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NJSonja 06-03-2011 06:02 AM

what do you wish someone would have told you
 
before you bought a house in TV?

sonja

Xavier 06-03-2011 07:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by njsonja (Post 359315)
before you bought a house in TV?

sonja

Here is a thread that was started some time ago that may give you some idea.

https://www.talkofthevillages.com/fo...loves+villages

Welcome to TOTV.

Xavier

Tbugs 06-03-2011 08:38 AM

I am sure some people may respond to your post by saying they would have liked to know the very Republican leaning of the population of The Villages and that Democrats are few and far between.

However, even though I am fairly liberal, I have no problem whatsoever. Politics comes up in conversation, people express their opinion, and still remain good friends. Just do it in a friendly way, do not get too passionate or argumentative and no one cares one way or another.

The Villages is a great place with great people.

Avista 06-03-2011 11:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tbugs (Post 359347)
I am sure some people may respond to your post by saying they would have liked to know the very Republican leaning of the population of The Villages and that Democrats are few and far between.

However, even though I am fairly liberal, I have no problem whatsoever. Politics comes up in conversation, people express their opinion, and still remain good friends. Just do it in a friendly way, do not get too passionate or argumentative and no one cares one way or another.

The Villages is a great place with great people.

Agree!

rjm1cc 06-03-2011 11:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Xavier (Post 359329)
Here is a thread that was started some time ago that may give you some idea.

https://www.talkofthevillages.com/fo...loves+villages

Welcome to TOTV.

Xavier

I think what would be helpful to the non TV people is more information on how you reached your decision to buy in TV. That is how this community compared to other retirement communities you looked at.

Talk Host 06-03-2011 12:03 PM

It's amazing how some people are sooooooo consumed by politics. Every question has a political answer. It would be a sad day for me to make a decision on where to live based on how many Democrats and how many Republicans live there.

I have a dear friend that I've know for 45 years. He is my daughters Godfather, we've vacationed together, we've traveled abroad together, we visit each others homes regularly. I have absolutely no idea whether he's a Republican or a Democrat and I don't care.

Pturner 06-03-2011 02:14 PM

I wish someone would have told us to move here sooner!

JohnN 06-03-2011 02:17 PM

don't be hasty and buy in one or two days, take a month and talk to lots of folks.

2BNTV 06-03-2011 02:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pturner (Post 359459)
I wish someone would have told us to move here sooner!

:agree::agree::agree: I wished I have moved too.

rubicon 06-03-2011 02:38 PM

I wish someone would have advised that I rent here for one year before deciding to buy.

missypie 06-03-2011 03:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rubicon (Post 359469)
I wish someone would have advised that I rent here for one year before deciding to buy.

Can you please elaborate? Thank you!

diskman 06-03-2011 03:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Xavier (Post 359329)
Here is a thread that was started some time ago that may give you some idea.

https://www.talkofthevillages.com/fo...loves+villages

Welcome to TOTV.

Xavier

That is the best link you could have given to answer his question!:agree::BigApplause::beer3:

rubicon 06-03-2011 03:28 PM

missypie, we are all different and we all have different points of view as to this thing called "quality of life". The Villages sells its "Lifestyle" You pay a premium for that lifestyle. The long and short of it is that I was never really drawn in by the so called "Lifestyle" My first choice was the Charelston area and had I rented here first would likely relocaed to Charleston. However I won't move in this market because I can never recapture what I expended to move here and living on a fixed income will create tapping into saivings I wish not to disturb at this time. I also am not enarmored with the government model

You may love it here.

Cobalt 06-03-2011 03:41 PM

Rubicon:

So true as to the point that we all have different points of view on "quality" of life.

There are those that would call it heaven to live on a fresh water lake filled with walleye, bass, bluegill and crappie, and have a pontoon and fish every day. Others would be in paradise in the mountains getting all excited a about the next snowfall to improve the skiing conditions. We are all created differently...and that is all good.

I've never stayed at the villages, only took the quick tour and read about it on the internet. But my wife and I are avid cruisers. We love the warm weather, dancing to oldies music, line dancing, talking with people. I would love to get back into softball, play golf, and she loves crafts and sitting by the pool. For us, that sounds like what the Villages offer.

Gosh I hope it happens, sooner rather than later.

mrfixit 06-03-2011 03:45 PM

villages
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Pturner (Post 359459)
I wish someone would have told us to move here sooner!

ME TOO !!!!!!!!!......................................... Tried Longboat Key....then the Vero Beach area.......Then a cousin ( who lives in The Villages ), invited us up for a few days......NUFF SAID....IMHO there is no place that compares to TV . Maybe not for everyone....but sure fits what we were seeking.

Larry Wilson 06-03-2011 03:48 PM

missypie
 
I agree with rubicon. This board is mainly people who cheer lead for the Villages. (Often doing their postings from another home outside, and don't even live in the Villages full time.) This is a great place to visit or snowbird in but...if you want me to elaborate more just send me a pm.

The link Xavier and Diskman refer to is a great thread.

Xavier 06-03-2011 04:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Talk Host (Post 359422)
It's amazing how some people are sooooooo consumed by politics. Every question has a political answer. It would be a sad day for me to make a decision on where to live based on how many Democrats and how many Republicans live there.

I have a dear friend that I've know for 45 years. He is my daughters Godfather, we've vacationed together, we've traveled abroad together, we visit each others homes regularly. I have absolutely no idea whether he's a Republican or a Democrat and I don't care.

I couldn't agree more. I had thought of responding to Tbug's post, but decided against it. I personally would NEVER give politics a consideration in the process of finding a place to retire. Now that we've lived here for a few years, it is still NOT an issue. My good friend and next door neighbor is about as far right as I am left of center and - who cares!

We began looking at The Villages 15 years before we were ready to make the move, so I guess you can say that we gave it a great deal of thought. It is, by far, one of THE BEST decisions we've ever made.

Before selecting a location within The Villages, I would spend a few weeks/months in a rental or just exploring before I made that decision. We live in the far north end of The Villages and couldn't possibly be more pleased.

Talk Host, what train?

Xavier

katezbox 06-03-2011 04:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Talk Host (Post 359422)
It's amazing how some people are sooooooo consumed by politics. Every question has a political answer. It would be a sad day for me to make a decision on where to live based on how many Democrats and how many Republicans live there.

I have a dear friend that I've know for 45 years. He is my daughters Godfather, we've vacationed together, we've traveled abroad together, we visit each others homes regularly. I have absolutely no idea whether he's a Republican or a Democrat and I don't care.


TBugs and Avista answered the question. They were replying for themselves, not for you.

Tbugs 06-03-2011 04:47 PM

Xavier,

If you had absorbed my post, I stated that some people might find the political atmosphere too conservative. I am not one to even consider politics in a move - within reason.

Personally, I do not have one single complaint about The Villages. I love being able to drive my golf cart anywhere to the squares, restaurants, bank, etc. I love the activities. Almost all the people are friendly (only met one or two grouches).

Yes, I am an avid "cheerleader" for The Villages. Best move I ever made and happy to be here with my great wife.

missypie 06-03-2011 04:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rubicon (Post 359491)
missypie, we are all different and we all have different points of view as to this thing called "quality of life". The Villages sells its "Lifestyle" You pay a premium for that lifestyle. The long and short of it is that I was never really drawn in by the so called "Lifestyle" My first choice was the Charelston area and had I rented here first would likely relocaed to Charleston. However I won't move in this market because I can never recapture what I expended to move here and living on a fixed income will create tapping into saivings I wish not to disturb at this time. I also am not enarmored with the government model

You may love it here.

Thank you for your honest response.

Talk Host 06-03-2011 04:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by katezbox (Post 359510)
TBugs and Avista answered the question. They were replying for themselves, not for you.

Oh, I'm sorry, I thought I was allowed to have an opinion. I won't let it happen again. Bazinga!

katezbox 06-03-2011 05:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Talk Host (Post 359516)
Oh, I'm sorry, I thought I was allowed to have an opinion. I won't let it happen again. Bazinga!

You are allowed an opinion - but why do you put down their opinion in order to make yours? You don't like it when others do this....

k

PS Love the Bazinga!

rubicon 06-03-2011 05:48 PM

missypie, your welcome....

Barefoot 06-03-2011 06:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Larry Wilson (Post 359497)
I agree with rubicon. This board is mainly people who cheer lead for the Villages. (Often doing their postings from another home outside, and don't even live in the Villages full time.) This is a great place to visit or snowbird in but...if you want me to elaborate more just send me a pm.

I can see Larry's point about cheerleaders. I wish he'd elaborate more and share his thoughts with us.

We purchased in 2007 and I love TV. I'm still enthusiastic. However I don't live in TV during the summer months. It would be waaaay too hot for me. Would I buy in TV knowing what I've learned over the last four years? Maybe, but I'd give more consideration to being closer to the ocean.

Tbugs 06-03-2011 07:05 PM

Barefoot,

When we decided to move to Florida about 2 years ago, my wife really wanted to be close to the ocean. We looked at St. Augustine and at Jupiter. The same things at both places made us look further inland. We found out that the humidity is much higher in the summer by the ocean than at The Villages. We are from Washington DC area so we know humidity quite well - and The Villages is a lot lower humidity than Washington DC and closer to the ocean, too. The summer here is not as hot and humid as Washington DC and I lived there for about 37 years.

Taxes were higher in both St. Augustine and Jupiter than in The Villages. Windstorm insurance was terribly high in both places and had a huge deductible of 2% of your home value.

We have "beach days" with another couple from The Villages about twice a month where we drive to Clearwater Beach, Honeymoon Island Beach, New Smyrna Beach or somewhere else for the day.

I am a full time resident and love every minute of The Villages.

jojo 06-03-2011 09:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Larry Wilson (Post 359497)
I agree with rubicon. This board is mainly people who cheer lead for the Villages. (Often doing their postings from another home outside, and don't even live in the Villages full time.) This is a great place to visit or snowbird in but...if you want me to elaborate more just send me a pm.

The link Xavier and Diskman refer to is a great thread.

Larry, your assertion that the Board is mainly people who cheer lead for the Villages gave me pause for consideration. It does appear that most folks on the Board love The Villages but in my experience out and about in TV they would be representative of most residents here. Total strangers in the square, shops, restaurants will strike up a conversation and inevitably exclaim about how they love it here. Is it everyone? No. But certainly most.

Cobalt 06-03-2011 10:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Larry Wilson (Post 359497)
This is a great place to visit or snowbird in but...if you want me to elaborate more just send me a pm.

That's one option, but I'd ask you to share your thoughts here in the public forum. You already partially opened the door with your "great place...but". I'd like to hear your thoughts, and then any rebuttal that others may have.

linandvin 06-04-2011 07:30 AM

We are from the north and moved to St. Augustine, full time, 10 years ago. Prior to that, we vacationed here for many years. There is a difference between vacationing and living in an area. The beach is magnificant! HOWEVER, we are making the move to The Villages because of "the lifestyle". There are only so many hours you can sit by the water's edge. We like the many activities offered at TV and look forward to "choices" of what to do. As far as weather? Hot is hot. Yes, St. Augustine is humid during the summer but the breezes make up for that. Inland is hot. Florida is hot. Change the lifestyle during those months, as people up north do. At least you can still get out at night and play tennis/pickleball/walk/bike, etc. It still beats the cold.

taylor111947 06-04-2011 07:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jojo (Post 359587)
Larry, your assertion that the Board is mainly people who cheer lead for the Villages gave me pause for consideration. It does appear that most folks on the Board love The Villages but in my experience out and about in TV they would be representative of most residents here. Total strangers in the square, shops, restaurants will strike up a conversation and inevitably exclaim about how they love it here. Is it everyone? No. But certainly most.

Hi JoJo: I'd have to agree with you. I think most of the TOTV posters are enthusiastic about what The Villages has to offer and TOTV played a major role in helping me make the decision to move here by patiently answering my myriad of questions. But, for someone considering a move to The Villages, it might be helpful to start a thread called 'Villages - not for me'. The reasons for loving The Villages are pretty obvious, the reasons for not loving it maybe not so much. No place is perfect - one person's annoyance may be another person's deal breaker. It would be good to share those opinions to help potential residents make a more informed choice.

2 Oldcrabs 06-04-2011 08:05 AM

My sister purchased new in 2008. She wished she understood "The Bond" more. It is a 20 year mortage on your home unless you pay it up front. 20-25k on a new designer. Also the IRS issue. May or may not be a future probelm. No one from TV even mentioned it. She purchased in Aug. and TV had the small town atmosphere, winter time crowds are like the beach crowds in the summer. We have freinds who lived in TV for 13 years and just moved back home. They grew "tired" of TV. Also, as they aged they felt the need to be closer to their children. They are in their mid 70's. Rent a home in TV for 6 months if you can. The TAlK HOST sells an online book for about $10 that gives alot of information.
My sister would still buy in TV and she stil love it. We have our north home for sale now and will buy in TV when it sells, but with both eyes open. We hope we can make rational decisions rather than emotional decision on the type of home, location and new vs resale.

nitehawk 06-04-2011 08:18 AM

That the closest White Castle is in Tennessee

kentucky blue 06-04-2011 08:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cobalt (Post 359494)
Rubicon:

So true as to the point that we all have different points of view on "quality" of life.

There are those that would call it heaven to live on a fresh water lake filled with walleye, bass, bluegill and crappie, and have a pontoon and fish every day. Others would be in paradise in the mountains getting all excited a about the next snowfall to improve the skiing conditions. We are all created differently...and that is all good.

I've never stayed at the villages, only took the quick tour and read about it on the internet. But my wife and I are avid cruisers. We love the warm weather, dancing to oldies music, line dancing, talking with people. I would love to get back into softball, play golf, and she loves crafts and sitting by the pool. For us, that sounds like what the Villages offer.

Gosh I hope it happens, sooner rather than later.

TV's is a cruise ship on land,sooooooooooooooo much to do . Purchased after 2 visits,and months of research, could not be happier with our decision.I was definitely not a cheerleader on this board, i wanted answers to ALL my questions, and "ruffled some feathers" along the way.It's Disney World for adults, visit for awhile and see for yourself, you won't be disappointed.

philnpat 06-04-2011 11:19 AM

My wife describes it as being in college but not having to go to classes.

rubicon 06-04-2011 01:49 PM

"Cruise ship on land", Disney World for Adults" "college without the classes"
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

John_W 06-04-2011 04:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nitehawk (Post 359641)
That the closest White Castle is in Tennessee

Here in Maryland we don't even have White Castle. However I got hooked on Krystal Burgers when stationed in Savannah in 1972. They're square and small with diced onions & pickels. When we visited TV in April I checked Krystal's website and found the nearest was in Starke and we had lunch there on the way. I know Krystals are down in Orlando from visiting there before, check them out if you haven't already. Steak N Shake also makes a good regular burger.

Barefoot 06-04-2011 04:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by taylor111947 (Post 359631)
For someone considering a move to The Villages, it might be helpful to start a thread called 'Villages - not for me'. The reasons for loving The Villages are pretty obvious, the reasons for not loving it maybe not so much. No place is perfect - one person's annoyance may be another person's deal breaker. It would be good to share those opinions to help potential residents make a more informed choice.

I know at least ten couples that have decided to sell and leave The Villages. Most have been neighbours or people I've met at the dog park. None of them post here. Reasons for leaving? Varied. Some want a large acreage and more privacy. A few want to be close to the ocean. A lot of people want to be close to their kids and grandchildren again, once the "thrill" of TV wears off. Some find it too expensive or too busy.

I find TV perfect as a winter home. I know that many people love it year round. I don't think I could move away from friends and family permanently.

bluedog103 06-04-2011 07:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tbugs (Post 359566)
We have "beach days" with another couple from The Villages about twice a month where we drive to Clearwater Beach, Honeymoon Island Beach, New Smyrna Beach or somewhere else for the day.

All democrats no doubt.

katezbox 06-05-2011 10:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by John_W (Post 359756)
Here in Maryland we don't even have White Castle. However I got hooked on Krystal Burgers when stationed in Savannah in 1972. They're square and small with diced onions & pickels. When we visited TV in April I checked Krystal's website and found the nearest was in Starke and we had lunch there on the way. I know Krystals are down in Orlando from visiting there before, check them out if you haven't already. Steak N Shake also makes a good regular burger.

Sorry for the bit of a hijack - but be very careful driving through Starke. The speed limit drops very quickly - and it is easy to get caught if you don't reduce your speed quickly enough...

Tbugs 06-05-2011 12:23 PM

Bluedog,

Actually, they are Republican thinking on most items - but we do not talk politics except in very broad terms. The beach days are perfect for soaking up some friendship along with the sun, water and sand.

Try it sometime.

nitehawk 06-05-2011 12:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by John_W (Post 359756)
Here in Maryland we don't even have White Castle. However I got hooked on Krystal Burgers when stationed in Savannah in 1972. They're square and small with diced onions & pickels. When we visited TV in April I checked Krystal's website and found the nearest was in Starke and we had lunch there on the way. I know Krystals are down in Orlando from visiting there before, check them out if you haven't already. Steak N Shake also makes a good regular burger.

Thank you i will try the one in Ocala


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