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denisez1815
08-14-2024, 11:14 AM
Hello everyone, me & my husband just moved here a little over a month ago from Ohio. My question is that our neighbor on one side is a "snowbird" & apparently won't be back until November & he does get the lawn mowed but the weeds are growing so high. I already had to pull the ones that are next to the garage. I hate to complain but I thought property owners are supposed to keep up on that ? Thanks in advance.
retiredguy123
08-14-2024, 11:21 AM
Take a photo and show it to the Community Standards office located at 984 Old Mill Run. If it is a violation, they will enforce it by contacting the owner. Note that the website for a lot of Villages management information is "districtgov.org".
tophcfa
08-14-2024, 11:32 AM
Hello everyone, me & my husband just moved here a little over a month ago from Ohio. My question is that our neighbor on one side is a "snowbird" & apparently won't be back until November & he does get the lawn mowed but the weeds are growing so high. I already had to pull the ones that are next to the garage. I hate to complain but I thought property owners are supposed to keep up on that ? Thanks in advance.
Worrying about hurricanes, a failure of the A/C system, and weeds top the list of snowbird concerns while away. No matter how hard we try to keep our weeds under control when not there during the growing season, it’s a loosing battle. We try to never not get to our house for longer than a two month absence, so our weeds never get totally out of control, but they definitely start to look unsightly. Our yard never looks better than when we leave after spending the winter and early spring. If your neighbor isn’t there for several months, without having a service keep the weeds under control, I can see your dilemma. You’re stuck between reporting them to community standards and potentially getting off to a bad start with them, and having to look at the unsightly weeds. I would suggest trying to contact the neighbors directly and explaining the situation to them. Best of luck.
CoachKandSportsguy
08-14-2024, 11:39 AM
weeds are the worst. . . My mom's house went from having a nice lawn to all weeds in a month. . .
stupid design Mother Nature, what were you thinking!
Bogie Shooter
08-14-2024, 11:49 AM
Worrying about hurricanes, a failure of the A/C system, and weeds top the list of snowbird concerns while away. No matter how hard we try to keep our weeds under control when not there during the growing season, it’s a loosing battle. We try to never not get to our house for longer than a two month absence, so our weeds never get totally out of control, but they definitely start to look unsightly. Our yard never looks better than when we leave after spending the winter and early spring. If your neighbor isn’t there for several months, without having a service keep the weeds under control, I can see your dilemma. You’re stuck between reporting them to community standards and potentially getting off to a bad start with them, and having to look at the unsightly weeds. I would suggest trying to contact the neighbors directly and explaining the situation to them. Best of luck.
Good suggestion to contact the neighbor. That’s being a good neighbor. Don’t turn them in as the first step!
justjim
08-14-2024, 11:52 AM
Weeds grow up quickly in Florida. They can be a problem for a snowbird or sunbird who owns property here. First, it’s not easy to get someone to spray or pull weeds. I know because we are a sunbird and spend a month or two up north in the summer. Sometimes you can work with a good neighbor to do it for you. Of course, you make it worth their time. A snowbird might be gone six months or longer. Additionally, some lawn companies will take care of the weeds but my experience is most don’t want to fool with weeds. Weeds are a problem you have stay on top to get it done. I always get a “house watch person” , friend or neighbor who has my number and a key when I’m gone. Things can happen even if you leave for a two or three week vacation. Sometimes a mowing company will just suddenly go out of business or your air conditioner goes out that’s when you really need a neighbor or a house watch to have your key and phone number. You can check around your neighborhood to see if someone has this neighbors number and have them called. Some people are very “private” until you get to know them better and you mentioned you just moved to The Villages. Good luck.
scubawva
08-14-2024, 12:51 PM
I’d not turn them in. You want a good long term friendly relationship.
I just pull the weeds that might get into my yard. I can wait a few months for the neighbors and talk to them.
Since it’s been only a month they may have a service - with the rains a lot of yard services are behind.
There’s a lot worse things than weeds. If you can wait until you meet them, work it out in person.
Have you talked to other neighbors? If this isn’t an ongoing issue wait.
Stu from NYC
08-14-2024, 01:48 PM
I’d not turn them in. You want a good long term friendly relationship.
I just pull the weeds that might get into my yard. I can wait a few months for the neighbors and talk to them.
Since it’s been only a month they may have a service - with the rains a lot of yard services are behind.
There’s a lot worse things than weeds. If you can wait until you meet them, work it out in person.
Have you talked to other neighbors? If this isn’t an ongoing issue wait.
Contacting the neighbors is best advise. If you do not have any info does any of your other neighbors have it?
retiredguy123
08-14-2024, 03:21 PM
I don't disagree with contacting the owner, if possible. But, don't you think it would be good to know if they are violating any rules before doing so? What is the rule for weeds in your yard? I don't know, but Community Standards should be able to advise the OP.
Papa_lecki
08-14-2024, 04:55 PM
If you can contact the neighbors, let them know their weeding service hasn’t been at the house in a few weeks and they may not want to pay them.
Bogie Shooter
08-14-2024, 05:02 PM
I don't disagree with contacting the owner, if possible. But, don't you think it would be good to know if they are violating any rules before doing so? What is the rule for weeds in your yard? I don't know, but Community Standards should be able to advise the OP.
Keep community standards out of it.
Follow the advice of posters to resolve it with the neighbors.
Gpsma
08-14-2024, 05:16 PM
Your neighbor has his lawn mowed weekly and that will take care of the weeds on his lawn. You are worried about some weeds next to your garage that the lawn mower didnt get? And youre only here a month?
Welcome to Florida
Pugchief
08-14-2024, 05:18 PM
Hello everyone, me & my husband just moved here a little over a month ago from Ohio. My question is that our neighbor on one side is a "snowbird" & apparently won't be back until November & he does get the lawn mowed but the weeds are growing so high. I already had to pull the ones that are next to the garage. I hate to complain but I thought property owners are supposed to keep up on that ? Thanks in advance.
Can you post a picture? We are gone most of the summer, and the weeds in the rock beds are a nuisance but rarely grow "so high". Curious how bad it really is and if it's worth causing strife with the neighbors over.
retiredguy123
08-14-2024, 07:56 PM
If you can contact the neighbors, let them know their weeding service hasn’t been at the house in a few weeks and they may not want to pay them.
Are you are assuming that they have a weeding service? Most people don't.
retiredguy123
08-14-2024, 07:58 PM
Keep community standards out of it.
Follow the advice of posters to resolve it with the neighbors.
I don't agree. I would like to know if their property is violating any rules before I contact them about it.
MicRoDrafting
08-15-2024, 04:34 AM
may want to try to contact owner first.
“IF” as you mentioned they have a lawn service, the landscaper may not be showing up weekly while they are absent, BUT charging for a weekly service.
Difficult for homeowner to flip expense of violation to the landscaper
Drakeswood
08-15-2024, 04:51 AM
Hello everyone, me & my husband just moved here a little over a month ago from Ohio. My question is that our neighbor on one side is a "snowbird" & apparently won't be back until November & he does get the lawn mowed but the weeds are growing so high. I already had to pull the ones that are next to the garage. I hate to complain but I thought property owners are supposed to keep up on that ? Thanks in advance.
Our neighbors are
Our very kind neighbors contact us when the weeds are out of control in our otherwise low maintenance frontage. We then prompt our property manager that the routine yardman he employs has neglected to provide service. However, it seems that is a far too common occurrence over the past 7 years of ownership. It is sad but true that the yardmen are not trustworthy unless supervised. This year, we hope for compliance by requesting the fellow(s) to send “before” and “after” photos.
Only time will tell.
retiredguy123
08-15-2024, 05:13 AM
Some posters have suggested contacting the neighbor. I recommended taking a photo and showing it to Community Standards. They can determine if the neighbor is violating any rules or deed restrictions. They may tell you that there is no violation. In that case, contacting a neighbor, who is out-of-town and who the OP doesn't know, about something that is not a violation, would not be the neighborly thing to do. Even if there is a violation, you don't need to file a complaint, if the neighbor will correct it. My opinion.
MikeN
08-15-2024, 05:30 AM
Please try to contact your neighbor first. If they won’t do anything is one thing but just turning them in to community standards is not a neighborly thing to do
mkjelenbaas
08-15-2024, 05:35 AM
Hello everyone, me & my husband just moved here a little over a month ago from Ohio. My question is that our neighbor on one side is a "snowbird" & apparently won't be back until November & he does get the lawn mowed but the weeds are growing so high. I already had to pull the ones that are next to the garage. I hate to complain but I thought property owners are supposed to keep up on that ? Thanks in advance.
Take a pic and send it to him and suggest the company he has doing the lawn is not doing in his absence- this happened to me (Deans) and I appreciated the notice - be careful of scammers when being a snow bird!!
Papa_lecki
08-15-2024, 05:37 AM
Are you are assuming that they have a weeding service? Most people don't.
No, I actually am assuming they don’t have one,
but the technique suggests to the snowbirds that they should have one or at least let’s them know in a nice way the weeds are too high.
waterflower
08-15-2024, 06:01 AM
They are more considerate then neighbors who spray round-up (with a little cancer cookie for you and the animals).
There are many medicinal "weeds" that are benificial to humans. Some are great when dryed for teas.
retiredguy123
08-15-2024, 06:03 AM
They are more considerate then neighbors who spray round-up (with a little cancer cookie for you and the animals).
There are many medicinal "weeds" that are benificial to humans. Some are great when dryed for teas.
The Federal Government says that Round-up does not cause cancer.
Rocksnap
08-15-2024, 06:11 AM
Are you are assuming that they have a weeding service? Most people don't.
Then just how do the weeds get picked?
retiredguy123
08-15-2024, 06:15 AM
Then just how do the weeds get picked?
Most people do it themselves. I use Round-up with a battery operated sprayer. Very convenient.
Byte1
08-15-2024, 06:20 AM
They are more considerate then neighbors who spray round-up (with a little cancer cookie for you and the animals).
There are many medicinal "weeds" that are benificial to humans. Some are great when dryed for teas.
:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl: Yes, perhaps they are developing a weed garden for tea.
M2inOR
08-15-2024, 06:41 AM
My neighbors appreciated that I contacted them about their weeds, especially because they were paying their yard service people to keep everything under control.
Turns out one contractor simply wasn't doing their job.
My wife and I are one of the first to move into our neighborhood of 103 homes. We have an email list to keep everyone informed. We all shared our email and phone contact info.
We all work together to help everyone in our neighborhood.
One thing that is sometimes troublesome is when contractors don't do the work they are being paid to do. Contacting the neighbor directly let's them know to contact their servicepeople.
If the neighbor doesn't take any action, that is when you get the district involved about noncompliance.
Work together with your neighbors!
I do realize this can be difficult when your neighborhood is not organized as we are here in our area of Marsh Bend. Our neighbors are great!
alicevt
08-15-2024, 06:53 AM
We had a weed person who just stopped coming. It took a while to find another so contact your neighbor and see if that’s what happened. It is very hard to find someone reliable. We just have stone!!
retiredguy123
08-15-2024, 06:58 AM
We had a weed person who just stopped coming. It took a while to find another so contact your neighbor and see if that’s what happened. It is very hard to find someone reliable. We just have stone!!
I have found that most lawn services do not pull weeds.
nn0wheremann
08-15-2024, 07:01 AM
Take a photo and show it to the Community Standards office located at 984 Old Mill Run. If it is a violation, they will enforce it by contacting the owner. Note that the website for a lot of Villages management information is "districtgov.org".
Or look up their contact information on the Couny Assessor website, and send the picture. Maybe they will appreciate a thoughtful neighbor letting them know about a problem.
CybrSage
08-15-2024, 07:07 AM
Take a pic and send it to him and suggest the company he has doing the lawn is not doing in his absence- this happened to me (Deans) and I appreciated the notice - be careful of scammers when being a snow bird!!
I have had issues with Deana during the snowbird season while they knew I was home.
Going to change to a different company when this contract ends. Not sure who yet.
SaucyJim
08-15-2024, 07:51 AM
I see so much "advice" to contact the neighbor first before "escalating" to the district. Why is my anonymous reporting a violation to the proper, established authorities being a bad neighbor? When I purchased my snowbird property (here full-time now), I knew the rules. I did my due diligence and hired personnel to make sure all was well with my property. No "good neighbor" had to reach out to me or to the proper authorities about weeds in my yard. I handled it knowing that doing so made ME a good neighbor.
When I'm driving through residential areas with my golf cart and see a violation, does it make me a Karen (and I hate that term, but it defines the vitriol expressed towards those who complain either justly or unjustly) to report it? Remember, we're all in this together. When one property slips, others will follow. If you don't want to play by the rules required to live in a planned community (such as a district or HOA), then don't purchase there.
I know. I know. It's a double-edged sword. But if you've ever had a neighbor that destroyed the value of your property (or your quality of life living in it) by the way they cared for (or behaved in) theirs, you can appreciate the value of those rules.
As far as opinions about mowing solving the weed problem, tell that to those around the property where all the seeds are getting blown around. Weeds need to be controlled before they seed. Waiting to mow will not only NOT solve the problem, but exacerbate it.
A civil society - if we can keep it.
{my two cents}
Now I'll wait for the ridicule and death threats. LOL!
Bogie Shooter
08-15-2024, 08:16 AM
I see so much "advice" to contact the neighbor first before "escalating" to the district. Why is my anonymous reporting a violation to the proper, established authorities being a bad neighbor? When I purchased my snowbird property (here full-time now), I knew the rules. I did my due diligence and hired personnel to make sure all was well with my property. No "good neighbor" had to reach out to me or to the proper authorities about weeds in my yard. I handled it knowing that doing so made ME a good neighbor.
When I'm driving through residential areas with my golf cart and see a violation, does it make me a Karen (and I hate that term, but it defines the vitriol expressed towards those who complain either justly or unjustly) to report it? Remember, we're all in this together. When one property slips, others will follow. If you don't want to play by the rules required to live in a planned community (such as a district or HOA), then don't purchase there.
I know. I know. It's a double-edged sword. But if you've ever had a neighbor that destroyed the value of your property (or your quality of life living in it) by the way they cared for (or behaved in) theirs, you can appreciate the value of those rules.
As far as opinions about mowing solving the weed problem, tell that to those around the property where all the seeds are getting blown around. Weeds need to be controlled before they seed. Waiting to mow will not only NOT solve the problem, but exacerbate it.
A civil society - if we can keep it.
{my two cents}
Now I'll wait for the ridicule and death threats. LOL!
Will you keep a 3-ring binder of all those you report, separate sections for your residential (village) area and any other area?
Geeez……..
LeRoySmith
08-15-2024, 08:36 AM
Now I'll wait for the ridicule and death threats. LOL!
dont be so saucy Jim ;)
coleprice
08-15-2024, 08:57 AM
My neighbors on one side are also snowbirds and they hired someone to "watch their house" while they're away. The person that they hired didn't take care of their weeds, so I texted them to let them know. They asked the person "watching" their house to abate the weeds, but the person never did, so I pulled the weeds in the island on their lawn and around their lamp post, then sprayed those two areas. I spray my flower beds for weeds every week, so I now spray the two aforementioned areas in their yard too. It only takes a couple of minutes extra per week. If it's not too much trouble for you, that might be better than reporting them . . . You'll be a good neighbor and keep the neighborhood looking nice.
MrFlorida
08-15-2024, 09:03 AM
I would just buy a can of weed killer and kill the weeds that are on my property. Turning in a new neighbor won't help for a long term relationship.
Emkay56
08-15-2024, 09:36 AM
Hello everyone, me & my husband just moved here a little over a month ago from Ohio. My question is that our neighbor on one side is a "snowbird" & apparently won't be back until November & he does get the lawn mowed but the weeds are growing so high. I already had to pull the ones that are next to the garage. I hate to complain but I thought property owners are supposed to keep up on that ? Thanks in advance.
As a good neighbor, why don’t you contact him and let him know that the weeds are getting out of hand. That’s what our neighbors did when it happened to us.
Number 10 GI
08-15-2024, 09:41 AM
My next door neighbor and the neighbor across the street are snowbirds. They are nice people and great neighbors so when I spray for weeds in my yard I spray the weeds in their yard. I volunteered my help, they did not ask, and they have done me favors and appreciate my efforts to keep their yard in compliance. It takes me all of 20 minutes to do my yard and theirs.
Villagesgal
08-15-2024, 10:10 AM
I simply spray or pull my neighbors weeds on my side when they're gone so I don't have to look at them when I'm spraying my own. Takes only a few minutes and problem solved.
If you want a good relationship with them, and you do, just do that for yourself and for them. Vinegar, salt, and dawn dish soap kills weeds and is nontoxic
Elixir34
08-15-2024, 10:39 AM
I solve the problem with minimal effort. When I trim my yard, I trimmed the neighbors bushes. When I hit my yard with Roundup to control weeds, I hit my neighbors also. Maintains a good relationship with my neighbor and controls the weeds without a lot of effort or expense.
DonnaNi4os
08-15-2024, 10:44 AM
Communication with our neighbors is key to staying happy in the friendliest home town. Reporting them would not be the way I would go. Instead I would attempt to contact them
and assume that they are not aware of the situation. Kindness is key above all else to having a good relationship
Marmaduke
08-15-2024, 11:13 AM
We still have a neighbor who would never give any of us his contact info.
He said, "my wife's sister looks in from time to time."
We said, 'well, if your house gets struck by lightening, or other things of equal or lesser emergence, how will 'she' know?
He shrugged.
Baaaaad Neighbor, who NEVER does anything beyond mandatory mowing.
Absolutely NOTHING to maintain the trees, shrubs and beds.
Hope he "stays" in Michigan because he doesn't do a thing when he's here either.
There's always A FEW!
graciegirl
08-15-2024, 11:30 AM
Are you are assuming that they have a weeding service? Most people don't.
That answer may not be accurate but it is diplomatic. I am a huge fan of diplomacy.
GizmoWhiskers
08-15-2024, 12:19 PM
Your neighbor has his lawn mowed weekly and that will take care of the weeds on his lawn. You are worried about some weeds next to your garage that the lawn mower didnt get? And youre only here a month?
Welcome to Florida
Not necessarily on weed pulling. A lot of landscapers do not include that. There are also the ones that bill for it but don't do the job they bill for and snowbirds trustingly pay.
Weeds are a problem when the seeds blow with the wind and one pays to keep up with them while others may careless so no it's not a insignificant "welcome to FL" moment. Same with landscaping bug treatments.
I would contact the neighbor and let them know its not being done. Then go from there as far as filing a complaint if the weeds continue. I do know that Community Standards doesn't do much unless the yard is over the top unsightly.
Pugchief
08-15-2024, 12:23 PM
The Federal Government says that Round-up does not cause cancer.
Well then, you know it's true. Because the govt is always honest and Monsanto doesn't ever hire lobbyists.
retiredguy123
08-15-2024, 12:34 PM
Well then, you know it's true. Because the govt is always honest and Monsanto doesn't ever hire lobbyists.
You can believe the Government or you can believe a group of lawyers who convinced 12 gullible jurors that Round-up causes cancer.
Pugchief
08-15-2024, 01:36 PM
You can believe the Government or you can believe a group of lawyers who convinced 12 gullible jurors that Round-up causes cancer.
Now that's a tough choice. Is neither an option?
ffresh
08-15-2024, 01:57 PM
We had a weed person who just stopped coming. It took a while to find another so contact your neighbor and see if that’s what happened. It is very hard to find someone reliable. We just have stone!!
YES, this is exactly my present case. Our mower walked away and hasn't come back for whatever reason I have no idea. We thought we had this all worked out before we left. People complain about short staffing in restaurants and big box stores, etc.. Well I can tell you for a fact that finding someone to SHOW UP and cut your grass (as a snowbird, particularly) is next to impossible from 1000 miles away. Did I mention weeds; no one wants to pull weeds. I have made countless phone calls of late. Some promise to show up but never do and the process begins anew ad infinitum - very frustratng and exhausting.
My point is, assuming your neighbor is remiss is an assumption that may be unwarranted. A neighborly phone call/text/email would be in order, upon the assumption that they may be unaware. :shrug:
Incidentally, if you or anyone has any suggestions for mowing in Tall Trees, I'm all ears ... thanks
FredF
jimjamuser
08-15-2024, 02:23 PM
I don't disagree with contacting the owner, if possible. But, don't you think it would be good to know if they are violating any rules before doing so? What is the rule for weeds in your yard? I don't know, but Community Standards should be able to advise the OP.
I agree with this post and I would like to throw a slightly different light on this weed situation. It was stated that they have a lawn service and some have noted that the lawn services can sometimes be less than professional. What I would add is that since these folks have just arrived from Ohio that they may be thinking about GRASS in terms of northern grass which is a different variety than Florida grass.In the summer Florida has many more weed seeds flying around in the air than in Ohio. And weeds here in the villages gets spread by the professional grass cutters themselves. They are NOT going to stop and wash off their lawnmowers blades and undercarriage EACH time between different lawn customers. So THEY also spread WEED seeds. In Ohio, likely most of their neighbors did not leave on vacation for a half of each year. And many were probably younger and cut their own grass. Florida summer heat and RAIN are more the problem than INCONSIDERATE NEIGHBORS. When people move to any NEW location they need to leave some of their former judgments (like summer lawn quality) back at their old location.
jimjamuser
08-15-2024, 02:36 PM
Most people do it themselves. I use Round-up with a battery operated sprayer. Very convenient.
There are also propane flame weed killers for those that worry about Round-Up. Burn up those little rascals!
LeRoySmith
08-15-2024, 02:43 PM
There are also propane flame weed killers for those that worry about Round-Up. Burn up those little rascals!
I'm trying the flame thrower approach with mixed results
jimjamuser
08-15-2024, 02:50 PM
My neighbors on one side are also snowbirds and they hired someone to "watch their house" while they're away. The person that they hired didn't take care of their weeds, so I texted them to let them know. They asked the person "watching" their house to abate the weeds, but the person never did, so I pulled the weeds in the island on their lawn and around their lamp post, then sprayed those two areas. I spray my flower beds for weeds every week, so I now spray the two aforementioned areas in their yard too. It only takes a couple of minutes extra per week. If it's not too much trouble for you, that might be better than reporting them . . . You'll be a good neighbor and keep the neighborhood looking nice.
personally, I would not want unauthorized neighbors TRESPASSING on my property. Just being well intentioned should NOT justify trespassing. Maybe they don't appreciate spraying on THEIR yard.
jimjamuser
08-15-2024, 02:55 PM
I solve the problem with minimal effort. When I trim my yard, I trimmed the neighbors bushes. When I hit my yard with Roundup to control weeds, I hit my neighbors also. Maintains a good relationship with my neighbor and controls the weeds without a lot of effort or expense.
Thats OK as long as you have their PERMISSION.
Indydealmaker
08-15-2024, 08:14 PM
I don't disagree with contacting the owner, if possible. But, don't you think it would be good to know if they are violating any rules before doing so? What is the rule for weeds in your yard? I don't know, but Community Standards should be able to advise the OP.
Common sense is a better guide than the rules. Weeds should not be discernable from the frequently mowed lawn.
CarlR33
08-15-2024, 09:22 PM
Can you post a picture? We are gone most of the summer, and the weeds in the rock beds are a nuisance but rarely grow "so high". Curious how bad it really is and if it's worth causing strife with the neighbors over.We drove by a couple of houses close to each other a week ago and the houses quite frankly looked abandoned because how bad the yard had grown with weeds. The front doors even had multiple business cards (I assume for lawn care) stuck in the door. If this was the house next to me I could feel your pain. Take a picture and send it to the neighbor and ask? Heck for all you know the lawn care guy is charging them for weekly when they only mow just before they arrive back from the north, LOL
retiredguy123
08-16-2024, 08:05 AM
OP, I would suggest that you download and read your deed restriction document from the website, "districtgov.org". Here is what mine says about weeds:
"Maintenance of landscaping shall further mean the exercise of generally accepted garden-management practices necessary to promote a healthy, weed-free environment for optimum plant growth".
Obviously, this is very subjective and common sense is not sufficient to ensure the agreement of everyone. That is why I would suggest getting an opinion from the Community Standards office as to whether your neighbor is in compliance with their standards. That is their job. You don't need to "turn them in" but it will at least give you an official opinion when you discuss the issue with the neighbor.
Bogie Shooter
08-16-2024, 09:13 AM
OP, I would suggest that you download and read your deed restriction document from the website, "districtgov.org". Here is what mine says about weeds:
"Maintenance of landscaping shall further mean the exercise of generally accepted garden-management practices necessary to promote a healthy, weed-free environment for optimum plant growth".
Obviously, this is very subjective and common sense is not sufficient to ensure the agreement of everyone. That is why I would suggest getting an opinion from the Community Standards office as to whether your neighbor is in compliance with their standards. That is their job. You don't need to "turn them in" but it will at least give you an official opinion when you discuss the issue with the neighbor.
Doesn’t “getting an opinion” begin the “turning them in” process?
I don’t think Community Standards just drives around giving opinions…….they respond to complaints.
LeRoySmith
08-16-2024, 09:20 AM
Good neighbors are great things to have, we lucked out and are surrounded by a great group of folks. They keep an eye on things while you're gone and let you know so it doesn't get out of hand. I'm confident I could ask anyone of them and I'd get assistance and that goes the other way as well.
In my opinion one of the best things about this place.
mntlblok
08-16-2024, 09:23 AM
We drove by a couple of houses close to each other a week ago and the houses quite frankly looked abandoned because how bad the yard had grown with weeds. The front doors even had multiple business cards (I assume for lawn care) stuck in the door. If this was the house next to me I could feel your pain. Take a picture and send it to the neighbor and ask? Heck for all you know the lawn care guy is charging them for weekly when they only mow just before they arrive back from the north, LOL
That got me wondering about the Community Watch cars we see going by pretty regularly. Still relatively new here so read up on what all they do. No mention of taking notice of such things. Are they discouraged from bringing up such things? Interesting thread. Drove by a perfectly manicured lawn yesterday with a surprisingly tall and thick stand of weeds amongst the shrubbery. Now having to ponder the continuum between that and an abandoned property. . . :-)
While on the subject, I'll take the opportunity to speak highly of "Terrence" - an independant lawn guy I've gotten to know a bit in our neighborhood. I *think* his company is Outdoor Maintenance. No website. The type of person that you like to see succeed. I believe his number is 352-303-6127. Hope it's OK to post that here.
retiredguy123
08-16-2024, 09:27 AM
Doesn’t “getting an opinion” begin the “turning them in” process?
I don’t think Community Standards just drives around giving opinions…….they respond to complaints.
According to Community Standards, they would be glad to provide an opinion based on a photo as to whether the neighbor is violating their deed restriction. It would NOT initiate a complaint. To me, this would be valuable information to have before discussing the issue with the neighbor.
tophcfa
08-16-2024, 01:45 PM
There are also propane flame weed killers for those that worry about Round-Up. Burn up those little rascals!
Knock me over with a feather, look who’s promoting the use of a fossil fuel?
OrangeBlossomBaby
08-16-2024, 02:58 PM
My neighbor goes away for awhile, a couple of times every year. She and I are on good terms, and she asked if I could just keep an eye on the house while she's away. Our neighborhood is a "I have a key" kind of neighborhood. If there's a lightning storm that shorts out the power, I can go into her house and make sure everything's working and the AC doesn't need to be reset. When she's gone, I do the weeding for her. Her lawn guy doesn't go into the flower beds, he only mows the lawn. Hubby and I keep her shrubs trimmed and even, I weed, and she usually pays us (we never told her we expected any money but she offers, so we gratefully accept whatever she puts in the envelope). When she gets back she usually does that stuff herself.
So my suggestion isn't merely to inform your neighbor that their weeds are high - it's to offer to clear up the weeds for them. And maybe your neighbor will buy you dinner to thank you for it, or even pay you for your time and service.
Bogie Shooter
08-16-2024, 03:28 PM
My neighbor goes away for awhile, a couple of times every year. She and I are on good terms, and she asked if I could just keep an eye on the house while she's away. Our neighborhood is a "I have a key" kind of neighborhood. If there's a lightning storm that shorts out the power, I can go into her house and make sure everything's working and the AC doesn't need to be reset. When she's gone, I do the weeding for her. Her lawn guy doesn't go into the flower beds, he only mows the lawn. Hubby and I keep her shrubs trimmed and even, I weed, and she usually pays us (we never told her we expected any money but she offers, so we gratefully accept whatever she puts in the envelope). When she gets back she usually does that stuff herself.
So my suggestion isn't merely to inform your neighbor that their weeds are high - it's to offer to clear up the weeds for them. And maybe your neighbor will buy you dinner to thank you for it, or even pay you for your time and service.
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So much better than calling community standards.
Shipping up to Boston
08-16-2024, 04:17 PM
Hello everyone, me & my husband just moved here a little over a month ago from Ohio. My question is that our neighbor on one side is a "snowbird" & apparently won't be back until November & he does get the lawn mowed but the weeds are growing so high. I already had to pull the ones that are next to the garage. I hate to complain but I thought property owners are supposed to keep up on that ? Thanks in advance.
I’m one of the few on here that doesn’t subscribe to anonymous reporting.....which is not only encouraged by Community Standards, but also a lot of the old guard here in TV. So my advice is simple. Attempt to reach out to your new neighbors and give them the benefit and courtesy of making them aware of the situation. Start your residency off right and avoid the drama!
asianthree
08-17-2024, 04:29 PM
I’m one of the few on here that doesn’t subscribe to anonymous reporting.....which is not only encouraged by Community Standards, but also a lot of the old guard here in TV. So my advice is simple. Attempt to reach out to your new neighbors and give them the benefit and courtesy of making them aware of the situation. Start your residency off right and avoid the drama!
For 17 years, the complaints have been ongoing. If the complaint is filed within the neighborhood I am good with it. Truthfully if I am in the wrong because I either interpret or missed a restriction then, it should be brought up. Three of our homes were submitted, all were within compliance.
I have watched some try to be nice to someone in the neighborhood, and let them know that new landscaping needs ARC, and just file after the fact.
Sometimes it goes well, but mostly it doesn’t. We had the nicest widow 4 houses down, who removed all her landscaping because it was too much trouble. Next door neighbors offered to replace and help her maintain, she started calling late at night, sending ugly mail, and basically became a not so nice person to those who were only try to help. When weekly driveway parties, happened we had authorities show up. It wasn’t easy to live there and like us moved. At least if it was anonymous it might have been easier.
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