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You can place some of the assets in a trust and that would count as "liquidating them." An eldercare lawyer told me I could take the amount of money my mom got that was over the Medicaid limit could be placed in a trust and then she would qualify. the amount was $200 every month, but we would have had to readjust the amount every year to account for the COLAs she received. Then the nursing home would have taken every penny for expenses. A little-known fact is that Medicaid can continue to go after the family for the expenses not covered by the agency and the amount of money they took each month.
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So in effect you must be indigent. |
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I have to say that you have had no experience with this. Medicaid makes you liquidate all of the assets, including the home and land that have been in your family for 5 generations, and anything else of value, including your great-grandmother's ring. I didn't mind paying our fair share, but why does it not preserve some assets? It takes everything you have (including that cushy 2nd home you have) to get the bare minimum of care. Otherwise, you are forced to care for your loved one at home with around-the-clock care when your loved one cannot speak, chew, move, or have any kind of quality of life.
I get angry when I read these kinds of posts. You have never been there, you don't know the anguish, the agony, the exhaustion. And to say there should be wards with beds with shared bathroom facilities is ludicrous. When my mom was mobile, there was plenty of time there was feces and urine everywhere because she had no control. We cleaned the bathroom 5-6 times per day many weeks. You people don't know what you are talking about. You are assuming that the loved ones in these situations can walk, talk, feed themselves, and entertain themselves. IT. IS. NOT. TRUE! They reach points where they can not even chew and swallow but still don't qualify for full-time skilled nursing care because you provided TOO well for your spouse to be taken care of. I will get off my rant now, but go visit the nursing homes and follow the CNA around for a day and see if your mind changes. |
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If you can get it, great, but if you are living here, you will not meet the income guidelines. |
Let me bring up a solution no one (so far) as mentioned that I’m planning on doing. I’m very familiar with facilities in The Villages. My 93 year old father was progressing in Alzheimer’s 3 years ago when I needed to find a memory care facility. Most high end assisted living facilities offer a memory care unit with controlled environments, special trained staff, and special activities all geared just for Alzheimer’s patients. I had a specialist helping me find a nice facility and there are many here. Btw, there are no facilities in The Villages that accept Medicad. You would have to go outside the bubble to find one. Cost was $6700/mo. Gorgeous facility that had daily live concerts, beautiful dining room, spa, pool, gourmet meals, private rooms ( you provide the furniture), wine bar, hundreds of activities. A wonderful place. Most times when a person has to go into a facility they last less than 2 years. Up until that point you can pay for home assistance a few times a week until that’s not enough. How do you pay for $7000+ month and live your last couple years in luxury? You sell all your assets and use the equity gained from your house to pay for it. Most living in The Villages own a home which will have hundreds of thousands in equity once sold. Use that nest egg. (instead of savings or investments).
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Who do you think pays for Medicaid? YOUR KIDS and their kids and so on. That little piggy will break the bank eventually. |
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My statement about wards for patients was meant for achieving care for every senior in this country if we all go on the public dole. And there will never be adequate care because enough caretakers cannot be hired to handle each personal situation. There isn't enough money to make most people do that difficult work. |
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Not empty your bank account? This past year, a friend paid $30 per hour for around the clock care, plus time-and-a-half overtime, which coincidentally happened every week. That’s over $5000 PER WEEK. I’d say that would empty a bank account! Our biggest asset is our home so no giving heirs their share. We will most likely utilize the state financed route. According to our attorney, you choose the facility.
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Wonderful solution.
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BTW, if there are divorces in your family after you have "gifted" your assets, the departing spouse will be very grateful to you. |
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Since when does following the law set up by state and federal legislators cause you to be labeled a grifter? Could they not amend the rules if they chose to? I have no issue with those who decide to spend down all of their assets to pay for care as they age but I am not in that group if there are laws that offer an alternative. |
For whatever reason some people don’t pay for insurance. They don’t have home insurance and when the house burns down or a hurricane destroys it they hold their hand out. They don’t have auto insurance and when they get in an accident they hold their hand out. They don’t have long-term care insurance and when they need it they hold their hand out. I realize insurance is expensive and not everyone wants to make those payments but if you don’t pay for the insurance you need then accept the consequences for the path you chose instead of trying to scheme a way around it.
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Eventually it may be Social Security that might be at risk. Let's hope AI comes to the rescue. |
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I saw a couple sell a large acreage, buildings and a home and then proceeded to hand all their money out to their kids who didn't need it. They proceeded to live in one of their daughter's basement, not a walkout, and hated it for the next 5 years. Then they went into low income housing, because they qualified... wink-wink, and he died within a short time from cancer. She lived into her nineties in that less than lovely situation. Neither one of them needed nursing home care that wasn't covered. But they sure shot a hole in what should have been some of the nicest years of their life. To each their own.:clap2: |
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When I was a caregiver to my father we met with an elder care attorney. She gave us the laws that were in place at that time. She told me to call her every few months to find out if any laws had changed and if we needed to do anything because of the new laws. Another option that doesn't work for everyone, if you want to stay in your home is to pay someone that you know and trust to take care of you at an hourly rate that is usually minimum wage or a little above minimum wage. If there is a family member you trust, and they are able and willing to take care of you this might be an option. If you go this route the caregiver must keep excellent and detailed records involving the work they do. Most caregivers don't want the added hassle. This isn't for everyone. I had a friend a long time ago that did this for their spouse and it worked for them. The caregiver gets paid for taking care of their loved one at home, cooking, cleaning, dressing, bathing, medication management, travel to doctors, grocery shopping, etc. Since taxes aren't taken out of their income they would have to talk with a CPA ahead of time. An elder care attorney can give you more insight into this option. |
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If you really need the services of a fulltime time nursing facility, substituting in-home care will usually cost more money. That is because you need to pay for fulltime staff, and still maintain your house. The house requires taxes, utilities, insurance, maintenance, transportation to medical appointments, etc. If you can sell the house and move into a nursing facility, you will usually save money. Of course, If you have a spouse who still lives in the house, it can make a difference.
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Stop reading this drivel. Find an elder care attorney and make a plan. No one on this site is qualified to give any useful information.Find an ElderCare Attorney and make a plan.
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