Are we too young for TV!!

[tag460]

Are we to young to be here in TV or any retirement community? My wife and I have discussed this topic many times, I am 53 and she is a little older both retired, a job is not required. I would like to here from others.

[CarGuys]

Are we to young to be here in TV or any retirement community? My wife and I have discussed this topic many times, I am 53 and she is a little older both retired, a job is not required. I would like to here from others.

I wonder myself at times.

[LvmyPug2]

nope.... In our neighborhood, folks range in age from early 50s to mid 70s

[jane032657]

55 and 61 and moving full time in November. What is too young? Enjoying life in a beautiful community with everything you need in reach of a golf cart ride. Great people, sunshine, activities and music and friendship. Ageless.

[ilovetv]

Jane032657 is right. We're mid-50's and have neighbors from age 49 thru about 85, and the oldest ones are the liveliest. And most are comfortable with themselves......nothing to prove.

Just nice people who come running if you ask if anybody has ____ or can do ____ for you. It's like being surrounded by your favorite relatives (who mind their own business, but are there for you in a heartbeat if you need help).

This is the America we grew up in. Neighborly, law-abiding, self-disciplined with amazing experiences, and living within our means.

[Deb01]

I am 53

[jnieman]

Are we to young to be here in TV or any retirement community? My wife and I have discussed this topic many times, I am 53 and she is a little older both retired, a job is not required. I would like to here from others.

We moved here when I was 54 and my husband 58. It was not a problem for us. I will say if you move into the newer neighborhoods many of those people are just now retiring or getting ready to retire and may be more your age. But I will also say our next door neighbors are in their 80's and have more energy than us. They actually walk the golf courses and play in the heat of the day and are alot of fun!

[teritat]

I'm in late 50's and sometimes it is hard to be in TV (I know that's not the PC thing to say around here). Trying to find places that play 70's or 80's music on consistent basis is tough. Some of the mentality of the older generations (while they are active people) gets tedious at times and the constant discussions about medical issues gets very boring. Not having a daily paper that reports ALL the news, not just 'happy' junk is disappointing.

But that said, for outside activities you can't beat TV.

[Bosoxfan]

:agree:I'm in late 50's and sometimes it is hard to be in TV (I know that's not the PC thing to say around here). Trying to find places that play 70's or 80's music on consistent basis is tough. Some of the mentality of the older generations (while they are active people) gets tedious at times and the constant discussions about medical issues gets very boring. Not having a daily paper that reports ALL the news, not just 'happy' junk is disappointing.

But that said, for outside activities you can't beat TV.

[Threeputt]

Though by age I am old enough for TV I wonder if I am able to have the energy to maintain the lifestyle. I'm giving it all I got.....

:pepper2: :pepper2: :pepper2:

[graciegirl]

I'm in late 50's and sometimes it is hard to be in TV (I know that's not the PC thing to say around here). Trying to find places that play 70's or 80's music on consistent basis is tough. Some of the mentality of the older generations (while they are active people) gets tedious at times and the constant discussions about medical issues gets very boring. Not having a daily paper that reports ALL the news, not just 'happy' junk is disappointing.

But that said, for outside activities you can't beat TV.

That said, WELCOME to the FORUM!

Political correctness? Kindness? Some things are better left unsaid. Do you care that you have hurt the feelings of a lot of nice folks? Do you know that you too will join the ranks of the people you are talking about and someone could/will say that to you and even at THAT age, it will hurt your heart? Do you know that the mentality of people older than you probably is wisdom? Did you know that most people who live here are more interested in what is happening now in the world rather than if the music they hear is in the 70's and 80's? Did you have any idea when you moved to an over 55 community that most folks would be over 55? Some a little over 55 and some a lot over 55?

I am constantly surprised when I look around to see so many old people. Then I remember. My outsides look old too. It is my insides that are 16.


I will probably come back shortly and delete this, but I just had to say it.
Boy Howdy!

And...I may have hurt your feelings, and I am sorry if I did. None of us can HELP growing older. It just happened while we were doing more important things.

Just like you can't help being younger. It will correct itself eventually.

[Madelaine Amee]

Are we to young to be here in TV or any retirement community? My wife and I have discussed this topic many times, I am 53 and she is a little older both retired, a job is not required. I would like to here from others.

IMO early 50s is much too young to retire. But, on the other hand, if you hate your job, or your job hates you, you are tired of living in the cold and snow and you can afford to make a big change in your life, then try moving to TV, but don't consider it retiring. Take some time to ease out of the working mode and then look at some of the volunteer positions available here. You could make an enormous difference in people's lives in the surrounding community and it would also keep the old grey matter churning over intelligently - one can only play for so long before that gets boring. This area is growing rapidly and with it will come some part time jobs which you might enjoy.

We were both fortunate, had great jobs, were compensated very well for working, loved our life in the snow belt and thought we would stay there for the rest of our lives. Then, out of the blue, we were both offered retirement packages we could not refuse and realized very quickly we could not do winter without working, so we rapidly found ourselves enjoying every day in TV. We have been able to live our lives to the fullest both working and retiring.

[jackz]

That said, WELCOME to the FORUM!

Political correctness? Kindness? Some things are better left unsaid. Do you care that you have hurt the feelings of a lot of nice folks? Do you know that you too will join the ranks of the people you are talking about and someone could/will say that to you and even at THAT age, it will hurt your heart? Do you know that the mentality of people older than you probably is wisdom? Did you know that most people who live here are more interested in what is happening now in the world rather than if the music they hear is in the 70's and 80's? Did you have any idea when you moved to an over 55 community that most folks would be over 55? Some a little over 55 and some a lot over 55?

I am constantly surprised when I look around to see so many old people. Then I remember. My outsides look old too. It is my insides that are 16.


I will probably come back shortly and delete this, but I just had to say it.
Boy Howdy!

And...I may have hurt your feelings, and I am sorry if I did. None of us can HELP growing older. It just happened while we were doing more important things.

Just like you can't help being younger. It will correct itself eventually.

OUTSTANDING. Spoken like the Sage you are..............

[Joaniesmom]

Are we to young to be here in TV or any retirement community? My wife and I have discussed this topic many times, I am 53 and she is a little older both retired, a job is not required. I would like to here from others.

I think, if you are asking us, you must have some doubts. Let some time pass. The answer will come to you eventually.

[jojo]

That said, WELCOME to the FORUM!

Political correctness? Kindness? Some things are better left unsaid. Do you care that you have hurt the feelings of a lot of nice folks? Do you know that you too will join the ranks of the people you are talking about and someone could/will say that to you and even at THAT age, it will hurt your heart? Do you know that the mentality of people older than you probably is wisdom? Did you know that most people who live here are more interested in what is happening now in the world rather than if the music they hear is in the 70's and 80's? Did you have any idea when you moved to an over 55 community that most folks would be over 55? Some a little over 55 and some a lot over 55?

I am constantly surprised when I look around to see so many old people. Then I remember. My outsides look old too. It is my insides that are 16.


I will probably come back shortly and delete this, but I just had to say it.
Boy Howdy!

And...I may have hurt your feelings, and I am sorry if I did. None of us can HELP growing older. It just happened while we were doing more important things.

Just like you can't help being younger. It will correct itself eventually.

Beautifully said Gracie.

[kbace6]

My wife and I are in our mid 40's and are making plans to move to TV. We almost bought last time we were there. We had an age exemption ready to go. So no I don't think you and your wife are too young for TV. That being said, you may want to build in time away from TV to spend with others more your age. Since $$$ is not an option for you, travel sounds nice with TV being the home base so-to-speak. We can't wait to be able to move there!

[senior citizen]

That said, WELCOME to the FORUM!

Political correctness? Kindness? Some things are better left unsaid. Do you care that you have hurt the feelings of a lot of nice folks? Do you know that you too will join the ranks of the people you are talking about and someone could/will say that to you and even at THAT age, it will hurt your heart? Do you know that the mentality of people older than you probably is wisdom? Did you know that most people who live here are more interested in what is happening now in the world rather than if the music they hear is in the 70's and 80's? Did you have any idea when you moved to an over 55 community that most folks would be over 55? Some a little over 55 and some a lot over 55?

I am constantly surprised when I look around to see so many old people. Then I remember. My outsides look old too. It is my insides that are 16.


I will probably come back shortly and delete this, but I just had to say it.
Boy Howdy!

And...I may have hurt your feelings, and I am sorry if I did. None of us can HELP growing older. It just happened while we were doing more important things.

Just like you can't help being younger. It will correct itself eventually.

Dear Sweet Sixteen:

Great post from the heart.......

When we visited, my 66 year old husband (at the time) pushing "67" was very disappointed that the music wasn't from the '50s and "60s as he thought it would be..............he didn't like the '70s and the '80s they were playing on the radio.......goes to show you can't please everyone.

In our own environment, we knew so many folks in their golden years who were barrels of fun..........and we, the youngens at the time, looked forward to being together with them..........so I'm sure everyone can also co exist in TV, no matter the age.

Our "young friends" up here, now in their 30's think WE ARE YOUNG AT HEART.

Our 28 and 40 year olds LOVED THE VILLAGES.....and that's saying something. As a matter of fact, so did the baby........

It all depends on the personalities involved, but truthfully, all ages can indeed co mingle and get along just fine as long as they respect each others differences..........because in my humble opinion, if everyone was exactly the same and everyone thought exactly the same thing, how boring would that get? Those who yes people to death and then go behind their backs with their true feelings, would be the kind I'd want to stay away from...........or phony people who don't mean what they say.
Those types you will find in every city and town in the world.

People who show their authentic selves, with all the eccentricities involved, are the ones we gravitate to. Down to earth honest folks.

But great post Gracie; you will be eternally young at heart in mind and spirit.

[kgentile1010]

I was looking at the club list yesterday. Why not have an under 60 club? My husband and I are 51 and 58. Anybody interested. We need 5 people for a club.

[senior citizen]

I was looking at the club list yesterday. Why not have an under 60 club? My husband and I are 51 and 58. Anybody interested. We need 5 people for a club.

What happens in three more years when you turn 61 ? and your spouse is still 54 ??

[oldyeller]

My wife and I had the same question and it does take some getting used to with all the older people, but we didn't want to wait to start enjoying the good life. We have friends that run the age gamut and its all good! Jump in the water is fine!

[JoeC1947]

What happens in three more years when you turn 61 ? and your spouse is still 54 ??

They would be grandfarthered in!!!:a20:

[elevatorman]

Why not give it a try, with a long rental. If you come for 3 or 4 months you will have time to get to know the type of folks that are living in TV. We came when we were 59 but I would have been ok coming 10 years before that.

[senior citizen]

They would be grandfarthered in!!!:a20:


Great answer....good thinking...

Everyone gets older, that's for sure....

[senior citizen]

My wife and I are in our mid 40's and are making plans to move to TV. We almost bought last time we were there. We had an age exemption ready to go. So no I don't think you and your wife are too young for TV. That being said, you may want to build in time away from TV to spend with others more your age. Since $$$ is not an option for you, travel sounds nice with TV being the home base so-to-speak. We can't wait to be able to move there!

Maybe people who are childless in their early to mid 40's would want to live in THE VILLAGES........but those of that age that we know who do have children, would want to hang out with their peers as they'd have more in common as far as the children's activities, etc.

But the general ambience of the Villages is very very attractive to younger folks, that's for sure. Our son was impressed with the cyclists and the dragon boat races, etc., the golf cart paths, etc. Lake Sumter Landing, etc.

However, people with children still have a social life, but often it revolves around the kids' activities, vacations at the children's age level whereby parents get all the double joy of reliving their own childhoods again.......and then it's us grandparents' turn to do the same thing..........

Also, once the little ones begin school, a lot revolves around school activities and extracurricular activities for kids..........

[Carla B]

If I could be 53 again, I'd go have an adventure first, then "retire" to TV. That's what we did, we got a sailboat and cruised. It was the most interesting thing we could imagine doing. But it was by no means relaxing or easy, just very fulfilling.

[graciegirl]

If I could be 53 again, I'd go have an adventure first, then "retire" to TV. That's what we did, we got a sailboat and cruised. It was the most interesting thing we could imagine doing. But it was by no means relaxing or easy, just very fulfilling.

Exactly so!

When I was in my early fifties, I was out there changing the world, making some money, getting my own children launched and serving on a lot of committees. I was living my life in an age appropriate way. There is beauty and fulfillment in each of the times of our lives.

ANYONE would want to live here,at any age, but it isn't for ANYONE. It is not a right, it is a privilege.

[buzzy]

Are we to young to be here in TV or any retirement community? My wife and I have discussed this topic many times, I am 53 and she is a little older both retired, a job is not required. I would like to here from others.

Now that you're retired, you probably don't have much in common with your current neighbors. You might as well be in The Villages, where you can be out and about doing lots of things with other retirees regardless of age.

[2BNTV]

When I was visiting TV. an 87 year old was out having drinks with friends who were in their 50's. Age is a number. IMHO

If you are unsure, I agree with the recommendation that you rent for several months to see if you like retirement and it's right for you at your age.

TV certainly has enough activities to keep you busy.

[JoeC1947]

Nothing like hanging out with older people to make you feel younger!

[Cantwaittoarrive]

If I could be 53 again, I'd go have an adventure first, then "retire" to TV. That's what we did, we got a sailboat and cruised. It was the most interesting thing we could imagine doing. But it was by no means relaxing or easy, just very fulfilling.

Why can't you do both? I'm moving to TV to live not die, so why not move and do all of the exciting adventuer's on your list. OP have you visited TV? My wife and I both retired when I turned 50 (3 years ago), the first thing on my list was to visit TV. I had to drag my wife kicking and screaming for the first visit. She thought everyone was "old" and not able to get around. Once I got her to TV she couldn't beleive she could be so wrong. Not only did we meet people under 60. Almost everyone we met that wasn't under 60 looked and acted like they were. We could hardly keep up!! Since then we have visited 6 times and we are coming down in October to pick our lot and start the process so that next April we can be full time residents (already sold our home but are renting and our lease is up in April). Even though I'm moving to TV I plan on continuing to travel, cruise, mountain climb and chill just like I have done for the last 30+ years

[kbace6]

Maybe people who are childless in their early to mid 40's would want to live in THE VILLAGES........but those of that age that we know who do have children, would want to hang out with their peers as they'd have more in common as far as the children's activities, etc.

But the general ambience of the Villages is very very attractive to younger folks, that's for sure. Our son was impressed with the cyclists and the dragon boat races, etc., the golf cart paths, etc. Lake Sumter Landing, etc.

However, people with children still have a social life, but often it revolves around the kids' activities, vacations at the children's age level whereby parents get all the double joy of reliving their own childhoods again.......and then it's us grandparents' turn to do the same thing..........

Also, once the little ones begin school, a lot revolves around school activities and extracurricular activities for kids..........

I agree Sr. Cit. My wife and I are DINKS. So leaving that type of family behind is not an issue.

[cappyjon431]

I'm 50 and my wife is 54. we've been here for one year and we both love it. Sure there are some issues with living here, but I have yet to live anywhere where there were not some things that were not "perfect."

When we originally moved here we thought we were retired (we sold our business), but after a few months of living here my wife decided she missed being a nurse and she went back to work at the local hospital. I lasted almost a year and I decided that I missed teaching so I just recently took on teaching a few classes at the College of Central Florida.

We have friends here from their early 50s to their late 70s, we belong to several clubs, we work out at the gym regularly and love taking day trips to the surrounding areas. We feel we made the right decision for us.

[skyc6]

That said, WELCOME to the FORUM!

Political correctness? Kindness? Some things are better left unsaid. Do you care that you have hurt the feelings of a lot of nice folks? Do you know that you too will join the ranks of the people you are talking about and someone could/will say that to you and even at THAT age, it will hurt your heart? Do you know that the mentality of people older than you probably is wisdom? Did you know that most people who live here are more interested in what is happening now in the world rather than if the music they hear is in the 70's and 80's? Did you have any idea when you moved to an over 55 community that most folks would be over 55? Some a little over 55 and some a lot over 55?

I am constantly surprised when I look around to see so many old people. Then I remember. My outsides look old too. It is my insides that are 16.


I will probably come back shortly and delete this, but I just had to say it.
Boy Howdy!

And...I may have hurt your feelings, and I am sorry if I did. None of us can HELP growing older. It just happened while we were doing more important things.

Just like you can't help being younger. It will correct itself eventually.

So well said, Gracie!
I would say it isn't your age that will make it hard for you to fit in, but more the fact that you have the question in the first place. If your perceived "young age" is that much of a concern, then it will matter to you.
It is like the song says "Come back when you grow up, girl!" But then that isn't a song from the 80's, either!

[WVMtnBoy]

My wife and I are in your age group and I don't feel out of place at all. You can be as active as you want and on the whole I agree that you won't find a nicer group of people anywhere. My vote...come on down!

[asianthree]

rent a house stay awhile and see what the sunrise brings

[Schaumburger]

I agree with several other posters that you should rent in TV for a few months -- take a test drive so to speak. Maybe rent in a couple of different villages if that is possible for you to do. I am a couple of months shy of 52, but after visiting TV a few times now I would move to TV tomorrow if I didn't have to work for awhile :(