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andercat 11-05-2017 05:41 PM

Funeral Procession
 
This afternoon on Hwy 25 we saw police flashing lights approaching us in the opposite lane. All the cars on our side of the road pulled over. It was a funeral procession. After the police cruiser past no one on our side of the road moved until the entire procession past. We have never seen this before. In locations we have lived previously, the cars would have proceeded as soon as the police vehicle passed. Is this a law or custom in Florida? It was like all the cars on our side of the road were paying respect to the deceased. Just interested in other peoples take on this.

perrjojo 11-05-2017 05:45 PM

It is the custom in Texas. Why would you just wait till the police went by? Also many people step out of their cars and men remove their caps. I don’t know if it is the law but is is the respectful thing to do.

DonH57 11-05-2017 05:59 PM

When I was stationed in Alabama it was pretty much The courteous and respectfull thing to do. I think it's mostly practiced in southern states.

rhood 11-05-2017 06:23 PM

That’s the way it is in Kentucky

Jima64 11-05-2017 06:32 PM

southern respect.

skip0358 11-05-2017 06:33 PM

When I was at my Brothers Funeral in Clarksville, Tenn. Even the kids in the school yard stopped playing cars in both directions pulled over and stopped until the procession had completely passed. Respect for sure

sallybowron 11-05-2017 07:00 PM

Not just southern respect, we did it in OHIO.

billethkid 11-05-2017 07:15 PM

The way they do it in TN.

stewartjames 11-05-2017 07:43 PM

Same thing happened to me on the golf course here in the Villages. A gentleman we were placed with drove his golf cart to the side of the road as the funeral procession went by. He got out off his cart took off his hat and bowed his head , I said that was a really nice thing to do. He said that was least he could after be married to her for 50 years! Yep only in The Villages.

NotGolfer 11-05-2017 07:44 PM

They do it in Minnesota...or did when we lived there! My mom explained to me when I was little that it was out of respect.

manaboutown 11-05-2017 07:51 PM

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Originally Posted by stewartjames (Post 1471232)
Same thing happened to me on the golf course here in the Villages. A gentleman we were placed with drove his golf cart to the side of the road as the funeral procession went by. He got out off his cart took off his hat and bowed his head , I said that was a really nice thing to do. He said that was least he could after be married to her for 50 years! Yep only in The Villages.

:mademyday:

Bjeanj 11-05-2017 08:51 PM

Indiana, too.

twoplanekid 11-05-2017 09:06 PM

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Originally Posted by sallybowron (Post 1471211)
Not just southern respect, we did it in OHIO.

Yes !

kstew43 11-05-2017 09:06 PM

South Carolina too....

but sad to say not in Miami...people there speed up to try to get around the procession. South Floridians attempt to not pull over for ambulances and firetrucks either. If they can speed up they will....That was a big issue for Broward.

Different cultures do different things....I suppose

graciegirl 11-06-2017 07:18 AM

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Originally Posted by kstew43 (Post 1471264)
South Carolina too....

but sad to say not in Miami...people there speed up to try to get around the procession. South Floridians attempt to not pull over for ambulances and firetrucks either. If they can speed up they will....That was a big issue for Broward.

Different cultures do different things....I suppose

I agree. I think it is a good thing and a respectful thing and I was completely surprised to find that it wasn't something everyone was taught to do. Apparently it is a law as well;

Police urge caution and respect for funeral processions

Bogie Shooter 11-06-2017 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by andercat (Post 1471155)
This afternoon on Hwy 25 we saw police flashing lights approaching us in the opposite lane. All the cars on our side of the road pulled over. It was a funeral procession. After the police cruiser past no one on our side of the road moved until the entire procession past. We have never seen this before. In locations we have lived previously, the cars would have proceeded as soon as the police vehicle passed. Is this a law or custom in Florida? It was like all the cars on our side of the road were paying respect to the deceased. Just interested in other peoples take on this.

Where?

chalpm 11-06-2017 08:44 AM

Massachusetts & NY as well...always!

andercat 11-06-2017 08:46 AM

We have lived in Wisconsin, Colorado, New York and Arizona,

NotGolfer 11-06-2017 09:02 AM

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Originally Posted by andercat (Post 1471398)
We have lived in Wisconsin, Colorado, New York and Arizona,

Where in Wisconsin? We lived there as well and saw it displayed out of respect in the towns we lived in.

Henryk 11-06-2017 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by stewartjames (Post 1471232)
Same thing happened to me on the golf course here in the Villages. A gentleman we were placed with drove his golf cart to the side of the road as the funeral procession went by. He got out off his cart took off his hat and bowed his head , I said that was a really nice thing to do. He said that was least he could after be married to her for 50 years! Yep only in The Villages.

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Henryk 11-06-2017 10:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1471333)
I agree. I think it is a good thing and a respectful thing and I was completely surprised to find that it wasn't something everyone was taught to do. Apparently it is a law as well;

Police urge caution and respect for funeral processions

That's really touching.

I have never heard of this. In Massachusetts traffic stops in all directions if a funeral procession is traversing an intersection. But not pulling over nor leaving your vehicle.

sukismom 11-06-2017 10:51 AM

Connecticut as well.

bluedivergirl 11-06-2017 10:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NotGolfer (Post 1471233)
They do it in Minnesota...or did when we lived there! My mom explained to me when I was little that it was out of respect.

Another yes from Minnesota.

As we got older, the custom began to fade.:sad:

Villagesbound 11-06-2017 11:12 AM

I am from Peoria, IL and that is the norm in Illinois. I do not know if it is a law or a sign of respect. It gives you time to say a quick prayer for the deceased soul and for the family and friends.

autumnspring 11-06-2017 03:06 PM

Huh?
 
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Originally Posted by chalpm (Post 1471394)
Massachusetts & NY as well...always!

In NY they would cut into the funeral procession so as to beat traffic.

circletrack 11-06-2017 03:14 PM

Traffic has definitely always stopped at intersections for funeral processions, but I don’t remember everyone pulling off to the side of the road and letting them by. I know I’ve passed several before while going the opposite direction, but can’t remember a time when one came up behind us on the road. I’m also not remembering there always being a police escort. Often the funeral home just has a lead car with caution lights.

Kerry Azz 11-07-2017 08:33 AM

It is out of respect
 
This is also the way it’s done in Colorado.

jjdees 11-07-2017 04:55 PM

Our experience since moving south has shown this to be a normal occurrence. On a return trip up north to Cleveland, Ohio for a sister in law's funeral, cars from side streets and even on the road we processed on cut through the procession. Reminded us of how nice the customs of the south were. In Atlanta, I remember pulling over on a 4 lane highway as a procession for a police officer KIA passed by on the opposite side and it was very long. No one drove by on our side of the road or on the side of the procession. All traffic stopped. A very nice respectful custom.


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