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09-25-2023 12:45 PM |
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Originally Posted by TerryCamlin
(Post 2260204)
Yes you need a Fl attorney. I just want to warn you of my experience with Amy Pittman. When I first got here I was engaged and married my husband during Covid. We sought out an Attorney since we were both from Maryland. Many people recommended Amy Pittman on Next Door Neighbor. We met Amy who was very personable who evaluated our circumstances I came into the marriage with no children and my husband had two adult children. She advised he needed a Will and I needed a Trust. In my trust I wanted my husband and brother to be my beneficiaries and executors. She strongly advised against this so I picked two friends instead since the marriage was new and they would both benefit greatly if I was dead. So the initial Will for my husband was $800 my Trust $1400. After three years of marriage I was like why did I listen to her I wanted my husband as my executor and my brother as my second. I called the office and told them to please change my documents to reflect this change. Now if anyone has ever used Microsoft software you can simply tell the computer to find every place you see one name and have automatically change it to the name you want. Never did I meet with Amy or a lawyer in the office to discuss this I simply stated what I wanted them to do to my original documents. I was beyond SHOCKED when I received a bill for $800 for a few pages of changes and a 10 minute meeting to get the documents notarized. I questioned the bill and was told there was nothing they could do and MAYBE they should have told me the cost ahead of time. I told them I would be on social media warning people and I got a shrug like do what you have to do. Since I received a letter from Amy stating they will no longer represent me. Trust me I have my documents and would never ever want to go back them. So before you listen to everyone tell you how great she is be forewarned they have never tried to have changes made or they too would not be recommending this office. I am not worried about her because all of these facts are true and I have the documents and her letter if you want to read it send me your email.
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Based on personal experience with attorneys, I have a very negative opinion. Drafting a will is a strange experience. For one thing when you need it you will be dead. Did I really want to do that?
When, my parents passed, they didn't have much but there were issues between myself and my sister. Their estate was split 50-50 and each item of any value the will said who gets what. We all know the horrors of relatives fighting over your ???????
Your comment about using Microsoft software to make the changes. The reality is the attorney does not write a new will or trust for each client. They are all modified versions of the form that in is their computer, likely purchased from a company same as the software to do income taxes..
You can actually draft your own will. When, it is used, you will be gone, what are they going to do-fire you?
A fair price? You can pay by the hour. Who tells you how many hours it took? The atty does. On the job, I often worked late and would take a commuter railroad home. There were many young attorneys doing work while riding the train. Did those people get a bouncing discount or were they billed full price. For that matter did the atty do the work or did his legal assistant or a law student working for free do the work.
Your personal situation is far more complex than ours. A will for husband and a trust for you, he has kids and you don't. Apparently a second marriage and keeping your finances separate. What happens if? It is very unlikely both of you will pass at the same time. Illness can be VERY EXPENSIVE. Sort of sounds like he is leaving his to his kids and you are leaving yours to him and his kids and your brother.
Far as the bill. I don't know if that is fair. You said 10 minutes with a notary. This happens all the time. The notary is an employee. You were speaking to the wrong person.
Things were so much easier. When I was married my net worth was negative numbers.
My wife, I married her for her money she had two or three thousand dollars.
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