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Tom Hannon
12-10-2011, 06:58 PM
Facebook has a post titled "HaTE THE VILLAGES FLORIDA". Hundreds of bozo's ripping TV and its residence apart. According to their facts we are all brain dead and infersted with STD's. If any of you guys are on Facebook, help me throw it back in their faces.
borjo
12-10-2011, 07:16 PM
I really think a lot of them are kids that work here by what some of what they were saying. I wouldn't want the page to get bigger by starting a war. We know their turn will come at getting old. Meanwhile, I'll just sign myself out as one of their "Wrinkle Monsters"
Happinow
12-10-2011, 07:29 PM
Tom, I don't think we should waste our time or our breath on those "Villages haters". Obviously, they are jealous. We know what paradise is....
Tom Hannon
12-10-2011, 07:35 PM
Tom, I don't think we should waste our time or our breath on those "Villages haters". Obviously, they are jealous. We know what paradise is....
I agree. We don't want these dirt bags here anyway. The less people who know about TV the less people to tie up the golf courses and eateries.
cappyjon431
12-10-2011, 07:45 PM
I've been on Facebook for over eight years and one thing I have learned is that there is more crap on that site than any other social media site I have ever seen. I guess with over 500 million users it is only logical that there are lots of folks out there with axes to grind.
The OP piqued my curiosity, but the only site I could find was this one:
https://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/I-Hate-The-Villages/298197843546205
which shows that this site only had 13 "likes." Not much venom there. Perhaps the original poster could post the link so I can see the "hundreds" of youngins spouting their uneducated vitriol.
Tom Hannon
12-10-2011, 07:49 PM
I've been on Facebook for over eight years and one thing I have learned is that there is more crap on that site than any other social media site I have ever seen. I guess with over 500 million users it is only logical that there are lots of folks out there with axes to grind.
The OP piqued my curiosity, but the only site I could find was this one:
https://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/I-Hate-The-Villages/298197843546205
which shows that this site only had 13 "likes." Not much venom there. Perhaps the original poster could post the link so I can see the "hundreds" of youngins spouting their uneducated vitriol.
http://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=289450891094200&id=126550650717559
buggyone
12-10-2011, 07:56 PM
Personally, I would not waste my time reading the hate items of disenchanted youths who are working at menial jobs in The Villages.
However, if one knew of the youth's employer and showed the employer the hatefilled diatribe their employee had toward the customers, I doubt if the employee would be employed much longer. These disenchanted youths usually do not realize the consequences of posting too much information on Facebook. It can turn around and bite you in the butt.
cappyjon431
12-10-2011, 08:06 PM
http://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=289450891094200&id=126550650717559
Thanks Tom. I don't know why I couldn't find it, but your link took me right there.
A few obsevations:
There are only 60 "likes" for the page, so we are only looking at a small number of bitter morons.
Very few of the posts are recent.
What strikes me the most is that the posters rely on ugly generalizations about old folks. It is very similar to prejudice, bigotry and the like. People who post those types of things are the same as those who claim "All blacks are..." or "All Jews are..." or even "All liberals are..." Stereotyping is the weapon of the ignorant.
Don't waste your time trying to engage these folks in a battle of wits, because your oppnents are unarmed. Ignore them...most of their posts are made when Villagers actually respond to their nonsense.
Sunshine Mary
12-10-2011, 08:13 PM
Yes people is jealous and I bet there never been here before .The place I stay last winter in Fort Myers put the Village down but never been here before . So how can you say anything about it if you never been here before
eweissenbach
12-10-2011, 08:19 PM
Facebook has a post titled "HaTE THE VILLAGES FLORIDA". Hundreds of bozo's ripping TV and its residence apart. According to their facts we are all brain dead and infersted with STD's. If any of you guys are on Facebook, help me throw it back in their faces.
Thanks, I'm on facebook, but I think I'll pass on that page.
CarGuys
12-10-2011, 10:05 PM
Many have told me the best thing you have ever done Herv is never gotten a face book account or page or what ever.
I can die tomorrow and not say I missed out on something great! Unless you like stress!
Tom turn it off! Your in TV enjoy that. I'll be your BFF.
I still get txt and pics of my Grandkids on the my computer and cell.
Your a great Guy go cold Turkey unfreind the whole darn thing!
cappyjon431
12-10-2011, 10:23 PM
Many have told me the best thing you have ever done Herv is never gotten a face book account or page or what ever.
I can die tomorrow and not say I missed out on something great! Unless you like stress!
Tom turn it off! Your in TV enjoy that. I'll be your BFF.
I still get txt and pics of my Grandkids on the my computer and cell.
Your a great Guy go cold Turkey unfreind the whole darn thing!
You are certainly entitled to your opinion and if you don't want to be on Facebook, I applaude you standing by your principles. For me personally, I have to respectfully disagree.
I have found FB to be an excellent way to stay in touch--it has put me in touch with friends from grammar school, junior and senior high, and college. We have a family page where siblings, cousins, aunts and uncles, and parents can stay in touch on a daily basis. FB is just a tool for communication (just like TOTV) and anything that enhances communication between friends and relatives is OK in my book.
I don't find that it adds to stress, in fact, I find it one of my more relaxing activities.
It is certainly not for everyone, and there are people who become addicted to it (just like other message boards and social media sites) and others who abuse it, but if it is used as a tool (like TOTV, cell phones, email, snail mail, etc.) it can be very beneficial.
Just my $.02
Trish Crocker
12-10-2011, 10:26 PM
I'm on facebook for a few reasons...no, I don't care what everyone is doing every minute of the day or if their kid has the sniffles...I use it to talk to my kids and grandkids and it really does give me insight into what is going on in their lives...they are much more open when expressing themselves (sometimes too much so!)..I have also reconnected with some great friends that I had lost contact with and I really like the stupid games (I know, I need to get a life!)
graciegirl
12-10-2011, 10:27 PM
I agree Cappy Jon.
It keeps me up to date with our grandkids and our grandchildrens friends and our adult kids who are active in civic theatre.
And my class of '57...and our old neighbors in Ohio.
And there are a LOT of villagers who post too.
Trish Crocker
12-10-2011, 10:32 PM
I agree Cappy Jon.
It keeps me up to date with our grandkids and our grandchildrens friends and our adult kids who are active in civic theatre.
And my class of '57...and our old neighbors in Ohio.
And there are a LOT of villagers who post too.
Gee Gracie...class of '57...that was kindergarten, wasn't it???
skyc6
12-10-2011, 10:59 PM
There has been some information out there on the internet about "TV having the highest rate of STDs in the US" for a long time. That statistic just doesn't make sense! Compared to NYC, LA, San Fran????? Really! It has persisted as an urban legend wannabee, so maybe that is where these little morons got their info. Whatever! Not worth bothering with--maybe they won't move here--somehow we will get along without them!
Sunshine Mary
12-10-2011, 11:03 PM
:agree:There has been some information out there on the internet about "TV having the highest rate of STDs in the US" for a long time. That statistic just doesn't make sense! Compared to NYC, LA, San Fran????? Really! It has persisted as an urban legend wannabee, so maybe that is where these little morons got their info. Whatever! Not worth bothering with--maybe they won't move here--somehow we will get along without them!
CarGuys
12-10-2011, 11:29 PM
I understand where you guys are coming from and do respect your free access to the social network. Point well taken. I'm maybe a little jealouse you guys have fun with Face Book. Maybe I'm a the last Face Book virgin!
Here is my life with Face Book. How many kids are on under the legal face book age of 13?
If you saw some of the stuff the Police have show us in seminars it would make you think diff! In the public school sector it is discouraged by Admin and HR.
Have been shown what the Feds can do with your information and contacts.
Have had way to many seminars on face book bullying from both adults and kids
Have had way to may graduates not get a job because of past face book activity.
And my only close experience of Face Book has been fellow students and employees excorted out in handcuffs!
Oh and the fist fight outside of Church over a facebook argument!
And worst of all I now find out from Tom, We all live in a Village full of people with STD's That was way to much information for me. :coolsmiley:
I'm glad for all your advice- I do not mean to be argumentative- Maybe when I retire I can get my own page - And then again maybe I'll stay a Face Book Virgin. Then I can't get a Social Media STD:ohdear:
AM I the only one not on Face Book in the Villages. That would be intersting.
Xavier
12-11-2011, 12:05 AM
I understand where you guys are coming from and do respect your free access to the social network. Point well taken. I'm maybe a little jealouse you guys have fun with Face Book. Maybe I'm a the last Face Book virgin!
Here is my life with Face Book. How many kids are on under the legal face book age of 13?
If you saw some of the stuff the Police have show us in seminars it would make you think diff! In the public school sector it is discouraged by Admin and HR.
Have been shown what the Feds can do with your information and contacts.
Have had way to many seminars on face book bullying from both adults and kids
Have had way to may graduates not get a job because of past face book activity.
And my only close experience of Face Book has been fellow students and employees excorted out in handcuffs!
Oh and the fist fight outside of Church over a facebook argument!
And worst of all I now find out from Tom, We all live in a Village full of people with STD's That was way to much information for me. :coolsmiley:
I'm glad for all your advice- I do not mean to be argumentative- Maybe when I retire I can get my own page - And then again maybe I'll stay a Face Book Virgin. Then I can't get a Social Media STD:ohdear:
AM I the only one not on Face Book in the Villages. That would be intersting.
Nah, you're not the only one. I tried it for a month or two at my daughter's suggestion. I absolutely hated it. I care too much about my privacy and the privacy of my loved ones for that type of exposure and frankly I really don't care about all of life's ups and downs for people who are darn-near total strangers. My junk email ratcheted up considerably. Someone even took the time to explain why they had defriended someone. I didn't even know it was like the end of the world to be defriended. Nah, I'm into a stress-free existence now-a-days.
Oh, about the STD problem (long ago and probably greatly exaggerated) - damn that little blue pill!
Xavier
CarGuys
12-11-2011, 12:31 AM
Glen just confided to me he is a Face Book Virgin also.
What ever they call us I sure am happy to be moving there. Maybe I better get a body condom!
Herv
jackz
12-11-2011, 02:50 AM
[QUOTE=CarGuys;427859]Glen just confided to me he is a Face Book Virgin also.
Facebook virgin as well but admit that my wife is on it so if there is ever anything interesting she passes it on. No desire for my own page. I kid her by telling her that I am on the ADULT FACEBOOK, Linkedin....
Tickled_pink
12-11-2011, 03:04 AM
I really think a lot of them are kids that work here by what some of what they were saying. I wouldn't want the page to get bigger by starting a war. We know their turn will come at getting old. Meanwhile, I'll just sign myself out as one of their "Wrinkle Monsters"
If the creator of "Hate The Villages" and the other posters are employees of TV, I would love to know where they work. Based on their negative comments, I don't think I would want them preparing any of my meals. Just sayin'.
Jim Straz
12-11-2011, 06:48 AM
Glen just confided to me he is a Face Book Virgin also.
What ever they call us I sure am happy to be moving there. Maybe I better get a body condom!
Herv
It's hard for an Italian man to admit he's a 'Virgin' to anything, but I am to Facebook as well.
http://techland.time.com/2011/05/27/viewpoint-facebook-is-not-your-friend/
tainsley
12-11-2011, 06:52 AM
I am a facebook virgin also...I am so glad I am not alone! :laugh: I still enjoy writing letters and sending cards to friends and family...and I love receiving them too!
Challenger
12-11-2011, 07:26 AM
My daddy told me " dont get in a ****ing match with a fool" sounds like it applies here:boxing2:
Russ_Boston
12-11-2011, 07:29 AM
I agree Cappy Jon.
It keeps me up to date with our grandkids and our grandchildrens friends and our adult kids who are active in civic theatre.
And my class of '57...and our old neighbors in Ohio.
And there are a LOT of villagers who post too.
Have to agree with Gracie (we're FB buddies also).
57? That's my year too. We're talking birth year right? :)
red tail
12-11-2011, 07:36 AM
sounds like a lot of people on this forum are still living in the past. just because you're retired doesnt mean new things are bad. better be careful or the next thing you know you'll be an 'old fogey'
kathy and al
12-11-2011, 07:59 AM
Add my name to the "Face Book Virgins". And by the way, does anyone have any idea where the STD's statistics for the Villages is obtained?? Just curious what authoritative report quotes these figures.
Tom Hannon
12-11-2011, 08:04 AM
Add my name to the "Face Book Virgins". And by the way, does anyone have any idea where the STD's statistics for the Villages is obtained?? Just curious what authoritative report quotes these figures.
I think it was mentioned in the BS book "Leisure Village" Not sure if it was ever confirmed but I hear the same stat from many people when I mention The Villages. Who knows how accurate it is.
Russ_Boston
12-11-2011, 08:11 AM
Add my name to the "Face Book Virgins". And by the way, does anyone have any idea where the STD's statistics for the Villages is obtained?? Just curious what authoritative report quotes these figures.
I hear this almost every day up north when I mention I live in TV. I just say "Imagine that, old people like sex too!" And even if the stats were true why would that concern the vast majority of us TV'ers who are married?
graciegirl
12-11-2011, 08:15 AM
Have to agree with Gracie (we're FB buddies also).
57? That's my year too. We're talking birth year right? :)
Russ.
The elves are watching you and listening to you too.
It isn't good to be naughty this time of the year.
Take it from an OLD friend! ;)
faithfulfrank
12-11-2011, 08:16 AM
Hey Russ,
Good to see you again!
I admit the wife and I both have facebook accounts. It has proven to be a great way to keep up with the daily lives of our kids and grandchild. The pictures and videos they post are wonderful to see when you live 100's of miles away.
Like anything, it is how you use it. I have become reacquainted with some wonderful friends from the past whom I do not think I'd ever hear from again if not for facebook. I have been able to share pictures, etc there. Just prior to our move down here I used a local facebook page up north to sell many items quickly and without cost.
But, I am picky about it too. My wife is even more so. I do not play their games, etc. If I hardly knew you 30 years ago I will not automatically make you my "facebook friend". I don't facebook "poke".
As to the original topic of some hateful facebook page, there are idiots everywhere. Engaging with them is foolish, as you are not going to change a closed mind. It is like swimming in quicksand. He who argues with a fool is a fool...and most all of the good folks here are to smart to be foolish....
Living well is the best revenge.....:laugh:
Frank
Posh 08
12-11-2011, 08:33 AM
We like the FB video call feature.
kathy and al
12-11-2011, 08:40 AM
I think it was mentioned in the BS book "Leisure Village" Not sure if it was ever confirmed but I hear the same stat from many people when I mention The Villages. Who knows how accurate it is.
Where do you suppose "Leisure Village" got these statistics?? Did they do some kind of survey? Did they quote some vital stats from an accredited source? It's real easy to just throw out erroneous info such as this without having some viable proof.
Tom Hannon
12-11-2011, 08:54 AM
Where do you suppose "Leisure Village" got these statistics?? Did they do some kind of survey? Did they quote some vital stats from an accredited source? It's real easy to just throw out erroneous info such as this without having some viable proof.
You can always go to Facebook and ask the author. LOL.
cappyjon431
12-11-2011, 09:05 AM
The book was actually entitled Leisureville (I read it, and while it had some funny stories and characters, it was an excellent example of sensationalism), but the STD figures have been circulating for many years, even prior to the book. A quick Google search shows this article as early as 2006:
http://www.wftv.com/news/news/doctors-in-retirement-community-seeing-increase-in/nFB8g/
When the national and international news got wind of this one doctor in TV reporting a surprisingly high number of patients with STDs, it became a media sensation and was widely reported around the world. Even though this was one doctor who did not conduct a scientific study but only reported anecdotal evidence, it became so widespread as to become an urban legend.
graciegirl
12-11-2011, 09:22 AM
I have heard that about std so many times and I am never sure if the people telling me are shocked or envious.
angiefox10
12-11-2011, 09:59 AM
Is what you make it.
I have made friends, found friends and relatives, saved dogs,learned from, laughed and cried with people, because of fb. You can tell all or nothing about yourself. It's yours do do with as you wish. There is only bullying if you allow it. I delete anyone who is not nice on my wall and I have been deleted. It's not personal. It's just fb.
It's the only place where I can pick the people around me. It can be as private as you want it to be.
I prefer it to here. Where people do bully and threaten.
I forgot.... We were able to collect enough money to save a home. $12,000. She is a dog rescuer who had lost a job and by the time she got another one was losing her home. Time to give back to someone who had given so much. People from all over the US were there for her. Couldn't have done it without fb.
scottiee
12-11-2011, 11:39 AM
I am a member of FB and on it you can start a page about anything. Like half the people on it know anything about the Villages. Next what in the heck is this thing about STD? That that sounds like a lot of baloney to me where does that come where is the proof. I believe that as much as I believe that the Villages is a colony from Mars. NEXT I admit it I am jealous I have got to work another 4 years.
Sunshine Mary
12-11-2011, 11:58 AM
I have heard that about std so many times and I am never sure if the people telling me are shocked or envious.
Grace I was told about the STD when we was in Fort Myers last year .
where all we did last year was go to the pool every day and one pot luck dinner .and one dance nothing to do there ....This is a big city so it might be out there .
People well say a lot because they want to be here .
CarGuys
12-11-2011, 12:14 PM
[QUOTE=CarGuys;427859]Glen just confided to me he is a Face Book Virgin also.
Facebook virgin as well but admit that my wife is on it so if there is ever anything interesting she passes it on. No desire for my own page. I kid her by telling her that I am on the ADULT FACEBOOK, Linkedin....
You can find me on Linkedin- I'm not a Virgin already been had by my business partners! :) I'm still a newbie on that. Learning
LoriAnn
12-11-2011, 12:41 PM
The STD "thing" came from a news article about the growing rate of STD in the elderly. A public health nurse was quoted in the article regarding a recent spike in the STD reporting in the villages. It made national news because it seemed unconventional to have a spike in STD reportings in a community of mostly retired people. The story has NEVER gone away. Anyone in the public health field knows that spikes occur in every city. The rate of reporting is constantly changing with spikes and leveling off. The article never said the the STD rate was the highest is Florida. It simply stated that the Villages had spikes in disease reporting just like any other community. Over the years the story has been embellished again and again.
Barefoot
12-11-2011, 12:51 PM
I have heard that about std so many times and I am never sure if the people telling me are shocked or envious.
Along with the STD story, there used to also be an Urban Legend about rampant sex activities in golf carts in the parking lots around K. Belles! :laugh::1rotfl::a20: In reality, the majority of Villagers are at home in bed by 10 PM!
graciegirl
12-11-2011, 12:57 PM
For some reason...I would rather the outside world believes all that rather than we are all here just rocking on some porch.
Let 'em wonder.............
Sunshine Mary
12-11-2011, 01:01 PM
For some reason...I would rather the outside world believes all that rather than we are all here just rocking on some porch.
Let 'em wonder.............
:agree:
scottiee
12-11-2011, 10:07 PM
That explins that Thanks LoriAnn
CarGuys
12-11-2011, 10:29 PM
Ya see Gracie , I told ya it has to be something in the water! :1rotfl::1rotfl:
Counting down the days till we move in. YEA!
:clap2::clap2:
gerryann
12-12-2011, 12:06 AM
So....no more submarine races at Lake Sumter?? ;)
jackz
12-12-2011, 02:37 AM
Along with the STD story, there used to also be an Urban Legend about rampant sex activities in golf carts in the parking lots around K. Belles! :laugh::1rotfl::a20: In reality, the majority of Villagers are at home in bed by 10 PM!
Let us not forget "Mr Midnite"..........(for those who have read Leisureville)..
Tom Hannon
12-12-2011, 05:30 AM
For some reason...I would rather the outside world believes all that rather than we are all here just rocking on some porch.
Let 'em wonder.............
We ain't dead yet.
RichieB
12-12-2011, 10:19 AM
We ain't dead yet.
Since you're still in NY, perhaps you've seen those Medicare Advantage commwhere the ercials (I think they were Empire BC/BS) ? I particularly liked the one where the baby boomer grandfather grabs the guitar from his granddaughter, then starts playing with the band.
No, we ain't dead yet.
Tom Hannon
12-12-2011, 11:00 AM
Just received this in my mailbox. As much as I wish to respond, I won't. No sense getting into a ****ing contest with people with one track minds.
Hi Tom,
Hate The Villages FL also commented on their Wall post.
Hate The Villages FL wrote: "but you have to keep in mind how rude and nasty some of the older folks are to the ones that take their orders serve their food sell them products etc.. we didnt ask for you to come in and be nasty we r here being paid by a company to help not take abuse"
2BNTV
12-12-2011, 11:28 AM
I was on Facebook a while back and when I suddenly received a friend invitation from someone I didn't know, I became concerned about safety.
As a former techie who is going in the other direction, I realize I may have been too concerned. I heard that Facebook had some security concerns but they were adddressed and probabily is as safe a site as one can be. I'm sure it serves a useful function to those who use it prudently.
Although, I will admit I didn't really look into these comments made on Facebook, my general impression is that it is a sign of the times. Just as the comedy routines/shows/movies, that are more graphic and vulgar as oppossed to years ago. I am not a prude and enjoy a lot of humor.
The spewing of garbage from one's mouth reminds me of an old comment, "do you eat of the same mouth that you talk".
BigLew
12-12-2011, 01:51 PM
Just received this in my mailbox. As much as I wish to respond, I won't. No sense getting into a ****ing contest with people with one track minds.
Hi Tom,
Hate The Villages FL also commented on their Wall post.
Hate The Villages FL wrote: "but you have to keep in mind how rude and nasty some of the older folks are to the ones that take their orders serve their food sell them products etc.. we didnt ask for you to come in and be nasty we r here being paid by a company to help not take abuse"
they forget where their bread is buttered, but have no fear, as of my last visit to the page, it would 'appear' that superman's old friend jimmy olsen visited them and addressed all of their concerns.
:rolleyes:
SgtJohn
12-12-2011, 02:10 PM
Facebook is one of the most hacked web sites around. They continue to claim they have addressed the problem. That is until it is hacked again and personal information is stolen.
nitehawk
12-12-2011, 02:18 PM
Just received this in my mailbox. As much as I wish to respond, I won't. No sense getting into a ****ing contest with people with one track minds.
Hi Tom,
Hate The Villages FL also commented on their Wall post.
Hate The Villages FL wrote: "but you have to keep in mind how rude and nasty some of the older folks are to the ones that take their orders serve their food sell them products etc.. we didnt ask for you to come in and be nasty we r here being paid by a company to help not take abuse"
:bigbow:
RichieB
12-12-2011, 03:59 PM
Facebook is one of the most hacked web sites around. They continue to claim they have addressed the problem. That is until it is hacked again and personal information is stolen.
Facebook is nice as a communications tool, but you have to be careful about what you put on there.
Then again, sites like FB are part of the reason we have gotten away from SPEAKING with one another.
Tom Hannon
12-12-2011, 05:34 PM
Michael Alderman- another famous quote from Facebook This one is a classic.
The residents of The Villages have it all backwards. They think they deserve certain privileges because they live in their manufactured "paradise". What they don't realize is what a privilege it is for them to live in our beautiful county(s). We were here first. We have lived here and called this place home long before they came and overcrowded our highways and ruined our scenery. Yet they call us dumb and ignorant rednecks because we resent them. Its a no brainer that we all have to co-exist now. it would just be so much easier if the Villages residents would lose their arrogance and holier than thou attitude.
***************
If it weren't for us, half the people in the area would be unemployeed.
rjm1cc
12-12-2011, 06:21 PM
Who cares.
Everyone can have an opinion and if they can not support their opinion with a rational argument why pay any attention to it?
NeverEndingBattle
12-12-2011, 11:56 PM
If any of you wanted to know who started the page here is an interesting picture of him. Seems he tried very hard to wipe his identity from the page, but no one is ever truly anonymous on the internet.
Stuff you post there is here to stay. I present to you Michael Alderman.
So does anyone know him?
http://i43.tinypic.com/anqiu.jpg
LoriAnn
12-12-2011, 11:58 PM
Great job. So, that's Micheal Alderman. The Villages hater.
Tom Hannon
12-13-2011, 03:11 AM
If any of you wanted to know who started the page here is an interesting picture of him. Seems he tried very hard to wipe his identity from the page, but no one is ever truly anonymous on the internet.
Stuff you post there is here to stay. I present to you Michael Alderman.
So does anyone know him?
http://i43.tinypic.com/anqiu.jpg
If I ever need a private detective I'll know who to call. Great research.
jackz
12-13-2011, 06:07 AM
Who cares.
Everyone can have an opinion and if they can not support their opinion with a rational argument why pay any attention to it?
I'm with you on your post. Life is too short to worry about people who you will never be able to change... Move on and Enjoy...
graciegirl
12-13-2011, 06:07 AM
A little grey at the temples. A beer can in his hand. Says his family was here first. There is a sugar cane farm listed as belonging to an Alderman off 301.
IF he is a server...Let us first believe that many have been impatient, condescending, rude and just plain mean and bossy. I feel for him. However, most of us have had our kids serve or been a server at some time in our life. That, unfortunately comes with the territory. But I have been at a few tables here where I cringed at the ordering around of the servers.
I find that most of the servers here in The Villages are the best I have ever run across. Showing no impatience for the separate checks we ask for routinely and the fill ups for tea and coffee. and the very small tips I suspect are given at times.
However. Michael Alderman who has gray at his temples will be among us in due time. Some cultures honor their seniors. I am so afraid that many in the younger generations haven't been taught to do so and many of the older generation don't behave as if they deserve it...but that all said,...
Shame on you Michael!
Tom Hannon
12-13-2011, 06:14 AM
Gracie- Always the voice of reason. She has my vote for The Presidency.
RichieB
12-13-2011, 07:20 AM
Seems he tried very hard to wipe his identity from the page, but no one is ever truly anonymous on the internet.
Stuff you post there is here to stay.
That's very true - once you hit that "enter" key, it's out there.
You can't be too careful.
paulandjean
12-13-2011, 09:09 AM
"Who Cares"
LoriAnn
12-13-2011, 09:23 AM
If "YOU" don't care, stay out of the conversation. Geez, go have your wheaties or something!
2BNTV
12-13-2011, 10:54 AM
Just received this in my mailbox. As much as I wish to respond, I won't. No sense getting into a ****ing contest with people with one track minds.
Hi Tom,
Hate The Villages FL also commented on their Wall post.
Hate The Villages FL wrote: "but you have to keep in mind how rude and nasty some of the older folks are to the ones that take their orders serve their food sell them products etc.. we didnt ask for you to come in and be nasty we r here being paid by a company to help not take abuse"
It sounds like this person is bitching about what he has to do to earn a living. My point of view is that if you don't like your job, you need to find something else or quit. The company I worked at just laid off 25% of their staff. I guess their complaints wil now take a new tact.
"You can't open a closed mind".
Your a great guy Tom. I wouldn't let this peturb me any longer. :)
Tom Hannon
12-13-2011, 11:06 AM
Your a great guy Tom. I wouldn't let this peturb me any longer. :)
I'm over it. I just think it is funny how the younger generation thinks of us. They don't realise someday they might get there also. But TV will be already built out. Their loss.
2BNTV
12-13-2011, 11:13 AM
I'm over it. I just think it is funny how the younger generation thinks of us. They don't realise someday they might get there also. But TV will be already built out. Their loss.
It's good to hear your over it.
"It's too bad that youth is wasted on the young".
RichieB
12-13-2011, 12:41 PM
I'm over it. I just think it is funny how the younger generation thinks of us. They don't realise someday they might get there also. But TV will be already built out. Their loss.
I agree with 2B - don't let it get to you.
I think about my 97 yo mother, who is going through advancing Alzheimers and is just not her old self anymore. I have to remind myself and those of my "baby boomer" generation that WE are NEXT !
Heard a true story on this morning's news about a guy who wanted a few days off from work. He faked his mother's obituary, without telling her. His employer found out about it, and fired him. Now he has the time off..........
2BNTV
12-13-2011, 01:36 PM
A man once said:
"Don't let anybody rent space in your head".
graciegirl
12-13-2011, 02:56 PM
The same guy pictured, and I don't know how you'all know this is the guy, but the same guy is on My Space and the pictures there are worse and his choice of a t shirt tells a story in itself.
Maybe we should just leave well enough alone and close this thread.
2BNTV
12-13-2011, 03:00 PM
The same guy pictured, and I don't know how you'all know this is the guy, but the same guy is on My Space and the pictures there are worse and his choice of a t shirt tells a story in itself.
Maybe we should just leave well enough alone and close this thread.
I second that motion!!!!!!!
Tom Hannon
12-13-2011, 03:05 PM
The same guy pictured, and I don't know how you'all know this is the guy, but the same guy is on My Space and the pictures there are worse and his choice of a t shirt tells a story in itself.
Maybe we should just leave well enough alone and close this thread.
I third the motion. We got a lot of milage on this thread. Time to move on to more important features.
RichieB
12-13-2011, 03:20 PM
There's been a motion with a second and a third.......
All in favor ??............
brostholder
12-13-2011, 03:41 PM
Thanks Tom. I don't know why I couldn't find it, but your link took me right there.
A few obsevations:
There are only 60 "likes" for the page, so we are only looking at a small number of bitter morons.
Very few of the posts are recent.
What strikes me the most is that the posters rely on ugly generalizations about old folks. It is very similar to prejudice, bigotry and the like. People who post those types of things are the same as those who claim "All blacks are..." or "All Jews are..." or even "All liberals are..." Stereotyping is the weapon of the ignorant.
Don't waste your time trying to engage these folks in a battle of wits, because your oppnents are unarmed. Ignore them...most of their posts are made when Villagers actually respond to their nonsense.
Very well said.
brostholder
12-13-2011, 03:51 PM
This type of resentment is very common in areas that have experienced large influx's of people. While I certainly don't condone this persons vitriol, it is not uncommon in areas that have changed radically in a short period of time. If you live in South Florida, you will often see bumper stickers that say "Native Floridian", of "we don't care how you did it in New York". They long for a time they will never be able to get back again. I'm sure that if there was facebook in the early 1900's we would have read of resentment of Catholics, Irish, Italians, etc. Let's just let it go. Not everyone has to love us.
rubicon
12-13-2011, 04:04 PM
The posts by these young people are truly upsetting becuase they confirm once again that elders have lost their status in our society. It use to be that elders were given great respect and younger people sought out their opinions. Now we too often appear to be a drag on society
angiefox10
12-13-2011, 04:45 PM
Wait.... Before you close this thread I want to say something.
Shocking huh?
So I was thinking about the kids saying tv came in and destroyed their beautiful landscape. But it seems that TV has been around for much longer then they have.
Too bad they aren't thankful for the jobs it has created that the kids in my neighborhood would love to have. There are people making a lot of
money here. These kids have only lived here so they might. Ot understand the resession the rest of the US has gone though.
Whew. OK. I'm done.
fwpc3
12-13-2011, 05:25 PM
The posts by these young people are truly upsetting becuase they confirm once again that elders have lost their status in our society. It use to be that elders were given great respect and younger people sought out their opinions. Now we too often appear to be a drag on society
The name Alderman is derived from the old English title "ealdorman" meaning elder man.
Bill & Carolyn
12-13-2011, 08:12 PM
Facebook has a post titled "HaTE THE VILLAGES FLORIDA". Hundreds of bozo's ripping TV and its residence apart. According to their facts we are all brain dead and infersted with STD's. If any of you guys are on Facebook, help me throw it back in their faces.
Why? You can't fight ignorance and hate with facts. If they don't like TV, so what?
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