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FG111 12-29-2020 11:20 AM

Funeral & Burial Services
 
Greetings Members:

Seeking guidance and advice for a fellow Villager who's husband is terminally ill and his death is imminent regarding non-religious funeral services and a burial site near The Villages as she plans on continuing to live here.

The gentleman is an honorably retired service member and both are on a limited income. The lady has minimal family support and I am trying to assist her the best I can. Any guidance, suggestions and advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank You.

sunny56 12-29-2020 11:31 AM

Here is a link to the VA regarding death benefits: Burial Benefits - Compensation

There is a Milatary Cemetary in Bushnell: Florida National Cemetery - National Cemetery Administration

Also there is a Veterans Office at the Library on Powell Road. Hopefully these items can help

sunny56 12-29-2020 11:34 AM

Sorry, should have also posted the phone number for the Veterans Office: (352) 689-4450

vintageogauge 12-29-2020 11:34 AM

There is a Military cemetery right down 301 in Bushnell, you can search it online. Also Baldwin Bros. can help you with arrangements.

Number 10 GI 12-29-2020 11:45 AM

Cremation is the most economical for someone on a limited budget. Many VA cemeteries have above ground cremains vaults due to the popularity of cremation. If cremation is not desired the VA provides a burial plot and headstone at no cost but the coffin and embalming must be paid for by the survivors. Many VA cemeteries have a small chapel for the funeral service so you don't have to pay a mortuary for the use of their facility. The Bushnell VA cemetery will be my final resting place.

miffy75 12-29-2020 11:54 AM

My husband was a member of the military and when he died he was buried at Florida National Cemetery in Bushnell which is beautiful & well kept. I paid for the cremation and then the funeral home took care of contacting the cemetery and the delivery of his ashes. The burial and headstone were free and I will also be buried there (your name is added to the back of the service person's headstone). You can have the service at the Cemetery as someone else mentioned or you could do a Celebration of Life at any of the Recreation Centers in The Villages (not sure of the cost).

Bizdoc 12-30-2020 06:06 AM

I used Beyers Funeral Home for both of my parents. I made arrangements ahead of time (inclluding giving them copies of my dad's DD-214) as well as copies of each of their birth certificates. When each of them passed while in a nursing home, I simply told the funeral home to contact Beyers. They made the arrangements with Bushnell, contacted the Navy and arranged for a firing party and chaplain. There are a number of designated shelters for graveside services (including firing party and bugler).

I have given them the necessary documents for both my wife and myself. Having a loved one pass away is difficult enough. Having to make all sort of arrangements is just more stress.

fastboat 12-30-2020 06:23 AM

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Originally Posted by FG111 (Post 1879192)
Greetings Members:

Seeking guidance and advice for a fellow Villager who's husband is terminally ill and his death is
imminent regarding non-religious funeral services and a burial site near The Villages as she plans on continuing to live here.

The gentleman is an honorably retired service member and both are on a limited income. The lady has minimal family support and I am trying to assist her the best I can. Any guidance, suggestions and advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank You.

As he is a veteran, the local Cornerstone Hospice offers a veteran a Military Salute and it can be done at the veteran's home. There is no cost and it is a short, wonderful ceremony for both the veteran and family members. I know, I have personally performed more than 100.

Heyitsrick 12-30-2020 06:48 AM

Add me to the list of recommending Florida National Cemetery at Bushnell. Think of a well-kept park instead of a typical cemetery. It's beautifully maintained and well-designed.

Both my step-father (ex-Navy) and my mom are interred there. The cemetery has "columbariums", above-ground sections designed to hold ashes of those who have been cremated. Of course, there are also many different grave site locations, too.

Any funeral home / crematorium should have and handle all the details of working with Florida National Cemetery. Your friend will need to have her spouse's military records - frequently known as a "DD-214" discharge paper to show proof of his service.

Here's the link to the Florida National Cemetery: Florida National Cemetery - National Cemetery Administration

Read the "Frequently Asked Questions" link on the left sidebar.

Here's another good link on veteran's burial benefits: Eligibility For Burial In A VA National Cemetery | Veterans Affairs.

Pbthrockm@msn.com 12-30-2020 06:55 AM

Contact the VA administration and consider being placed at the National VA cemetery in Burnell Florida or any National Cemetery . It is close by and a beautiful cemetery. Plot and headstone provided to military service person and spouse can also be placed at no cost. And they provide nice service at grave site for military person.

Villageman.johnson80@gmai 12-30-2020 08:04 AM

If he is an honorably discharged veteran with a DD214, he may be eligible for free interment at Florida National Cemetery in Bushnell. A Cremation Service or Funeral Home can assist with arrangements at the cemetery for a veteran with any length of active duty service.

Marine1974 12-30-2020 08:27 AM

I would only add the Florida department of Veterans affairs
office closest to where you live in addition to the Veterans affairs
national phone number and of course the VA hospital near you . In most cases the Florida department of Veterans affairs has an office there . The funeral home can help with military ceremonies. Having the DD214 is good and us older Veterans social security number was our military ID . Very sorry

retiredguy123 12-30-2020 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Pbthrockm@msn.com (Post 1879511)
Contact the VA administration and consider being placed at the National VA cemetery in Burnell Florida or any National Cemetery . It is close by and a beautiful cemetery. Plot and headstone provided to military service person and spouse can also be placed at no cost. And they provide nice service at grave site for military person.

If you are not doing cremation, there may be costs associated with preparing and storing the body until the funeral service. A family member was buried at Arlington National Cemetery, but it took several months to schedule the funeral. The funeral and burial were free, but she got a bill from the funeral home for about $18K to store the body while waiting for the funeral.

melwilnot 12-30-2020 08:48 AM

Burial services
 
My husband works for Beyers funeral home and crematory in Lady Lake. They are the local experts on veterans burial arrangements for any of the national cemeteries including Florida national cemetery in Bushnell. They also have the only local crematory in their Leesburg funeral home if you are considering cremation. I would recommend that you call their office at 352-753-4444 and speak with them. They will be more than happy to assist you and answer any questions you may have.

cswett5234 12-30-2020 09:18 AM

No DD214....use this form to request one
 
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Many people cannot put their hands on their military paperwork, specifically their spouse's DD215. Attached is a PDF form to request this important document.

I'm not retired yet (56 yrs old), but I am a municipal tax assessor here in Maine and use this form frequently to assist our service members.

Sorry to hear about these end-of-live plans, but we all have to do it...death n taxes.

Clint

024engine 12-30-2020 09:29 AM

He can be buried in the Veterans cemetary in Bushnell for free. I don't know the details, but they can assist you at the American Legion on Rolling Acres Rd.

rogerk 12-30-2020 09:58 AM

I would suggest she talk to a reputable full service funeral home, like Beyers. Hey are a family run business and offer tremendous complimentary after death service and support. The can assist in arranging internment at the large military cemetery. They can arrange an appropriate non-religous military service.

65Proff 12-30-2020 11:04 AM

Check out Baldwin Brothers.

Villages Kahuna 12-30-2020 12:30 PM

The national cemetery at Bushnell is an impressive place. Not only do they provide the plot and actual burial, a group of retired, uniformed military provide the entire graveside service, including the “sermon”, bugler and ceremonial firing squad.

I’ve gone to funerals there where the procession of cars are lead from the local church or funeral home to the cemetery by a police escort. I think all the big local funeral homes know how to organize such a funeral.

Or a call to the national cemetery office itself would get the widow-to-be started in the right direction.

yankygrl 12-30-2020 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Villages Kahuna (Post 1879774)
The national cemetery at Bushnell is an impressive place. Not only do they provide the plot and actual burial, a group of retired, uniformed military provide the entire graveside service, including the “sermon”, bugler and ceremonial firing squad.

I’ve gone to funerals there where the procession of cars are lead from the local church or funeral home to the cemetery by a police escort. I think all the big local funeral homes know how to organize such a funeral.

Or a call to the national cemetery office itself would get the widow-to-be started in the right direction.

military honors are provided WHEN REQUESTED by family to funeral home. They will make all the arrangements. Beyers I’d a great funeral home and works very closely with all veterans organizations in the area.

yankygrl 12-30-2020 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Pbthrockm@msn.com (Post 1879511)
Contact the VA administration and consider being placed at the National VA cemetery in Burnell Florida or any National Cemetery . It is close by and a beautiful cemetery. Plot and headstone provided to military service person and spouse can also be placed at no cost. And they provide nice service at grave site for military person.

Services are not graveside, they are in committal shelters. 30 mins is the allotted time

Worldseries27 12-30-2020 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by fg111 (Post 1879192)
greetings members:

Seeking guidance and advice for a fellow villager who's husband is terminally ill and his death is imminent regarding non-religious funeral services and a burial site near the villages as she plans on continuing to live here.

The gentleman is an honorably retired service member and both are on a limited income. The lady has minimal family support and i am trying to assist her the best i can. Any guidance, suggestions and advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

i have been to bushnell cremains vaults many times especially to the newest ones. Some of the deceased vets had humorous last words inscribed on their name plate. All hail america's greatest generation .

FG111 12-30-2020 10:13 PM

I thank everyone for their information and time... Thank You

Zcuccone 12-30-2020 11:21 PM

Paige theus. Is so good especially with veterans. They are so compassionate, I highly recommend them

TRJNJ 01-01-2021 12:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FG111 (Post 1879192)
Greetings Members:

Seeking guidance and advice for a fellow Villager who's husband is terminally ill and his death is imminent regarding non-religious funeral services and a burial site near The Villages as she plans on continuing to live here.

The gentleman is an honorably retired service member and both are on a limited income. The lady has minimal family support and I am trying to assist her the best I can. Any guidance, suggestions and advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank You.

If you wish to arrange for full military honors, for veterans from all branches of the service, at a burial service at Florida National Cemetery The Marine Corps League in The Villages can assist. Feel free to contact me.

P&WBryant 01-03-2021 07:08 PM

The least expensive place for a no frills direct cremation is Baldwin Brothers. If you want to use a funeral home, undoubtedly the best.place is Beyers.

P&WBryant 01-03-2021 07:14 PM

The least expensive place for a no frills direct cremation is Baldwin Brothers. If you want to use a funeral home, undoubtedly the best.place is Beyers.

joansullivan 01-03-2021 07:29 PM

Bushnell is absolutely beautiful. I too intend to go there after I have died and am cremated.

charlieo1126@gmail.com 01-04-2021 10:47 AM

Older veterans ha ha
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Marine1974 (Post 1879587)
I would only add the Florida department of Veterans affairs
office closest to where you live in addition to the Veterans affairs
national phone number and of course the VA hospital near you . In most cases the Florida department of Veterans affairs has an office there . The funeral home can help with military ceremonies. Having the DD214 is good and us older Veterans social security number was our military ID . Very sorry

You mean those from 1969 on , believe me that’s not old


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