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The Buckeyes 12-03-2013 01:47 PM

Where would you rather celebrate Christmas
 
A question for those snowbirds who also own a home in The Villages. Given a choice....would you rather celebrate up North with the cold and the snow or...in the warmer weather in the Villages without the snow. What would you choose?
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Lark7 12-03-2013 01:58 PM

In my home in the Villages with my grandchildren from Ohio would be optimal. Having said that, I would rather be in the Villages.

billethkid 12-03-2013 02:52 PM

the place with the palm trees!!

btk

duffysmom 12-03-2013 03:02 PM

I elect to stay in Paradise.

DianeM 12-03-2013 03:27 PM

Back north where the people I love are located

gomoho 12-03-2013 03:45 PM

Have only been here a year, but looking forward to spending Christmas with my new Village family.

rubicon 12-03-2013 05:27 PM

In Bethlehem

lpkshop 12-03-2013 05:31 PM

I'll spend my holidays back home in NYC. The city is magical at that time. Oh yeah the kids and family are there too ;-)

Cobh521 12-03-2013 05:39 PM

We moved here in March. This is now our home and we are looking forward to spending Christmas in The Villages

graciegirl 12-03-2013 05:42 PM

That is hard. I WISH all of us, our other daughter, son in law and grandkids could be together at Christmas...here.


But Sweetie and Helene make the bells ring for me, and Santa will come and the Christmas story will unfold just as it always has.

manaboutown 12-03-2013 05:47 PM

Since I have never, ever liked cold weather I enjoy doing Christmas in warm places. I have done it in Hawaii, Hong Kong and Bangkok as well as Key Biscayne. This year I am doing it in Newport beach, CA where they have a boat parade.

To me, nothing beats a Christmas dinner in a house or restaurant located right on the sand of a beach in a balmy place, a place where I can hear the waves crashing on the beach.

DougB 12-03-2013 06:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DianeM (Post 790265)
Back north where the people I love are located

You don't love us?

DianeM 12-03-2013 06:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DougB (Post 790359)
You don't love us?

Sure but this is not home with the people who own my heart.

Matzy 12-03-2013 06:40 PM

I like to be at home in The Villages. I do not need the cold weather anymore (sometimes it is cold in TV, too). Jesus was born, raised and later lived in Mediterranean Climate …… and Christmas is a reminder of his birthday.

njbchbum 12-03-2013 07:41 PM

Disneyworld!!!!!!

And New Year's Eve, too!

:)

graciegirl 12-03-2013 07:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DianeM (Post 790360)
Sure but this is not home with the people who own my heart.



I hope we will grow on you.


Merry Christmas, Diane.

JP 12-03-2013 07:52 PM

Christmas is in your heart, so it doesn't matter where you spend it but.....if I have a choice, I'll take palm trees over snow any day!

travelguy 12-03-2013 08:01 PM

I would love to be in Puerto Rico; that island is beautiful, the weather is fabulous, the food is delicious, and it is warm......
serve me a mojito or a cold beer and I will be happy.

SALYBOW 12-03-2013 09:16 PM

I want to be with my family when they are off school and work so we will be heading north. Smiles.

DianeM 12-03-2013 09:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 790398)
I hope we will grow on you.


Merry Christmas, Diane.

Merry Christmas to you as well.

My comment isn't anti Villages but rather pro home. Sorry but for now this is not where my heart and soul want to be for the holidays.

asianthree 12-03-2013 09:56 PM

where the snow is

senior citizen 12-03-2013 09:56 PM

Home will always be where the heart is
 
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Peachie 12-03-2013 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by senior citizen (Post 790472)
For those of us who have had children and grandchildren, home will always be where the heart is, especially at Christmas time.

Thus, I totally understand those who wish to join the family up north for Christmas.

For those with no family ties, the good folks in The Villages become like family and welcoming to all who are alone at this time of year. The sunny weather is a big plus, for sure.

Having just enjoyed an extended visit with our adult children and grandchildren who came to be with us over Thanksgiving time and who assure me they will visit us in The Villages (no doubt during the school vacation weeks following Christmas), we hope to have the best of both worlds.

We got so much positive energy and love from our grandchildren.
Kids are a joy to be around. Anyone who thinks otherwise I'm afraid I "don't get". We love children........all children and everyone's children. They keep us young at heart.

I understand why posters want to be surrounded by those they love and who love them in return. That's familial love and hard to find outside the natural family unit.......although good friends are a close second.

We consider our grandchildren to be a great reward in life.....it's just a joy to talk to them, observe them, hear about their adventures, their sports, their music lessons, their school, their birthday parties............what else could be more fun. The littler ones are also a joy.........baby and toddler.....just learning about the world which spreads out before them like one big adventure.

We had our kids young......at age 23 and 25.......so it's been awhile since we've had babies of our own............but this second and third bunch of babies/children........are just so much fun. When they call on the phone to chat or else "Skype" with us on video cam.....it's the best. But that's just us.

I would hope they would all come to us..........rather than us go to them during wintry snow conditions like we all just had over the days leading up to Thanksgiving, etc, etc. But feel blessed that they braved the icy roads to join us for Thanksgiving and the days before and after.........

I would say, "Follow your heart" and that heart most likely will lead you home.........if not, invite the ones you love to your home.

They will come.

Senior, you did the same thing I did, read too much into the question. OP indicated and reiterated he only wants to know if you want snow or sun for Christmas.

Happinow 12-03-2013 10:43 PM

Stay here
 
After spending a lifetime where it's cold and it snows, we would rather spend it here in sunny Florida. A lot of people vacation here for Christmas to get out of the cold and we actually live here! We are very lucky.

senior citizen 12-03-2013 10:48 PM

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Bill-n-Brillo 12-03-2013 10:57 PM

Sandy and I have spent the past 4 or 5 Christmases in the car, driving back to OH from TV. :22yikes: Christmas Day is a great driving day (barring any nasty weather!) as there is very little traffic out and about. We don't have any family back in OH - all our relatives live in different states - so we're not really missing out on any OH family gatherings. We've always enjoyed spending the middle part of December in TV - it's fun to see all the decorations and lighting displays............and to enjoy the warmer-than-we're-used-to weather!

Unfortunately, plans aren't working out for us to be in TV this month. We'll miss it.

Bill :)

DougB 12-03-2013 11:51 PM

Guess next time questions will have to be multiple choice:
A. Snow
B. Sunshine

I choose B

amybelles 12-04-2013 12:41 AM

Optimistic about choice B
 
I am trying out choice B to see how it feels! I have spent every Christmas up till this one in PA with my family. We just moved into our lovely home here in TV three days ago, and we decided to stay in the sun/warmth and have a new experience. Our son will be down visiting my husband and me, so we will have a lovely day together! It will be a little strange, and I am sure I will miss my parents and sister and her family, but I really like change, and I love TV!!!

CFrance 12-04-2013 12:49 AM

Me too
 
I choose B too! I don't care if I NEVER see another snowflake!

If our kids can't come to us, we take an adventure trip someplace warm and see them later.

ettojr 12-04-2013 01:22 AM

B please and thank you.

lovinganimals 12-04-2013 08:08 AM

I have lived all my life in CT and this is the first Christmas season I am in the sunshine. I am heading back to CT Dec 17 to spend the holidays there as I had made "a deal" with my husband that my father would never wake up alone on Christmas morning. But aside from the family, I have to say that it just doesn't seem like the holidays while it is 70 or 80 degrees. I guess it is all what you are used to and what puts you in the Spirit of the season. Happy Holidays everyone!

graciegirl 12-04-2013 09:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lovinganimals (Post 790558)
I have lived all my life in CT and this is the first Christmas season I am in the sunshine. I am heading back to CT Dec 17 to spend the holidays there as I had made "a deal" with my husband that my father would never wake up alone on Christmas morning. But aside from the family, I have to say that it just doesn't seem like the holidays while it is 70 or 80 degrees. I guess it is all what you are used to and what puts you in the Spirit of the season. Happy Holidays everyone!



I understand that the different climate does make it feel different...however, if you do what you always did in this new home, than you will get what you always got. (At least that is what Dr. Phil says.)


Put up a tree, invite people over for simple things. Get some good soup at Toojays and some easy sandwich fixings and have a couple of friends or seven over. Go to some of the musical events and whoa baby, after a couple of years your month of December gets fuller and fuller and your heart gets all FILLED with that wonderful spirit of the season.


I wish for you and your dear father and all family, a wonderful satisfying Christmas. It is a good thing you are doing, being with your dad.

jblum315 12-04-2013 10:06 AM

Well, if you think about it, it was probably 80 degrees in Bethlehem when that baby was born. Probably born in July rather than December because July was when the census was done. Dec. 25 is the winter solstice holiday, not a birthday.

patfla06 12-04-2013 10:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by senior citizen (Post 790490)
Dialogue: a conversation between two or more people


Conversation: an informal talk involving two people or a small group of people; the act of talking in an informal way.


Obviously, I was supporting the thoughts of some posters while still totally understanding the different viewpoints of others..........

All of these various ideas evolved from the original poster's question.

Everyone shared their particular viewpoints and many involved the simple heartfelt wish to be with FAMILY.

Home is where the heart is.

It doesn't matter if it is in the sunshine or in the snow.

The best of all worlds would be to have the family come down to Florida.

I'm certain my writing is pretty detailed. I wrote it from the heart, as I was feeling, following a wonderful family reunion with great enjoyment of our grandchildren. So be it.











 

 

Exactly! Everyone has their opinion and entitled to it!
While I love The Villages I want to be with family - wherever
that takes me.

patfla06 12-04-2013 10:09 AM

I'm lucky to have my Son and his wife spending 8 days with us
here in Tampa.
Now if I really had my wish it would be 8 days in T.V.
(still trying to sell our house here in Tampa!)

Also, I would love to be able to have my 3 brothers and their
families here but not possible.
Two are in N.Y., one in California.
Maybe next year!

Jejuca 12-04-2013 11:31 AM

Diane - I totally understand what you are saying! Cold, snow, warmth, sun - it does not matter. Family and good friends are what makes our holidays special.
So wherever they are is where we want to spend the holidays!

DianeM 12-04-2013 01:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jejuca (Post 790668)
Diane - I totally understand what you are saying! Cold, snow, warmth, sun - it does not matter. Family and good friends are what makes our holidays special.
So wherever they are is where we want to spend the holidays!

Someone finally gets it. Thank you.

patfla06 12-04-2013 02:30 PM

I think most of us get it too.
They asked a question and you answered it.
No one should be making comments about anyone's OPINION.

DianeM 12-04-2013 03:32 PM

Thank you

patfla06 12-04-2013 08:29 PM

Anytime!


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