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graciegirl 06-24-2017 08:21 AM

Men's hair styles. Do you like the new man bun?
 
Do you like pony tails on men?

Blessed2BNTV 06-24-2017 08:24 AM

No, ponytails and no bun. Love a man with short neat hair. Five o'clock shawdow can be sexy looking at times.

Taltarzac725 06-24-2017 08:30 AM

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I could never pull that off.

NotGolfer 06-24-2017 09:01 AM

NO!!! Then there are those guys who are bald on top but grow the sides/back to make a pony tail. Don't like that look neither but the.....to each their own!!

Taltarzac725 06-24-2017 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by NotGolfer (Post 1415930)
NO!!! Then there are those guys who are bald on top but grow the sides/back to make a pony tail. Don't like that look neither but the.....to each their own!!

I used to try that. Looked quite weird on me.

bagboy 06-24-2017 09:17 AM

Pony tail and bun, not for me.

Rapscallion St Croix 06-24-2017 09:28 AM

Spent my working life sporting a military cut and watching styles come and go. Still doing it with no hankering to jump on board the trend wagon. I guess the man bun is an attempt at androgyny, but it overshoots the mark and lands on effeminacy.

redwitch 06-24-2017 09:45 AM

As long as the hair is neat and clean, what difference does the length make? We still in the 60's where a male was called a hippie, homosexual, unAmerican for having long hair?

ColdNoMore 06-24-2017 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by redwitch (Post 1415952)
As long as the hair is neat and clean, what difference does the length make? We still in the 60's where a male was called a hippie, homosexual, unAmerican for having long hair?

:thumbup:

CFrance 06-24-2017 10:13 AM

Yep, Red. Certain styles for certain men. It depends on their overall build & looks. Although I do think that ponytails on bald men look ridiculous!

dbussone 06-24-2017 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by CFrance (Post 1415962)
Yep, Red. Certain styles for certain men. It depends on their overall build & looks. Although I do think that ponytails on bald men look ridiculous!



CF - that's an oxymoron. How can you be bald and have a ponytail? That would take a huge combover


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CFrance 06-24-2017 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by dbussone (Post 1415970)
CF - that's an oxymoron. How can you be bald and have a ponytail? That would take a huge combover


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Okay, Okay! My husband is considered bald (a speeding ticket read: "Color of hair--bald") yet he has a ring of hair around his head. that's what I've seen on some men. They grow that out and tie in a ponytail. Thankfully not my guy.

joldnol 06-24-2017 11:43 AM

not new. Man buns have been around for 4 or 5 years

dbussone 06-24-2017 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by CFrance (Post 1415974)
Okay, Okay! My husband is considered bald (a speeding ticket read: "Color of hair--bald") yet he has a ring of hair around his head. that's what I've seen on some men. They grow that out and tie in a ponytail. Thankfully not my guy.



Thankfully he has grown up and left his tie-dyed bell bottoms back in the '60s - if he ever wore them at all.


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dbussone 06-24-2017 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by joldnol (Post 1415997)
not new. Man buns have been around for 4 or 5 years



True, but unfortunately they seem to have taken hold at certain age levels.


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Chi-Town 06-24-2017 01:19 PM

Who can forget this?

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dbussone 06-24-2017 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by dbussone (Post 1416057)
True, but unfortunately they seem to have taken hold at certain age levels...the young and the old. IMHO they look foolish on both.


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graciegirl 06-24-2017 01:25 PM

traditional japanese man bun - Bing images

graciegirl 06-24-2017 01:27 PM

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I have this hair style to admire at my house. sigh.

manaboutown 06-24-2017 01:55 PM

I first noticed the buns on young Asian men at the gyms in SoCal several years ago. They were the Judo, Karate, MMA and the like kind of guys. It seemed to me they were trying to resemble Samurai warriors or something. More recently I see them on young physically assertive type anglo and hispanic men.

As for pony tails, they have been popular in Santa Fe, NM for a very long time, especially among the artsy-f@rtsy types. They never really went out of style there after they first appeared in the mid 1960's among hippies and peace/protester types all over the country. Frankly they look ridiculous on most of the anglo men there who are middle aged and older, balding to almost bald and are fat enough to look about 8 months pregnant. The American Indian men of all ages there are almost always blessed with beautiful hair so they look great (and normal) wearing pony tails. Of course I have been around them since I was a child in the 1940's so their pony tails suit their appearance somehow IMHO.

CFrance 06-24-2017 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by dbussone (Post 1416056)
Thankfully he has grown up and left his tie-dyed bell bottoms back in the '60s - if he ever wore them at all.
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Oh, I have pictures.:evil6:
But he has pictures of my mini skirts and hair down to... parted in the middle, of course.

dbussone 06-24-2017 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by CFrance (Post 1416086)
Oh, I have pictures.:evil6:
But he has pictures of my mini skirts and hair down to... parted in the middle, of course.



And the requisite peasant blouses I'm sure. My wife definitely looked cute in her outfits. Her hair wasn't quite as long though. Nurses had to wear their hair up, or not past shoulder length. [emoji41]


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borjo 06-24-2017 03:32 PM

I like them and I'm an old lady. It keeps the hair out of their face and usually looks neat.

CFrance 06-24-2017 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by dbussone (Post 1416101)
And the requisite peasant blouses I'm sure. My wife definitely looked cute in her outfits. Her hair wasn't quite as long though. Nurses had to wear their hair up, or not past shoulder length. [emoji41]


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I forgot to mention the go-go boots. White.

BK001 06-24-2017 05:46 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1415900)
Do you like pony tails on men?


I wonder what Barbie thinks:


https://www.cnet.com/news/ken-doll-m...n-bun-twitter/

Carl in Tampa 06-24-2017 11:34 PM

In a word: No.
 
My kids, who hover at, or just above and below age 50, will tell you that they can never recall a time when my hair style was any different from today (although it is not as thick as in the younger years, and now has some grey.) That signals my preference.

I did flirt briefly in my 40's with a mustache, but felt it made me look like Pancho Villa, so that was gone quickly. Also, longer sideburns for a while, but not for long.

Man buns and pony tails --- never. Never.

Others can make whatever fashion statement they wish, but it is not for me.

And, do I actually like it on others? Well,..........no.

rubicon 06-25-2017 04:37 AM

Ponytails on women jogging in the park a vision.

Too many men have become too effeminate in so many ways hair ,clothes, attitude

doran 06-25-2017 04:45 AM

You are thinking we still have hair, short and sweet in the humidity is my answer.

600th Photo Sq 06-25-2017 05:24 AM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1415900)
Do you like pony tails on men?

Actually it is really old fashion, looks totally ridiculous, and those who choose to look that way...I got some news for you.

It's like Looking at the Rear End Of A Horse.

Get with the program get the hedge trimmer out and cut it. :plane:

rustyp 06-25-2017 05:29 AM

72 degrees here yesterday. No trouble with my man buns. What was the heat index there yesterday ?

dbussone 06-25-2017 06:30 AM

Men's hair styles. Do you like the new man bun?
 
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Originally Posted by rustyp (Post 1416361)
72 degrees here yesterday. No trouble with my man buns. What was the heat index there yesterday ?



Just under 100, rustyp. The way I like it. 72 - kind of winterish isn't it? [emoji41]


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ColdNoMore 06-25-2017 06:45 AM

This whole thread cracks me the heck up. :1rotfl:

Had the internet/TOTV been around in the early 60's, someone would have started a similar thread bemoaning the haircut of that British rock group whose name sounds like a bug...and how their hair was too long and went over their ears. :oops:

And back then, like now, the comments would have been made mostly by those...who haven't really taken a hard look in the mirror recently. :D

The more things change...the more they stay the same. :ohdear:

graciegirl 06-25-2017 06:59 AM

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Originally Posted by ColdNoMore (Post 1416376)
This whole thread cracks me the heck up. :1rotfl:

Had the internet/TOTV been around in the early 60's, someone would have started a similar thread bemoaning the haircut of that British rock group whose name sounds like a bug...and how their hair was too long and went over their ears. :oops:

And back then, like now, the comments would have been made mostly by those...who haven't really taken a hard look in the mirror recently. :D

The more things change...the more they stay the same. :ohdear:

Well luv, I loved the Beatles haircuts. They looked like British schoolboys. I see no reason for you to disparage the OP or the posters for starting or adding to a thread giving their opinion on what really in my opinion is an extreme style. I follow closely on Facebook many families that our family has known for up to fifty years and more and it is interesting to me that the kids and grandkids of these families who have maintained a successful life style and made their marks, stayed out of trouble and drugs, are continuing with successful kids who dress and cut their hair pretty traditionally.

I cannot help but wonder what your mirror shows you.

These are sketches I did of our grandchildren about five years ago. I think their hair styles show that they are with it, but not out of it.

P.S. I sketched our granddaughter as she was discussing politics with me. We don't always agree and I think I nailed her look.

Taltarzac725 06-25-2017 07:32 AM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1416379)
Well luv, I loved the Beatles haircuts. They looked like British schoolboys. I see no reason for you to disparage the OP or the posters for starting or adding to a thread giving their opinion on what really in my opinion is an extreme style. I follow closely on Facebook many families that our family has known for up to fifty years and more and it is interesting to me that the kids and grandkids of these families who have maintained a successful life style and made their marks, stayed out of trouble and drugs, are continuing with successful kids who dress and cut their hair pretty traditionally.

I cannot help but wonder what your mirror shows you.

These are sketches I did of our grandchildren about five years ago. I think their hair styles show that they are with it, but not out of it.

P.S. I sketched our granddaughter as she was discussing politics with me. We don't always agree and I think I nailed her look.

Nice pictures graciegirl.

Lblueocala 06-25-2017 09:48 AM

No, screams, I Lazy and cheap, no pride in appearance, slave to a bad fad, look at me.

redwitch 06-25-2017 10:45 AM

I have no issue with people not liking man buns, long hair on men, male ponytails, comb overs, etc. I have some serious issues with people calling a hair style "effeminate", which has now been done twice in this thread.

Some men can look good with whatever style they choose to wear. Some men look like jokes. Most men try to keep the style they had at 16, provided they have the hair. Style change is not in their vocabulary.

Personally, I dislike shaved heads. Few men can wear that style well, whether 26 or 66. Even so, I would never dream of calling them names or disparaging their hair choice. I find it really sad that differences in taste must be put down or made jokes of. That's just wrong, unkind and pathetic.

Allegiance 06-25-2017 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1416379)
Well luv, I loved the Beatles haircuts. They looked like British schoolboys. I see no reason for you to disparage the OP or the posters for starting or adding to a thread giving their opinion on what really in my opinion is an extreme style. I follow closely on Facebook many families that our family has known for up to fifty years and more and it is interesting to me that the kids and grandkids of these families who have maintained a successful life style and made their marks, stayed out of trouble and drugs, are continuing with successful kids who dress and cut their hair pretty traditionally.

I cannot help but wonder what your mirror shows you.

These are sketches I did of our grandchildren about five years ago. I think their hair styles show that they are with it, but not out of it.

P.S. I sketched our granddaughter as she was discussing politics with me. We don't always agree and I think I nailed her look.

Truly impressive. Talented.

graciegirl 06-25-2017 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by redwitch (Post 1416483)
I have no issue with people not liking man buns, long hair on men, male ponytails, comb overs, etc. I have some serious issues with people calling a hair style "effeminate", which has now been done twice in this thread.

Some men can look good with whatever style they choose to wear. Some men look like jokes. Most men try to keep the style they had at 16, provided they have the hair. Style change is not in their vocabulary.

Personally, I dislike shaved heads. Few men can wear that style well, whether 26 or 66. Even so, I would never dream of calling them names or disparaging their hair choice. I find it really sad that differences in taste must be put down or made jokes of. That's just wrong, unkind and pathetic.



Differences in taste and discussion of differences in taste is part of the Freedom of Speech we enjoy. MOST of us do joke about being a "sissy" male OR female. (I am still not lovin' goin' to the dentist and my husband doesn't like movies about the occult.)We all do make light of our normal gender differences. I was born white and a female. I was born with certain genetic traits that govern my health and I believe quite a bit of my personality. I was born good at drawing and not so great at catching a ball. I will joke about the good ball catchers and some will joke about the drawing people. Humor sometimes does become bullying if it is meant to disparage and hurt. I don't watch certain late night talk shows anymore.

It is all how you look at things. It is all how you ARE. I cannot become a transgender person. I cannot become an Asian person. I cannot become young and I will never be the center for the Celtics.

redwitch 06-25-2017 11:59 AM

Sorry, Gracie, but no one I know makes "sissy" jokes. It may be a West Coast thing, but it's just not done. Freedom of speech allows you to say almost anything you please -- just don't yell "fire" in a theater. Just because you have the freedom to say whatever you please, doesn't mean you should. Over time, most of us have learned to not use racially-derogatory words because they're wrong and hurtful. We've learned to not make jokes about physical or mental disabilities. Sissy, effeminate, etc. are words frequently used today to disparage gay men (safer than using the F word). To accept it as socially acceptable in some circles is not something I can do. Sorry, just goes against my grain and everything I believe in.

redwitch 06-25-2017 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Rapscallion St Croix (Post 1416503)
1. I wasn't joking
2. I somehow doubt it makes you sad. I think is simply Pi55es you off,

1. I had no doubt that you were dead serious about your comment. That didn't make it any less offensive or wrong to me.

2. Unkindness always makes sad. Always has, always will. If you were to direct those comments towards me, I would probably get angry. Sissy, effeminate are not words that could be directed at me. I'm neither gay nor male, so why would they get me angry? When you use words to disparage someone because they are different from you, when they don't share your sensibilities, to make you look bigger, better, stronger, more powerful, it doesn't anger me, it saddens me. I keep hoping for a better, kinder, gentler world. I truly find it sad that we're not getting there.


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