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Michael 61
07-11-2024, 04:38 PM
As luck would have it, my 2023 Gas Yahama Cart without warning, completely shut off while coming out of a tunnel under Meggison, just south of the Brownwood bridge. Has a full tank of gas. A kind lady was behind me and assisted me in pushing it away from the tunnel entrance, and near the ramp of the path. I called Villages Golf Carts, who advised me I was still under warranty, and called my cart tow insurer (American Golf Cart Association), who were very punctual, sending out a tow about 25 minutes after my call.

While waiting for the tow, I thought it would be interesting to track how many cart drivers would check-in with me or offer assistance while I was broken down at the entrance to the tunnel. Almost 100 carts passed me during this waiting time. About two-thirds of the carts either stopped or asked if I needed help as they passed me. Several offered me water. Several were willing to wait with me until the tow came. One offered to meet me at Villages Golf Carts and drive me back to my home.

Of the remaining third, half of that group did smile and wave at me, but kept on driving. The other half of that third did not make eye contact with me and kept driving past me.

Overall, I was very impressed with the friendliness and willingness of the vast majority of those who came upon me while I was waiting for a tow. This is truly an extremely friendly and caring community. I don’t think you’d have that many good samaritans stop in other places in this country. I’m very grateful to those who stopped and offered their encouraging words, and I am so blessed to be here in The Villages. It truly is America’s Friendliest hometown!

Altavia
07-11-2024, 06:14 PM
Nice post Michael!

Taltarzac725
07-11-2024, 06:58 PM
Nice to hear.


As luck would have it, my 2023 Gas Yahama Cart without warning, completely shut off while coming out of a tunnel under Meggison, just south of the Brownwood bridge. Has a full tank of gas. A kind lady was behind me and assisted me in pushing it away from the tunnel entrance, and near the ramp of the path. I called Villages Golf Carts, who advised me I was still under warranty, and called my cart tow insurer (American Golf Cart Association), who were very punctual, sending out a tow about 25 minutes after my call.

While waiting for the tow, I thought it would be interesting to track how many cart drivers would check-in with me or offer assistance while I was broken down at the entrance to the tunnel. Almost 100 carts passed me during this waiting time. About two-thirds of the carts either stopped or asked if I needed help as they passed me. Several offered me water. Several were willing to wait with me until the tow came. One offered to meet me at Villages Golf Carts and drive me back to my home.

Of the remaining third, half of that group did smile and wave at me, but kept on driving. The other half of that third did not make eye contact with me and kept driving past me.

Overall, I was very impressed with the friendliness and willingness of the vast majority of those who came upon me while I was waiting for a tow. This is truly an extremely friendly and caring community. I don’t think you’d have that many good samaritans stop in other places in this country. I’m very grateful to those who stopped and offered their encouraging words, and I am so blessed to be here in The Villages. It truly is America’s Friendliest hometown!

shaw8700@outlook.com
07-11-2024, 07:59 PM
That’s why I LOVE TV!

ThirdOfFive
07-12-2024, 06:37 AM
As luck would have it, my 2023 Gas Yahama Cart without warning, completely shut off while coming out of a tunnel under Meggison, just south of the Brownwood bridge. Has a full tank of gas. A kind lady was behind me and assisted me in pushing it away from the tunnel entrance, and near the ramp of the path. I called Villages Golf Carts, who advised me I was still under warranty, and called my cart tow insurer (American Golf Cart Association), who were very punctual, sending out a tow about 25 minutes after my call.

While waiting for the tow, I thought it would be interesting to track how many cart drivers would check-in with me or offer assistance while I was broken down at the entrance to the tunnel. Almost 100 carts passed me during this waiting time. About two-thirds of the carts either stopped or asked if I needed help as they passed me. Several offered me water. Several were willing to wait with me until the tow came. One offered to meet me at Villages Golf Carts and drive me back to my home.

Of the remaining third, half of that group did smile and wave at me, but kept on driving. The other half of that third did not make eye contact with me and kept driving past me.

Overall, I was very impressed with the friendliness and willingness of the vast majority of those who came upon me while I was waiting for a tow. This is truly an extremely friendly and caring community. I don’t think you’d have that many good samaritans stop in other places in this country. I’m very grateful to those who stopped and offered their encouraging words, and I am so blessed to be here in The Villages. It truly is America’s Friendliest hometown!
Right on the money.

I walk a lot on the MMPs and scarcely a time goes by, especially on the hotter days, when someone doesn't offer me a ride. Usually several someones. They'll offer water also. Men and women.

Can you think of any other place this size in the country where older folks, both genders, offer a complete stranger a ride? I certainly can't.

Shipping up to Boston
07-12-2024, 06:58 AM
Right on the money.

I walk a lot on the MMPs and scarcely a time goes by, especially on the hotter days, when someone doesn't offer me a ride. Usually several someones. They'll offer water also. Men and women.

Can you think of any other place this size in the country where older folks, both genders, offer a complete stranger a ride? I certainly can't.

Pretty sure there are 'developments'....not just in FL, but across the country where good deeds are practiced on the daily. It's ok to appreciate what you have but unless you've visited/talked to/researched them all....the opinions here are purely subjective. To correct the OP....the correct trademarked marketing slogan is 'FL Friendliest Hometown'....not 'Americas Friendliest Hometown'. The latter...distinction is widely reported as Savannah GA*

*Conde Nast Traveler

LeRoySmith
07-12-2024, 07:34 AM
It sucks that good deeds seem to be unexpected these days. When I think back to rural America in the 60s and 70s, if you were sitting on the side of the road someone stopped without fail.

I still carry jumper cables and a tow strap just in case someone needs a little help.

Stu from NYC
07-12-2024, 08:17 AM
Nice feelgood story

LeRoySmith
07-12-2024, 08:58 AM
[QUOTE=LeRoySmith;2349436]It sucks that good deeds seem to be unexpected these days. When I think back to rural America in the 60s and 70s, if you were sitting on the side of the road someone stopped without fail.

I still carry jumper cables and a tow strap just in case someone needs a little help.[/QUOT


Less lawyers than less sue happy people trying to win getto lottery? :beer3: had several lottery winners right here in villages.

I assume the good samaritan law offers some protection from litigious folks. The way things are going these days there may not be a good sam law any longer?

Shipping up to Boston
07-12-2024, 09:20 AM
[QUOTE=Topspinmo;2349459]

I assume the good samaritan law offers some protection from litigious folks. The way things are going these days there may not be a good sam law any longer?

I don’t know, personally about the Good Samaritan Law for roadside assistance.....I do know you have ‘protections’ under GSL for medical emergencies

Shipping up to Boston
07-12-2024, 09:23 AM
Let’s see how feels in 10 years? Florida sue happy state. Someone might stub their toe getting in Good Samaritan cart and call M & M.

Very true
As has been stated many times....this (FL) has been teetering at the top for years as the most litigious in the nation. Not exactly synonymous with being ‘friendly’!:1rotfl:

fdpaq0580
07-12-2024, 10:22 AM
Very true
As has been stated many times....this (FL) has been teetering at the top for years as the most litigious in the nation. Not exactly synonymous with being ‘friendly’!:1rotfl:

The Villages is not always representative of Florida as a whole, or vice versa. Generally, I think "villagers" are pretty nice.

ThirdOfFive
07-12-2024, 10:53 AM
In many ways TV resembles an earlier, kinder time in America than it does 2024.

Back in the day (1960s, far northern rural Minnesota) hitch hiking was a normal part of things. If you played high school sports, with practices held after school hours, you needed to pretty much find your own way home. For me it was 20 miles one way. Few kids had cars and few parents were available to transport, so if nothing else came available we just hit the road with our thumb out. It rarely took me more than an hour to get home. One time I rode my thumb home from Minneapolis in just over seven hours (the driving time was something like six).

An earlier post mentioned carrying jumper cables and a tow strap. As a former Minnesotan I still do that: old habits are hard to break. Not too far back (already here in TV) a woman visiting across the street came out to find her battery dead. I was doing yardwork and she came over to ask if I could recommend a towing service. I told her I had jumper cables and could probably get her going. She didn't know what "jumper cables" were but agreed, and got her going in a few minutes. I also told her to go straight to a garage w/o turning off the motor to ascertain what was wrong. She did, returning a couple of hours later w/a new battery, and very appreciative for my help.

That's the thing. For many in this day and age that is a rarity. But for many of us Villagers, coming of age when we did, it would be unthinkable NOT to do it.

coffeebean
07-12-2024, 11:54 AM
Michael, what was wrong with your cart? Hope it is all fixed.

I keep hearing from folks on this forum that carts that are broken down on the side of the road are mostly electric because the cart ran out of "juice".

Michael 61
07-12-2024, 01:05 PM
Michael, what was wrong with your cart? Hope it is all fixed.

I keep hearing from folks on this forum that carts that are broken down on the side of the road are mostly electric because the cart ran out of "juice".

I will post once I have a diagnosis - so far no word - my tow reached Villages Golf just before 5pm - Service had already gone home, but sales put me in a “loaner”. I showed up to service dept at 9am this morning to sign authorization, as of 2pm Friday, still waiting for word.

tophcfa
07-12-2024, 04:37 PM
As luck would have it, my 2023 Gas Yahama Cart without warning, completely shut off while coming out of a tunnel under Meggison, just south of the Brownwood bridge. Has a full tank of gas. A kind lady was behind me and assisted me in pushing it away from the tunnel entrance, and near the ramp of the path. I called Villages Golf Carts, who advised me I was still under warranty, and called my cart tow insurer (American Golf Cart Association), who were very punctual, sending out a tow about 25 minutes after my call.

While waiting for the tow, I thought it would be interesting to track how many cart drivers would check-in with me or offer assistance while I was broken down at the entrance to the tunnel. Almost 100 carts passed me during this waiting time. About two-thirds of the carts either stopped or asked if I needed help as they passed me. Several offered me water. Several were willing to wait with me until the tow came. One offered to meet me at Villages Golf Carts and drive me back to my home.

Of the remaining third, half of that group did smile and wave at me, but kept on driving. The other half of that third did not make eye contact with me and kept driving past me.

Overall, I was very impressed with the friendliness and willingness of the vast majority of those who came upon me while I was waiting for a tow. This is truly an extremely friendly and caring community. I don’t think you’d have that many good samaritans stop in other places in this country. I’m very grateful to those who stopped and offered their encouraging words, and I am so blessed to be here in The Villages. It truly is America’s Friendliest hometown!

I had the same experience several years ago when our almost brand new 2015 Club Car’s starter/generator belt snapped on the Multi Modal path running parallel to 466 and Palmer. I was amazed at how many people stopped to offer help. I also fondly remember when we first rented in the Villages many many years ago. We were learning our way around via golf cart and every time we pulled over to look at a map we couldn’t even get the map open before people driving by would stop and ask if they could help us with directions. Those were the good old days, before everyone had an app on their phone telling them where to go and still used a map. It’s wonderful being in a retirement community, where the residents are generally very friendly and are not time constrained and stressed out working full time jobs and raising a family.

Michael 61
07-12-2024, 07:50 PM
I will post once I have a diagnosis - so far no word - my tow reached Villages Golf just before 5pm - Service had already gone home, but sales put me in a “loaner”. I showed up to service dept at 9am this morning to sign authorization, as of 2pm Friday, still waiting for word.

Update - turned out something called my “quick disconnect line” to my battery became loose, which caused the power to my cart to die. Apparently, they see quite a few cases of this with their 2023 Yamaha models. Easy repair (basically just reconnect and tighten) - glad it turned out to be something so minor, and glad I had the tow coverage.

Velvet
07-12-2024, 07:53 PM
Thank you for posting your story, Michael. I previously wrote about how great my neighbors were (and continue to be) after my husband’s sudden death. I hardly knew them before, but suddenly almost everyone on the street, either came over, invited me out, offered food, doggie walks around the block and so on. As Villagers, we really are very lucky to be part of such a caring community.

Velvet
*The Village of Mallory*

Stu from NYC
07-12-2024, 08:42 PM
Update - turned out something called my “quick disconnect line” to my battery became loose, which caused the power to my cart to die. Apparently, they see quite a few cases of this with their 2023 Yamaha models. Easy repair (basically just reconnect and tighten) - glad it turned out to be something so minor, and glad I had the tow coverage.

Guess it is a manufacturers defect. Take a tool with you in the future so you can do that

CarlR33
07-12-2024, 08:56 PM
So what did they find with the cart, LOL?

Ignatz
07-13-2024, 05:47 AM
So what did they find with the cart, LOL?

See post #17. Electrical issue. Easily repaired.

jimdecastro
07-13-2024, 06:01 AM
Michael, there are a lot of posts about an electrical issue on 2023 cars. Ask them before you take it back if that was the issue. There is a known fix and I am sure they will say that is how they fixed it.

jimdecastro
07-13-2024, 06:02 AM
The OP wrote post 17.

jimdecastro
07-13-2024, 06:02 AM
Sorry I saw post 17 after I wrote post 22.

daca55
07-13-2024, 06:17 AM
I bought my home in TV about 14 years ago before we all had GPS. I can remember driving my golf cart with a map all the time and usually got lost. Every time people would see me on the side of the path or road looking at a map they would stop and ask where I was trying to go and help me out. That happened every time I got lost. One guy saw me down by the Havana Country club one night trying to figure on a map how to get to the Village of Buttonwood. He tried to explain how to get there and then said forget all those directions and just follow me. He took me almost to my house. I thanked him and asked him where he lived in Buttonwood area and he said I don”t live around here I live down by the Havana Country Club. I said you drove all that way just to help me, someone you don’t even know and he said yes because that’s what we do in the Villages. He said your day will come when it will be your turn to help someone. He was right! I have never forgotten that night and the kindness that guy showed me so I am not at all surprised the kindness the OP received mentioned in this post.

McClendons
07-13-2024, 06:47 AM
Guess it is a manufacturers defect. Take a tool with you in the future so you can do that

On my 24 Yamaha Drive 2, the battery quick disconnect was an option (which I did not get). I do not believe it is a Yamaha product, but instead aftermarket, so should not be a widespread issue with the Drive 2.

Carts have a fair bit of vibration, and that can loosen many fasteners, especially if not torqued correctly from start. I would suggest that the OP find where the lose connection happened, then check it once in a while in the near future. If it begins to loosen again, might consider some loctite Purple or at most Blue to help keep it tight. Do NOT use high strength (Loctite Red) as it becomes semi permanent.

Girlcopper
07-13-2024, 06:52 AM
Right on the money.

I walk a lot on the MMPs and scarcely a time goes by, especially on the hotter days, when someone doesn't offer me a ride. Usually several someones. They'll offer water also. Men and women.

Can you think of any other place this size in the country where older folks, both genders, offer a complete stranger a ride? I certainly can't.
I don’t believe that kindness is unique to the Villages at all. Most “age restricted “, “old” communities of people offer to help. Sounds like plenty just drove by

maistocars
07-13-2024, 07:02 AM
Pretty sure there are 'developments'....not just in FL, but across the country where good deeds are practiced on the daily. It's ok to appreciate what you have but unless you've visited/talked to/researched them all....the opinions here are purely subjective. To correct the OP....the correct trademarked marketing slogan is 'FL Friendliest Hometown'....not 'Americas Friendliest Hometown'. The latter...distinction is widely reported as Savannah GA*

*Conde Nast Traveler
Widely reported? Are you kidding? Come on now....Savannah is a city - no comparison. The Villages is a special place with a lot of special people, 99% who are super friendly. I've lived all over the U.S. and nothing compares to what we have here with the 150,000 people who are enjoying life and each other.

NotGolfer
07-13-2024, 07:21 AM
Several years ago my cart developed issues and stopped on the MM along Morse but before Odell. I was still a ways from home. Tried calling for help without success. A woman stopped and asked if she could help PLUS asked where I lived. She told me she was having lunch at Mallory but would be happy to take me home, which was past there quite a ways. So she took me home. I don't think she told me her name but I was so grateful. Another time my cart stalled in a tunnel and several came and pushed me to the grass at the top and I think that time took me home as well. There are so many helpful people who live here!!

Hplaw
07-13-2024, 07:36 AM
I would like to share my "friendly Villager's" story. Our first visit (Life Style Visit) we jumped on our golf cart in Brownwood area to meet friends in Lake Sumpter who said it's about 1/2 way for both of us to meet. Well....no GPS, never been to the Villages, a map that was confusing and we were riding around lost. Every time we pulled over, someone stopped and asked to help. A man stopped after another of the many times we pulled over and had us follow him all the way to Sumpter. After the evening's events we thought "we can get back ourselves". . Hours later, driving on the road, through golf courses (I kid you not)...and cell phones dying; we saw a house with a man outside. We pulled up and told him our situation. He offered his home to charge our phones. We asked him how far Brownwood was and he said about an hour by cart! This was probably 10 pm. We asked him if we could leave the cart at his house and pick it up in the morning. We called our friends who picked us up in their car and took us back to the rental. The next day we did get the cart and got it back to the rental. The man was so kind, took care of the cart and we were on our way. I was ready to leave and never return. The kindness of everyone we encountered was wonderful. We have returned and now 5 years later, rent every April and have become pretty good at getting anywhere on the golf cart.......thanks to the GPS app too! It is a wonderful place to be and 90% of the people are always helpful, cheerful and kind.

CybrSage
07-13-2024, 08:42 AM
To correct the OP....the correct trademarked marketing slogan is 'FL Friendliest Hometown'....not 'Americas Friendliest Hometown'. The latter...distinction is widely reported as Savannah GA*

*Conde Nast Traveler

Chances of Becoming a Victim of a Violent Crime in the Villages is 1 IN 3,766, a 0.03% chance.
In Savannah it is 1 in 45, a 2.2% chance.
You are about 100 times more likely to be a victim of a violent crime in Savannah.

You have a very different view of friendly than I have. To each their own, though.

Dusty_Star
07-13-2024, 09:13 AM
I agree with some of the others who said The Villages is like America 60 years ago. Maybe the tag line America's Friendliest Home Town helps to self select helpful & friendly people who want to be with others like them.

Micizel
07-13-2024, 09:18 AM
Update - turned out something called my “quick disconnect line” to my battery became loose, which caused the power to my cart to die. Apparently, they see quite a few cases of this with their 2023 Yamaha models. Easy repair (basically just reconnect and tighten) - glad it turned out to be something so minor, and glad I had the tow coverage.

We have the same issue with our 2023 cart. The connection loosens up so just keep an eye on it. We forget to check it and once in awhile the cart just dies or doesn’t go when we hit the gas pedal. We just pull up the seat and tighten the connection and we’re good to go.

We’ve been on both ends of needing help and provided help numerous times. It’s nice to know someone will probably offer help if/when you need it.

DebGoen
07-13-2024, 09:19 AM
What a nice post! Thanks for sharing and hope your cart is all good soon! We share your perspective on feeling blessed to have a home in TV 🎉

Robojo
07-13-2024, 09:32 AM
As luck would have it, my 2023 Gas Yahama Cart without warning, completely shut off while coming out of a tunnel under Meggison, just south of the Brownwood bridge. Has a full tank of gas. A kind lady was behind me and assisted me in pushing it away from the tunnel entrance, and near the ramp of the path. I called Villages Golf Carts, who advised me I was still under warranty, and called my cart tow insurer (American Golf Cart Association), who were very punctual, sending out a tow about 25 minutes after my call.

While waiting for the tow, I thought it would be interesting to track how many cart drivers would check-in with me or offer assistance while I was broken down at the entrance to the tunnel. Almost 100 carts passed me during this waiting time. About two-thirds of the carts either stopped or asked if I needed help as they passed me. Several offered me water. Several were willing to wait with me until the tow came. One offered to meet me at Villages Golf Carts and drive me back to my home.

Of the remaining third, half of that group did smile and wave at me, but kept on driving. The other half of that third did not make eye contact with me and kept driving past me.

Overall, I was very impressed with the friendliness and willingness of the vast majority of those who came upon me while I was waiting for a tow. This is truly an extremely friendly and caring community. I don’t think you’d have that many good samaritans stop in other places in this country. I’m very grateful to those who stopped and offered their encouraging words, and I am so blessed to be here in The Villages. It truly is America’s Friendliest hometown!

Just wait until a bush dies or something on your property. They'll be out there taking pics and sending complaints.

Two Bills
07-13-2024, 10:03 AM
My wife and I have travelled by car since the early 80's over much of the US and Canada.
We are not city comfortable types and stick to the small towns, open highways and countryside.
We have some wonderful memories and stories of the people we have met, unsolicited help and hospitality from total strangers, and sites we have seen
We once even had an escort of over a dozen hairy great lumps of terrifying looking Nomad Bikers escort us to our overnight stop, when we were a little off course.
Over the years, we have found that if you greet people with a smile, a friendly word, good things happen.

rsmurano
07-13-2024, 10:40 AM
Savannah GA! Not even close. Crime is terrible, gangs all around. Used to be a very nice place to visit many many years ago. Check what people and the mayor have to say about Savannah;

Savannah Mayor Van Johnson responds to claims of gang activity | WSAV-TV (https://www.wsav.com/crime-safety/savannah-mayor-van-johnson-responds-to-claims-of-gang-activity/amp/)

https://youtu.be/CLo8bb9rAJE

Velvet
07-13-2024, 10:51 AM
Just wait until a bush dies or something on your property. They'll be out there taking pics and sending complaints.

The fact that they may not like your property going to the dumps does not mean they won’t be there when you are in need. Completely different situations.

azcindy
07-13-2024, 11:20 AM
As luck would have it, my 2023 Gas Yahama Cart without warning, completely shut off while coming out of a tunnel under Meggison, just south of the Brownwood bridge. Has a full tank of gas. A kind lady was behind me and assisted me in pushing it away from the tunnel entrance, and near the ramp of the path. I called Villages Golf Carts, who advised me I was still under warranty, and called my cart tow insurer (American Golf Cart Association), who were very punctual, sending out a tow about 25 minutes after my call.

While waiting for the tow, I thought it would be interesting to track how many cart drivers would check-in with me or offer assistance while I was broken down at the entrance to the tunnel. Almost 100 carts passed me during this waiting time. About two-thirds of the carts either stopped or asked if I needed help as they passed me. Several offered me water. Several were willing to wait with me until the tow came. One offered to meet me at Villages Golf Carts and drive me back to my home.

Of the remaining third, half of that group did smile and wave at me, but kept on driving. The other half of that third did not make eye contact with me and kept driving past me.

Overall, I was very impressed with the friendliness and willingness of the vast majority of those who came upon me while I was waiting for a tow. This is truly an extremely friendly and caring community. I don’t think you’d have that many good samaritans stop in other places in this country. I’m very grateful to those who stopped and offered their encouraging words, and I am so blessed to be here in The Villages. It truly is America’s Friendliest hometown!

Really nice to see posts like this. Thank you for posting Michael.

Shipping up to Boston
07-13-2024, 01:03 PM
Widely reported? Are you kidding? Come on now....Savannah is a city - no comparison. The Villages is a special place with a lot of special people, 99% who are super friendly. I've lived all over the U.S. and nothing compares to what we have here with the 150,000 people who are enjoying life and each other.


No comparison? Savannah pop. is 2K less than TV (148K). Pick your own source....OP called the TV "America's Friendliest Hometown"...the other poster asked if there was any other place in the country like TV...so based on those posts, you will see that Savannah tops most lists using those search specifics. As far as you vouching for '99%' of 150K Villagers 'super friendly' mannerisms and their opinions on quality of life....i'll let that one stand on its own 'merit'!

Nobody is arguing that TV is a 'special place'....but enough with the 'ive lived everywhere in the country' and 'this is the friendliest place in the country' narratives. Enjoy your life and stop marginalizing areas....and people you've never lived....or met.

thelegges
07-13-2024, 01:39 PM
Michael, what was wrong with your cart? Hope it is all fixed.

I keep hearing from folks on this forum that carts that are broken down on the side of the road are mostly electric because the cart ran out of "juice".

Rarely does anyone post that their electric cart is broken down on the side of the MMP. It would cause 100 posts about which is better, and why you should or shouldn’t own one

Shipping up to Boston
07-13-2024, 01:50 PM
Chances of Becoming a Victim of a Violent Crime in the Villages is 1 IN 3,766, a 0.03% chance.
In Savannah it is 1 in 45, a 2.2% chance.
You are about 100 times more likely to be a victim of a violent crime in Savannah.

You have a very different view of friendly than I have. To each their own, though.

The OP post was specific to 'Americas Friendliest Hometown' ....i have several posts now in response to his...and others, on that premise. If you now want to pivot to crime....maybe one of our ToTV members can repost the 'friendly' neighbors video...of her being rag dolled by her bf in her Villages driveway...under her Ring camera. The point, on your newest submission to this topic...no one is immune to violent crime...not even those that live in 'gated bubbles'!

Shipping up to Boston
07-13-2024, 01:54 PM
My wife and I have travelled by car since the early 80's over much of the US and Canada.
We are not city comfortable types and stick to the small towns, open highways and countryside.
We have some wonderful memories and stories of the people we have met, unsolicited help and hospitality from total strangers, and sites we have seen
We once even had an escort of over a dozen hairy great lumps of terrifying looking Nomad Bikers escort us to our overnight stop, when we were a little off course.
Over the years, we have found that if you greet people with a smile, a friendly word, good things happen.

Which the dismissive wing of To TV...cant wrap their collective heads around. This is a great, objective post!

La lamy
07-14-2024, 05:31 AM
Thanks for this Michael, good to know the majority in TV are nice people!!!

ThirdOfFive
07-14-2024, 06:35 AM
Thanks for this Michael, good to know the majority in TV are nice people!!!
The overwhelming majority, in my opinion.

Those who aren't stand out because of their rarity.

JMintzer
07-14-2024, 03:24 PM
I was having a "geyser" problem with my sprinkler. A member here offered to come over and fix it for me. While he was here he also replaced two other sprinkler heads to increase their coverage, and helped me re-aim a few others.

When he was done, I asked what I owed him. "We're good, I like helping people do this" was his response.

I forced him to take some money for his parts and time.

Inspector Mark
07-14-2024, 06:16 PM
Several years ago when we were just visiting the Villages, we were lost and on the side of a MOP looking at a map, I was really impressed by the number of people who stoped to offer us help. That's when I knew the Villages was a place for me. Now I always stop if I see someone on the side of a path.

Michael 61
07-14-2024, 07:57 PM
Thanks everyone who shared their stories of being the recipient of “acts of kindness” here in The Villages! In a crazy world, it’s stories like these that show there is still a lot of goodness around us.

tophcfa
07-14-2024, 10:22 PM
Thanks everyone who shared their stories of being the recipient of “acts of kindness” here in The Villages! In a crazy world, it’s stories like these that show there is still a lot of goodness around us.

Way more good than bad out there. Unfortunately, people tend to focus on the bad and let the good slide by. Definitely a refreshing thread : )