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08-09-2015 01:14 PM |
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Originally Posted by bobbym
(Post 1097813)
I don’t know if that is a good idea or not. My wife is also gone for two weeks and I’m doing some deep cleaning in this house. I told her about it on the phone and it went over like a fart in a space suet. I’m not sure why but maybe she feels that it is her job or if the house needed that kind of cleaning she would have done it before she left. Normally we both do the inside cleaning and I do all the outside cleaning. Good luck!
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You made a classic mistake. Let me explain. By doing the cleaning she normally takes care of, you communicated to her in wife English that you were unsatisfied with the quality of her work. Now, there is a remedy for this. But it will take some effort from you. First; quit cleaning! Second; go back to your fraternity days and start living again. Invite your golf buddies over to watch a game, play poker, or whatever. Order some pizza, pick up some beer, and have a good old time. Now here's the clincher; when the guys leave and the night is over....GO TO BED. Don't pick up or clean up no matter how much you want to. When she gets home, look at her sheepishly, and just say "Honey, I sure missed you; I'm hungry. All will be well, again. And don't beat yourself up. Most of us have made this mistake before.
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