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Billyworld
05-07-2012, 09:34 AM
Last Saturday evening I went to Redsauce to have dinner and a couple of drinks at the outside bar. I looked around and there were no tobacco junkies at the bar. I sat down and there was a empty seat next to me. By the time I got my drink, this guy in his 30's sat down and lighted up. I had already ordered a chopped anipasta salad. By the time I got my salad, this guy smoked two cigs. I got my salad and counted five more cigs he smoked while I ate my meal;. The couple next to me split because they could not take the smoke any longer. I tried to get my check so I could pay and get my butt into some clean air but the barmaid was busy due to the crowd. This guy went to light up again and I asked him if he ever came up for fresh air? He laughed as if it was a joke. I then told him he was a inconsiderate SOB and finally got my bill and quickly paid it and left. I went inside and talked to the female manager and she said that there was nothing that can be done about people smoking outside. Now I am all fired up. This guy doesn't even live in The Villages. Him and the other cigarette smoking drunks that hang out there don't even own a home in The Villages. They hang there only because it's cheap to drink there. I don't know about you, but I think the time has come to end ALL smoking at restaurants and outside bars in T:spoken:he Villages. Why do the majority of people need to smell that fowl smoke from the few that do smoke? Let me know how you feel as I am getting a movement going to end all outside smoking not only in the Villages but also in the entire State of Florida. Please email your congressman and State Senator and lets put a end to this smelling nasty smoke once and for all. ------And to you smokers that don't agree with me and are offended by this post, you brought this on yourself!!!!!
graciegirl
05-07-2012, 09:44 AM
All I can say is this. I have gone to two funerals of close friends in the past year that were smokers.
I just wish people would stop for their own sakes. It is such a painful death.
Sadly I feel that anyone who lives here in TV with us has an addiction of such length and depth and so merciless that stopping is going to be way more difficult than if they were younger. Practically impossible.
I smoked and stopped quite some time ago, so I not some preachin' lady.
I just HATE to smell it now. Nothin' worse than a reformed anything.
Bogie Shooter
05-07-2012, 09:56 AM
Last Saturday evening I went to Redsauce to have dinner and a couple of drinks at the outside bar. I looked around and there were no tobacco junkies at the bar. I sat down and there was a empty seat next to me. By the time I got my drink, this guy in his 30's sat down and lighted up. I had already ordered a chopped anipasta salad. By the time I got my salad, this guy smoked two cigs. I got my salad and counted five more cigs he smoked while I ate my meal;. The couple next to me split because they could not take the smoke any longer. I tried to get my check so I could pay and get my butt into some clean air but the barmaid was busy due to the crowd. This guy went to light up again and I asked him if he ever came up for fresh air? He laughed as if it was a joke. I then told him he was a inconsiderate SOB and finally got my bill and quickly paid it and left. I went inside and talked to the female manager and she said that there was nothing that can be done about people smoking outside. Now I am all fired up. This guy doesn't even live in The Villages. Him and the other cigarette smoking drunks that hang out there don't even own a home in The Villages. They hang there only because it's cheap to drink there. I don't know about you, but I think the time has come to end ALL smoking at restaurants and outside bars in T:spoken:he Villages. Why do the majority of people need to smell that fowl smoke from the few that do smoke? Let me know how you feel as I am getting a movement going to end all outside smoking not only in the Villages but also in the entire State of Florida. Please email your congressman and State Senator and lets put a end to this smelling nasty smoke once and for all. ------And to you smokers that don't agree with me and are offended by this post, you brought this on yourself!!!!!
Here is some information:
Florida Clean Indoor Air Act (FCIAA) (http://doh.state.fl.us/tobacco/FCIAA.html)
mikeandnancy1112
05-07-2012, 10:03 AM
My husband and I quit smoking 19 years ago. I quit 2 months before he had quadruple by-pass and he quit 2 weeks before. We have not smoked since and have trouble being in the same room with someone who smokes. I golf with ladies on Thursdays and a couple of them smoke but are very considerate to those who don't. I agree, smoking should not be aloud in inside or outside bars/restaurants.
This is just my opinion.
memason
05-07-2012, 10:07 AM
So how would anyone feel sitting next to a person using an E-Cigarette, which has only water vapor (looks like smoke) and smells like cherries or vanilla ???
No second smoke...
Just curious...
rtime
05-07-2012, 10:15 AM
It is hard to try to enjoy a meal when someone is smoking next to you. Coming from Washington State that doesn't allow smoking inside and outside it is hard to get used too. Sometimes the hour of the day is a little better. Oregon has the same laws about smoking, in fact at Civic Stadium, where most of the major sports are played you can't even smoke there. I wish they would ban smoking anywhere inside the curb area at the squares. You're sitting there trying to enjoy the music and someone is in the legal area to smoke and you have to put up with it, we usually move to a cleaner spot.
billethkid
05-07-2012, 10:17 AM
are we saying we want the non smokers to decide where they would like to frequent and then have smokers banned from those areas?
We have gone from smoke anyplace, anytime to smoking or non smoking inside, to no smoking inside and now suggesting no smoking outside?
And then to ban smoking in the state of FL???
Sounds to me like the non smokers already have all the options as it stands today. But you want it banned in other areas just in case you decide you want to go there too.
I hate to disappoint some of you but that is not a very equitable position to take. If you don't like the smoke stay out of the areas where it is allowed. THAT SOLVES THE PROBLEM!!!
btk
goingtothevillages
05-07-2012, 10:25 AM
are we saying we want the non smokers to decide where they would like to frequent and then have smokers banned from those areas?
We have gone from smoke anyplace, anytime to smoking or non smoking inside, to no smoking inside and now suggesting no smoking outside?
And then to ban smoking in the state of FL???
Sounds to me like the non smokers already have all the options as it stands today. But you want it banned in other areas just in case you decide you want to go there too.
I hate to disappoint some of you but that is not a very equitable position to take. If you don't like the smoke stay out of the areas where it is allowed. THAT SOLVES THE PROBLEM!!!
btk
:agree:
tks for your input!
Bosoxfan
05-07-2012, 10:49 AM
If you don't like the smoke stay out of the areas where it is allowed. THAT SOLVES THE PROBLEM!!!
btk
I don't smoke...haven't in 15 years or so and the smell of smoke really realy bothers me but.....:agree:
p.s. nothing worse than being stuck behind an old gas cart with the driver smoking..IMHO
BlueHeronFan
05-07-2012, 10:49 AM
The resturant situation is solved by moving inside. Now what we have to contend with is not solved. Our neighbors, who smoke like their home is on fire, prevent us from enjoying our lanai as their smoke drifts over and fills the air.
If the sliding doors are open, it comes into the house.
I can't understand how smokers can stand to suck that stuff into their lungs.
George Bieniaszek
05-07-2012, 10:58 AM
I just do not patronize any business where I felt that I was choking to death over second hand smoke. No need to be confrontational. Yes, sometimes I would speak to the management, but usually that would not solve anything.
If all non-smokers stop going to restaurants that allow smoking outside and they see their sales going down, then they will certianly listen to these complaints and do something about it.
It's all about the money!!
njbchbum
05-07-2012, 11:13 AM
are we saying we want the non smokers to decide where they would like to frequent and then have smokers banned from those areas?
We have gone from smoke anyplace, anytime to smoking or non smoking inside, to no smoking inside and now suggesting no smoking outside?
And then to ban smoking in the state of FL???
Sounds to me like the non smokers already have all the options as it stands today. But you want it banned in other areas just in case you decide you want to go there too.
I hate to disappoint some of you but that is not a very equitable position to take. If you don't like the smoke stay out of the areas where it is allowed. THAT SOLVES THE PROBLEM!!!
btk
:agree:
and further, billyworld - i cannot support your effort to strip individuals of another "right". as a non-smoker you already have the "right" to address the smoker politely asking them to not smoke until you have left the area OR to leave the area yourself. smokers are limited to designated areas already. it is not your "right" to deny someone the "right" to smoke themselves to death if they so choose.
Taltarzac725
05-07-2012, 11:15 AM
Last Saturday evening I went to Redsauce to have dinner and a couple of drinks at the outside bar. I looked around and there were no tobacco junkies at the bar. I sat down and there was a empty seat next to me. By the time I got my drink, this guy in his 30's sat down and lighted up. I had already ordered a chopped anipasta salad. By the time I got my salad, this guy smoked two cigs. I got my salad and counted five more cigs he smoked while I ate my meal;. The couple next to me split because they could not take the smoke any longer. I tried to get my check so I could pay and get my butt into some clean air but the barmaid was busy due to the crowd. This guy went to light up again and I asked him if he ever came up for fresh air? He laughed as if it was a joke. I then told him he was a inconsiderate SOB and finally got my bill and quickly paid it and left. I went inside and talked to the female manager and she said that there was nothing that can be done about people smoking outside. Now I am all fired up. This guy doesn't even live in The Villages. Him and the other cigarette smoking drunks that hang out there don't even own a home in The Villages. They hang there only because it's cheap to drink there. I don't know about you, but I think the time has come to end ALL smoking at restaurants and outside bars in T:spoken:he Villages. Why do the majority of people need to smell that fowl smoke from the few that do smoke? Let me know how you feel as I am getting a movement going to end all outside smoking not only in the Villages but also in the entire State of Florida. Please email your congressman and State Senator and lets put a end to this smelling nasty smoke once and for all. ------And to you smokers that don't agree with me and are offended by this post, you brought this on yourself!!!!!
List of smoking bans in the United States - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_smoking_bans_in_the_United_States)
jimlambert
05-07-2012, 11:20 AM
I feel sorry for the people who work the outside bars. They don't have any recourse other than to quit their jobs. Maybe it is up to us to protect them...
Dayzee
05-07-2012, 11:22 AM
Frankly, I don't understand the appeal. I do understand that smoking is an addiction and those that do smoke will defend it and their right to do so. I find cigarette smoke very offensive and more importantly it is a health hazard. For those of us who chose not to smoke it will be an endless battle to avoid second hand emissions. It's possible to sit in a public place where smoking is not allowed, but how about having to walk through the area where people hang out to smoke, in order to enter or exit. It's unavoidable. Sure don't understand how some folks can even afford this nasty habit.
BmoreGal
05-07-2012, 11:32 AM
It has been several years that smoking was banned in public restaurants and bars. As a non smoker, I was relieved when the laws took effect.
There is nothing worse than coming home, reeking of smoke when I do not smoke. It is in my hair, on my clothes and just permeates everything.
Many smokers are polite, and very courteus, but a few are not. There was a huge debate about the effect the law would have on the revenue of restaurants and bars. Guess what, after a very short dip, the effect has been Zero. People still patronize their favorite restaurants, and watering holes.
I would vote in favor of stronger non smoking laws.
IMHO
Canabarrybarb
05-07-2012, 11:32 AM
35 years ago I had a sign in my office "I won't fart in your presence, if you don't smoke in mine". Still applies.
Hmm, maybe this would be a good tactic at the sidewalk restaurants that smokers frequent.
Bottom line is that my right to avoid cancer caused by second hand smoke trumps anyone's right to smoke in public.
batman911
05-07-2012, 11:38 AM
Numerous states have laws that prohibit smoking in any public place. That would include parks, stadiums, food service, bars, any place of business, public transportation and bus stops, etc. My current home state, Hawaii, also prohibits smoking anywhere near the entrance/exit to these places as well. My wife and I pick up trash in our neighborhood several times a week and I can say from experience that smokers care little for the environment or your health. We pick up hundreds of cigarette butts and packaging every week. Disgusting dirty habit. You will never convince nicotine addicts that smoking is not good for anyone. I would like to hear from the smokers on this site the reason for dumping their butts out the vehicle window or stomping them on the sidewalk. That said, I have owned stock in Philip Morris since the 1980s and have profited hansomely from their addiction (revenge is sweet).
BmoreGal
05-07-2012, 11:43 AM
It has been several years that smoking was banned in public restaurants and bars. As a non smoker, I was relieved when the laws took effect.
There is nothing worse than coming home, reeking of smoke when I do not smoke. It is in my hair, on my clothes and just permeates everything.
Many smokers are polite, and very courteus, but a few are not. There was a huge debate about the effect the law would have on the revenue of restaurants and bars. Guess what, after a very short dip, the effect has been Zero. People still patronize their favorite restaurants, and watering holes.
I would vote in favor of stronger non smoking laws.
IMHO
billethkid
05-07-2012, 12:32 PM
maybe we could try smoking and non smoking cities...nah that wouldn't work. Too many would complain about driving past it or the wind or who knows what.
It is obvious that there is NO SATISFYING the hard core no smoking advocates...almost as bad as guns VS no guns...ALMOST.
I remember during the days when no smoking areas were just beginning to be discussed. WOW what a bombshell it was. But there were surveys and more surveys getting feedback from non smokers. Well if one fast forwards to today the no smoking advance has gone far beyond any smokers wildest dreams......and now they see fit to complain some more.
There is just NO SATISFYING the complaining.
And oh by the way there is as much to be read about businesses and bars that have had their business decline because of all the be eye itching about smoke. Many are allowing smoking in more areas....like it used to be.....much more non smoking space than 20 years ago...and not as much as the unreasonable, never satisfied non smoke proponents would like.
There are a lot of things I do and places I will go or not go. The ones I don't like I DO NOT GO TO.....it is much more simple than trying to rally the world and make an enemy of a neighbor....really.
btk
Bill-n-Brillo
05-07-2012, 12:33 PM
So how would anyone feel sitting next to a person using an E-Cigarette, which has only water vapor (looks like smoke) and smells like cherries or vanilla ???
No second smoke...
Just curious...
Would probably depend on who it is smoking the E-Cigarette........ :shocked:
:1rotfl: :1rotfl: :1rotfl:
Bill :wave:
redwitch
05-07-2012, 12:43 PM
Let me see if I have this straight. You chose to sit outside to eat. You knew that smoking was allowed in that outside area but, since there were no smokers present, that made it okay for you to dine outside and then complain when someone sat down to smoke near you? Sorry, the law in Florida permits smoking outside. You knew this. No question that if you don't like the law, you have the right to change that law.
Do you know for a fact that the young man smoking did not live in TV? Do you also plan to propose that non-Villagers be banned from the town squares, which are public areas?
I wholeheartedly agree that if you don't like something, work to have it changed, but to rail against someone who is doing something entirely legal just doesn't sound right to me. You were flat out rude to the young man, who was technically within his rights to smoke.
I rarely have a drink and never more than one if I'm out in public. Seeing someone drunk makes me downright uncomfortable and fearful. Drinking and driving is absolutely against the law. Too many have been injured or died because of drunk driving. Given these facts, should I now campaign to ban any public drinking? Should I complain when I see you have your third glass of wine in the square?
Yes, smoke smells. Yes, second hand smoke can be dangerous (more so indoors than outdoors). Yes, smoke litter is unsightly. However, alcohol smells and if you spill some on me (has happened more than once), I take home the smell. Drinking has caused many deaths. Empty beer receptacles and plastic cups are seen all over TV after the squares close. I've had to avoid more than one of the small bottles of booze when driving my golf cart.
Smokers have become second-class citizens. Can't raise taxes to the general populance, raise taxes for the "luxuries." I really doubt there is a smoker today who wouldn't quit if s/he could. Not everyone can.
Regardless, the point is you chose to smoke where you KNEW smoking was allowed and then had the absolute gall to complain when someone dared smoke in your presence.
JLHart
05-07-2012, 01:02 PM
I think that "bans" should go far beyond this ... basically everyone that does not think and act like I do should be banned from existence. :spoken:
Taltarzac725
05-07-2012, 01:07 PM
I think that "bans" should go far beyond this ... basically everyone that does not think and act like I do should be banned from existence. :spoken:
Sounds like a Utopia... of one though.
billethkid
05-07-2012, 01:12 PM
you gotta love a person who speaks their mind...eh?
And SOME of you would be so kind as to not categorize "smokers" who toss their butts (cigarettes that is)......please use the proper, realistic case...SOME SMOKERS....remember that like everything else it is the minority (not race) that cause the problems. We do so frequently tend to tar a whole group with the inconsiderate actions of a very few.
btk
janmcn
05-07-2012, 01:39 PM
IMO, Florida would never pass a statewide ban on smoking because a large share of Florida's economy depends on tourism and why would you alienate 25% of the population? Drive through any beachside town on a hot afternoon and you'll find that the patio dining and bars are mobbed, while the indoor dining (no smoking areas) have maybe two diners. One of the reasons restaurants and bars weren't effected by the original smoking ban was because a lot of them very quickly added outdoor eating and drinking areas.
njbchbum
05-07-2012, 01:56 PM
I think that "bans" should go far beyond this ... basically everyone that does not think and act like I do should be banned from existence. :spoken:
are you really greg gutfeld? ;)
thistrucksforyou
05-07-2012, 02:56 PM
I just do not patronize any business where I felt that I was choking to death over second hand smoke. No need to be confrontational. Yes, sometimes I would speak to the management, but usually that would not solve anything.
If all non-smokers stop going to restaurants that allow smoking outside and they see their sales going down, then they will certianly listen to these complaints and do something about it.
It's all about the money!!
This young man is exactly right....So organize and have an economic boycott and get results....
RichieLion
05-07-2012, 03:13 PM
You're at the outside bar ordering a meal.....that was your choice. You acknowledge that you saw no smokers, meaning you knew smoking is allowed at the outside bar, and you took a chance........it didn't quite work out the way you hoped.
I'm not a smoker, but smoking is still legal in this country and the places where a smoker can smoke in public are very limited. We have plenty of recourse if we want to avoid smokers, they have little option of where to go.
It not a big deal to be a little neighborly.
ilovetv
05-07-2012, 03:46 PM
I think the stench of smoking is disgusting, but I really do feel that when all indoor smoking has been eliminated, the least people can do is allow for outside smoking patio areas.
The bar outside at RedSauce is primarily for drinking. The place is in business to earn revenue from selling bar drinks. Prohibiting smokers at the outside bars kills their business and in these economic times, who wants to kill businesses?? And yes, all the businesses here need "townies" to come in and spend their money....and yes, local people do make it a lot more interesting here.
I say "dine inside" if the smoke is too much outside. Or go somewhere else. There are more than enough non-smoking options now.
Bogie Shooter
05-07-2012, 04:09 PM
I think the stench of smoking is disgusting, but I really do feel that when all indoor smoking has been eliminated, the least people can do is allow for outside smoking patio areas.
The bar outside at RedSauce is primarily for drinking. The place is in business to earn revenue from selling bar drinks. Prohibiting smokers at the outside bars kills their business and in these economic times, who wants to kill businesses?? And yes, all the businesses here need "townies" to come in and spend their money....and yes, local people do make it a lot more interesting here.
I say "dine inside" if the smoke is too much outside. Or go somewhere else. There are more than enough non-smoking options now.
This sure makes more sense than setting up an economic boycott!
daca55
05-07-2012, 04:55 PM
It has been several years that smoking was banned in public restaurants and bars. As a non smoker, I was relieved when the laws took effect.
There is nothing worse than coming home, reeking of smoke when I do not smoke. It is in my hair, on my clothes and just permeates everything.
Many smokers are polite, and very courteus, but a few are not. There was a huge debate about the effect the law would have on the revenue of restaurants and bars. Guess what, after a very short dip, the effect has been Zero. People still patronize their favorite restaurants, and watering holes.
I would vote in favor of stronger non smoking laws.
IMHO
Well said :agree:
red tail
05-07-2012, 05:30 PM
im a non smoker but i would vote for the smokers rights.....isnt america great??
hdh1470
05-07-2012, 05:36 PM
and how many of the complaints come from people that fill the tunnels with polluted air,but when subject is brought up they try to make excuses for gas carts,not one of them care about the people who have problems with the polluted air. One even said the battery's went to dumps,False they are recycled,they are worth quite a bit.If they want to smoke let them hurt them self I will go inside or stay far away I don't have that option when driving cart unless I don't use it
billethkid
05-07-2012, 06:09 PM
hdh1470...if we didn't have as many hypocrites there would not be very much to talk about.
Way too many folks have the I'm OK it is the other guy who needs to change. Sorta like the non smoker who elects to eat his what ever in a smoking area. And then when a smoker enters, he tells the story as if his very space and rights were violated. HYPOCRITE.
The smoking laws currently in effect have squeezed the smoker into almost no place else but outside. C'mon smokers don't be so greedy and unhospitable and hostile and just plain ornery.......you have many more choices....use them. Because at some point something you like will come under the microscope....like if you are against smoking you CANNOT have a stinky gas cart.....easy now just trying to inject a little humor...that is still OK I think!
btk
manaboutown
05-07-2012, 06:10 PM
If this is the place on one corner of the square at SL the porch bar seemed to be a hangout for habitual smokers during the month I was in TV. I never even entered the place knowing full well some of the smoke from the porch would have found its way inside since after all, it is a gas. I'd as soon have gone in there as I would have voluntarily entered any other toxic waste site.
For the past twenty years or so I have lived in a beach community of Orange County, CA. I can go just about anywhere without unexpectedly encountering the stench and toxic components of tobacco smoke. Bars, indoor or out, indoor and outdoor eating facilities, even the beach are all clear of smoke - by law. It is wonderful! Like Florida, Southern California is a tourist mecca and we get our share of smokers from other states as well as from all over the world. Nevertheless, smoking controls are firmly in place and enforced. The tourists keep coming and all is well.
If someone wants to smoke where it does not impact unwilling others, that is fine with me, especially if they smoke a Phillip Morris or Altria product since I own stock in those companies. That helps make up a bit for my higher taxes and health insurance premiums going to pay the additional medical costs due to some folks smoking, the largest public health cost this country faces.
jpharmat
05-07-2012, 06:15 PM
You were eating in a known, OUTSIDE smoking area and are mad that there was a patron smoking ?? Come on !! Next time dine in a non smoking area. I am all for the non smokers rights and am a former smoker myself, but don't get upset when a smoker is smoking in a smoking area !
Ashton
05-07-2012, 07:07 PM
These posts have got me thinking. We are going to buy a CYV and I love to smoke 2 cigars a day. I smoke the big ones that last about 2 hours each. When I smoke them in my yard are the neighbors going to be upset?
jsw14
05-07-2012, 07:07 PM
You were eating in a known, OUTSIDE smoking area and are mad that there was a patron smoking ?? Come on !! Next time dine in a non smoking area. I am all for the non smokers rights and am a former smoker myself, but don't get upset when a smoker is smoking in a smoking area !
:agree: PuFF, PuFF:shrug:
jsw14
05-07-2012, 07:17 PM
These posts have got me thinking. We are going to buy a CYV and I love to smoke 2 cigars a day. I smoke the big ones that last about 2 hours each. When I smoke them in my yard are the neighbors going to be upset?
Naw, Light-em if ya got-em. It's UR house........:beer3:
JohnN
05-07-2012, 07:24 PM
smoking is nasty, count me in on your nonsmoking drive.
Penguin
05-07-2012, 07:38 PM
You were eating in a known, OUTSIDE smoking area and are mad that there was a patron smoking ?? Come on !! Next time dine in a non smoking area. I am all for the non smokers rights and am a former smoker myself, but don't get upset when a smoker is smoking in a smoking area !
:BigApplause:
BigGuy
05-07-2012, 08:04 PM
Get a Grip....that's what Bars are all about for drinking and smoking if it bothers you go inside or get a little table outside. I agree with not smoking in restaurants but bars...give me a break.
This country is turning into a bunch of kittens, had someone complain about an electric cigarette.
Hancle704
05-07-2012, 08:11 PM
While you are at it see if you can end the open burning that still goes on in FL.
ssmith
05-07-2012, 08:27 PM
I am a non-smoker but also want to bring up that I don't think smoking would totally be banned in Florida because it is the South. You know tobacco has long been a major crop in the South. Many valid points on both side.
graciegirl
05-07-2012, 09:01 PM
Interesting.
I don't think anyone has the right to ask anyone else to change their ways. I absolutely do not see that anyone has the right to call a perfect stranger a S.O.B.
I just worry about smokers. It is so very dangerous the longer you do it.
If it wouldn't hurt you, likely give you cancer.... I wouldn't care at all...Well not much.
You can sure tell who smokes and who doesn't and who is tolerant of others foibles on this thread....and who thinks about others....
Life is so short to fuss about this.
And you can organize movements until the cows come home. People who smoke are gonna smoke and people who don't like to smell it are gonna b...I mean fuss.
Jim 9922
05-07-2012, 09:21 PM
When reading a couple of different threads on TOV, I can't figure out which is worse:
A puffing smoker,
or
A non-scooping pooper
????:jester:
NotGolfer
05-07-2012, 09:30 PM
Noone will ever win this argument in my opinion! That being said---I'm a former smoker who quit 30+ years ago and am so glad I did. My FIL was a smoker and passed away with emphysema, a horrible illness and death! At any rate...in my case, I probably have asthma now and really have difficulty with any kind of smoke--be it from a fire-pit, a golf cart or a smoker. For me it's about being able to breath and of course health. Just walking past these places is hard. The original poster has the right to sit where he wants to and he was also correct in saying that the smoker was inconsiderate (evidently he didn't ask permission to light up..which is what he could have done). I can sort of see both sides in that there is a "right" to be had. But seriously folks to disparage the poster...just doesn't make sense to me.
renielarson
05-07-2012, 09:46 PM
I'm a smoker. I am a retired 3rd grade teacher who taught in the same district and with a team teacher for 15 years with absolutely no one having a clue I smoked until I revealed it shortly before my retirement.
I should buy stock in Fabreze and Listerine mouth freshener. I used both regularly so not to offend anyone and they obviously worked!
I am a considerate smoker. I smoke only where it is legally allowed. I do not infringe upon non smokers by smoking in non-smoking areas. I smoke in smoking areas only. I smoke in outside seating areas of restaurants because it is allowed.
I have tried to quit through hypnosis, using the patch/gum and Welbutrin to no avail. I even tried the smokeless E-cigs. I want to quit but haven't been successful.
Please don't berate me for following the law. If you want to change the law then go for it. I will abide and follow it if you are successful.
However, until a new law is passed...if you are a non smoker then sit in your designated area because I DO! Don't sit in the area I have a legal right to sit in then complan about it. If you make a choice to sit in the smokers area when you are a non smoker, then you made a bad choice and you have no right to complain!
RichieLion
05-07-2012, 10:15 PM
These posts have got me thinking. We are going to buy a CYV and I love to smoke 2 cigars a day. I smoke the big ones that last about 2 hours each. When I smoke them in my yard are the neighbors going to be upset?
I would think you're going to have someone who is not happy about it. I try to give smokers a fair shot, but if your cigar smoke was wafting over to my house, I would have a problem with it.
renielarson
05-07-2012, 10:22 PM
I would think you're going to have someone who is not happy about it. I try to give smokers a fair shot, but if your cigar smoke was wafting over to my house, I would have a problem with it.
However, it is the right of the homeowner to smoke on their property if they want to. You may not like it but there is nothing you can do about it.
kaydee
05-07-2012, 10:33 PM
I am a smoker of which I am not proud of but will admit that I enjoy the filthy habit. I don't expect anyone to understand this nor do I expect any one to tolerate my filthy habit. I totally respect non-smokers. With that being said, I find it disgusting that so many people have NO REGARD for smokers. Many laws have come about over the years and the smoker has for the most part adjusted & accepted those changes. It's apparent that SOME non-smokers would NEVER accept or adjust to ANY changes if it were them having to make those changes. Public smoking areas are few & far between and I think for those of you who are bothered by cigarette smoke should STAY The H_ _ _ out of those permitted areas. Go elsewhere and enjoy your alcohol & if you should then drive home I'll hope that it is not on the streets that I travel!
BnCinME
05-07-2012, 10:52 PM
Noone will ever win this argument in my opinion! That being said---I'm a former smoker who quit 30+ years ago and am so glad I did. My FIL was a smoker and passed away with emphysema, a horrible illness and death! At any rate...in my case, I probably have asthma now and really have difficulty with any kind of smoke--be it from a fire-pit, a golf cart or a smoker. For me it's about being able to breath and of course health. Just walking past these places is hard. The original poster has the right to sit where he wants to and he was also correct in saying that the smoker was inconsiderate (evidently he didn't ask permission to light up..which is what he could have done). I can sort of see both sides in that there is a "right" to be had. But seriously folks to disparage the poster...just doesn't make sense to me.
I still can't get over the fact that he called his server a "barmaid"! :duck:
renielarson
05-07-2012, 11:00 PM
Noone will ever win this argument in my opinion! That being said---I'm a former smoker who quit 30+ years ago and am so glad I did. My FIL was a smoker and passed away with emphysema, a horrible illness and death! At any rate...in my case, I probably have asthma now and really have difficulty with any kind of smoke--be it from a fire-pit, a golf cart or a smoker. For me it's about being able to breath and of course health. Just walking past these places is hard. The original poster has the right to sit where he wants to and he was also correct in saying that the smoker was inconsiderate (evidently he didn't ask permission to light up..which is what he could have done). I can sort of see both sides in that there is a "right" to be had. But seriously folks to disparage the poster...just doesn't make sense to me.
The smoker was inconsiderate????...and had an obligation to "ask" permission to light up? Don't you get it? The smoker had every right to light up...s/he was sitting in a legal smoking area. The non smoker had no grounds for complaint! Geesh!
njbchbum
05-08-2012, 02:44 AM
The smoker was inconsiderate????...and had an obligation to "ask" permission to light up? Don't you get it? The smoker had every right to light up...s/he was sitting in a legal smoking area. The non smoker had no grounds for complaint! Geesh!
:agree:
Posh 08
05-08-2012, 03:16 AM
Get a Grip....that's what Bars are all about for drinking and smoking if it bothers you go inside or get a little table outside. I agree with not smoking in restaurants but bars...give me a break.
This country is turning into a bunch of kittens, had someone complain about an electric cigarette.
:agree:
hedoman
05-08-2012, 05:03 AM
You were eating in a known, OUTSIDE smoking area and are mad that there was a patron smoking ?? Come on !! Next time dine in a non smoking area. I am all for the non smokers rights and am a former smoker myself, but don't get upset when a smoker is smoking in a smoking area !
:agree:
Most intelligent response yet.
If you don't like smoking sround the squares quit leaning on the ashtrays!
:spoken:
jblum315
05-08-2012, 05:04 AM
I can get along just fine in any nonsmoking area - 6 hours on a plane trip, 2 hours in a movie, a restaurant, a class, someone's home or car, a hospital, etc., etc. If I know I can't smoke I don't even think about it. Honest!
But if I'm in a place where smoking is permitted, I am going to light up. If you don't like it, then you should not be in the smoking area. Period. You have a zillion more places available than I do.
billethkid
05-08-2012, 06:42 AM
do you worry about your neighbors now?
Just like you would be taking a risk of buying a CYV without knowing what/who is on the other side of the wall...so did they.
No different than one choosing to buy on a golf course. They KNOW the risks when they choose to buy/build there.
And in both cases there is usually not a problem unless you happen to draw the radical nut job of the area.
btk
The Villager II
05-08-2012, 06:54 AM
People that smoke stink, they look ridiculous and use up billions in medical resources annually,
BUT
it is legal.
Parker
05-08-2012, 07:09 AM
It isn't just at the bar! Red Sauce employees on break smoke behind Haagen Daas Ice Cream Shop. Twice now, after strolling back there with our ice cream to enjoy the lake view, we were chased away by apron-clad Red Sauce employees polluting everyone's air. It's awful. I think back now to those few teenage years when I smoked, and wonder how many times I fouled someone else's air? Sorry...:ohdear:
jsw14
05-08-2012, 07:46 AM
You were eating in a known, OUTSIDE smoking area and are mad that there was a patron smoking ?? Come on !! Next time dine in a non smoking area. I am all for the non smokers rights and am a former smoker myself, but don't get upset when a smoker is smoking in a smoking area !
:agree:
Most intelligent response yet.
If you don't like smoking sround the squares quit leaning on the ashtrays!
:spoken:
Amen Bro.......
Taltarzac725
05-08-2012, 08:32 AM
The smell from ashtrays bothers me so I would not sit anywhere with these around.
Patty55
05-08-2012, 10:11 AM
I still can't get over the fact that he called his server a "barmaid"! :duck:
I believe the PC term for such people is actually "serving wench".
gatherer47
05-08-2012, 10:30 AM
Everytime I find myself getting upset about anything like this,I remind myself-relax,be cool,this is the Villages PARADISE roll with the flow let it go.I use to even rail on here when I saw something I disagreed with.Now I just send these posts urging others to take a deep breath and don't let these things spoil PARADISE[which is what we have here] Actually reading Gracie's posts have helped me achieve this attitude,thank you dear.Returning tonight for two weeks then for good June 20.Hooray!
batman911
05-08-2012, 12:15 PM
you gotta love a person who speaks their mind...eh?
And SOME of you would be so kind as to not categorize "smokers" who toss their butts (cigarettes that is)......please use the proper, realistic case...SOME SMOKERS....remember that like everything else it is the minority (not race) that cause the problems. We do so frequently tend to tar a whole group with the inconsiderate actions of a very few.
btk
I don't believe I said "all" smokers, but it is the smokers who are throwing their cigarette butts on the ground.
Taltarzac725
05-08-2012, 12:21 PM
Everytime I find myself getting upset about anything like this,I remind myself-relax,be cool,this is the Villages PARADISE roll with the flow let it go.I use to even rail on here when I saw something I disagreed with.Now I just send these posts urging others to take a deep breath and don't let these things spoil PARADISE[which is what we have here] Actually reading Gracie's posts have helped me achieve this attitude,thank you dear.Returning tonight for two weeks then for good June 20.Hooray!
Graciegirl's posts are little happy pills. She probably has done better than many realtors on getting homes sold here in the Villages.
Back to the subject of the thread, smoking in the Villages seems like a rather petty issue when you look at how few places smokers now can light up in Florida.
batman911
05-08-2012, 12:30 PM
IMO, Florida would never pass a statewide ban on smoking because a large share of Florida's economy depends on tourism and why would you alienate 25% of the population? Drive through any beachside town on a hot afternoon and you'll find that the patio dining and bars are mobbed, while the indoor dining (no smoking areas) have maybe two diners. One of the reasons restaurants and bars weren't effected by the original smoking ban was because a lot of them very quickly added outdoor eating and drinking areas.
This argument was used before my current home state passed smoking restriction laws. After the laws were passed, there was no drop off in tourist or the bar business. Smokers are a minority. The laws may have actually increased the number of tourist and customers at restaurants and bars who do not like breathing other peoples smoke.
lj410
05-08-2012, 12:43 PM
Ruby Tuesday has a smoke free outside area-
BobGret
05-08-2012, 12:49 PM
Agree with you 100%.
Taltarzac725
05-08-2012, 12:54 PM
This argument was used before my current home state passed smoking restriction laws. After the laws were passed, there was no drop off in tourist or the bar business. Smokers are a minority. The laws may have actually increased the number of tourist and customers at restaurants and bars who do not like breathing other peoples smoke.
What are the laws in Hawaii with respect to smoking?? It looks like Hawaii is in for shake-ups in this area. Committee votes to reverse smoking ban | KHON2 Hawaii's News Leader (http://www.khon2.com/news/local/story/Committee-votes-to-reverse-smoking-ban/x_ZRcTuV1UGFUr1khi47Gw.cspx) Page 1 (http://hawaiismokersalliance.net/)
gwscott
05-08-2012, 01:15 PM
I hardly ever post a reply but this thread got my attention. With all of the great places to eat and drink here how in the world is this person offended by someone smoking in a smoking area. To me it looks like they just went out of their way to find something to complain about. If you don't like smoke I understand but to sit in a smoking area and complain about it is really stupid on your part. There I said my piece.
gratton
05-08-2012, 02:29 PM
So how would anyone feel sitting next to a person using an E-Cigarette, which has only water vapor (looks like smoke) and smells like cherries or vanilla ???
No second smoke...
Just curious...
I smoke a e-cig for about a year now, Haven't has a real cigarette in that amount of time, Your right all it is water Vapor, Anyway I was smoking mine on the outside patio at Palmer and the waitress came over and said that a patron was complaining about my smoke, I explained to her that it was a e cigarette, she said she would tell the complainer , she came back and said that the person complaining still didn't like the looks of it, I went to this woman and showed her that it was water vapor and she said that it looked like smoke and that she wanted it out, I told her in that it was legal to use and I was outside and that because she didn't like the looks of it was not my concern and I continued to smoke the e-cig, That woman was sitting about 20 feet from me. By the way neither of us were eating, but having a drink.
buggyone
05-08-2012, 02:35 PM
I smoke a e-cig for about a year now, Haven't has a real cigarette in that amount of time, Your right all it is water Vapor, Anyway I was smoking mine on the outside patio at Palmer and the waitress came over and said that a patron was complaining about my smoke, I explained to her that it was a e cigarette, she said she would tell the complainer , she came back and said that the person complaining still didn't like the looks of it, I went to this woman and showed her that it was water vapor and she said that it looked like smoke and that she wanted it out, I told her in that it was legal to use and I was outside and that because she didn't like the looks of it was not my concern and I continued to smoke the e-cig, That woman was sitting about 20 feet from me. By the way neither of us were eating, but having a drink.
Why not turn off the e-cig, offer to buy the lady a drink, and strike up a friendship?
bluedog103
05-08-2012, 02:50 PM
These posts have got me thinking. We are going to buy a CYV and I love to smoke 2 cigars a day. I smoke the big ones that last about 2 hours each. When I smoke them in my yard are the neighbors going to be upset?
Why not just fire these bad boys up inside? It's your house, you can smoke where you want, or does mama chase you outside?
buggyone
05-08-2012, 03:03 PM
Maybe you should use the e-cigs instead of the big cigars. It is just common courtesy not to upset the neighbors with cigar smoke. Yes, it is your property and they legally cannot tell you not to smoke cigars but Villagers are good neighbors.
My next door neighbor used to sit on his lanai every afternoon with his radio turned up quite high and listened to Fox News. He and I got to talking politics one day and I told him what I thought of Fox News. From that day on, no more loud Fox New from his lanai. He is a great guy and we help each other out when we can. Great neighbors in The Villages.
memason
05-08-2012, 03:26 PM
I smoke a e-cig for about a year now, Haven't has a real cigarette in that amount of time, Your right all it is water Vapor, Anyway I was smoking mine on the outside patio at Palmer and the waitress came over and said that a patron was complaining about my smoke, I explained to her that it was a e cigarette, she said she would tell the complainer , she came back and said that the person complaining still didn't like the looks of it, I went to this woman and showed her that it was water vapor and she said that it looked like smoke and that she wanted it out, I told her in that it was legal to use and I was outside and that because she didn't like the looks of it was not my concern and I continued to smoke the e-cig, That woman was sitting about 20 feet from me. By the way neither of us were eating, but having a drink.
I've been using an e-cig for more than 18 months, which has allowed me to ditch the real cigarettes. I use them almost everywhere and I have also had only one encounter with someone who said they could "smell" smoke. After I showed the lady what I was using, she was OK with it. This happened on the patio at Panera's. If you smell cherries or coconut, then you smell my E-Cig...:)
I don't use it in the squares, since it does look like a cigarette and smoke, so I just avoid the confrontation...I go to the smoking area and hang out with the smokers. They always have lots of questions for me about the E-Cig...
red tail
05-08-2012, 03:40 PM
What are the laws in Hawaii with respect to smoking?? It looks like Hawaii is in for shake-ups in this area. Committee votes to reverse smoking ban | KHON2 Hawaii's News Leader (http://www.khon2.com/news/local/story/Committee-votes-to-reverse-smoking-ban/x_ZRcTuV1UGFUr1khi47Gw.cspx) Page 1 (http://hawaiismokersalliance.net/)
asians make up a large percentage of the tourism in hawaii. and they like to smoke!!!!
Barefoot
05-08-2012, 04:04 PM
Don't get upset when a smoker is smoking in a smoking area !
Exactly! I'm not a smoker, but I sure agree with your comment. :thumbup:
Ashton
05-08-2012, 04:10 PM
Why not just fire these bad boys up inside? It's your house, you can smoke where you want, or does mama chase you outside?
If I smoked my cigars in the house....soon I would be a member of the Villages singles group.. but I will smoke in my yard!
jsw14
05-08-2012, 07:06 PM
If I smoked my cigars in the house....soon I would be a member of the Villages singles group.. but I will smoke in my yard!
Like I said before, "Light-em-if-ya-got-em Bro":) injoy......
batman911
05-09-2012, 11:10 AM
What are the laws in Hawaii with respect to smoking?? It looks like Hawaii is in for shake-ups in this area. Committee votes to reverse smoking ban | KHON2 Hawaii's News Leader (http://www.khon2.com/news/local/story/Committee-votes-to-reverse-smoking-ban/x_ZRcTuV1UGFUr1khi47Gw.cspx) Page 1 (http://hawaiismokersalliance.net/)
This proposed rollback of the no smoking law has zero chance of getting past the Governor. You are right that the percentage of Asians who smoke is higher than the USA but Asians, as a group (not living in the US), are also very respectful of other peoples feelings, laws and culture. I really have no problem with people smoking in bars because I can choose not to go there, but other public places that are frequented by everyone and their children should be smoke free.
zcaveman
05-09-2012, 11:28 AM
If there is a smoking area and you do not smoke or like smoke, avoid it. If you decide to sit in a smoking area then you have to put up with it.
If a person lights up in a no smoking area, then you a have a reason to tell him (or the manager) that it is a non-smoking area.
Most, if not all outside dining areas are smoking areas.
BTW: I do not smoke but I understand why others do and respect it.
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