Life Is Something Special in The Villages

[Michael 61]

I’ve been here a little over two years now as a full time homeowner. I still can’t wait to wake up early each morning, and see what new adventure will come my way, through activities, meeting new people, and enjoying all The Villages has to offer.

When I leave “the bubble”, even for a great road trip or cruise, I find myself missing The Villages, and I look forward to getting back home. Even when I leave the bubble for a few hours to shop or dine in Ocala, Orlando or Tampa, there is something so comforting when I return and see “The Villages” welcome sign. It’s like I feel safe and secure again.

Does anyone else feel the same? When you start to take The Villages for granted, do you realize how special this place truly is when you leave it for a short period of time?

We are all truly blessed to be residents in this special, one-of-a-kind community.

[hlsboro]

That's what newbies use to say around 12 years ago. Never here them saying it now.

[OrangeBlossomBaby]

When I leave the bubble, I'm reminded of how much I miss Connecticut. In Connecticut when I left the familiarity of my own small community, it was to enjoy the city-scape, or rural areas - and not be inundated with storage facilities, smoke-shops, and run-down trailer parks.

[rustyp]

"Rose-colored glasses are never made in bifocals. Nobody wants to read the small print in dreams".
Ann Landers

[NYBob]

When I leave the bubble, I'm reminded of how much I miss Connecticut. In Connecticut when I left the familiarity of my own small community, it was to enjoy the city-scape, or rural areas - and not be inundated with storage facilities, smoke-shops, and run-down trailer parks.


We're in the process now of deciding between TV or just going back up north, most likely to Avon/Simsbury CT. TV in and of itself is very nice but driving through 'No Man's Land' to get there and back leaves much to be desired.

[tophcfa]

I’ve been here a little over two years now as a full time homeowner. I still can’t wait to wake up early each morning, and see what new adventure will come my way, through activities, meeting new people, and enjoying all The Villages has to offer.

When I leave “the bubble”, even for a great road trip or cruise, I find myself missing The Villages, and I look forward to getting back home. Even when I leave the bubble for a few hours to shop or dine in Ocala, Orlando or Tampa, there is something so comforting when I return and see “The Villages” welcome sign. It’s like I feel safe and secure again.

Does anyone else feel the same? When you start to take The Villages for granted, do you realize how special this place truly is when you leave it for a short period of time?

We are all truly blessed to be residents in this special, one-of-a-kind community.

Agree. Florida is not our calling, but the lifestyle in the bubble is. If the Villages didn’t exist, it is highly unlikely we would own a second home, and if we did, it probably wouldn’t be in Florida.

[Michael 61]

That's what newbies use to say around 12 years ago. Never here them saying it now.

The only real negativity about The Villages I encounter is by a few here on Talk of The Villages (or that other so-called “news” site that I no longer subscribe to). All my friends and neighbors are happy and engaged people who are still as excited to be a part of this unique community as they were a few years ago when they moved here. Lots of smiles when I pass most people, and so many friendly, content folks here. Is it just my area of The Villages? Are there more disgruntle people in other parts of The Villages? I’m very interested as to why some here on TOTV seem disillusioned with The Villages. Are these folks naturally dispositioned to be negative? It just seems those few people are so miserable and unhappy with what they post. I feel sad for them. Not how I want to live out my retirement years.

[Bitsee]

Well, it's been my experience that if a person is disgruntled...there's a reason for it.
When we arrived 16 years ago to The Villages as Snowbirds it was indeed very exciting and enjoyed one adventure after another.

However the giddiness did wear off after a few unpleasant experiences we endured there as we recieved a good hearty dose of the reality of The Villages in the process. Am I disgruntled ?
Not particularly, more so enlightened I would say.

The Villages is so outta control with the building there it's insane.
You live in Richmond...a suburb of The Villages most say, the REAL VILLAGES started north near Spanish Springs..not in Coleman.
Mundane overpriced modular starter homes, all alike and on top of each other, with one shopping center for ALL in that area to jam up even more.

Good news though, I did however hear that Eastport is building a dynamite rock climbing wall for us to climb and enjoy.
I'll be starting a betting pool on the 1st broken hip .

So bottom line is ..pop on your rose tinted Rayban's and enjoy every second of living you can and
Don't forget to smile !

Happy Valentine's Day ~

[rustyp]

Well, it's been my experience that if a person is disgruntled...there's a reason for it.
When we arrived 16 years ago to The Villages as Snowbirds it was indeed very exciting and enjoyed one adventure after another.

However the giddiness did wear off after a few unpleasant experiences we endured there as we recieved a good hearty dose of the reality of The Villages in the process. Am I disgruntled ?
Not particularly, more so enlightened I would say.

The Villages is so outta control with the building there it's insane.
You live in Richmond...a suburb of The Villages most say, the REAL VILLAGES started north near Spanish Springs..not in Coleman.
Mundane overpriced modular starter homes, all alike and on top of each other, with one shopping center for ALL in that area to jam up even more.

Good news though, I did however hear that Eastport is building a dynamite rock climbing wall for us to climb and enjoy.
I'll be starting a betting pool on the 1st broken hip .

So bottom line is ..pop on your rose tinted Rayban's and enjoy every second of living you can and
Don't forget to smile !

Happy Valentine's Day ~

Well put.

20 years here now and 130, 000 more people than when I arrived. Is it good here ? yes. Is it the Shangri La I experienced when I first arrived - no. Everything to a newbie is a comparison to where they came from and most likely a new lifestyle. For those of us who have been here for years we have seen many changes. Many for the good oh but some not so good. Our comparison has now migrated to here to here vs here from there.

"Don't it always seem to go
That you don't know what you've got 'til it's gone?
They paved paradise
Put up a parking lot"

I am happy for the newbies and their excitement. I've been there. I am not negative about TV - My excitement level is a bit below yours. If one doesn't like a response why does one keep asking the question over and over again ?

[Michael 61]

These comments help me understand some concerns of long-time residents. They understandably are comparing The Villages of today to the Villages of many years past. The huge influx of newer and younger retirees, like myself, only know The Villages that currently exists, and we have nothing to compare it to. We don’t see it as crowded, and we see all the new development coming as “opportunity “, and welcome it, and it’s even the reason why many of us chose to move here (anticipation of future development). I’m in very good health, and the Lord willing, hope to be around here in TV for 25 or more years. If that holds true, then I’m going to experience a tremendous amount of growth, and the Villages of 2050 will look very different than The Villages of 2025. If TOTV is still around in 25 years, will I be here lamenting of all the changes that have occurred and wishing things were like they were in 2025? Hard to say. I do know that I’m pretty flexible, and actually love change and seek it out, so who knows. In the meantime, life here is pretty awesome, as our most of my fellow Villagers.

[Marathon Man]

These comments help me understand some concerns of long-time residents. They understandably are comparing The Villages of today to the Villages of many years past. The huge influx of newer and younger retirees, like myself, only know The Villages that currently exists, and we have nothing to compare it to. We don’t see it as crowded, and we see all the new development coming as “opportunity “, and welcome it, and it’s even the reason why many of us chose to move here (anticipation of future development). I’m in very good health, and the Lord willing, hope to be around here in TV for 25 or more years. If that holds true, then I’m going to experience a tremendous amount of growth, and the Villages of 2050 will look very different than The Villages of 2025. If TOTV is still around in 25 years, will I be here lamenting of all the changes that have occurred and wishing things were like they were in 2025? Hard to say. I do know that I’m pretty flexible, and actually love change and seek it out, so who knows. In the meantime, life here is pretty awesome, as our most of my fellow Villagers.

We have been here ten years. We still have that "What a great place this is." feeling. Please do not let the unhappy minority put a dent in your happiness. Comparing anything to the 'good old days' doesn't matter. Find your happiness. They may or may not find theirs. There is so much to do and so many great folks to do it with.

[OrangeBlossomBaby]

We're in the process now of deciding between TV or just going back up north, most likely to Avon/Simsbury CT. TV in and of itself is very nice but driving through 'No Man's Land' to get there and back leaves much to be desired.

If you can afford both, maybe do both. If you love The Villages and miss New England, I'd suggest keeping a Villages home as your primary home, for tax purposes. Then rent in Connecticut for October/November - and again in May/June.

Why not snowbird? Because - summers in Connecticut can be just as miserable as summers in Florida. 90+ temps with 80% humidity stinks no matter what state you're in. The only difference, in my opinion, is that in Connecticut you can jump in the creek without worrying about alligators. Being in CT during May is important because you get to avoid the spring love-bug infestation in Florida. There's another one in September but IMO the one in May is worse. Plus late April/early May is when the lilacs are in bloom in CT, and you get the best of the foliage in October, and all the college students are already settled in for the semester.

[rustyp]

Well put.

20 years here now and 130, 000 more people than when I arrived. Is it good here ? yes. Is it the Shangri La I experienced when I first arrived - no. Everything to a newbie is a comparison to where they came from and most likely a new lifestyle. For those of us who have been here for years we have seen many changes. Many for the good oh but some not so good. Our comparison has now migrated to here to here vs here from there.

"Don't it always seem to go
That you don't know what you've got 'til it's gone?
They paved paradise
Put up a parking lot"

I am happy for the newbies and their excitement. I've been there. I am not negative about TV - My excitement level is a bit below yours. If one doesn't like a response why does one keep asking the question over and over again ?

These comments help me understand some concerns of long-time residents. They understandably are comparing The Villages of today to the Villages of many years past. The huge influx of newer and younger retirees, like myself, only know The Villages that currently exists, and we have nothing to compare it to. We don’t see it as crowded, and we see all the new development coming as “opportunity “, and welcome it, and it’s even the reason why many of us chose to move here (anticipation of future development). I’m in very good health, and the Lord willing, hope to be around here in TV for 25 or more years. If that holds true, then I’m going to experience a tremendous amount of growth, and the Villages of 2050 will look very different than The Villages of 2025. If TOTV is still around in 25 years, will I be here lamenting of all the changes that have occurred and wishing things were like they were in 2025? Hard to say. I do know that I’m pretty flexible, and actually love change and seek it out, so who knows. In the meantime, life here is pretty awesome, as our most of my fellow Villagers.

OMG - I am speechless. You are a big man for posting that.

[dewilson58]

That's what newbies use to say around 12 years ago. Never here them saying it now.

hear, not here.

Been here 12 years, I agree with M61

[shaw8700@outlook.com]

My excitement level has leveled off now, mostly due to the restaurants, but I am careful not to blame TV. The developer did a magnificent job putting it here, it’s up to the people to make it something special.

I wake up every day thinking whatever did I do to deserve this place!

[Normal]

We have been here ten years. We still have that "What a great place this is." feeling. Please do not let the unhappy minority put a dent in your happiness. Comparing anything to the 'good old days' doesn't matter. Find your happiness. They may or may not find theirs. There is so much to do and so many great folks to do it with.

Well put. I can’t picture life any better.

[Rwirish]

Oh boy, and no one feels the same.

[bark4me]

That's what newbies use to say around 12 years ago. Never here them saying it now.
You still say it. Just not out loud

[La lamy]

I'm with you Michael, being grateful for this retirement heaven. There will always be change in life and like you, I prefer to be flexible and find a way to be happy. When my home pickleball court stopped being all advanced in early morning, I chose to join a bunch of leagues to get more consistent level of play. Much harder to do that up north where there are much fewer courts and organized leagues, but I consider that my "off season"! There's so much diversity of activities here. Truly blessed retirement.

[JStyles]

[I feel so lucky to live here! My life has changed in such a positive way. I have met so many people and developed some true friendships in less than 1 year. I also miss it when I’m not here and I get that same excitement you describe when I return. 🩵

[BrianL99]

We're in the process now of deciding between TV or just going back up north, most likely to Avon/Simsbury CT. TV in and of itself is very nice but driving through 'No Man's Land' to get there and back leaves much to be desired.

They have airplanes now, that fly over all of "No Man's Land". 😂

[RICH1]

My excitement level has leveled off now, mostly due to the restaurants, but I am careful not to blame TV. The developer did a magnificent job putting it here, it’s up to the people to make it something special.

I wake up every day thinking whatever did I do to deserve this place!
I feel the same, so I bought another house in NC. Fresh air and mountain view's aren't for everyone. As life's clock ticks away, it's time for reflection not roundabouts..

[opinionist]

TV provides a greater sense of community than some rural locations up north.
A complete spectrum of people could be viewed as negative, but I see it as normal.
The unique benefit is the variety of activities that cannot be found elsewhere.

[Switter]

I've been here a year and eight months. The main things I like about Florida are the weather, the beaches, the abundance of lakes in this area for fishing, and that there's no income tax. I also am more suited to the political climate here.

The rest of it is meh. The topography of the interior part of the state is pretty much the same everywhere you go. Aside from the beaches and ocean I don't consider Florida a beautiful state. It kinda has a disheveled look to it.

As for the villages, the development itself is beautiful, unlike any place else I've been. I also really like having access to the swimming pools and multi modal paths (for biking). I have zero interest in the town squares and entertainment.

The one downside for me personally is the lack of a diverse age demographic. Yeah, I know. Duh, you live in a retirement community, lol. I didn't really consider that when I moved here though. I don't know why but I really miss seeing young families and kids. I guess sometimes you don't miss something until it's gone. I have nothing against baby boomers or even Gen Xers (which I am) but when that's all I encounter everywhere I go, it has begun to wear on me.

As for the people here, most I have met seem friendly. I think the problem for me is that I still work and they are on perpetual vacation. Those are two completely different mindsets. And to be honest, I don't know if I will ever have the mindset of being on perpetual vacation. So in the end, I just have a hard time relating with people here.

I have contemplated selling my place in the next couple years and maybe moving over to Inverness. It seems like a nice town. Or possibly to Deland. Clermont looks really nice too but there's too much traffic and it looks too expensive.

The search continues…

[Bay Kid]

It will be 12 years this Sunday that I bought my 1st house. I'm still excited! Nowhere in the world like The Villages.

[Rzepecki]

An irritating thing my mother said to my teenage self was “Life is what you make it.” Very irritating to me then, but very true. Attitude is a choice made when you wake up everyday.

[GATORBILL66]

I’ve been here a little over two years now as a full time homeowner. I still can’t wait to wake up early each morning, and see what new adventure will come my way, through activities, meeting new people, and enjoying all The Villages has to offer.

When I leave “the bubble”, even for a great road trip or cruise, I find myself missing The Villages, and I look forward to getting back home. Even when I leave the bubble for a few hours to shop or dine in Ocala, Orlando or Tampa, there is something so comforting when I return and see “The Villages” welcome sign. It’s like I feel safe and secure again.

Does anyone else feel the same? When you start to take The Villages for granted, do you realize how special this place truly is when you leave it for a short period of time?

We are all truly blessed to be residents in this special, one-of-a-kind community.


Lovin the lifestyle, Livin the dream!

[coleprice]

My wife and I moved to The Villages 5 years ago and love all that there is to do here. We never golfed before and now golf 4 or 5 days a week. Also, we enjoy the music at the Town Squares, the variety of things to do at the Rec Centers and the people we meet here. We've ventured outside the bubble but we've come to realize that resorts that we've stayed at don't compare to The Villages. We are grateful to live here!

[rpalumberi]

I’ve been here a little over two years now as a full time homeowner. I still can’t wait to wake up early each morning, and see what new adventure will come my way, through activities, meeting new people, and enjoying all The Villages has to offer.

When I leave “the bubble”, even for a great road trip or cruise, I find myself missing The Villages, and I look forward to getting back home. Even when I leave the bubble for a few hours to shop or dine in Ocala, Orlando or Tampa, there is something so comforting when I return and see “The Villages” welcome sign. It’s like I feel safe and secure again.

Does anyone else feel the same? When you start to take The Villages for granted, do you realize how special this place truly is when you leave it for a short period of time?

We are all truly blessed to be residents in this special, one-of-a-kind community.

We feel the same way. Wish there wasn't some cranky folks but you find that anywhere.

[Brynnie]

The only real negativity about The Villages I encounter is by a few here on Talk of The Villages (or that other so-called “news” site that I no longer subscribe to). All my friends and neighbors are happy and engaged people who are still as excited to be a part of this unique community as they were a few years ago when they moved here. Lots of smiles when I pass most people, and so many friendly, content folks here. Is it just my area of The Villages? Are there more disgruntle people in other parts of The Villages? I’m very interested as to why some here on TOTV seem disillusioned with The Villages. Are these folks naturally dispositioned to be negative? It just seems those few people are so miserable and unhappy with what they post. I feel sad for them. Not how I want to live out my retirement years.

Your positivity is great, but it's not unusual for new Villagers. We've been here since 2005, and we and our neighbors felt the same for the first 10 years or so. By now, it has worn off. When we moved here, there were 35,000 people living in all of The Villages. Traffic was bearable, the squares weren't crowded with people from everywhere, and it was fun to go listen to the bands, dance, and socialize with neighbors/friends. Not the same anymore. Too many people, too much traffic, and too much chaos. Not the peaceful "retirement community" that we envisioned. Sure, we could move, but that becomes a hassle the older we get. Enjoy yourself! If you're a "young" retiree (between 50 and 65), your generation may feel different about the crowds, traffic, and chaos.

[BigSteph]

I've been here a year and eight months. The main things I like about Florida are the weather, the beaches, the abundance of lakes in this area for fishing, and that there's no income tax. I also am more suited to the political climate here.

The rest of it is meh. The topography of the interior part of the state is pretty much the same everywhere you go. Aside from the beaches and ocean I don't consider Florida a beautiful state. It kinda has a disheveled look to it.

As for the villages, the development itself is beautiful, unlike any place else I've been. I also really like having access to the swimming pools and multi modal paths (for biking). I have zero interest in the town squares and entertainment.

The one downside for me personally is the lack of a diverse age demographic. Yeah, I know. Duh, you live in a retirement community, lol. I didn't really consider that when I moved here though. I don't know why but I really miss seeing young families and kids. I guess sometimes you don't miss something until it's gone. I have nothing against baby boomers or even Gen Xers (which I am) but when that's all I encounter everywhere I go, it has begun to wear on me.

As for the people here, most I have met seem friendly. I think the problem for me is that I still work and they are on perpetual vacation. Those are two completely different mindsets. And to be honest, I don't know if I will ever have the mindset of being on perpetual vacation. So in the end, I just have a hard time relating with people here.

I have contemplated selling my place in the next couple years and maybe moving over to Inverness. It seems like a nice town. Or possibly to Deland. Clermont looks really nice too but there's too much traffic and it looks too expensive.

The search continues…


I agree with most of what you wrote. I also work and I think that it is why it resonates with me.

I work outside the home in Leesburg and I probably have an opportunity to continue working there after retiring - as a part-time contributor. I will probably do that.

When people outside The Villages ask me about TV, I often say "I live in their neighborhood, but not in their world."

It isn't meant to be negative or positive, just explaining that I "live" there, but like most people who work full-time, I don't have any extra bandwidth to give to a lot of the really "cool" stuff that is available inside The Villages.

On Saturdays, I cut the grass and catch up on other home duties I share with my wife.

I played golf for 20 years in Virginia, but I haven't played once here. That is more to do with me and nothing to do with The Villages.

My wife and I spend a discussion or two every month talking about where we might move when we retire. We end every discussion with not thinking of a place better than here. We don't want Cold, but we also loathe the Heat and Humidity here. We don't like the cost of insurance here but, is that enough to move to another state. We like that there is no State Income Tax, yet, the state finds ways to charge fees that tend to balance its coffers.

We went to Hilton Head recently as it has always been our Mecca for retirement. When we visited from Virginia, it was magical. Now that we have lived in TV, the Palms and Live Oaks are meh, we see that every day. The resort properties are no better than TV. The ocean and bays and intercoastal waterways are still magical, so that is compelling. The rough areas of greater Hilton Head are not much better than Wildwood or Leesburg, with less shopping and health care.

Long post, short.... Still not finding somewhere better to move for retirement.

[maistocars]

I’ve been here a little over two years now as a full time homeowner. I still can’t wait to wake up early each morning, and see what new adventure will come my way, through activities, meeting new people, and enjoying all The Villages has to offer.

When I leave “the bubble”, even for a great road trip or cruise, I find myself missing The Villages, and I look forward to getting back home. Even when I leave the bubble for a few hours to shop or dine in Ocala, Orlando or Tampa, there is something so comforting when I return and see “The Villages” welcome sign. It’s like I feel safe and secure again.

Does anyone else feel the same? When you start to take The Villages for granted, do you realize how special this place truly is when you leave it for a short period of time?

We are all truly blessed to be residents in this special, one-of-a-kind community.
I'm with you Michael. Nothing like this place and I've been here 4+ years. I don't miss anything about the Northern states.......

[Nana2Teddy]

I've been here a year and eight months. The main things I like about Florida are the weather, the beaches, the abundance of lakes in this area for fishing, and that there's no income tax. I also am more suited to the political climate here.

The rest of it is meh. The topography of the interior part of the state is pretty much the same everywhere you go. Aside from the beaches and ocean I don't consider Florida a beautiful state. It kinda has a disheveled look to it.

As for the villages, the development itself is beautiful, unlike any place else I've been. I also really like having access to the swimming pools and multi modal paths (for biking). I have zero interest in the town squares and entertainment.

The one downside for me personally is the lack of a diverse age demographic. Yeah, I know. Duh, you live in a retirement community, lol. I didn't really consider that when I moved here though. I don't know why but I really miss seeing young families and kids. I guess sometimes you don't miss something until it's gone. I have nothing against baby boomers or even Gen Xers (which I am) but when that's all I encounter everywhere I go, it has begun to wear on me.

As for the people here, most I have met seem friendly. I think the problem for me is that I still work and they are on perpetual vacation. Those are two completely different mindsets. And to be honest, I don't know if I will ever have the mindset of being on perpetual vacation. So in the end, I just have a hard time relating with people here.

I have contemplated selling my place in the next couple years and maybe moving over to Inverness. It seems like a nice town. Or possibly to Deland. Clermont looks really nice too but there's too much traffic and it looks too expensive.

The search continues…

If you want diversity in age just go hang out at Magnolia Plaza at anytime of the day or evening because it’s full of Middleton families. I miss the days when it was a nice, quiet, mostly seniors shopping center (2 years ago). Yes, I’m a cranky baby boomer. 😜😂

[FFlank]

I’ve been here a little over two years now as a full time homeowner. I still can’t wait to wake up early each morning, and see what new adventure will come my way, through activities, meeting new people, and enjoying all The Villages has to offer.

When I leave “the bubble”, even for a great road trip or cruise, I find myself missing The Villages, and I look forward to getting back home. Even when I leave the bubble for a few hours to shop or dine in Ocala, Orlando or Tampa, there is something so comforting when I return and see “The Villages” welcome sign. It’s like I feel safe and secure again.

Does anyone else feel the same? When you start to take The Villages for granted, do you realize how special this place truly is when you leave it for a short period of time?

We are all truly blessed to be residents in this special, one-of-a-kind community.

I’m with Michael on this one. I’m a couple years behind him, but when I visited TV for a month in 2023, he graciously met me for lunch one afternoon and was a terrific ambassador for The Villages. In two days, I will be driving across the country to move in to my new place near Eastport, and I look forward to the day I can post a similar sentiment. Change is constant, and we can all reflect on days when things were “better” in some way, but enjoying the present moment in a place like TV is what life is all about. My thanks to Michael for his positivity and good nature and here’s to the good times to come for all of us.

[VApeople]

We went to Hilton Head recently as it has always been our Mecca for retirement.

My niece and her husband have a very good home in Blufton. They are selling it and moving to The Villages.

We visited in Hilton Head for a few days and it gave us the creeps - too many pine trees and we thought it was claustrophobic.

[Michael 61]

If you want diversity in age just go hang out at Magnolia Plaza at anytime of the day or evening because it’s full of Middleton families. I miss the days when it was a nice, quiet, mostly seniors shopping center (2 years ago). Yes, I’m a cranky baby boomer. 😜😂

With Publix planned for Eastport, and another grocery store for Middleton, I think you’ll see the crowds decrease somewhat at Magnolia Plaza in the next year or so.

[Michael 61]

I’m with Michael on this one. I’m a couple years behind him, but when I visited TV for a month in 2023, he graciously met me for lunch one afternoon and was a terrific ambassador for The Villages. In two days, I will be driving across the country to move in to my new place near Eastport, and I look forward to the day I can post a similar sentiment. Change is constant, and we can all reflect on days when things were “better” in some way, but enjoying the present moment in a place like TV is what life is all about. My thanks to Michael for his positivity and good nature and here’s to the good times to come for all of us.

Thank You - and congratulations on becoming a Villager! I’m so excited for you, and looking forward to your move here.

[ElDiabloJoe]

This thread is awesome-awesome. Over 35 replies and, thankfully, not one person has lamented about the loss of Katie Belle's.

[Bogie Shooter]

This thread is awesome-awesome. Over 35 replies and, thankfully, not one person has lamented about the loss of Katie Belle's.

Until now………..

[Marmaduke]

... and compared the many Great States that are now at the bottom of the Garbage Heap, it is INDEED Paradise!

[Nana2Teddy]

With Publix planned for Eastport, and another grocery store for Middleton, I think you’ll see the crowds decrease somewhat at Magnolia Plaza in the next year or so.

Hoping you’re right, but honestly my comment was mostly in jest, lol. I don’t mind the young folks at all, just the very crowded parking lot and market with the stock very low a lot of the time. 😊

[SaucyJim]

I’ve been here a little over two years now as a full time homeowner. I still can’t wait to wake up early each morning, and see what new adventure will come my way, through activities, meeting new people, and enjoying all The Villages has to offer.

When I leave “the bubble”, even for a great road trip or cruise, I find myself missing The Villages, and I look forward to getting back home. Even when I leave the bubble for a few hours to shop or dine in Ocala, Orlando or Tampa, there is something so comforting when I return and see “The Villages” welcome sign. It’s like I feel safe and secure again.

Does anyone else feel the same? When you start to take The Villages for granted, do you realize how special this place truly is when you leave it for a short period of time?

We are all truly blessed to be residents in this special, one-of-a-kind community.

I apologize to you for the negativity in the responses you are receiving on your post. I've only been here for about a year, so the "newness" has not worn off for me - yet. But there is this little thing. I tiny thing, really. It probably won't help anyone. It's called GRATITUDE.

We all make choices every waking moment of our lives. For example, I have (obviously) noticed the increased traffic as the weather's "sweet spot" is upon us. This is true even in a golf cart, which I choose over my car whenever possible. When I find myself behind a slower golf cart or a bicycle that is not traveling as fast as my golf cart will go (using this example to make a point - I seldom go as fast as my golf cart will go), I have a CHOICE.

(1) Complain and feel frustrated that the universe does not bow to my every desire -- like a child.
(2) Slow down even more and take in the fresh air, sunshine, and beauty. See the people on the golf courses enjoying their lives. Listen to the music. Remember that I am blessed beyond measure and that, like most people, I live a lifestyle that even kings and queens could not enjoy a couple of centuries ago.

Here's another example. When I come to TOTV and read the posts, I always comment, "And here we go!" to my wife before reading the content. I do this because I have a CHOICE.

(1) Join in on the complaining, moaning, and whining about how poopy the world is and fear for the future of humanity.
(2) Laugh at the ridiculousness of it all, using it as a form of entertainment. Then, post something that will help me to be the change I want to see in the world.

In conclusion, when I see someone else's dog's poop while walking my dogs, I pick it up. Complaining is a lesson in futility.

And in answer to the questions asked in this post: "Does anyone else feel the same? When you start to take The Villages for granted, do you realize how special this place truly is when you leave it for a short period of time?"

Yes.

[gorillarick]

"This thread is awesome-awesome. Over 35 replies and, thankfully, not one person has lamented about the loss of Katie Belle's."

Really don't understand why Katie Belle's disappeared. Best food and fun in TV.
FMK - aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgha

[Bay Kid]

I agree with most of what you wrote. I also work and I think that it is why it resonates with me.

I work outside the home in Leesburg and I probably have an opportunity to continue working there after retiring - as a part-time contributor. I will probably do that.

When people outside The Villages ask me about TV, I often say "I live in their neighborhood, but not in their world."

It isn't meant to be negative or positive, just explaining that I "live" there, but like most people who work full-time, I don't have any extra bandwidth to give to a lot of the really "cool" stuff that is available inside The Villages.

On Saturdays, I cut the grass and catch up on other home duties I share with my wife.

I played golf for 20 years in Virginia, but I haven't played once here. That is more to do with me and nothing to do with The Villages.

My wife and I spend a discussion or two every month talking about where we might move when we retire. We end every discussion with not thinking of a place better than here. We don't want Cold, but we also loathe the Heat and Humidity here. We don't like the cost of insurance here but, is that enough to move to another state. We like that there is no State Income Tax, yet, the state finds ways to charge fees that tend to balance its coffers.

We went to Hilton Head recently as it has always been our Mecca for retirement. When we visited from Virginia, it was magical. Now that we have lived in TV, the Palms and Live Oaks are meh, we see that every day. The resort properties are no better than TV. The ocean and bays and intercoastal waterways are still magical, so that is compelling. The rough areas of greater Hilton Head are not much better than Wildwood or Leesburg, with less shopping and health care.

Long post, short.... Still not finding somewhere better to move for retirement.

In Virginia you should visit the Northern Neck. Surrounded by miles of water on the Chesapeake Bay, creeks and rivers. Beautiful and rural area. The Villages is my other favorite place to be. I'm a lucky guy!

[Jim1mack]

Moved here in ‘14. Live near Brownwood. Perfect location. Everything is a golf cart ride away - except medical. Love it.

[dewilson58]

"This thread is awesome-awesome. Over 35 replies and, thankfully, not one person has lamented about the loss of Katie Belle's."


:1rotfl::1rotfl:

[NorineBerlinski]

Yes Michael, it seems the people who post on this site are negative people who just want to complain.
My husband and I have been here for six years and we feel exactly the same way you do when we leave The Villages and when we return. This is a wonderful place to live and blessed to be here and we do NOT take it for granted.

[jimjamuser]

We're in the process now of deciding between TV or just going back up north, most likely to Avon/Simsbury CT. TV in and of itself is very nice but driving through 'No Man's Land' to get there and back leaves much to be desired.
If you are a year around resident, then you MUST be aware that the summers here are very HOT. With a simple Google you can see that temperatures have been going up for the last 10 years. They will keep increasing. You could spend 4 summer months in Ct. Then you would have the best of both worlds. It would also help in your decision of which is best for you.

[jimjamuser]

The only real negativity about The Villages I encounter is by a few here on Talk of The Villages (or that other so-called “news” site that I no longer subscribe to). All my friends and neighbors are happy and engaged people who are still as excited to be a part of this unique community as they were a few years ago when they moved here. Lots of smiles when I pass most people, and so many friendly, content folks here. Is it just my area of The Villages? Are there more disgruntle people in other parts of The Villages? I’m very interested as to why some here on TOTV seem disillusioned with The Villages. Are these folks naturally dispositioned to be negative? It just seems those few people are so miserable and unhappy with what they post. I feel sad for them. Not how I want to live out my retirement years.
Well, obviously some of us feel that the summers are too HOT and getting HOTTER. That is nothing against The Villages. There are good activities here.

[Normal]

Well, obviously some of us feel that the summers are too HOT and getting HOTTER. That is nothing against The Villages. There are good activities here.

It does get hot here in the summer, but then the heat also generates more open spots for golf and restaurants aren’t as full.

[jimjamuser]

If you can afford both, maybe do both. If you love The Villages and miss New England, I'd suggest keeping a Villages home as your primary home, for tax purposes. Then rent in Connecticut for October/November - and again in May/June.

Why not snowbird? Because - summers in Connecticut can be just as miserable as summers in Florida. 90+ temps with 80% humidity stinks no matter what state you're in. The only difference, in my opinion, is that in Connecticut you can jump in the creek without worrying about alligators. Being in CT during May is important because you get to avoid the spring love-bug infestation in Florida. There's another one in September but IMO the one in May is worse. Plus late April/early May is when the lilacs are in bloom in CT, and you get the best of the foliage in October, and all the college students are already settled in for the semester.
That's interesting to me - love bugs. They don't bother me at all. In the summer the HEAT bothers me a lot. And the fire ants bother me a little bit.

[Normal]

That's interesting to me - love bugs. They don't bother me at all. In the summer the HEAT bothers me a lot. And the fire ants bother me a little bit.

Sure, and not everyone consistently has the cool aide half full view 100% of the time. That’s just reality. It’s good to hear a good reflection on occasion though, when reality has really hit you hard.

[jimjamuser]

Well put. I can’t picture life any better.
Well I have been to Alaska in the summer and I would be glad to spend my ALL summers there IF MONEY were no object. Also, I would look into living in Australia, Sweden, and Finland. Maybe even Spain. Again that would depend on having plenty of money. The Villages has many good features and some small bad features - like many other places. The main problem for me is that the whole Florida CLIMATE is getting warmer. That is NOT The Villages fault.

[jimjamuser]

"This thread is awesome-awesome. Over 35 replies and, thankfully, not one person has lamented about the loss of Katie Belle's."

Really don't understand why Katie Belle's disappeared. Best food and fun in TV.
FMK - aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgha
I enjoyed Katie Belles!

[rustyp]

I think I have this figured out. You all are quarreling over "I love The Villages more than you love The Villages". What did I miss ?

[Taltarzac725]

Yes Michael, it seems the people who post on this site are negative people who just want to complain.
My husband and I have been here for six years and we feel exactly the same way you do when we leave The Villages and when we return. This is a wonderful place to live and blessed to be here and we do NOT take it for granted.

I am always glad to return to the Villages. We will have been here since June of 2005.


I do not like the closings of the Rialto and the Barnstorm theaters but there are a lot of very good things about the Villages.

I will have to see what the future brings but if it comes that I have to leave the Villages I will probably be right outside of it .

[Dusty_Star]

In Virginia you should visit the Northern Neck. Surrounded by miles of water on the Chesapeake Bay, creeks and rivers. Beautiful and rural area. The Villages is my other favorite place to be. I'm a lucky guy!

Is the 'Northern Neck' the peninsula? Or is it just Northumberland County? Thanks for any information you can provide. -Someone who has never been there, but is interested in maybe visiting.

[Pairadocs]

The only real negativity about The Villages I encounter is by a few here on Talk of The Villages (or that other so-called “news” site that I no longer subscribe to). All my friends and neighbors are happy and engaged people who are still as excited to be a part of this unique community as they were a few years ago when they moved here. Lots of smiles when I pass most people, and so many friendly, content folks here. Is it just my area of The Villages? Are there more disgruntle people in other parts of The Villages? I’m very interested as to why some here on TOTV seem disillusioned with The Villages. Are these folks naturally dispositioned to be negative? It just seems those few people are so miserable and unhappy with what they post. I feel sad for them. Not how I want to live out my retirement years.

Personally not at all disposed to be a "negative" person, thus, we've accepted our decision to build here when we retired. But, disappointed, yes, of course, saddened, yes of course, but not letting that ruin retirement years for us. The old "most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be" definitely applies to us. Now, how did some disappointment set in over the years ? Well, we were advised that building in a designer/premier area would give us some advantage that the neighborhood would not become an AB&B or other short term rental area. That did not turn out to be true, 3 of 5 homes across the street are AB&B's, and 2 of 5 on this side of street are part time residents. We just make the best of it, really like and miss our part time owners (snowbirds who also have several other homes so not here the entire winter season), but the AB&B people, regardless of who they are rarely speak even when spoken to ! ? Usually just kind of nod and obviously don't want to take up any of their long weekend getting acquainted with people they will probably never see again. So to explain the sadness that sets in, it was tough to see the weekly "drive way" parties go away, sad to see the often empty houses (does make for a very quiet neighborhood), and of course the daily chatting with everyone working in their yards, or planting flowers, trimming bushes, etc. disappeared as the complexion changed. If we had expected things would never change, we'd be devastated, but don't know of anywhere we could move where changes would not be the reality. So hope this helps you understand, not all long time residents are unhappy, but there is definitely a loss that you will probably experience at some future date. People move, pass away, homes are sold to anyone of any age, so really no way to control if it becomes one of a string of for profit AB&B's with new people in and out every week or long weekend end. By investing in a larger home in an area of similar homes, we believed we made the best "bet" possible for stability, but there is no guarantee no matter where you live in ANY state. Hope that explains the difference in a sadness setting in, and actual unhappiness and depression ! You just have to join new groups, or go to some new activities, and not spend your life regretting how your once friendly neighborhood has changed ! We all have a choice in HOW we feel (emotionally) everyday !

[Pairadocs]

That's interesting to me - love bugs. They don't bother me at all. In the summer the HEAT bothers me a lot. And the fire ants bother me a little bit.

Try a couple years in central Illinois's corn country as we did for a few years during our careers ! As Florida natives of SOUTH Florida, we didn't realize that the midwest is much more uncomfortable than any Florida summer. Should have been able to figure out that a completely land locked state, with that many acres of unbelievably humid land (corn, soybeans, and other plants that produce a jungle like humidity) with temps in the 100's, something we never experienced growing up on this LONG, slim, Florida peninsula that benefits from the trade winds nearly always moving the air from one side to the other. In such midwest states the hear is so intense and there is no escape to the beaches, to natural springs, or even evening breezes for relief. Different strokes for different folks I guess, but it sure was not for us. And never ever growing up in Florida had the number and size of mosquitoes they have in Illinois, Iowa, and Wisconsin ! All places we lived for a short time. Experiences elsewhere sure helped us see "love bugs" and "no see 'ums" as "nothing burgers"....LOL ! But, everyone has their own perspectives and opinions. That such a great thing about a HUGE country, plenty of choices to suit everyone !

[Michael 61]

Personally not at all disposed to be a "negative" person, thus, we've accepted our decision to build here when we retired. But, disappointed, yes, of course, saddened, yes of course, but not letting that ruin retirement years for us. The old "most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be" definitely applies to us. Now, how did some disappointment set in over the years ? Well, we were advised that building in a designer/premier area would give us some advantage that the neighborhood would not become an AB&B or other short term rental area. That did not turn out to be true, 3 of 5 homes across the street are AB&B's, and 2 of 5 on this side of street are part time residents. We just make the best of it, really like and miss our part time owners (snowbirds who also have several other homes so not here the entire winter season), but the AB&B people, regardless of who they are rarely speak even when spoken to ! ? Usually just kind of nod and obviously don't want to take up any of their long weekend getting acquainted with people they will probably never see again. So to explain the sadness that sets in, it was tough to see the weekly "drive way" parties go away, sad to see the often empty houses (does make for a very quiet neighborhood), and of course the daily chatting with everyone working in their yards, or planting flowers, trimming bushes, etc. disappeared as the complexion changed. If we had expected things would never change, we'd be devastated, but don't know of anywhere we could move where changes would not be the reality. So hope this helps you understand, not all long time residents are unhappy, but there is definitely a loss that you will probably experience at some future date. People move, pass away, homes are sold to anyone of any age, so really no way to control if it becomes one of a string of for profit AB&B's with new people in and out every week or long weekend end. By investing in a larger home in an area of similar homes, we believed we made the best "bet" possible for stability, but there is no guarantee no matter where you live in ANY state. Hope that explains the difference in a sadness setting in, and actual unhappiness and depression ! You just have to join new groups, or go to some new activities, and not spend your life regretting how your once friendly neighborhood has changed ! We all have a choice in HOW we feel (emotionally) everyday !

Thank you for posting and explaining your situation. I first-hand understand your disappointment with what has occurred in your neighborhood with short term rentals and the lack of full time residents.

I am in a villa neighborhood (purchased December 2022), and I was quite surprised to find out that once I moved in, of the 85 villa homes, over half were snatched up by investors. Although there are a few full time renters, the rest are AirBNB. Of the remaining villas, I’d say half of those are part time snowflakes or snowbirds, so that leaves about 25% of my neighbors as full time residents. This did come as a shock when I first moved in (if you want to hear my story in detail, Jerry and Linda did an entire episode on my situation, interviewing me in my home, and did a follow up episode about 7 months later.)

This all has a very happy ending though, and since I had very few neighbors to bond with, I immersed myself in many activities, and quickly assembled dozens and dozens of very good friends (a few from other parts of Richmond, but many from places like Fenney, Hawkins, Newell, Dabney and Moultrie Creek). My entire social life revolves around all areas south of 44 along with Brownwood. I was able to find friendships outside of my immediate neighborhood.

Though it would be wonderful to have a tight, close knit group of neighbors that live on your same street, if that doesn’t work out, there’s always plan B.

I realize people have different needs and different expectations for what they want The Villages to be. I can only speak for myself, and that is The Villages, though not perfect, nor did I expect it to be, checks quite a few of my boxes for what is important to live a happy, healthy, and engaged retirement.

[OrangeBlossomBaby]

Koolaid: I love my neighborhood here in the Historic Section. A decent variety of personalities, people who look out for each other, close to amenities and shopping but far enough away to avoid traffic or commerce if we stick to our neck of the woods. Walking distance to the rec center, the postal station, and the country club. Bicycle distance to the entire side of the Villages and out to Walmart, and if I ever get up the nerve, also bicycle distance to Spanish Springs across 441 (no way would I ride my bike over the golf cart bridge, but I'll eventually get across 441 down by the Wales Gate.)

What I don't like about the Villages is that it's in Florida. I just really hate Florida. There's nothing about it that I like.