Any Regrets about Moving to The Villages??

[CoastGuardCowboy]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?

[asianthree]

So what are your regrets? Money, view, food, lack of stuff to do, lonely, too many people.

Hard to compare ones needs, wants, or regrets, to more than 100,000 plus people, in TV.

Me I miss sparkle of Snow, the outdoor hiking and lakes that one can swim without something trying to bite you or kill you for food

[Michael G.]

Me I miss sparkle of Snow, the outdoor hiking and lakes that one can swim without something trying to bite you or kill you for food

Same here.
I miss the farms, seeing cows grazing and smell of freshly cut hay.
Crystal clear lakes quiet pine forest and hearing the call of loons.
A walk in freshly fallen snow across a frozen lake.

But in the twilight of my life, I don't miss the cold weather of walking in, driving in,
or shoveling snow, so I guess the past life will be memories from my younger days in Wisconsin.

The heart can only be one place at a time.

[manaboutown]

The month upon month of heat and humidity took some getting used to for me. Also lack of high end restaurants, substantial distance to a major airport and finding good medical care. On the plus side I find most people friendly and easy going. There is a lot to do here which is a huge plus. All in all living here is quite pleasant.

[jimbomaybe]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?

I too am interested as to what you did not like about Tennessee, I was here looking and planed to spend some time in Tennessee, what pulled me over the edge was interest rate tanked

[npwalters]

We moved here from Tennessee. We had a small horse farm and I do miss being able to hunt on my property, being close to family, and a few other things. However, we enjoy our life in TV and I KNOW we are much more active here than we would be almost any other place. I imagine TV is adding a few good years to our life. No regrets.

[jimhoward]

I moved here from Tennessee (Nashville area) a few months ago and so far I liked Tennessee better. But maybe that will change as I get used to it here.

Most of the houses in the Villages are very small and close together. They do have larger ones, but they are kind of pricey and remotely located. I may need to open my wallet a little wider.

I liked having a pool at home. They have pool homes here too, you just have to pay more.

There are lots of golf courses, but most of them are not particularly good and they are fairly full. I find myself playing less golf here than I did at home.

I am in a new house in the south part of the villages. I find myself driving a lot to reach stores and restaurants and get to places I need to be. I am probably in the car 3 hours per day sometimes a lot more. It is tiring. That may change as Eastport and Middleton develop.

[fdpaq0580]

No regrets after 12 years. I'll let you know after the next 12.

[shaw8700@outlook.com]

Absolutely not.

I moved from a 55+ community that had two golf courses and one restaurant. Neither of us play golf and the one restaurant, as pitiful as it was, was only open full-time during “the season”. They had nothing else for us.

Being out here brings so much more to my life. In addition to the many restaurants, golf courses, clubs, music on the squares 365/day a year, they have several different classes where you can learn all manner of things. It’s hard to talk about TV to anyone who doesn’t live here.
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[Topspinmo]

I’ve had my fun in sun time getting close to move on before I get too old to move? In 10 years been here traffic has quadrupled, doctor appointment are hard to get with at least 4 months waiting times or longer. I don’t see that getting better ever.. groceries and taxes are higher where I came from.

[CFrance]

We lived in a beautiful condo in a marina in Michigan. Muskegon Lake in front, shipping channel at the side, Lake Michigan in back. It was fantastic and nothing would have dragged me from there if it weren't for the weather. Just can't. do. snow. anymore. Dirty snow, slush in the garage, nostrils freezing together. Falling on my Aspinwall on the icy driveway trying to walk the dog (yes, I'm from Pittsburgh).

That said, TV ticks most boxes, and I'm happy to be here. I have no regrets; I just miss certain things.

[Altavia]

My only regret is not moving here sooner ������

[OrangeBlossomBaby]

Same here.
I miss the farms, seeing cows grazing and smell of freshly cut hay.
Crystal clear lakes quiet pine forest and hearing the call of loons.
A walk in freshly fallen snow across a frozen lake.

But in the twilight of my life, I don't miss the cold weather of walking in, driving in,
or shoveling snow, so I guess the past life will be memories from my younger days in Wisconsin.

The heart can only be one place at a time.

I'm glad I live in the "Historic" area. I'm 10 minutes from the Ocala Forest and 5 minutes from the nearest cow pasture. There are horse farms and ranches east of our neck of the woods, all within a few minutes by car.

But no snow, no crystal clear lakes and in fact, when it rains, everything within 10 yards of a retention pond reeks of rotting worms. There is no natural water you can dip your feet into here - the water is horribly polluted with pesticide and fertilizer runoff, and if it doesn't peel your skin off, then the alligators might find your hand a tempting treat.

Yes, I do miss the snow. I miss it right after it's finished snowing, before the plows can get through, before we get the shovel out of the garage, when everything looks like it's covered in diamond dust.

[jswirs]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?

1 - I miss my life-long friendships. In the 5 years I have been here I have made new friends, but there is a difference in short term vs long term friendships.
2 - It has taken years to find quality medical / dental folks. I have been through a lot of pain and frustration on this particular journey.
3 - Summers seem to be getting hotter, or maybe it's just me.

[elle123]

I moved here from Tennessee (Nashville area) a few months ago and so far I liked Tennessee better. But maybe that will change as I get used to it here.

Most of the houses in the Villages are very small and close together. They do have larger ones, but they are kind of pricey and remotely located. I may need to open my wallet a little wider.

I liked having a pool at home. They have pool homes here too, you just have to pay more.

There are lots of golf courses, but most of them are not particularly good and they are fairly full. I find myself playing less golf here than I did at home.

I am in a new house in the south part of the villages. I find myself driving a lot to reach stores and restaurants and get to places I need to be. I am probably in the car 3 hours per day sometimes a lot more. It is tiring. That may change as Eastport and Middleton develop.
Bummer, but sounds typical. If you can, the best thing to do is rent before you buy. That'll give you the chance to decide if moving is worth the time, energy, and money.

[egmcaninch]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?

We moved from the Nashville area to The Villages in 2018. Loved living in TN, but also love living in TV. Regrets: Not fully understanding the higher cost of living - insurance, property tax, amenity fee, etc. I could have been better prepared. But, the likes far outweigh any regrets - great neighbors, weather, one-level living, beautiful place, etc.

[bowlingal]

no regrets, never looked back. The Villages is not perfect ( no where is) , but it checked almost all the boxes for me. Would not move anywhere else. I am a FROG.....here till I croak.

[rsmurano]

I have 1 big regret: why did I wait so long to move here? I also hear this talking to friends. Some came down here to check it out but thought they would do the move in the future, 1 or 2 years from now. Then after visiting for a few days, they decided to move now. We came down for a visit and after the 3rd day, we were checking out the model homes, which caused a lot of talking|discussing on our long trip home.

[jojo]

17 years and love it. There is more traffic but a trade off is that we have more options--golf courses, recreation centers, performing arts venues etc. etc. Absolutely no regrets. I feel like I'm living life to the fullest.

[Bassdeer]

Bummer, but sounds typical. If you can, the best thing to do is rent before you buy. That'll give you the chance to decide if moving is worth the time, energy, and money.

Our timetable was spring 2026 but the wife just got laid off, so retirement has moved up. Plan now is to move sometime this summer, (I know it's going to be hot) we plan on renting for a year just to make sure we like it.

[Kathrynsews]

We have been here 8 years. Our only regret is that we didn't come sooner. We are definitely more active, we are happy with our healthcare and we've both had some serious issues.. We loved our Michigan home on a lake, but this is better.

[westernrider75]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?

We have no regrets. The one thing I don’t like is the really hot summers, so I find myself using the pools more than I thought I would. I also do anything outside in the early morning or evening. The trade off for that hot summers is the beautiful weather we have 9 months out of the year! Even when it’s cold here it’s nothing like it was in Ohio or Pennsylvania.

We have had no problems finding healthcare, new friends or things to do to stay active.

[MikeN]

I miss the ocean. Moving from Cape Cod and being near fabulous beaches was a change for sure. I know people TV complain about the snowbirds but they pay the same price and fees year round residents do. I don’t miss the snowbirds, ice and dreary winter northeast winters. Yes it’s a change but change can be good

[Susan1717]

I only miss my old special chicago friends, my son and family, and convenient boating on Lake Michigan. Other than that, I’ve made so many Florida friends and would not live anywhere else. I do not even have a problem with the summers and I feel that the humidity is so good for my skin etc.

[Ignatz]

We moved from the Nashville area to The Villages in 2018. Loved living in TN, but also love living in TV. Regrets: Not fully understanding the higher cost of living - insurance, property tax, amenity fee, etc. I could have been better prepared. But, the likes far outweigh any regrets - great neighbors, weather, one-level living, beautiful place, etc.

I agree with all of this!

[MatchPoint]

Walk-out basement, storage space!

[Callaway]

No regrets, both my husband and I love it here with all its activities and friendly folks! We are very social and have met lots of good and genuine friends. Living here has also increased our activities and I’m sure it will increase our lifespans. What could be better here? Definitely the healthcare system! Our local hospital for some reason is sub optimal at best. We need better doctors, pay nurses more to be competitive, etc., etc.

[merrymini]

Have had a house here for 10 years and have lived here permanently for 3 of those. Love it and all it has to offer, too much to mention and that says it all. There are always things about your old life that you will miss, but there is no place like this place. You can visit all that you love on occasion, like a vacation and still come back here to live in a terrific place.

[asianthree]

Walk-out basement, storage space!

I agree, our 2100Sf walkout basement had a gym with mirror wall, a ballet bar for granddaughter. Storage, pantry Hugh screen TV with theater seats, pool table, air hockey. Bedroom, full bath, tiny kitchen.
Walk in fully equipped climate control wine cellar. (Most important)

With a view of the pool, our kids and friends spent more time there than in their 2nd floor bedrooms. Company used as a guest area, which put a damper on kids entertainment. Every time we stay at the house I sit in the wine cellar for hours, and the big screen is just fun

[mike bales]

we lived in Cleveland Tn for 16 years and loved it there. But this is better and warmer. so no regrets here

[HBKoerner]

I wish I had not thrown out that bottle of odd nuts and bolts when we moved, but had brought them with me.

[ridge]

No regrets. Love it here. Moved here for a more active life style and to be with people of common interest. Miss the Fall so we make a trip north for a week or so.

[Zoylekes]

We have lived in many places. All had their pros/cons. As a middle class couple from modest beginnings, we can't think of a better place to live out our golden years. If you're searching for an active place to be active - it's the tops.

[1golfergal]

Definitely miss a larger home... basement, pool room, bar, etc.... BUT.... it is what it is here. And, I imagine as we age we don't necessarily want so big of a home. I don't enjoy having "guests" as the walls are paper thin and you can (as well as they) hear everything... even someone peeing. Other than that.... wish we would have come sooner but we didn't. Only been here 4 years and yes it seems as if it has doubled in that short of time frame. It is only going to get larger and eventually the "south" will have all that the "north" does but until then you may be in your car more than golf cart... all depends on where you live. Like others I highly suggest you rent a month or two or more and get a feel of #1 if you even want to live here and #2 where you want to be..... this place is HUGE now and not near the size as even 10 years ago. Lastly- if you like it just do it.... you can always go back to TN... you won't lose any $$ on your re-sale. Or maybe better to rent a year and try it out..... Good Luck!!!

[sdm1222]

The extreme heat and humidity, overcrowding, poor restaurants, shopping and more importantly is the lack of good Healthcare. They'll also want you to switch to Medicare Advantage, big mistake, Don’t do it.
Don’t make a second mistake.

[cwmmfink]

10 years plus for me. Like others above I miss a few things from up north, but no real regrets.

[DrHitch]

At age 63, you're in the cusp of being full-time villagers. The Villages is by far, the most "active" lifestyle community....or sit and do nothing.

It's not a wide open country sort of place. It's not rural, but is set in central Florida which is indeed rural horse ranch country and farmland. Kind of like Las Vegas in the middle of the desert.

Don't get too swept up in where you might buy in The Villages. The lifestyle sales agents will push you to look South of the Florida turnpike (Eastport and beyond). But there won't be much there realistically for 5+ years, maybe ok for your timeframe. Check out rental info and more at The Villages 101 The Villages 101 You've come the right place for renters and snowbirds to learn about The Villages "Florida's Friendliest Hometown". Neighborhoods, house rentals, activities, and pointers to the many other resources. (http://www.thevillages101.com)

[Letitia S]

Not one single regret, it's everything that my husband imagined and more! FYI just be sure to rent for a couple months or more and choose where you want to be. In the very beginning of our arrival we thought we really wanted to be near Brownwood between the 6's . Then we continued to venture out looking for homes , met all of our neighbors in the Polo Ridge / Glenbrook area where we were renting and fell in love with the area .Three months later we found our perfect home in Santa Domingo! We're moving in in a couple of weeks 😁 I got the home I really wanted and my husband got his garage space,( a 20×24 and enough space to build a 15× 20 on the side of our home)a view and wonderful new neighbors. We are very pleased with our decision. Don't settle and take your time choosing. Good luck and welcome to the Villages.

[NotGolfer]

It's a subjective question that bears many answers. We moved here 15 yrs ago and no regrets for us. We're from the Upper Midwest and do NOT miss the winters there!!!! We used to go back to visit but friends are now scattered, many family members have passed away. We don't feel we'd like to drive up there anymore and air-lines keep having issues. So we'll stay here---guess we're FROGS!! Our kids/grandkids seem to be too busy with their lives, so if they'd like to see us the road goes both ways.

[RoboVil]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?
I knew the houses were close together, but I do miss not having a larger yard (but not mowing). Also, I am disappointed that there are so many hours reserved for private groups on the Pickleball courts. Unless you get up early you are not going to find open play most days. The Pickleball Community group takes up way too much court time throughout the Villages.

[Arrachme]

If you move, “ next to” instead of “in The Villages”, you will not experience the many benefits that the city has to offer. The clubs, etc., require a card that you get when you pay the amenity fee. Just a thought.

[MrFlorida]

No regrets, fits us perfectly.

[Gerrys]

Rent for a few months in the summer. If you can stand the heat, you will be fine. Summer starts in late April and ends in October. Good luck.

[MX rider]

Like many have said, it all depends on how you want to spend your retirement. I tell friends that ask about TV, it's a wonderful place but not a good fit for everyone.

If you just want a place to hang out and chill, you're wasting your money here since you do pay more for the lifestyle.
But if you want to live a fun, active and social lifestyle, there's no place like TV to retire. There's way more things to do than you'll have time for, which is a good thing.

We love it here, but since we've only been here for a couple years we still kinda miss the kids and grands. My wife more than me. lol. But that's getting better with time.

But like everything in life there's trade offs. For us it's been well worth it.

No more Indiana winters. I get to play softball, run outside, golf, ride my Harley, mountain bike, and my dirtbike year round. Lots to do, inside and outside the bubble. For us life is great here.

We've made some great friends and had some from Indiana move here.

We live a bit south of Lake Sumter in Amelia and love it. Check out the northern, middle, and southern areas to see what checks the most boxes for you. We all have different needs and wants.

Good luck!

[Tadpole]

We've lived here for 21 years; came from West Hollywood Hills, CA, to TX for 8 more years, and have never regretted ending up here. Had a large home w/pool backed up to a nature preserve, and everything else we wanted. After 21 years we moved into Watercrest Senior Living, and even tho it's an enormous down-sizing experience, it was necessary and to our advantage. SO many opportunities here! Take advantage of the thousands of activities offered between sports, crafts, education, exercises, performing (music, dancing, acting), etc., etc. If you can't find what you want here, I don't know what more I can say.

[Villagesgal]

Been here 24 years north of 466. No regrets. It gets better and better every year with more to offer, more classes, more rec centers, more shopping, more friends. We moved here in our late 40s and so glad we did. Yes there's more traffic, but that's true back home too, yes prices have gone up, but that's also true back home. Summers here are not as humid as some areas up north and along the gulf, so we find that they are very liveable, especially in the evenings and early morning hours. We would do it again in a heartbeat. Look at resale homes up north of 466 and 466A if you want a larger lot and to be near shopping. You'll love it here.

[Angelhug52]

No privacy,even a courtyard Villa is nosy and lack privacy as well as lousy parking.23 year has seen lots of changes.Centralized mail stations where people park as they wish with no regard to others. Over an hour to the ocean.So frequent trips outside the bubble. Fair to poor health care, although that seems true all over now. As we have aged here it is very different. No easy transportation to airports.
All that being said. It is still relatively safe here. It is well maintained at the public places Plenty to keep busy if you enjoy those activities.After all these years the recreation activities are same same and aging body parts prefer strolls on the walking paths.Definitly enjoy areas to travel outside of the pink walls. Where in Tennessee are you moving from? Good luck. People are people all over most nice and some real good ones. Others, well guess it depends on circumstances.

[GoldenBoy]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?

I had a few.

[srswans]

…

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?

TV is much colder in Dec/Jan than I expected. Can’t golf in shorts year round. I probably wouldn’t want to pay the taxes and suffer hurricanes and crowds found in Southern FL tho. I probably wouldn’t like the politics in AZ/NM/NV either. TV is good as it gets.

We did (and still do) had problems with our Designer house. Should have bought spec (NCH) or pre-owed.

Otherwise no regrets - FL is awesome and TV keeps me busy.

[Ptmcbriz]

Our only regret is we wish we hadn’t wasted valuable years living elsewhere. Now that we are here it would have been much more enjoyable had we been here 10 years earlier while our bodies were still able to do so many activities. My husband would have been on the softball leagues, pickleball leagues, and a lot more golf. Unfortunately, his body isn’t able to do some of those things due to his lower back issues. Enjoy while you can because you don’t know how things can change tomorrow.

[Susan Garbarino]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?

My only regret is I didn't move here sooner!

[Villager24]

After moving several times in my life it seems each place had its pluses and minuses. I find that I remember the good and tend to gloss over the bad in my memories. We mostly choose our happiness IMO.

[CODYCAT]

The JOY of the Villages. The best part of the Villages is the great people who are here. People you want to live with. Not like some of those other places. People are happy, no fake JOY around here. 👍🙃

[Teed_Off]

As you have seen the list of regrets is a small one, and likely to have many of the same regrets if you stay put. Retirement is what you want to make of it and The Villages lifestyle provides more opportunities than all other communities.

[coleprice]

No regrets!!! None - We LOVE it here . . . My wife and I moved to The Villages 4.5 years ago from Southern California and we can't imagine living anywhere else. We stay active golfing, playing water volleyball, swimming, enjoying the town squares and sailing. We drive about 30 minutes from our home to go sailing once a week on a local lake. Our drive takes us through "farm country", where we enjoy seeing cattle, orange groves, etc. for 20 minutes of the drive. If you enjoy being active, The Villages is a great place to live. If you golf, shop for homes in the Northern and Central areas of The Villages, which have an abundance of Executive Golf Courses.

[MaryMS]

We just sold our Villages home and are moving to Knoxville next week!
Different strokes for different folks. 🙂

[Stu from NYC]

Here 5 years very happy to be here. Never gone out as much as we do now.

Only regret is further from kids and grandkids so do not see them as much as we would like.

[ChicagoNative]

Look at your own expectations and personalities. Do you golf? Do you need to attend a club meeting, activity, or event every single day? If yes, the TV will probably suit you just fine. You’ve already heard about the summer heat, and we’re about to go into the season where it feels like we’ll be living in a blast furnace for the next 7 months. We were snow birds for a decade; been full-time for the last 5 years. Getting used to the brutally hot was probably the biggest adjustment for us. Remember to examine TV through the lens of living here every day, not just for a lifestyle visit or vacation.

Ironically enough, after being set to drink the kool-aid and coming thisclose to purchasing inside the bubble 8 years ago, we ended up buying in a border community. We don’t golf and have enough in our community to keep us busy. Contrary to popular belief, one can still have an active lifestyle outside TV. As mentioned, look at your own wishes and expectations. As for us, no regrets.

[dougawhite]

I didn't see it mentioned so far, but if you're a Coast Guard retiree like your handle suggests, don't forget that The Villages is home to around 15,000 Veterans and the largest American Legion Post in the world. Also, since we have a Coastie for a son, I notice many Coast Guard license plates and bumper stickers all around here. I think there's even a Coast Guard Club.

[Normal]

Zero regrets.

[Bluehook]

Look at your own expectations and personalities. Do you golf? Do you need to attend a club meeting, activity, or event every single day? If yes, the TV will probably suit you just fine. You’ve already heard about the summer heat, and we’re about to go into the season where it feels like we’ll be living in a blast furnace for the next 7 months. We were snow birds for a decade; been full-time for the last 5 years. Getting used to the brutally hot was probably the biggest adjustment for us. Remember to examine TV through the lens of living here every day, not just for a lifestyle visit or vacation.

Ironically enough, after being set to drink the kool-aid and coming thisclose to purchasing inside the bubble 8 years ago, we ended up buying in a border community. We don’t golf and have enough in our community to keep us busy. Contrary to popular belief, one can still have an active lifestyle outside TV. As mentioned, look at your own wishes and expectations. As for us, no regrets.

Can you mention the "best" border communities? I'm unfamiliar with the area but looking for a house to buy.

Private message if that makes you feel safer.

Thanks.

[MicRoDrafting]

YES,
the shear amount of Daily Events and 100’s upon 100’s of Activities certainly can be considered “Adding Years to Your Life”.

I myself Love to Use the Analogy of
The Twilight Zone, “Kick the Can”

“We become old
when we stop playing…”

HOWEVER,
My Wifey and I have not become Locked
into the Perimeter of The Villages …

… as Central Florida is Horse Country.

Not to mention that 30-40 minutes
north is the Amazing City of Ocala

with an active Shopping Mall, an abundance of Classy Restaurants,
a City Square in the Heart of Historic Downtown - filled with Gorgeous 1800’s Victorian Architecture Homes and did I mention we are in the Heart of Horse Country ??

As for Water and Forestry …

… the first place that comes to mind is “Silver Springs State Park on the East end of Ocala and straight up CR 35, Baseline Road.

We moved to The Villages just 13 months ago, and are now exploring 30-40 minutes south into Leesburg as well.

And from our initial exploring, have found it to be a little more of a Quaint City …

… known for it Huge Lakes with plenty of fishing - as the Lake Griffin boat slip parking lot overflows on occasion.

And also from our initial exploring (actually by my Lovely wife), just learned that Leesburg also has a bustling Shopping Mall as well.

AND FURTHER
beyond The Villages Bubble …
we are situated about 90 minutes from both the Atlantic Ocean and the Gulf !!

THERE IS ALSO
a website that focuses on “Day Trip” activities that include History, Water Falls, Natural Springs, and so much more.

LETS NOT FORGET
Saint Augustine “the City of Lights” with Incredible History, Sightseeing Tours, Restaurants, Beaches, and more !!

POINT IS
one may very well be losing out on
Fantastic Exploring Opportunities
if they are not willing to …

… “KICK THE CAN”
beyond the confines of your
home base known as The Villages

[MicRoDrafting]

YES,
the shear amount of Daily Events and 100’s upon 100’s of Activities certainly can be considered “Adding Years to Your Life”.

I myself Love to Use the Analogy of
The Twilight Zone, “Kick the Can”

“We become old
when we stop playing…”

HOWEVER,
My Wifey and I have NOT allowed
ourselves to become Locked into
the Perimeters of The Villages …

… as Central Florida is
known as Horse Country

Not to mention that 30-40 minutes
north is the Amazing City of Ocala

with an active Shopping Mall, an
abundance of Classy Restaurants,
a City Square in the Heart of Historic Downtown - filled with Gorgeous 1800’s Victorian Architecture Homes,

and did I mention we are in
the Heart of Horse Country ??

As for Water and Forestry …

… the first place that comes to mind is “Silver Springs State Park on the East end of Ocala and straight up CR 35, Baseline Road.

We moved to The Villages just over 13 months ago, and are now exploring 30-40 minutes south into Leesburg as well.

And from our initial exploring, have found it to be a little more of a Quaint City …

… known for it Huge Lakes with plenty of fishing - as the Lake Griffin boat slip parking lot overflows on occasion.

And also from our initial exploring (actually by my Lovely wife), just learned that Leesburg also has a bustling Shopping Mall as well.

AND FURTHER
beyond The Villages Bubble …
we are situated about 90 minutes from both the Atlantic Ocean and the Gulf !!

THERE IS ALSO
a website that focuses on “Day Trip” activities that include History, Water Falls, Natural Springs, and so much more.

LETS NOT FORGET
Saint Augustine “the City of Lights” with Incredible History, Sightseeing Tours, the famous Pedestrian Shopping Street, Restaurants, Beaches, and more for a fun filled weekend retreat !!

POINT IS
one may very well be losing out on
Fantastic Exploring Opportunities
if they are not willing to …

… “KICK THE CAN”
beyond the confines of your
home base known as The Villages

[TheDude]

Lightning

[ElDiabloJoe]

We just sold our Villages home and are moving to Knoxville next week!
Different strokes for different folks. 🙂

We still have our Knoxville house. No intention of selling it. What part of the 865 are you considering?

If Mr. Coast Guard ever returns to this thread, he is welcome to DM me re: pros/cons.

[ElDiabloJoe]

If you move, “ next to” instead of “in The Villages”, you will not experience the many benefits that the city has to offer. The clubs, etc., require a card that you get when you pay the amenity fee. Just a thought.

Just checked your website: Wow! Your art is incredible!

[Its Just Me]

I have few regrets about moving here. I miss family the most so we try to help $$$ them come and visit. Our friends and/or neighbors are a work in progress. We don’t have 15-20 years to become better at friendship. Some friends are toxic so we try to be better at social skills and preferences. I love sunshine so here I will stay.

[CoastGuardCowboy]

You said: "The month upon month of heat and humidity took some getting used to for me.
Also lack of high end restaurants, substantial distance to a major airport and finding good medical care. On the plus side I find most people friendly and easy going.
There is a lot to do here which is a huge plus.
All in all living here is quite pleasant."

Those are certainly 3 big ones consider for us, especially the airport and med care. We fly alot and although we don't have many medical needs now, it stands to reason that a region with an above average number of elderly would need increased medical care.
Thanks.

[CoastGuardCowboy]

We still have our Knoxville house. No intention of selling it. What part of the 865 are you considering?

If Mr. Coast Guard ever returns to this thread, he is welcome to DM me re: pros/cons.
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That is interesting. I think we're a little surprised (moved to TN from ID) at the amount of "Appalachia" that runs in Tennessee. I know Florida will have its downsides, like all areas, but we seek more interaction and activity. I'd DM if I could figure out how. PlummerInTennessee@Gmail.Com.

[CoastGuardCowboy]

See honey! It's not just me! :a20:

[CoastGuardCowboy]

Thank you for your thoughtful and specific reply. I think that's really great advice.

[CoastGuardCowboy]

Thank you for your kind and helpful reply. This is exactly the kind of information I was hoping to garner.

[CoastGuardCowboy]

Thank you Letitia. Lot's of really practical information.

[HIgolfers]

Don’t get rid of all your warm clothes. There are several winter days when you need them.

[CoastGuardCowboy]

Great information. Thank you.

[Indydealmaker]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?

If I were in your place, I would ask what my expectations were. Before you make life changing decisions you must have criteria and goals.

[jimjamuser]

My main regret is that the summers are too hot. This began about 10 years ago. The increased heat also makes the Gulf and ocean water hotter. So, a greater chance of a hurricane.

[jimjamuser]

I'm glad I live in the "Historic" area. I'm 10 minutes from the Ocala Forest and 5 minutes from the nearest cow pasture. There are horse farms and ranches east of our neck of the woods, all within a few minutes by car.

But no snow, no crystal clear lakes and in fact, when it rains, everything within 10 yards of a retention pond reeks of rotting worms. There is no natural water you can dip your feet into here - the water is horribly polluted with pesticide and fertilizer runoff, and if it doesn't peel your skin off, then the alligators might find your hand a tempting treat.

Yes, I do miss the snow. I miss it right after it's finished snowing, before the plows can get through, before we get the shovel out of the garage, when everything looks like it's covered in diamond dust.
Agree that the lakes are polluted with pesticide and fertilizer runoff. That could improve if more people had stone yards instead of grass.

[jimjamuser]

1 - I miss my life-long friendships. In the 5 years I have been here I have made new friends, but there is a difference in short term vs long term friendships.
2 - It has taken years to find quality medical / dental folks. I have been through a lot of pain and frustration on this particular journey.
3 - Summers seem to be getting hotter, or maybe it's just me.
# 3 I think summers are getting hotter and they are. Scientists have measured world temperatures getting hotter for the last 10 years. And the heat is increasing each year.

[ElDiabloJoe]

# 3 I think summers are getting hotter and they are. Scientists have measured world temperatures getting hotter for the last 10 years. And the heat is increasing each year.

https://i.imgur.com/9Eo4DHL.jpg

[d1nod1no]

You have been gone for 2 years so I suggest you take a good look at the changes. Especially the traffic. I have been here for 22 yrs. The traffic is a huge deterrent for me. Quality medical care is hard to find. Good restaurants are few.

[barbnick]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?
Been here 14 years through all the growth.
You can be as private as you want or as social as you want.
Great life

[RUCdaze]

Okay, here it is: They closed down two or our three movie theaters, Country Club restaurants pre-covid had full breakfast buffets on weekdays (gone!), and Katie Belle's (one of the best night spots in The Villages) was closed to be converted into apartments. Each generation of the Morse family is greedier than the one before. Other than that,The Villages is a great place.

[FloridaGuy66]

No regrets for me, however we originally were completely set on buying a specific home in a different Village. If we had bought that home, I feel like we would have had some regrets.

Pay very close attention on the distance between the home you buy and the amenities that are important to you. The home that we almost bought was very far from the closest adult pool. We go to the adult pool in our village almost everyday when it's nice outside.

Also pay attention to negative things that could affect your enjoyment like being close to a larger body of water which can mean big mosquito issues, or close to a big or noisy roadway. I have some acquaintances that back onto a very busy golf cart path that leads to Brownwood. They hear golf carts buzzing by their lanai around every 30-60 seconds between 7am-9pm everyday.

[asianthree]

Okay, here it is: They closed down two or our three movie theaters, Country Club restaurants pre-covid had full breakfast buffets on weekdays (gone!), and Katie Belle's (one of the best night spots in The Villages) was closed to be converted into apartments. Each generation of the Morse family is greedier than the one before. Other than that,The Villages is a great place.

And the only theater still open, has rarely had a movie sold out. Even playing old movies, trying to attract more business. You can still go to breakfast buffet, with only a small worry about sneezing contaminated food:clap2:

The age old..Why did KBs close, in “07” it’s heyday people spent money, therefore profit. Then the custom of ordering water, and sitting for hours at a time, was the downfall of KB’s. So blame residents who were toooooo cheap to buy food and drink. Residents failed to keep KBs

Everyone knows taking a loss on business either on Theaters or KB’s will always cause a closure. As far as family they could always sell out, and TV could just dry up and blow away. I doubt that’s ever going to happen. Maybe one of your family could marry into developer family, bet you would have a different thought process

[Papa_lecki]

Okay, here it is: They closed down two or our three movie theaters, Country Club restaurants pre-covid had full breakfast buffets on weekdays (gone!), and Katie Belle's (one of the best night spots in The Villages) was closed to be converted into apartments. Each generation of the Morse family is greedier than the one before. Other than that,The Villages is a great place.

Movie theaters are a dying industry.
I would like weekend breakfast buffets, but if the operators of the CC restaurants thought they could make money from the buffets, they would return.
Katie Belle’s was a loss leader. Closing KB hasn’t hurt TV growth.
Aren’t we only at the second generation of Morse family? The first generation were billionaires too.

[Papa_lecki]

My main regret is that the summers are too hot. This began about 10 years ago. The increased heat also makes the Gulf and ocean water hotter. So, a greater chance of a hurricane.

Summers have always been hot and Hurricanes have always hit Florida.

[G.R.I.T.S.]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.



Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?

We moved from middle Tennessee 20 years ago and love it here. I would move back if I found it necessary, but only to East Tennessee. Nashville area is not conducive to retirement living.

[Runway48]

For those of you that have lived or are living in the Knoxville area: How does that area compare to TV (Ocala-Orlando) as far as medical and culture offerings? I think cost of living is lower in TN (property taxes and insurance) and I know TN has the Smokies, 4 seasons and occasional snow. Thanks.

[clasyldynpa]

Bummer, but sounds typical. If you can, the best thing to do is rent before you buy. That'll give you the chance to decide if moving is worth the time, energy, and money.
Agree 100% rent for 3 months if you can, maybe overlapping into summer to get a feel for the heat and humidity April-June . The rent will be less too at those times.

[LuckySevens]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?

None at all! You will not find any other place like The Villages....as far as 'things to do'. Lots of entertainment and options. It's a 'win...win'. :coolsmiley:

[asianthree]

Here are four common reasons why some have regretted moving here and left after 6-12 + months later.

Spouse can’t live without Grandchildren. Or the need to move to their grandchildren area, to be come sitter for the parents. Sometimes ending in very unhappy spouse, separation or divorce.

Health, not just unhappy with healthcare, but unable to handle the issues themselves, and need children to help with care.

Memory Care, no longer capable of being in their home, and children move them to be closer

Death, leaving one spouse who can’t handle the loss, or children deciding the surviving parent can’t handle life alone, forcing the parent to sell, and move back home.

[Rodneysblue]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?

One, wished we had done it sooner.

[MX rider]

And the only theater still open, has rarely had a movie sold out. Even playing old movies, trying to attract more business. You can still go to breakfast buffet, with only a small worry about sneezing contaminated food:clap2:

The age old..Why did KBs close, in “07” it’s heyday people spent money, therefore profit. Then the custom of ordering water, and sitting for hours at a time, was the downfall of KB’s. So blame residents who were toooooo cheap to buy food and drink. Residents failed to keep KBs

Everyone knows taking a loss on business either on Theaters or KB’s will always cause a closure. As far as family they could always sell out, and TV could just dry up and blow away. I doubt that’s ever going to happen. Maybe one of your family could marry into developer family, bet you would have a different thought process

Well said. I see too many people at bars doing the water thing. These places should charge at least $1for water refills beyond the first glass unless they order food. Then maybe they would either order a drink/food, or vacate the seat for a paying customer.

Too many don't realize paying a server or bartender to serve water is a money loser for the business.

[Ann Marie Acacio]

We have enjoyed our 8+ years living in Brownwood - having grocery stores and restaurants close-by and connecting with neighbors who have become like family! Unfortunately, because of health issues, we had to move 45 minutes away to be near our son and daughter-in-law since neither of us can now drive. We recently listed our house for sale and really miss all the conveniences and activities in The Villages. We kept all our doctors here since they're so great. We're grateful we followed our hearts and bought a house after being here for a month's vacation! No regrets!

[La lamy]

No regrets. Just A LOT of gratitude to the developers for coming up with this retirement heaven.

[jonathanb]

Lived in The Villages over 14yrs. No regrets. Sold our house and moving back home to be close to grandchildren. You will love it as long as the pull to be near family is not to great.

[PugMom]

not a single regret here, we should've done it sooner!

[kingofbeer]

The extreme heat and humidity, overcrowding, poor restaurants, shopping and more importantly is the lack of good Healthcare. They'll also want you to switch to Medicare Advantage, big mistake, Don’t do it.
Don’t make a second mistake.
Villages Health only accepts select Medicare Advantage plans. They do not accept traditional medicare.

[Debfrommaine]

Been here since my early 50's and no regrets. TV has served us well over many years. Of course, as with any transition there are learning curves, but we adjust, or we change it.

[billethkid]

NONE!

More traffic, busy stores and restaurants? Yes. Just as any other place worth going or being.

The life style we bought into 22 years ago is the same today.

We are not bothered or affected by what is going on outside our original "geographic circle".

[Flyers999]

Absolutely none! Except for the developers, summers, medical providers, restaurants, homevestors, old people, terrible pickleball players, executive greens, local politicians and bad roundabout drivers, living under the reign of the morse family hegemony is great. I’m not leaving.

[midiwiz]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?

We moved here about 4 years ago from just outside Nashville. We'd like to go back but it's just not in the cards right now. Actually wish we never moved. Had more room, less nosey, more friendly, more activity that was actual fun, and a larger house at less per SF.

[vintageogauge]

The only negatives are the heat and humidity and more recently traffic. Otherwise there's nowhere better.

[jimjamuser]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?
Visit in the summer or better still rent for 3 months in the SUMMER. Experience the Heat and possible HURRICANES for yourself and read about predictions for each year to be hotter. Then you can judge if Florida is for you. The Villages has many good points, but the summer is too HOT for many retired people. You need to experience it yourself.

[JMintzer]

Summers have always been hot and Hurricanes have always hit Florida.

Of course they are and of course they do. But a certain poster just HAS to keep beating that dead horse...

[OrangeBlossomBaby]

Agree that the lakes are polluted with pesticide and fertilizer runoff. That could improve if more people had stone yards instead of grass.

Stone yards are horrible. They radiate heat in the summer and choke living things underneath them.

It'd be better if we used natural fertilizers like chicken manure and worm casings for our flower beds, and replaced grass with low-growing plants like peanut plant, that needs little to no maintenance at all and no mowing. And grew plants that were natural insect repellents, while at the same time attracting pollinators.

[RobertScott]

I have no regrets about moving here.

[yankygrl]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?
Try not to be steered to the very south end, currently Middleton/Eastport. Smaller lots, less amenities and I think possibly more expensive. I’ve been here almost 15 years, 3 homes and owned some rentals. All were/are above 44.

[Full-timer]

Hello future neighbors,
We recently moved to Tennessee and are interested in moving next to The Villages. We loved our lifestyle visit and loved so many things about being there. We've been in Tennessee 2 years and have some regrets about moving here. We thought we'd like it more than we do.

Do you have any regrets about moving to The Villages?Yes, we do. We thought we would be happy here so we gave it a go. We have been full timers for 7 years. We don't golf at all but, that is OK. Over the last 7 years, the head count here has seemed to double.

This is great for business, not so much for residents in our opinion. Let me explain a bit.

The traffic on main roads (if you use them) is almost unbearable. Bumper to bumper most of the time, 7 days a week with a mix of workers and retirees.
This is multiplied by 3 when the "snow birds" come back. Ugg, that dreaded time.

Most of the "working class" know how to drive. Most of the "residents" suck at driving but, they "think" they can drive just fine. The answer is no they can't. Not a car and not a cart. This is a big issue for us. Drivers often smashing into other vehicles (or people),due to hitting the gas instead of the brakes or just unaware.

Dining. One would think the dining out here would be fantastic, but it is mediocre for the most part at best. Why? Because you have to eat somewhere and with so many customers, restaurants don't need to be "the best", they just have to make food.

There are a few good places but not many if you like good food. We tend to leave TV when we go out to eat or just go to the few that are consistently good, not hit or miss.

Entertainment. The squares are chuck full ALWAYS. If you don't go early, parking is an issue.
If you don't mind walking a bit, all is good.

limited yard space, (small lots). Again, we thought we could handle it. Neighbor's are way too close. If your windows are open and you fart, they know.

If you can deal with all of this or find OK, you will love it here. But, all of this is getting worse by the day with all the "new" places going up.

FYI, we plan to move out. Just not for us, even if we are getting old.

[Marathon Man]

Try not to be steered to the very south end, currently Middleton/Eastport. Smaller lots, less amenities and I think possibly more expensive. I’ve been here almost 15 years, 3 homes and owned some rentals. All were/are above 44.

And we are now on our second house south of 44. We love it here.

[MX rider]

Yes, we do. We thought we would be happy here so we gave it a go. We have been full timers for 7 years. We don't golf at all but, that is OK. Over the last 7 years, the head count here has seemed to double.

This is great for business, not so much for residents in our opinion. Let me explain a bit.

The traffic on main roads (if you use them) is almost unbearable. Bumper to bumper most of the time, 7 days a week with a mix of workers and retirees.
This is multiplied by 3 when the "snow birds" come back. Ugg, that dreaded time.

Most of the "working class" know how to drive. Most of the "residents" suck at driving but, they "think" they can drive just fine. The answer is no they can't. Not a car and not a cart. This is a big issue for us. Drivers often smashing into other vehicles (or people),due to hitting the gas instead of the brakes or just unaware.

Dining. One would think the dining out here would be fantastic, but it is mediocre for the most part at best. Why? Because you have to eat somewhere and with so many customers, restaurants don't need to be "the best", they just have to make food.

There are a few good places but not many if you like good food. We tend to leave TV when we go out to eat or just go to the few that are consistently good, not hit or miss.

Entertainment. The squares are chuck full ALWAYS. If you don't go early, parking is an issue.
If you don't mind walking a bit, all is good.

limited yard space, (small lots). Again, we thought we could handle it. Neighbor's are way too close. If your windows are open and you fart, they know.

If you can deal with all of this or find OK, you will love it here. But, all of this is getting worse by the day with all the "new" places going up.

FYI, we plan to move out. Just not for us, even if we are getting old.

I would agree with you on the resataurants. But as far as "bumper to bumper traffic all day long", I just don't see that. And we get out and about every day as we are into many activities, golf, softball, riding our motorcycle and going to the gym at Brownwood every day just to mention a few.
But we mostly go North of 44.

We also go the LSL or Brownwood about 2 times a week. Lots of people yes, but overcrowded no.
We love it here, but it's not a good fit for everyone, no place is.
Just my opinion.

[Ignatz]

I would agree with you on the resataurants. But as far as "bumper to bumper traffic all day long", I just don't see that.

We also go the LSL or Brownwood about 2 times a week. Lots of people yes, but overcrowded no.
We love it here, but it's not a good fit for everyone, no place is.
Just my opinion.

Agreed. We can’t seem to find this bad traffic people keep complaining about either.

The worst congestion we see is on the roads outside TV such as 27 through Leesburg.

Morse and 44 has its moments for about a half hour in the afternoon rush but most people know not to go through there at that time.

The only thick crowds we see at the squares is during events like the recent strawberry festival.

None of these make me second guess moving here, but to each their own I guess.

[Ruger2506]

I regret moving to FL and the Villages. Too many people, FL water is DISGUSTING, apparently FL hates nature (loves development, poisoning lakes/ponds, etc), auto insurance rates are insane, and healthcare is mediocre at best.

If I could get my spouse on board, we' d be living somewhere with better water quality, a lot more nature, fewer people, much lower property taxes and lower car ins rates.

[Rainger99]

we' d be living somewhere with better water quality, a lot more nature, fewer people, much lower property taxes and lower car ins rates.

Is there such a place?

[Ruger2506]

Is there such a place?

Out West. I should have moved West instead of South.

[Taltarzac725]

Only one movie theater now here in the Villages. We have been here since June of 2005. All -in-all was a good move from Palm Harbor, Florida. This is near Clearwater, Tarpon Springs, Oldsmar, etc. on the Gulf Coast. We had to worry about hurricanes and the like even if we were at about 20 feet sea level and a few hundred feet from Lake Tarpon which probably has a few hundred if not more gators. If Lake Tarpon raised 21 feet we would have had alligators taking a dip in our pool and trying to make Mai Tais in our kitchen.

[Rainger99]

Out West. I should have moved West instead of South.

Can you be more specific? California, Washington, Oregon, Idaho?

[Taltarzac725]

Can you be more specific? California, Washington, Oregon, Idaho?

Arizona seems to have a lot of retirement communities. I remember touring one with a huge fountain.

[Stu from NYC]

I regret moving to FL and the Villages. Too many people, FL water is DISGUSTING, apparently FL hates nature (loves development, poisoning lakes/ponds, etc), auto insurance rates are insane, and healthcare is mediocre at best.

If I could get my spouse on board, we' d be living somewhere with better water quality, a lot more nature, fewer people, much lower property taxes and lower car ins rates.

Sorry you do not like it here but great amenities, met lots of good folks, joined quite a few clubs and never have socialized as much as we do here.

[Taltarzac725]

Sorry you do not like it here but great amenities, met lots of good folks, joined quite a few clubs and never have socialized as much as we do here.

A lot of the great people I met have moved out of the Villages. The Souths, for instance, moved North.

[Ruger2506]

Can you be more specific? California, Washington, Oregon, Idaho?

Montana, Wyoming, even SD and ND (but those are more Mid-west)

[Ruger2506]

Sorry you do not like it here but great amenities, met lots of good folks, joined quite a few clubs and never have socialized as much as we do here.

I've been told by a number of people I talked to they didn't like it the first year or two. I'm stuck here for 8 years so I've got time to like it. I've go to say the Charter School is amazing.

[Stu from NYC]

I've been told by a number of people I talked to they didn't like it the first year or two. I'm stuck here for 8 years so I've got time to like it. I've go to say the Charter School is amazing.

We got here as covid was started and mostly stuck home for first few years.

New we had to join lots of clubs to make a social life and has worked out great.

[ElDiabloJoe]

I regret moving to FL and the Villages. Too many people, FL water is DISGUSTING, apparently FL hates nature (loves development, poisoning lakes/ponds, etc), auto insurance rates are insane, and healthcare is mediocre at best.

If I could get my spouse on board, we' d be living somewhere with better water quality, a lot more nature, fewer people, much lower property taxes and lower car ins rates.
Enjoy your life (and winters) in Maine.

[OrangeBlossomBaby]

The past month or so, getting involved in [things we're not allowed to talk about here] and meeting so many like-minded people (especially on April 5) has given me more hope about my future here in The Villages. I'd still rather be in New Mexico, but I'm less regretful about our moving here than I was.

[AMB444]

I absolutely love it here!

I've meet a lot of fun and interesting people. There is so much to do in TV and in surrounding areas.

Only thing that concerns me still is hurricane season but I'll have to read up on how to be better prepared going forward.

[jimjamuser]

Some minor regrets .....recently people have been SPEEDING through the supposedly quiet neighborhoods - both cars and golf carts with their governors illegally modified. But, the biggest problem is that in the last 10 years the summers have kept getting more and more HOT. You burn your hand on a car door. It is too HOT to do anything outside from noon until about 6 PM. Also, the high pollen causes allergies in the Spring and Summer. Other than those things, it is functional here.

[jimjamuser]

1 - I miss my life-long friendships. In the 5 years I have been here I have made new friends, but there is a difference in short term vs long term friendships.
2 - It has taken years to find quality medical / dental folks. I have been through a lot of pain and frustration on this particular journey.
3 - Summers seem to be getting hotter, or maybe it's just me.
Summers and other seasons ARE getting hotter. It is easy to Google that.

[jimjamuser]

Rent for a few months in the summer. If you can stand the heat, you will be fine. Summer starts in late April and ends in October. Good luck.
The best advice I have seen. Even better than mine.

[Velvet]

As I drove home to Mallory yesterday at sunset from the grocery store, looking at the beautiful golf courses, enjoying the pleasant weather and the amazing sky, with thoughts of preparing cocktails for tomorrow’s MahJongg at a neighbor’s home, I thanked the great Lord for allowing me this privilege.

[BigSteph]

Yes, we do. We thought we would be happy here so we gave it a go. We have been full timers for 7 years. We don't golf at all but, that is OK. Over the last 7 years, the head count here has seemed to double.

This is great for business, not so much for residents in our opinion. Let me explain a bit.

The traffic on main roads (if you use them) is almost unbearable. Bumper to bumper most of the time, 7 days a week with a mix of workers and retirees.
This is multiplied by 3 when the "snow birds" come back. Ugg, that dreaded time.

Most of the "working class" know how to drive. Most of the "residents" suck at driving but, they "think" they can drive just fine. The answer is no they can't. Not a car and not a cart. This is a big issue for us. Drivers often smashing into other vehicles (or people),due to hitting the gas instead of the brakes or just unaware.

Dining. One would think the dining out here would be fantastic, but it is mediocre for the most part at best. Why? Because you have to eat somewhere and with so many customers, restaurants don't need to be "the best", they just have to make food.

There are a few good places but not many if you like good food. We tend to leave TV when we go out to eat or just go to the few that are consistently good, not hit or miss.

Entertainment. The squares are chuck full ALWAYS. If you don't go early, parking is an issue.
If you don't mind walking a bit, all is good.

limited yard space, (small lots). Again, we thought we could handle it. Neighbor's are way too close. If your windows are open and you fart, they know.

If you can deal with all of this or find OK, you will love it here. But, all of this is getting worse by the day with all the "new" places going up.

FYI, we plan to move out. Just not for us, even if we are getting old.

Where are you considering?

My wife and I think about it -- more a thought exercise than anything. The issue for us is there are not too many other compelling places we would like to live.

Most interesting places are either beyond our economics or require enduring harsher winters.

I'm honestly interested in knowing what other good options you've discovered.

[jimjamuser]

Stone yards are horrible. They radiate heat in the summer and choke living things underneath them.

It'd be better if we used natural fertilizers like chicken manure and worm casings for our flower beds, and replaced grass with low-growing plants like peanut plant, that needs little to no maintenance at all and no mowing. And grew plants that were natural insect repellents, while at the same time attracting pollinators.
Peanut plant yard would be great, but would take more water than stones. Plus water is expensive. As far as" stone yards radiating heat"......which would radiate more heat - stone yards or grass yards cut by GIANT , MASSIVE , LOUD pollution-producing tank-like IC engine, lawn massacre, riding machines. If ALL the commercial lawn massacre types rode on electrical lawn mowers - they I could agree that stone lawns MIGHT be less superior. Also, if we are talking an ideal world, then ALL golf carts would be ELECTRIC.

[Stu from NYC]

Peanut plant yard would be great, but would take more water than stones. Plus water is expensive. As far as" stone yards radiating heat"......which would radiate more heat - stone yards or grass yards cut by GIANT , MASSIVE , LOUD pollution-producing tank-like IC engine, lawn massacre, riding machines. If ALL the commercial lawn massacre types rode on electrical lawn mowers - they I could agree that stone lawns MIGHT be less superior. Also, if we are talking an ideal world, then ALL golf carts would be ELECTRIC.

Love how you tell people electric is the way to go. Just curious buy your EV vehicle yet?

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[AMB444]

As I drove home to Mallory yesterday at sunset from the grocery store, looking at the beautiful golf courses, enjoying the pleasant weather and the amazing sky, with thoughts of preparing cocktails for tomorrow’s MahJongg at a neighbor’s home, I thanked the great Lord for allowing me this privilege.

This is such a wonderful statement! I have the same feeling driving around sunset. Such a beautiful place and I appreciate it everyday.

[OrangeBlossomBaby]

Peanut plant yard would be great, but would take more water than stones. Plus water is expensive. As far as" stone yards radiating heat"......which would radiate more heat - stone yards or grass yards cut by GIANT , MASSIVE , LOUD pollution-producing tank-like IC engine, lawn massacre, riding machines. If ALL the commercial lawn massacre types rode on electrical lawn mowers - they I could agree that stone lawns MIGHT be less superior. Also, if we are talking an ideal world, then ALL golf carts would be ELECTRIC.

That's why I suggested peanut plant. You mow only once every 4-5 weeks on the highest mower setting to maintain the height of weeds - no weedkiller necessary. It's a low-growing grass alternative that's Florida friendly and drought-resistant. It only needs around an inch of water every week, total, including rain. During dry season you could water it for 15 minutes twice a week and it'll be fine.

[John Mayes]

Love how you tell people electric is the way to go. Just curious buy your EV vehicle yet?

asking for a friend

Good luck on getting an answer. Some love to tell others how to live but avoid sharing details on their own decisions.

[ElDiabloJoe]

Peanut plant yard would be great, but would take more water than stones. Plus water is expensive. As far as" stone yards radiating heat"......which would radiate more heat - stone yards or grass yards cut by GIANT , MASSIVE , LOUD pollution-producing tank-like IC engine, lawn massacre, riding machines. If ALL the commercial lawn massacre types rode on electrical lawn mowers - they I could agree that stone lawns MIGHT be less superior. Also, if we are talking an ideal world, then ALL golf carts would be ELECTRIC.

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[Stu from NYC]

Good luck on getting an answer. Some love to tell others how to live but avoid sharing details on their own decisions.

Very true

[Snakster66]

6 months and only one regret. I regret I'm still working (albeit remotely). This too shall pass.

I'm loving being in the middle of a boatload of golf courses generally, and 2 minutes from Palmer specifically. I suppose I wouldn't mind finding a regular golf partner or group, but I'm sure that'll happen eventually.