Your Long Term Plan for TV

[JourneyOfLife]

This question is for those that relocated to TV from some other state and bought a home and intend to live there permanently.

One of the planning exercises I am going through in retirement is developing a plan for the future if/when my wife and/or I decline and possibly need more help or cannot live independently any longer. Part of it is funding.... but in some ways, that is the easy part (not to diminish the potential high cost). Other issues come into play.

This general issue may be one of the major reasons we might decide to just be seasonal Floridians. I figure if one of us declines and the other is able, they can manage the situation and a general plan of action would help in that regard. But when the survivor declines... now what?

We have gone through this with several parents/family members and some elderly friends. So far none of them had even a rudimentary plan... There are many issues I could cite... but it would digress from my main question. I struggle with how to handle being no where near some family members. Someone may need to take charge. If they have to do it remotely, it just adds one more level of complexity/crisis.

Do you have a plan of action if you or your spouse can no longer get along on their own... need much more assistance (perhaps hands on help) or long-term care.

Do you intend to move back home, stay in TV, move to some other facility in central florida (CCRC, Assisted living, etc)?

Perhaps your TV residential status is timebound and you intend to move back home at a certain age in anticipation of needing help (ahead of it happening).

Does TV provide any sort of service or have affiliated services to help in that regard (so called age in place by using services).

If you are willing to share your plans or ideas, please comment.

Also, if you have related stories of others who faced this sort of challenge, please share those also... just keep it anonymous (no identifying information for their privacy).

Thanks

[Bogie Shooter]

I guess I must be a free spirit.................have never answered all of those, what ifs.

[Uptown Girl]

It seems that one of your primary concerns is the possible scenario of one of you being the lone survivor and declining.

I would assume that if you have a family network of sorts, even out of state, and they are willing to assist in that, you can talk now and come to an understanding about the scope of assistance they can reasonably offer in that scenario. Then everyone will be on the same page.

If you have specific wishes or criteria you want met, you must be clear with them about your desires and allow them that knowledge ahead of time, so they know what will be expected of them, should they agree. This also speaks to living wills and the like.

Even if everything is agreed ahead of time, remember that life circumstances can change. One may be willing and able in the present, but unable for whatever reason later in time. Unforeseen circumstances may happen down the road, preventing the original plan.

Being sensible and prepared is good, if it allows for alternatives, should one path become unavailable. It can serve to lessen anxiety somewhat. Only you can let that go.
We do know that our medical coverage will continue to be re-defined, so there is no absolute we can be assured of for our duration. We can't steer THAT boat, no matter how we try to plan.

If holding two residences to have a place to go back to (to facilitate assistance) is a consideration, understand that it can become an additional burden to govern, for yourself and/or others who assist, if your health commands your primary attention.
Whatever you choose, may you find a path that serves you well and gives you and your spouse a good gut feeling.

[graciegirl]

With the help of each other, of family and friends and God...we will cross each bridge as we come to it just as we have done all of our lives.

We have saved and planned for a lot of emergencies but hope and expect to live here forever.

[rayschic]

We have no set plan. We have lived in TV for 7 years and plan on staying here and continuing to enjoy life every day. No time to worry about the "what if" situations.
They may or may not happen. IF the situation occurs, then I will decide what to do, where to go, etc. My husband had a massive heart attack many years ago. He is fine now but all the planning in the world cannot change what can happen in an instant. Enjoy TODAY and let tomorrow handle itself.

[rubicon]

My long term plan for TV is simply staying alive".:MOJE_whot: Actually we have proceeded with developing a living trust including health directives, etc. We both have health regime and we both have detailed our wishes when we pass. However have said all of that we are aware that no matter how well you prepare you are not ever prepared for what is going to occur.

[2BNTV]

I plan to get by with a little help from my friends, If not, I will ask for help thru medicare day services or just go to a nursing home as a last resort. I am hoping to be lucky like my mom who lived with little assistance until she passed away.

It is something I will deal with as time goes on.

[billethkid]

For many of us the terminolgy of reference "move back home" is not applicable as TV is our home.

All our plans revolve around how we live and our needs today and as they change there is ample support here to adjust to what ever level of support/care/assistance.

I would also bet there is more potential for finding that assiatnce/support/care in TV than in most places that are called home by non FL, non TV residents.

I for one can not, could not imagine any advantage to going back to long hard stay indoors winter weather.....that is why we have made TV our home.

btk

[gomoho]

My biggest concern is having to go to a facility and not having a family member checking in. I currently have my mom in memory care and am grateful I can go any time of day or night and just drop in - they never know when I am coming. I am frequently advocating for her and wonder how those who have no one manage. And yes we moved her from her home in Ohio so we could be part of that care.

[ilovetv]

One of the reasons we moved here is so that our children can enjoy the place during school vacations or if we wind up in need of their help/care for a few weeks or months in the future.

It's awfully depressing and morbid to think of having to go back up to the dark, frozen tundra up north to help/care for our parents if/when they need it. Up there, there is nothing for us to do, but here everything is set up for newcomers and short-term-stay visitors (like our adult children) to have plenty of things to do in the sunshine, and it's easy to meet people to do things with. Not so in the frozen north.

[JourneyOfLife]

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I would also bet there is more potential for finding that assiatnce/support/care in TV than in most places that are called home by non FL, non TV residents.
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btk


You could be correct about the support mechanisms around TV, that was one of the things I hoped to learn about.


What are others doing?

[Bogie Shooter]

You could be correct about the support mechanisms around TV, that was one of the things I hoped to learn about.


What are others doing?

Suggest you plan a visit to The Villages to really see what it is all about. Lifestyle, support mechanisms, etc.

[Cantwaittoarrive]

I'm a frog

[asianthree]

I am now talking care of a parent, who needs care 24/7...I am not in TV..Its a long day between my house, my parents and working 50hours plus a week...Our child helps as much as possible, but has a family of their own...My hope is that i will be in TV when i come to this time in my life so my children and grandchildren do not have to do the same for me...i will be far enough away that I will hire someone, I do not wish this burden to be put on them...just what i have planned for me

[Bizdoc]

We (DW and I) have actually spent a fair amount of time considering the same questions which you raise. Last summer, DW's prognosis after a catastrophic fall was walker for life, probably needing assisted living. We started looking at CCRCs and had more or less decided that was the route which needed to take.

We came down to TV in November to (1) visit a friend who lives here and (2) look at Freedom Pointe. on the way down, we had spent 3 days looking at CCRCs in the Durham, NC area. We realized that we were 15+ years younger than the other residents of almost every CCRC that we looked at. Betsy looked at me and said, "let's look at some houses". We ended up buying about a week later.

What made us choose TV? well, we looked at the number of home health care agencies. Also looked at the number of assisted living and nursing homes in the area (which is considerable). Looked at medical resources within 3 hours of here.

Without kids or living siblings, there isn't a "home" to go back to. We came here because (unlike the CCRCs), we saw happy, smiling people who were busy living and doing. Decided that we might as well live until we die. We have made some plans for the future and need to make more. Because of our circumstances, we will be retaining a CPA to manage our financial affairs when we become unable to do so. If we need assisted living or nursing home, we'll pick one out.

Oh yeah, Betsy's recovery is almost complete, amazing her doctors (who thought she would be permanently disabled). While she will always have some limitations from her injuries, she's back to about 95% of her old self and hasn't needed her walker since early January.

[CaptJohn]

With the help of each other, of family and friends and God...we will cross each bridge as we come to it just as we have done all of our lives.


That's my take on it too!

[ilovetv]

Bizdoc wrote: We came here because (unlike the CCRCs), we saw happy, smiling people who were busy living and doing. Decided that we might as well live until we die.

This says it all.

[Mack184]

Let me go at this from a different direction. I am old enough to live in TV, Stonecrest or Del Webb. My wife is not. We came here because my wife's parents shared that particular fear. My wife is an NP and can get a job virtually anywhere, so we sold our home up north and came here so that her mother & dad wouldn't have to worry about what to do if they became unable to handle day to day things, or if one of them was alone. They had become less active over the past couple of years. Now that we have arrived, they are once again very active, comfortable with the fact that someone is nearby to help out if needed.

[rubicon]

A realistic scenario: Overcrowding seems to be a constant in Florida. There are supposedly record numbers of baby boomers retiring. If that is true and holds true and if it is true and holds true that Central Florida is and continues to rapidly expand then demand will exceed supply. Hence the waiting list of assisted living facilities, etc. will grow longer and longer. Beside which I do not want to be a burden to anyone.

So if someone says to me "why don't you just drop dead". I'm going to respond with a cheerful "thank you"

[mojoe]

My husband Joe and I moved here in November 2010. We sold our house up north and we bought a house in The Villages. It was hard leaving the family up north, 4 daughters and their families (12 grandchildren) but we had each other and we loved it here. 15 months later my beloved Joe passed away at the age of 67. It is certainly a different ballgame for me now. Even though I am coping much better now, a year has gone by, I miss Joe very much and I am lonely. The Villages is a great place to live and it has so many activities and clubs for everyone. I have joined many groups, have done lots of activities, met some wonderful people, but I have the pull of my family and friends up north. And believe me, I do not like that cold, snowy weather. I know my children are living very hectic lives and a lot of our friends are retiring now or getting ready to retire and they are moving here and there. I certainly do not want to be a burden to anyone. I am a young 66, I have my health, and I certainly am not ready to throw in the towel. I am definitely at a crossroads but I am thinking clearer now and, with the help of God, I will make the right decisions. But I do not think there is a pat answer to what is best for us. Everyone is different, and everyone has different likes and dislikes, wants and needs.

[hotrodgirl]

My husband Joe and I moved here in November 2010. We sold our house up north and we bought a house in The Villages. It was hard leaving the family up north, 4 daughters and their families (12 grandchildren) but we had each other and we loved it here. 15 months later my beloved Joe passed away at the age of 67. It is certainly a different ballgame for me now. Even though I am coping much better now, a year has gone by, I miss Joe very much and I am lonely. The Villages is a great place to live and it has so many activities and clubs for everyone. I have joined many groups, have done lots of activities, met some wonderful people, but I have the pull of my family and friends up north. And believe me, I do not like that cold, snowy weather. I know my children are living very hectic lives and a lot of our friends are retiring now or getting ready to retire and they are moving here and there. I certainly do not want to be a burden to anyone. I am a young 66, I have my health, and I certainly am not ready to throw in the towel. I am definitely at a crossroads but I am thinking clearer now and, with the help of God, I will make the right decisions. But I do not think there is a pat answer to what is best for us. Everyone is different, and everyone has different likes and dislikes, wants and needs.

I have a similar situation though a bit backwards. I lost my husband at 55, continued to work full time "up north" and to care for my Mother who had a form of dementia. Two years ago I lost my Mom, and had only my stepdaughter to help me thru (as far as family). I do, however, have a network of very close friends! But at some point I realized I was stagnant, missing out on living life the way I would wish, and decided to make the move here to TV. I must admit, it was the BEST decision for me. I built a home in a wonderful neighborhood, moved in this past December and am once again full of life and enjoying day to day activities! What a difference it has made for me to be here amongst so many happy and active people and I awaken every morning with a smile and a good morning in my heart! :thumbup:
I carry long term health care and am comforted knowing I can have someone care for me in my home if need be. They are building assisted living facilities right here, as well as a memory care center. I know I will be fine right where I am and live each day as it comes, happy to be exactly where I am. Each of us is different in our wants and needs and must make the best decision for ourselves, no matter the sage advice of others. Do what will make you happiest and all will be well with the world.

[mommieswamie]

We came here 5 years ago this month and bought a villa which was supposed to be a vacation home. Indeed, we vacationed here for several months at a time, loving every bit of it as did our children and grandchildren. After 8 months of owning here, we decided our vacation house was too small for the multiple but very welcome visitors, family and friends, so we contracted to build a Premier home. In January of 2009 we left our permanent home to come to our much loved villa here for two months. To this day neither one of us has ever been able to set foot in our "permanent" home again. My husband became sick and after surgery at Mayo Clinic, we moved into our Premier home. We lived there for two years while he got weaker and weaker, then sold it for a just the right size Designer suitable for a very sick weak man and an exhausted caregiver.

At this point at the urging of our children, I researched and we came up with a plan. We would move close to one of our 6 children to a Continuing Care Retirement Community. I had a file labeled "Planning for the Next Step" which was filled with 8-10 brochures and notes about phone calls to these places.

Last fall, during an exhausted sleepless night, I started a thread on TOTV asking about when was it time to move closer to children. For those of you who would like to look it up, there is much good wisdom in that thread. Plus, I was simply "blown over" by the kindness and caring of complete strangers.

So we moved. It was not a sudden decision as it had been carefully planned and researched for a year. The thread that I started just gave me the necessary push to do it.

Three weeks later we were back in The Villages. It did not work - at all - not one bit - inspite of enormous support of all of our family and friends. I will share details of why it did not work to anyone who wishes to pm me, but publically suffice it to say that it just did not work.

My husband is now in long term care where he went one week after our return. A profoundly difficult decision for both of us as his mind is clear but he can no longer care for himself at all.

The point that I am getting to is this - inspite of having a well thought out plan and lots of support, it just did not work when we put it into place.

So from now on I, personally, am just trying to make my husband as comfortable and as happy as I can and live each day without too much worry about planning for the future when the future is so completely unknown to us all.

[l2ridehd]

You need to have everything documented the way you want it. I maintain a book fondly called the EOL book. (end of life) It contains details on the following topics. And I am always finding different things to add.

Here are the things that I've covered in my book. I try to either update them annually or reference where readers can find recent details. Financial information is protected with a strong password that can be found in our safe deposit box.

Part 1. Immediate needs
Included here are: Addresses, email and phone contact information of our doctors, estate attorney, tax accountant and other people important in our lives. Funeral, obituary and burial directions. How to notify the Social Security Administration, pension and annuity administrators and investment funds and brokers.

Part 2. Wills and trusts
The category covers: Our living will and will. Power of Attorney. Executor. Investment beneficiaries. Who gets what personal items. Trusts and trustees. Locations of important items.

Part 3. Important actions
This is a guide to the following: Time-sensitive actions (taxes, required minimum distributions, etc.). Trips already reserved. Award points that can be used and associated instructions. Maintenance of home, other real estate, cars. I also keep a log of home-maintenance records including names and phones for each repair job.

Part 4. Financial management
This section includes records about: Regular income, automatic bill payments, sources of cash. Investments and real estate. Instructions for record-keeping. Credit card information. Life, health, house, auto, liability and any other insurance records. Taxes and data required. Passwords and IDs. Ledger of financial actions. Charitable-contribution information.

Part 5. Location
This is an extensive list of where things are that would be needed to settle estate and pay taxes.

At some point we'll make a copy of the Book for each of our children and our executor. Perhaps that will be when one of them notices our dementia and says they need a copy. What won't be easy is going through the tons of stuff we have saved in pictures and papers that fill boxes in the basement and file drawers in various places around the house—things we're not brave enough to toss out ourselves yet. We keep telling ourselves that we just have to eliminate the clutter, but we have trouble getting around to it. The Death Book comes first. The survivors can just dump the rest.

[JoelJohnson]

My wife met a couple that sold their house in TV to be with their family up north, only to find that the family was too busy with their daily lives to be with them very much. Now they are stuck, they can't sell the house up here and can't afford a house down there without selling the house up here.

If you are happy in TV then just visit your family up north.

[JourneyOfLife]

Several thoughtful comments from people, thanks all.

Rubicon makes an excellent point. This is one of the things I was looking at to try to figure a few things out.

A realistic scenario: Overcrowding seems to be a constant in Florida. There are supposedly record numbers of baby boomers retiring. If that is true and holds true and if it is true and holds true that Central Florida is and continues to rapidly expand then demand will exceed supply. Hence the waiting list of assisted living facilities, etc. will grow longer and longer. Beside which I do not want to be a burden to anyone.

So if someone says to me "why don't you just drop dead". I'm going to respond with a cheerful "thank you"


My wife and I are dead center of the baby boom generation.... which could mean... likely to mean we will experience peak demand on services (even though I hope we won't need them).

I was doing some general demographic research on the topic... and it should come as no surprise... Florida has many retirees.

I did a quick/rough calculations and found that the number or people in TV that are age 65 and over is more than the same age band in Cleveland OH (not the metro area which is larger) (yet cleveland has a much larger overall population). So I checked further and looked at the 3 counties where TV is located. Those 3 counties have a population roughly the size of Detroit MI (700+ thousand). In Detroit (not the metro area which is larger), 10.4% of the population is 65 or older. In the 3 counties (Sumter 27.4%, Marion 24.5% & Lake 26.4%) the population is about the same as Detroit but look at the pecentages of people over 65... roughly 26% (about 260% compared to Detroit). In the US, that age group (65 and older) is currently about 13% of the population based on 2012 census. The TV area demographic tilt for age is no surprise... it is what I expected since Florida has many retirees. I got the local age statistics from wikipedia. Cleveland and Detroit were just picked for population comparison purposes... I could have used any large cities....I have not cross-check the sources for accuracy.


I know from experience... age related decline situations(needing a lot of hands on help) are almost always tough situations. But they can also be much worse. People are often conflicted about decisions if they are in the middle of a crisis and have no idea of how they were going to handle it. Just a basic plan can help. More than call someone for help.

I think that old adage is sound "fail to plan then plan to fail".

The demographic issue is not show stopper for moving to Florida... but if there is a big chance we might not have services available... should catastrophe strike... I would like to know that there might be a strong chance of it and plan for it. Moving back home might be the best decision for us for a variety of other reasons too.

BTW this thread is not about whether TV or Florida is a nice place to retire... many have already decided on that issue.

But I do roll my eyes a little when it goes like this... Question: how do you plan to deal with age related decline if you need hands on help? Answer: Boy we really have a nice golf course.

This thread not about your decision or the trade-offs. No need to rationalize you basic decision.

I am just wondering how other are planning to deal with age related decline... or how others are or have dealt with it.

I am hoping to learn something.

[EastCoastDawg]

The Villages will be an even better place to live once the developers have built the Morse International Airport, with direct flights to Canada

Just build it well-south of 466A, please

Obviously, Miami will have to give up the MIA nomenclature...

[mommieswamie]

Your question/comment is certainly valid. If I am understanding correctly, you are wondering what services/facilities are available, should one need them, and how one copes in an active living retirement area when your health is declining.

Having needed quite a lot of services, I can share our experience, but I cannot comment on the broader availability of such services - only what we have experienced.

As far as home health care, there are a number of good agencies in this area. We stayed with the same one for the three years that we needed one. A nurse visited once a week or more if necessary and my husband was able to have physical therapy, occupational therapy and even speech therapy at home. These agencies will also provide medication management. Of course, all of this was only available with a docotr's order. This was covered by our insurance.

There are also a number of care giving agencies in the area. They will provide services on various levels. At first we simply needed someone to keep the household going - laundry, groceries, preparing meals. These agencies do not provide house cleaning, but will clean up spills, change sheets, etc as needed. There is another level of service that they provide that is "hands on" patient care with the ADLs (Adult Daily Living) needs - bathing, dressing, etc. At first we needed this for several hours per day maybe 3-4 days per week. We then progessed to every day for 4-5 hours, but at the end, we needed 24/7 care giving. Yes - they will spend the night, staying up to see to the needs of the patient. The cost for this was all out of pocket.

There are several good rehab hospitals in the area. My husband was a patient at 2 of them and we found his care and therapy to be good. This was something that was arranged by the case workers at whatever hospital he was in, so I cannot speak to waiting lists, availability, etc.

When it came time to look at assisted living or long term care, we found that although there are several good assisted living facilities here and there were no waiting lists at the ones I looked at, his needs were beyond what an assisted living could provide. So long term care was the only option. There are a number of facilities in the area. By "in the area", I am referring to a 25-35 mile radius. I looked at several and most had immediate availability, although I will say that some were pretty grim. When I settled on one, they were able to admit him the day after I looked at the facility.

I must make very plain that I am only sharing our experience, I am in no way qualified to rate or judge any services available or comment on the broader picture. The decisions and services that we availed ourselves of were based on our own personal financial, emotional and physical situation.

I hope this is helpful. Yes - there are services available in the area when you live here, should you need them.

[zonerboy]

Not wishing to face the dreadful prospect of wasting away in a nursing home, several close friends and I have made a pact. When one of us becomes essentially incapacitated, either physically or mentally, others in the group will quietly put an end to our misery. When it's time to die, it's time to die. No sense dragging it out for months or years, prolonging the agony and depleting whatever estate there may be.
My spouse says her conscience won't allow her to participate in such arrangements, so I have to depend on my buddies.

[ilovetv]

Be careful about spending more weeks/months/years on how to die than on how to live.

[rjm1cc]

You need to have everything documented the way you want it. I maintain a book fondly called the EOL book. (end of life) It contains details on the following topics. And I am always finding different things to add.

Here are the things that I've covered in my book. I try to either update them annually or reference where readers can find recent details. Financial information is protected with a strong password that can be found in our safe deposit box.

Part 1. Immediate needs
Included here are: Addresses, email and phone contact information of our doctors, estate attorney, tax accountant and other people important in our lives. Funeral, obituary and burial directions. How to notify the Social Security Administration, pension and annuity administrators and investment funds and brokers.

Part 2. Wills and trusts
The category covers: Our living will and will. Power of Attorney. Executor. Investment beneficiaries. Who gets what personal items. Trusts and trustees. Locations of important items.

Part 3. Important actions
This is a guide to the following: Time-sensitive actions (taxes, required minimum distributions, etc.). Trips already reserved. Award points that can be used and associated instructions. Maintenance of home, other real estate, cars. I also keep a log of home-maintenance records including names and phones for each repair job.

Part 4. Financial management
This section includes records about: Regular income, automatic bill payments, sources of cash. Investments and real estate. Instructions for record-keeping. Credit card information. Life, health, house, auto, liability and any other insurance records. Taxes and data required. Passwords and IDs. Ledger of financial actions. Charitable-contribution information.

Part 5. Location
This is an extensive list of where things are that would be needed to settle estate and pay taxes.

At some point we'll make a copy of the Book for each of our children and our executor. Perhaps that will be when one of them notices our dementia and says they need a copy. What won't be easy is going through the tons of stuff we have saved in pictures and papers that fill boxes in the basement and file drawers in various places around the house—things we're not brave enough to toss out ourselves yet. We keep telling ourselves that we just have to eliminate the clutter, but we have trouble getting around to it. The Death Book comes first. The survivors can just dump the rest.Might consider a copy on a USB drive and giving that to your children now for future use. Could put a password on it. Also consider a copy in the cloud. The idea is to get to the book quickly and easily.
I would get to the clean up now. Your children will appreciate it.

[cquick]

I think the idea of putting all your plans and information in a book or on other media for your children is a wonderful idea. We haven't actually done that, but we think we have a plan.

Even though we are "youngsters" in The Villages we moved here because our son is severely disabled, but he is very social. TheVillages is perfect for our needs now, and we have a future plan made too!

My mom is here in The Villages in her own patio villa, and she's 83. Still very independent, drives her own car, does her own housecleaning, etc ( I wish she'd do mine too! ;-) )

Anyway, in a few years she says she'll be ready for assisted living, and there are many new ones being built nearby.....that's good.

Our son will need skilled nursing in a few years, and we have become ok with that too.

We have one grown up son who will handle all our needs someday for us but we also have a contingency plan with a trust to take over in case he is unable to do it.

[JourneyOfLife]

Does anyone know if this is part of "The Villages" Group or a different organization all together? It looks like it is in your community.

Freedom Pointe at The Villages | Florida Independent Senior Living | Retirement Community (http://www.brookdaleliving.com/freedom-pointe-at-the-villages.aspx)

If it is a different organization, do member of the CCRC retain their Villages privileges?

Better yet, anyone have any experience with it??? Know anyone in it?

[Mudder]

Freedom Point is part of The Villages.

[Bogie Shooter]

Freedom Point is part of The Villages.

Located in The Villages, not a part of The Villages.
Run by Brookdale Senior Living Inc.

Florida Senior Living at its Finest

Freedom Pointe at The Villages is a Continuing Care Retirement Community. We offer Exceptional Independent Living, Personalized Assisted Living, Alzheimer's and Dementia Care and Skilled Nursing Care options for seniors.

Freedom Pointe at The Villages provides a luxurious condominium atmosphere in the unique environment that only The Villages can offer. If you love the active independent lifestyle that The Villages provides with the peace of mind and security that a continuing care retirement community gives then Freedom Pointe at The Villages is for you.

You will enjoy totally independent living in your own private condominium: care free, no household chores or home maintenance to steal hours from your golf game or other fun pursuits.

Freedom Pointe at The Villages also offers you care-for-life which guarantees that no matter what happens to you physically or financially, you will always have a home. Professional services are available for any level of health care and assistance you may need now or in the future.

Purchasing your condominium home at Freedom Pointe at The Villages offers you all the privileges of home ownership with none of the worries. And when you join the Freedom Pointe family you will be assured all the services and privileges of not only The Villages but also allowing you to choose the assistance you need when you need it.

Comfort, support and security; luxury, independence and every carefree service and convenience available either within Freedom Pointe or just a golf cart ride away.

We invite you to come experience exceptional senior living at Freedom Pointe at The Villages today.

[JourneyOfLife]

Located in The Villages, not a part of The Villages.
Run by Brookdale Senior Living Inc.

Florida Senior Living at its Finest

Freedom Pointe at The Villages is a Continuing Care Retirement Community. We offer Exceptional Independent Living, Personalized Assisted Living, Alzheimer's and Dementia Care and Skilled Nursing Care options for seniors.

Freedom Pointe at The Villages provides a luxurious condominium atmosphere in the unique environment that only The Villages can offer. If you love the active independent lifestyle that The Villages provides with the peace of mind and security that a continuing care retirement community gives then Freedom Pointe at The Villages is for you.

You will enjoy totally independent living in your own private condominium: care free, no household chores or home maintenance to steal hours from your golf game or other fun pursuits.

Freedom Pointe at The Villages also offers you care-for-life which guarantees that no matter what happens to you physically or financially, you will always have a home. Professional services are available for any level of health care and assistance you may need now or in the future.

Purchasing your condominium home at Freedom Pointe at The Villages offers you all the privileges of home ownership with none of the worries. And when you join the Freedom Pointe family you will be assured all the services and privileges of not only The Villages but also allowing you to choose the assistance you need when you need it.

Comfort, support and security; luxury, independence and every carefree service and convenience available either within Freedom Pointe or just a golf cart ride away.

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Thanks... I read the page on the link I posted but somehow overlooked the comment about TV services and privileges (I bolded it in your quote).

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I am not making fun of anyone planning, or thinking about the future. I have tried in the past to plan major life decisions, and the more I think and worry, it seems the less control I have of the situation. While I am the kind of person who likes to be organized and informed, things just don't seem to work out that way.
So far, I have done the best I can with what I know, but there are too many variables in life to be completely prepared. People get sick and incapacitated, or die unexpectedly, or hurricanes or earthquakes happen and change lives. You can have 10 children and not be able to depend on any. Most families there is one child who has to do all the caregiving. You can have financial advisors who take all your money. A lot of assisted living, or continuing care facilities change ownership and change in quality.
So I have a basic plan for now. My papers are in order, my finances are more difficult to predict but somewhat stable. I can only hope and pray for the best and try to enjoy life in the moment.
Good luck! I hope you can find the answers you need.