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Chatbrat 02-28-2016 06:27 AM

Silver Alert
 
On our online newspaper there is mention of a 75 year old villager who has gone missing.

It also states that he has dementia. How come he is still allowed to drive?

Anyone want to bet who is more impaired a person who has dementia or person with .08 blood alcohol level.

We took care of my wife's mom for 7 months, she almost killed my wife driving the block.

graciegirl 02-28-2016 06:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1191815)
On our online newspaper there is mention of a 75 year old villager who has gone missing.

It also states that he has dementia. How come he is still allowed to drive?

Anyone want to bet who is more impaired a person who has dementia or person with .08 blood alcohol level.

We took care of my wife's mom for 7 months, she almost killed my wife driving the block.



Good morning Chatbrat.


It also states they argued before he left. The Dementia may just have shown signs. You can choose to be drunk, you are stuck with Dementia.


Did your wife's mom have a Mercedes too?

outlaw 02-28-2016 08:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1191815)
On our online newspaper there is mention of a 75 year old villager who has gone missing.

It also states that he has dementia. How come he is still allowed to drive?

Anyone want to bet who is more impaired a person who has dementia or person with .08 blood alcohol level.

We took care of my wife's mom for 7 months, she almost killed my wife driving the block.

A person texting...

gomoho 02-28-2016 09:24 AM

Please don't be so harsh - I'm sure the caregivers are beside themselves. This is a terrible disease that affects the entire family and it really is time for compassion not hate.

graciegirl 02-28-2016 09:29 AM

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Originally Posted by gomoho (Post 1191869)
Please don't be so harsh - I'm sure the caregivers are beside themselves. This is a terrible disease that affects the entire family and it really is time for compassion not hate.



That is what I was tryin' to say.

Taltarzac725 02-28-2016 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1191815)
On our online newspaper there is mention of a 75 year old villager who has gone missing.

It also states that he has dementia. How come he is still allowed to drive?

Anyone want to bet who is more impaired a person who has dementia or person with .08 blood alcohol level.

We took care of my wife's mom for 7 months, she almost killed my wife driving the block.

If you look at the Comments on the Online site it looks like someone located him yesterday evening or thereabouts.

Dementia has levels. Some people could still drive even if they forget what they had for breakfast or repeat things that they just asked.

That other site has some rather dense reporters who should learn some discretion as to what they put in these descriptions.

Taltarzac725 02-28-2016 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Taltarzac725 (Post 1191877)
If you look at the Comments on the Online site it looks like someone located him yesterday evening or thereabouts.

Dementia has levels. Some people could still drive even if they forget what they had for breakfast or repeat things that they just asked.

That other site has some rather dense reporters who should learn some discretion as to what they put in these descriptions.

The Comment was supposedly incorrect. The man is still out there. I got a Facebook update from the site that must not be named.

villagetinker 02-28-2016 10:12 AM

Looked at the other site this morning (Sunday), in red lettering it states, he has NOT been located.
There seems to be significant confusion, the article does not state he is licensed, just that he took the keys and the car. Please remember this person is suffering from dementia and probably does not realize what he is doing. Hope he is found OK.

Diver 02-28-2016 11:47 AM

The car should have OnStar since it is a GM product, I think it could be located using that.

Chatbrat 02-28-2016 12:00 PM

My wife's mom had a Buick, typical old person's car @ the time. We only buy Mercedes because of the safety features comfort and the amount of boron high strength steel used.

Ms Smith said her Mercedes saved her life when she was broadsided.

Barefoot 02-28-2016 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by gomoho (Post 1191869)
Please don't be so harsh - I'm sure the caregivers are beside themselves. This is a terrible disease that affects the entire family and it really is time for compassion not hate.

:agree: I think the online newspaper is to be applauded for publishing this silver alert with identifying information.

outlaw 02-28-2016 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1191947)
My wife's mom had a Buick, typical old person's car @ the time. We only buy Mercedes because of the safety features comfort and the amount of boron high strength steel used.

Ms Smith said her Mercedes saved her life when she was broadsided.

I buy them for the star.

Polar Bear 02-28-2016 12:34 PM

Hohum.

Walt. 02-28-2016 01:14 PM

When I saw the title of this thread my first thought was... "Oh no! It's that damn William Devane again!"

looneycat 02-28-2016 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1191947)
My wife's mom had a Buick, typical old person's car @ the time. We only buy Mercedes because of the safety features comfort and the amount of boron high strength steel used.

Ms Smith said her Mercedes saved her life when she was broadsided.

and yet Subarus seem to have the best crash rating :sigh:

RickeyD 02-28-2016 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by looneycat (Post 1192007)
and yet Subarus seem to have the best crash rating :sigh:

Subaru use multiple layers of high strength steel. Boron steel is a problem because of the difficultly with extraction if necessary.

Miles42 02-28-2016 02:18 PM

How did this get that far off track?

Bogie Shooter 02-28-2016 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Diver (Post 1191942)
The car should have OnStar since it is a GM product, I think it could be located using that.

Only if it has been activated.

bagboy 02-28-2016 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Miles42 (Post 1192020)
How did this get that far off track?

I know right!!! A fellow Villager is missing and most likely in danger and... well read some of the posts.

graciegirl 02-28-2016 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by bagboy (Post 1192042)
I know right!!! A fellow Villager is missing and most likely in danger and... well read some of the posts.



I am very glad we have Amber and Silver alerts. At least we the people have passed laws to help us do kind things, even if some of us act like we are "raised with wolves".


It doesn't take a house to fall on you to know that the people who love this man are VERY worried. I hope someone finds him or he finds his way home. I don't know what would happen to either of us if we were told to do something like stop driving and still feel like we could handle it. There are all kinds of very sad situations, getting older. We have all worked so hard and always faced tough things and are stubborn, most of us. I hope he will be found before the sun goes down tonight and I pray that if or when it happens to me or Sweetie that we will be saved from something so awful.

Taltarzac725 02-28-2016 04:20 PM

I get Amber alerts on my phone but no silver alerts. How can we fix this??

My late grandmother Helen had Alzheimers pretty bad the last 99th year but seemed OK before her 97th or so.

Looks like he is still missing according to the other news site.

CFrance 02-28-2016 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1191947)
My wife's mom had a Buick, typical old person's car @ the time. We only buy Mercedes because of the safety features comfort and the amount of boron high strength steel used.

Ms Smith said her Mercedes saved her life when she was broadsided.

And the bragging rights.

Audis are just as strong.

They said he took off in the car after an argument; they did not say whether or not he is allowed to drive.

Shimpy 02-28-2016 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1192050)
I don't know what would happen to either of us if we were told to do something like stop driving and still feel like we could handle it.

He is probably still able to safely drive but not remember how to find his way such as the way home. I don't let my wife drive for the same reason since her dementia has slowly gotten worse. Trying to show her how to use the gps would be like talking to her in chinese........I'd like to know the difference between "Amber and Silver" alert. One must be a higher priority.

CFrance 02-28-2016 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Shimpy (Post 1192079)
He is probably still able to safely drive but not remember how to find his way such as the way home. I don't let my wife drive for the same reason since her dementia has slowly gotten worse. Trying to show her how to use the gps would be like talking to her in chinese........I'd like to know the difference between "Amber and Silver" alert. One must be a higher priority.

Amber is for children. Silver is for seniors. Prayers/best wishes for your wife's health, Shimpy.

bagboy 02-28-2016 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1192050)
I am very glad we have Amber and Silver alerts. At least we the people have passed laws to help us do kind things, even if some of us act like we are "raised with wolves".


It doesn't take a house to fall on you to know that the people who love this man are VERY worried. I hope someone finds him or he finds his way home. I don't know what would happen to either of us if we were told to do something like stop driving and still feel like we could handle it. There are all kinds of very sad situations, getting older. We have all worked so hard and always faced tough things and are stubborn, most of us. I hope he will be found before the sun goes down tonight and I pray that if or when it happens to me or Sweetie that we will be saved from something so awful.

Thank you, I couldn't agree more.

patfla06 02-28-2016 07:57 PM

I wish they didn't list him wearing a Rolex - attract the wrong person looking for him.

Praying he is okay.

VILLAGERBB 02-29-2016 09:40 AM

I hope he is found and returned home safely.

Taltarzac725 03-01-2016 09:59 AM

Silver Alert Update.
 
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At 4:30 p.m. Monday, ****** drove himself to the Sumter County Sheriff’s Office Village Annex and told deputies that he had heard he was being sought.

“Mr. ******* was in good condition and was removed as a missing/endangered adult,” the Sumter County Sheriff’s Office said in a statement.
This is from the site that must not be named.

The man is safe.

bagboy 03-01-2016 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Taltarzac725 (Post 1192806)
This is from the site that must not be named.

The man is safe.

I read the great news. Many times situations like this do not end well. I don't know if it's a happy ending at their residence, but it is a safe one.

graciegirl 03-01-2016 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by bagboy (Post 1192826)
I read the great news. Many times situations like this do not end well. I don't know if it's a happy ending at their residence, but it is a safe one.



Amen.

Chatbrat 03-01-2016 01:18 PM

I guess no has seen the video of a Benz flipping on its roof @ 140mph on the Autobahn and sliding on its roof for a quarter mile, the driver gets out and scratches his head

Best crash test ever--made me a customer for life

VILLAGERBB 03-02-2016 08:35 AM

Great news! I'm glad he is OK.

graciegirl 03-02-2016 04:02 PM

He is home. Thank GOODNESS. Nuff said. But not for us, no not for us.

Barefoot 03-02-2016 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1193415)
He is home.


Excellent news.

Nucky 03-02-2016 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1192877)
I guess no has seen the video of a Benz flipping on its roof @ 140mph on the Autobahn and sliding on its roof for a quarter mile, the driver gets out and scratches his head

Best crash test ever--made me a customer for life

Respectfully may I inquire what the fixation on THE BENZ is all about? From my point of view a person could pocket $50 to $100 K and still drive a new vehicle that is equally safe. I can't remember what year it was but I sold my 420 SEL the week after Princess Diana succumbed to the injuries she sustained while being a passenger in a large model Mercedes. I don't have that kind of scratch anymore but if I did I would rather look at the nice balance in the market than pay that much for a car. Am I allowed to move into The Villages if I don't own a German Car? We drive Ford because they are American and they didn't ask for a bailout. Thank God this man got home to his family safely, he was on our mind.

golfing eagles 03-02-2016 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Nucky (Post 1193430)
Respectfully may I inquire what the fixation on THE BENZ is all about? From my point of view a person could pocket $50 to $100 K and still drive a new vehicle that is equally safe. I can't remember what year it was but I sold my 420 SEL the week after Princess Diana succumbed to the injuries she sustained while being a passenger in a large model Mercedes. I don't have that kind of scratch anymore but if I did I would rather look at the nice balance in the market than pay that much for a car. Am I allowed to move into The Villages if I don't own a German Car? We drive Ford because they are American and they didn't ask for a bailout. Thank God this man got home to his family safely, he was on our mind.

I'm with you. First, thank God he is OK. Second, I have a Buick and a Chrysler, made in the USA. Once, only once in the last 40 years did I own a foreign car, a Toyota Avalon. Gave it back after a year when it accelerated to 100 mph on it's own. Oh, my bad, I forgot. Toyota sent an engineer from New Jersey who told me that it never happened. I sent them a letter with the car asking if I was a fool or a liar. And their response--none.

Nucky 03-02-2016 04:57 PM

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Originally Posted by golfing eagles (Post 1193434)
I'm with you. First, thank God he is OK. Second, I have a Buick and a Chrysler, made in the USA. Once, only once in the last 40 years did I own a foreign car, a Toyota Avalon. Gave it back after a year when it accelerated to 100 mph on it's own. Oh, my bad, I forgot. Toyota sent an engineer from New Jersey who told me that it never happened. I sent them a letter with the car asking if I was a fool or a liar. And their response--none.


Thank God I don't have to do the German car thing. I'm a German myself but I don't think the MORON steel is worth the $$$$$$. Maybe I'll compromise & purchase a Benz Golf Cart with airbags?????

golfing eagles 03-02-2016 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Nucky (Post 1193444)
Thank God I don't have to do the German car thing. I'm a German myself but I don't think the MORON steel is worth the $$$$$$.

Sprechen sie Deutsch? Meine grossmutter ist aus Deutcshland. Auf Wiedersehn fur heute.

Diver 03-02-2016 05:08 PM

Glad to hear he was OK, probably just needed to cool off. One another post, you can afford to buy a Mercedes Benz but can't buy a roll of tape?

Nucky 03-02-2016 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by golfing eagles (Post 1193446)
Sprechen sie Deutsch? Meine grossmutter ist aus Deutcshland. Auf Wiedersehn fur heute.

Nope just a little Spaglish! German is a beautiful language to listen to. My father spoke it loudly sometimes and even though I didn't know what he was saying I surely knew what he wanted to do. Great memory.
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