A friend on TOTV is very sick. I am asking for prayers

[graciegirl]

Someone that has dreamed for many years of making The Villages their year 'round home has recently told me that he has been diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer. He is receiving treatment but this is a very difficult, lonely, and frightening time for him.

I asked permission to share this much and he said yes. He said it is hard to read TOTV without tears, he misses The Villages so much.

So although I will not name him. I ask you to send your caring responses to him.

[tucson]

Praying for your friend and will continue to do so, may God shower His love and healing upon him at this difficult time. May he feel a supernatural peace during this time.

[gomoho]

Sending prayers and love to your friend that is struggling.

[tainsley]

Prayers for our TOTV friend are coming their way. Hugs too!

[njbchbum]

prayers for our fellow totv poster...and many wishes that he has someone to walk that path with him.

[amybelles]

Sending positive thoughts and prayers!

[olgreeneyes]

Prayers and lots of love going out to your friend.

[Ecuadog]

Thoughts and prayers.

[Indydealmaker]

Someone that has dreamed for many years of making The Villages their year 'round home has recently told me that he has been diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer. He is receiving treatment but this is a very difficult, lonely, and frightening time for him.

I asked permission to share this much and he said yes. He said it is hard to read TOTV without tears, he misses The Villages so much.

So although I will not name him. I ask you to send your caring responses to him.

Gracie, all you have to do is ask. Prayers for your friend will be flowing.

[Baileysmom]

Prayers and all thoughts positive heading his way. Thank you Gracie for posting this.

[ilovetv]

Praying for our TOTV friend, for his mind to rest and receive clarity in the inexplicable peace and healing that only God can provide.

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6

[alanmcdonald]

I did not have pancreatic cancer, but I did have such a severe case of pancreatitus that they gave me a 20% chance of survival. That was 24 years ago and I'm still here and about to make TV my home.

Best wishes for your friend!!

[Love2cruise]

Prayers that his treatment will be successful and he will live to fulfill his dream in TV.

[pooh]

Prayers are offered for peace, comfort, successful treatment and enjoyment of life.....and they will continue!

[CaptJohn]

Prayers from here too.
A great friend had it many years ago. Tell him to be very leary of Whipple's surgery. My friend suffered greatly afterward from it and only lasted for a short period of time. I miss him dearly.

[mikeandnancy1112]

We will pray for him as long as it takes.

[redwitch]

Prayers and candles, gracie.

[Cobh521]

He is in our thoughts and prayers

[tippyclubb]

Praying for your friend Gracie.

[glgene]

Sending prayers to your friend, Gracie. Please tell him to not give up his TV dream. It may still happen. Keep the faith, optimism and, yes, hope. Better to think positive than negative...always!

Gene & Kathy

[DonH57]

Thoughts and prayers to your friend Gracie.

[PaPaLarry]

What a nice gesture Gracie!!!! Thoughts and prayers are with you and your friend. God is over us!!

[kfierle]

My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you and your friend.

[AngelPlus]

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[salferg]

Praying that you will find the peace and strength to win this battle.

[Pturner]

Prayers are offered for peace, comfort, successful treatment and enjoyment of life.....and they will continue!

What Pooh said.

[gerryann]

Thoughts and prayers to your friend, Gracie.

[boomerbaby]

I am sending you all good thoughts and prayers, your not alone alot of us here are thinking of you.

[Jaggy]

Praying for peace and comfort for your friend Gracie.

[laceylady]

I will pray for him. I am sorry he is so ill.

[champion6]

Sending prayers to our friend.

[sharonga]

Prayers for your friend

[jrandall]

Prayers for peace, love, and clarity of mind as our fellow poster goes through this heavy burden.

[Erijo]

Prayers will be said for him. And for his family

[KeepingItReal]

:pray: Prayers for the healing of your friend and all those that are sick.

James 5:13-18
King James Version (KJV)

15 And the prayer of faith shall save the sick, and the Lord shall raise him up; and if he have committed sins, they shall be forgiven him.

[Schaumburger]

Gracie, I will keep your friend in my thoughts and prayers. May God be there to guide your friend in the coming weeks and months.

[KathieI]

So sorry to hear about our friend on TOTV. Its such a sad situation to hear that our friends are so ill when they've been looking so forward to spending their time in our beautiful community. I've been through 3 of these same situations with friends on here and it breaks my heart to hear there is another who needs our prayers. I will put him on our prayer list with 2 other personal friends of mine who are very ill.

Thoughts and prayers for our special friend and I hope he will reach out to us if he is in need of any help from us.

[CFrance]

Gracie, prayers for our totv friend, whoever he is. the Lord bless him and keep him.

[Barefoot]

Prayers and hugs to our fellow TOTVer. I hope that the concern and good wishes expressed in all the previous posts bring him some comfort. I wish him a successful outcome and for his dreams to come true.

[Bill-n-Brillo]

Wow - such bad news. Will continue to keep him in our prayers, Gracie.

Bill :)

[CFrance]

I did not have pancreatic cancer, but I did have such a severe case of pancreatitus that they gave me a 20% chance of survival. That was 24 years ago and I'm still here and about to make TV my home.

Best wishes for your friend!!

Bless you! And welcome to TV when you get here. I love a success story. It gives everyone hope.

[Easyrider]

Thoughts and prayers that he finds comfort and healing and will be able to make the Villages his home.

[Happinow]

Thoughts and prayers.....

[Eileenny2tv]

My thoughts and prayers go out to our TOTV friend and may God's love sustain him in his time of need.

[justjim]

Graciegirl: Will put this friend on our prayer chain at church and will remember him in our personal devotions. God knows him by name even if we may not.

[SALYBOW]

I pray that he will receive healing at this time. I pray also that he can feel the loving hands of God holding him close. Hopefully our prayers will support him through this difficult journey. Let us know if there is more we can do. My prayers go out to you as well Sweetie.

[LynnDeb]

Prayers sent

[senior citizen]

Prayers for healing and inner peace so that they can see their dream become a reality.
Prayers for a miracle......and full recovery.......sent up at this moment.

[obxgal]

I too will keep him in my thoughts and prayers.

[Phanatic Luvr]

Prayers and lots of hope for his future heading his way.

[Whimsey]

Sorry to hear about your friend. Sending up prayers now....the power of prayer is amazing.

[ljarnold]

Thoughts and prayers being sent.

[LuckySevens]

Sending prayers for your TOTV friend and hoping he feels the love from fellow posters. Sometimes crying isn’t a bad thing as tears shed during an emotional cry can release endorphins that help to release stress. May God wrap His arms around this friend and comfort him.

[Polar Bear]

Prayers on the way that you will soon join us for a permanent and long stay at TV.

[jebartle]

The power of prayer is an amazing thing....Hugs:pray::pray:

[cbh1975]

Prayers being sent.

[Taltarzac725]

Christian Healing Prayers - Overcoming Sickness & Disease (http://www.christianhealingprayers.com/)

[echo11]

Prayers and good thoughts being sent.
My brother had pancreatic cancer. It is a very difficult disease.

[l2ridehd]

Prayers and best wishes to your friend.

[HDriders]

thoughts and prayers to your friend and fellow TOTV poster........May God bless him!!

[jojo]

Prayers sent to your friend Gracie. May the warmth of our friendly home town surround him.

[Parker]

May the road rise to meet him...and may the lovely sentiments displayed here comfort and encourage him. We all have our own path, and may God Bless him in his.

[Suzi]

Friends of TOTV are all sending loving thoughts to him during his illness.

[2BNTV]

Thoughts and prayers coming his way. :pray:

[villages07]

Strong, positive, healing thoughts going to our fellow TOTV member and all his friends and family.

I hope he has the chance to see this thread and feel all the support and warmth.

[OCsun]

My heart is full of positive thoughts to help keep you strong. Please allow this BIG HUG to carry you through this day in a joyful way!

[dillywho]

Prayers for you, whoever you are. Thank you for allowing Gracie to post this request. We don't have to know one another to love one another. Just know that people have you in their hearts. May it help to comfort you.

[graciegirl]

Gracie

Thank you, Thank You, Thank You for the post on TOTV (and leaving my name off). It took me a LOT longer to read TOTV because of the tears in the eyes.

It also took me 4 times as long to type a PM to xxxxxxxx thanking her and bring her up to date. Feel free to ask her to be forwarded the e-mail if you care.

. The bonding within TV is so great it is unreal. Also some people just seem to have a way to find out things.

I have no problem in sharing my name and other information I just did not want it posted in an open social media such as TOTV. The more help I can get the better I will be able to beat this.

Today I am feeling better than yesterday and even better than the day before and the day before that. I even did a few things around the house that I have been putting off.

Thanks again.

[PJOHNS2654]

Someone that has dreamed for many years of making The Villages their year 'round home has recently told me that he has been diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer. He is receiving treatment but this is a very difficult, lonely, and frightening time for him.

I asked permission to share this much and he said yes. He said it is hard to read TOTV without tears, he misses The Villages so much.

So although I will not name him. I ask you to send your caring responses to him.

Good to read the response from him and happy our prayers are helping.

[patfla06]

So sorry to hear about your friend.
Sending him good thoughts and many prayers.

[manaboutown]

Your friend is in my prayers, Gracie. I have known a couple of men who have suffered pancreatic cancer.

[CFrance]

Gracie, you are an angel for bringing comfort to this friend in need. Maybe we can all get our karma together and make a miracle recovery happen.

[Matzy]

Prayers and all our best wishes with all positive thoughts to him.

[Trayderjoe]

We'll add him to our thoughts and prayers as well.

[Foruhun]

We are thinking of him and his doctors and his supporting friends. God bless them.

[coconutmama]

Love and prayers to your friend. May this ring of friendship and caring encircle him with hope & comfort.

[kathyzapp]

Thoughts and prayers are being sent.

[shalomuall]

sending prayers

[Bizdoc]

Any friend of Gracie's has to be special...

Your friend is in our thoughts and prayers. If he has a break from treatments, tell him to come on down and let some TOTV love wash over him.

[kagney123]

Praying for your friend and all those who are lonely and sick.

[Radioman41]

Our prayers are on the way to your friend.

[rmcpklinefelter]

I will pray for your friend for strength, comfort and peace. Also for healing and for wisdom for his doctors and caregivers. He has a great friend in you and your faith to ask for prayers on his behalf.

[2BNTV]

I wish he is restored to perfect health. Thoughts and prayers to your friend. :pray:

[vj1213]

Special thoughts and prayers

[Lpierleo]

Many prayers and positive thoughts are coming his way:pray::pray:

[Lbmb24101]

Prayers and psitive thoughts.....

[Trish Crocker]

Gracie, he is in our prayers.

[Barefoot]

I hope he gets comfort and renewed strength for his battle from all the caring and wonderful posters on this thread.

[cookie4re]

I pray in name jesus that he will be touch supernaturally and this will be the best time of his life.

[graciegirl]

Hello Gracie

Just wanted to give my friends a little update on the health conditions. On Tuesday I had to go to the doctor for a formal checkup on how things were going. The doctor was pleased and said I looked a whole lot better than a month or so ago. Blood work was okay with one reading rather low and I have to drink more water to correct that.

The days seem to be getting a little better as things progress. Yesterday I went with my niece to look at bathroom tile and I did get a bit tired there were chairs to sit in so everything turned out okay. Right next to the hardware store the same owner / family has a good old fashion Amish style restaurant that is huge. I have eaten there hundreds of times but it has been some time since the last visit. I asked my niece if she wanted to go over for lunch and that took no arm twisting. We get there and the place is full and a nice long line waiting. We get in line and it is moving along nicely so I think it was about a 45 minute wait. I did have to sit in a chair for most of the wait.

I was amazed as over the past few months there is no way I can eat as much as a year or so ago. I had a nice shredded roast beef, real mashed potatoes and a nice salad. I finished off everything which was a total surprise to both me and my niece.

Well today it was time for some grocery shopping. Now here I have run into difficulty in the past by becoming very tired and almost ready to fall over. Three weeks ago I went to the same store and knew exactly what I wanted and half way down my very short list I was all out of breath and holding onto the cart for dear life. Today was a totally different story. I was able to walk around look at things and I was not tired at all. It was just like a normal day from months ago. It was not until I got home and had to make a few trips up and down the stairs that I got tired. I could see progress is being made.

On Thursday of this week I go back for another chemo treatment and that usually ends up in a step or two backwards. From the looks of things the steps forwards are out weighing the ones backwards and lets just hope it continues.

[CFrance]

Hello Gracie

Just wanted to give my friends a little update on the health conditions. On Tuesday I had to go to the doctor for a formal checkup on how things were going. The doctor was pleased and said I looked a whole lot better than a month or so ago. Blood work was okay with one reading rather low and I have to drink more water to correct that.

The days seem to be getting a little better as things progress. Yesterday I went with my niece to look at bathroom tile and I did get a bit tired there were chairs to sit in so everything turned out okay. Right next to the hardware store the same owner / family has a good old fashion Amish style restaurant that is huge. I have eaten there hundreds of times but it has been some time since the last visit. I asked my niece if she wanted to go over for lunch and that took no arm twisting. We get there and the place is full and a nice long line waiting. We get in line and it is moving along nicely so I think it was about a 45 minute wait. I did have to sit in a chair for most of the wait.

I was amazed as over the past few months there is no way I can eat as much as a year or so ago. I had a nice shredded roast beef, real mashed potatoes and a nice salad. I finished off everything which was a total surprise to both me and my niece.

Well today it was time for some grocery shopping. Now here I have run into difficulty in the past by becoming very tired and almost ready to fall over. Three weeks ago I went to the same store and knew exactly what I wanted and half way down my very short list I was all out of breath and holding onto the cart for dear life. Today was a totally different story. I was able to walk around look at things and I was not tired at all. It was just like a normal day from months ago. It was not until I got home and had to make a few trips up and down the stairs that I got tired. I could see progress is being made.

On Thursday of this week I go back for another chemo treatment and that usually ends up in a step or two backwards. From the looks of things the steps forwards are out weighing the ones backwards and lets just hope it continues.

Gracie, I am so thankful. We can only keep praying.

[babs1199]

I will be lifting him up in my prayers. God is with you and all your friends on TOTV. Will pray for peace and healing.

[graciegirl]

Hello Gracie

Here is another update Also thanks again
for reposting to that wonderful thread.
============
I went for a chemo treatment today and was delighted. For over the past 1.5
years I have been trying to lose weight with diet and exercise and lost over 100
pounds. Well That is where I wanted it quit but I kept losing. I ended up losing
about 10 pounds I did not want to.

I quit weighing myself at home when I was diagnosed. Well today they weigh every
one as they come in for chemo and I gained 4 pounds. I was very pleased. Problem
during vitals was that my blood pressure was low when seated and even lower when
standing. This is something the nurses are required to call the oncologist
about. Well the doctor was so concerned he came over from practice to check
things out. He too was pleased with the weight gain and decided to give me
another bag of saline for the low blood pressure caused by my dehydration.

I have a nurse that comes over to the house and hooks me up to home chemo and
she was surprised to see me driving my car. I have been deriving to the store
and things but having relatives drive me to chemo. Well today was the first
chemo drive and everything went without a hitch.

I just hope things continue and want to hear those famous words from the
doctor that you are how well enough to go to TV. I have no idea as to when I
will have tests to see how the actual cancer is doing.

[redwitch]

What wonderful news! May his strength continue and may he know that he is in our hearts and minds daily. More prayers going his way.

[CFrance]

We should keep the prayers going strong. They seem to be working!

[Lpierleo]

Prayers will continue and hope his strength continues to build. Thank you for the update.

[ugotme]

Your friend is our friend.
Our prayers go out for a speedy recovery.

[kittygilchrist]

Thank God for progress. Bless His Holy Name.
May Gracie's friend feel his sweet presence...his abiding grace, and you too, Grace.
and me, I want that too.

[sunflower3630]

Gracie,

My prayers continue for your friend. We are all encouraged by his good progress, and I pray for continued progress as he fights this battle. God bless you both.

[coconutmama]

Hello Gracie

Here is another update Also thanks again
for reposting to that wonderful thread.
============
I went for a chemo treatment today and was delighted. For over the past 1.5
years I have been trying to lose weight with diet and exercise and lost over 100
pounds. Well That is where I wanted it quit but I kept losing. I ended up losing
about 10 pounds I did not want to.

I quit weighing myself at home when I was diagnosed. Well today they weigh every
one as they come in for chemo and I gained 4 pounds. I was very pleased. Problem
during vitals was that my blood pressure was low when seated and even lower when
standing. This is something the nurses are required to call the oncologist
about. Well the doctor was so concerned he came over from practice to check
things out. He too was pleased with the weight gain and decided to give me
another bag of saline for the low blood pressure caused by my dehydration.

I have a nurse that comes over to the house and hooks me up to home chemo and
she was surprised to see me driving my car. I have been deriving to the store
and things but having relatives drive me to chemo. Well today was the first
chemo drive and everything went without a hitch.

I just hope things continue and want to hear those famous words from the
doctor that you are how well enough to go to TV. I have no idea as to when I
will have tests to see how the actual cancer is doing.

Thanks for the update, God Bless!!

[graciegirl]

Today in the mail I received a lovely note from one of the posters on this thread together with a packet of cards and stamps to send on to our dear TOTV friend who is sick.

There was also a personal note to me.

I felt I could not give out his address because this is a public forum, even in a PM.

But this dear soul circumvented that problem.

Dear friend for whom this thread was started. I wish you a peaceful and pain free Thanksgiving and hope there will be someone to fix a nice meal for you. I wish that we could all be there to just drop by and see if you needed any errands run and give you some hugs.

We are all sending love.

[CFrance]

Today in the mail I received a lovely note from one of the posters on this thread together with a packet of cards and stamps to send on to our dear TOTV friend who is sick.

There was also a personal note to me.

I felt I could not give out his address because this is a public forum, even in a PM.

But this dear soul circumvented that problem.

Dear friend for whom this thread was started. I wish you a peaceful and pain free Thanksgiving and hope there will be someone to fix a nice meal for you. I wish that we could all be there to just drop by and see if you needed any errands run and give you some hugs.

We are all sending love.

We do all send our love and prayers. And it appears you may be feeling a bit better. Happy Thanksgiving, friend, and keep feeling better!

[Virtual Geezer]

...

[skyguy79]

Dear friend for whom this thread was started. I wish you a peaceful and pain free Thanksgiving and hope there will be someone to fix a nice meal for you. I wish that we could all be there to just drop by and see if you needed any errands run and give you some hugs.

We are all sending love.I echo those finely expressed thoughts Gracie and am happy that this person is getting to see how well thought of they are by friends and neighbors!

[graciegirl]

Hello Gracie

I want to thank you on the update to your prayer request thread. I wanted to send you a PM last evening and I had it all typed out but it was in the general section and not the PM so I deleted.

I really want to thank you for all you have done and I don't mind you giving out my home address in a PM as long as you know and have trust the person. You know a lot more people on TOTV than I do. I trust you 1000% in making a good decision as to who to give the info to.

Update on clinic visits this week. On Tuesday I went in for blood work and my numbers were up where they wanted the and down where they wanted them. Everyone was happy. They said there will be a change when they do the same sample on my Thursday chemo treatment.

On Thursday they were right and the numbers went down and up a bit but still better than before at chemo. No additional saline was needed and everything went well.

I am feeling a lot better but still get tired easily. I have no idea as to when if ever I get my leaves picked up with all the rain, drizzle and show we are about to get.

It is depressing as last year at this time I was on the road to TV for my 4 month stay.

[PaPaLarry]

Prayers being said as I type, for your dear friend. God Bless!

[sandybill2]

Thoughts and prayers coming your way.

[keywest]

Gracie...May God bless your friend. I have sent a prayer for them.

[SusanOfWoodbury]

Someone that has dreamed for many years of making The Villages their year 'round home has recently told me that he has been diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer. He is receiving treatment but this is a very difficult, lonely, and frightening time for him.

I asked permission to share this much and he said yes. He said it is hard to read TOTV without tears, he misses The Villages so much.

So although I will not name him. I ask you to send your caring responses to him.

Lots of prayers for your friend Gracie.. May he be surrounded by angels and white lite..
God Bless

[Buffalo Jim]

Please visit a website called " Michelles Angles" at:
www.MichellesAngles.com .
I t is a very active site which maintains an active prayer list and emotional support for the ill and their families / caregivers .
It was launched about 5 years ago by a fellow visiter who found himself having just relocated to a new city when his wife`s cancer returned and took her life .
Her story and the stories of others are quite amazing

[CFrance]

Please visit a website called " Michelles Angles" at:
www.MichellesAngles.com .
I t is a very active site which maintains an active prayer list and emotional support for the ill and their families / caregivers .
It was launched about 5 years ago by a fellow visiter who found himself having just relocated to a new city when his wife`s cancer returned and took her life .
Her story and the stories of others are quite amazing

A little correction in spelling: michellesangels.com will get you there. A very good site.

[elizabeth52]

Your friend will be in my prayers, Gracie. And for you also, for continued strength and love to be able to support your friend through this trying time.

[cromlich]

Praying!

[lovsthosebigdogs]

I believe prayer does help and all these prayers can only be a wonderful thing. Add mine to the list. Hope your friend feels the healing light of our collective prayers. Very nice of you to do this, Gracie.

[Lpierleo]

To Gracie and her friend,
Sending our heartfelt good wishes and many prayers for you.

Respectfully, Linda

[graciegirl]

Since our friend who is fighting so hard has given me permission to share his address, will those who I refused to give that information to, contact me again.

I think it would help him so much to get mail.

[Schaumburger]

Gracie, I will continue to pray for your friend.

[graciegirl]

Hello Gracie

I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving and with that meal items I sure you had a lot of fun cooking.

I spent the day over at my nieces along with other family members and we had a very nice dinner. The two things we had that were not on your very inclusive list were dinner rolls (Pillsbury crescent rolls) and yams (sweet potatoes) from a can with the sugar syrup.

It feels more like Christmas around here than Thanksgiving with all the snow on the ground and the cold weather. Supposed to rain next week so no need to shovel the snow.

Have a great day and stay warm as the temps have been a little on the cool side as of late. But I'll take 60 or 70' over the 20's.

John

[CFrance]

Hello Gracie

I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving and with that meal items I sure you had a lot of fun cooking.

I spent the day over at my nieces along with other family members and we had a very nice dinner. The two things we had that were not on your very inclusive list were dinner rolls (Pillsbury crescent rolls) and yams (sweet potatoes) from a can with the sugar syrup.

It feels more like Christmas around here than Thanksgiving with all the snow on the ground and the cold weather. Supposed to rain next week so no need to shovel the snow.

Have a great day and stay warm as the temps have been a little on the cool side as of late. But I'll take 60 or 70' over the 20's.

John

Bless his pea-pickin' heart. Hugs from OZ to you, John.

[Parker]

Dear John, knowing your history of posts here, knowing you are in the struggle of your life, and then reading your simple sweet post to Gracie just humbles me, inspires me. God Bless you forever John, from a not-so-perfect stranger.

[Barefoot]

I join others in hoping that your friend feels comforted and uplifted by knowing that many people are praying for him, not only on days like Thanksgiving, but every day.

[SanFranDianne]

JackZ and I will be praying for your friend.

[mikeandnancy1112]

We will pray for your friend as long as it takes.

[obxgal]

Thoughts and prayers are with you John.
http://i415.photobucket.com/albums/pp239/obxgal/Prayers/PrayersAdventGift.jpg

[marybb]

Sending prayers His way

[graciegirl]

Hello Gracie,

I was just typing an e-mail reply to Cyndy and I received a phone call from my doctor with the results of my latest CA19-9 blood test from last Thursday. The number came in at 160 and they were thrilled. It went from 1803 in Sept to 413 in late Nov to 160 now so it looks like the treatments are working. The magic number for CA19-9 is 0 - 37 and we are getting close. Although only an indicator the CA19-9 blood test is a very good indicator for the presents of pancreatic cancer.

Boy does that change the drab Ohio day for the better.

John

[rayschic]

Wow, that is wonderful news. Glad to see John is moving in the right direction. Thanks for keeping us updated .

[Barefoot]

Hello Gracie,

I was just typing an e-mail reply to Cyndy and I received a phone call from my doctor with the results of my latest CA19-9 blood test from last Thursday. The number came in at 160 and they were thrilled. It went from 1803 in Sept to 413 in late Nov to 160 now so it looks like the treatments are working. The magic number for CA19-9 is 0 - 37 and we are getting close. Although only an indicator the CA19-9 blood test is a very good indicator for the presents of pancreatic cancer.

Boy does that change the drab Ohio day for the better. John

Very good news. :clap2:

[CFrance]

All those prayers seem to be working. Oh, and some medical miracles as well. A former pastor of ours used to say, "Work like everything depends on you, and pray like everything depends on God."

[Parker]

Oh Happy Day! Keep those boxing gloves on! We're all rooting for you.

[Lpierleo]

That is wonderful news! Keep those numbers falling. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

[graciegirl]

Hello Gracie

I just thought I would pass along my results from my last doctors visit. To say the doctors are ecstatic is an understatement. The CA19-9 cancer antigen number is at 78 down from 160 last month. people without cancer have a number between 0 - 37. Let's hope I can hit that range next visit.

The chemo seems to be working but I still get tired very easily. Also the few days after the treatment I seem to be more worn out from back when I first started. I asked the doctor about that and he said that is normal.

So all in all things are looking good except for the stinking Ohio weather. I am sick of the snow and that coming from a former snow skier is saying something. It is supposed to get into the 50's tomorrow and rain but with all the coverage we need a week of 50 to 60 degree temps to melt the crud.

Keeping the faith and hoping for the best.

John

[CFrance]

All those prayers and well wishes are working. Let's keep at it! thanks for the update, Gracie.

[kittygilchrist]

Keeping in the word and prayer, thank you for the wonderful news...blessings.

prov 4: 20 My son, pay attention to what I say; listen closely to my words. 21 Do not let them out of your sight, keep them within your heart; 22 for they are life to those who find them and health to a man's whole body.

[tainsley]

Great news John! Thoughts and prayers will keep coming your way! Stay positive!

[olgreeneyes]

Terrific news!

[Polar Bear]

Wonderful. Let's keep it up!

[raynitsche]

Praying for a quick recovery!

[Barefoot]

I just thought I would pass along my results from my last doctors visit. To say the doctors are ecstatic is an understatement. The CA19-9 cancer antigen number is at 78 down from 160 last month. people without cancer have a number between 0 - 37. Let's hope I can hit that range next visit.

The chemo seems to be working but I still get tired very easily. Also the few days after the treatment I seem to be more worn out from back when I first started. I asked the doctor about that and he said that is normal.

Great news! Stay strong -- many people are praying for you.

[graciegirl]

If anyone wants to write him directly or PM him, contact me and I will tell you who he is on TOTV and his address, if I know a little about you, just for his own safety. Due to the efforts of an angel named Elinor who brought a bunch of cards and stamps to the Christmas brunch we had, John received a lot of mail. I am sure he would enjoy more now.

[graciegirl]

Short Update




Hello Gracie

Jut a little update so you don't get worried. Last weeks chemo was put off for one week because of one blood number being .2 points from being accepted. That is not uncommon and the doctors decided that because of the way chemo compromises the immune system and all the colds and flu running around to move things back a week. I an still waiting for a firm date for the battery of tests and want to give you a full report then.

One can really tell how the chemo effects the body now compared to last year. The more you get the worse it is.

John

[Lpierleo]

Many prayers are said for John each day. So sorry to hear the chemo gets harder each time. Thinking positive thoughts and good wishes.

Linda

[CFrance]

I got a PM from John last week that I haven't been able to respond to yet. It sounds like he is doing okay, just having a little difficulty with the chemo aftermath. He sounds upbeat and connected and alive and alert! My prayers are constantly with you, John, and I will PM you soon with some stupid stuff or other just to give you something to laugh at. Hugs and love to you.

[Taltarzac725]

Wishing John the best.

[graciegirl]

Veteran member
Join Date: Aug 2011
Posts: 612


https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/images/icons/icon1.gif Another Update
Hello Gracie
Well last week on Thursday I had my latest chemo treatment and it was basically uneventful. Things were good until about Friday afternoon when the nausea started to kick in. From there until I had the home chemo pump disconnected on Saturday I felt like I was run over by a train. Nothing major but just feeling like doing nothing and no motivation. I did a lot of resting on Saturday and then again on Sunday. Things fell in line and when I got up today I really felt good. I did have an oncology appointment today so that went on with no hitch. The doctor still remarked if it were not for the "Do" he would not even believe I was being treated. He is really pleased with my progress and I asked him about long term. He stated that I will have thins for life and it all depends on the severity. They are getting the CA19-9 numbers down from 1813 back in September to 78 last month. He already wants that blood test to be preformed on my next blood draw / chemo on March 20. Normal range for someone that does not have this type of cancer is 0 - 37. The doctor said just because I may get into that range it is not an all clear sign. It dose mean things are a lot better but still needs to be watched.

I asked him about going to Florida and we got into a discussion about that. He asked when did I go and I told him for 4 months starting December 1. He then just rolled his eyes. I do believe that if the blood numbers improve and a CAT scan comes out clean then he may give me 3 or 4 weeks. I think the decision about a CAT scan will be decided after the next blood work.

How screwed up is our health care system just get sick and you are in for a rude awakening. I have to give my self a shot in the thigh every night to thin the blood. Per the doctor this is better than the pills for someone with my conditions. Well last year I never had major prescription charges and the script was costing $10.00 co - pay. In January I go to get a script filled and the cost to me is $1,100. out of pocket. Today I get a refill and it is $975.00 for a 30 day supply. Who knows what it will be next time.

I received a phone call this evening and the person mentioned they were sitting on the lanai in shorts and a t-shirt. Temps were nice today and sunny. Here in Ohio we won't be seeing that for 2 1/2 to 3 months.

Take care and say hello to the entire family. Also you may want to pass this on to Cyndy and others of the posy.

John

[lovsthosebigdogs]

John is in my prayers for strength through this whole ordeal.

[CFrance]

PM'd you, John. My prayers are with you, friend.

[graciegirl]

Several of us have heard from John in the last couple of days and his chemo has been suspended for awhile due to not favorable blood counts. He says he is not depressed, just tired, and is so brave in the face of this setback. Please PM me if you want to send him a personal PM, I will tell you the name he uses on TOTV. He is a single guy who loves this place and his dream is to live here, he has visited every year for the past many but hasn't been able to sell his house and last year was diagnosed with cancer..


Or you can send him a message here on this forum, or just send a silent prayer during this holiest time of the year.


We love you John. We care and we wish you were here with us in The Villages where we could pamper you a bit.


Hugs from all of us G's

[mikeandnancy1112]

Gracie, We will be praying for your friend as long as it takes.

[kittygilchrist]

praying...by His stripes we are healed...

[dbussone]

Several of us have heard from John in the last couple of days and his chemo has been suspended for awhile due to not favorable blood counts. He says he is not depressed, just tired, and is so brave in the face of this setback. Please PM me if you want to send him a personal PM, I will tell you the name he uses on TOTV. He is a single guy who loves this place and his dream is to live here, he has visited every year for the past many but hasn't been able to sell his house and last year was diagnosed with cancer..


Or you can send him a message here on this forum, or just send a silent prayer during this holiest time of the year.


We love you John. We care and we wish you were here in TOTV where we could pamper you a bit.


Hugs from all of us G's


I will add John to our prayer list. There's nothing like having a bunch of prayer warriors on your side.

[graciegirl]

I love this hymn. It always offers comfort to me. I hope it will for him today.


youtube on eagles wings - Bing Videos (http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=youtube+on+eagles+wings&FORM=VIRE3#view=detail&mid=F3BCB6081D485364A440F3BCB6081D485364A440)

[Culvers2Villages]

Graciegirl... I am so sorry to hear of your friend's sickness... Praying for continued healing and restoration of his physical body, soul and spirit...
Father God, your Word says in Romans 8:11 - That is the same Spirit that raised Christ Jesus from the dead lives in us... then that same Spirit(the Holy Spirit) that raised Jesus from the dead shall, shall quicken our mortal bodies".
So, Father, I am praying YOUR Word as a prayer over this man. You and YOU alone truly know the plans and purposes that you have for his life. But, YOU said YOUR Word would not return unto you void!!! So, Father, in the Name of Jesus, we pray for this gentleman's body to be quickened... New life, miraculous healing for his spirit, soul and body. In Jesus Name.. AMEN!!!

[Culvers2Villages]

Also, Graciegirl.
My church is doing the dynamic Production of "The Passion"... it started last night, and will be tonight... Friday, Saturday and Sunday nights at 7:00 pm and a Matinee on Sunday at 3:30. If he would be able to make any of these productions, there will be folks there to pray for and with him. God Bless You Sweet Lady...

[Culvers2Villages]

I love this hymn. It always offers comfort to me. I hope it will for him today.


youtube on eagles wings - Bing Videos (http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=youtube+on+eagles+wings&FORM=VIRE3#view=detail&mid=F3BCB6081D485364A440F3BCB6081D485364A440)


BEAUTIFUL song... thank you for sharing... Connie

[graciegirl]

So I am posting it for you. I am hoping this means he enjoyed it. I watched it and I enjoyed it. I am pretty sure this happened close to where he lives. Please keep praying he can come down and spend some time with us.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vve8hh9_xGI

[graciegirl]

And I have sad news for all of you who kept John in your prayers. John was a kind and gentle man and a brave one. He was known as Virtual Geezer on this site and his dream was to buy a home here in The Villages and to live out his days. That didn't happen. He has left this earthly home.


Here is the obituary.


John J. Udvari

Obituary | Condolences (http://www.legacy.com/guestbooks/ohio/john-j-udvari-condolences/171059986?cid=full)





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John J. Udvari

WB8VPA/N8RF

John J. Udvari, 67, passed away May 16, 2014 after a courageous battle with cancer. He was born in Akron and lived in the area all of his life.

He graduated from Hoban High School in 1964 and was recently employed by Roadway. John was a computer and Ham Radio enthusiast, he talked to people all over the world through his Ham Radio. He loved traveling to Florida to stay at the Villages.

John was preceded in death by his parents, Joseph and Jeanette Udvari; sister and brother-in-law, Lois and James Lampe. He is survived by his nieces, Deborah Myers of Bradenton, Fla. and Cynthia Lampe of Akron; nephew, James (Angela) Lampe of Akron; great niece and nephews, Matthew Myers, Cassidy Lampe and Ciaran Lampe; family and friends.

We would like to express our deepest gratitude to the doctors and nurses at Summa Cancer Center, to Home Care and Hospice, you took exceptional care of our Uncle John and you should be proud of the work you do. Also to Lori, your presence gave us great comfort and we thank you.

Funeral Services will be at 11 a.m. Tuesday at Hennessy Funeral Home, (corner of York and Main) 552 N. Main St., Akron with Father Joe Warner officiating. Burial will follow at Holy Cross Cemetery. Friends will be received from 4 to 7 p.m. Monday at the funeral home. 330-376-3032






- See more at: John J. Udvari Obituary: View John Udvari's Obituary by Akron Beacon Journal (http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/ohio/obituary.aspx?page=lifestory&pid=171059986#sthash.ZymjEJS0.dpuf)

[2BNTV]

My deepest comdolences to friends and family of John, (vitual geezer).

RIP - John

[Cobh521]

So sorry to hear of John's passing. Prayers for John and his family and friends.

[gerryann]

Very sad. Prayers for his family and loved ones.

[CFrance]

So sad. I'm glad you were made aware of this, Gracie. Thanks for passing on the information. I will miss him so much.

[Cisco Kid]

When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure.

[CFrance]

When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure.

Yes, but the amount of time that takes is not so easy. :(

[Polar Bear]

So sorry. Prayers for family and friends.

[Villageshooter]

Veteran member
Join Date: Aug 2011
Posts: 612


https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/images/icons/icon1.gif Another Update
Hello Gracie
Well last week on Thursday I had my latest chemo treatment and it was basically uneventful. Things were good until about Friday afternoon when the nausea started to kick in. From there until I had the home chemo pump disconnected on Saturday I felt like I was run over by a train. Nothing major but just feeling like doing nothing and no motivation. I did a lot of resting on Saturday and then again on Sunday. Things fell in line and when I got up today I really felt good. I did have an oncology appointment today so that went on with no hitch. The doctor still remarked if it were not for the "Do" he would not even believe I was being treated. He is really pleased with my progress and I asked him about long term. He stated that I will have thins for life and it all depends on the severity. They are getting the CA19-9 numbers down from 1813 back in September to 78 last month. He already wants that blood test to be preformed on my next blood draw / chemo on March 20. Normal range for someone that does not have this type of cancer is 0 - 37. The doctor said just because I may get into that range it is not an all clear sign. It dose mean things are a lot better but still needs to be watched.

I asked him about going to Florida and we got into a discussion about that. He asked when did I go and I told him for 4 months starting December 1. He then just rolled his eyes. I do believe that if the blood numbers improve and a CAT scan comes out clean then he may give me 3 or 4 weeks. I think the decision about a CAT scan will be decided after the next blood work.

How screwed up is our health care system just get sick and you are in for a rude awakening. I have to give my self a shot in the thigh every night to thin the blood. Per the doctor this is better than the pills for someone with my conditions. Well last year I never had major prescription charges and the script was costing $10.00 co - pay. In January I go to get a script filled and the cost to me is $1,100. out of pocket. Today I get a refill and it is $975.00 for a 30 day supply. Who knows what it will be next time.

I received a phone call this evening and the person mentioned they were sitting on the lanai in shorts and a t-shirt. Temps were nice today and sunny. Here in Ohio we won't be seeing that for 2 1/2 to 3 months.

Take care and say hello to the entire family. Also you may want to pass this on to Cyndy and others of the posy.

John


this is exactly why I want to have a heart attack and be dead before I hit the ground I don't want to waste away like an old car and live a miserable quality-of-life my prayers to this Oldboy because he's a lot tougher than I would be but I could never do this. sometimes I think we forget what it's like to really face crisis and how we would handle it my old friend Dick trickle who was a NASCAR driver was faced with some difficulties and was not going to go through a this miserable quality-of-life he handled it is his way and went out on his own terms my prayers to my friend Dick trickle and John
sometimes I really wonder why my God challenges people up until the very last breath!

[tudacee]

My condolences about your friend, John. He sounds like a good guy and one that The Lord wanted to have by his side.

[Carl in Tampa]

I'm saddened to hear of the loss of your friend. Even though my health issues have reduced my mobility, I am still happy to be in TV. I can understand how much he must have wanted to be here.

.

[senior citizen]

Virtual Geezer was also my TOTV friend.

Very sad news, especially since his dream to move to The Villages didn't come true.
Bet his spirit is visiting right now...........

""Death is a challenge. It tells us not to waste time....
It tells us to tell each other right now that we love each other.""
By Leo Buscaglia


""Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.""
~Unknown Author~

[Ruthtomnorma3]

Praying for your friend......we know the power of prayer ....IT WORKS....

[TOTV Team]

We at TOTV have changed the user status to 'Eternal Member'.

[perrjojo]

We at TOTV have changed the user status to 'Eternal Member'.
Thank you for honoring this member in this way.

[Lpierleo]

So sorry for the loss of this wonderful person who never was able to fulfill his dream of living in TV. My prayers and condolences to his family and his TOTV family. RIP, John


Linda

[Barefoot]

Prayers are powerful, but sometimes God has a different plan for us.
Rest in peace, Virtual Geezer.

[OCsun]

Thanks for updating us Gracie. I was wondering how he was doing.

[CFrance]

And thanks for those posters who responded throughout John's illness and death with prayers, understanding, and compassion.

Villageshooters, Carl, and Barefoot, you have provided three different perspectives on life, illness, and death. It's a lot to ponder.

[graciegirl]

And thanks for those posters who responded throughout John's illness and death with prayers, understanding, and compassion.

Villageshooters, Carl, and Barefoot, you have provided three different perspectives on life, illness, and death. It's a lot to ponder.


So many of you sent him well wishes on this forum, and many sent cards and gifts over and over and I know it made his days easier.


John got to spend a long visit, several months, on his last trip here. He had dreamed to live here. He was full of hope and fought this disease until the end. We should all honor his memory by living here in this beautiful place and finding the joy that he dreamed about.


He was a good person, never marrying, watching out for his mom until her death and he was an absolute genius with computers. He was an Ohio guy and a talker and a people person, quick to smile and to find laughter.


Rest in Peace, Friend. I echo Cyndy's gratitude to all who sent him good wishes on this forum and to all who will remember him kindly.

[dbussone]

We at TOTV have changed the user status to 'Eternal Member'.


Thank you for honoring John in this way.

God bless.

[lovsthosebigdogs]

So very sorry to hear of his passing. It's never easy to lose someone special. Sending prayers to all his family and friends.

[Dancing Queen]

He was always so helpful my GPS would have never gotten updated with out him.
Eternal Member is a sweet way to keep his goodness alive here with us, thank you Admin for that.
God Bless All

[CFrance]

He was always so helpful my GPS would have never gotten updated with out him.
Eternal Member is a sweet way to keep his goodness alive here with us, thank you Admin for that.
God Bless All
Another fun thing about being around John--he knew so much history of TOTV. He shared a lot of good stories about it.:blahblahblah:

[KathieI]

So sorry to hear we lost our Virtual Geezer :'(

He will join the list of wonderful TOTV'ers that we will miss forever. Thank you admins for giving him the status of Eternal Member. I feel so sad today, he never got the opportunity to move here and enjoy the other things on his bucket list.

RIP John, you will be missed.

[NormaJean]

Thoughts and prayers are coming their way.

[elbear]

Praying for your friend and will continue to do so, may God shower His love and healing upon him at this difficult time. May he feel a supernatural peace during this time.

Sending prayers. God is merciful and good.