Proper Golf Attire in Question

[jimschlaefer]

I know there's a quick, easy, brute force solution to this dilemma, but I've gotta start this thread anyway. Not too long ago, proper attire for a golf outing included, for men at least, a collared shirt. Then Tiger Woods came along wearing a Henley collared shirt and the PGA decided, "if it's good enough for Tiger, it's good enough for all". Well, The Villages Golf organization decided to go along with that PGA position and changed their requirements for men's shirts to include Henley collared shirts. They even updated their 'Proper Attire' poster to include a blue Henley example. Then the dilemma came about when going to Executive Courses (haven't tried this on the Champion Courses yet) at tee time while wearing a Henley collared shirt and being told it was not proper attire. Even when the poster showed a Henley on it. Now this isn't ALL Executive Courses, but seems to follow specific individual starters more than anything. It's tough showing up at a specific course where you have played in a Henley before and have a different starter tell you, you're under-dressed and can't tee off. How can we get everyone on the same page?? Apparently not all starters either know the rules or have decided to interpret them as they see fit. One starter told me I was wearing a Henley, but the collar wasn't high enough so he considered it a tee-shirt.

And before anyone suggests the easy fix "wear a collared shirt and the dilemma doesn't exist", I get that. This is about seeking some consistency. That's all.

[retiredguy123]

This is from the districtgov.org website:

"Dress Code for Men
Shirts shall have a collar and sleeves. Turtle-necks or mock turtle-necks are acceptable. (Min. 1/4 inch collars.)"

The collar only needs to be 1/4 inch. My Land's End tee shirts have a 3/4 inch collar. So, I assume that they are acceptable.

[dewilson58]

This is about seeking some consistency. That's all.

Not going to find it here....................need to call appropriate parties.

:shrug:

[Papa_lecki]

How about, if you can golf like tiger woods, you can wear a Henley collar.

I originally thought you were talking about those mock turtle necks he wore 20 years ago, had to google Henley collar

[collie1228]

What is a Henley collar? Never heard of it.

[retiredguy123]

What is a Henley collar? Never heard of it.
It looks just like a tee shirt, but it has 3 or 4 vertical buttons in the front, near the top. It is like a polo shirt, but it doesn't have a collar.

[Tvflguy]

Encountered this a year ago. One of the guys in our foursome had a Henley collared shirt. The starter warned him. I looked at the chart on the wall. Clearly showed that it is approved. She started to argue. I asked her if she could come out to look at the chart. She did. Looked closely. Continued to argue and warn him. Bottom line she knew that she was wrong but would not say so. It was embarrassing.

[Velvet]

This is from the districtgov.org website:

"Dress Code for Men
Shirts shall have a collar and sleeves. Turtle-necks or mock turtle-necks are acceptable. (Min. 1/4 inch collars.)"

The collar only needs to be 1/4 inch. My Land's End tee shirts have a 3/4 inch collar. So, I assume that they are acceptable.

If it is a turtle-neck or a mock turtle-neck… that’s how I read the English.

[dnobles]

My husband had that issue at Pelican. We went to the Tee time Office in Lake Sumter. Henley shirts are accepted on all golf courses. We spoke to a supervisor at the Tee Time office.

[PoolBrews]

I've had this happen to me as well. When it does happen, simply ask to either see their supervisor, or get their supervisor's phone number. If the supervisor is another idiot that has their own perception of the dress code, then ask to speak to their supervisor.

Sooner or later, if everyone does that, all of the mis-informed workers and supervisors will learn what the code really is.

[retiredguy123]

If it is a turtle-neck or a mock turtle-neck… that’s how I read the English.
I disagree. That is not what it says. If you Google turtlenecks and mock turtlenecks, you will find that none of them have a collar that is 1/4 inch wide. If it did, it would not be a turtleneck. So, the 1/4 inch rule obviously does not apply to turtleneck shirts. It must apply to other types of shirts. So, it seems to me that a tee shirt with a 3/4 inch collar is acceptable, according to their own rule. If that is not what they mean, they should change the rule.

[Two Bills]

Soon be 'wife beaters' and 'overalls.'
Golf world is going to hell in a handcart.
They will be starting another Tour next!

[dewilson58]

If it is a turtle-neck or a mock turtle-neck… that’s how I read the English.

You are correct.
The "1/4 inch" measurement relates to t-n or m t-n.
Any other interpretation is wrong.

[retiredguy123]

You are correct.
The "1/4 inch" measurement relates to t-n or m t-n.
Any other interpretation is wrong.
Assuming you are correct, why do they have a 1/4 inch rule for turtlenecks? If a shirt had a 1/4 inch collar, it would not be a turtleneck. There is nothing stated in the rule that the 1/4 inch rule applies to turtlenecks.

[Velvet]

I disagree. That is not what it says. If you Google turtlenecks and mock turtlenecks, you will find that none of them have a collar that is 1/4 inch wide. If it did, it would not be a turtleneck. So, the 1/4 inch rule obviously does not apply to turtleneck shirts. It must apply to other types of shirts. So, it seems to me that a tee shirt with a 3/4 inch collar is acceptable, according to their own rule. If that is not what they mean, they should change the rule.

I believe you, as I was just looking at how the English was worded. And… I honestly never check out what a guy is wearing on the golf course.

[dewilson58]

Assuming you are correct, why do they have a 1/4 inch rule for turtlenecks? If a shirt had a 1/4 inch collar, it would not be a turtleneck. There is nothing stated in the rule that the 1/4 inch rule applies to turtlenecks.

Come on, you are a smarter guy/girl than that.
You know the information in brackets relate to the prior statement...........if not, I've over estimated you.

The "(Min. 1/4 inch collars.)" is jus additional information.

You know a tee shirt is not appropriate so there is no reason to state: "it seems to me that a tee shirt with a 3/4 inch collar is acceptable"

[Bogie Shooter]

I know there's a quick, easy, brute force solution to this dilemma, but I've gotta start this thread anyway. Not too long ago, proper attire for a golf outing included, for men at least, a collared shirt. Then Tiger Woods came along wearing a Henley collared shirt and the PGA decided, "if it's good enough for Tiger, it's good enough for all". Well, The Villages Golf organization decided to go along with that PGA position and changed their requirements for men's shirts to include Henley collared shirts. They even updated their 'Proper Attire' poster to include a blue Henley example. Then the dilemma came about when going to Executive Courses (haven't tried this on the Champion Courses yet) at tee time while wearing a Henley collared shirt and being told it was not proper attire. Even when the poster showed a Henley on it. Now this isn't ALL Executive Courses, but seems to follow specific individual starters more than anything. It's tough showing up at a specific course where you have played in a Henley before and have a different starter tell you, you're under-dressed and can't tee off. How can we get everyone on the same page?? Apparently not all starters either know the rules or have decided to interpret them as they see fit. One starter told me I was wearing a Henley, but the collar wasn't high enough so he considered it a tee-shirt.

And before anyone suggests the easy fix "wear a collared shirt and the dilemma doesn't exist", I get that. This is about seeking some consistency. That's all.

Not going to find it here....................need to call appropriate parties.

:shrug:

The Villages Golf and Country Club Administration
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Phone: 352-753-3396:ho:

[retiredguy123]

Come on, you are a smarter guy/girl than that.
You know the information in brackets relate to the prior statement...........if not, I've over estimated you.

The "(Min. 1/4 inch collars.)" is jus additional information.

You know a tee shirt is not appropriate so there is no reason to state: "it seems to me that a tee shirt with a 3/4 inch collar is acceptable"
LOL. Obviously the rule is defective. But, I see no reason why a man cannot wear a tee shirt on the golf course. And, according the official written rule, you can. If they don't want you to wear a tee shirt, why don't they say it? Turtlenecks, by definition, have wider collars than tee shirts, and most tee shirts have a wider collar than 1/4 inch. So, almost any shirt will comply with The Villages rule. The rule has 3 sentences. How can you proclaim that the verbage in brackets only applies to the second sentence, especially since it makes no sense with respect to turtlenecks? If they published a silly rule, they need to live by it. Why defend it? If Dan Newlin argued this rule in court, he would blow The Villages away.

[billethkid]

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:popcorn:

[dewilson58]

:icon_bored:
:popcorn:

Agree

Really trying hard to make something out of nothing.

Now I'm hungry for popcorn.

[retiredguy123]

Agree

Really trying hard to make something out of nothing.

Now I'm hungry for popcorn.
I agree. But, that is what the thread is about. Staying on topic.

[John Mayes]

LOL. Obviously the rule is defective. But, I see no reason why a man cannot wear a tee shirt on the golf course. And, according the official written rule, you can. If they don't want you to wear a tee shirt, why don't they say it? Turtlenecks, by definition, have wider collars than tee shirts, and most tee shirts have a wider collar than 1/4 inch. So, almost any shirt will comply with The Villages rule. The rule has 3 sentences. How can you proclaim that the verbage in brackets only applies to the second sentence, especially since it makes no sense with respect to turtlenecks? If they published a silly rule, they need to live by it. Why defend it? If Dan Newlin argued this rule in court, he would blow The Villages away.


…..,

[John Mayes]

LOL. Obviously the rule is defective. But, I see no reason why a man cannot wear a tee shirt on the golf course. And, according the official written rule, you can. If they don't want you to wear a tee shirt, why don't they say it? Turtlenecks, by definition, have wider collars than tee shirts, and most tee shirts have a wider collar than 1/4 inch. So, almost any shirt will comply with The Villages rule. The rule has 3 sentences. How can you proclaim that the verbage in brackets only applies to the second sentence, especially since it makes no sense with respect to turtlenecks? If they published a silly rule, they need to live by it. Why defend it? If Dan Newlin argued this rule in court, he would blow The Villages away.

https://www.golfthevillages.com/golf-in-the-villages/goodgolfguide.pdf

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[mgkw1]

Ask for a manager. You were correct

[Papa_lecki]

If you google Henley collars tiger woods, Nike makes some very nice golf shirts with a Henley collar.
The problem is, people interpret that it means ANY henley….. Calgary makes a Henley shirt, its not for golf

[retiredguy123]

https://www.golfthevillages.com/golf-in-the-villages/goodgolfguide.pdf

Page 15
The problem is that The Villages has different rules for the same thing on the same website. They need consistency. Maybe that is why the employees are confused. This is a dress code from the same districtgov.org website:

"Dress Code for Men
Shirts shall have a collar and sleeves. Turtle-necks or mock turtle-necks are acceptable. (Min. 1/4 inch collars.)"

If you look hard enough, you may find another dress code. Call me crazy, but I think there should only be one dress code.

[John Mayes]

The problem is that The Villages has different rules for the same thing on the same website. They need consistency. Maybe that is why the employees are confused. This is a dress code from the same districtgov.org website:

Dress Code for Men
Shirts shall have a collar and sleeves. Turtle-necks or mock turtle-necks are acceptable. (Min. 1/4 inch collars.)

If you look hard enough, you may find another dress code.

Not arguing that the website can seem to be inconsistent and it really needs to be updated. That aside, all golf employees are required to attend Good Golf School and proper dress code is part of the class. Individual interpretation of starters and pro shop employees, unfortunately, creeps in and adds to the confusion.

[ThirdOfFive]

Lots of time and energy wrangling over 1/4 inch.

Here's an idea. Wear a shirt with an actual COLLAR the next time out.

Failing that, my understanding is that the shacks have shirts with collars available for the round for the guy who inadvertently (or intentionally) wore a shirt close to the line. They'll probably offer one to you if you're a nice guy about it rather than attempting to argue the point.

[tophcfa]

I enjoy wearing the button down collarless golf shirts that are approved as acceptable golf attire by the Villages. In fact, I invested in four very comfortable light weight shirts that are now my go to’s. Apparently some of the employees aren’t aware of the approved dress code as I have been questioned a couple times about my shirt. Easy solution, I took a picture of the approved shirts at Palmer. Last time I was questioned, I showed the employee the attached picture and told him if he still had a problem with my shirt could he please call over the club pro. End of discussion, he suddenly agreed my shirt was acceptable.

[dewilson58]

I enjoy wearing the button down collarless golf shirts that are approved as acceptable golf attire by the Villages. .

You fashion model you.

:smiley:

[tophcfa]

Lots of time and energy wrangling over 1/4 inch.

Here's an idea. Wear a shirt with an actual COLLAR the next time out.

Failing that, my understanding is that the shacks have shirts with collars available for the round for the guy who inadvertently (or intentionally) wore a shirt close to the line. They'll probably offer one to you if you're a nice guy about it rather than attempting to argue the point.

So what exactly are you saying. That one shouldn’t wear a nice golf shirt they purchased specifically because it complies with the Villages dress code because some golf course employees aren’t properly educated on how to do their jobs?

[tophcfa]

You fashion model you.

:smiley:

That’s what my wife tells me, glad you agree : )

[I'm Popeye!]

Agree

Really trying hard to make something out of nothing.

Now I'm hungry for popcorn.

:22yikes: You reply 3 times on this thread, and now you proclaim it's a boring thread.. :1rotfl:

[dewilson58]

:22yikes: You reply 3 times on this thread, and now you proclaim it's a boring thread.. :1rotfl:

More than 3.

:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

I fell for it (Really trying hard to make something out of nothing.)

[villager7591]

At Lowlands, they know me as a regular. One starter said, when I wore a crew neck short sleeve shirt (like Tiger), that some starters would not allow, others would allow. I wear them at the driving range only and go with the 3-button golf shirts at the course. Would hate to show up for a tee time and be denied.

[KimmieK]

Also known as a “blade” collar, which is allowable, per The Villages golf dress code (for exec & champ). Henley/Blade button at the top, like a polo, but no collar.

What is a Henley collar? Never heard of it.

[Steve]

I know there's a quick, easy, brute force solution to this dilemma, but I've gotta start this thread anyway. Not too long ago, proper attire for a golf outing included, for men at least, a collared shirt. Then Tiger Woods came along wearing a Henley collared shirt and the PGA decided, "if it's good enough for Tiger, it's good enough for all". Well, The Villages Golf organization decided to go along with that PGA position and changed their requirements for men's shirts to include Henley collared shirts. They even updated their 'Proper Attire' poster to include a blue Henley example. Then the dilemma came about when going to Executive Courses (haven't tried this on the Champion Courses yet) at tee time while wearing a Henley collared shirt and being told it was not proper attire. Even when the poster showed a Henley on it. Now this isn't ALL Executive Courses, but seems to follow specific individual starters more than anything. It's tough showing up at a specific course where you have played in a Henley before and have a different starter tell you, you're under-dressed and can't tee off. How can we get everyone on the same page?? Apparently not all starters either know the rules or have decided to interpret them as they see fit. One starter told me I was wearing a Henley, but the collar wasn't high enough so he considered it a tee-shirt.

And before anyone suggests the easy fix "wear a collared shirt and the dilemma doesn't exist", I get that. This is about seeking some consistency. That's all.

It also used to be that blue jeans were not allowed on the course. But apparently that rule has been thrown out the window. Outside courses say "No denim or tank tops". But in The Villages you can come from the corn harvest right to the golf course. (Yes, I'm from Iowa.)

[me4vt]

Welcome to life outside your bubble!

[GizmoWhiskers]

Yeah, "selective enforcement", it runs rampid in TV.

[Kewags@gmail.com]

Easy fix. ALL shirts must have a collar.

[BlackHarley]

What is a Henley collar? Never heard of it.
Damn. At first read I thought it said 'Harley' shirt. Well I got plenty of them, all colors and logos!

[Chamo]

I know there's a quick, easy, brute force solution to this dilemma, but I've gotta start this thread anyway. Not too long ago, proper attire for a golf outing included, for men at least, a collared shirt. Then Tiger Woods came along wearing a Henley collared shirt and the PGA decided, "if it's good enough for Tiger, it's good enough for all". Well, The Villages Golf organization decided to go along with that PGA position and changed their requirements for men's shirts to include Henley collared shirts. They even updated their 'Proper Attire' poster to include a blue Henley example. Then the dilemma came about when going to Executive Courses (haven't tried this on the Champion Courses yet) at tee time while wearing a Henley collared shirt and being told it was not proper attire. Even when the poster showed a Henley on it. Now this isn't ALL Executive Courses, but seems to follow specific individual starters more than anything. It's tough showing up at a specific course where you have played in a Henley before and have a different starter tell you, you're under-dressed and can't tee off. How can we get everyone on the same page?? Apparently not all starters either know the rules or have decided to interpret them as they see fit. One starter told me I was wearing a Henley, but the collar wasn't high enough so he considered it a tee-shirt.

And before anyone suggests the easy fix "wear a collared shirt and the dilemma doesn't exist", I get that. This is about seeking some consistency. That's all. Ridiculous the next thing Publix is going to require proper attire to go food shopping

[midiwiz]

I know there's a quick, easy, brute force solution to this dilemma, but I've gotta start this thread anyway. Not too long ago, proper attire for a golf outing included, for men at least, a collared shirt. Then Tiger Woods came along wearing a Henley collared shirt and the PGA decided, "if it's good enough for Tiger, it's good enough for all". Well, The Villages Golf organization decided to go along with that PGA position and changed their requirements for men's shirts to include Henley collared shirts. They even updated their 'Proper Attire' poster to include a blue Henley example. Then the dilemma came about when going to Executive Courses (haven't tried this on the Champion Courses yet) at tee time while wearing a Henley collared shirt and being told it was not proper attire. Even when the poster showed a Henley on it. Now this isn't ALL Executive Courses, but seems to follow specific individual starters more than anything. It's tough showing up at a specific course where you have played in a Henley before and have a different starter tell you, you're under-dressed and can't tee off. How can we get everyone on the same page?? Apparently not all starters either know the rules or have decided to interpret them as they see fit. One starter told me I was wearing a Henley, but the collar wasn't high enough so he considered it a tee-shirt.

And before anyone suggests the easy fix "wear a collared shirt and the dilemma doesn't exist", I get that. This is about seeking some consistency. That's all.

Personally IMHO, who really cares what anyone wears playing any "sport"? even at the driving ranges, women have FAR more leniency than men. They can go out there practically in anything they want, should go both ways. It makes zero sense, and frankly it really shouldn't matter what you wear.

This is why Lewis Black portrays golfers like he does......

[retiredguy123]

In my opinion, the biggest issue regarding the dress code is tee shirts because a lot of Villagers wear them every day. I doubt that banning tee shirts really has a positive effect on the golf courses.

[MandoMan]

I know there's a quick, easy, brute force solution to this dilemma, but I've gotta start this thread anyway. Not too long ago, proper attire for a golf outing included, for men at least, a collared shirt. Then Tiger Woods came along wearing a Henley collared shirt and the PGA decided, "if it's good enough for Tiger, it's good enough for all". Well, The Villages Golf organization decided to go along with that PGA position and changed their requirements for men's shirts to include Henley collared shirts. They even updated their 'Proper Attire' poster to include a blue Henley example. Then the dilemma came about when going to Executive Courses (haven't tried this on the Champion Courses yet) at tee time while wearing a Henley collared shirt and being told it was not proper attire. Even when the poster showed a Henley on it. Now this isn't ALL Executive Courses, but seems to follow specific individual starters more than anything. It's tough showing up at a specific course where you have played in a Henley before and have a different starter tell you, you're under-dressed and can't tee off. How can we get everyone on the same page?? Apparently not all starters either know the rules or have decided to interpret them as they see fit. One starter told me I was wearing a Henley, but the collar wasn't high enough so he considered it a tee-shirt.

And before anyone suggests the easy fix "wear a collared shirt and the dilemma doesn't exist", I get that. This is about seeking some consistency. That's all.

Just wear a shirt with a collar and avoid the aggravation. Donate all your non-conforming shirts to Goodwill.

[DaleDivine]

In my opinion, the biggest issue regarding the dress code is tee shirts because a lot of Villagers wear them every day. I doubt that banning tee shirts really has a positive effect on the golf courses.

I have seen golfers(?) wearing logo tee shirts at executive course. I asked starter if it was ok. They just shrugged shoulders and said no big deal.
I remember when I moved here in 2014, you could not wear a tee shirt at Sarasota driving range. They would not give you range balls if no collar. Even small boys. Then that gradually went away.
:D:D:BigApplause:

[toeser]

This is why I ride bicycle.

[collie1228]

It looks just like a tee shirt, but it has 3 or 4 vertical buttons in the front, near the top. It is like a polo shirt, but it doesn't have a collar.

Oh, thanks. I have a few of them, but never knew they had a special name. I always refer to them as button tee shirts. And I wouldn't wear them on the golf course.

[flash4353]

There are some real jerks working in the starter shacks. After being a full-timer in The Villages for 10 years I am going to compile a list with pictures some day.

[ex34449]

WOW! With all the worlds problems... golf attire.
I think if it's anything, it's a reason to stay away from the pasture pool.

[davefin]

Come on people. Let's just play the game of golfing. Yes, even wearing jeans while golfing is allowed here in The Villages!

[Photoman]

The dress code is ridiculous. Wear clothing that respects the game. A guy I golf with wears jeans, he’s fine. He also wears old cargo shorts with paint stains and an old polo shirt that he’s worn for yard work for years, he’s fine. My wife purchases a beautiful golf outfit from a sporting goods store. It has a popular golf logo in it. “You can’t wear that top, the straps are too narrow.”Seriously???!!

[HORNET]

When golfing ( in The Villages) don’t dress like a slob, leave the tee shirts and jogging shorts at home! And when having your grandchildren with you, have them wear proper golf attire ( Country Club Style) !

[HORNET]

Just dress up and enjoy the day

[Two Bills]

I admit I am an old dinosaur.
But.
I believe in the dress code.
Collared shirts, no denim, and tailored shorts for golf.
When going out to dinner in evening wear a shirt and trousers, not dressed as if for a day at the beach.
Even Presidents and prime ministers addressing the nation without a suit and tie on.
Swearing when ladies are present.
If you pander to the lowest common denominator, why expect any respect from those around you.
Be different.
Show a bit of style and class!


(Steps down from box, under a hail of abuse and rotten fruit!)

[HORNET]

Just dress like a true golfer

[bark4me]

Soon be 'wife beaters' and 'overalls.'
Golf world is going to hell in a handcart.
They will be starting another Tour next!
So you're saying that if one wears a tank top then they beat their wife? I find this post offensive, stereotypical, inflammatory and prejudice!

[Two Bills]

So you're saying that if one wears a tank top then they beat their wife? I find this post offensive, stereotypical, inflammatory and prejudice!


Comprehension not your best subject at school then?

[Babubhat]

It’s what a worn out tee shirt collar looks like. Hideous

[Velvet]

In my opinion, dressing appropriately shows respect for the game, a long honored tradition, and respect towards your fellow golfers. I am not sure why if someone didn’t want to do either, would want to play golf on a Village’s golf course?

[dewilson58]

In my opinion, dressing appropriately shows respect for the game, a long honored tradition, and respect towards your fellow golfers. I am not sure why if someone didn’t want to do either, would want to play golf on a Village’s golf course?

agree.............but don't forget, we have A LOT of non-golf golfers swinging the stick out there.

:throwtomatoes:

[Pgcacace]

This is from the districtgov.org website:

"Dress Code for Men
Shirts shall have a collar and sleeves. Turtle-necks or mock turtle-necks are acceptable. (Min. 1/4 inch collars.)"

The collar only needs to be 1/4 inch. My Land's End tee shirts have a 3/4 inch collar. So, I assume that they are acceptable.
Can you imagine tbe uproar if a clothing rule was applied to pickleball players ? 😂😂😂

[Burgy]

I know there's a quick, easy, brute force solution to this dilemma, but I've gotta start this thread anyway. Not too long ago, proper attire for a golf outing included, for men at least, a collared shirt. Then Tiger Woods came along wearing a Henley collared shirt and the PGA decided, "if it's good enough for Tiger, it's good enough for all". Well, The Villages Golf organization decided to go along with that PGA position and changed their requirements for men's shirts to include Henley collared shirts. They even updated their 'Proper Attire' poster to include a blue Henley example. Then the dilemma came about when going to Executive Courses (haven't tried this on the Champion Courses yet) at tee time while wearing a Henley collared shirt and being told it was not proper attire. Even when the poster showed a Henley on it. Now this isn't ALL Executive Courses, but seems to follow specific individual starters more than anything. It's tough showing up at a specific course where you have played in a Henley before and have a different starter tell you, you're under-dressed and can't tee off. How can we get everyone on the same page?? Apparently not all starters either know the rules or have decided to interpret them as they see fit. One starter told me I was wearing a Henley, but the collar wasn't high enough so he considered it a tee-shirt.

And before anyone suggests the easy fix "wear a collared shirt and the dilemma doesn't exist", I get that. This is about seeking some consistency. That's all.

What's a Henley. Answer: Eggs

[jimmy o]

The whole issue is that The Villages does not want you looking like a bum when you play golf. This has always been an issue throughout the USA. Golf is considered a Gentleman’s ( or Ladies) game. Nearly all golf courses throughout the World have a dress code. You don’t like it, take up mud wrestling. Realize most golfers go in clubhouse after golf for the famous 19th hole. They should be dressed appropriately.

[dewilson58]

The whole issue is that The Villages does not want you looking like a bum when you play golf. This has always been an issue throughout the USA. Golf is considered a Gentleman’s ( or Ladies) game. Nearly all golf courses throughout the World have a dress code. You don’t like it, take up mud wrestling. Realize most golfers go in clubhouse after golf for the famous 19th hole. They should be dressed appropriately.

:BigApplause:

[Velvet]

Can you imagine tbe uproar if a clothing rule was applied to pickleball players ? 😂😂😂

Pickle ball? Seriously are you comparing Pickle ball to golf? That’s a hoot! And I do play pickle ball.

[sasman29]

How about, if you can golf like tiger woods, you can wear a Henley collar.

I originally thought you were talking about those mock turtle necks he wore 20 years ago, had to google Henley collar

Got to love this answer. A caveat would be under 10 handicap

[Papa_lecki]

Can you imagine tbe uproar if a clothing rule was applied to pickleball players ? 😂😂😂

There is a clothing tradition in pickleball - it is shorts and a t shirt.
There is also a clothing tradition in tennis - i.e tennis whites. It is not applied on most venues.

But you would not wear cut off jeans and a flannel shirt to play pickle or tennis.

[lawgolfer]

No, Dan Newlin doesn't go to court. Few plaintiff's attorneys do. Arbitration and mediation are their forums where they have friendly, retired judges who favor plaintiffs as, otherwise, they do not get repeat business.

[eweissenbach]

The whole issue is that The Villages does not want you looking like a bum when you play golf. This has always been an issue throughout the USA. Golf is considered a Gentleman’s ( or Ladies) game. Nearly all golf courses throughout the World have a dress code. You don’t like it, take up mud wrestling. Realize most golfers go in clubhouse after golf for the famous 19th hole. They should be dressed appropriately.

No the issue is the person that started this thread was denied the right to play a course because he was wearing a shirt that had an approved collar. I have two Henley collar shirts that I have worn numerous times over the years with no questions asked. Had I been told I could not play I would have referred them to their own poster of approved apparel and said I will be on the tee box at my approved tee time.

[tophcfa]

In my opinion, dressing appropriately shows respect for the game, a long honored tradition, and respect towards your fellow golfers.?

In my opinion, how one dresses is only one very small way of showing respect for the game. Respecting the game includes many things, including but not limited to: Showing up on time for a t time, not moving when fellow golfers are hitting, playing ready golf, not driving one’s cart near greens, t boxes, sand traps, or wet areas, filling divots, fixing ball marks on greens, raking sand traps, not walking on fellow golfers putting lines, removing and replacing the flagstick for fellow golfers, picking up clubs on the green for fellow golfers, always being ready to hit your next shot, clearing a green quickly when done with the hole, following the rules of golf, and most importantly, playing fast. It also never hurts if you can tell a few funny jokes during the round : ) and don’t go postal after hitting a bad shot.

I would much rather golf with people dressed like bums who respect the game by their actions on the course than play with people more concerned with fashion than being a respectful golfer. And in this modern world of equality, what’s up with the unequal relaxed dress code for women? On a hot and humid 100 degree day I wouldn’t mind playing with a lightweight collarless and sleeveless shirt like many women do!

[Billy1]

Cut a collar off of an old shirt, store it in your golf bag, clip it to your incorrect shirt when needed.

[fdpaq0580]

But you would not wear cut off jeans and a flannel shirt to play pickle or tennis.

OOPS! My bad!
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[Dr Winston O Boogie jr]

I've never heard of a Henley collar. My understanding of a Henley shirt was one that was a long sleeved tee shirt with no collar but with buttons down the front of a placket.

[kkingston57]

I know there's a quick, easy, brute force solution to this dilemma, but I've gotta start this thread anyway. Not too long ago, proper attire for a golf outing included, for men at least, a collared shirt. Then Tiger Woods came along wearing a Henley collared shirt and the PGA decided, "if it's good enough for Tiger, it's good enough for all". Well, The Villages Golf organization decided to go along with that PGA position and changed their requirements for men's shirts to include Henley collared shirts. They even updated their 'Proper Attire' poster to include a blue Henley example. Then the dilemma came about when going to Executive Courses (haven't tried this on the Champion Courses yet) at tee time while wearing a Henley collared shirt and being told it was not proper attire. Even when the poster showed a Henley on it. Now this isn't ALL Executive Courses, but seems to follow specific individual starters more than anything. It's tough showing up at a specific course where you have played in a Henley before and have a different starter tell you, you're under-dressed and can't tee off. How can we get everyone on the same page?? Apparently not all starters either know the rules or have decided to interpret them as they see fit. One starter told me I was wearing a Henley, but the collar wasn't high enough so he considered it a tee-shirt.

And before anyone suggests the easy fix "wear a collared shirt and the dilemma doesn't exist", I get that. This is about seeking some consistency. That's all.

Rules are crazy in TV. Men can wear jeans. I know of a guy who looks like he just got off a farm tractor before playing golf.

[Inexes@aol.com]

One of my life's most embarrassing moments... I arrived at Lopez GC, checking in, when this nasty female employee behind the counter shouts out..... You can't play in that shirt. I was wearing a white cotton, modest V-neck shirt with short sleeves. it had 3 pleats down the back and a drawstring blouson type waist. She kept insisting it was made out of t-shirt material...... yes, plain white cotton ????? This woman would not let up against all the other employees trying to tell her it was OK. Even had to bring the manager out to approve the shirt. I was never so embarrassed and it sure ruined what could have been a fun day on the course. Some people just have to try to exert their authority.... I will never forget her..... lol.... should name her...

[BrianL99]

In my opinion, how one dresses is only one very small way of showing respect for the game.

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I would much rather golf with people dressed like bums who respect the game by their actions on the course than play with people more concerned with fashion than being a respectful golfer. And in this modern world of equality, what’s up with the unequal relaxed dress code for women? On a hot and humid 100 degree day I wouldn’t mind playing with a lightweight collarless and sleeveless shirt like many women do!

The rules are changing most everywhere, other than The Villages. I've played Farm Neck on Martha's Vineyard in jeans, numerous times ... didn't matter if Bill Clinton or Barack Obama was playing that day ... they could wear 'em too.

Clubs all over the country are eliminating "dress codes" for golfing, particularly at many expensive clubs. A guy drops $100,000 on an Initiation Few & $15,000/year to play and someone is going to tell him how to dress? I don't think so.

You don't agree? Look at how Corporate American has changed over the last 15 years ... you can hardly find anyone who wears a suit and tie to work or anywhere else.

It's the 21st Century, stop being mired in the past and get on the program. As the poster I quoted said, it's more important how you behave on the golf course, than what you're wearing.

As for the guy in the Henley, good for him for standing up for himself ... same for the guy in Carhartt shirt.

[tophcfa]

The rules are changing most everywhere, other than The Villages. I've played Farm Neck on Martha's Vineyard in jeans, numerous times.

One of my favorite courses, great views of the ocean, marshes, and the salt water pond where the classic scene from Jaws was filmed where the shark swam under the bridge between the ocean and the pond. Did many back flips off that bridge at keg parties during the summers I spent on the Vineyard in my college years.

[JGibson]

The dumbest thing is a collar shirt on Palmer driving range. I've been confronted 3 times wearing a nice dri fit shirt about it not having a collar in 95 degree weather. Pathetic.

[tophcfa]

It also used to be that blue jeans were not allowed on the course. But apparently that rule has been thrown out the window. Outside courses say "No denim or tank tops". But in The Villages you can come from the corn harvest right to the golf course. (Yes, I'm from Iowa.)

The late Gary Morse preferred wearing denim blue jeans golfing. Since he owned the courses in the Villages, he made the rules. His children have carried on the tradition.

[ThirdOfFive]

Cruise ships have rules regarding dress, particularly at dinner in the main dining room. On formal nights (maybe three on a voyage) accepted dress is tux or suit for men, formal dress or pantsuit for women. Other, nonformal nights; dress slacks and collared and cuffed shirt for men, likewise one step down from formal night for women (I think the term is "smart casual"). There are always a few "smart casual" dressers on formal nights, and I don't think anything is said, but it is totally offputting when a few jokers insist on attending formal night dining in cutoffs, t-shirts and sandals, or some other like attire. We all knew, or should have known, the dress code rules before ever setting foot on deck. Cruise lines don't keep them a secret.

There are always a few skunks whose idea of fun is disrupting a picnic.

Those golf course dress codes are here for a reason, and nowhere is it written that we have to understand or agree with those reasons before we abide by the dress codes. We knew them before we hit our first ball.

Don't be a skunk.

[Robbb]

I know there's a quick, easy, brute force solution to this dilemma, but I've gotta start this thread anyway. Not too long ago, proper attire for a golf outing included, for men at least, a collared shirt. Then Tiger Woods came along wearing a Henley collared shirt and the PGA decided, "if it's good enough for Tiger, it's good enough for all". Well, The Villages Golf organization decided to go along with that PGA position and changed their requirements for men's shirts to include Henley collared shirts. They even updated their 'Proper Attire' poster to include a blue Henley example. Then the dilemma came about when going to Executive Courses (haven't tried this on the Champion Courses yet) at tee time while wearing a Henley collared shirt and being told it was not proper attire. Even when the poster showed a Henley on it. Now this isn't ALL Executive Courses, but seems to follow specific individual starters more than anything. It's tough showing up at a specific course where you have played in a Henley before and have a different starter tell you, you're under-dressed and can't tee off. How can we get everyone on the same page?? Apparently not all starters either know the rules or have decided to interpret them as they see fit. One starter told me I was wearing a Henley, but the collar wasn't high enough so he considered it a tee-shirt.

And before anyone suggests the easy fix "wear a collared shirt and the dilemma doesn't exist", I get that. This is about seeking some consistency. That's all.

There is a dress code for golf? Who gives a F what anyone wears.

[Robbb]

The whole issue is that The Villages does not want you looking like a bum when you play golf. This has always been an issue throughout the USA. Golf is considered a Gentleman’s ( or Ladies) game. Nearly all golf courses throughout the World have a dress code. You don’t like it, take up mud wrestling. Realize most golfers go in clubhouse after golf for the famous 19th hole. They should be dressed appropriately.

Ahh the trauma of seeing someone wearing a T shirt in the clubhouse. Do all old people get weird as they age? I will dress any Fing way I choose and some crazy old guy will not dictate how that is.

[Calisport]

Even practice putting at championship golf, it's always been collared golf shirts allowed only. Or just put on a jacket or sweatshirt since it's getting cold out.

[ThirdOfFive]

Ahh the trauma of seeing someone wearing a T shirt in the clubhouse. Do all old people get weird as they age? I will dress any Fing way I choose and some crazy old guy will not dictate how that is.
Nobody plays on Villages golf courses without a Villages ID card, and that number is entered into the system every time the card-bearer plays. Flouting the rules with impunity can and sometimes does lead to suspension.

My advice to any newbie planning on flouting the rules here is...don't. A bad reputation in TV is NOT a good thing to have.

[retiredguy123]

Ahh the trauma of seeing someone wearing a T shirt in the clubhouse. Do all old people get weird as they age? I will dress any Fing way I choose and some crazy old guy will not dictate how that is.
If by "clubhouse" you mean the restaurant, I don't think there is any dress code. T-shirts are very common in the bars and restaurants.

[Bogie Shooter]

Nobody plays on Villages golf courses without a Villages ID card, and that number is entered into the system every time the card-bearer plays. Flouting the rules with impunity can and sometimes does lead to suspension.

My advice to any newbie planning on flouting the rules here is...don't. A bad reputation in TV is NOT a good thing to have.
Good advice.

[JGibson]

Women don't have to wear a collar or sleeves so next time I'm just going to identify as a woman.

[Pairadocs]

I know there's a quick, easy, brute force solution to this dilemma, but I've gotta start this thread anyway. Not too long ago, proper attire for a golf outing included, for men at least, a collared shirt. Then Tiger Woods came along wearing a Henley collared shirt and the PGA decided, "if it's good enough for Tiger, it's good enough for all". Well, The Villages Golf organization decided to go along with that PGA position and changed their requirements for men's shirts to include Henley collared shirts. They even updated their 'Proper Attire' poster to include a blue Henley example. Then the dilemma came about when going to Executive Courses (haven't tried this on the Champion Courses yet) at tee time while wearing a Henley collared shirt and being told it was not proper attire. Even when the poster showed a Henley on it. Now this isn't ALL Executive Courses, but seems to follow specific individual starters more than anything. It's tough showing up at a specific course where you have played in a Henley before and have a different starter tell you, you're under-dressed and can't tee off. How can we get everyone on the same page?? Apparently not all starters either know the rules or have decided to interpret them as they see fit. One starter told me I was wearing a Henley, but the collar wasn't high enough so he considered it a tee-shirt.

And before anyone suggests the easy fix "wear a collared shirt and the dilemma doesn't exist", I get that. This is about seeking some consistency. That's all.

Don't know if you've been here long enough to find out this is the craziest place you can find in regard to the subject of "rules", attire and others. I LONG ago came to the conclusion that the rules can even change day to day at the SAME course. It makes your head spin. I had a starter once ORDER me into a cart with a man actively smoking a cigar. Not wanting to insult the man, I just quietly told the starter I'd take my own cart. He began a LOUD argument with me, to the point the man with the cigar could hear. I kept saying no, no, I'll just take my own cart. He said "that is NOT allowed, do you want to play or not ?" I said no, I would just go home then. Actually I went directly to the golf office, I had to wait a long time, had to tell two people exactly what it was I wanted to discuss. I replied I'd rather wait until I could talk to someone privately, but no, could not see anyone unless they know the topic. So I told two different reception people. Finally got to see someone, but the summary was (and you can guess this one): "we'll look into it". Nothing about REGULAR INCONSISTENCY for YEARS here. Also once had a starter tell me that my top had LESS than the required 2 inches width on each side of shoulder strap. Actually it was nearly TWICE that, but I was on the 4th hole when a marshal came up in a cart and said " I hear you had quiet a dust up with ____ back in the starter shack". I was so startled I was nearly speechless... a "dust up" I said, with "who ?". The only thing that had been said to me when I checked in was: "are you going to change before your starting time ?" I was confused because I'd worn the same top from N. L. pro shop many times at other courses. I said, "no, I just dressed at home, I didn't bring additional clothes with me." She said, " welllllll, I could let you go THIS TIME, but you need to dress properly from now on". I was not that surprised because we've been here for so many years now that we know that even the same course does not have the same rules. I thought that was it, but then this "ambassador" came on hole #4 with this "dust up" talk as if I had objected and not offered to go home and change. He seemed a bit embarrassed, and but he got a PAPER measuring ruler (like they give away at various displays and have advertising on them). He said he needed to "measure" the shoulders of my scoop neck shirt... and in his other hand he had a paper with the "rules" of proper dress and handed it to me. I told him to hand ME the ruler, I would do the measuring and told him politely and calmly that I was not comfortable with him doing the measuring. He was polite and said no problem. I measured both straps, left and right, they were each just short of 4" in width. He nodded, and left, but it really ruined the round and that was my fault because I kept thinking how inappropriate of a male being sent out to "measure" a female's clothing and to hand them a copy of "rules" that had never been the rules in the previous 5 YEARS ! It was "over 2" for women when we first built here, the idea was (and I agree) to keep tank tops off the courses. But then you see men with no shirts on at times, you see men whose shirts do not even do a fair job of covering their stomach ! ? I would never complain about that, or if someone had on very short shorts, I prefer proper attire as that was what we were used to, but I'd never make it my job to be the rules police on proper attire, or lack of it. My only point is the inconsistency here has been carried to a level I don't even think about any more, it's just the way it is here...life is short, not going to worry about it, I just expect it. Also once had an interesting experience at Saddle brook many years ago. Man checking in was outside the starter shack "checking" people in (?) while smoking a cigarette (?). I couldn't figure this out since the computer was inside the shack. He took my card, checked off my name/time on a clip board, and we were off next. But, honestly it was not ideal since he had no problem blowing smoke right on those of us checking in, but again, if I or any one complained, I am sure we'd be looked at as ridiculous since this all happened outside in the open air....but again, it's just the inconsistency. One day the starters can smoke, next day they can inside, another place they can smoke but must stand outside, it's just so crazy and hasn't changed in the last 15 years... fortunately it's not a weekly or even monthly thing. It's clearly a lack of a proper training program... we're probably lucky they can even get enough people for those jobs, so I say, don't fight it (like I did once when I reported it), it's Florida, if you don't like today's rules, it's like tomorrow, it'll change tomorrow, LOL ! Just can't resist one more example, N.L. pool, the routine is you check in with the pool monitor, walk in, sits at table, and one day this past summer, no one at table, fine, went over to empty lounge and put my things down, started reading my book. Forgot reading sunglasses, went back out to cart to get them. Walked back in, still no monitor at table, and I just headed to my lounge where my things were. WOMAN came RUNNING behind me, stop stop, I need your CARD she says. That was fine with me, but was confused about where she came from, monitor has always been at a table. So I tell her I have to go to my lounge in get my card out of my swim bag. I come back and reach out my hand to give it to her and she really snaps at me telling me to PUT IT DOWN ON THE TABLE, not to hand it to her and she pulled her hand back so quickly my card dropped on the ground. She told me to pick it up and put it ON the table because she did not touch cards "due to Covid" ! ! This was way past the time there was anyone who didn't know this was not passed on hard surfaces, but I again said nothing. When I left the pool that day I realized she worked differently than any other monitor I've encountered at any of the country clubs. They all sit at some kind of table near the entrance. As I left I finally saw this woman sits in her AUTOMOBILE, with the AC running, and then runs AFTER people as she sees them going into the pool. She must have been looking at her cell phone when I entered so she missed me until I went back out to get my glasses ! Again.... LOL... different rules for every employee for every location... LOL !

[Pairadocs]

Good advice.

I don't disagree at all, but I think this discussion actually focused on the INCONSISTENCY of the "rules", that part just stuns me even after all these years, I actually was used to MUCH stricter rules of golf attire, but at least the rules, whatever they be, Henley or not for men or for women, 4" shoulders on a woman's scoop neck top, but NO tank tops, all fine, I was used to a club where women's top must have sleeves, so in the hot weather I welcomed a sleeveless top with a high scoop neck. But the inconsistency here is really confusing. One course says you do NOT have to ride with smokers, another says you DO, two carts only and if person you are told to ride with smokes, it's just your bad luck. Yet here comes along old "Covid", and I see SIX people (we always called that a "gangsome" not a "foursome") playing Pimlico EACH in a cart ! Six carts on #2, one person in each cart ???? To enjoy life, you just have to laugh and not even try to figure it out.... LOL ! Like driving RIGHT ON THE GREEN HERE, not "near it", but ON it. First time I saw that stunned me, not any more. Now that I've watched people at least once a week, standing at the lowest part of a sand trap, and then instead of exiting at the lowest point, they CLIMB OUT AT THE HIGHEST POINT....and down tumbles the lip of the trap.... go figure ?