Tracey, I read your post about your Dad, I am sorry to hear about that. I am a parapalgic also. I was injured 7 years ago. I live here in Ocala, about 10 miles from the villages.I have a few things that your Dad might be able to use. I mentor a lady there in the villages that is also a para. she was injured about a year ago. I am sure she would like to talk as well, maybe we can start a support group and also a foundation to raise moneys for this kind of situation. I love to mentor and would love to talk to your Dad. I am 54 it is possible to live alone as a para or quad. my name is Valerie my email is
itsmevalerie@embarqmail.com Thank you, my prayers are with you