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manaboutown 09-02-2023 04:01 PM

A tell all book about the dark side of the personal finance industry
 
I just happened upon this incredibly researched and well written book. Although it is slightly dated (2012) it was an eye opener for me and I have been around the block a few times during which I was kicked to the curb upon occasion. Although I survived and even thrived a lot of good luck was involved.

The title of the book is "Pound Foolish", its author Helaine Olen.

One caveat: It is written from a woman's perspective; the author leans to the left and is strongly opinionated. So, take what you like and leave the rest.

"Desperation, fear and insecurity can be a salesperson’s best friend. Ms. Olen learns how lucrative it is to sell financial services to the elderly, many of them terrified of outliving their savings. A 2009 AARP survey found that nearly one in 10 people over 55, or about 5.9 million Americans, had attended a free financial seminar in the last three years.

At the World MoneyShow, an annual event in Orlando, 80 percent of attendees were over 55. The author writes that “a panicked baby boomer is their best customer.”"

From: ‘Pound Foolish’ Eyes Problems of Personal Finance Advice - The New York Times

Boomer 09-02-2023 10:14 PM

Hey, man……

Thanks for the book review. I just now ordered it. Good reviews. Even though the book has been around for a while, it sounds like the premise is more current than ever.


BUT can you explain why being written from a woman’s perspective is, according to you, a caveat.

AND there is nothing wrong with a little leaning. The extremes ( notice the plural) are what’s doing us in.

SO? Women can’t have strong opinions, but men can?

wow…….

Boomer

manaboutown 09-02-2023 10:33 PM

I found much valuable factual information in her book and chose to ignore her peripheral obviously incorrect unsupportable biases thrown in here and there. The bulk of her book is highly informative. I read the book for what it revealed about questionable, sometimes contemptible, practices within the industry, and there are many.

Stu from NYC 09-03-2023 05:28 AM

After going to a number of these financial seminars will say the majority would trust not quite as far as I can throw them.

Have picked up some info but no way do I trust them especially after they tell me their backrounds.

Caymus 09-03-2023 06:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by manaboutown (Post 2252480)
I found much valuable factual information in her book and chose to ignore her peripheral obviously incorrect unsupportable biases thrown in here and there. The bulk of her book is highly informative. I read the book for what it revealed about questionable, sometimes contemptible, practices within the industry, and there are many.

I reserved it from a library I can access. It is only available as an audiobook. The plus is if it is boring it will help me sleep.:laugh:

Two Bills 09-03-2023 07:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Boomer (Post 2252476)
Hey, man……

Thanks for the book review. I just now ordered it. Good reviews. Even though the book has been around for a while, it sounds like the premise is more current than ever.


BUT can you explain why being written from a woman’s perspective is, according to you, a caveat.

AND there is nothing wrong with a little leaning. The extremes ( notice the plural) are what’s doing us in.

SO? Women can’t have strong opinions, but men can?

wow…….

Boomer

:1rotfl: "You tell'em Lady!!" :boxing2:

UsuallyLurking 09-03-2023 08:35 AM

Funny enough I started reading it for the second time yesterday. It seems more relevant now that I've moved to The Villages.

manaboutown 09-03-2023 08:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Boomer (Post 2252476)
Hey, man……

Thanks for the book review. I just now ordered it. Good reviews. Even though the book has been around for a while, it sounds like the premise is more current than ever.


BUT can you explain why being written from a woman’s perspective is, according to you, a caveat.

AND there is nothing wrong with a little leaning. The extremes ( notice the plural) are what’s doing us in.

SO? Women can’t have strong opinions, but men can?

wow…….

Boomer

Boomer, I respect your opinions and am dying to hear what you think of the book after you read it.

Again, I found it quite insightful and learned much about how the various components of this multifaceted industry operate and how "financial advisors" of every stripe profit, many handsomely. Ultimately the clientele pay for those large beautiful insurance company headquarters buildings and posh Wall Street operations, just as they do for casinos.

Having been a real estate investor since I was in my teens I found her background study of Robert Kiyosaki, the "Rich Dad Poor Dad" author, revealing. No, I won't spoil it for you. She wrote Robert Allen, the author of "Nothing Down", had been a missionary before becoming a real estate investor which is a little misleading. He is a Mormon and had done spent two years in Tahiti as a missionary, but it had not been his profession. She did not write anything about Mark O. Haroldsen, another real estate investment book author, whom I have met ("How to Wake up the Financial Genius Inside You"). Based on my personal experience the techniques espoused by Allen and Haroldsen can work out fine and dandy!

manaboutown 09-03-2023 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Stu from NYC (Post 2252494)
After going to a number of these financial seminars will say the majority would trust not quite as far as I can throw them.

Have picked up some info but no way do I trust them especially after they tell me their backrounds.

Stu, according to the jargon of the industry as disclosed in the book you are a "plate-licker". If I had the time and inclination I would be one, too. Back in the 1970s some developers were converting beachfront motels in the Sarasota area into timeshares. I went from one to the next collecting Eisenhower (40% silver) dollars for showing up and taking their tours. At each place when "the closer" showed up I told him I was only there for the silver dollars. Without exception I collected them at each facility.

Stu from NYC 09-03-2023 09:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by manaboutown (Post 2252556)
Stu, according to the jargon of the industry as disclosed in the book you are a "plate-licker". If I had the time and inclination I would be one, too. Back in the 1970s some developers were converting beachfront motels in the Sarasota area into timeshares. I went from one to the next collecting Eisenhower (40% silver) dollars for showing up and taking their tours. At each place when "the closer" showed up I told him I was only there for the silver dollars. Without exception I collected them at each facility.

Interesting.

Years ago when to a few timeshare ones but found they were way to pushy so we stopped going.

Last financial one we went to turned into how great annuities were and how they were so much better than any stock mutual fund could possibly be. Lost me very quickly but was an excellent dinner at a restaurant we had been meaning to try.

Caymus 09-03-2023 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Stu from NYC (Post 2252581)
Interesting.

Years ago when to a few timeshare ones but found they were way to pushy so we stopped going.

Last financial one we went to turned into how great annuities were and how they were so much better than any stock mutual fund could possibly be. Lost me very quickly but was an excellent dinner at a restaurant we had been meaning to try.

Too bad they can't be honest. There are probably times when annuities could be a good pick for certain people.

oneclickplus 09-04-2023 04:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by manaboutown (Post 2252430)
I just happened upon this incredibly researched and well written book. Although it is slightly dated (2012) it was an eye opener for me and I have been around the block a few times during which I was kicked to the curb upon occasion. Although I survived and even thrived a lot of good luck was involved.

The title of the book is "Pound Foolish", its author Helaine Olen.

One caveat: It is written from a woman's perspective; the author leans to the left and is strongly opinionated. So, take what you like and leave the rest.

"Desperation, fear and insecurity can be a salesperson’s best friend. Ms. Olen learns how lucrative it is to sell financial services to the elderly, many of them terrified of outliving their savings. A 2009 AARP survey found that nearly one in 10 people over 55, or about 5.9 million Americans, had attended a free financial seminar in the last three years.

At the World MoneyShow, an annual event in Orlando, 80 percent of attendees were over 55. The author writes that “a panicked baby boomer is their best customer.”"

From: ‘Pound Foolish’ Eyes Problems of Personal Finance Advice - The New York Times

Aaah - but times are not what they used to be ... even if one considers 2012 "recent". We are DEEP in uncharted territory. MASSIVE government and personal debt, rise of nations (BRICS, EU, Eurasian Economic Union, ASEAN) and the breakdown of society (WEF, UN, Bilderberg, woke this and that, crime unpunished, elected leaders can't define a "woman", etc). In my opinion, if you plan to live even 5 more years, you better plan for a way to survive when money fails. That's right. The US dollar is being destroyed. It's destruction will be complete in very short order. The massive US debt was only possible when other nations relied on the US dollar. Reliance on the US dollar by other nations is being whittled away almost daily now. Like approaching a cliff, the drop in buying power will be sudden and catastrophic. Once you see it happen, it will be too late to do anything about it. Better to see it now. What will you do when any money you have will not buy what you need? When you can't buy food ... water ... electricity ... What will society look like when money stops working? What will the criminals today do when they have trouble eating? The path we are on is unsustainable. Anything unsustainable will come to an end. No financial advisor or investment group can help you or anyone with this dilemma. No leaders can fix the problems any longer. There aren't enough rich people to tax. We are well past the point of no return. If one thinks things will just go on as they always have, they are mistaken.

Eg_cruz 09-04-2023 05:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Caymus (Post 2252626)
Too bad they can't be honest. There are probably times when annuities could be a good pick for certain people.

Agree

golfing eagles 09-04-2023 05:13 AM

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Originally Posted by oneclickplus (Post 2252795)
Aaah - but times are not what they used to be ... even if one considers 2012 "recent". We are DEEP in uncharted territory. MASSIVE government and personal debt, rise of nations (BRICS, EU, Eurasian Economic Union, ASEAN) and the breakdown of society (WEF, UN, Bilderberg, woke this and that, crime unpunished, elected leaders can't define a "woman", etc). In my opinion, if you plan to live even 5 more years, you better plan for a way to survive when money fails. That's right. The US dollar is being destroyed. It's destruction will be complete in very short order. The massive US debt was only possible when other nations relied on the US dollar. Reliance on the US dollar by other nations is being whittled away almost daily now. Like approaching a cliff, the drop in buying power will be sudden and catastrophic. Once you see it happen, it will be too late to do anything about it. Better to see it now. What will you do when any money you have will not buy what you need? When you can't buy food ... water ... electricity ... What will society look like when money stops working? What will the criminals today do when they have trouble eating? The path we are on is unsustainable. Anything unsustainable will come to an end. No financial advisor or investment group can help you or anyone with this dilemma. No leaders can fix the problems any longer. There aren't enough rich people to tax. We are well past the point of no return. If one thinks things will just go on as they always have, they are mistaken.

Thank you, Nostradamus. Or maybe America will wake up and get rid of the tax and spend idiots.

Stu from NYC 09-04-2023 05:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Caymus (Post 2252626)
Too bad they can't be honest. There are probably times when annuities could be a good pick for certain people.

They think they can make more money this way sad.

PersonOfInterest 09-04-2023 05:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by oneclickplus (Post 2252795)
Aaah - but times are not what they used to be ... even if one considers 2012 "recent". We are DEEP in uncharted territory. MASSIVE government and personal debt, rise of nations (BRICS, EU, Eurasian Economic Union, ASEAN) and the breakdown of society (WEF, UN, Bilderberg, woke this and that, crime unpunished, elected leaders can't define a "woman", etc). In my opinion, if you plan to live even 5 more years, you better plan for a way to survive when money fails. That's right. The US dollar is being destroyed. It's destruction will be complete in very short order. The massive US debt was only possible when other nations relied on the US dollar. Reliance on the US dollar by other nations is being whittled away almost daily now. Like approaching a cliff, the drop in buying power will be sudden and catastrophic. Once you see it happen, it will be too late to do anything about it. Better to see it now. What will you do when any money you have will not buy what you need? When you can't buy food ... water ... electricity ... What will society look like when money stops working? What will the criminals today do when they have trouble eating? The path we are on is unsustainable. Anything unsustainable will come to an end. No financial advisor or investment group can help you or anyone with this dilemma. No leaders can fix the problems any longer. There aren't enough rich people to tax. We are well past the point of no return. If one thinks things will just go on as they always have, they are mistaken.


We are destined for destruction. We are doomed!

Which will come first, the collapse of our monetary system or Rapture?

MidWestIA 09-04-2023 05:42 AM

Trump
 
HHMMmm you mean like BEFORE Trump your financial people had to be a fiduciary and not sell you crap for a big commission but then Trump quietly changed that so they do NOT have to be a fiduciary now? Those tv ads make sense now otherwise why do they even need to say that?

rsmurano 09-04-2023 05:56 AM

You think the only vulnerable people are the elderly? Far from it. I’ve seen this for decades. If you go to a financial advisor/broker dumb founded, you are screwed! This goes for most things in life too, but it can really sting in the financial arena. Why do you think the term “fiduciary” has come up so much lately?

“A fiduciary is a person who holds a legal or ethical relationship of trust with one or more other parties. Typically, a fiduciary prudently takes care of money or other assets for another person.”

Most people have no idea on what loaded funds are, what their fund expenses/fees are, or their tax consequences are when they go get help so they don’t know if what they have is good for them or good for the advisor.

This goes for asking somebody their advice on their advisor/broker if they are any good. If you don’t know the basics, nobody is going to know how that are actually doing. Why do you think annuities are so popular? People think that making X money for the rest of their life from an annuity is a good thing, but in reality, these people are losing money over the long run with an annuity compared to investing in broad index funds and holding them for the long term.

Caymus 09-04-2023 06:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rsmurano (Post 2252819)
You think the only vulnerable people are the elderly? Far from it. I’ve seen this for decades. If you go to a financial advisor/broker dumb founded, you are screwed! This goes for most things in life too, but it can really sting in the financial arena. Why do you think the term “fiduciary” has come up so much lately?

“A fiduciary is a person who holds a legal or ethical relationship of trust with one or more other parties. Typically, a fiduciary prudently takes care of money or other assets for another person.”

Most people have no idea on what loaded funds are, what their fund expenses/fees are, or their tax consequences are when they go get help so they don’t know if what they have is good for them or good for the advisor.

This goes for asking somebody their advice on their advisor/broker if they are any good. If you don’t know the basics, nobody is going to know how that are actually doing. Why do you think annuities are so popular? People think that making X money for the rest of their life from an annuity is a good thing, but in reality, these people are losing money over the long run with an annuity compared to investing in broad index funds and holding them for the long term.


From what I am researching annuities are not all created equal. For me an immediate fixed income annuity could be beneficial to me in the future when I reach the RMD age.

Robbb 09-04-2023 07:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Caymus (Post 2252837)
From what I am researching annuities are not all created equal. For me an immediate fixed income annuity could be beneficial to me in the future when I reach the RMD age.

How? Annuities are taxed as ordinary income, capital gains and dividends are taxed at a much lower rate, between 0 and 20%. So how would an annuity be beneficial when you reach RMD. In fact what does RMD have to do with it at all??

Stu from NYC 09-04-2023 07:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Caymus (Post 2252837)
From what I am researching annuities are not all created equal. For me an immediate fixed income annuity could be beneficial to me in the future when I reach the RMD age.

If you have a ways to go to reach retirement age, I believe a better way is a basket of good no load mutual funds. Compare history with what an annuity is offering.

An old saying is annuities are never bought they are sold.

Also what does this have to do with RMD?

Caymus 09-04-2023 07:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stu from NYC (Post 2252865)
If you have a ways to go to reach retirement age, I believe a better way is a basket of good no load mutual funds. Compare history with what an annuity is offering.

An old saying is annuities are never bought they are sold.

Also what does this have to do with RMD?


The vast majority is in ETF's and index funds, the balance is in treasuries. From what I read the payout from a qualified annuity also satisfies the RMD for that account.

I have about 8 years to research.:):)

petsetc 09-04-2023 08:01 AM

And as always;

My addition to investment advice - take time to read Paul Merriman’s 3 FREE ebooks.
1. First-Time Investor
2. 101 Investment Decisions
3. Get Smart or Get Screwed (read this first!)

Found at paulmerriman.com

Also on his site are recommended portfolios for using Vanguard, Fidelity, T.Rowe Price or Schwab for DYI'ers. Much good info, ignore the puffery and sales pitches.

Also, if you want to know too much about annuities, listen to Stan The Annuity Man® | Brutally Honest Facts About Annuities podcasts.

Podcast - Have Fun With Annuities(R) | The Annuity Man

Last recommendation is FIRECalc: A different kind of retirement calculator , a Monte Carlo simulation of your future.

FWIW

bp243 09-04-2023 09:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Boomer (Post 2252476)
Hey, man……

Thanks for the book review. I just now ordered it. Good reviews. Even though the book has been around for a while, it sounds like the premise is more current than ever.


BUT can you explain why being written from a woman’s perspective is, according to you, a caveat.

AND there is nothing wrong with a little leaning. The extremes ( notice the plural) are what’s doing us in.

SO? Women can’t have strong opinions, but men can?

wow…….

Boomer

Thank you, Boomer! I'm wondering the same thing.

mntlblok 09-04-2023 09:20 AM

Returns
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by petsetc (Post 2252876)
And as always;

My addition to investment advice - take time to read Paul Merriman’s 3 FREE ebooks.
1. First-Time Investor
2. 101 Investment Decisions
3. Get Smart or Get Screwed (read this first!)

Found at paulmerriman.com

Also on his site are recommended portfolios for using Vanguard, Fidelity, T.Rowe Price or Schwab for DYI'ers. Much good info, ignore the puffery and sales pitches.

Also, if you want to know too much about annuities, listen to Stan The Annuity Man® | Brutally Honest Facts About Annuities podcasts.

Podcast - Have Fun With Annuities(R) | The Annuity Man

Last recommendation is FIRECalc: A different kind of retirement calculator , a Monte Carlo simulation of your future.

FWIW

Couple of thoughts come to mind. A basket of funds *may* continue to outperform. Have even heard that past performance might not guarantee same in the future.

Only recently learnt who invented that Monte Carlo thing. The third guy in the pic was also rather brainy. Not sure I know how to get the pic to show up, though, as it doesn't show in "preview". . .
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manaboutown 09-04-2023 09:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bp243 (Post 2252911)
Thank you, Boomer! I'm wondering the same thing.

Then read the book. The answers to your questions are evident within its pages.

Pugchief 09-04-2023 02:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Caymus (Post 2252626)
Too bad they can't be honest. There are probably times when annuities could be a good pick for certain people.

The only people those annuities are a good pick for is the guys selling them.

Pugchief 09-04-2023 02:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by golfing eagles (Post 2252804)
Or maybe America will wake up and get rid of the tax and spend idiots.

That would be lovely, but I wouldn't hold my breath....

Robbb 09-04-2023 02:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Caymus (Post 2252873)
The vast majority is in ETF's and index funds, the balance is in treasuries. From what I read the payout from a qualified annuity also satisfies the RMD for that account.

I have about 8 years to research.:):)

Yea keep looking into that, I have never heard that an annuity would satisfy an RMD. Unless your advisor is saying you should hold an annuity in a tax deferred account. If that was the case I would get another advisor.

Stu from NYC 09-04-2023 03:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Robbb (Post 2252993)
Yea keep looking into that, I have never heard that an annuity would satisfy an RMD. Unless your advisor is saying you should hold an annuity in a tax deferred account. If that was the case I would get another advisor.

I do believe that you take funds out of an IRA and 401 to satisfy an annuity. Something is rotten in Denmark as my friend Hamlet used to say

llaran 09-04-2023 03:11 PM

cancel an annuity??
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Caymus (Post 2252626)
Too bad they can't be honest. There are probably times when annuities could be a good pick for certain people.

is it a good idea to cancel an annuity?

Stu from NYC 09-04-2023 04:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by llaran (Post 2253000)
is it a good idea to cancel an annuity?

Read your contract first or have someone like a lawyer do so.

Topspinmo 09-04-2023 04:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Two Bills (Post 2252518)
:1rotfl: "You tell'em Lady!!" :boxing2:


Proved women has strong opinions:eclipsee_gold_cup:

Topspinmo 09-04-2023 04:47 PM

I fine if you got money somebody going to try to steal it? Financial institutions is high in my list.:D

Caymus 09-04-2023 04:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Topspinmo (Post 2253032)
I fine if you got money somebody going to try to steal it? Financial institutions is high in my list.:D

Speaking of stealing. I notice that Jim Cramer of CNBC is selling a 3 month "Club" subscription for $79.99.

kkingston57 09-04-2023 05:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by golfing eagles (Post 2252804)
Thank you, Nostradamus. Or maybe America will wake up and get rid of the tax and spend idiots.

Not going to happen. With gerry mandering all we have is far left and far right politicians.

kkingston57 09-04-2023 05:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stu from NYC (Post 2252865)
If you have a ways to go to reach retirement age, I believe a better way is a basket of good no load mutual funds. Compare history with what an annuity is offering.

An old saying is annuities are never bought they are sold.

Also what does this have to do with RMD?

To answer your question, Nothing. RMD is a requirement to pay deferred taxes. Another financial industry created by our lawmakers.

manaboutown 09-04-2023 05:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Caymus (Post 2253037)
Speaking of stealing. I notice that Jim Cramer of CNBC is selling a 3 month "Club" subscription for $79.99.

The author discusses him in the book. She wrote that as soon as Cramer recommends a stock it briefly rises, say over a day or two. Then it sinks back to where it was or even lower. She suggested it may be a good tactic to short his recommendations during their brief rise. lol.

Stu from NYC 09-04-2023 06:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kkingston57 (Post 2253046)
To answer your question, Nothing. RMD is a requirement to pay deferred taxes. Another financial industry created by our lawmakers.

RMD's to people like me who never worked for a company with a pension is awesome.

Boomer 09-14-2023 08:13 AM

I am loving this book.

Film at 11.

Boomer


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