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Taltarzac725
09-22-2012, 11:50 AM
I drove my golf cart ahead of an obnoxious golf cart driver on my way back from getting gas at one of the Southern Trace Shopping Center Shell stations. Stopped at Parr Drive to let the traffic on Belvedere-- including an emergency vehicle which was not in any hurry--turn left onto Parr. The guy behind me started cursing and saying stuff like "What are you doing!" I had to wait some more for additional vehicles turning left onto Parr Dr and the golf cart driver behind me got even more impatient and loud with various epithets.

The man had a New York accent and was in a yellow golf cart. He was also wearing a softball team uniform. This was about 1:50 p.m. on Friday, September 21, 2012.

Could not tell which NY Borough he was from as I am not that familiar with NY city accents.

I finally could safely cross Parr Drive as there was no more vehicles turing left onto Parr from Belvedere. The rude New Yorker did not bother to even stop at the stop sign on Parr just gunned it and tail gated me for a while still cursing and the like.

I got to the left hand turn going into the gate on Belvedere. I had to again stop at the stop sign and wait for three or four motor vehicles to pass.

When it was my turn the loud mouth again did not bother to stop at the stop sign but again tail gated me across Belvedere and into the golf cart entry of Belvedere gate.

He fortunately turned onto Churchill Downs but still seemed to be fuming for some reason. Kept on asking "What do you think you are doing?" in between various cuss words.

Anybody else run into this nuisance golf cart driver who yells at other golf cart drivers just because they actually stop at stop signs and yield the proper right of way?

This man seems like either an accident or heart attack waiting to happen.

He did not seem that familiar to me, i.e. I cannot think of why any Villager would act this way around me for any personal reason.

Brown haired man maybe 65ish. Loud New York City accent. Softball player. Probably lives somewhere in Belvedere. Yellow golf cart.

Patty55
09-22-2012, 12:01 PM
Whoa, looks like the winter crowd is showing up earlier each year-:22yikes::22yikes:

It seems like when the snowbirds come in I'm always getting yelled at, usually NY accents (and I am a NYer).

I had something blow out of my cart, so I pulled over to pick it up. An older type guy (with a NY accent)with a woman and another couple screamed "That's a hell of a place to park" threw his hands in the air, made a face and gestured. I like to take the PC higher plane approach so I diffused the situation by saying nothing more than "Whatever RETARD".

I think these people are retired NY cabbies.

A-4 Skyhawk
09-22-2012, 12:12 PM
Do what my grand father always did if someone was tail gating or blowing their horn. He'd stop dead, get out of the car, raise the hood, stand there looking in for a few minutes, close the hood, get in and drive off. And he would always smile and wave. I wish I could do that but I don't have it in me.

casita37
09-22-2012, 12:13 PM
That intersection of Parr and Belvedere is an accident waiting to happen, not because of the golf cart drivers, and not because anyone is being pushy or rude. Just the opposite!! I often see a car turn from Belvedere onto Parr and then STOP to let the golf carts cross. I have visions of the next car turning in rear-ending the one that stopped to be nice.

Not the same issue the OP had, I know, but one really, really has to drive (cart or car) defensively around here, probably more than anywhere else I have ever lived.

I probably would have pulled over, let him pass, then wish him a good day. Drive him crazy!! And I would much rather have an idiot like that in front of me than behind me.

CFrance
09-22-2012, 12:16 PM
Boy, I can't wait to see where this thread's gonna go!

ilovetv
09-22-2012, 12:17 PM
Do what my grand father always did if someone was tail gating or blowing their horn. He'd stop dead, get out of the car, raise the hood, stand there looking in for a few minutes, close the hood, get in and drive off. And he would always smile and wave. I wish I could do that but I don't have it in me.

I love that idea. Unfortunately, with the kind of road rage I have seen and is described above, I wouldn't take the chance of stopping which would allow that ticking time bomb more of a chance to get physical with me, possibly with a gun or knife.

Villages PL
09-22-2012, 12:25 PM
Everyone in The Villages is reaching an age where dementia is increasingly likely. I've heard of people, in the beginning stage of Alzheimer's, still driving their cars. And I'm sure there are many more of them driving golf carts. One characteristic of some people in dementia is that they can have fits of anger and rudeness. So try not to take it personally.

Patty55
09-22-2012, 12:33 PM
Do what my grand father always did if someone was tail gating or blowing their horn. He'd stop dead, get out of the car, raise the hood, stand there looking in for a few minutes, close the hood, get in and drive off. And he would always smile and wave. I wish I could do that but I don't have it in me.

Mine would flip them the bird and call them a "FINK".

A-4 Skyhawk
09-22-2012, 12:44 PM
Mine would flip them the bird and call them a "FINK".

We're up for sale in a SMALL imitation of TV community in Tennessee. Cars and golf carts share the streets. Last year a couple of hot heads, one in a cart and one in a car, got into it at the end of our street. The guy from the cart reached in the window to grab the driver of the car who had a pistol and shot and killed the cart driver. HOLY CRAP !!!!!

Buy the way, the last time I heard "FINK" was 1966. WOW !!!!

KyWoman
09-22-2012, 01:23 PM
Around 9:30am this morning I saw 3 police cars with lights on parked at the roundabout going into Canal St. toward TooJay's from Stillwater. We asked our server at TooJay's if she knew what happened and she informed us that a man in a golf cart got irritated with another man riding his bike on the cart path and intentionally knocked him off!!

Does anyone know if this is true??

ilovetv
09-22-2012, 01:28 PM
We're up for sale in a SMALL imitation of TV community in Tennessee. Cars and golf carts share the streets. Last year a couple of hot heads, one in a cart and one in a car, got into it at the end of our street. The guy from the cart reached in the window to grab the driver of the car who had a pistol and shot and killed the cart driver. HOLY CRAP !!!!!
Buy the way, the last time I heard "FINK" was 1966. WOW !!!!

That is exactly why I fear confronting close-up a driver having a fit of Road Rage.

When I see it I tell myself to turn off onto another street and let the guy "own the road". It ain't worth a confrontation. Sadly, sometimes when I've pulled off onto another street thinking "it's all yours", they turn and follow to continue their unwarranted rant anyway because apparently it's not the road they want. They want a victim to overpower. Scary stuff.

BTW, that's not only in TV but most places.

sueandskip
09-22-2012, 01:35 PM
Why didn't you just pull over and let him pass ? :p

Down Sized
09-22-2012, 01:43 PM
Around 9:30am this morning I saw 3 police cars with lights on parked at the roundabout going into Canal St. toward TooJay's from Stillwater. We asked our server at TooJay's if she knew what happened and she informed us that a man in a golf cart got irritated with another man riding his bike on the cart path and intentionally knocked him off!!

Does anyone know if this is true??

I saw the police get this man at Starbucks on LSL this morning. Three police cars stopped & brought him out to the street to talk to him. They called in to the office then had him drive his cart, we think to the sheriff's office because one of the cars got behind and followed him. I asked one of the guys at Starbucks what happened and they didn't know either. So that must have been your guy.

CaptJohn
09-22-2012, 02:15 PM
Next time one of these incidents happens, take a picture of the person with a camera phone, etc. and post it here. Unfortunately, there will always be a next time. :sad:

graciegirl
09-22-2012, 02:43 PM
Everyone in The Villages is reaching an age where dementia is increasingly likely. I've heard of people, in the beginning stage of Alzheimer's, still driving their cars. And I'm sure there are many more of them driving golf carts. One characteristic of some people in dementia is that they can have fits of anger and rudeness. So try not to take it personally.

UM...my theory is that their mother's didn't beat upon their fannies when they acted like that when they were younger. All OHIO mother's would have.

Peachie
09-22-2012, 02:48 PM
You're a stitch, Patty! Blame it on the "winter crowd" and most of them haven't hit the highway yet and the "East coast attitudes". Nothing like using a broad paintbrush for your prejudices. :mornincoffee: Have you read about all the cr*p that happened in The Villages over the summer months while all of you none-vacationers were living there? If that character was racing around in a baseball suit it was highly unlikely he just arrived in The Villages and we have many East coast neighbors and friends that don't fit your description.

I've watched the summer vacationers return to The Villages more relaxed and ready to enjoy the moment and have felt much resentment in the non-vacationers whom believe they are being invaded and feel more entitled to what The Villages offers simply because they can't travel. We're all paying the piper and at this point, most of us know the rules and how to navigate the streets. Common courtesy would do wonders if we all adhered to that policy.

Let's all slow down and enjoy each other. Tal, I'm sorry you came across such an offensive driver and I think it's happened to many of us. I would try to pull over and let the offender fly by, sooner or later he'll do himself in.

We looking forward to returning to The Villages shortly and all of our wonderful friends, see you shortly! :wave:



Whoa, looks like the winter crowd is showing up earlier each year-:22yikes::22yikes:

It seems like when the snowbirds come in I'm always getting yelled at, usually NY accents (and I am a NYer).

I had something blow out of my cart, so I pulled over to pick it up. An older type guy (with a NY accent)with a woman and another couple screamed "That's a hell of a place to park" threw his hands in the air, made a face and gestured. I like to take the PC higher plane approach so I diffused the situation by saying nothing more than "Whatever RETARD".

I think these people are retired NY cabbies.

gatherer47
09-22-2012, 03:22 PM
Peachie-couldn't agree more with you.I hate this blame the snowbird mentality down here.I don't want to rant and raise the blood pressure so I'll just stop but the anti snowbirds= you need an attitude adjustment among other things.

goodgrief
09-22-2012, 03:30 PM
We're up for sale in a SMALL imitation of TV community in Tennessee. Cars and golf carts share the streets. Last year a couple of hot heads, one in a cart and one in a car, got into it at the end of our street. The guy from the cart reached in the window to grab the driver of the car who had a pistol and shot and killed the cart driver. HOLY CRAP !!!!!

Buy the way, the last time I heard "FINK" was 1966. WOW !!!!

Well there ya go....don't think that won't happen around here. Wonder if that would make the happy paper !:police:

asianthree
09-22-2012, 03:30 PM
hey a wacked guy and his wife yelled at me in july for stopping to park my car (an envoyxl) because i was taking too long...of course i was allowing a young lady with two young children to cross the road, so i had to wait i just thought it was the heat and i had air and they didn't

batman911
09-22-2012, 03:44 PM
Maybe his team lost the ball game and it was his fault:smiley:

rubicon
09-22-2012, 03:44 PM
Now now now you folks are all taking this issue too seriously. These sort of things, based on many comments by other residents, simple don't occur here in Adult Disneyworld. And to criticize New York City people that way shameful. I met a quiet person from New York City once. I'll bet that rude guy in the yellow cart was really from Boston.

OK OK I do this in jest. The villages is a nice place and sometimes like that barrel of apples we find a rotten one.


Ciao All

Pturner
09-22-2012, 03:45 PM
Hi Tal,
I'm sorry to read that you had such an unnerving experience this morning. Think in that situation, I would just let the rude, angry person pass and thank my lucky stars and proper upbringing that I am not he.

Anyway, here's a hug from a member of the nice-person majority. Hope it helps.

graciegirl
09-22-2012, 03:48 PM
Hi Tal,
I'm sorry to read that you had such an unnerving experience this morning. Think in that situation, I would just let the rude, angry person pass and thank my lucky stars and proper upbringing that I am not he.

Anyway, here's a hug from a member of the nice-person majority. Hope it helps.

What she said!

AND I am thinkin' what a great guy you are to keep your self together.

looneycat
09-22-2012, 04:02 PM
Now now now you folks are all taking this issue too seriously. These sort of things, based on many comments by other residents, simple don't occur here in Adult Disneyworld. And to criticize New York City people that way shameful. I met a quiet person from New York City once. I'll bet that rude guy in the yellow cart was really from Boston.

OK OK I do this in jest. The villages is a nice place and sometimes like that barrel of apples we find a rotten one.


Ciao All

I agree I grew up in NYC as did my wife, hmmmm, maybe that's proving the point, hmmmmm

njbchbum
09-22-2012, 04:21 PM
i thank peachie for the considerate #16 post.

and i say to patty 55 that as a snowbird from jersey i take extreme offense at your post #2.

Josie70
09-22-2012, 04:45 PM
I drove my golf cart ahead of an obnoxious golf cart driver on my way back from getting gas at one of the Southern Trace Shopping Center Shell stations. Stopped at Parr Drive to let the traffic on Belvedere-- including an emergency vehicle which was not in any hurry--turn left onto Parr. The guy behind me started cursing and saying stuff like "What are you doing!" I had to wait some more for additional vehicles turning left onto Parr Dr and the golf cart driver behind me got even more impatient and loud with various epithets.

The man had a New York accent and was in a yellow golf cart. He was also wearing a softball team uniform. This was about 1:50 p.m. on Friday, September 21, 2012.

Could not tell which NY Borough he was from as I am not that familiar with NY city accents.


why are you so quick to say that he was from New York ...I know alot of people who are from other states and they shouldn't be driving a car or a golf cart.....I am from New York and I really didnt think you should have labeled the man a New Yorker unless you were sure...And we don't have a accent ....


From a New Yorker ....Brooklyn and queens....

I finally could safely cross Parr Drive as there was no more vehicles turing left onto Parr from Belvedere. The rude New Yorker did not bother to even stop at the stop sign on Parr just gunned it and tail gated me for a while still cursing and the like.

I got to the left hand turn going into the gate on Belvedere. I had to again stop at the stop sign and wait for three or four motor vehicles to pass.

When it was my turn the loud mouth again did not bother to stop at the stop sign but again tail gated me across Belvedere and into the golf cart entry of Belvedere gate.

He fortunately turned onto Churchill Downs but still seemed to be fuming for some reason. Kept on asking "What do you think you are doing?" in between various cuss words.

Anybody else run into this nuisance golf cart driver who yells at other golf cart drivers just because they actually stop at stop signs and yield the proper right of way?

This man seems like either an accident or heart attack waiting to happen.

He did not seem that familiar to me, i.e. I cannot think of why any Villager would act this way around me for any personal reason.

Brown haired man maybe 65ish. Loud New York City accent. Softball player. Probably lives somewhere in Belvedere. Yellow golf cart.

Why do you think he was a New Yorker he could have been from a different state.....I can name alot of states that drive golf cart that should be put in jail....next time dont be so quick to label a person....I am from New York grew up in Brooklyn ...

anarick
09-22-2012, 04:47 PM
I can’t believe the amount of ill feelings displayed at the beginning of this thread towards the snow birds and worse the free mentioning of NYers being the culprits.
Cmon folks lets not be hostile towards each other we’re all in heaven and angels don’t behave that way.

ijusluvit
09-22-2012, 04:58 PM
Whoa, looks like the winter crowd is showing up earlier each year-:22yikes::22yikes:

It seems like when the snowbirds come in I'm always getting yelled at, usually NY accents (and I am a NYer).

I had something blow out of my cart, so I pulled over to pick it up. An older type guy (with a NY accent)with a woman and another couple screamed "That's a hell of a place to park" threw his hands in the air, made a face and gestured. I like to take the PC higher plane approach so I diffused the situation by saying nothing more than "Whatever RETARD".

I think these people are retired NY cabbies.

And shame on you for being another one of those "superior in every way" full time residents. Prejudices like this, as well as those against anyone who might be from a particular state, are disgusting.

Ripcord13
09-22-2012, 05:26 PM
[QUOTE= I'll bet that rude guy in the yellow cart was really from Boston.[/QUOTE]

If the guy in the yellow caht was from Bahston it would not be confused with a NY accent.

Patty55
09-22-2012, 06:06 PM
Whoa, the irony is rich. So far I have counted about 5 posts calling a New Yorker rude and one for acting superior.

njbchbum
09-22-2012, 06:23 PM
Whoa, the irony is rich. So far I have counted about 5 posts calling a New Yorker rude and one for acting superior.

and i have noticed you have not offered an apology to snowbirds.

Patty55
09-22-2012, 07:03 PM
and i have noticed you have not offered an apology to snowbirds.

Nor will I.

gatherer47
09-22-2012, 07:08 PM
To Patty55-With your obvious bias and attitude,I'm not surprised you didn't apologize to the snowbirds.I won't stoop to your level and-well never mind-you're not worth it.

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09-22-2012, 07:19 PM
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