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Originally Posted by Polar Bear
(Post 1412030)
My golf is usually with my regular group and occasional executive rounds when I can just show up and play late in the day. I'm thinking of signing up for open tee time slots late morning or so to get a little more champ play in. Naturally this would likely end up with me joining a group of two or three others.
I just want to check in here to get some feedback. Is this an accepted practice...adding yourself to a group of folks who don't know you? If so, are there things I should be aware of to make it work most smoothly.
Like I said, I haven't done this before and I'm just looking for some input regarding its acceptability and any other information I should be aware if I choose to do it.
Thanks. in advance.
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With traveling, vacations & just waking up deciding to get out, I've joined other groups as a single hundreds of times over the years...and it is a mixed bag.
Sometimes you end up with a couple of others that were also singles, so then it's usually no big deal.
Sometimes you are replacing a fourth, where the other three have no problem with you...and sometimes they wish they could have kept it as a threesome.
While it is impossible not to end up with some jerks at some point, when I'm the odd person I try to be the first to grab the flag, offer to rake a bunker for someone else and fix as many pitch marks as possible.
If they're decent people, they will notice the effort being made and be appreciative.
If they're not, I don't have any secrets to keep it from feeling like a very long round. :(
In other words...it really is just a roll of the dice. :shrug:
One advantage here, is that if you're going through the reservation system you can see the gender of the other golfers for the tee times you're interested in.
The one thing I never try to do, is to make myself the third when it shows a male and a female. I just assume it is a husband and wife and I'm sure they would prefer to just play by themselves...rather than having another guy join them.
If you call the course to see if there's room for a single (required on the day of play), I still ask about the gender and try not to insert myself into a twosome of 1 male and 1 female.
I'm speaking solely of championship courses here, as I'm not sure how the executive system works...or if it's the same process.