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tomjbud
01-31-2013, 09:31 PM
On December 1st, I took my wife to our local hospital with shortness of breath and chest pains. They admitted her to the hospital in Mishawaka, Indiana to run tests. They found that she needed her aortic heart valve replaced due to a congenital defect of which we were not aware. Because she has numerous other medical conditions, they sent her to Loyola Medical Center in Chicago. She had heart valve replacement surgery on Christmas Eve. My 2 sons and I spent a quiet Christmas in Chicago, while we were waiting for her to wake up from the surgery. To make a long story short, after fighting her way back from death on 4 different occasions, we finally got her home to a local rehabilitation hospital today. She has a tracheostomy and a feeding tube, but today at the rehab center they put a valve in her tracheostomy which allowed her to talk. Hearing her voice for the first time since before Christmas moved me to tears. She still has a long road ahead of her, but with her determination and will to live I am confident she will come all the way back. She is known in TOTV as rosygail, and she loves her ragdoll cat as well as ballroom dancing and crafts. I am looking forward to the day that we can move to our villa full time and meet so many of the wonderful people on this site. She would love to hear from any of you!

graciegirl
01-31-2013, 09:37 PM
Oh my. You all have been through so much. Please tell Rosiegail that I am sending love and prayers and know that it won't be too long until she can be home with her kitties again and feeling much better.

I know it had to be so hard on the whole family to watch her and not hear her speak.

Get her well and bring her home to us.

Uptown Girl
01-31-2013, 09:53 PM
May she have a comfortable and complete recovery. We wish you both many sunshine days ahead!
The folks at Loyola are the best. My brother received a heart transplant
there. Know that your bride was in very good hands at Loyola.
God Bless.

tomjbud
01-31-2013, 10:02 PM
Yes, the folks at Loyola were the best - she had so many complications I don't think any other hospital could have handled it. Thank goodness our local heart surgeons realized her high probability of complications and immediately referred us to Loyola.

Lark7
01-31-2013, 10:32 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

chachacha
02-01-2013, 01:15 AM
that is quite a road your family has traveled...i am sure many prayers are with you and i hope you will soon be Grovers full time!

Barefoot
02-01-2013, 01:21 AM
On December 1st, I took my wife to our local hospital with shortness of breath and chest pains. They admitted her to the hospital in Mishawaka, Indiana to run tests. They found that she needed her aortic heart valve replaced due to a congenital defect of which we were not aware. Because she has numerous other medical conditions, they sent her to Loyola Medical Center in Chicago. She had heart valve replacement surgery on Christmas Eve. My 2 sons and I spent a quiet Christmas in Chicago, while we were waiting for her to wake up from the surgery. To make a long story short, after fighting her way back from death on 4 different occasions, we finally got her home to a local rehabilitation hospital today. She has a tracheostomy and a feeding tube, but today at the rehab center they put a valve in her tracheostomy which allowed her to talk. Hearing her voice for the first time since before Christmas moved me to tears. She still has a long road ahead of her, but with her determination and will to live I am confident she will come all the way back. She is known in TOTV as rosygail, and she loves her ragdoll cat as well as ballroom dancing and crafts. I am looking forward to the day that we can move to our villa full time and meet so many of the wonderful people on this site. She would love to hear from any of you!

Your love for Rosygail shines through your post. She is lucky to have such a great support. Determination and motivation make all the difference in the world. Good luck to you both. I am sending you a PM to read to Rosygail and I hope it helps.

DandyGirl
02-01-2013, 08:00 AM
Rosygail, You hang in there girl! Soon you will be living the fun and healthy lifestyle The Villages offers. Peace and love to ya!

2BNTV
02-01-2013, 08:14 AM
Thoughts and prayers coming your way for a speedy recovery. :pray:

Shirleevee
02-01-2013, 08:30 AM
On December 1st, I took my wife to our local hospital with shortness of breath and chest pains. They admitted her to the hospital in Mishawaka, Indiana to run tests. They found that she needed her aortic heart valve replaced due to a congenital defect of which we were not aware. Because she has numerous other medical conditions, they sent her to Loyola Medical Center in Chicago. She had heart valve replacement surgery on Christmas Eve. My 2 sons and I spent a quiet Christmas in Chicago, while we were waiting for her to wake up from the surgery. To make a long story short, after fighting her way back from death on 4 different occasions, we finally got her home to a local rehabilitation hospital today. She has a tracheostomy and a feeding tube, but today at the rehab center they put a valve in her tracheostomy which allowed her to talk. Hearing her voice for the first time since before Christmas moved me to tears. She still has a long road ahead of her, but with her determination and will to live I am confident she will come all the way back. She is known in TOTV as rosygail, and she loves her ragdoll cat as well as ballroom dancing and crafts. I am looking forward to the day that we can move to our villa full time and meet so many of the wonderful people on this site. She would love to hear from any of you!

Sending blessings your way...........

bkcunningham1
02-01-2013, 08:48 AM
On December 1st, I took my wife to our local hospital with shortness of breath and chest pains. They admitted her to the hospital in Mishawaka, Indiana to run tests. They found that she needed her aortic heart valve replaced due to a congenital defect of which we were not aware. Because she has numerous other medical conditions, they sent her to Loyola Medical Center in Chicago. She had heart valve replacement surgery on Christmas Eve. My 2 sons and I spent a quiet Christmas in Chicago, while we were waiting for her to wake up from the surgery. To make a long story short, after fighting her way back from death on 4 different occasions, we finally got her home to a local rehabilitation hospital today. She has a tracheostomy and a feeding tube, but today at the rehab center they put a valve in her tracheostomy which allowed her to talk. Hearing her voice for the first time since before Christmas moved me to tears. She still has a long road ahead of her, but with her determination and will to live I am confident she will come all the way back. She is known in TOTV as rosygail, and she loves her ragdoll cat as well as ballroom dancing and crafts. I am looking forward to the day that we can move to our villa full time and meet so many of the wonderful people on this site. She would love to hear from any of you!

Stay strong. You've all been through quiet an ordeal, to say the least. May God bless you all. Give her my love and best wishes.

KathieI
02-01-2013, 08:49 AM
Prayers for rosygail and hoping for a speedy recovery. Please keep us posted on her progress.

Jhooman
02-01-2013, 09:15 AM
Many prayer's and kind thoughts are being sent your way. She is lucky to have a wonderful husband like you.

See you in Tamarind Grove.

quirky3
02-01-2013, 10:09 AM
You are both (all) very brave. Things like this can help bring families together. My best wishes to you for a continued good recovery!

Lbmb24101
02-01-2013, 11:08 AM
rosygail
Get well soon!
Prayers are going your way!
You have a wonderful family support and you are in a great hospital ( from what posters here are saying)
May God Bless you!

Ecuadog
02-01-2013, 02:06 PM
Thoughts and prayers, rosygail.

lightworker888
02-01-2013, 08:39 PM
Thinking of you Rosygail and your family and wishing you a speedy recovery and a healthy 2013 to all.

LW888

raynan
02-01-2013, 11:13 PM
May rosygal find that the worst is behind her and the road to The Villages is a short one for you both. Get well quick and get the heck down here!
Nancy

anarick
02-01-2013, 11:34 PM
Get well wishes and many blessings being sent your way.
Hope to see you on the cart paths soon.
God Bless

blue72
02-02-2013, 12:38 AM
Our best wishes and prayers for a speedy recovery.

CFrance
02-02-2013, 12:59 AM
Rosygail is in our prayers, and your whole family too. May you soon be bringing her home and looking forward to the Florida sunshine.

tainsley
02-02-2013, 06:28 AM
Hello Rosygail! So glad your on the road to recovery. Sending positive thoughts your way and prayers for a speedy recovery. I am in TG and look forward to meeting you!

Love2cruise
02-02-2013, 08:42 AM
It sounds to me like you both are strong people. It takes a strong husband to stand by and see the love of their life in pain. May you both continue to have the strength to keep up the battle. You to must take care of yourself. We soon forget that we need to enjoy every day, we don't know what tomorrow will bring!

My prayers are with you both and your family.

Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift, that's why it is called the "present".

quirky3
02-02-2013, 09:11 AM
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift, that's why it is called the "present".

Awww. I really like that!

marianne237
02-02-2013, 09:39 AM
Rosygail...blue skies and warm sunshine along with prayers being sent north. Be better soon and join us as soon as possible.


Marianne27