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JSRusso
10-23-2023, 10:09 AM
My wife is turning 50 in November and I was thinking of gifting her a spa day or something similar. Does anyone know of a women’s spa that is local to the Villages area that would be a good place to book a day of pampering for her birthday?

Also, other birthday ideas in case you think of an alternate to a spa package.

Thanks in advance!

Stu from NYC
10-23-2023, 11:41 AM
Money works for this guy. Wife can do as she wishes.

oldtimes
10-23-2023, 12:48 PM
My wife is turning 50 in November and I was thinking of gifting her a spa day or something similar. Does anyone know of a women’s spa that is local to the Villages area that would be a good place to book a day of pampering for her birthday?

Also, other birthday ideas in case you think of an alternate to a spa package.

Thanks in advance!

Don’t do this unless you know for certain she would enjoy it. Surprisingly not all women do. A nice day trip or overnight is an alternative. There are so many beautiful places in Florida.

Randall55
10-23-2023, 02:38 PM
Don’t do this unless you know for certain she would enjoy it. Surprisingly not all women do. A nice day trip or overnight is an alternative. There are so many beautiful places in Florida. I agree. My wife loves to get away from the house to go to a nice resort or the beach.

pikeselectric
10-23-2023, 02:48 PM
Sweet idea! Diamond Nail Bair in Lady Lake does phenomenal work. I also recommend Azulene Day Spa in Ocala for everything spa day, massages, etc. if you are okay with looking outside of The Villages area.
Dinner at Chop House is another recommendation :)
- Casandra

Two Bills
10-23-2023, 03:33 PM
My near neighbor took his wife to a Paint Ball Battle for her 50th!
She loved it.
Our son in law took our youngest daughter for a tandem parachute jump for her 50th.
She enjoyed that so much she did a solo shortly after.
For my wife's 50th I took a dozen Viagra, and gave my wife the best week of her life!:icon_wink:

Dusty_Star
10-23-2023, 03:42 PM
My near neighbor took his wife to a Paint Ball Battle for her 50th!
She loved it.
Our son in law took our youngest daughter for a tandem parachute jump for her 50th.
She enjoyed that so much she did a solo shortly after.
For my wife's 50th I took a dozen Viagra, and gave my wife the best week of her life!:icon_wink:

I love you two Bills (& your wife, not making an improper pass here). You always make me laugh out loud &/or your posts are thoughful & on point. I understand, but the Villages lost when you decided to not to come this year.

Two Bills
10-23-2023, 03:52 PM
I love you two Bills (& your wife, not making an improper pass here). You always make me laugh out loud &/or your posts are thoughful & on point. I understand, but the Villages lost when you decided to not to come this year.

Thank you.

asianthree
10-23-2023, 03:58 PM
I hope you know your wife well enough to have an idea if she would like a spa day.

Brownwood Hotel, has multiple packages available. Very clean and safe spa.

A trip to the beach at a great hotel stay and dinner.

A trip on the new Bright Line to Miami for site seeing, and dinner, and maybe an overnight in a boutique hotel

Stu from NYC
10-23-2023, 06:53 PM
My near neighbor took his wife to a Paint Ball Battle for her 50th!
She loved it.
Our son in law took our youngest daughter for a tandem parachute jump for her 50th.
She enjoyed that so much she did a solo shortly after.
For my wife's 50th I took a dozen Viagra, and gave my wife the best week of her life!:icon_wink:

Paint ball think we will give it a try for wifes next birthday. Only question is do I survive for my next one.

Randall55
10-23-2023, 07:50 PM
Paint ball think we will give it a try for wifes next birthday. Only question is do I survive for my next one.Told my wife about the paintball idea at dinner. She said it sounds like a lot of fun. Who knew? We are planning to go in the next few weeks. Thanks, twobills!

shaw8700@outlook.com
10-23-2023, 09:14 PM
For my fiftieth, we rented the local Country Club and I had a helluva party with all my friends. We had my favorite food, a DJ, and my best friend took one of my pictures when I was kid, blew it up, and everyone signed it. That was fourteen years ago and it still gives me goose bumps whenever I look at it.

bowlingal
10-24-2023, 05:22 AM
you've got to do something much better than a spa day. Yawn and boring. Use you imagination, or ideas from others on this site. Dinner at the Equestrian Center maybe and a tour of the area? Polo match? Or both?

La lamy
10-24-2023, 05:25 AM
Can't help you with a specific spa (I'm too frugal to pamper myself that way), but if I was her, I'd LOVE IT!!!! Hope she enjoys your special treat to her.

gbs317
10-24-2023, 05:38 AM
50!!!!! Tell that youngster HAPPY BIRTHDAY from us at TOTV.

Ele201
10-24-2023, 06:04 AM
My wife is turning 50 in November and I was thinking of gifting her a spa day or something similar. Does anyone know of a women’s spa that is local to the Villages area that would be a good place to book a day of pampering for her birthday?

Also, other birthday ideas in case you think of an alternate to a spa package.

Thanks in advance!

That’s so nice of you to gift your wife something special for her 50th! There are a lot of good responses here, as to what to surprise her with. Regarding your initial idea, a spa package — that sounds nice but as others pointed out, does she enjoy spas, as not everyone does. Has she had massages and/or facials in the past?

If so, Brownwood Hotel & Spa is a definite possibility. It’s local, as you requested, and you might get her a spa package there followed by a meal with her at the adjoining Wolfgang Puck.

You might drop a hint to feel her out on what she might enjoy receiving. Personally, my husband usually buys me gift cards to stores that I frequent. True, It’s not super creative, but I end up getting something I want and can use. Jewelry is another option, if you know her taste in that category.

Good luck! Hope she has a great birthday.

LuvNH
10-24-2023, 06:09 AM
My husband traveled back and forth to Europe on business for most of his working life. When I hit the dreaded big Five O he was in Scotland and I was feeling very sorry for myself. He called me early in the morning on my birthday and told me my gift was in the closet. The gift was a very beautiful antique solid gold key on a fine gold chain with a note saying "You have the key to my heart". I was shocked because he is a very stiff upper lip kinda guy and this was a real surprise. I wear that key every day and he has never done anything that romantic since.

Debbraham
10-24-2023, 06:30 AM
My wife is turning 50 in November and I was thinking of gifting her a spa day or something similar. Does anyone know of a women’s spa that is local to the Villages area that would be a good place to book a day of pampering for her birthday?

Also, other birthday ideas in case you think of an alternate to a spa package.

Thanks in advance!
Brownwood hotel offers a very upscale spa day with champagne !

CarrieOn
10-24-2023, 06:46 AM
Brownwood hotel is a splendid treat. It’s gorgeous. I’ve gotten 2 of them. They bring you a glass of wine in the relaxing area.. go a lil early &
Enjoy.. my boyfriend waits for me in the hotel bar. We have another drink when I come out and appetizers. The hotel is a must see.. it’s gorgeous.. We love it there.. He likes it for date night 100x more than any square. Sawgrass is second. Good luck.. she’s only 50 once.. it’s about the full experience.

sallyg
10-24-2023, 07:22 AM
Sarah at Brownwood gives a great facial. And anything 14k is also nice. :)

JerseyGurl
10-24-2023, 07:50 AM
Brownwood Hotel and Spa. $300 for spa hydration facial and full body massage. She’ll love it and you for it. There are different packages you can buy but a flat dollar amount allows her to choose the services she wants.

kendi
10-24-2023, 07:52 AM
Don’t do this unless you know for certain she would enjoy it. Surprisingly not all women do. A nice day trip or overnight is an alternative. There are so many beautiful places in Florida.

Agree. I for one am not a fan of spa days

midiwiz
10-24-2023, 08:07 AM
My wife is turning 50 in November and I was thinking of gifting her a spa day or something similar. Does anyone know of a women’s spa that is local to the Villages area that would be a good place to book a day of pampering for her birthday?

Also, other birthday ideas in case you think of an alternate to a spa package.

Thanks in advance!

message from the wife - take her on a cruise long or short doesn't matter, there's a spa on the ship.

TeresaA
10-24-2023, 08:10 AM
Money works for this guy. Wife can do as she wishes.


No money, there’s no thought put into that. The majority of women would like a gift where there was effort.

rpalumberi
10-24-2023, 08:38 AM
My wife is turning 50 in November and I was thinking of gifting her a spa day or something similar. Does anyone know of a women’s spa that is local to the Villages area that would be a good place to book a day of pampering for her birthday?

Also, other birthday ideas in case you think of an alternate to a spa package.

Thanks in advance!

You might want to try the Spa at Brownwood Hotel - we both like it. Classy, new, clean - we've been going for the past 3 years now every 3 months or so, never disappointed.

Lea N
10-24-2023, 01:03 PM
My husband traveled back and forth to Europe on business for most of his working life. When I hit the dreaded big Five O he was in Scotland and I was feeling very sorry for myself. He called me early in the morning on my birthday and told me my gift was in the closet. The gift was a very beautiful antique solid gold key on a fine gold chain with a note saying "You have the key to my heart". I was shocked because he is a very stiff upper lip kinda guy and this was a real surprise. I wear that key every day and he has never done anything that romantic since.

Sweet.

dtennent
10-25-2023, 09:44 AM
Whatever you decide to give for a gift, the presentation counts as well. Consider starting a week ahead with a series of a small gift each day culminating with the large gift on her birthday. The gifts don’t have to be big but something which you have put thought into. For instance, a letter talking about your life together, a nice scarf, a box of four truffles…you get the idea. At first, she will think you are crazy. By the day of her birthday , she will have built up a great sense of anticipation. Hope you are successful in giving her a tremendous day.

Stu from NYC
10-25-2023, 12:54 PM
message from the wife - take her on a cruise long or short doesn't matter, there's a spa on the ship.

Be wary of a cruise ships spa. They hard sell all kinds of things that nobody has heard of.