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Papa5 01-28-2024 09:53 AM

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Law is an example of something that is un-enforceable and not necessary due to the fact that responsible parents can monitor and control access on a devise.


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Originally Posted by Normal (Post 2295466)
The Florida House has passed a law through bipartisan support prohibiting kids under the age of 16 from using social media. We are the first state which has taken an action long overdue. What sites should be banned though and how can it be enforced?

Florida House passes bill banning children under 16 from social media: 'Kids can't stay off the platforms'

It’s about time!


Taltarzac725 01-28-2024 10:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Papa5 (Post 2295839)
Law is an example of something that is un-enforceable and not necessary due to the fact that responsible parents can monitor and control access on a devise.


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It is books in the school library. Of course, kids could get an older friend to buy the book online or wherever. Or get it from a public library.

I volunteered at a Palm Harbor, FL library from 2000 through 2003 or so and recall one young lady who was checking out all kinds of romance novels. The very racy kind.

OrangeBlossomBaby 01-28-2024 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Byte1 (Post 2295833)
Social media with children IS a problem. There is a lot of cyber bullying, juvenile and adult. What's the answer? Perhaps teaching children the difference between right and wrong is a good start. Kind of hard for some adults, especially those that shouldn't have children because they are unfit when it comes to parenting. Kind of hard when judges severely punish small violations of the law and a slap on the wrist for murder and manslaughter. Values are different for individual folks, but individuals should respect other folks views, regardless of belief. You can disagree without being aggressive and even sometimes violent.

Yes there are some people who shouldn't have children. Some of them might not even want them. If only there was some medical procedure that could prevent the birth of unwanted children to girls and women who were victims of crimes against their bodies, that didn't require that the conception be identified before most women even know they're pregnant.

GATORBILL66 01-28-2024 10:15 AM

Kids under 16 shouldn't even have phones!

OrangeBlossomBaby 01-28-2024 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by shaw8700@outlook.com (Post 2295673)
This law should not and will not be passed.

Now I’m not saying that young kids should use social media, in fact with all the bullying going on I wouldn’t let my kids. But this is another step to taking our freedoms away.

The Senate is planning on passing it. And the Governor will sign off on it.

Bill14564 01-28-2024 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by OrangeBlossomBaby (Post 2295849)
The Senate is planning on passing it. And the Governor will sign off on it.

Not according to the Governor, at least not in its current form.

OrangeBlossomBaby 01-28-2024 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Aces4 (Post 2295674)
Lol, I was never assigned that for homework and I don’t remember any kids checking out the Bible.

Would someone explain to me why it’s wrong to wait until a child reaches adulthood and reads these books. Is reading the books at a young age better for indoctrination?

I am a voracious reader but most of the reading has been through adulthood. Again, why the push to target children?

Some of us got past the Dick and Jane books and were on to bigger and better things. School libraries, that I knew of, never had ONLY required reading in them. We were allowed to select any book we wanted, there was no section we weren't "allowed" to check. If I, in 3rd grade, wanted to read Catcher in the Rye, I could check the book out. if I, in 7th grade, wanted to return to Dick and Jane, I could. If I was reading Catcher in the Rye in 3rd grade and didn't understand a concept I'd ask my parents. And they would explain.

Of course, that would require that the parents be directly involved in the upbringing of their own children.

OrangeBlossomBaby 01-28-2024 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by asianthree (Post 2295737)
Sorry this comes under “Government trying to parent a child that they don’t know, or pay for. Then pass a law that basically say you are unfit to parent and this is the first right we are going to remove.

Wait for the second law that states when, and how many girls you are allowed. Didn’t a country already do that……..

That ship has sailed. A variety of classic literature has been banned in various public schools for decades. In Florida, if a girl REALLY has to go to the bathroom, but the girl's room is full and the boy's room is empty, she just has to pee in her pants. Or else risk breaking the law by going into the boy's room. In Florida public schools, if the kids are talking about what they want to be when they grow up, Johnny isn't ALLOWED to say "I want to be like my two mommies, they're both doctors!" If 13-year-old Susie, who only just started menstruating a year before and her periods aren't regular yet, becomes victim of a crime by her uncle and becomes pregnant, she has to give birth all because she didn't know she was pregnant until she was in her third month, and by the time she was able to schedule an abortion, she would've been in her 16th week, and that is illegal in Florida. Parents of minor children living in poverty could've received an extra $120/month in the summer to accommodate the lunches their kids can't get in school, while school is out for the summer. But Florida chose to reject that. That amounts to less than $1.50 per day per kid for 5 days per week, to help offset the cost of lunches for those kids.

Children in Florida have no rights. Florida forces women to give birth in the name of "right to life" but once that life is outside the womb, Florida doesn't want to know about it.

MidWestIA 01-28-2024 10:45 AM

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how will they enforce that??

asianthree 01-28-2024 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Cliff Fr (Post 2295798)
It's a nice idea but that cats already out of the bag. A lot of parents gjve the cell phone to kids as a baby sitter. There are "games" available to children on the cell phone, some if which have unsuitable images and languages.

Well one can agree or disagree that a child engaged on a learning site as a child curbs public displays of unhappiness. (Think how many hate children in restaurants in TV)

Tablets and phones Very helpful when a child is autistic, just for the parents well being.

Our son, Behavioral Psychologist for autistic children, programs phones and tablets that are providing much needed help for child and parents.

A phone and a four year old autistic child can be a godsend no matter how you look at it.

Bill14564 01-28-2024 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by MidWestIA (Post 2295863)
how will they enforce that??

The bill doesn't prohibit children from accessing social media, the bill prohibits social media from establishing accounts for children. The onus is on the social media site to verify the age of the account holder and disallow accounts from those under a certain age.

I believe the bill says the personal identification information that is used for verification cannot be retained by the social media site. To me, this means there will be no proof that verification was performed.

Social media sites cannot ask for verification from just those under 18; how would they know? They must ask for verification from everyone. This means you and I will need to provide personal information to X, FB, ToTV, and others in order to keep our accounts.

One possible approach (taken by some porn sites in other states) is to block access for the entire state. Those with VPNs may be able to get around this though even then their experience will be be lessened since the site won't know where you actually are.

Enforcement: The Department of Legal Affairs is authorized to adopt rules to bring action for violations of the new statutes. It seems to be unclear how it will be enforced.

bp243 01-28-2024 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Normal (Post 2295466)
The Florida House has passed a law through bipartisan support prohibiting kids under the age of 16 from using social media. We are the first state which has taken an action long overdue. What sites should be banned though and how can it be enforced?

Florida House passes bill banning children under 16 from social media: 'Kids can't stay off the platforms'

It’s about time!

So, are we asking parents to monitor their child's social media or they will be fined or punished in some other way? Hmmm...would love to hear how that law will be enforced.

Bill14564 01-28-2024 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by bp243 (Post 2295881)
So, are we asking parents to monitor their child's social media or they will be fined or punished in some other way? Hmmm...would love to hear how that law will be enforced.

That is not at all what the bill says.

On the other hand, holding parents accountable for what they allow or enable their children to do to others is not such a bad idea.

Normal 01-28-2024 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by bp243 (Post 2295881)
So, are we asking parents to monitor their child's social media or they will be fined or punished in some other way.

Oh the outrage! Parents shouldn’t care about their children or their habits /s

Aces4 01-28-2024 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by OrangeBlossomBaby (Post 2295855)
Some of us got past the Dick and Jane books and were on to bigger and better things. School libraries, that I knew of, never had ONLY required reading in them. We were allowed to select any book we wanted, there was no section we weren't "allowed" to check. If I, in 3rd grade, wanted to read Catcher in the Rye, I could check the book out. if I, in 7th grade, wanted to return to Dick and Jane, I could. If I was reading Catcher in the Rye in 3rd grade and didn't understand a concept I'd ask my parents. And they would explain.

Of course, that would require that the parents be directly involved in the upbringing of their own children.

We selected any book we wanted also, age appropriate. So how would Catcher in the Rye appeal to a third grader?

There are so many wonderful, educational, mind and character building books available for children under the age of eighteen. Why not allow access for the more mature subject matter after turning 18?

Aces4 01-28-2024 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by OrangeBlossomBaby (Post 2295861)
That ship has sailed. A variety of classic literature has been banned in various public schools for decades. In Florida, if a girl REALLY has to go to the bathroom, but the girl's room is full and the boy's room is empty, she just has to pee in her pants. Or else risk breaking the law by going into the boy's room. In Florida public schools, if the kids are talking about what they want to be when they grow up, Johnny isn't ALLOWED to say "I want to be like my two mommies, they're both doctors!" If 13-year-old Susie, who only just started menstruating a year before and her periods aren't regular yet, becomes victim of a crime by her uncle and becomes pregnant, she has to give birth all because she didn't know she was pregnant until she was in her third month, and by the time she was able to schedule an abortion, she would've been in her 16th week, and that is illegal in Florida. Parents of minor children living in poverty could've received an extra $120/month in the summer to accommodate the lunches their kids can't get in school, while school is out for the summer. But Florida chose to reject that. That amounts to less than $1.50 per day per kid for 5 days per week, to help offset the cost of lunches for those kids.

Children in Florida have no rights. Florida forces women to give birth in the name of "right to life" but once that life is outside the womb, Florida doesn't want to know about it.

I think your post is extremely political.

Aces4 01-28-2024 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Boffin (Post 2295679)
Survival of the fittest.

Or the cruelest…

Aces4 01-28-2024 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Blackbird45 (Post 2295704)
These law makers can't be serious, they can't stop kids younger than 16 from drugs, porn, drinking and sex. The cat is already out of the bag do they really think the can stop someone from going on to social media who's already made it part of their daily life.

And thus, witnessing the collapse of society and humanity. Stay tuned…

Aces4 01-28-2024 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by FredMitchell (Post 2295724)
It seems like nobody here is familiar with the First Amendment to the US Constitution, which the Supreme Court has found applies to all states as well!

Is that the freedom to bully, attack, sexually exploit and harm other children. Some freedom!

Aces4 01-28-2024 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by sharonl7340 (Post 2295726)
I find it interesting that FL always touts that it is a parental rights state, meaning that parents should be making their own decisions about what their children can or can't do rayher than the state. But then it turns around and makes these sweeping laws about things that fall within the parent's sphere of decision making (thinking Healthcare for transgender children or social media). Sounds like FL is having an identity crisis of its own.

How can you even enforce such a law? What are the punishments if it is enforced? Is it really about "protecting" children or getting more money in the coffers from the fines that would be levied?

It’s about the collapse of society and ruination of our future, our children. Swirling the drain…

Bill14564 01-28-2024 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Aces4 (Post 2295886)
We selected any book we wanted also, age appropriate. So how would Catcher in the Rye appeal to a third grader?

There are so many wonderful, educational, mind and character building books available for children under the age of eighteen. Why not allow access for the more mature subject matter after turning 18?

Allow access? As if access should be denied until the Govt chooses to allow it? That seems to be the opposite of how our Constitution is written: Govt stays out of the way until it can present a very good reason to interfere.

No books should be banned without a very good reason. Essentially, the written word should be considered speech and afforded first amendment protections. Parents can choose what comes into their homes, private businesses can choose what is discussed within their walls, social media companies can choose what topics are allowed, but Govt (schools, public libraries) should not be allowed to censor speech simply because they don't like the message.

What is wrong about choosing appropriate mind and character building books for children to read while preventing access to more mature material? I don't trust those who desire to force those choices on parents. Too often those who demand to control access to information use words like "indoctrination" and "target" in their justifications. I fear that their choice of "appropriate" books will train the next generation to be just as intolerant as they are. Not all books would be banned, only those with the "wrong" viewpoint. I would prefer that future generations learn about all viewpoints.

Aces4 01-28-2024 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by asianthree (Post 2295737)
Sorry this comes under “Government trying to parent a child that they don’t know, or pay for. Then pass a law that basically say you are unfit to parent and this is the first right we are going to remove.

Wait for the second law that states when, and how many girls you are allowed. Didn’t a country already do that……..

Or the government trying to save our children because parents can’t figure out how to do that.

Aces4 01-28-2024 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Bill14564 (Post 2295897)
Allow access? As if access should be denied until the Govt chooses to allow it? That seems to be the opposite of how our Constitution is written: Govt stays out of the way until it can present a very good reason to interfere.

No books should be banned without a very good reason. Essentially, the written word should be considered speech and afforded first amendment protections. Parents can choose what comes into their homes, private businesses can choose what is discussed within their walls, social media companies can choose what topics are allowed, but Govt (schools, public libraries) should not be allowed to censor speech simply because they don't like the message.

What is wrong about choosing appropriate mind and character building books for children to read while preventing access to more mature material? I don't trust those who desire to force those choices on parents. Too often those who demand to control access to information use words like "indoctrination" and "target" in their justifications. I fear that their choice of "appropriate" books will train the next generation to be just as intolerant as they are. Not all books would be banned, only those with the "wrong" viewpoint. I would prefer that future generations learn about all viewpoints.

So many holes in this… if all parents were paying attention or had an interest in what their minor children are being exposed to at school, these reading levels would be established for children and adults.

I’m thinking I am far more tolerant than you espouse to be since many of the social issues being addressed are within our extended family.

Did you and others ever question yourselves as to how you are able to function at this point without being subjected to all books available on the planet since first grade? Don’t you wonder how skewed your perspective is since you couldn’t read all books from age 6 to 18? (Do these books mean different things if read after the age of eighteen?)

Aces4 01-28-2024 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Bob.Betty (Post 2295783)
Who are you (the government) to decide what my child can or can't do on social media?

Right! Also, how do we expect sexual predators to operate without access to children?


It would be interesting to see how many parents who work in IT Administration and Security allow their young children access to social media.

Bill14564 01-28-2024 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Aces4 (Post 2295901)
So many holes in this… if all parents were paying attention or had an interest in what their minor children are being exposed to at school, these reading levels would be established for children and adults.

It seems a lot of parents disagree with that characterization and with the book banning that is happening in schools. They *want* the choice but the choice is being taken from them.

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I’m thinking I am far more tolerant than you espouse to be since many of the social issues being addressed are within our extended family.
Is that the "I can't be _____ I have a _____ friend" argument?

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Did you and others ever question yourselves as to how you are able to function at this point without being subjected to all books available on the planet since first grade? Don’t you wonder how skewed your perspective is since you couldn’t read all books from age 6 to 18? (Do these books mean different things if read after the age of eighteen?)
"Diary of Anne Frank" and "Huckleberry Finn" before I was a teenager. Wish "The Bluest Eye" had been available back then. I actually see how my perspective was skewed by NOT reading more of the viewpoints that are being censored today. I would have been a kinder, more understanding, and less prejudiced young adult if I had been exposed to a more diverse experience in school.

Aces4 01-28-2024 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Bill14564 (Post 2295908)



"Diary of Anne Frank" and "Huckleberry Finn" before I was a teenager. Wish "The Bluest Eye" had been available back then. I actually see how my perspective was skewed by NOT reading more of the viewpoints that are being censored today. I would have been a kinder, more understanding, and less prejudiced young adult if I had been exposed to a more diverse experience in school.



Few children live such sheltered lives and I doubt your parents would have let you read those books from the sound of it. We were raised to have empathy.

I remember clearly the our child’s friend complained our child talked to everyone, even the retarded child on the bus. I smiled and explained we taught our children we are all equal, no one is superior. The friend looked at me for a moment and then shook his head affirmatively. Teaching moment coming from a parent and that’s what is missing. All the books in the world can’t guarantee perspective just by reading them.

Aces4 01-28-2024 01:24 PM

Originally Posted by Bill14564 View Post
It seems a lot of parents disagree with that characterization and with the book banning that is happening in schools. They *want* the choice but the choice is being taken from them.


Is that the "I can't be _____ I have a _____ friend" argument?



Low, low argument. I’m not going to list family member instances for your inspection. Is everyone who lives in The Villages too special to have family dynamics that don’t match perfection?

Normal 01-28-2024 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by FredMitchell (Post 2295724)
It seems like nobody here is familiar with the First Amendment to the US Constitution, which the Supreme Court has found applies to all states as well!

I’m also familiar with the fact that not everyone has the right to “enhanced “ expression or reception of free speech. One cannot or does not have the right to say whatever you want in a crowded movie theater or on a plane.

Of course children have the right to an education, in fact, they don’t have the right to skip school but are obligated through compulsory law. This is of course because they don’t always know everything and haven’t the discernment skills needed to survive.

Many support the Chinese owned Tik Tok hoping they continue to program our youth? Or Facebook continuing with Instagram. This comes from congress’ interviews “Haugen has leaked one Facebook study that found that 13.5% of U.K. teen girls in one survey say their suicidal thoughts became more frequent after starting on Instagram.

Another leaked study found 17% of teen girls say their eating disorders got worse after using Instagram.

About 32% of teen girls said that when they felt bad about their bodies, Instagram made them feel worse, Facebook's researchers found, which was first reported by the Journal.

Sen. Marsha Blackburn, R-Tenn., accused Facebook of intentionally targeting children under age 13 with an "addictive" product — despite the app requiring users be 13 years or older.”-NPR

Why? Perhaps poorly educated?

kkingston57 01-28-2024 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Topspinmo (Post 2295794)
Disney not it’s own state like they thought they was.

No problems for 30+ years until someone's feathers were ruffled. What happened to the old term: about fixing something which is not broken.

kkingston57 01-28-2024 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by OrangeBlossomBaby (Post 2295849)
The Senate is planning on passing it. And the Governor will sign off on it.

And who is going to enforce it? Police have a lot of better things to do like nabbing speeders in golf carts.

kkingston57 01-28-2024 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Aces4 (Post 2295889)
I think your post is extremely political.

Yes, writer is political, but it started with original post


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