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Grannygail
02-05-2013, 02:24 PM
just got back from Saresota Driving Range and the lady next to us talked to herself the whole time!!! She kept saying things like' Get out the instruction book - Is that the best you can do'? Of course, I thought she was talking to me everytime and I tried to correct my drive. THEN, her friend came over and joined in the conversation. After 5 minutes, DH kindly asked them to step away if they wanted to continue talking. They apologized and the friend stepped away and then we had only the womens conversation with herself to listen to!! What a wasted bucket of balls!!

skyguy79
02-05-2013, 02:40 PM
just got back from Saresota Driving Range and the lady next to us talked to herself the whole time!!! She kept saying things like' Get out the instruction book - Is that the best you can do'? Of course, I thought she was talking to me everytime and I tried to correct my drive. THEN, her friend came over and joined in the conversation. After 5 minutes, DH kindly asked them to step away if they wanted to continue talking. They apologized and the friend stepped away and then we had only the womens conversation with herself to listen to!! What a wasted bucket of balls!!As annoying as it might have been, could there have been an unintentional benefit to it? By that I mean could you consider it as practice focusing and concentration under distractions which may help improve your game when on the links? If not, you could still look in the bright side... she's not yelling "In The Hole" after every swing you make!

2BNTV
02-05-2013, 02:44 PM
My guess is they think they are the only person in the world that matters.

Just ask them and they will tell you. :smiley:

Bogie Shooter
02-05-2013, 02:46 PM
Did you think of moving away from her?

Golfingnut
02-05-2013, 02:48 PM
Sorry for my opinion, but if someone hushed me on the driving range, It would get ugly real quick. This is a retirement center and the driving range is a practice facility.

kittygilchrist
02-05-2013, 03:03 PM
at least the convo wasn't on a cell phone? or was she getting virtual lessons via bluetooth?

rubicon
02-05-2013, 03:13 PM
I do not talk while on the driving range. However, I do a lot of praying out loud.:D

Cantwaittoarrive
02-05-2013, 03:19 PM
My wife talks to herself out loud sometimes and doesn't realize she is actually talking. She is concentrating so much on the task at hand and self talking to improve her performance not realizing others can hear her. However it wasn't her on the range as we are in south florida visitng the beach today

Kateb1
02-05-2013, 03:32 PM
In today's world you can find people talking to themselves more-and-more. If this truly irritated you the best thing you could have done was to simply move away from the person. We all have choices :)

sueandskip
02-05-2013, 03:46 PM
If someone was talking loud enough to irritate me I would simply talk to myself loud enough for them to hear but they probably wouldn't like what I was saying....

ajbrown
02-05-2013, 03:48 PM
I have been a range rat for much of my younger life and I have never had an expectation of quiet. I am not saying it should be a loud party, but not silence. Even in tournaments there is quite a bit of noise with caddies, players catching up or "cramming for the test".....

I used to enjoy working on the game with other players/freinds. We would chat about what we were trying to achieve and watch each other's swing to see if we were doing it as we described, or maybe learn a new shot or hear of a recent round......

The only time I get bothered is when I hear someone whose best shot is a 40 yard slice teaching their wife or child the same fundamentals so that they will be able to hit that same slice if the keep there head down and do not sway and keep their left arm straight and ...... :evil6:.

charlie49
02-05-2013, 03:59 PM
Many people go to the range with friends planning to help one another with their swings. If disturbed by noise, one can move to a quieter place on the range. The range behind Walmart was a 'no talking' range for a period of time; they lost more customers than gained because of that policy. It is no longer that way, people are encouraged to help one another when they go to the range together. It is a much friendlier range now.

It is one of those many strange things about golf that people hitting balls all around you is not disturbing, but someone speaking near you can be bothersome.

Charlie

DougB
02-05-2013, 04:24 PM
Sorry for my opinion, but if someone hushed me on the driving range, It would get ugly real quick. This is a retirement center and the driving range is a practice facility.

Never met a woman who needed practice talking.:)

Gerald
02-05-2013, 04:26 PM
I have been to that location many times. Some people talk to them selves for many reasons. I agree with several others. There are many other tee locations there. Simple move over to another.

eweissenbach
02-05-2013, 04:33 PM
Seems to me you have to be wound a little to tightly to let something like that bother you.

mickey100
02-05-2013, 07:04 PM
There is such a thing as driving range etiquette, and some people are just unaware of what that entails. No one expects everyone to be totally quiet while they hit on the range, as would happen when you're playing golf, but it is unspoken etiquette that you keep the noise down so as not to bother other people. And cell phones are an absolute no no. Here is a link to Golfsmith which gives some general etiquette guidelines. Golf Driving Range Etiquette | Golfsmith (http://golftips.golfsmith.com/golf-driving-range-etiquette-1808.html)

Its easy to say, oh just move away from the noisy, rude people, but this time of year the ranges fill up quickly and often times there is no place to move to. You feel lucky just to get a spot.

Irish Rover
02-06-2013, 10:41 AM
I am wondering why everything has to be confrontational? Big deal, someone talks while you are swinging on a practice range. If you are that distracted by noise maybe the powers that be can declare the range a "no fly" zone and no gas carts can pull up because they are really noisy. How about mufflers on the driver heads? All you ever see on this site is how wonderful things are at TV but the next post is BUT............ Good grief, enjoy your golden years and accept the fact that everyone and every situation isn't going to meet your standards and expectations. I love this place and hope the I don't offend by smiling too much. Sorry, just my humble opinion.

PaPaLarry
02-06-2013, 10:52 AM
:popcorn::popcorn::popcorn::popcorn::popcorn::popc orn::popcorn::popcorn:

English Ivy
02-06-2013, 11:08 AM
There is such a thing as driving range etiquette, and some people are just unaware of what that entails. No one expects everyone to be totally quiet while they hit on the range, as would happen when you're playing golf, but it is unspoken etiquette that you keep the noise down so as not to bother other people. And cell phones are an absolute no no. Here is a link to Golfsmith which gives some general etiquette guidelines. Golf Driving Range Etiquette | Golfsmith (http://golftips.golfsmith.com/golf-driving-range-etiquette-1808.html)

Its easy to say, oh just move away from the noisy, rude people, but this time of year the ranges fill up quickly and often times there is no place to move to. You feel lucky just to get a spot.

Good post Mickey. Unfortunately at this time of year some people in The Villages don't believe in etiquette, manners or respecting their fellow Villagers whether they're at the driving range, golf course, rec centers, pools, grocery store, roads and cart paths, etc. etc. etc.

Grannygail
02-06-2013, 11:37 AM
Thank You Mickey, that's was the point of my post. I guess my expections of others are a little to high at times. But I refuse to accept that as the 'way of life', and will strive to be
considerate of others first, then myself. Gail

batman911
02-06-2013, 12:13 PM
On certain days, I talk to my self a lot on the golf course but not so much on the driving range.

ncr2482
02-06-2013, 01:08 PM
just got back from Saresota Driving Range and the lady next to us talked to herself the whole time!!! She kept saying things like' Get out the instruction book - Is that the best you can do'? Of course, I thought she was talking to me everytime and I tried to correct my drive. THEN, her friend came over and joined in the conversation. After 5 minutes, DH kindly asked them to step away if they wanted to continue talking. They apologized and the friend stepped away and then we had only the womens conversation with herself to listen to!! What a wasted bucket of balls!!.

After reading your post and the responses I feel I need to add my two cents. I don't mind people talking on the driving range. I do not have the same expectations of good golf etiquette as I do when playing golf. Two days ago I was at the Buffalo Ridge range and the gentleman next to me was humming the entire time he was hitting balls - if I found it to annoy me I could have moved to a different spot.
However, I will say that when I go to a adult pool I find the people who "hold court" and carry on loud conversations for all to hear is annoying. I enjoy going to the pool, listening to my IPOD and reading, not to hear someone yaking non stop. Guess what - I don't go to that pool anymore.

kittygilchrist
02-06-2013, 01:32 PM
I am very distracted by noise. One could try wearing earplugs.

karostay
02-06-2013, 01:41 PM
same reason people have cell phones in restaurants to annoy people around them

Fourpar
02-07-2013, 11:06 PM
:clap2:I have been a range rat for much of my younger life and I have never had an expectation of quiet. I am not saying it should be a loud party, but not silence. Even in tournaments there is quite a bit of noise with caddies, players catching up or "cramming for the test".....

I used to enjoy working on the game with other players/freinds. We would chat about what we were trying to achieve and watch each other's swing to see if we were doing it as we described, or maybe learn a new shot or hear of a recent round......

The only time I get bothered is when I hear someone whose best shot is a 40 yard slice teaching their wife or child the same fundamentals so that they will be able to hit that same slice if the keep there head down and do not sway and keep their left arm straight and ...... :evil6:.
:beer3::clap2::clap2:

Barefoot
02-07-2013, 11:24 PM
The last time we used the driving range on Rolling Hills, the ball washer sounded like a concrete mixer. But it was easy to ignore.

Happinow
02-08-2013, 09:40 AM
I think the lady next to you was trying to go over the techniques of hitting the ball, perhaps things she has read or was taught. When some golfers, especially new golfers, are practicing hitting the ball there is so much to remember. She was probably just trying to refresh her memory of the "steps" to correctly hit the ball. Give people a break, it's a driving range, not a game on the course. For the few dollars it cost to hit a bucket of balls I expect you weren't out much. When my husband and I go the to driving range we always chatter about the hitting the ball. I really didn't think about how it would affect those around us. I think it gets so frustrating at times you we just automatically voice our thoughts. In the big scheme of things, it's not anything to get upset about. Just go back to the range again and hit another bucket of balls!

keithwand
02-08-2013, 09:55 AM
Because they can?
Ever been to a library lately?
There is more talking going on than in a restaurant.
Times have changed.

mickey100
02-08-2013, 11:11 AM
People do seem to have less manners lately. I've seen people take cell phone calls in the library.... I mean really!...too much.

zcaveman
02-08-2013, 01:02 PM
Maybe they are getting instructions from a fellow golfer. I had that when I was there. Since I am not a professional golfer I do not expect total silence when I play golf.

Z