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Gpsma 10-28-2017 05:12 PM

Tipping?
 
How much do you normally tip when dining out? How much do you tip to service people ...such as furniture delivery or workman that do something at your home.

Seems many Villagers get alligator arms when it comes to tipping. Perhaps its cheapness...perhaps its regional standards.

billethkid 10-28-2017 05:34 PM

Have you heard the one about the difference between a villager and a canoe?

Canoes tip!

Rapscallion St Croix 10-28-2017 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 1467712)
How much do you normally tip when dining out? How much do you tip to service people ...such as furniture delivery or workman that do something at your home.

Seems many Villagers get alligator arms when it comes to tipping. Perhaps its cheapness...perhaps its regional standards.

Perhaps it is just your assumption.

Mleeja 10-28-2017 05:42 PM

I will tip 20% if the service and food is good. I tip the lady who cuts my hair $3.00 for a $9.00 hair cut. For the past couple of years we have given the yard guy $100.00 at Christmas time. $20.00 to the paper person and mail person. I would not tip a plumber or electrician or other service folks.

JSR22 10-28-2017 05:57 PM

Paper Person
 
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Originally Posted by Mleeja (Post 1467718)
I will tip 20% if the service and food is good. I tip the lady who cuts my hair $3.00 for a $9.00 hair cut. For the past couple of years we have given the yard guy $100.00 at Christmas time. $20.00 to the paper person and mail person. I would not tip a plumber or electrician or other service folks.

Tipping the person who delivers your paper 365 days a year anything less than $2.00 a week is wrong. Tip at least $100!

JSR22 10-28-2017 05:58 PM

We tip 25% in the restaurants to make up for the 10%ers

Gpsma 10-28-2017 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Rapscallion St Croix (Post 1467717)
Perhaps it is just your assumption.

So i guess you think everyone here tips fairly for good service? Sorry but thats not what im seeing.

Villager Joyce 10-28-2017 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 1467712)
How much do you normally tip when dining out? How much do you tip to service people ...such as furniture delivery or workman that do something at your home.

Seems many Villagers get alligator arms when it comes to tipping. Perhaps its cheapness...perhaps its regional standards.

As the OP, why don’t you tell us your standards?

Rapscallion St Croix 10-28-2017 06:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 1467725)
So i guess you think everyone here tips fairly for good service? Sorry but thats not what im seeing.

I don't watch other people's tipping habits.

Gpsma 10-28-2017 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Villager Joyce (Post 1467728)
As the OP, why don’t you tell us your standards?

If you need to know to simply reply to my OP...

20-30 percent for good service in restaurants.

Minimum $20 to delivery people for large items.

Minimum $100 to UPS,mail,sanitation etc for the holidays.

At least $20 to workman that do work in my house as long as they are not the owners.

As I said..tipping is a regional custom. ive noticed folks from flyover states tip less...sometimes to the point of embarrassment.

Gpsma 10-28-2017 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Rapscallion St Croix (Post 1467733)
I don't watch other people's tipping habits.

Never dined out with good time charlies or skinflints?

JSR22 10-28-2017 06:16 PM

Tipping
 
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Originally Posted by Rapscallion St Croix (Post 1467733)
I don't watch other people's tipping habits.

We have been out once and never again with people who tip 10% to the penny. They are not from the coasts or Chicago.

Rapscallion St Croix 10-28-2017 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 1467735)
Never dined out with good time charlies or skinflints?

Correct.

rexxfan 10-28-2017 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 1467712)
How much do you normally tip when dining out? How much do you tip to service people ...such as furniture delivery or workman that do something at your home.

Seems many Villagers get alligator arms when it comes to tipping. Perhaps its cheapness...perhaps its regional standards.

We used to tip 15%, but our son was a waiter for a time and they are paid very little (less than $3/hour). They have to make it up in tips. So now we generally tip 20%.
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Bob C

JSR22 10-28-2017 06:17 PM

Yes!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 1467734)
If you need to know to simply reply to my OP...

20-30 percent for good service in restaurants.

Minimum $20 to delivery people for large items.

Minimum $100 to UPS,mail,sanitation etc for the holidays.

At least $20 to workman that do work in my house as long as they are not the owners.

As I said..tipping is a regional custom. ive noticed folks from flyover states tip less...sometimes to the point of embarrassment.

Totally agree!

BobnBev 10-28-2017 06:45 PM

Good service, 25 to 30%. 3 years ago, I gave a waitress $100. She still takes good care of me after all that time. She is the best waitress I've ever had, and she said villagers are lousy tippers.:bowdown:

NoMoSno 10-28-2017 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 1467734)
If you need to know to simply reply to my OP...

20-30 percent for good service in restaurants.

Minimum $20 to delivery people for large items.

Minimum $100 to UPS,mail,sanitation etc for the holidays.

At least $20 to workman that do work in my house as long as they are not the owners.

As I said..tipping is a regional custom. ive noticed folks from flyover states tip less...sometimes to the point of embarrassment.

$100 for UPS?
I don't think I've ever had the same driver down here.
Especially around the holidays, when the temporary's are working.
Regarding regions...I've noticed folks from the right and left coast, tip the least, and drive the worst...:beer3:

JSR22 10-28-2017 07:34 PM

Tipping
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by NoMoSno (Post 1467765)
$100 for UPS?
I don't think I've ever had the same driver down here.
Especially around the holidays, when the temporary's are working.
Regarding regions...I've noticed folks from the right and left coast, tip the least, and drive the worst...:beer3:

The coast people tip. The fly overs are cheap. The newspaper people deserve $100.

Mleeja 10-28-2017 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by JSR22 (Post 1467721)
Tipping the person who delivers your paper 365 days a year anything less than $2.00 a week is wrong. Tip at least $100!

I had a paper route. I was lucky when people paid for the newspaper. When someone gives me a Christmas card with a return envelope attached, $20.00 is plenty. If the delivery person has 300 homes and all give $20, a $6000 bonus is pretty nice.

NoMoSno 10-28-2017 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by JSR22 (Post 1467766)
The coast people tip. The fly overs are cheap. The newspaper people deserve $100.

I was asking about UPS.
Newspapers are a waste of trees.
Coasters are cheap.

Mleeja 10-28-2017 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by NoMoSno (Post 1467765)
$100 for UPS?
I don't think I've ever had the same driver down here.
Especially around the holidays, when the temporary's are working.
Regarding regions...I've noticed folks from the right and left coast, tip the least, and drive the worst...:beer3:

UPS drivers are very well paid. They probably can make up to $70,000/80,000 per year with overtime. I don't think they are allowed to take tips. Save your money for the ones who really need and deserve the extra income.

graciegirl 10-28-2017 07:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 1467734)
If you need to know to simply reply to my OP...

20-30 percent for good service in restaurants.

Minimum $20 to delivery people for large items.

Minimum $100 to UPS,mail,sanitation etc for the holidays.

At least $20 to workman that do work in my house as long as they are not the owners.

As I said..tipping is a regional custom. ive noticed folks from flyover states tip less...sometimes to the point of embarrassment.


How did you get that job? Telling people what is de rigueur?

Fly over states. Hmmm.

Like Villager Joyce pointed out, there are a lot of nice things going on that no one brings to anyone's attention.

There are a couple of words for that kind of behavior; Class and Class.

From the silent majority.

Mleeja 10-28-2017 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1467773)
How did you get that job? Telling people what is de rigueur?

Fly over states. Hmmm.

Like Villager Joyce pointed out, there are a lot of nice things going on that no one brings to anyone's attention.

There are a couple of words for that kind of behavior; Class and Class.

From the silent majority.

:agree:

justjim 10-28-2017 09:35 PM

East, West, North, South, Coasts or Plains it’s pretty obvious that there are “good tippers and “poor tippers” from all regions and all different walks of life.

Mleeja 10-28-2017 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1467773)
How did you get that job? Telling people what is de rigueur?

Fly over states. Hmmm.

Like Villager Joyce pointed out, there are a lot of nice things going on that no one brings to anyone's attention.

There are a couple of words for that kind of behavior; Class and Class.

From the silent majority.

If in a restaurant and I receive good service from the waitress/waiter, in addition to a 20% tip, I will leave a short note thanking them. I know you can’t spend a note, but positive reinforcement for a job well done is appreciated.

CFrance 10-29-2017 02:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Mleeja (Post 1467809)
If in a restaurant and I receive good service from the waitress/waiter, in addition to a 20% tip, I will leave a short note thanking them. I know you can’t spend a note, but positive reinforcement for a job well done is appreciated.

And let the mgr know on the way out what a good job the employee did.

Two Bills 10-29-2017 04:21 AM

As a solo diner I don't work on a percentage of meal charge. I give servers $5 for lunch and $10 at dinner, whatever the bill. In company I go with the consensus.
I never go back to restaurants that add a service charge to the bill. Who are they to presume I was satisfied with meal and service. JMO

Barefoot 10-29-2017 06:32 AM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1467773)
How did you get that job? Telling people what is de rigueur?

Fly over states. Hmmm.

Like Villager Joyce pointed out, there are a lot of nice things going on that no one brings to anyone's attention.

There are a couple of words for that kind of behavior; Class and Class.

From the silent majority.

:agree:

Lovey2 10-29-2017 06:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 1467734)
If you need to know to simply reply to my OP...

20-30 percent for good service in restaurants.

Minimum $20 to delivery people for large items.

Minimum $100 to UPS,mail,sanitation etc for the holidays.

At least $20 to workman that do work in my house as long as they are not the owners.

As I said..tipping is a regional custom. ive noticed folks from flyover states tip less...sometimes to the point of embarrassment.

Wow..."I am bowled over by your generosity and will adjust my future tipping habits based on your chastisement of the rest of us for not keeping up to your high standards of living".....said no one so far! What a condescending post...

Villager Joyce 10-29-2017 07:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Lovey2 (Post 1467861)
Wow..."I am bowled over by your generosity and will adjust my future tipping habits based on your chastisement of the rest of us for not keeping up to your high standards of living".....said no one so far! What a condescending post...

Well stated. IMHO several of us hinted with just enough to keep our thoughts in the acceptable category and available for others to see.

Gpsma 10-29-2017 07:48 AM

Im not telling anyone how to spend their money. Simply pointing out the less than generous nature of the "thrifty" people in TV. I choose to be fairly generous with regard to low paid people who provide me with good service.

Dr Winston O Boogie jr 10-29-2017 07:54 AM

For decades, the standard in restaurants has always been 15% for good service. Somehow over the last 10-15 years, it has become 18%-20%. How and why did that happen. I generally tip 15%. If the service was especially excellent I go 20% and if there was a problem 10%.

We went out for Indian food yesterday. While researching Indian restaurants, I came across one that automatically adds 15% service fee to your bill. I will not go there because of that.

BobnBev 10-29-2017 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 1467876)
Im not telling anyone how to spend their money. Simply pointing out the less than generous nature of the "thrifty" people in TV. I choose to be fairly generous with regard to low paid people who provide me with good service.

:clap2::clap2::thumbup::BigApplause::agree:

Dr Winston O Boogie jr 10-29-2017 08:04 AM

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Originally Posted by JSR22 (Post 1467721)
Tipping the person who delivers your paper 365 days a year anything less than $2.00 a week is wrong. Tip at least $100!

In the case of the Daily Sun, the cost of the paper is about $2.00 per week and we're supposed to tip the delivery person the same $2.00? I don't get the paper so I really don't know.

I'm sure these people that deliver get paid at least minimum wage. Why should we tip them and not the workers in Wal-Mart for example?

rivaridger1 10-29-2017 08:32 AM

20 - 25% at restaurants, the higher number for exceptional service. If the service is poor so is the tip. Since we have been known to have a cocktail or two and/or wine the tip adds up. The newspaper person gets a card with a fifty dollar bill and the mail person the same. After thinking about it, Maybe we should go to a $ 100. Delivery and service people get tipped if they do something beyond the job they were hired to do.

JSR22 10-29-2017 08:41 AM

Newspaper Tip
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by rivaridger1 (Post 1467893)
20 - 25% at restaurants, the higher number for exceptional service. If the service is poor so is the tip. Since we have been known to have a cocktail or two and/or wine the tip adds up. The newspaper person gets a card with a fifty dollar bill and the mail person the same. After thinking about it, Maybe we should go to a $ 100. Delivery and service people get tipped if they do something beyond the job they were hired to do.

I give a $100 because never ever have we not had our paper delivered. Always double bagged so it is dry. It is in our driveway by 6 AM (we have dogs)

Henryk 10-29-2017 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Dr Winston O Boogie jr (Post 1467880)
For decades, the standard in restaurants has always been 15% for good service. Somehow over the last 10-15 years, it has become 18%-20%. How and why did that happen. I generally tip 15%. If the service was especially excellent I go 20% and if there was a problem 10%.

We went out for Indian food yesterday. While researching Indian restaurants, I came across one that automatically adds 15% service fee to your bill. I will not go there because of that.

Pray tell! How far did you have to go to find and Indian restaurant? Was it good?

Chi-Town 10-29-2017 09:00 AM

A good place to watch how people tip is to watch while standing in line at one of the drink kiosks at the Squares. It will make you shake your head.


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Villager Joyce 10-29-2017 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by JSR22 (Post 1467901)
I give a $100 because never ever have we not had our paper delivered. Always double bagged so it is dry. It is in our driveway by 6 AM (we have dogs)

If I understand correctly, the newspaper costs about $65 a year and you tip $100. Wowzy.

JSR22 10-29-2017 09:05 AM

Tipping
 
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Originally Posted by Villager Joyce (Post 1467912)
If I understand correctly, the newspaper costs about $65 a year and you tip $100. Wowzy.

I am tipping for the service not a % of price. If I gave 20% it is only $13 which would be no where near the value of the service.


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