Perfumes and Cologne

[asianthree]

We both worked in a perfume/cologne free employments. After 40 plus years in healthcare for both of us, employees, had to be fragrance free of any colognes, perfume, or lotion. Our patients coming to the OR were asked to be fragrance free.

Now that we are spending more time in TV, shopping, restaurants, we are both appalled at the amount of fragrances that older people basically douse themselves with fragrances. Yesterday while sitting in a restaurant a gentleman walked by, the smell so strong that it took a few minutes before we could continue our meal. Our poor waitress, said it’s ongoing issue, at busy times, she needs to wear a mask, just to get through the day.

So as one ages, is more amount of fragrance’s used, due to their ability of lessen smell ability, or because I love this fragrance, you should love it also. Or forget they already used a scent and add more. Waitress thought it was due to hygiene.

Have not noticed this issue at with large crowds at, Disney, hotels, restaurants and shops outside of the bubble.

Maybe some just don’t realize how their fragrances affect those around them. Thoughts?

[Kenswing]

Oh my.. :1rotfl: I can't imagine being "appalled" by someone's fragrance. I've noticed since moving to The Villages that people get "appalled" far easier than I've ever seen. I guess on one hand it's a good thing. I mean, if they're complaining about stuff like this they must have no real problems in their life. On the other hand, it's just kinda sad.

Then again, maybe they should follow the quote in their signature.. :1rotfl:

[oldtimes]

Oh my.. :1rotfl: I can't imagine being "appalled" by someone's fragrance. I've noticed since moving to The Villages that people get "appalled" far easier than I've ever seen. I guess on one hand it's a good thing. I mean, if they're complaining about stuff like this they must have no real problems in their life. On the other hand, it's just kinda sad.

Then again, maybe they should follow the quote in their signature.. :1rotfl:

I can't say I'm "appalled" but I think it's a valid point. Some may not realize that they need to cut back a bit. My sister-in-law is allergic to strong scents.

[UpNorth]

Oh my.. :1rotfl: I can't imagine being "appalled" by someone's fragrance. I've noticed since moving to The Villages that people get "appalled" far easier than I've ever seen. I guess on one hand it's a good thing. I mean, if they're complaining about stuff like this they must have no real problems in their life. On the other hand, it's just kinda sad.

Then again, maybe they should follow the quote in their signature.. :1rotfl:

Maybe not "appalled", but there are many people who can have respiratory reactions (asthma, etc) to smoke, strong smells, etc. That's why you see unscented products in the marketplace. But there are some people who want you to notice them by their smell, similar to the kid with the loud car stereo driving down the road. Just another assault to others.

[asianthree]

Oh my.. :1rotfl: I can't imagine being "appalled" by someone's fragrance. I've noticed since moving to The Villages that people get "appalled" far easier than I've ever seen. I guess on one hand it's a good thing. I mean, if they're complaining about stuff like this they must have no real problems in their life. On the other hand, it's just kinda sad.

Then again, maybe they should follow the quote in their signature.. :1rotfl:

There are many who have health issues, especially fragrances that cause eyes to water, coughing and can trigger breathing issues.

I am not speaking of those who use fragrance correctly, it when a person sits 3 tables over, and all you can smell is their Cologne or perfume.
Waitress boxed up two tables, sitting next to his table, that couldn’t continue their meal. So maybe not a life threatening issue, but causing one to loose their appetite just makes your dining experience sad.

If my life choices causes impact to you, then I would make changes. Just like sitting next to a heavy smoker, when you don’t smoke.

I don’t worry about things I can’t change, but many things I can change so I don’t have to worry.

[Stu from NYC]

Do not like to have to deal with overpowering scents in a confined space.

[JRcorvette]

We both worked in a perfume/cologne free employments. After 40 plus years in healthcare for both of us, employees, had to be fragrance free of any colognes, perfume, or lotion. Our patients coming to the OR were asked to be fragrance free.

Now that we are spending more time in TV, shopping, restaurants, we are both appalled at the amount of fragrances that older people basically douse themselves with fragrances. Yesterday while sitting in a restaurant a gentleman walked by, the smell so strong that it took a few minutes before we could continue our meal. Our poor waitress, said it’s ongoing issue, at busy times, she needs to wear a mask, just to get through the day.

So as one ages, is more amount of fragrance’s used, due to their ability of lessen smell ability, or because I love this fragrance, you should love it also. Or forget they already used a scent and add more. Waitress thought it was due to hygiene.

Have not noticed this issue at with large crowds at, Disney, hotels, restaurants and shops outside of the bubble.

Maybe some just don’t realize how their fragrances affect those around them. Thoughts?

So others should bow to your wishes? Wear a mask when you go out!

[fdpaq0580]

So others should bow to your wishes? Wear a mask when you go out!

"Yes" and "No"!

Seriously though, there are many folks who seriously over use fragrances for one reason or another, and it has potential to negatively impact others in serious ways. So, if you like smelling like the perfume counter at Kohls just exploded and you were in the middle of it, or if you need to bathe but think covering yourself with perfume will hide that fact, you might want to think about maybe making a change or two.

[Stu from NYC]

So others should bow to your wishes? Wear a mask when you go out!

So the general public has no rights?

[LuvNH]

"Back in the day" heavy perfumes were fashionable and some were very expensive. When I was a young woman the French fashion houses all had their signature fragrances and they were mostly overpowering, but people wore them as a status symbol of wealth. Now young people don't usually bother with perfumes. None of my grandchildren wear perfume or colognes.

So ladies, if you are wearing heavy perfumes you are dating yourself.

[Kenswing]

I agree that some people seem to marinate in their cologne/perfume before going out. I even agree it can be annoying or even uncomfortable for some people. I just can’t see how it reaches the level of appalling. Someone taking a dump in the middle of the dining room would be appalling. The overuse of perfume not so much.

[Blueblaze]

Amen! As a lifelong allergy/asthma sufferer, I've never seen a stink yet that was improved by pouring more stink on it. The most alluring fragrance on Earth is the sweet smell of freshly scrubbed girl. It's certainly not improved by smearing chemicals all over the gal!

The worst part is that you can now hardly find a simple cleaning product that isn't 50% perfume. My asthma improved 100% when we recently discovered that we could get stink-free Tide pods if we paid them a little more to leave out the stink.

But the craziest thing I ever saw was when I discovered that the only household VINEGAR on the shelf at Publix last week was the fake "lemon fragrance" variety. Just what my A/C needs -- a teaspoon of $5 perfumed vinegar in the drain pipe! Probably kills mold twice as fast!

[fdpaq0580]

I agree that some people seem to marinate in their cologne/perfume before going out. I even agree it can be annoying or even uncomfortable for some people. I just can’t see how it reaches the level of appalling. Someone taking a dump in the middle of the dining room would be appalling. The overuse of perfume not so much.

Sensitivity issue. As some have stated, strong scent is capable of triggering strong reactions.

[Topspinmo]

We both worked in a perfume/cologne free employments. After 40 plus years in healthcare for both of us, employees, had to be fragrance free of any colognes, perfume, or lotion. Our patients coming to the OR were asked to be fragrance free.

Now that we are spending more time in TV, shopping, restaurants, we are both appalled at the amount of fragrances that older people basically douse themselves with fragrances. Yesterday while sitting in a restaurant a gentleman walked by, the smell so strong that it took a few minutes before we could continue our meal. Our poor waitress, said it’s ongoing issue, at busy times, she needs to wear a mask, just to get through the day.

So as one ages, is more amount of fragrance’s used, due to their ability of lessen smell ability, or because I love this fragrance, you should love it also. Or forget they already used a scent and add more. Waitress thought it was due to hygiene.

Have not noticed this issue at with large crowds at, Disney, hotels, restaurants and shops outside of the bubble.

Maybe some just don’t realize how their fragrances affect those around them. Thoughts?


Got to leather up if you stink :22yikes:Scents are bothering but super bad BO is obnoxious.

[Topspinmo]

So others should bow to your wishes? Wear a mask when you go out!

It would have to be respirator. Masks don’t block scents.

[ThirdOfFive]

We both worked in a perfume/cologne free employments. After 40 plus years in healthcare for both of us, employees, had to be fragrance free of any colognes, perfume, or lotion. Our patients coming to the OR were asked to be fragrance free.

Now that we are spending more time in TV, shopping, restaurants, we are both appalled at the amount of fragrances that older people basically douse themselves with fragrances. Yesterday while sitting in a restaurant a gentleman walked by, the smell so strong that it took a few minutes before we could continue our meal. Our poor waitress, said it’s ongoing issue, at busy times, she needs to wear a mask, just to get through the day.

So as one ages, is more amount of fragrance’s used, due to their ability of lessen smell ability, or because I love this fragrance, you should love it also. Or forget they already used a scent and add more. Waitress thought it was due to hygiene.

Have not noticed this issue at with large crowds at, Disney, hotels, restaurants and shops outside of the bubble.

Maybe some just don’t realize how their fragrances affect those around them. Thoughts?
Excellent point. My wife and I attend a local church where at times the scent can be overpowering! I suffer from severe asthma. Not all or even most scents fit this bill, but there are some that can and have triggered an asthma attack which is NOT fun. Mostly though they just clog my sinuses and give me a bad headache; not fun either but not life-threatening. The odd thing is that the scent(s) can have their effect a minute or so before their smell even registers! It has not been much of an issue in the summer but as fall approaches and the snowbirds come to TV the crowds at church will be increasing, and along with that the problem will get worse.

I will be contacting the pastor re this. My expectation is not that the church will ban fragrances, but a "fragrance free" section would not be too much to ask.

[Number 10 GI]

The sense of smell diminishes with age, I don't smell odors as well as when I was young. Some people definitely douse themselves with scents. My wife has advanced COPD and she has difficulty with breathing in department stores when she is near the cosmetics department or someone who has taken a bath in perfume. Certain fragrances cause me breathing problems and I have good lungs. I haven't used cologne or aftershave in years, but do use a scent free deodorant .

[Cybersprings]

We both worked in a perfume/cologne free employments. After 40 plus years in healthcare for both of us, employees, had to be fragrance free of any colognes, perfume, or lotion. Our patients coming to the OR were asked to be fragrance free.

Now that we are spending more time in TV, shopping, restaurants, we are both appalled at the amount of fragrances that older people basically douse themselves with fragrances. Yesterday while sitting in a restaurant a gentleman walked by, the smell so strong that it took a few minutes before we could continue our meal. Our poor waitress, said it’s ongoing issue, at busy times, she needs to wear a mask, just to get through the day.

So as one ages, is more amount of fragrance’s used, due to their ability of lessen smell ability, or because I love this fragrance, you should love it also. Or forget they already used a scent and add more. Waitress thought it was due to hygiene.

Have not noticed this issue at with large crowds at, Disney, hotels, restaurants and shops outside of the bubble.

Maybe some just don’t realize how their fragrances affect those around them. Thoughts?

I applaud you for your post. You explained what you have experienced and how it bothers you. You asked some questions for possible reasons. You disparaged no one. You asked for some thoughts.

Now many of the responses.... no comment.

I do have one thought to interject. I am not an asthmatic, but I do have dog allergies among many others and I do not like the smell of dogs. But heaven forbid (to some) you should state something like that or suggest you don't want to eat on the restaurant patio in the the villages with dogs on TOTV. You will get the same answer you are getting from many. Go somewhere else.

[coffeebean]

There are many who have health issues, especially fragrances that cause eyes to water, coughing and can trigger breathing issues.

I am not speaking of those who use fragrance correctly, it when a person sits 3 tables over, and all you can smell is their Cologne or perfume.
Waitress boxed up two tables, sitting next to his table, that couldn’t continue their meal. So maybe not a life threatening issue, but causing one to loose their appetite just makes your dining experience sad.

If my life choices causes impact to you, then I would make changes. Just like sitting next to a heavy smoker, when you don’t smoke.

I don’t worry about things I can’t change, but many things I can change so I don’t have to worry.

Hubby and I have moved to another seat in a movie theater, clear across the area where someone was wearing a very heavy application of perfume. I'm not allergic but find that I am not a happy camper when I have to be "assaulted" by someone's scent.

[coffeebean]

So others should bow to your wishes? Wear a mask when you go out!
Sorry but that is not a viable option.

[NotGolfer]

What is "amazing" are the folks criticizing the OP!! She has a very valid point. As I've gotten older scents do bother me. Hardly can stand the cleaning aisle in the store for that reason. I've been "triggered" by over-use of perfunes and even the laundry product scents from people's clothing!! Thank you OP for posting this!!!!

[Stu from NYC]

What is "amazing" are the folks criticizing the OP!! She has a very valid point. As I've gotten older scents do bother me. Hardly can stand the cleaning aisle in the store for that reason. I've been "triggered" by over-use of perfunes and even the laundry product scents from people's clothing!! Thank you OP for posting this!!!!

Very true

[Blackbird45]

I also worked in a business that sometime in the mid-eighties there was a movement to be fragrant free and everyone jumped on the band wagon. I still don't use any type of cologne, but if someone enters a room with a double dose, I get over it quickly.

[thevillagernie]

Just a dab behind the ear should be enough.....better then BO

[La lamy]

I'm in the camp of now being bothered by strong scents. I think it can go both ways as we get into our senior years: some lose their sense of smell and end up putting on WAY TOO MUCH scent to get a slight whiff of it themselves, and the other camp gets WAY TOO SENSITIVE to any chemical scent. I unfortunately get headaches from any unnatural scent now, so I sympathize with the OP. A good cleaning of armpits every morning is all I feel should be needed instead of crazy scented deodorants or cologne/perfume. Otherwise, it's easy enough for me to avoid you these days.

[dougawhite]

At concerts I can get overwhelmed by heavy doses of perfume; not a fan. I assume they are covering up something else like maybe they use medical Marijuana or similar.

[D&BSmith]

I am in the camp of not enjoying strong scents, never have. I have learned to live and let live, simply removing myself from the area.

[Marmaduke]

There are many who have health issues, especially fragrances that cause eyes to water, coughing and can trigger breathing issues.

I am not speaking of those who use fragrance correctly, it when a person sits 3 tables over, and all you can smell is their Cologne or perfume.
Waitress boxed up two tables, sitting next to his table, that couldn’t continue their meal. So maybe not a life threatening issue, but causing one to loose their appetite just makes your dining experience sad.

If my life choices causes impact to you, then I would make changes. Just like sitting next to a heavy smoker, when you don’t smoke.

I don’t worry about things I can’t change, but many things I can change so I don’t have to worry.
I agree with you, and I'm not allergic to anything, but I find the passing whiff of Obsession, Taylor, Jimmy Choo gagging.
It is horrible when you're attempting to enjoy and are paying for a nice meal only to be overcome with the strong odor of perfume and colone.

I absolutely love working out in my fitness center where there are signs posted that perfumes, lotions and powders are forbidden in the fitness center. Also posted in the ladies locker room.

Imagine dousing the Obsession on and going in to work out! There are also a bunch of lotions are popular for our dry skin, but they are full of perfumes that reek too. Buyer beware.

[nmgirardot]

And who thought scented deodorant was a good idea? The worst idea ever.

[MandoMan]

We both worked in a perfume/cologne free employments. After 40 plus years in healthcare for both of us, employees, had to be fragrance free of any colognes, perfume, or lotion. Our patients coming to the OR were asked to be fragrance free.

Now that we are spending more time in TV, shopping, restaurants, we are both appalled at the amount of fragrances that older people basically douse themselves with fragrances. Yesterday while sitting in a restaurant a gentleman walked by, the smell so strong that it took a few minutes before we could continue our meal. Our poor waitress, said it’s ongoing issue, at busy times, she needs to wear a mask, just to get through the day.

So as one ages, is more amount of fragrance’s used, due to their ability of lessen smell ability, or because I love this fragrance, you should love it also. Or forget they already used a scent and add more. Waitress thought it was due to hygiene.

Have not noticed this issue at with large crowds at, Disney, hotels, restaurants and shops outside of the bubble.

Maybe some just don’t realize how their fragrances affect those around them. Thoughts?

There is a perfume some people like—patchouli oil? Musk? I don’t know—that to me smells like mildew. I first noticed it years ago when I had a Goth student who I thought had a serious illness because she smelled like she was rotting. I later discovered that it was some perfume ingredient, and I’m part of a tiny percentage that smells it as bad instead of as pleasant. I was glad my student wasn’t dying. Lots of fragrances in laundry detergent, dryer sheets, etc, smell unpleasant. There is, however, a growing number of unscented versions of high-rated detergents. For example, the Consumer Reports top-rated detergent—a form of Tide liquid, is available in an unscented version, but only at Target. I use WalMart’s Great Values store brand dryer sheets in an unscented version. I’m very pleased. I used to have a friend who worked at the company in New Jersey that develops these smells. She told me about the process. She was a team head. Oddly, she said she can’t stand those smells.

[msilagy]

Seniors are using old time heavy fragrances. Younger people are more and more fragrance free or just using body spray. Perfume is out of style now - problem is nobody has told the older folks or they just can't stop spraying on that perfume, men's cologne.

[ThirdOfFive]

There is a perfume some people like—patchouli oil? Musk? I don’t know—that to me smells like mildew. I first noticed it years ago when I had a Goth student who I thought had a serious illness because she smelled like she was rotting. I later discovered that it was some perfume ingredient, and I’m part of a tiny percentage that smells it as bad instead of as pleasant. I was glad my student wasn’t dying. Lots of fragrances in laundry detergent, dryer sheets, etc, smell unpleasant. There is, however, a growing number of unscented versions of high-rated detergents. For example, the Consumer Reports top-rated detergent—a form of Tide liquid, is available in an unscented version, but only at Target. I use WalMart’s Great Values store brand dryer sheets in an unscented version. I’m very pleased. I used to have a friend who worked at the company in New Jersey that develops these smells. She told me about the process. She was a team head. Oddly, she said she can’t stand those smells.
For me, the worst is potpourri, especially in the overpowering amount that some stores have. There are a few stores in Burnsville, MN that my wife loved to shop in, that have the stuff. Hobby Lobby historically has been a major "contributor" to this problem and I avoid going into them. I haven't tried the new one here yet.

Another one is body wash. A faint whiff of cologne or good perfume is not usually a problem, but the way that some folks douse themselves with the stuff, especially along with the body odor that I assume they're trying to cover up--well, to be honest I'd rather just have to put up with the B.O. At least it is natural and doesn't trigger breathing difficulties.

[Mrs S]

Oh my.. :1rotfl: I can't imagine being "appalled" by someone's fragrance. I've noticed since moving to The Villages that people get "appalled" far easier than I've ever seen. I guess on one hand it's a good thing. I mean, if they're complaining about stuff like this they must have no real problems in their life. On the other hand, it's just kinda sad.

Then again, maybe they should follow the quote in their signature.. :1rotfl:
Sometimes their perfume is so strong you can taste it and it ruins your meal. And if they happen to sit close to your table it’s awful.

[Two Bills]

I managed a hog farm many years ago, and we pumped slurry up to a oxygenating lagoon, preferably when wind was away from our nearby village.
The smell was pretty pungent.
A feed Rep. suggested a concentrate that smelled of Violets would probably improve the whiff for local properties nearby.
Without an exception everyone complained about the stink of the Violet concentrate, and begged us to go back to just the poop.
The moral of the story is: $hit stinks, but covering smell with perfume make it worse!

[CosmicTrucker]

Is it possible those who wear heavy perfume are unknowingly doing so due to the unfortunate side effects of C0v1d?

[airstreamingypsy]

Listen up men, stop wearing cologne. I don't know whose idea it was for men to wear cologne, but stop it! After shave yes, cologne no. A little Old Spice after shave..... or Aqua Velva... yes. Cologne no...... its gross. I agree with the OP, I don't want to smell people, a whiff of a nice perfume on a woman as she walks by..... yes. Cologne on men... no. Never.

Signed a woman who is grossed out by men in cologne.

[fdpaq0580]

Wash well. Rinse well. Dry well. Put on clean clothes.
Done!

[Deden]

Then you have the wrong mask!

[JMintzer]

Seniors are using old time heavy fragrances. Younger people are more and more fragrance free or just using body spray. Perfume is out of style now - problem is nobody has told the older folks or they just can't stop spraying on that perfume, men's cologne.

You prefer Axe Body Spray to a nice cologne? barfbarfbarf

They only problem I have is when people douse themselves in cheap perfume/cologne. Spend a few bucks for the nice stuff and you only need a tiny amount. No one across the room will know you're wearing it...

[JMintzer]

Is it possible those who wear heavy perfume are unknowingly doing so due to the unfortunate side effects of C0v1d?

Nah, it's been going on long before Covid...

[JMintzer]

Listen up men, stop wearing cologne. I don't know whose idea it was for men to wear cologne, but stop it! After shave yes, cologne no. A little Old Spice after shave..... or Aqua Velva... yes. Cologne no...... its gross. I agree with the OP, I don't want to smell people, a whiff of a nice perfume on a woman as she walks by..... yes. Cologne on men... no. Never.

Signed a woman who is grossed out by men in cologne.

After shave IS a form of cologne... Same difference... You just happen to like the smell of those... Old Spice is fine for me (reminds me of my dad...). Aqua Velva? Blech!

[Gpsma]

Bing back Hai Karate!

[JMintzer]

Bing back Hai Karate!

I'm waiting for the release of "Sex Panther"...

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[Joe C.]

Mixed thoughts on this. I can't walk into a Yankee Candle store or something similar without my chest tightening up and finding it difficult to breathe. Same thing in a department store's perfume section. And yet, once in a while I will dab on some Old Spice aftershave or some Bay Rum, and it doesn't bother me.
I think that some perfumes/colognes of the nickle a gallon type and some of the super expensive parfum brands must be delicately used to be enjoyed.
Every now and then someone passes by me and they stink to high heaven of some obnoxious fragrance.....I hold my breath and wait for a few seconds.
We DO live in a free country, so we can't start prohibiting things that others find offensive. Just need to be aware and keep things like this in mind..

[virtualcynthia]

I loved this thread. My fellow unscented advocates said everything I always think. Except, in a car with a strong perfume. I want to ride like a dog with my head hanging out of the window.

I think we should advocate for smoke free sections at big venues. Between asthma, allergies and general yuck, I think we can justify the movement. ������������

On the other discussion, that description of the entitled, rich villagers is tired already. Give it a rest. I hope people recognize, that’s only a percentage and a very small percentage at that. Because you don’t like Villagers, don’t prejudice others.

[Byte1]

Wow, such sensitive folks! I've been to a few places where I was exposed for a very short period to highly perfumed women, but other than noticing it for a moment, I managed it a lot better than smelling a breeze from the sewage treatment plant, from a pig farm or a paper mill. I've lived overseas where folks just did not bath and smoked packs of cigarettes. I remember riding in a cab with my family when my daughter whispered to me that she needed to get out before she vomited from the smell of BO from the cab driver. No wonder this country is spiraling down the drain, when we have so many "sensitive" folks that are offended by the slightest variation from their preferences. When I was young the most common fear was worrying about an air raid siren, but now folks are worried about the personal hygiene of others and what cologne they may wear.
Thanks for the laugh. I am never disappointed when I open up my daily dose of TOTV.

[airstreamingypsy]

After shave IS a form of cologne... Same difference... You just happen to like the smell of those... Old Spice is fine for me (reminds me of my dad...). Aqua Velva? Blech!

Typically aftershaves contain a concentration of aromatic compounds of only 1%-3%, as a result, the scent of aftershave is fairly weak.
An aftershave is designed to disinfect freshly shaved skin, the alcohol kills surface bacteria. Any minor nicks and cuts will be disinfected, and the alcohol will constrict the blood vessels and speed up the healing process. An aftershave will leave your skin disinfected, toned, refreshed and lightly scented. The scent will probably dissipate after an hour or so.

Eau de Cologne is a higher grade of fragrance that contains a typical concentration of aromatic compounds of up to 7%. This gives an Eau de Cologne a much stronger scent than a typical aftershave. It will linger for hours.

[ThirdOfFive]

I managed a hog farm many years ago, and we pumped slurry up to a oxygenating lagoon, preferably when wind was away from our nearby village.
The smell was pretty pungent.
A feed Rep. suggested a concentrate that smelled of Violets would probably improve the whiff for local properties nearby.
Without an exception everyone complained about the stink of the Violet concentrate, and begged us to go back to just the poop.
The moral of the story is: $hit stinks, but covering smell with perfume make it worse!
Hog dung is in a class by itself.

Prior to moving here my drive to work was about an hour through farming country. Hogs, corn and soybeans. Some of the farmers along the route would spread hog manure on their fields; usually in the fall. Bad enough early in the day but worst if you encountered a spreader on a hot afternoon. The only thing worse was to get stuck behind a silage truck in the spring. If you couldn't pass it, you were in for a memorable olfactory treat that could last for miles.

Still and all, those are natural odors. Part of life, so to speak. Neither hog dung nor silage trucks affected me the way some of those manufactured "fragrances" do.

[bobchap]

People don't think about other people with asthma. The smells can be overwhelming for people with asthma. A person walks by smelling of cigarette smoke and my wife looses her voice and it be comes hard to breathe. Same happens with some of the perfumes and after shaves that people wear. People have a right to smoke and have the right to wear perfume and after shave, but they need to realize how the affect other people.

[JMintzer]

Typically aftershaves contain a concentration of aromatic compounds of only 1%-3%, as a result, the scent of aftershave is fairly weak.
An aftershave is designed to disinfect freshly shaved skin, the alcohol kills surface bacteria. Any minor nicks and cuts will be disinfected, and the alcohol will constrict the blood vessels and speed up the healing process. An aftershave will leave your skin disinfected, toned, refreshed and lightly scented. The scent will probably dissipate after an hour or so.

Eau de Cologne is a higher grade of fragrance that contains a typical concentration of aromatic compounds of up to 7%. This gives an Eau de Cologne a much stronger scent than a typical aftershave. It will linger for hours.

"Typically"...

[Sandy and Ed]

Come on!!! Not everyone is going to adjust themselves to meet your standards. Who cares if a lady or gentleman wears a little too much fragrance? Perhaps they may look at you and wonder how you can be comfortable in your garish clothes, hairdo, etc. The world is not your oyster nor mine. Get over it and be a little less judgmental of others

[kendi]

Our church requests no perfumes or cologne out of courtesy for those on chemo and/or breathing issues. Personally there are a few scents that I enjoy but generally I’d rather not be around them. Never wear it myself. the issue is not about people’s rights but rather common courtesy from both sides of the issue. Some just don’t realize the negative effects their choice and strength of perfume has on others. For those who are aware, Living in a senior community does warrant discretion on when, where and how much to use.

[manaboutown]

Maybe they are trying to cover up lack of personal hygiene or even old person smell, kareishu as the Japanese call it. They even market special soaps to seniors to deal with it. Old person smell - Wikipedia (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Old_person_smell)

[Topspinmo]

There is a perfume some people like—patchouli oil? Musk? I don’t know—that to me smells like mildew. I first noticed it years ago when I had a Goth student who I thought had a serious illness because she smelled like she was rotting. I later discovered that it was some perfume ingredient, and I’m part of a tiny percentage that smells it as bad instead of as pleasant. I was glad my student wasn’t dying. Lots of fragrances in laundry detergent, dryer sheets, etc, smell unpleasant. There is, however, a growing number of unscented versions of high-rated detergents. For example, the Consumer Reports top-rated detergent—a form of Tide liquid, is available in an unscented version, but only at Target. I use WalMart’s Great Values store brand dryer sheets in an unscented version. I’m very pleased. I used to have a friend who worked at the company in New Jersey that develops these smells. She told me about the process. She was a team head. Oddly, she said she can’t stand those smells.

New perfume out called skunk ������ oil. It clears wide path. :D

[PugMom]

There are many who have health issues, especially fragrances that cause eyes to water, coughing and can trigger breathing issues.

I am not speaking of those who use fragrance correctly, it when a person sits 3 tables over, and all you can smell is their Cologne or perfume.
Waitress boxed up two tables, sitting next to his table, that couldn’t continue their meal. So maybe not a life threatening issue, but causing one to loose their appetite just makes your dining experience sad.

If my life choices causes impact to you, then I would make changes. Just like sitting next to a heavy smoker, when you don’t smoke.

I don’t worry about things I can’t change, but many things I can change so I don’t have to worry.

your post hits home: i'm a smoker who wears perfume, lol, but i have 1 family member & friends who cannot stand either scent, odor. it's these times i hold off wearing any, or smoking before i see them. (it a small thing to avoid any issues.) maybe try sitting outside when around people who overindulge? ...& is it less bothersome when someone wears high quality fragrance? years ago they had this joan collins scent, "scoundrel.' --i swear that stuff smelled like gasoline :jester:

[Joe C.]

On second thought, perhaps I should give up aftershaves and cologne and start eating foods that cause massive gastric flatulence.

[Dotneko]

I love the smell of perfume and aftershave. My husband wears it occasionally and I love it. Sadly, I had to dispose of several bottles of expensive perfume. I could no longer wear it after chemo since it made me itch horribly. Weird reaction and I tried several solutions but nothing worked.

[OrangeBlossomBaby]

If you think it's bad now, then you never went to a disco in the 1970's or 1980's. It was mostly the men who reeked of cologne, the women tended to be a little more judicious.

I rarely wear perfumes or colognes but I do have a few that I like, other than the one I make myself with rose and neroli essential oils and jasmine absolute. I rarely wear that. As we age, our sense of smell changes. But it's also true that our sense of "self-scent" is not as strong as our sense of smelling people around us. Men are not taught that "if you can smell your own cologne, then you put on too much." Most women are taught that, and apply that knowledge when they apply their scent.

[manaboutown]

I started going to dances and dating in the late 1950s. If a pretty girl used White Shoulders perfume she had me in a trance.

[DonnaNi4os]

You may notice it more but this isn’t a senior issue. My daughter dated a guy in high school many years ago and I swear I can still smell his aftershave.

[fdpaq0580]

I love the smell of perfume and aftershave. My husband wears it occasionally and I love it. Sadly, I had to dispose of several bottles of expensive perfume. I could no longer wear it after chemo since it made me itch horribly. Weird reaction and I tried several solutions but nothing worked.

Did you try putting a drop on your clothes rather than on your skin?

After chemo, my sense of smell became very strong and I couldn't get within 50 yds of a candle shop or cigar without fainting and gasping for air.

[fdpaq0580]

[QUOTE=Joe .
We DO live in a free country, so we can't start prohibiting things that others find offensive. Just need to be aware and keep things like this in mind..[/QUOTE]

? We can, and do, prohibit stuff all the time because it offends (or supposedly offends) people. Words, books, statues, buildings, mascots, ideas, and on, and on. Why not perfume?

[dhdallas]

We both worked in a perfume/cologne free employments. After 40 plus years in healthcare for both of us, employees, had to be fragrance free of any colognes, perfume, or lotion. Our patients coming to the OR were asked to be fragrance free.

Now that we are spending more time in TV, shopping, restaurants, we are both appalled at the amount of fragrances that older people basically douse themselves with fragrances. Yesterday while sitting in a restaurant a gentleman walked by, the smell so strong that it took a few minutes before we could continue our meal. Our poor waitress, said it’s ongoing issue, at busy times, she needs to wear a mask, just to get through the day.

So as one ages, is more amount of fragrance’s used, due to their ability of lessen smell ability, or because I love this fragrance, you should love it also. Or forget they already used a scent and add more. Waitress thought it was due to hygiene.

Have not noticed this issue at with large crowds at, Disney, hotels, restaurants and shops outside of the bubble.

Maybe some just don’t realize how their fragrances affect those around them. Thoughts?

A skunk can't smell his own hole!

[Topspinmo]

And who thought scented deodorant was a good idea? The worst idea ever.

All about the money, isn’t everything?

[Topspinmo]

your post hits home: i'm a smoker who wears perfume, lol, but i have 1 family member & friends who cannot stand either scent, odor. it's these times i hold off wearing any, or smoking before i see them. (it a small thing to avoid any issues.) maybe try sitting outside when around people who overindulge? ...& is it less bothersome when someone wears high quality fragrance? years ago they had this joan collins scent, "scoundrel.' --i swear that stuff smelled like gasoline :jester:


Question? What was Yul Borisovich Briner famous last words??

[Topspinmo]

A skunk can't smell his own hole!


Are you sure?

Skunks actually have a stronger sense of smell than humans, Holland adds.Apr Reference google.

[La lamy]

You prefer Axe Body Spray to a nice cologne? barfbarfbarf

They only problem I have is when people douse themselves in cheap perfume/cologne. Spend a few bucks for the nice stuff and you only need a tiny amount. No one across the room will know you're wearing it...

Agreed!!!

[JMintzer]

Come on!!! Not everyone is going to adjust themselves to meet your standards. Who cares if a lady or gentleman wears a little too much fragrance? Perhaps they may look at you and wonder how you can be comfortable in your garish clothes, hairdo, etc. The world is not your oyster nor mine. Get over it and be a little less judgmental of others

But they're gonna' DIE!!! It's the same people who claim that by just seeing a dog near them, they'll immediately go into anaphylactic shock...

[JMintzer]

Our church requests no perfumes or cologne out of courtesy for those on chemo and/or breathing issues. Personally there are a few scents that I enjoy but generally I’d rather not be around them. Never wear it myself. the issue is not about people’s rights but rather common courtesy from both sides of the issue. Some just don’t realize the negative effects their choice and strength of perfume has on others. For those who are aware, Living in a senior community does warrant discretion on when, where and how much to use.

Those on chemo???

How the hell does cologne have an effect on chemo patients?

[JMintzer]

On second thought, perhaps I should give up aftershaves and cologne and start eating foods that cause massive gastric flatulence.

I just call that "food in general"...

[Byte1]

Being positive about the whole subject, perhaps perfume is a good test for Covid. If someone tells you that your scent is too strong and you don't notice it, just thank them and tell them it's probably an indication that you have Covid and have lost your sense of smell and taste.
Isn't this great, to have something so trivial to talk about, other than global warming, electric cars and gender identity?

[BobnBev]

Question? What was Yul Borisovich Briner famous last words??

"You can't touch your ear with your elbow":pepper2::beer3::girlneener:

[BobnBev]

your post hits home: i'm a smoker who wears perfume, lol, but i have 1 family member & friends who cannot stand either scent, odor. it's these times i hold off wearing any, or smoking before i see them. (it a small thing to avoid any issues.) maybe try sitting outside when around people who overindulge? ...& is it less bothersome when someone wears high quality fragrance? years ago they had this joan collins scent, "scoundrel.' --i swear that stuff smelled like gasoline :jester:

No wonder the gear heads loved it.:22yikes::wave:

[LuvNH]

Question? What was Yul Borisovich Briner famous last words??


It is reported that Yul Brynner told his surgeon he wanted to make a commercial saying ....
Now that I'm gone, I tell you: Don't smoke, whatever you do, just don't smoke."

[Topspinmo]

It is reported that Yul Brynner told his surgeon he wanted to make a commercial saying ....
Now that I'm gone, I tell you: Don't smoke, whatever you do, just don't smoke."

Bingo!!!. I quit when I was 21. Never regretted it.