How old is too old

[MartyW]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks

[Mortal1]

This will be like any community where people respect each other(with very few exceptions). The biggest difference are that shopping, doctors, activities and multiple living styles are limitless...as long as you respect others...age is not an issue. But if you think what you want to do is more important than peace and quiet then pass it by.

[Laker14]

How old is too old?

Dead is too old.

Younger than that? Come on down.

[Dr Winston O Boogie jr]

I’m 71 and I have friends in their late fifties and friends in their eighties. There no bad age to move here.

[LAFwUs]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks
No such thing as too old here Marty!
My neighbor just had his 85th birthday bash, him & his wife are up at dawn and out all day long. I'm 54 and and I think he could outpace me!
Age, is just a number, "miles" however ;)

[billethkid]

Numerical age conclusions are not accurate due to the enormous variability.

We are in our mid 80's.....have been here for 19 years.....for the most part age is not and has not been a factor.....for anything.

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[mtdjed]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks

Put it into a different perspective. Not too old or too late, but maybe not soon enough. Only you will know when you are ready to move. Perhaps your upcoming visit might influence your timing options.

[bandsdavis]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks
Hi Marty. NH native here. We moved down at 63 and 61, now almost 74 and 72 and still often feel like kids here! We started a group called The Villages Pops Chorus, and of our 150+ members, we probably are in the lower half as far as age goes. The Villages has a way of keeping you young if you look for things to do that you love, and do them! Come on down whenever you can. It's never too late!

[CoachKandSportsguy]

Marty,

The Villages is full of very, very active 60+ year olds. If you are active, move and do things, you will fit in very well, regardless of age.
We are over the border in MA, and find life up here stagnant as compared to do in FL for about 9 months of the year.

Always best to visit by renting for a month or two, to make a big decision to move.

[tophcfa]

In my opinion, as long as you have your health and can enjoy all the wonderful activities in the Villages then it’s an absolutely top notch place to be regardless of your age. The flip side of the coin is that when the inevitable happens and Father Time catches up with you, you can no longer partake in many of the wonderful activities, and your top priority becomes availability of quality health care, there are many other places where you would be much better off. It’s definitely a head scratching dilemma for us when considering becoming full timers.

[Pairadocs]

How old is too old?

Dead is too old.

Younger than that? Come on down.

Completely AGREE ! I'd say your health/physical condition is more the deciding factor in which activities, classes, and clubs you take up. I think you will find many 80's plus people playing golf and even riding bikes, and you will find people in there 60's with significant physical limitations and yet, they seem to have a very full plate of activities.

[jswirs]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks
The number of years you have lived is not a factor at all. HOW you have spent those years is what matters, meaning, if you have kept yourself in reasonable health, living an active lifestyle, you will do well here. The reason I am mentioning health is because there is a lack of good health care here. Not easy to find a good PCP, dentist, etc. Many health care professionals believe in "profit over people". This exist in many areas of the country, but believe me, it is worse down here. If you are fortunate enough to locate good health care folks, usually you have to wait months for an appointment. This is not just my opinion, it is fact. Research some social media sights if you want proof.

[TomPerry]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks
We are from MA and moved here when we were 70 and 67 in 2016 after not knowing anything about The Villages. We visited our MA next door neighbors who moved here. We stayed with them for three days and knew what an amazing place it is. We contracted a home here a month later and bought two months later. Some say this place will add 10 years onto your life, and I believe it! I think it’s because of the active lifestyle and the so many great new friends you meet. So much to see and do here and you can do it longer throughout the year compared to living up north. There are so many activities here, at different levels, to keep you active and happy. A client of mine told me “you don’t know how fortunate you are to live here”, and I truly believe him! Why wait a few years to move? Whatever the reason, compare it with your health and happiness!!! Our biggest regret is not moving here sooner!

[TomPerry]

We are from MA and moved here when we were 70 and 67 in 2016 after not knowing anything about The Villages. We visited our MA next door neighbors who moved here. We stayed with them for three days and knew what an amazing place it is. We contracted a home here a month later and bought two months later. Some say this place will add 10 years onto your life, and I believe it! I think it’s because of the active lifestyle and the so many great new friends you meet. So much to see and do here and you can do it longer throughout the year compared to living up north. There are so many activities here, at different levels, to keep you active and happy. A client of mine told me “you don’t know how fortunate you are to live here”, and I truly believe him! Why wait a few years to move? Whatever the reason, compare it with your health and happiness!!! Our biggest regret is not moving here sooner!
Regarding healthcare. You can get good or poor healthcare anywhere. We joined The Villages Healthcare and receive excellent care. After two weeks of being diagnosed, I received a triple bypass and the copay was $1,475! My wife had back fusion surgery and the copay was $350! We are both doing great. You will hear many people complain here about anything; but, for every complaint you here, there are thousands who don’t have complaints!!! If only they could screen out the negative people! But then again, there is no Utopia!

[jonathanb]

No age is too old. Come on down there are activities for all ages. You will love it here.

[La lamy]

You should have seen my face when I read you were worried mid 60s might be too old for a retirement community!!! Makes me think you might have been baiting us. You've got your answer with all previous posts I reckon. Come on down!

[crash]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks
The average age is 69 so you should fit in just fine.

[lorilynch]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks

I moved here at 78 about a year ago. I play pickleball, golf and bridge about 5 times a week. I knew no one who lived here. In less than a year I have made many friends and do not feel like a newcomer. My only regret is not moving here sooner from Chicago.

[merrymini]

This place keeps you young!

[BiPartisan]

The number of years you have lived is not a factor at all. HOW you have spent those years is what matters, meaning, if you have kept yourself in reasonable health, living an active lifestyle, you will do well here. The reason I am mentioning health is because there is a lack of good health care here. Not easy to find a good PCP, dentist, etc. Many health care professionals believe in "profit over people". This exist in many areas of the country, but believe me, it is worse down here. If you are fortunate enough to locate good health care folks, usually you have to wait months for an appointment. This is not just my opinion, it is fact. Research some social media sights if you want proof.

We immediately joined the Village Health system and have recieved excellent and pro active care... Never have waited for an appointment we changed our initial PCP due to a new care center and love the care from the PA's. Referrals to specialists is seamless. When I needed surgery the specialist scheduled it at Ocala, we are not limited to the Village hospital. Eye issue we have St Luke's, one of the best in the Country. Wife had back issues the specialists was available immediately surgery at Leesburg... We have had none of the issues we have heard from some, outside of Village Health. We signed up for the United Healthcare Advantage plan, and love it. I am sure the complainers will have their opinion about this post, but this has been our experience. BTW, at 70 I am one of the youngest in a few golf groups, but well accepted and have a great time, the majority of the participants are 80+ and play a good game.

[Toymeister]

I extensively research everything.

The move to TV was no different. I even looked at obituaries to determine what decisions people had made correctly.

Without a doubt one of the top mistakes people make in retirement is waiting to move to TV.

To the OP no age is too late for the big move BUT sooner is better in than later.

[pattik]

Hopefully, you can change your plans and move here soon. I’ve heard many people say they wish they had moved here sooner!

[Sunny923!]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks
Hello we have been here 6 mo. Came from NH and were there for 60 years. Visiting here was the best decision we ever made. Bought a house on our 4th day here. Talk to people when you visit. Get their opinions. The rest sells itself. I would suggest you make a move here as quick as you can. Cost of living is much much less than NH. No snow. Sunshine every day. New friends, new activities. Its truly paradise. Good luck!

[donfey]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks

We started visiting, then snowbirding when, when we were in our early 70s, moved to full time when we were 76 & 74. Would have liked to do so earlier but were unable. Bottom line: Like a neighbor told us when we were renting, "come on down. Ya live longer down here!"

[MartyW]

Thanks to all. Yes, we realize that we more than fit age wise. The thought was more on the line as “are we too late” to have gotten the best benefit. As for why not now, for us it would be an all in event and year round. At the moment, we have responsibilities here that need us. So it will likely be a coupe more years till that could happen.

[bobmarc]

I am 79 and been here for 17 years. The only difference I have experienced personally over time is moving from the blue tees to the green tees.:gc:

[DonnaNi4os]

You are never too old

[Karenjb13]

We are from NH and bought when we were 69 and 70. We immediately became involved in different activities with older and younger participants. We do tend to socialize with people around our age, as probably most people do. As The Villages has grown, more younger people tend to buy in the newer areas. That is an option if you want to be around those closer to your age. Last year a 50 and 55 couple moved next to us, and they are very happy in this area. They are still working, but love the our village. Don’t let age keep you from coming, as this is a retirement community!

[Sherrilee]

Marty,

The Villages is full of very, very active 60+ year olds. If you are active, move and do things, you will fit in very well, regardless of age.
We are over the border in MA, and find life up here stagnant as compared to do in FL for about 9 months of the year.

Always best to visit by renting for a month or two, to make a big decision to move.

Over the boarder … from Amesbury

[Oldragbagger]

We just moved here in March. I am 68 and my husband is 72. We bought new construction so everyone in our neighborhood is new. There are some younger than us, and also some older. We don’t really ask each others ages and no one cares. Everyone is friendly. We love it here. Come on down.

[G.R.I.T.S.]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks

No! We came here quite early but enjoyed the “old” 😉 people more than those from back home. You’re at the right age, even adding a couple of years. Remember, a lot of people are in your position so you won’t be alone. I would look into buying now, not necessarily new, to have when you’re ready.

[Lisanp@aol.com]

Go, don’t wait! There is one near certainty…you will be more active and feel younger once you are there. You are never too old to make a positive change, and age really is just a number that you don’t need to share.

[loweglor]

There is no such thing as too old in The Villages. Come on down and enjoy! I also am from New Hampshire, Nashua/Hudson area. Been in TV for 13 years and love it.

[Spikearoni]

Hello we have been here 6 mo. Came from NH and were there for 60 years. Visiting here was the best decision we ever made. Bought a house on our 4th day here. Talk to people when you visit. Get their opinions. The rest sells itself. I would suggest you make a move here as quick as you can. Cost of living is much much less than NH. No snow. Sunshine every day. New friends, new activities. Its truly paradise. Good luck!

We are from NH as well and enjoying life here. Moved here in 2019 after living in Manchester since 1970. Age is no factor but cost of living is higher than in NH which has NO SALES TAX and NO INCOME TAX. The property taxes were high but we are paying over $11000 a year for that here. Additionally the cost of housing is much higher here per square foot with a bond fee that is $35000 to $ +/-50000. So I’m just curious as to why you believe that the cost of living here is less than in NH. THIS ISN'T A CHALLENGE, just seeking info.

[MandoMan]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks

Don’t trust the ads. Not everyone moving here is younger than you. And don’t assume that what most of us do all day is play golf and pickle ball. The great majority don’t play either. But you can play if you want to. Huge numbers play cards at recreation centers. Many enjoy the swimming pools. Lots of people do crafts. Many people here don’t really do any activities, but they still enjoy going to restaurants. A huge percentage very much enjoy just living in a quiet, peaceful, safe, beautiful place. I don’t like high heat and humidity, so I limit my outside time in the summer in the daytime, but my air conditioner works well, and the summer evenings can be delightful—though it rains more often than not in the summer evenings. The winters are like paradise.

I moved here at 67, and I’m having a wonderful time. My great pleasure is playing music. Three or four days or nights a week you can find me playing in some jam at a recreation center. I’m having the time of my life. In my neighborhood, most people are ten to twenty years older than me. Several hundred villagers do that, at a variety of levels.

[sallyg]

There is no right or wrong age. Visit and check things out. Rent for a couple of months before you make the move.
There is so much growth, it is hard to take everything in during a short stay. Best of luck.

[Nucky]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks

Never ever to old to enjoy the beauty and activity that is available in The Villages. We landed here when I was 58. Seven years later and we are moving from the Historic Section of the Villages to as of today points unknown but in The Villages. We are now spoiled rotten after living here for 7 years. We are packing up now and it isn’t as easy as when we were a little younger.
I encourage you to make the move but also would advise you to get a move on if you decide to do so. Best to move during the winter months and not during the dog days of summer. Good luck.

[asiebel]

I don't think age matters. It is more about your attitude! If you are healthy and active, come on down.
I would probably choose a home north of rt 44.

[jimjamuser]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks
I would say that at about age 80, the average Village person starts to use the various sports activities less and less. There is still swimming and pool exercise and shuffleboard. And interest in any of the thousands of clubs can be maintained. The biggest problem is that the HEAT and humidity in the summer are increasing and making it less pleasant for aging seniors that stay here year-round. You need to learn to moderate your exposure to the Florida sun to prevent skin cancer and dry skin.

[jimjamuser]

I would advise 1st visiting here in the summer if you intend to NOT be snowbirds. That way you see if you can take the summer heat, which for most people affects them more as they age. And spend some time away from the salespeople and check out the squares and sit in on the clubs that you are interested in. You could get the weekly Rec News sent to you. It would be informative. And pay attention to this forum - it can inform you a lot!

[sctatay@aol.com]

Hi Marty! My husband and I moved from the North last Spring to get away from the snow and cold, I am 63 and he is 69. We love our lifestyle down here as there is so much to do and great weather to enjoy. Our cul-de-sac of 8 homes consists of people from early 60’s to 80, and they are all very active, friendly and help we have a blast! It is great when you have wonderful neighbors. So keep that in mind when looking for your new home. BTW we just put ours on the market for a very reasonable price as we need room for my hubby’s sports car. PM if you want more info. Remember “enjoy yourselves, it’s later than you think”.

[jakers]

I hear your sentiments from other people occasionally, but I must say, in the 13 years that I have been here. I have found very good medical care all the way around. I have great doctors, and if on occasion I’ve had one I didn’t care for I was able to find a good replacement fairly soon. I am a medical professional (retired.)
Ask for recommendations from friends and neighbors. Best of luck to you.

[rdwalls]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉thanks. You will fit right in! Suggest you make a visit and spend a few days or a week.

[JMintzer]

I'm 65 and the boss is 64. We bought two years ago. While we're not yet "frogs" (here until we croak), we're currently spending as much time here as my work allows. But that'll change in the next two years...

[DAVES]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks

I do wonder when people ask this sort of question. People need to answer their own questions. New Hampshire? If you are into skiing we have no hills or snow.
Far as age, average age in the villages is 70.
An in person visit certainly makes sense.
From your post you can't move for a couple of years. My business was dying. I had saved.
I was too old and tired to start yet again. So I had a couple of years to close it down.
I was an am a pack rat. The wife screamed toss it. I made roughly 40,000 on ebay and selling STUFF at my garage sales.
"Be kind to the new guy." People are friendly. We discussed buying new or a resale. Wife wanted new. I wanted resale. So of course we bought new. There are advantages to both.
New, there are no established clicks. Everyone is out to meet new people. Breaking in is easy, you join some clubs and meet people with similar interests. Moving from New Hampshire you will certainly want to attend some lectures on plant care. Will take a while for palm trees to seem normal. I had a great peony collection. Forget it. It is not cold enough for them.

[Rwirish]

Over 69 is too old. 😳

[Laker14]

Over 69 is too old. 😳

Oh. oh...

Wifey is going to need a new fella soon.

[JoelJohnson]

There are three phases of retirement:
Go Go Years
Go Slow Years
No Go Years

As long as you fit into one of these phases, you will enjoy the villages.

[72eagleman]

I was 72 when I moved here. MY only regret is I didn't move ten years sooner. We have that no one really cares are old you are!

[BostonRich]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks

Absolutely not. "Come on Down" Ernie Boch

[bark4me]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks
You're never too old to move here. If you still have a pulse, come on down!

[ThirdOfFive]

As one of the earlier posts had it, you're never too old until you're dead. Might not want to wait that long....

I'm 74 and the spousal unit is 70, and I've never enjoyed better health in my ten prior years of living UpNort than I enjoy here. This place keeps you young! Played golf a couple of years back with a guy 94 years old, who got a hole-in-one during our round (extra-large holes, but still...). Guy working at one of the starter shacks is 96; his supervisor can't be a day over 40, but both GREAT people. And had a bank teller wish a guy ahead of us in line a couple of weeks ago "happy birthday", at 97! Looking at him from the back (shorts, Nikes, T-shirt and great tan) I would have guessed maybe 60.

Health care is spotty but good care isn't impossible to find. Best way to deal with poor health care is to live healthy enough not to need other than routine stuff, which isn't hard to find.

Bottom line: not ONE regret.

[fdpaq0580]

You're never too old to move here. If you still have a pulse, come on down!

A pulse? I knew there was a catch!

[Revdan]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks
Yes110 years old is too old

[Two Bills]

Age is just a number.
Wife and I have had far to many Birthdays, but we will never be old!

[Nana2Teddy]

We just moved here in November at 69 and 70. Drove across country from California with almost nothing after cleaning out the old homestead, told the grown kids (all in Calif) to come visit us sometime, and found our brand new home on day three after arrival. Closed on 12/15 and here we are settling in and loving it. Other than the physical exhaustion of starting over with a new home we feel alive and excited like back when we moved into our first home in 1979. We aren’t just sitting in our empty nest wondering when the kids might call or visit. Can’t wait for our new golf cart to be ready on 2/1 so we aren’t constantly being passed by golf cart drivers who aren’t driving a severely throttled loaner cart. 🤣

[Garywt]

I would say the majority arrive at 65 or after. Yes there are a good number under 65 but most wait until retired.

[Papa_lecki]

As one of the earlier posts had it, you're never too old until you're dead. Might not want to wait that long....

I'm 74 and the spousal unit is 70, and I've never enjoyed better health in my ten prior years of living UpNort than I enjoy here.
Health care is spotty but good care isn't impossible to find. Best way to deal with poor health care is to live healthy enough not to need other than routine stuff, which isn't hard to find.

Bottom line: not ONE regret.
To add to this - im in my 50’s so I am talking about my parents, who live up north. From Nov to March, mom is mostly in the house, on her iPad - with minimal human interaction.
Compare to my 80 year old neighboors in The Villages, who are out and about, golfing and using their minds.
I am convinced, The Villages lifestyle leads to longer, more fulfilling life - figure out how to get down sooner rather than later.

[jimjamuser]

I was 72 when I moved here. MY only regret is I didn't move ten years sooner. We have that no one really cares are old you are!
"no one cares" is a GOOD general statement. However, there will be some exceptions. One would be if you (male or female) want to play on a softball team, then age and skill level determine what league level you play in. If you are too old or too slow you might not even qualify for the lowest-level league. Basketball has ONLY 2 very high levels for men, not sure about for women. Volleyball has only one high level for co-ed, men's, and women's. Table tennis is mostly high-level only for organized playing. Tennis has all levels for organized playing. Pickleball is for anyone that likes to hurt their elbow. And golf.........is whatever it is? Oh yes, and many billiard tables are
available and also shuffleboard. There is an organized track club for anyone that wants to run. And there are organized and motivated bike clubs. I don't know about cards and games clubs, but they do exist big time here. And movie discussions and critics. Also, poem presenting clubs........and book clubs. Oh, I forgot......there Is a Soccer Club that takes beginners and trains them. There are excellent coaches and VERY friendly people there.
......Basically, there is plenty to do, but for some situations, a certain level of skill is a prerequisite. That is actually likely something done anywhere in the US. Just that The Villages is more systematic about it.

[JMintzer]

I remember my first visit here...Thanksgiving 3+ years ago...

We stayed with friends who had moved in 3-4 months earlier.

One of our other friends, who moved here 6-7 years ago took me out to play golf on one of the Executive courses. We were paired with 2 80+ year olds, one with the tell-tale scar of a knee replacement. When they called our t-time, the two of them grabbed their bags from their carts. On slung the bag over his shoulder and the other had a push cart. My buddy asked if I wanted to rent a couple of pull carts and walk with them, and I responded, "Why? We have a perfectly good cart!"

They proceeded to kick our collective butts. It was at that point, I realized I needed to step up my game. I went on to lose 40 lbs and I'm now playing the best golf of my life...

Yesterday, the wife and I played golf with another couple, the day before, we took a golf lesson. I played 18 holes last Wednesday, and I took another lesson the day before.

Today, we played pickleball. Tomorrow, another 9 holes, Wednesday, another 18, followed by 9 on Thursday.

The remaining days have been consumed by continued homeowner projects. Moving and re-installing cabinets in the garage, painting where the cabinets used to be, installing new, more visible house address numbers, power-washing the lanai...

I'm gonna' need a vacation/rest when I go back to work next week!

[jimjamuser]

We just moved here in November at 69 and 70. Drove across country from California with almost nothing after cleaning out the old homestead, told the grown kids (all in Calif) to come visit us sometime, and found our brand new home on day three after arrival. Closed on 12/15 and here we are settling in and loving it. Other than the physical exhaustion of starting over with a new home we feel alive and excited like back when we moved into our first home in 1979. We aren’t just sitting in our empty nest wondering when the kids might call or visit. Can’t wait for our new golf cart to be ready on 2/1 so we aren’t constantly being passed by golf cart drivers who aren’t driving a severely throttled loaner cart. 🤣
I believe that for safety ALL the gold carts should have the SAME top speed. Like 25 MPH. And that should be STRICTLY enforced. Different speeds lead to unsafe passing.

[Papa_lecki]

I remember my first visit here...Thanksgiving 3+ years ago...

They proceeded to kick our collective butts. It was at that point, I realized I needed to step up my game. I went on to lose 40 lbs and I'm now playing the best golf of my life...

Reminds me of one of our first visits, wife and I matched up with a couple, 89 years old, started golfing at 87 - never too old to learn something new, especially something as easy as golf.

[ThirdOfFive]

I believe that for safety ALL the gold carts should have the SAME top speed. Like 25 MPH. And that should be STRICTLY enforced. Different speeds lead to unsafe passing.
I agree to a point. Differing speeds may LEAD to unsafe passing but it doesn't CAUSE unsafe passing. That is caused by the guy behind who is so irritated he's willing to gamble not just his well-being on an unsafe move, but also those passengers of all vehicles involved.

[Flyers999]

A pulse? I knew there was a catch!

Not only that. Check your deed restriction. You must be able to fog a mirror.

My suggestion. Age doesn't matter, really! It's all about having fun. We want active seniors. What activity do you intend to do when you move here? If you can't answer that question, you are better off doing several extended visits including one in the summer.

[Djean1981]

Do it.. :)

[Laker14]

I believe that for safety ALL the gold carts should have the SAME top speed. Like 25 MPH. And that should be STRICTLY enforced. Different speeds lead to unsafe passing.

just because they all HAVE the same top speed, doesn't mean everyone will want to GO the same speed.

I get to 20mph and I don't want to go faster than that. If someone wants to pass me, I move over and let 'em.

[joelfmi]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanksYou have to remember that this is 55 plus active community if you have challenges with poor health not able to drive, moving away from your family to help you when you need them as you age, don't use the amenities, require special medical care. this would be a bad choice. As you age in your seventies this occurs a lot. Take all this into consideration and more when moving.

[Laker14]

I remember my first visit here...Thanksgiving 3+ years ago...

We stayed with friends who had moved in 3-4 months earlier.

One of our other friends, who moved here 6-7 years ago took me out to play golf on one of the Executive courses. We were paired with 2 80+ year olds, one with the tell-tale scar of a knee replacement. When they called our t-time, the two of them grabbed their bags from their carts. On slung the bag over his shoulder and the other had a push cart. My buddy asked if I wanted to rent a couple of pull carts and walk with them, and I responded, "Why? We have a perfectly good cart!"

They proceeded to kick our collective butts. It was at that point, I realized I needed to step up my game. I went on to lose 40 lbs and I'm now playing the best golf of my life...

Yesterday, the wife and I played golf with another couple, the day before, we took a golf lesson. I played 18 holes last Wednesday, and I took another lesson the day before.

Today, we played pickleball. Tomorrow, another 9 holes, Wednesday, another 18, followed by 9 on Thursday.

The remaining days have been consumed by continued homeowner projects. Moving and re-installing cabinets in the garage, painting where the cabinets used to be, installing new, more visible house address numbers, power-washing the lanai...

I'm gonna' need a vacation/rest when I go back to work next week!

I'm with you on all of that. The first time we drove up Morse, from 466A, was probably around 15 years ago, I was still working up north in NY State. Friends had just bought in Largo. I saw golf to the left, golf to the right, and I said "yeah, this could work for me". My wife doesn't golf. It took a long time to get her onboard, but now she loves it here. She has many friends. Her primary deal is pickleball.

We are retired now. I'm 69, DW is 65. Today I walked nine holes at Southern Star (6 minute golf cart ride), and later swam a few laps at the sports pool at Sea Breeze (2 minute cart ride). Tomorrow pickleball, Tuesday 18 at Cane Garden....on and on it goes.

I'm a big believer in the idea that if you want to get fit, make it as easy as possible to do so. The Villages is easy. Easy to be active, easy to make friends and easy to get around in.

I like easy.

[billethkid]

One more thing to factor into the decision making that age has no effect upon.......

If there are no palm trees where you are currently you are definitely too far North!!!!
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[jimjamuser]

Reminds me of one of our first visits, wife and I matched up with a couple, 89 years old, started golfing at 87 - never too old to learn something new, especially something as easy as golf.
Gee whiz Batman, I NEVER thought of golf as EASY......more like FRUSTRATINGLY difficult. Plus there is a LARGE investment in TIME and MONEY for things like lessons, buckets of driving balls, green fees, SUPER high equipment costs, and for what end ? Back PROBLEMS galore, high frustration, very little stretching, little meditation, and almost zero increase in respiration levels. The skill levels used for 18 holes of golf are about the equivalence of playing 10 racks of pool, 10 games of table tennis, 3 games of tennis, and 1 game of softball. And the respiration gain from 18 holes is about as much as 1/2 a length of swimming at a small pool. Swimming non-competitively will likely give you GREAT exercise with good stretching, respiration gain, and NO back pain.

I believe that golf and now pickleball was invented by surgeons and chiropractors to DRUM up business!

[jimjamuser]

just because they all HAVE the same top speed, doesn't mean everyone will want to GO the same speed.

I get to 20mph and I don't want to go faster than that. If someone wants to pass me, I move over and let 'em.
You are doing things the RIGHT way. I am against the lax enforcement of the rule AGAINST jacking up a person's cart governor. I have seen carts going faster than cars on a well-traveled (and with walkers and joggers) 25 MPH residential street. The golf carts were going around 40 MPH. Apparently, a lot of residents get their "jollies" driving a hot rod golf cart. What a mentality!

[Uptown Girl]

:ohdear:



The number of years you have lived is not a factor at all. HOW you have spent those years is what matters, meaning, if you have kept yourself in reasonable health, living an active lifestyle, you will do well here. The reason I am mentioning health is because there is a lack of good health care here. Not easy to find a good PCP, dentist, etc. Many health care professionals believe in "profit over people". This exist in many areas of the country, but believe me, it is worse down here. If you are fortunate enough to locate good health care folks, usually you have to wait months for an appointment. This is not just my opinion, it is fact. Research some social media sights if you want proof.

[Nana2Teddy]

I believe that for safety ALL the gold carts should have the SAME top speed. Like 25 MPH. And that should be STRICTLY enforced. Different speeds lead to unsafe passing.
Isn’t 20 the speed limit for a cart? I know most go faster, but our loaner goes 17 max. We basically crawl along at turtle speed.

[Nana2Teddy]

You have to remember that this is 55 plus active community if you have challenges with poor health not able to drive, moving away from your family to help you when you need them as you age, don't use the amenities, require special medical care. this would be a bad choice. As you age in your seventies this occurs a lot. Take all this into consideration and more when moving.
Says the guy who doesn’t live here, and just likes to rag on The Villages for some strange reason.

[jimjamuser]

Isn’t 20 the speed limit for a cart? I know most go faster, but our loaner goes 17 max. We basically crawl along at turtle speed.
I have 40 MPH golf carts that go by my front yard every day. About 75% of the carts go by at 20 to 25 MPH.

[JMintzer]

Gee whiz Batman, I NEVER thought of golf as EASY......more like FRUSTRATINGLY difficult. Plus there is a LARGE investment in TIME and MONEY for things like lessons, buckets of driving balls, green fees, SUPER high equipment costs, and for what end ? Back PROBLEMS galore, high frustration, very little stretching, little meditation, and almost zero increase in respiration levels. The skill levels used for 18 holes of golf are about the equivalence of playing 10 racks of pool, 10 games of table tennis, 3 games of tennis, and 1 game of softball. And the respiration gain from 18 holes is about as much as 1/2 a length of swimming at a small pool. Swimming non-competitively will likely give you GREAT exercise with good stretching, respiration gain, and NO back pain.

I believe that golf and now pickleball was invented by surgeons and chiropractors to DRUM up business!

Tell me you know nothing about playing golf without telling me you know nothing about playing golf...

[JMintzer]

I have 40 MPH golf carts that go by my front yard every day. About 75% of the carts go by at 20 to 25 MPH.

:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

[Laker14]

Vroom Vroom!

[DeafDeaf]

When I started looking for the active senior community, The Villages impacted me to think the age is meaningless! I do not feel old even I live here over 15 years so far. There are two perspectives - when I was young, I dreaded of being old. When I moved to TV, I do NOT think of AGE!



Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks

[chrissy2231]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks
I'm 76; Improv acting, ballroom dancing, ping pong, shooting pool, walking, playing cards, canoeing

[jimbomaybe]

Greetings from snow storming New Hampshire. We have been researching, discussing with friends who are residents and basically falling in love with the place from afar. We are excited to be coming down for an in person visit soon.

We’ve been noticing they a lot of people moved to TV a lot younger than us. We are in decent health. Age 67 & 65 and May not be able to move for another couple of years. Is there a point where it’s too old to fit in and enjoy? Be kind to the new guy.😉 thanks

Renting for a year would give you the time to get a good idea of what the Villages would mean to you, endless social activities , and clubs of like minded people, mostly very good people. As to shopping dining and health care it is a smaller population/ economic base, small town size . Even though its mostly a retired group there isnt the population mass to produce the same availability of goods and services you will find in a major population center, it just isn't possible , as an example there is no direct rail service, not economically justifiable, so goods are trucked in from a greater distance, still it has great attractions for anyone who is retired, Good luck

[FFlank]

You've asked a great question. I'm 69 and visited TV last week for a lifestyle preview visit. My wife and I are making arrangements to visit during the summer to see if we can take the heat :) Like most newbies, we have a million questions about things like the cost of homeowners insurance, property taxes, etc etc. But at the forefront was that initial, "am I already too old for this and did I miss the window of opportunity" question. Lots of good answers and discussion here. Looking forward to seeing some of you during the summer!