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Pairadocs 04-10-2024 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by GATORBILL66 (Post 2320320)
WOW! Now any parent or even grandparent could be charged with a child's crime just for being related to the child.

No, no not at all. What the verdict "says" is only that parents have a responsibility to the degree possible, for their own children. For instance, if a parent has had indications of serious mental, interpersonal, or adjustment problems, it's just like medical conditions. If a minor, the parent is responsible to getting appropriate help. If a child/youth IS under care for some mental or physical abnormality, or the friends, church, scouts, school, etc. has brought this to the parent's attention, AND the parents make the decision to purchase a fire arm for the child/youth, or even if a grandparent decides to purchase and give that at risk child a weapon, the they can/might be held responsible, but again, a jury would have to hear ALL the evidence. So don't automatically deduce from this particular case, that you, or anyone can "automatically" be held responsible for any/all acts of a minor. It's like a research "study" where they tell you "a study have shown ______ works better than any other product to clean your floors". To believe such a claim, you would have to look up the actual study, find ALL the variables, look at what standard deviation the study authors used, see HOW MANY participants were in the experimental group, the control group, and such things as was historical data use also for comparison...ALL of that, or, the words "a study show" mean absolutely nothing, and this type of parent responsibility case is similar. You have to know ALL the variables to come to a decision/conclusion about responsibility !

Pairadocs 04-10-2024 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by JMintzer (Post 2320386)

WOW, you got that one right ! Totally agree !

Pairadocs 04-10-2024 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by JMintzer (Post 2320387)
The Sandy Hook parents sued the gun manufacturer...

Which is just as silly as suing Ford because of a drunk driver...

Yes ! Exactly ! It's a completely illogical association ! Like someone beats at spouse with a golf club, and the spouse dies as a result. Sue Calloway OF COURSE ! They should not even be allowed to make such dangerous (and aggravating I might add !) implements.

Pairadocs 04-10-2024 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by mbene (Post 2320135)
If you watched any of the proceedings and saw the evidence presented on how they ignored his cries for help, you had to know he really should have been in treatment for his mental health. Then, knowing his state of mind, your reaction is to buy him a gun, they really contributed to the killings by their actions.

Watching the entire trial it was clear, that while they did occasionally do things as a family, their priority was definitely their horses and the amount time, money, veterinarian bills, boarding, and all the other expenses were lesser priorities. When they read the text messages from their son to his parents in count; "PLEASE come home, where ARE you, please answer, I'm scared, the voice won't stop in my head". And, "please come home, there are strange people doing things in the house". Pretty much sealed their fate by NOT answering, yet, if their veterinarian called, or the owner of the stable where they boarded their horses... picked up immediately !

Kelevision 04-10-2024 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by ThirdOfFive (Post 2320423)
Lost in all the hyperbole here is one very significant fact. The Crumbleys were NOT convicted of any gun crime. They were convicted of involuntary manslaughter under Michigan Penal Code 950.321 (criminally negligent homicide) which is defined under that statute as "Unintentionally killing another person that results from recklessness or criminal negligence, or from an unlawful act that is a misdemeanor or low-level felony (such as DUI)". The penalty is a maximum of up to 15 years in prison, a fine of $7,500.00, or both. The Crumbleys got socked with the maximum. The kid got put away for life.

But...what if the method of death was NOT a firearm? What if the Crumbley kid, who for the sake of argument we assume did not have a driver's license and was thus not legally able to drive, had snatched the car keys without the parents' knowledge and taken four friends joyriding, resulting in an accident that killed the four of them but left him relatively unscathed? Still parental neglect. Still four dead kids. Still just as chargeable under the statute as the Crumbleys were.

Even in the off chance that they WERE charged had their son killed with a car rather than a gun, would it have made national news to the extent that the actual case did?

If the answer as anything but yes, then the conclusion is unavoidable. The merits of the case notwithstanding, the reason for all the media hype and public hysteria was not the act used, but the tool. And hysteria makes for poor law.



Circumstances in this case are different and they decided based on that. They gave an underage kid a gun and let him do with it what he wanted and took zero responsibility as a parent.

on Nov, 27 his mother, Jehn posted a photo on Instagram, the day she got him the gun, It showed a paper target riddled with holes. “Mom & son day testing out his new Xmas present…

Three days later, on Tuesday, November 30, Ethan, went into the boys’ bathroom between class, took the SIG Sauer out of his backpack and walked down the long, curved hallway, shooting at his schoolmates.

But the one thing that really disturbs me is this. The parent had just given him the gun 3 days ago……….On the morning of the shooting, Oxford High School staff called Jennifer and James Crumbley to come to the school and discuss their son's drawings of a gun and bullet-riddled body on a math worksheet. The parents and son attended a meeting with a school counselor that lasted less than 15 minutes, and after they left one of the first things Jennifer Crumbley did was send a message asking after the health of her horse…. Not where’s the gun we just gave him….. not a mention about that to anyone….this is the time they should’ve said, we just got him a gun, check his backpack and locker……. Or, we’re taking him home with us now.

Ethan Crumbley sent his mother a text message stating "I love you" about two hours after the meeting concluded. Per the text record, Jennifer Crumbley didn't respond until later that afternoon, after she received news that there was an emergency at the high school.

“I love you too,” she said. “You OK? Ethan don’t do it.”

Then there’s this…..

“I actually asked my dad to take me to the doctor yesterday, but he just gave me some pills and told me to ‘suck it up,'” the then-15-year-old sent to his friend. He also said his mother "laughed at" him when he asked to see a doctor.

Wagrowski later testified that Jennifer Crumbley searched for "clinical depression treatment options" the day before the shooting took place, but that on the same day she laughed off news that Ethan Crumbley had gotten in trouble for looking up images of bullets at school.

“Lol I’m not mad, you have to learn not to get caught,” Jennifer Crumbley told her son.

In this particular situation, if the parents didn’t give him the gun, those kids would be alive.

Jhrath7@gmail.com 04-10-2024 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by retiredguy123 (Post 2320121)
Today, James and Jennifer Crumbley were sentenced 10 to 15 years in prison for involuntary manslaughter for negligence in connection with the 4 murders committed by their son, Ethan, who was 15, in Michigan. I understand that they were probably negligent and could have done more to prevent their son from committing the crimes. But, they didn't commit the murders. I would also point out that Ethan was charged and sentenced as an adult, not a juvenile.

What about the hundreds of juveniles who walk around with illegal handguns and commit murders in cities like Chicago, New York, Baltimore and other cities every day. Some of these murderers are as young as 13 years old, they are out on the streets after midnight, and their parents have no idea where they are or what they are doing. In most of these cases, law enforcement doesn't even think about arresting or charging the parents with any crime at all. To me, this sounds like a very inconsistent and unfair legal system regarding arrest and prosecution. What do you think?

Parents need to held accountable to a point. They were terrible parents and it cost 4 families unimaginable heartache

PugMom 04-10-2024 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by DonnaNi4os (Post 2320454)
Clearly these parents ignored warning signs and warnings from the school. Why the school didn’t take further steps is worrisome. It is sad all around but especially for three lives lost forever and for their loved ones…not to mention the trauma it left with those who witnessed the shootings.

i agree, they should've had him removed from school, & checked out @ local hosp

JMintzer 04-10-2024 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by ThirdOfFive (Post 2320423)
Lost in all the hyperbole here is one very significant fact. The Crumbleys were NOT convicted of any gun crime. They were convicted of involuntary manslaughter under Michigan Penal Code 950.321 (criminally negligent homicide) which is defined under that statute as "Unintentionally killing another person that results from recklessness or criminal negligence, or from an unlawful act that is a misdemeanor or low-level felony (such as DUI)". The penalty is a maximum of up to 15 years in prison, a fine of $7,500.00, or both. The Crumbleys got socked with the maximum. The kid got put away for life.

But...what if the method of death was NOT a firearm? What if the Crumbley kid, who for the sake of argument we assume did not have a driver's license and was thus not legally able to drive, had snatched the car keys without the parents' knowledge and taken four friends joyriding, resulting in an accident that killed the four of them but left him relatively unscathed? Still parental neglect. Still four dead kids. Still just as chargeable under the statute as the Crumbleys were.

Even in the off chance that they WERE charged had their son killed with a car rather than a gun, would it have made national news to the extent that the actual case did?

If the answer as anything but yes, then the conclusion is unavoidable. The merits of the case notwithstanding, the reason for all the media hype and public hysteria was not the act used, but the tool. And hysteria makes for poor law.

:BigApplause::BigApplause::BigApplause:

JMintzer 04-10-2024 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Windguy (Post 2320449)
There is a HUGE difference between guns, which are specifically designed to kill people and a car whose primary purpose is transportation. Guns should be locked up. Car keys should not.

"Kill People"?

Interesting... Millions of deer hunters and sport shooters may think otherwise...

Oh, and to use the (ridiculous) argument used earlier... Try telling that the the parents of the dead children killed in a car accident...

Larry P. 04-10-2024 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Normal (Post 2320342)
Michigan is full of wilderness that includes great hunting, dangerous predators and wide open spaces. It also is home to Detroit and a somewhat adequate police presence. A state law would do little because of the disparity of Wolverine land where everyone wears orange in November and the recital appointments in urban Battle Creek. The real problem was the judgement by the parents. Were they living in another section of Michigan, they would have been acquitted. You can’t live in Detroit and act like you are from upstate.

But they are not from Detroit, they are from Oxford, a rural community 42 miles north of Detroit. Guns are very prevalent in Oxford as it is a hunting community yet the parents were still convicted. Leave Detroit out of your arguments, it is not relevant at all to this case.

Topspinmo 04-10-2024 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Normal (Post 2320294)
One 13 year old can be totally responsible with a firearm, another not. It’s poor judgment in the case you have brought up. Maybe the parents were mountain people wanna bees transplanted to the urban world? The Montana wilderness is much different than Detroit. Some do live in the Old Disney 60s mentality you know.


Agree Detroit much worse.

Dgodin 04-11-2024 04:44 AM

Most of your argument is Whataboutism. Well, maybe the parents of thosenother juveniles should be charged.

What is relevant to the crumbly case is that the parents were found negligent. They were neither responsible parents or responsible gun owners.The evidence presented by the prosecution must have been compelling to the jury.

nancymiller217@yahoo.com 04-11-2024 06:28 AM

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Originally Posted by PugMom (Post 2320474)
i agree, they should've had him removed from school, & checked out @ local hosp

Agree they should have, but then what? The most they can do is a 72 hour hold. Few places you can get a in-patient treatment, and they are super expensive. And Teenagers are renowned for being overdramatic.

These parents handled it very wrong. But there is no manual that tells you when your kid is normal, just a little screwed up, or majorly screwed up.

Normal 04-11-2024 06:46 AM

Prosecution Conflicts
 
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Originally Posted by Dgodin (Post 2320543)
Most of your argument is Whataboutism. Well, maybe the parents of thosenother juveniles should be charged.

What is relevant to the crumbly case is that the parents were found negligent. They were neither responsible parents or responsible gun owners.The evidence presented by the prosecution must have been compelling to the jury.


I have an issue with the prosecutor. How can a perpetrator be tried, convicted and sentenced as an adult, but then not be an adult when the parents are brought in for their trial? Which is it? You can’t have your cake and eat it too. I wouldn’t go so far as to give these parents the parent of the year award, and I do see a conflict in the legal system’s conflation use for convenience.

fdpaq0580 04-11-2024 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Normal (Post 2320583)
I have an issue with the prosecutor. How can a perpetrator be tried, convicted and sentenced as an adult, but then not be an adult when the parents are brought in for their trial? Which is it? You can’t have your cake and eat it too. I wouldn’t go so far as to give these parents the parent of the year award, and I do see a conflict in the legal system’s conflation use for convenience.

Yes you can. Buy cake. Eat it. I do it often.
Kids are tried as adults often when committing heinous crimes. An adult (parent) may be charged with crimes for aiding the criminal in some manner. That is what happened. Not that hard to understand, imho.

4litehous 04-11-2024 08:29 AM

Good to hear!
 
When parents are held accountable for their children's actions- there will be a lot fewer issues!!!

fdpaq0580 04-11-2024 08:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Pugchief (Post 2320397)
If only. Unfortunately, each case is charged according to the agenda.

Agenda? You wouldn't be suggesting a conspiracy, would you?

fdpaq0580 04-11-2024 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by 4litehous (Post 2320635)
When parents are held accountable for their children's actions- there will be a lot fewer issues!!!

Would be parents, take notice! You are responsible for the person you create.

Normal 04-11-2024 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by fdpaq0580 (Post 2320634)
Yes you can. Buy cake. Eat it. I do it often.
Kids are tried as adults often when committing heinous crimes. An adult (parent) may be charged with crimes for aiding the criminal in some manner. That is what happened. Not that hard to understand, imho.

It’s called”grinding the axe” then grinding it again. It’s subjective.

mcpeters 04-11-2024 11:57 AM

These POS parents are 100% liable along w the school. Especially w the evidence (drawings w suspicious writing) that was presented to the parents at the school mtg. Ethan’s backpack, locker, etc should have been checked. At the very least, he should have been sent home and had a mandatory psych check. This conviction is setting precedent for other parents who don’t want to take responsibility for their kids. Schools too need to take action. Hell, nowadays they will send your kid home for swearing. Don’t you think Ethan should have been sent home w an investigation?!
I’m totally OK w these negligent POS parents, who were in hiding and going to flee, getting 10-15yrs!

Born and raised in Michigan! 💙💛

OrangeBlossomBaby 04-11-2024 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Harold.wiser (Post 2320312)
They are responsible for ignoring their son's pleas for help, not getting him proper psychiatric care, purchasing him a hand gun, and not properly securing the gun.
They definitely deserve to be held accountable, the extent of which will be debated for quite some time.

They didn't ignore his pleas for help. They intentionally and willfully dismissed them. They KNEW he had major emotional issues. They KNEW he was suffering from depression. They KNEW he needed mental health care. They KNEW he wanted to cause harm to people. So instead of just - ignoring it - or getting him help, they fed his sickness by buying him a 9mm semi-automatic gun.

They gave him permission to kill people, which they knew he had been at least thinking of doing. She told him not to get caught in the school - so she knew he was planning on it. She told him "don't do it" which means she knew he was going to use that gun.

She didn't call 911, or the police, or a therapist, or even the school principal. She didn't ignore it. It's almost as though his parents were proud that their boy was growing up to be just like his parents (who both had criminal histories).

They -literally- put that gun in his hand. So yes - they are responsible in part for the murders.

Sandy and Ed 04-11-2024 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by phylt (Post 2320136)
We watched some of the sentencing. A 'slippery slope' as some legal analysts said.

BUT - yikes in this case, in THIS case it surely was correct for the parents to serve time.They both ignored serious mental issues with their son right up to the day of the shooting. Even bought HIM the gun that he used, several days before. Texts between the son and parents, right up to the shooting were so damning. And both of the parent's statements at the end were all about THEM, and little about the victims. If there is ANY case ripe for sentencing liable parents - THIS IS IT!!!

I always think of the VICTIMS - not the aggressors and convictees.

Agree. In this case. Can’t create too hard and fast of a rule. As far as the sentence, it was harsh but they won’t be serving that much time.

Sandy and Ed 04-11-2024 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by GWilliams (Post 2320356)
As long as they do the same to judges and politicians who allow repeat offenders and career criminals on the street.

That is an exceptionally good point you raise. Are not they contributing to future crimes by allowing repeat offending criminals to walk again and again??

Normal 04-11-2024 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Sandy and Ed (Post 2320762)
That is an exceptionally good point you raise. Are not they contributing to future crimes by allowing repeat offending criminals to walk again and again??

The school is certainly culpable. They had a large meeting about the boy and guns, wanted to send him home and never thought to search his backpack? There certainly have been a lot more student searches on a lot less grounds. If they thought it was so bad, why didn’t they pull him for in school suspension? He could have been doing work in the office.

Bwanajim 04-11-2024 04:49 PM

To me the bigger question is why is this happening? We never had mass shootings in schools back in the 50s and 60s, in fact we had rifle teams in Texas and even New York. When I went to high school in the 70s me and my buddies took our shotguns to school to go shooting after. We didn’t shoot anybody. In most cases it’s a breakdown of the family unit and no father in the home.

DDToto41 04-11-2024 10:59 PM

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Originally Posted by LuvNH (Post 2320159)
Does this open the door for the parents of the children that were killed in various terrible school massacres to follow suit and sue.

This was not brought by the parents of the slain students but by the District Attorney. If you would of followed the reports from the beginning you would of known that the parents were found hiding in a old building and planning to leave the country. If more parents were held accountable there would be a lot less juvenile delinquency.


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