur Ball.

Donate to the Humane Society-they'll probably be happy to receive them.

[Jewelz]

What a beautiful baby. I am so very sorry.

[GmaLisaG]

I'm so sorry for your loss ... it hurts so bad and I know that pain ... your dachshund was beautiful ... for me the only thing to help my broken heart was to have another doxie.. save the stuff and maybe you will be able to use it later.. again, so sorry for your loss. ❤️*🩹❤️*🩹

[Marvivo]

Keep them. You may want another puppy in a couple of months!

[RedBaron]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.
Those of us who have known the love and companionship of a dog, also know the pain of saying goodbye to them when the time comes. It is never easy, they remain in our hearts forever. We know we will see them again and that they are no longer in pain. I’m sorry for the loss of your loved dog.

[jmpate]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.

I empathize with losing a beloved dog as we've experienced the same a number of times. One never forgets a beloved pet, no matter how old we are/were, but adopting another dog is the only solution that's worked for my husband and I. There are so many dogs looking for a forever home, especially rescue dogs.

Google "Rainbow Bridge" and it may lighten your heart just a bit, to know you will see your loved one again.

[BostonRich]

Wait. Please wait. You look around and see your dog's things and it hurts so bad. I know that. But you know your dog would want you to find another dog who needs your love and would love to use their toys and things. Take a little more time to consider things.

[Wondering]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.
Sorry for your loss! Wait a short time and adopt another rescue dog or give your dog supplies to a rescue facility.

[azcindy]

I am so sorry to hear about the loss your fur baby. My dogs are like my kids - not kidding! I love them so much. I have lost dogs over the years and it is very painful. Right now I have my two poodles. One is 14 with heart problems and my younger one is 11. Thinking about you!

[chrissy2231]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.
My sympathies having been an animal lover all my life. I know the heartache and pain. No one can take away their memories. I had my 2 beautiful, black cats painted from a photo. The artist captured their essence PURRFECTLY! Framed beautifully, and pic hangs in my living room.

[ScottGo]

Sorry for your loss.
Just wondering as my guy is the oldest I've ever had. Are the any creamation business for loved pets? All my guys over the years will be with me when I go.

[JC and John]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.
What a beautiful dog! I am so sorry for your loss. Your sweet fur ball will be happily waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge until it is time to reunite. Until then, maybe tuck those doggie items away, for now. Grieve your loss and just maybe one day your heart will guide you to another furry friend and then you could share those “tucked away” items with your new forever friend.

[akossow]

So sorry for your loss.

[bark4me]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.
Sorry for your loss. It's never easy but if you keep them in your thoughts and conversations, they will live on forever. Keep the leashes and other non perishable items for now. I'm sure you'll find another furry friend (or they will find you) when your ready. There are lots of dogs out there looking for their forever home.

[Zenmama18]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.
I'm sorry for your loss. My kitty died Saturday and I understand how you feel.

[Lea N]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.

How beautiful your precious fur ball was. My heart goes out to you, I am very sorry for your loss. But your dog knew how much he or she was loved and well cared for and I hope this brings you some comfort.

I haven't read what others wrote but if you don't find a home for the dog things you want to give away check with the Humane Society in Marian County, or other rescue organizations. There used to be a rescue group (maybe still there?) that went on Saturday's to Petsmart, maybe they would appreciate these items.

[jacivell]

I’m so sorry! We’ve been through it many times and it’s just devastating! 😢 Think of all the wonderful Angel Pups your beautiful fur ball will meet in Heaven! 💔

[Whitley]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.

Sorry for your loss. After I lost mine I said never again. Hurt too much. He stayed with me through everything, including chemo.

[golfnut]

It is a hard thing to lose a pet. My sympathies. I've lost several.

Dogs and cats by nature have a far shorter lifespan than we do, and dealing with their passing is a necessary thing for any pet owner. When it happens I try to form the mindset that instead of being sad that the pet is gone, to instead concentrate on the good memories; to remember all that was given to us. It helps.

We recently lost our African Gray parrot, he was 42 years old and talked to us all day long, how we miss that, the first thing we heard in the morning when we came out of the bedroom was "Good morning", then when we started breakfast he would say can I have some toast. We have a picture of him and talk to him every day. I hope you find another special friend to spend your life with, there are many out there who need someone.

[maryhermann]

We lost our dog the beginning of August. We found that the Humane Society in Leesburg would take anything we had. Opened food, unopened food, treats, beds, anything. Sumter County was very specific about what they would take but Leesburg was very gracious and seemed glad to get what I brought over.

[meridian5850]

Sorry for your loss. Please know that there are many great dogs at Your Humane Society SPCA looking for a home and would love to fill the void. One of them has been there for more than 3 years, another more than 18 months.

[Northwoods]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know how heartbreaking it is. I lost my dog earlier this year. I honestly still can't talk about it without choking up. I miss him every day.

[Rsenholzi]

I lost both my dogs 6 weeks apart - one due to cancer and the second due to a broken heart ( I believe) I swore I would never get another as the second was so sensitive to my own moods. After 6 mos , I stumbled on my new rescue. I still had much of what I had when the other 2 passed. The collars and leashes came in handy , much of the food stuffs were donated to food shelters and the local animal shelters. The local food shelter would take open bags when the animal shelters took the closed ones . My heart goes out to you .

[chrissy2231]

Some losses never heal. It hurts worse when you lose a pet than a human! We just sent my Izzy across the rainbow 🌈 bridge in July on my birthday:(
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[Barborv]

I'm sorry about your loss. We lost our 18-year-old Winnie (fuzzy weiner dog) about a year and a half ago. It's like losing your shadow.

That's exactly it! Losing your shadow! I had 4 dogs at once for many years and now we are down to two. It is absolutely heartbreaking.

[Nana2Teddy]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.
So sorry for your loss. 💔 Beautiful fur baby. I’m feeling your pain as we just had to let our 15 y/o kitty pass over the rainbow bridge last Monday. So much heartache when they’ve been a part of our lives for so many years. 🥺 (((Hugs)))

[Eg_cruz]

Tears, tears and more. Sweet little fur ball that gave us so much love. The heart ache is unbelievable. We have lots of dog stuff that we would like to give away, dog food Natures balance (duck and sweet potato), dog steps, leashes etc.
Sorry for your loss🐾🐾🐾

[B-flat]

No words can express the hurt we've been there too more times than we care to remember. You have my deepest sympathy.

[jebartle]

Thank you all for your kind words. Sure miss my little fur ball.

[Bjeanj]

I know your pain, and I am so sorry you have to go through the pain of loss. Your dog, like ours, is part of our family. I hate that we outlive them and have to make hard decisions at the end.