Rules at Driving Range

[gatherer47]

Anticipating my family's arrival from Pa,I went over to the driving range across 466A where you try to hit the greens placed in the lake.I had on a t-shirt,sandals and jean shorts.I was not there to hit golf balls myself.The attendant gave me the price,explained about the passes and told me rather sternly proper golf attire was required.He said no cut-offs,frayed shorts and you needed a collared shirt.I thought this was rather strict to just hit golf balls but rules are rules and I said fine.I did see some women wearing tank tops and sleeveless blouses halls hitting golf balls but thought no big deal.Today my son-in-law and grandson[properly attired] went to hit balls accompanied by my daughter.The attendant said to my daughter "I hope you're not here to hit because the straps on your sundress have to be at least two inches wide and your straps are too thin".Talk about stupid! to hit golf balls in Florida you women have to have wide straps on your top attire.The strap police are out at the driving range.Am I wrong to think that this is stupid? I mean think about it.Was he going to measure the next woman's straps if they looked borderline narrow.Maybe it's me and rules are rules but to me this policy at least about the width of women's straps is totally absurd.And please don't tell me that this is in effect to prevent bikini like attire.This outfit she had on would be acceptable anywhere.

[logdog]

I personally think that the dress rules for driving ranges are over kill but rules are rules (as you stated). Here you can find the dress code for ranges and the courses in The Villages (page 14):

http://www.golfthevillages.com/golf-in-the-villages/GoodGolfGuide1.12.pdf

[ronat1]

I agree that the dress code for TV golf courses and driving ranges needs to be revised a bit, but until it is a line has to be drawn somewhere and right now it's a fair and consistent line. If you watch the LPGA tour players with the clothes they are wearing, most of them would not meet the guidelines of TV code, but then again I would not want to see most of TV residents dress like LPGA players on the course anyway. In addition, if I want to see guys on golf courses in t-shirts, cut-offs and/or flip-flops I'll go to any of the local muni courses and play.

Okay I feel better now.

[thistrucksforyou]

It depends on who the attendant is,,,,One day I am fine with shorts and a t shirt, the next I have to have a collar on my shirt....I just carry and extra shirt incase..

[Ooper]

You can always try the driving range on Rolling Acres Road next to the Villages Wood Shop. They are more relaxed and cheaper to boot.

[Roaddog53]

Why doesn't everyone just abide the by the rules or just don't use it. Somewhere there is ALWAYS someone, or that small 1-2% of the population that feels the rules are too strict or shouldn't apply to them. Thus they "try" to either break them or get test them. Lots of threads on this in here.
We too went to the range to teach my Best half the fundamentals. She had on a strap that was not the 2" required and the attendant was nice about it and told us. We were fine with it and came back later. Again, the rules are the rules and live with it OR GO ELSEWHERE TO PLAY OR HIT BALLS.
To say you will bring an "extra" shirt just in case one of the attendants "enforce" the rules is just wrong! Go there with the proper shirt and don't worry about it than! Of course the replay will be.. we were just out and thought we would stop by to hit some. than by all means change your shirt or shorts. DO that in private too!
There now I vented and feel better

[Jim 9922]

The strap patrol boys were probably promoted from the troll patrol. STRICT enforcement is the name of the game.:ohdear:

[Mikeod]

Anticipating my family's arrival from Pa,I went over to the driving range across 466A where you try to hit the greens placed in the lake.I had on a t-shirt,sandals and jean shorts.I was not there to hit golf balls myself.The attendant gave me the price,explained about the passes and told me rather sternly proper golf attire was required.He said no cut-offs,frayed shorts and you needed a collared shirt.I thought this was rather strict to just hit golf balls but rules are rules and I said fine.I did see some women wearing tank tops and sleeveless blouses halls hitting golf balls but thought no big deal.Today my son-in-law and grandson[properly attired] went to hit balls accompanied by my daughter.The attendant said to my daughter "I hope you're not here to hit because the straps on your sundress have to be at least two inches wide and your straps are too thin".Talk about stupid! to hit golf balls in Florida you women have to have wide straps on your top attire.The strap police are out at the driving range.Am I wrong to think that this is stupid? I mean think about it.Was he going to measure the next woman's straps if they looked borderline narrow.Maybe it's me and rules are rules but to me this policy at least about the width of women's straps is totally absurd.And please don't tell me that this is in effect to prevent bikini like attire.This outfit she had on would be acceptable anywhere.
If there is one thing I have learned since moving here is that if he let your daughter on the range with straps that appeared too thin by the dress code, someone will see that and come to the range with straps that are thinner. Then someone will see that and the straps will become thinner.

There seems to be a game ongoing with people seeing how far they can push the envelope as far as rules are concerned. Roundabouts, signs, golf cart speeds, lawn ornaments, etc. are all fair game.

[njbchbum]

gatherer47 posted that his daughter accompanied them. so i think it was pretty stupid and rude of the attendant to assume that the young woman was there to hit golf balls and jumped on the opportunity to flex his enforcement muscles! in a sundress? now when was the last time any of you golfers saw a woman on the golf course in a sundress? do you see it in an lpga tournament? sheesh!

[gatherer47]

I did abide by the rules and I always will.It doesn't mean that the rule is not absurd.What possible harm to society is it if a strap is one inch wide or two?What's the difference?Who Cares?And I resent you Roaddog53 for lumping me in with rulebreakers and assuming I think rules don't apply to me.I reiterate I FOLLOW the rules even if they are stupid so don't include me in that 2%.I didn't test any rule or break any!!!! There, so I vented and now I'm done.

[paulandjean]

Anybody know if the driving range is hiring? Sounds like a great job..............................

[asianthree]

so if women :popcorn:wear 2" suspenders that would count

[skyc6]

No, because I know someone who brought her 17 yr. old grandaughter there and she was told her top was too low cut, and she had to leave.
Apparently, she was humiliated, hates The Villages now, and says she is never coming here again.
Grandma is sad!

[ronat1]

Then I guess Grandma should have known the rules better because she is supposed to ensure her guests know and abide by the rules. If that would have happened then her guest would not have been put in a position to be embarressed.

[Ooper]

What possible harm to society is it if a strap is one inch wide or two?What's the difference?

Well ya gotta draw the line somewhere! Just happens to be that the line is drawn at 2"!

[kentucky blue]

I personally think that the dress rules for driving ranges are over kill but rules are rules (as you stated). Here you can find the dress code for ranges and the courses in The Villages (page 14):

http://www.golfthevillages.com/golf-in-the-villages/GoodGolfGuide1.12.pdf

I just wish the restaurants had strict dress codes and enforced them,the way the driving range does.I cannot believe the attire i see men wear in the local restaurants.Just because you have retired, does not mean you retire from life and look like a complete slob.How about showing a little respect for the woman your with and the patrons at the restaurants.This is not an isolated incident,since i dine out 4 or 5 evenings a week when i'm in TV,and i see this male fashion statement every single time.If your woman takes the time to look her best,how about the men doing the same.

[tag460]

Behind Walmart there is Buffalo Range the prices are good and when you are done you are right there to the restaurants for a bite to eat.

[mulligan]

It always amazes me how many people choose to participate in various activities without knowing what the rules/requirements are, and then are surprised when they find they are breaking those rules/requirements. This goes all the way from deed restrictions to various dress codes. EDUCATE YOURSELF!!

[Bogie Shooter]

I just wish the restaurants had strict dress codes and enforced them,the way the driving range does.I cannot believe the attire i see men wear in the local restaurants.Just because you have retired, does not mean you retire from life and look like a complete slob.How about showing a little respect for the woman your with and the patrons at the restaurants.This is not an isolated incident,since i dine out 4 or 5 evenings a week when i'm in TV,and i see this male fashion statement every single time.If your woman takes the time to look her best,how about the men doing the same.

I guess if that lady felt the way you do she would not be in his company.
BTW this slob look goes both ways!

[nitehawk]

Why doesn't everyone just abide the by the rules or just don't use it. Somewhere there is ALWAYS someone, or that small 1-2% of the population that feels the rules are too strict or shouldn't apply to them. Thus they "try" to either break them or get test them. Lots of threads on this in here.
We too went to the range to teach my Best half the fundamentals. She had on a strap that was not the 2" required and the attendant was nice about it and told us. We were fine with it and came back later. Again, the rules are the rules and live with it OR GO ELSEWHERE TO PLAY OR HIT BALLS.
To say you will bring an "extra" shirt just in case one of the attendants "enforce" the rules is just wrong! Go there with the proper shirt and don't worry about it than! Of course the replay will be.. we were just out and thought we would stop by to hit some. than by all means change your shirt or shorts. DO that in private too!
There now I vented and feel better
This says it all --- excellent---:bigbow::bigbow::bigbow:

[2 Oldcrabs]

Why are all the "rules" in TV ok, but when the State or Federal government makes rules they are infringing on our rights? It looks like I gave up alot of my "rights" to live here.:duck:

[nitehawk]

No, because I know someone who brought her 17 yr. old grandaughter there and she was told her top was too low cut, and she had to leave.
Apparently, she was humiliated, hates The Villages now, and says she is never coming here again.
Grandma is sad!

I know someone who brought her 18 year old granddaughter to the driving range with a tight fitting, collared blouse, and wearing no bra. All of the old men could not keep there eyes on the golf ball they were hitting . She was so happy and said she would be returning soon. -- Grandma was very happy--------:smiley::smiley:

[Bogie Shooter]

I know someone who brought her 18 year old granddaughter to the driving range with a tight fitting, collared blouse, and wearing no bra. All of the old men could not keep there eyes on the golf ball they were hitting . She was so happy and said she would be returning soon. -- Grandma was very happy--------:smiley::smiley:

Ah, brings back those memories of the 1960's. :clap2:

[bluedog103]

I know someone who brought her 18 year old granddaughter to the driving range with a tight fitting, collared blouse, and wearing no bra. All of the old men could not keep there eyes on the golf ball they were hitting . She was so happy and said she would be returning soon. -- Grandma was very happy--------:smiley::smiley:
And she complied with every rule. See, these rules aren't so bad if you know how to work them.

[paulandjean]

The people who are saying thats the rules,would feel differently if that was your wife or girlfriend. Someone is going to tell another adult that not proper here. What is this high school?Maybe you do not have a problem with a retired ,min.wage employee making those decision ,but I do. What kind of training takes place for this employee.Speak up, and take a stand.. Sounds like a lots of lambs.

[mulligan]

OOORRR--read the rules...love 'em or leave 'em

[Roaddog53]

Let me get this right... You have a problem with a retired, or part time, or older person in a minimum wage position, or making a lower wage than you do or had, telling you that they are enforcing the rules? As stated in other posts, the rules are the rules. What training would this person that you feel better than, need to have, to inform you (hopefully politely) what is posted or in the covenants are the rules? Wow...says it all.

[paulandjean]

OOORRR--read the rules...love 'em or leave 'em

Or be a Man,stand up for something so silly... Its easy to just go with the flow. In America you stand up for what is right.Not all rules are right.

[mulligan]

but they are the rules established by those that own the property. Become an owner, and you can make your own rules.

[paulandjean]

Wonder if the same dress code is in effect for Katie Belles"?

[mulligan]

nope---just shoes and a shirt

[paulandjean]

But I do not want to make stupid dress code rules.You are not on a golf course,but a driving range.. Go across the street to McDonalds and see if they would serve you. The village restaurants?

[John_W]

When I moved here last year and saw the dress code, I immediately looked for an off campus driving range that allows me to hit off the turf. Tree Top Driving Range behind the American Legion Hall is just fine. In fact when it's 95 degrees and the middle of the day sun, I wear a tank top to hit balls, which is just fine with them. You also get a lot more balls for your money.

Now if I'm at Glenview or Palmer and I'm playing a round and of course wearing the proper attire, then I'll use their driving range and hit a dollar bucket. You just have to go with the flow, it's how I made it through 3 years in the Army.

[Bosoxfan]

:BigApplause::agree:Why doesn't everyone just abide the by the rules or just don't use it. Somewhere there is ALWAYS someone, or that small 1-2% of the population that feels the rules are too strict or shouldn't apply to them. Thus they "try" to either break them or get test them. Lots of threads on this in here.
We too went to the range to teach my Best half the fundamentals. She had on a strap that was not the 2" required and the attendant was nice about it and told us. We were fine with it and came back later. Again, the rules are the rules and live with it OR GO ELSEWHERE TO PLAY OR HIT BALLS.
To say you will bring an "extra" shirt just in case one of the attendants "enforce" the rules is just wrong! Go there with the proper shirt and don't worry about it than! Of course the replay will be.. we were just out and thought we would stop by to hit some. than by all means change your shirt or shorts. DO that in private too!
There now I vented and feel better

[paulandjean]

Would people accept "new Village Rule" No one older than 62 can drive a golf cart in the villages or no golf cart driving after 7p.m. Its the new rules so you have to go along with them ,Right? A rule is a rule.If you do not like it,then built your own village,right?

[Bogie Shooter]

Right!

[justjim]

The country clubs I have belong to required similar dress codes as TV. Remember that the driving range (owned by the Developer) is just an extension of the Country Clubs. TV Country Club courses are the only ones where jeans are allowed. Most clubs do not allow jeans----not proper attire most Clubs-----hey, "they" own the Clubs, driving range and courses and "they" make the rules. Discretion is key here----in OP case the driving range should have explained the dress code but went ahead and let them hit balls IMHO because it doesn't sound like she was dressed poorly at all. That is what they would have done at the last Private Club I belonged to.

[Trish Crocker]

nope---just shoes and a shirt

JUST shoes and a shirt??? OUCH..I"m getting visuals of the customers dancing there and it's hurting my head!

[quirky3]

JUST shoes and a shirt??? OUCH..I"m getting visuals of the customers dancing there and it's hurting my head!

:1rotfl::1rotfl:

[Mikeod]

Or be a Man,stand up for something so silly... Its easy to just go with the flow. In America you stand up for what is right.Not all rules are right.

Remember, the ranges, like the country clubs, are private property and the rules are set by the owner, not the employees. Since you feel so strongly, I would suggest a visit to Golf Administration to discuss it.

[justjim]

Would people accept "new Village Rule" No one older than 62 can drive a golf cart in the villages or no golf cart driving after 7p.m. Its the new rules so you have to go along with them ,Right? A rule is a rule.If you do not like it,then built your own village,right?

:ohdear: Remember that the employees just work at the Course or Driving Range. No reason to take it out on them if they are just applying the rules unless the employee is "rude" then just smile and ask for the person in charge. You get more with sugar than vinegar, huh?

[shcisamax]

Perhaps the demeanor was what was offensive more so than the message.

[Bogie Shooter]

Maybe they had a bad day. We all do right??

[the bun]

just follow the rules and stop whining.

[Threeputt]

The Villages is the ONLY place I have seen that allows denim. NO place outside the bubble or even up north would allow that. We have rules and codes, why do some of you feel "above the law"? Do you stop at stop signs, red lights and obey speed limits? If you don't you get caught. Why all the hassle about following some SIMPLE dress codes at the golf facilities? Do you follow the covenants on your deed?

Enough with this thread ...follow the codes or go someplace else.....

Can't believe we are hassling over rules or soon we will become a slum....

[paulandjean]

Pardon me sir, I am going to measure your wifes strap on her shoulder,to make sure its the required 2 inches.Sorry 1 and 3/4 cannot use the driving range today,dressed like that. Harlet............

[Roaddog53]

The Villages is the ONLY place I have seen that allows denim. NO place outside the bubble or even up north would allow that. We have rules and codes, why do some of you feel "above the law"? Do you stop at stop signs, red lights and obey speed limits? If you don't you get caught. Why all the hassle about following some SIMPLE dress codes at the golf facilities? Do you follow the covenants on your deed?

Enough with this thread ...follow the codes or go someplace else.....

Can't believe we are hassling over rules or soon we will become a slum....

Thank you! :agree::BigApplause::bigbow:

[Roaddog53]

Pardon me sir, I am going to measure your wifes strap on her shoulder,to make sure its the required 2 inches.Sorry 1 and 3/4 cannot use the driving range today,dressed like that. Harlet............

It would be the 2" because SHE FOLLOWS THE RULES! Not 1 3/4" but 2" or more.

[gatherer47]

My only point is the rule governing the width of a strap is that it is a stupid rule.What possible difference does it make whether a strap is one inch wide ot two?But if that's the rule,I'll obey it and all others.I wasn't whining just giving my thoughts.Some people on here need to read more carefully before jumping all over someone.

[BarryRX]

About 2 months ago I got in my golf cart and went to the Sarasota driving range to hit some balls. The very polite ranger told me that I didn't have a collared shirt on (I forgot to change before leaving the house). I apologized, went home and changed and returned later. Why wouldn't others do the same thing if they were told they were violating the rules?

[paulandjean]

Think I am getting it. I will obey,Iwill obey, I will obey, I will obey, I will obey, I will obey, I will obey, I will obey

[Joaniesmom]

Let's not get into bra rules. Some ladies need them and some don't. It's a personal decision. Not a "rule" decision.

[2 Oldcrabs]

I will start playing golf when I can wear a T- shirt. It is too hot to wear collared shirts. Don't like the "stupid rules", Then don't play!:shrug:

[paulandjean]

I will start playing golf when I can wear a T- shirt. It is too hot to wear collared shirts. Don't like the "stupid rules", Then don't play!:shrug:

You play golf at a driving range? I thought you just practice your shots.....

[nitehawk]

I will not respond to people who play with 51 cards - i will not ---i will not ---i will not respond

[gomoho]

Well things should start getting more interesting on this "rule" topic as more and more boomers will be living in The Villages and we all know how boomers feel about rules!

[2 Oldcrabs]

You play golf at a driving range? I thought you just practice your shots.....

You mean you only practice at a driving range! Is that another "stupid rule"?:cryin2:

[paulandjean]

You mean you only practice at a driving range! Is that another "stupid rule"?:cryin2:

This message makes no sense-2 oldcrabs. I get it 2 really old crabs............

[paulandjean]

Well things should start getting more interesting on this "rule" topic as more and more boomers will be living in The Villages and we all know how boomers feel about rules!

Yes, Yes, Finally someone who thinks for themselves,a individual who questions actions of others,a free thinker.Someone who is "not afraid" about questioning policies,instead of just going along.Funny you cannot golf with less than two inches showing on your shoulder straps,but you probably could receive Holy Communion at St, Timothy.Time for you to take your hand out of the sand,my friend..............

[thekeithfan]

I'm for flip flops and T'Shirts. No collar and cut offs. It sounds like my generation. But my generation (baby boomers) is not in charge. So be it we will have our day.

[2 Oldcrabs]

Someone who is "not afraid" about questioning policies,instead of just going along.Funny you cannot golf with less than two inches showing on your shoulder straps,but you probably could receive Holy Communion at St, Timothy.Time for you to take your hand out of the sand,my friend..............

So you pay a premium to live in a community with a lot of rules, More than any place I have ever lived. But you do not like the rules ! What am I missing? :confused:

[nitehawk]

Everyone on this site has to obey the rules ::: https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/villages-florida-general-discussion-73/report-post-41176/ -------------- https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/cmps_index.php?pageid=rules
I dont think there is any rules about 1" straps - you could enter naked if you please

[thekeithfan]

Well things should start getting more interesting on this "rule" topic as more and more boomers will be living in The Villages and we all know how boomers feel about rules!

Exactly and it can't come soon enought. I really thought I would be able to play with my NY Giants T-shirt on by 2012. I wear Converse Sneekers to play golf just to iritate them! lol

[Golfingnut]

We moved to the villages because of the rules. I am sure a few would like to have a boom box blaring out some music while they practice. Rules are required to separate Order from Chaos and thank your homes investment value that THE VILLAGES has a lot of rules.

[Fourpar]

We moved to the villages because of the rules. I am sure a few would like to have a boom box blaring out some music while they practice. Rules are required to separate Order from Chaos and thank your homes investment value that THE VILLAGES has a lot of rules.
:bigbow:

[Cedwards38]

1. I think that's a really unfair rule and it infringes on our rights and I'm going to break it. I won't pay the tax on that tea, and in fact, my friends and I are going to throw it into the harbor.

2. I think that's a really unfair rule and it infringes on our rights and I'm going to break it. I believe that women and minorities should have the right to vote and access public facilities just like the majority.

3. I think that's a really unfair rule and it infringes on our rights and I'm going to break it. If I want to drink distilled spriits, I should be able to do that.

4. I think that's a really unfair rule and it infringes on our rights and I'm going to break it. If I want to worship God in the manner I choose, then I will.

5. I think that's a really unfair rule and it infringes on our rights and I'm going to break it. I'm going to help those slaves escape to freedom.


I'm not taking a side on the golf rules, I'm just saying that there are examples of rule breaking that have made us what we are today. Frankly, it doesn't matter what I wear, I still can't break 100.

[Bogie Shooter]

1. I think that's a really unfair rule and it infringes on our rights and I'm going to break it. I won't pay the tax on that tea, and in fact, my friends and I are going to throw it into the harbor.

2. I think that's a really unfair rule and it infringes on our rights and I'm going to break it. I believe that women and minorities should have the right to vote and access public facilities just like the majority.

3. I think that's a really unfair rule and it infringes on our rights and I'm going to break it. If I want to drink distilled spriits, I should be able to do that.

4. I think that's a really unfair rule and it infringes on our rights and I'm going to break it. If I want to worship God in the manner I choose, then I will.

5. I think that's a really unfair rule and it infringes on our rights and I'm going to break it. I'm going to help those slaves escape to freedom.


I'm not taking a side on the golf rules, I'm just saying that there are examples of rule breaking that have made us what we are today. Frankly, it doesn't matter what I wear, I still can't break 100.

What a stretch to compare #1-#5 with rules at a driving range!

[gomoho]

What a stretch to compare #1-#5 with rules at a driving range!

Don't think that was his point - but rather just because something is a rule doesn't necessarily make it right.

[paulandjean]

Anticipating my family's arrival from Pa,I went over to the driving range across 466A where you try to hit the greens placed in the lake.I had on a t-shirt,sandals and jean shorts.I was not there to hit golf balls myself.The attendant gave me the price,explained about the passes and told me rather sternly proper golf attire was required.He said no cut-offs,frayed shorts and you needed a collared shirt.I thought this was rather strict to just hit golf balls but rules are rules and I said fine.I did see some women wearing tank tops and sleeveless blouses halls hitting golf balls but thought no big deal.Today my son-in-law and grandson[properly attired] went to hit balls accompanied by my daughter.The attendant said to my daughter "I hope you're not here to hit because the straps on your sundress have to be at least two inches wide and your straps are too thin".Talk about stupid! to hit golf balls in Florida you women have to have wide straps on your top attire.The strap police are out at the driving range.Am I wrong to think that this is stupid? I mean think about it.Was he going to measure the next woman's straps if they looked borderline narrow.Maybe it's me and rules are rules but to me this policy at least about the width of women's straps is totally absurd.And please don't tell me that this is in effect to prevent bikini like attire.This outfit she had on would be acceptable anywhere.

I agree with you. If you read peoples post they go on about collared shirts,cut-off jeans and such nonsense.They cannot understand that someone at a driving range most make a decision about a womens 2 inch shoulder strap sundress. They are so caught up with this stupid rules they cannot grasp what you are saying. Yesterday a guy said he caught soeone stealing dirt,He said he got the cart and the plate. I said who did you turn that info over to. Nothing I said stealing is stealing, and a guy who blasted me now says well just a little dirt stolen what a hypocrite.

[jblum315]

Do you remember years ago when gentlemen had to be wearing a coat and tie to get into a nice restaurant? And ladies had be wearing a skirt? Nowadays you go to a "nice restaurant" and the guy at the next table is likely to be wearing a wife-beater t-shirt and his female companion a skirt, yes - a skirt that barely covers her buttocks.
Just saying. Just saying.

[JoeC1947]

Who the heck needs the political forum when we have this!!!!!!:boxing2:

[paulandjean]

Do you remember years ago when gentlemen had to be wearing a coat and tie to get into a nice restaurant? And ladies had be wearing a skirt? Nowadays you go to a "nice restaurant" and the guy at the next table is likely to be wearing a wife-beater t-shirt and his female companion a skirt, yes - a skirt that barely covers her buttocks.
Just saying. Just saying.

Remember the 60s and the 70s women wore mini-skirts and hot pants to nice restaurant. Sure you remember ,you are of that age.Its not about what you wear its who is measuring. Mam I think I will have to measure your skirt lenght.I think you would be offended.

[JoeC1947]

Remember the 60s and the 70s women wore mini-skirts and hot pants to nice restaurant. Sure you remember ,you are of that age.Its not about what you wear its who is measuring. Mam I think I will have to measure your skirt lenght.I think you would be offended.

Ahhhhhh, I remember! Those were the days. I still dream about Daisy Duke and Jennie.

[JoeC1947]

Do you remember years ago when gentlemen had to be wearing a coat and tie to get into a nice restaurant? And ladies had be wearing a skirt? Nowadays you go to a "nice restaurant" and the guy at the next table is likely to be wearing a wife-beater t-shirt and his female companion a skirt, yes - a skirt that barely covers her buttocks.
Just saying. Just saying.

Times change. You don't even need to dress up for formal dinners on a cruise anymore. I'm not saying that's right or wrong, just the way it is.

[Threeputt]

It's not "measure this or that" it all comes down to society. We, as a society, are held together by rules, laws and codes of conduct for without them we would be a barbaric nation. Every organization and every thing has rules.In the jungle it's survial of the fittest, in society it is something more starting with the 10 commandments.

It's not unusual to see laws, rules and codes to guide our lives. Those who believe they are above the law? Well they are considered a menance ot civilized society. But rules can change, must change as society adapts.....it just ain't gonna happen here and certainly not today

[Gat0r]

I was told by a ambassador when I was on a practice putting green with a tee shirt on
that the biggest problem is other residents complain all the time to him about attire.A lot.
So maybe if everyone would stop complaining so much and have fun maybe the rules would relax.IMHO

[mulligan]

IMHO, the rules are in place out of respect for the game, once played by gentlemen wearing jackets, white shirts, and ties. We've come a long way!!

[graciegirl]

IMHO, the rules are in place out of respect for the game, once played by gentlemen wearing jackets, white shirts, and ties. We've come a long way!!


Golf is the last hold out to attire. I like it. I have been playing golf for 40 years and it is a game of gentlemen and gentlewomen. You didn't play it for free it was a rite of passage. Collared shirts were always required. People new to the game may find it hard to swallow, but I like those rules.

When I was in my forties and fifities, there was an all white rule, (don't panic...I will explain) at the nicest private clubs where you played tennis. You could only wear tennis clothing with a small percentage of color, all white shorts and shirts were required. That has changed and women don't wear hoop skirts anymore too...but I like the little tip of the hat to tradition by being required to wear proper attire on the course.

And to the person who said some time ago that if a person hit into their group, he would hit the ball back at them, I say you are not the kind of golfer I have known. My kind has always shown good etiquette on the course. And would not ever hit a retaliatory ball back at anyone. Golfers are gentlemen.

[De Lis]

I like the rules also, Gracie!

[WVMtnBoy]

:bigbow:


:agree:

IMHO, I have to agree with the above. The rules are established for everyone and should be enforced equally. I don't feel as though I have given up any of my inalienable rights to live here and also feel that the rules do enhance the quality of life in TV. As I said before, just MHO.

[ronsroni]

I can't begin to get the logic of the 2 inch straps vs: the thinner; 1 inch variety. :police:
I suppose if the range is attached to a golf course, I can more readily "GET" the notion of 2 inches. If you kneel on the floor, what will the skirt length be?
More importantly, how'd they hit 'em?
One thing we know for sure and that is "FUN IS THE BEST THING TO HAVE".
Convince them all to return and keep coming back. My mom left this realm recently and I can say that there are some of us who failed to make time for her and the guilt is palpable. Grams needs the visit and, moreover, she DESERVES the visit.
FORE!!!!

[JJ&TJ]

I agree that on the golf course you should wear proper clothing. If the driving range is at the country club this would be included too. I don't consider the range that is talked about here to be on the country club. That said the owner of any business can dictate what is to be at their establishment. What interests me are the people answering here that are all for following the rules at the driving range, are any of them the ones that complain about the police in The Villages that are inforcing the rules. Are they the ones that say the police should be out catching criminals and leave us alone even if we are not following THE RULES. Just asking.

[villages07]

The Developer owns the driving ranges and country club champ courses in TV. If you're unhappy with the dress code rules at either, suggest you and others of a similar mind make note of it on the annual survey he sends out each April.

If enough people take issue with it, perhaps he will reconsider.

[JoeC1947]

Look at the bright side. We can still wear shorts. What's the big deal about wearing a collared shirt.

[graciegirl]

If you don't have a dress code you get some of the things you see at municipal courses, muscle shirts and sports bras and sometimes no shirts at all. Ain't a purty sight.

[gomoho]

If you don't have a dress code you get some of the things you see at municipal courses, muscle shirts and sports bras and sometimes no shirts at all. Ain't a purty sight.

Probably not - but who really cares??? I'm just grateful to have made it to this point in my life. When I see something that "ain't a purty sight: it gives my husband (aka best friend) something to chuckle about. I try to live by the
philosophy "don't sweat the small stuff".

[paulandjean]

If you don't have a dress code you get some of the things you see at municipal courses, muscle shirts and sports bras and sometimes no shirts at all. Ain't a purty sight.

When this was first posted it had nothing to do with dress codes.The person mention 2 inch straps over the shoulders.Nothing about collored shirts,cutoffs shorts, or tank tops.Nothing about not dressing properly for the golf course. I joked about the driving range workers,who job was to make sure shoulder straps are 2 inch wide.Its not like the Nuns in the old days saying,"young lady your dress is to short,go home and change".Then the anger of these people came out,If you do not like it go home, Rules are what society is about and etc.To me this was amazing.One guy read me the riot act,and yet if you looked at his profile picture,he was dressed like you would see in the old three stooges shows. I stilll agree with the orginal poster,that its a driving range.If they where not doing well at the driving range I bet they would change this rule. Just my thoughts......

[graciegirl]

When this was first posted it had nothing to do with dress codes.The person mention 2 inch straps over the shoulders.Nothing about collored shirts,cutoffs shorts, or tank tops.Nothing about not dressing properly for the golf course. I joked about the driving range workers,who job was to make sure shoulder straps are 2 inch wide.Its not like the Nuns in the old days saying,"young lady your dress is to short,go home and change".Then the anger of these people came out,If you do not like it go home, Rules are what society is about and etc.To me this was amazing.One guy read me the riot act,and yet if you looked at his profile picture,he was dressed like you would see in the old three stooges shows. I stilll agree with the orginal poster,that its a driving range.If they where not doing well at the driving range I bet they would change this rule. Just my thoughts......

Paul and or Jean. The title is ...rules at the driving range. There are rules about proper attire on the course. I do believe it is all relevant.

We were talking about golf. Golf is not a matter of life and death, it is much more important than that. ;)

And I betcha that most of the folks who moved here for the golf, and that would be a lot would understand that sign that has always hung above our bar. Next to the one that says Missing. Golfer Husband and dog. Reward for dog.

Trying to be funny here. Golf has it's own persona and most of us are golfers and understand it.